Why attractive men & beautiful women are lonely

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  • @arkapravade7234
    @arkapravade7234 6 годин тому +3

    As an attractive guy, I am rarely alone tbh.

  • @city_by_the_bay7769
    @city_by_the_bay7769 20 годин тому +46

    as a handsome guy myself, I get a lot of envy and jealousy from other men for no reason. Not only that, a lot of females will literally tell me they think im a player and not be interested because of that assumption. When in reality, im not talking to anyone! its wild

    • @cheytacpraetoriancomposite3413
      @cheytacpraetoriancomposite3413 19 годин тому +13

      If you were really handsome...and I mean handsome, real gigachad, not someone like the author who thinks he is a gigachad (Henry Cavil territory), You would not be alone and have those types of comments, you would sleep with those women, they would make positive excuses to sleep with you. You are probably good looking but not good enough for them to make excuses like you stated. Probably between 6-7/10 like the author.

    • @abangfernando5546
      @abangfernando5546 17 годин тому +2

      ​@@cheytacpraetoriancomposite3413 So it is about sleep then?
      Woman guys woman ☕

    • @UserRobot215
      @UserRobot215 17 годин тому +3

      As a short ugly guy myself, I’m invisible to women and am not taken seriously by other men since I’m not really seen as a “man”

    • @Drole-n-CreepyMascot
      @Drole-n-CreepyMascot 15 годин тому

      ​@cheytacpraetoriancomposite3413 , I'm so good looking but only 5 10 tall, that i get cursed and hexed by jealous witch female and warlock male neighbors. May God finally punish this envious pigs. This devils are so messed up, I literally get hit by their spiritual attacks and they would laugh outside my window after hexing me.

    • @maxhung2569
      @maxhung2569 13 годин тому

      ​@cheytacpraetoriancomposite3413 totally agree. maybe their experience is because they're marginally attractive. I'm korean-american. when I was young, i was shy but still almost every attractive Korean girl hit on me. the most beautiful girls were the most assertive because they were confident with their looks. in high school, my friends said my face was top 5%. I've often been told i look like a movie star or famous Korean actor. at hooter's, a waitress sounded like she remembered me from a previous visit. i asked if she did. she replied, "of course, all the girls talk about you because you're handsome." I thought this must be a dream hearing this from a hooter's waitress who gets eyed and hit on every day. no, I wasn't a gigachad. i was a pretty boy. I'm in my 50s now and lost my pretty boy looks ages ago.

  • @daimons7261
    @daimons7261 День тому +22

    I never get jealous of better looking guys, cause there's always going to be someone better looking cant control that. However leveling up & working on yourself is a must for all guys even when you get comfortable push yourself even when you don't want to cause your future self will thank you

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  7 годин тому

      Brother, that's an awesome comment. Tells you a lot about who you are as a person. I was always like you, whenever I saw a chad pre self improvement I would never feel down or insecure because a different handsome man was able to get baddies. But I guess most people are not wired that way.

  • @piedpiper1201
    @piedpiper1201 22 години тому +18

    being tall AND goodlooking makes other men so angry/ bitter. if you have one or the other then its not so bad as people can cope and pull you down from either side but with both you will get a lot of negative energy towards you from other men (especially from short guys who look decent facially). people like to downplay height a lot but its honestly the most OP thing you can have as a man. girls go literally insane for tall guys and they dont seem to respect short dudes. For example if you are good looking, by being tall it enables you to become a model or leading actor etc you just look like a leader. the only friends you can have are either guys on the same level as you (but this often leads to problems too) or the ones from when you were a small child...its funny becasue pretty much every single song written by a women is about a tall handsome man.

    • @TM-pn3zk
      @TM-pn3zk 6 годин тому

      I don't care, feel sorry for an attractive guy as they're more likely to get trapped by a woman and have a kid.. Attractive people get a lot of free energy from others which makes life easier though.

  • @maxhung2569
    @maxhung2569 13 годин тому +3

    the real reason a handsome man is lonely if he wants a woman at his level. handsome men and beautiful women are extremely rare. meeting a single beautiful woman is super rare because she usually has a boyfriend or husband. if she wants to cheat or monkey branch with you, you should run because once a cheater, always a cheater.

  • @kylieking8163
    @kylieking8163 20 годин тому +10

    I have an attractive friend who everyone wants to be friends with . Why is that , I don’t consider myself attractive but I’ve been ostracized and isolated a lot all throughout my life . Bullied at work

    • @akoyisangpinoy4705
      @akoyisangpinoy4705 20 годин тому +4

      I guess "attractive ppl are lonely" isnt true...

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  7 годин тому

      It's not that they are lonely, the point is that people just want to be with you for a status symbol, and you never really know their intentions. That's the thing.

    • @avengingsylph
      @avengingsylph 7 годин тому +1

      Because attractive people are treated like trophies. Something to get or be associated with.

  • @PATRIOT-Canada
    @PATRIOT-Canada 16 годин тому +4

    Bro do another video on how to deal with envy from others. I am pretty Lonely so i agree with this video. I used to Body build but not anymore im rather Skinny now, im only like 5’8 in height, ive had women recently tell me i have a hot face or a “ model face” but my eye bags are Noticeable probly from working so many hours as i am a paper chaser Money saver & i used to smoke weed daily. I tend to get a lot of Envy at the work place other guys will envy me randomly after they were nice to me at first! Thanks bro keep vids coming im glad i found u. Its 11 pm in canada right now & probly 5 AM in Poland right now i hope u have a great day today Slayer!!

  • @tuinov6286
    @tuinov6286 6 годин тому +3

    Spoiler: women are never lonely no matter what
    Stop lying.

  • @Lyonsyn
    @Lyonsyn 15 годин тому +3

    I think being too nice is a red flag because narcissists/abusers always hide behind a smile at first until they weave their way in.
    Also respect received from others is usually a combination of admiration and fear. That's why hitting the gym, learning a combat sport, following a good diet and becoming more disagreeable will get you much better results in life. Because if they don't admire you, they know better than to cross you.

  • @oeso
    @oeso 12 годин тому +2

    Some people have the illusion that beautiful people are immured to loneliness. In fact being lonely and alone is a common thing among human, as well as a virtue and a powerful tool. The only people who don't feel lonely are those who are not intelligent enough to experience so, and those who complain about it are those who's not wise enough.

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  7 годин тому

      True that man, thanks for watching.

  • @rajmonty5715
    @rajmonty5715 2 години тому

    A very important point you explained. I am feeling so happy being a single and very fashionable person in my real life. Thank you 🙏🙏

  • @Evergladez
    @Evergladez 19 годин тому +5

    What people don't get is the rules just change. If you become a millionaire, life doesn't become a piece of cake. You now have other worries such as do people like you or your money, are the people you think you can trust really for you etc.
    Being more attractive brings a new set of problems. Women will start self sabotaging the relationship due to her own insecurities. Some girls won't take you seriously but the worst of all is most of the time you're just guessing when everything seems like it's going well with a girl something can just change and you have to guess why that was. Some girls will just like the idea of you or want the attention from you. In all honesty, I did better with women before I leveled up, you can intimidate girls by just existing.

    • @MEDIEVALMXNE
      @MEDIEVALMXNE 11 годин тому +2

      So true. This is fd

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  7 годин тому +2

      Spot on brother. Especially if the people used to know you before your glow up, then it's a whole different ball game. Thanks for watching.

  • @peraukko2980
    @peraukko2980 35 хвилин тому

    The struggle is real :D Jokes aside I see your point. This is the first place I've heard about this. I guess attractive people aren't allowed to complain because of "privilege"

  • @cerdic6586
    @cerdic6586 16 годин тому +2

    It is true. Overtly beautiful people tend to externalise their identity to the desires and expectations of other people, resulting in an unstable feedback loop. There is nothing more lonely than being unable to recognise and express who you truly are. People generally project all kinds of shallow assumptions on to beautiful people.

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  7 годин тому +1

      True that man, hard to live when people are so external focused that they can't recognize your real intentions.

  • @Rudmyster
    @Rudmyster 17 годин тому +9

    This is true, just Waite until you hit 36-45 and handsome man you haven’t seen lonely yet.

    • @dgrdst5810
      @dgrdst5810 10 годин тому

      Wait what

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  7 годин тому

      Sheesh man, i dunno what's gonna happen then.

    • @avengingsylph
      @avengingsylph 7 годин тому

      @@rippedkodiak The horror stories start as you get close to age 30. Please prepare yourself...especially mentally. You will be a prime target especially if you are single and child-free. Men with even more than you will envy you because you are at the cusp of transforming into your ideal self as a man and women will want to tie you down...not because they love you...but because you are a genetic specimen to harvest seed from and even get money from.
      Handsome men; please protect your energy, peace and seed.

    • @Rudmyster
      @Rudmyster 6 годин тому +2

      @ when you no longer have that pretty boy look but that strong handsome James Bond. Masculine look. You will scare everyone away. But you will be ok by this time you will be use to it. You will suspend most of your time alone . The women that will stick will stick like glue and for life

    • @Hilfiger187
      @Hilfiger187 4 години тому +1

      @@Rudmystercurrent situation as masculine handsome 36 there is pros and cons just gotta stay away from the narcs the envy is crazy

  • @talonherbst3670
    @talonherbst3670 17 годин тому +5

    I remember my late 20s I would honestly rate myself closer to an 8 and oh yeah the envy is real... now I can read facial expressions and even poker faces with way more accurate assumptions, and they ain't pretty 😮

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  7 годин тому +1

      True man, it's weird how that works. And if you combine it with being confident too? Oh boy they will hate you. Thanks!

  • @lucianostraulino3938
    @lucianostraulino3938 3 години тому

    12:30 to 13:10 is Powerful my friend. I can relate 💯

  • @tbbb-rh7mu
    @tbbb-rh7mu 6 годин тому +1

    This guy drops so many truth bombs it should be a crime.

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  4 години тому

      Haha thanks chad, that's the message we're tryna spread here. Hope you enjoy the videos so far.

  • @JoshB550
    @JoshB550 День тому +5

    Besides the beauty. There is the will to always hustle your way back up when you fall down, i think i would generally call that perseverance through hardships. Finding ways to cope, cry to God for help, and through the worst times , keep faith in God that things will eventually get better. Great topic here, thanks for sharing 😊

    • @stevecooper7883
      @stevecooper7883 15 годин тому +2

      Amen. Only the Good Shepherd can guide his flock away from the wolves in these dangerous times

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  7 годин тому

      Thanks for watching Josh, I hope you enjoyed the video!

  • @nelyybeats2517
    @nelyybeats2517 20 годин тому +2

    Such an excellent point here at 6:00, I had a girl i approached that kept staring at me ask me if i was pranking her just because i started a basic convo with her and of course she had her guard all the way up the whole time lol,
    You should make a video on how approaching girls who choose can still be a challenge because they will still perceive you as a player.

  • @owais5301
    @owais5301 5 годин тому +1

    Whatever you said, i felt that to heart. I'm a single 24 y/o 6'3" Attractive guy who excelled in AI career, I've lost so many people who i thought were my friends, i get approached by so many women who i don't like, deep down there is just a single high value woman who I'm struggling to connect with. Attractiveness is sometimes curse

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  4 години тому +1

      True that brother, we just have to find people we can vibe with... We're in this together bro. Being good looking has its own down sides too.

    • @FrickinCCDeVileV
      @FrickinCCDeVileV 3 години тому +1

      💯 Getting the vvoman that you really like is a struggle, it's like the stars have to align

    • @owais5301
      @owais5301 3 години тому

      @@FrickinCCDeVileV damn the desperation, shit. Only people been there can understand.

  • @theinfamousop2691
    @theinfamousop2691 23 години тому +5

    Ngl I be acting fake nice to all the time cuz that's the way I thought I was suppose to act 😂 then i realized it doesn't matter these haters will still treat u like filth no matter what u do the way I look at it be ur self be arrogant be rude be ignorant then when the haters act rude they now have a reason to

    • @greencrocidile6246
      @greencrocidile6246 19 годин тому +2

      Big bro I would make myself small like look bro I’m not that bad but they still disliked and even worse tried to take advantage of it so I said forget tha

    • @theinfamousop2691
      @theinfamousop2691 18 годин тому +1

      @greencrocidile6246 what?
      Don't make ur self small for anyone instead do the opposite 🤣 ull see how people will go from disrespecting u to kissing ur a$$ u have no reason to be nice to these people

  • @tounsi925
    @tounsi925 23 години тому +3

    You are right on Kodiak about beautiful people other people get intimidated by them they think they are out of their league or they can get any one they want. Also you are right about describing women who approach men I don't like that at all and these type of women are not good. I worked at one time in my career as security guard in an insurance company and I was told by another guard who was socializing a lot with employees of that company that women find me intimidating.

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  7 годин тому +1

      True that man, people do get intimidated by other attractive people. Thanks for watching.

  • @guest-zn8zs
    @guest-zn8zs 18 годин тому +1

    Yes, I am glad there is someone like you speaking the truth, just keeping it real. Awesome.
    Maybe you could get a better microphone for higher quality videos.

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  7 годин тому

      Thanks for watching, hope you enjoyed the video!

  • @Hello123-b7l
    @Hello123-b7l 15 годин тому +1

    Can you make a video best places to meet single women? I have no friends and no idea where to go. I'm going to start going to the gym next week (after 10 years of doing body weight exercises.) Mainly to socialize and meet people. Secondly to work out. I have confidence, I just need opportunities.

  • @MEDIEVALMXNE
    @MEDIEVALMXNE 11 годин тому +1

    Glad I got recommended this video

  • @JJ3D91
    @JJ3D91 23 години тому +2

    All is right, great man!

  • @dantimber
    @dantimber 14 годин тому +1

    Maybe I'm the exception but as an average guy (5) my best friends in school were very good looking guys. I was somewhat envious at times but in general bro-code was in evidence. I was more intelligent and they respected me for that. Plus sometimes I'd get their second (or third) choice girlfriends. :-) My point is try not to be consumed by jealousy of other guys. We should support each other - bro-code! It all evens out in the end.

  • @Dan0rioN
    @Dan0rioN 22 години тому +6

    No way this applies to women anywhere near the level it does men

    • @Ionlydategoodgirls
      @Ionlydategoodgirls 22 години тому

      It applies to introvert attractive women who don't engage in hookup culture. I've met some (real) beautiful attractive girls and they are very lonely

    • @piedpiper1201
      @piedpiper1201 22 години тому +4

      it does dude, women are even worse about it becasue they fake it a lot more but they are backstabbing eachother and talking so much trash behind their backs. men dont do that and also men a much more suited to just being alone and getting on with it. whats a good looking women going to do? move out and live on her own?

    • @Dan0rioN
      @Dan0rioN 21 годину тому

      @piedpiper1201 Well true as it may be, sadly the women themselves don't realize what's going on so they are manipulated by it covertly to a point it becomes who they are.. End of the day they can go anywhere & find friends & support... There's a reason you never see attractive homeless women.. Men are better at handling being alone because we got used to it from an earlier age.. When you're a target of envy as a man, other men will look for a chance to take you down physically on top of mentally... & if they succeed in breaking you, you'll be left as the guy women see as undateable.. Ahaha so no, it is far farrr worse for men

    • @Dan0rioN
      @Dan0rioN 19 годин тому

      @@piedpiper1201 Another comment deleted on this channel wtf

    • @Bizarre-Clips
      @Bizarre-Clips 16 годин тому

      @@Dan0rioN nah, women are way worse when it comes to this

  • @stevedavenport1202
    @stevedavenport1202 20 годин тому +1

    I wouldn't sweat the handsome thing. It's like saying "First World Problems"
    It gives you more benefits than you realize, especially those river dwelling creatures called beaver.
    As for the friends thing, just find people at your level of success, IQ, etc. They will enjoy your company, even if not as handsome.

  • @Bitcoinscarcity
    @Bitcoinscarcity День тому +3

    Truth Martin.

  • @72007www
    @72007www 13 годин тому +1

    One thing I noticed is having to deal with so many rumors from both sides of the gender spectrum.

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  7 годин тому

      Yes very true. Men get that a lot. Thanks.

  • @pyramidhead3109
    @pyramidhead3109 День тому +10

    It's lonely at the top.

    • @jcransome5616
      @jcransome5616 22 години тому +4

      Cope

    • @PowerK1
      @PowerK1 19 годин тому +1

      @@jcransome5616 just because he doesn't say it out right "only good looks matter" it doesn't mean he doesn't think that's true. He probably believes that's true just like you, but there are layers to this I think.

    • @johnanderson6946
      @johnanderson6946 18 годин тому +1

      @@jcransome5616 ur mom

  • @KhadarAbdilaahi-mw3df
    @KhadarAbdilaahi-mw3df 21 годину тому +2

    Great video 💯- your English is very good (it’s also my third language)

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  7 годин тому

      Thanks a lot man! Hope you enjoyed it.

  • @oltyanpeti5435
    @oltyanpeti5435 9 годин тому +1

    I rather be lonely than with someone who plays me dirty again. W vid

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  7 годин тому

      True that man, thanks for watching!

  • @Abbakashaikh-ho9se
    @Abbakashaikh-ho9se 22 години тому +1

    Please keep uploading i just love your videos ❤and you iam a boy

  • @carrocesta
    @carrocesta 20 годин тому +6

    this is really not true. If this happens, it is because you get together with the wrong people.

  • @Carl-x8y3c
    @Carl-x8y3c 17 годин тому +2

    Looks not important. I have a disfigured face with scarring. I was brutally violated. My face was cut. Prior to this assault i was good looking. People treat me differently now. I know a female , and i would give her a hug sometimes as a friendly gesture in the past. But now when i approach her to hug her she says no and turns her head away from me. It hurts , but i dont say anything about it. I feel differently about her now. I dont like her as much anymore. Alit of people,are shallow. Thats what i have found since my disfigurement. I think you are a good guy , and you should enjoy your good looks. I think you have the maturity to have a good relationship with someone.

    • @babygrill01
      @babygrill01 15 годин тому

      If someone doesn't say they were shallow in some way in the past and aren't actively challenging or had to challenge their shallow tendencies I'm going to have a hard time trusting them

    • @Carl-x8y3c
      @Carl-x8y3c 15 годин тому +1

      @babygrill01 Yes . I have noticed a change towards me since what happened to me. People treat me like,a freak now. And I think some do it intentionally.

    • @donatello9482
      @donatello9482 3 години тому

      Don’t mind me asking but could you go into detail as to what happened ? If you’re not comfortable, no worries

    • @Carl-x8y3c
      @Carl-x8y3c 3 години тому +1

      @donatello9482 I was attacked and robbed of my wallet. I was hit about my head with a heavy object. I don't know what the object was. It happened in broad daylight , and on a busy street in front of people. I was left on the footpath in a pool of my blood. I could have died that day. I couldnt defend myself as it happened very quickly. Total disregard for my life. I was deeply traumatized. And it still can come up today.

    • @Carl-x8y3c
      @Carl-x8y3c 3 години тому +1

      @donatello9482 And no one was brought to justice. The guy got away with it.

  • @ivananderson141
    @ivananderson141 10 годин тому

    It's like a billionaire geting on UA-cam and saying how terrible having all this money is ......

  • @abangfernando5546
    @abangfernando5546 16 годин тому +1

    New sub bro. Greeting from Indonesian

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  7 годин тому

      Thanks for watching, shout out to Indonesia!

  • @kulentarian55
    @kulentarian55 16 годин тому +3

    If your attractive and lonely no friends no prospects no girlfriend , you might not be as good looking as you think

    • @gt9-w8y
      @gt9-w8y 8 годин тому

      So true no one wants to hear!

  • @arturmolenda2858
    @arturmolenda2858 5 годин тому

    If you thing you are alone because, of good lock then this is a big thinking fail😂
    Dont chose book because of good cover what its important, what its have inside.

  • @belindavanvelzen5257
    @belindavanvelzen5257 21 годину тому +3

    If you are yourself the right People Will appear!❤

  • @DoKaTS
    @DoKaTS 20 годин тому +1

    I really think the same things

  • @Drole-n-CreepyMascot
    @Drole-n-CreepyMascot 15 годин тому

    I'm too good looking that witches and warlocks are so obsess in throwing curses and hexes on me. May God Lord Jesus finally punish this assholes. I really do get hit with their death curses and hex.

  • @jsnow99
    @jsnow99 16 годин тому

    Attractive women are still getting bucked they just don't tell you

  • @maxhung2569
    @maxhung2569 13 годин тому

    this is crazy video. handsome men are rare. women don't see handsome men often. attractive women usually will make the first move because they're confident in their own looks. this guy's perspective is one of a marginally attractive guy. btw, Andrew Tate is not a handsome man. he's definitely got a great body but his face is so-so.

  • @Valient_thor
    @Valient_thor 6 годин тому +1

    Im ugly an lonely

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  4 години тому +1

      Bro, you can become better. Keep working on you.

  • @kulentarian55
    @kulentarian55 16 годин тому

    How tall are you ?

  • @ryan97h19
    @ryan97h19 16 годин тому

    Na being attractive is better trust me

  • @armandodelacruz3299
    @armandodelacruz3299 12 годин тому

    I guess I'm a Toyota guy. 😀

  • @milin7120
    @milin7120 18 годин тому +1

    Bro tat BS ur lonely because ur not attractive n nobody wants to be with u tats makes more sense!!!!

  • @jcransome5616
    @jcransome5616 22 години тому +5

    Fun way to cope

  • @Chikitooo21
    @Chikitooo21 23 години тому +1

    How much do you think obesity ruins a mans chance to attract women and be likeable in general, plus if he is porn addict.
    I know hes cooked but i wanna know how much

    • @daan2210
      @daan2210 22 години тому

      10 out of 10 cooked bro wtf is that question you know the answer. A fat guy with no confidence that jerks off to films is borderline cooked tbh

    • @Bizarre-Clips
      @Bizarre-Clips 16 годин тому

      just get off the hub, pal

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  7 годин тому +1

      If he's got game and is confident then it is not game over. There's fat guys that still pull chicks, but you won't attract them most of the time imo. You increase your probability by a lot once you get in shape to pull more women.

    • @tuinov6286
      @tuinov6286 6 годин тому

      You can lose weight in two months on a keto diet. Very simple just eat meat and eat once a day.

    • @FrickinCCDeVileV
      @FrickinCCDeVileV 3 години тому

      Medium-rare lol

  • @MaiconSantos-gl7uz
    @MaiconSantos-gl7uz 8 годин тому

    Cope

  • @GregChaps-do2nw
    @GregChaps-do2nw 16 годин тому +1

    They don’t trust u , I’m 43 and 28 year old women don’t believe I like them and don’t trust me , it’s mental , then the hate u get from other men is funny to

    • @rippedkodiak
      @rippedkodiak  7 годин тому

      Yeah, we as men get hated on by both gender lmao. Thanks for watching.