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  • @kimrice8230
    @kimrice8230 Рік тому +126

    Thanks!

    • @CookingAtPamsPlace
      @CookingAtPamsPlace  Рік тому +33

      Oh my! Thank you so much for your amazing support! I really appreciate it 🙏🏽❤️

    • @kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934
      @kathyinwonderlandl.a.8934 Рік тому +20

      Wow 👏😻

    • @constancejoyner3193
      @constancejoyner3193 Рік тому +30

      I have learned so much from your channel. GOD had given you a special calling! Please continue the good work 🙏🏾🙂❤

    • @jnorton2660
      @jnorton2660 7 місяців тому +2

      I truly love watching and listening to you. I enjoy learning from you and being able to use what I have learned in my kitchen the ideas that you teach us. Keep on, keeping on. I appreciate you sharing your knowledge with us. Stay sweet.

    • @DianaMarieSix
      @DianaMarieSix 2 місяці тому

      I’ve learned so much from you Pam. No need to apologize ❤️

  • @katied8324
    @katied8324 Рік тому +881

    I feel bad that you felt the need to apologize. You are a wealth of information related to cooking and I appreciate your tips and tricks. God be with you.

    • @lt3074
      @lt3074 Рік тому +27

      Me too!😊

    • @unknownill627
      @unknownill627 Рік тому +25

      Yes I agree.

    • @darrylmattison829
      @darrylmattison829 Рік тому +16

      Got it also 😊

    • @lindamaxey3827
      @lindamaxey3827 Рік тому +17

      Ms Pam's amazing!❤

    • @georgianarogers2664
      @georgianarogers2664 Рік тому +13

      You have nothing to apologize for Miss Pam you are a great inspiration teaching us things that you know so keep on doing what you're doing and I love reading your prayers every moment you have one post and I love reading them so you don't owe nobody an apology they know you're not a doctor you not none of those things that you say so you go ahead on with your David they don't feel bad don't let nothing worry you your woman of God and his going to take care of you have a very blessed day we'd love you

  • @LaundryFaerie
    @LaundryFaerie Рік тому +319

    Your willingness to point out that you are not a medical professional and cannot give medical advice makes me trust you even more. You know what your boundaries are and you are deliberately choosing not to go past them. Thank you, Pam.

  • @tkdmistress
    @tkdmistress Рік тому +231

    As an RN of over 2 decades, I 💯 support your statements on this subject! If folks don't like it, it's a "them problem". The most you can say about a recipe is you can make this lower sugar/fat/salt by doing xyz. That's not medical advice, just an alteration. Keep being your fabulous self! ❤

    • @CookingAtPamsPlace
      @CookingAtPamsPlace  Рік тому +14

      Thank you so much!!

    • @dorothybrown8859
      @dorothybrown8859 9 місяців тому +6

      First, you owe no apology. You are wise not to advise medically❤, and people should not ask you to. You are correct to think you could be liable as someone will come back and say you told them to do such and such. I am an RN and people ask me medical stuff all the time and I refer them to their physician. I cannot give medical advice. Heck, I suspect doctors quit talking to patients because they know if something goes contrary they are subject to being sued.
      Thank you for sharing your expertise, cooking (love that oil-free chicken).
      You are doing the right thing. When you help people it sometimes bites you in the arse because some will hold you responsible.
      Thank you for all the good advice you offer freely from your arsenal of research and experience.❤

    • @karascene13
      @karascene13 8 місяців тому +2

      Ms. Pam, I've learned the hard way, that sometimes the saying, "no good deed gets left unpunished." - that's not always the case, of course. I'm in healthcare & people ask me questions like they've asked you. I've gotten in trouble - for what I consider petty stuff. Such as putting my hand on a patient's shoulder. I can help patients remove their clothes to do an EKG, but otherwise no touching! - I get it. The patient was crying and I put my hand on her shoulder. That could be an unwanted touch (the patient didn't complain - but someone saw it and reported it.) I had to apologize & never do it again. Dear lord help us in the med community.
      I know you are not in the med part- and you probably do know the answers to med questions. EVERYONE IS SO SENSITIVE these days.
      It's such a fine line- it'll make you lose your mind.
      You're amazing! You are a true gem. You just keep doing Pam, and the good lord will guide you. As you well know. God bless you Ms. Pam. You're a treasure ❤

    • @dorothybrown8859
      @dorothybrown8859 8 місяців тому +4

      @@karascene13 As a retired RN it is sad comfort cannot be.providef to patients. I guess that is why many doctors will not touch you. Exams are hands-off now. Too bad because a lot can be learned by palpating (touching). Touch can be soothing and healing.
      It goes without saying that one should not ask or expect medical advice from a cooking show, but many today are entitled and will be the first to want to sue when things do not turn out as expected.
      I am a southern scratch cook, and have learned from Ms. Pam, and appreciate her advice and wisdom. No one is too old to learn. If one needs medical advice, research medical sources!

    • @karascene13
      @karascene13 8 місяців тому +1

      @@dorothybrown8859 Amen. Thank you for your comment & understanding ♥️

  • @karyncooney8354
    @karyncooney8354 10 місяців тому +66

    I'm a retired RN. I have so much respect for you, not only for refraining from giving medical advice but also for addressing how much it has weighed on your mind. You have a lot of integrity and a kind heart. Stay just the way you are! And for everyone that never said anything... thank you 😊

  • @coolstamper
    @coolstamper Рік тому +410

    NO APOLOGY NEEDED!!! People should know better. And we LOVE you just the way you are!!!🇺🇸❤️🇺🇸

    • @dona-mariabetzer539
      @dona-mariabetzer539 Рік тому +25

      You don’t need to apologize for anything! We love you. Stay well and stay blessed.

    • @lianealbert7728
      @lianealbert7728 Рік тому +16

      They should know better and everyone knows HOW to google… who would even begin to think that she’s responsible for this info?

    • @ArizonaBorn1358
      @ArizonaBorn1358 Рік тому +11

      I came to say this! Lord knows the thought never crossed my mind to ask you such questions. I do my own research and work with my medical professionals.
      I understood your assignment was and is to help us cook (what I call) real food, to navigate the kitchen and the use of tools, tricks, and tips for my kitchen. I also knew your focus is to help.
      I am sorry 😢 that folk actually got upset because you chose to stay in your wheelhouse.
      I'm not on the tube often, but always look forward to you 'telling me what to do' 😊❤

    • @user-en4qt5jb7n
      @user-en4qt5jb7n Рік тому +12

      Ignore the snowflakes Pam. We already know how sensitive they are. You are doing a great service to our Lord and Savior when you help others. Keep up the great work! Love you and your channel. And no apology needed either. 👍👍

  • @marylmuhammad2527
    @marylmuhammad2527 Рік тому +233

    Wow Pam! I'm speechless! This is a cooking channel not a medical channel! I'm sure that there are many medical channels available. Keep doing what you do!People will be upset no matter what you do. They will be more upset if you give the wrong medical information. You don't want to be accused of practicing medicine without a license. Focus on your God given talent. Don't apologize for doing the right thing. Stay blessed!!🥰

  • @pamelagroves3638
    @pamelagroves3638 Рік тому +148

    As someone who in the medical field. I’m glad you addressed this. Your delivery on this was so on point. Very well said. Keep doing what you do for us!! Blessings

  • @elizabethlaney6091
    @elizabethlaney6091 Рік тому +31

    Pam - you are one hell of a lady!!! I admire you and what you’re doing with your channel. Helping individuals who maybe didn’t get to learn all those tips and tricks in their own lives is really wonderful. I at age 60 am learning from you. THANK YOU!😊

  • @deborahspencer5315
    @deborahspencer5315 Рік тому +299

    You have not in anyway misled any of your viewers. I have learned much from you regarding cooking tips, recipes, methods & ideas as well as gardening tips and ideas. Thank you for these! Keep doing what you are doing and don't be discouraged!

    • @evelynhildebrand2931
      @evelynhildebrand2931 Рік тому +15

      I like watching your channel add the different recipes. They have given me many different ideas

    • @mariap.thisislife8735
      @mariap.thisislife8735 Рік тому +8

      I like hanging out here with Pam because she is so much fun and happy! She is contagious to me and I need it some days 🙋🏻‍♀️🌹 Much Love from Augusta Georgia ♥️🇺🇸🍃

  • @karlab9557
    @karlab9557 Рік тому +475

    Apology not needed. You have a cooking channel. You do what you do, and you do it well. We love your cooking instructions and tips and tricks. Anyone who has expectations that you provide health advice regarding food and can't figure out that they should ask a medical or health professional about food related to their health issue has totally unrealistic expectations of you at the very least, and really it's just foolish on their part. Keep doing what you do. You do it well.

    • @MaryGatdula
      @MaryGatdula Рік тому +34

      Well said.

    • @doloresarredondo1583
      @doloresarredondo1583 Рік тому +9

      Love me some Pam ❤🫶🏼

    • @lisaward3890
      @lisaward3890 Рік тому +10

      You do you the best Ms. Pam & God bless you and what you do with the cooking from scratch recipes from your memories, they are the best!

    • @nancyherscha885
      @nancyherscha885 Рік тому +9

      Well said Pam, love your LET ME SHOW YOU WHAT TO DO'S, God bless you, you are so clever with your channel and real life!

    • @colettemcwilliams1325
      @colettemcwilliams1325 Рік тому +4

      Very well said..

  • @joannesincere6859
    @joannesincere6859 Рік тому +38

    There is no reason for you to explain or apologize! Please keep doing what you're doing, and we WILL continue to support you! Thank you, Ms. Pam for everything ❤️ 🙏🏽

  • @char8a291
    @char8a291 Рік тому +47

    Gods love and anointing in you just draws people to you. You’ve been a blessing through your channel and your apology is totally understood while not necessary. All is well, Pan. I love your smile and your encouragement. Keep letting your light shine! 😎👍💕🙏💕

  • @lynngonder581
    @lynngonder581 Рік тому +207

    Pam, apology not needed, but thank you! I have been a nurse for over for 45 years. I wouldn’t be comfortable answering those questions either. If people get upset with you, that’s on them. I am sad if that happens for you, but it is understandable. You have a wide UA-cam family. It’s bound to happen. It’s always good to get boundaries addressed. We know you are a foodie channel. Pam, don’t sweat the small stuff, and it’s all small stuff, anyway! You are amazing.❤

    • @tracycrider7778
      @tracycrider7778 Рік тому +8

      😊 love this response and yes! Yes! Yes❤

    • @cindyschrum
      @cindyschrum Рік тому +4

      Totally agree! Pam -I love you!!

    • @marisahimid8191
      @marisahimid8191 Рік тому +4

      Greetings from Africa Tanzania East Africa. No need to apologise. You are amazing sister. Keep the good work Rolling

  • @carmelabologna9051
    @carmelabologna9051 Рік тому +207

    I just had to comment on your apology. First of all, I can tell that you are a most gracious, refined and elegant woman and your viewers are drawn to those qualities. When I see your videos, I am reminded of values that are rooted in timeless traditions and that is rare these days. You are like a friend, an auntie, and even a grandmother that had words of wisdom who made you feel cared about! And although your cooking skills are so admirable and full of information, that is not the primary reason I tune in. I just love the comfort you bring to me in a harsh world where being a true friend went out of style a long time ago. You are like an anchor in a tempest and whether we realize it or not, just the sound of your voice is soothing and mesmerizing. It's just such a good feeling to view your videos and learn so much and in such a joyous way. You are someone many of us would like to call our "friend". You need never apologize for what you are not qualified to do for your viewers, but I can understand why they feel like you could help them. You are a fountain of knowledge! And I loved when you said that you "could" have answers and that's why your family is so healthy, but you are not at liberty to dispense advise. Thank you for your honesty. There are many charlatans out there who do not care about the repercussions of their words regarding health and they do damage. It is good that you made this video and clarified to some viewers about what you can and cannot do without opening yourself up to libel. You had to make that known. You just don't have to apologize for it. Miss Pam, I would be proud to call you my friend and I look forward to your words of wisdom, your cooking and homemaking tips, and I love that you turn to prayer whenever you have a thoughtful decision to make. You set out to help people AND YOU DO!!

    • @Funkywaters
      @Funkywaters Рік тому +10

      I feel the same like this when I encounter a person or people with a “loving spirit” in them.

    • @FM19MONTH
      @FM19MONTH Рік тому +12

      Well said 🧡

    • @SoBayK80
      @SoBayK80 Рік тому +11

      I agree completely!
      We're all family, here 💜
      Let's cook!!

    • @PADS62
      @PADS62 Рік тому +7

      So well said! I agree with you completely and I feel the exact same way you do! 😊
      Thank you for your words of wisdom from your heart. ❤

    • @pigoff123
      @pigoff123 Рік тому +9

      I agree. You have a wonderful channel and you have no reason to apologize.

  • @brendamurray5359
    @brendamurray5359 Рік тому +49

    Pam you need not to apologize for anything. You’re a great person with lots of great helpful information. Sad to know that people can’t get the help from their doctor and not necessarily the Web. You’re so sweet and nice people sometimes gets misunderstood. Stay true to your passion and never let anyone make you feel bad.

  • @elizaleroux9173
    @elizaleroux9173 Рік тому +22

    There's definitely a few things that you are guilty of... It's the positive vibes you radiate, your soothing voice, your ability to make people sit up and take notice.. And I absolutely love the tips you give.. You should consider putting it all together in a book one day..
    I agree with so many others.. No need to apologize.. And don't take it personally if they didn't respond after you gave them a, seek advice from your doctor, reply. It's just people.
    Have a wonderful weekend and see you next week again.

  • @terrymovold4364
    @terrymovold4364 Рік тому +171

    Oh, Pam. You are soooo much more than a chef. You provide us with great recipes, tips & tricks, hacks, & last, but definitely not least, inspiration.
    I'm sorry that you felt the need to apologize, but I can certainly understand why you're getting requests for this kind of information...you're a very wise woman. Hopefully, people will understand this.
    You are a blessing in my life! 🙏✝️

  • @Kay-12345
    @Kay-12345 Рік тому +53

    Pam! We ❤ you! You don’t need to apologize. You have a God fearing & loving heart ♥️ 🙏❤️

  • @CherylCrow-po5lf
    @CherylCrow-po5lf Рік тому +14

    Dear Pam, every time I watch one of your videos I adore and respect you more. Bless your heart. This world needs more thoughtful, sensible, and kind people like you, not to mention entertaining! Many thanks.

  • @melwallace9960
    @melwallace9960 Рік тому +15

    I am so appreciative and grateful for you, Pam, and for this channel you have created! You educate, inspire, and encourage me with every post and video! You are a blessing to me! Thank you very much❣️

  • @sheilaroberts8155
    @sheilaroberts8155 Рік тому +66

    Unfortunately some people can’t handle being told “no”. You are an amazing soul! Keep up what your doing!💙🦋

  • @nickigauthier4419
    @nickigauthier4419 Рік тому +11

    There is NO need to apologize, you help with a lot of information, and appreciate everything you do! Please don't be sorry, when people with health problems get diagnosed with blood pressure, heart, etc their Dr gives them a diet. No one should be upset because that's a lot of liability. I do understand why you made the statement. We love you Pam, God bless ❤

  • @missmoxiemaesmith8287
    @missmoxiemaesmith8287 Рік тому +7

    Miss Pam, I love your community posts. They’ve blessed my mornings many a times. Thank you for them. You’ve certainly been a blessing to me. God bless you ❤️

  • @shainazion4073
    @shainazion4073 Рік тому +76

    Pam, we have all learned so much from you. Please don't apologize for anything. We love you, you're the greatest. We love the experience you have and have shared with us.

  • @frankrueger8538
    @frankrueger8538 Рік тому +39

    Miss Pam, I found your channel while browsing, and you made me smile immediately. I keep coming back, keep smiling, and always learn things from you. Your manners are impeccable, your tips are welcome and helpful, and I do appreciate the time and efforts you make as you show me (us) what to do. Helpful things I would not have thought of; sayingthings I didn’t know I needed to know. I don’t imagine we can know the circumstances and/or motives of the folks whose questions 😢 requests make things uncomfortable for you. I do know this: the world would be a colder, lonelier and clumsier place without your knowledge and your willingness to share as you do. Inappropriate requests and comments by others are maybe inevitable but please don’t take them to heart and don’t fret. You keep doing what you’re so good and put your gracious self at ease. You’re a treasure, ok?

  • @EnigmaNeko
    @EnigmaNeko Рік тому +12

    Hugs! 🥰
    Thank you, Pam, for addressing this. You absolutely did the right thing. God placed this on your heart for a reason. A lot of people needed to hear this from you.
    I pray God breaks through everyone's heart and soul & frees them! ✝️🙏😔❤️
    God bless you today and always! ✝️🙏🥰❤️

  • @Morgagor
    @Morgagor Рік тому +8

    When people watch your videos, you seem so knowledgeable and trustworthy that they are drawn to you. You are a magnet for followers. Followers, not in the sense of UA-cam subscriptions, but people looking for a leader, someone to believe in, with confidence and compassion who is also relatable. You fit the bill. Of course you can't possible know everything; no one does. Even doctors won't diagnose a person without seeing them in person. You should not feel the need to apologize for presenting yourself in such a great way. I adore you and you don't need to apologize. Even the idea that you would go online and apologize for this shows that you are a smart, strong, compassionate and confident woman. Love you and your personality!!

  • @nancynoneya5742
    @nancynoneya5742 Рік тому +85

    I love the fact that you are totally honest. I've done things myself that I would not recommend anyone else to do but it worked for me. I love your show and especially when you say "come with me, I'll show you what to do." I've learned tons from you. Just be you cause thats is what makes you so wonderful!

    • @shirleymcmurtrie7853
      @shirleymcmurtrie7853 Рік тому +7

      Well done Pam. You are such a treasure!

    • @factsmatter4030
      @factsmatter4030 Рік тому +6

      Well said... And I love your name..😂.. Nancy NoneYa

    • @homaarriaga4453
      @homaarriaga4453 Рік тому +7

      Well said Pam, it's a cooking channel and if they don't like it they can go elsewhere.

  • @AvaJun
    @AvaJun Рік тому +126

    To be honest, I'm just here for your calm voice and positivity. You're a wonderful soul and I enjoy your content. Thank you for bringing your best every day! ❤

    • @florahendren5961
      @florahendren5961 Рік тому +2

      I love your videos. I’ve learned so much. Your presentation is so inspiring and calming. Thank you for you. You’re a tender soul. Your sense and feeling the need to apologize is indicative of your empathetic, sympathetic soul. You’re a gem! Love you and your site.

    • @bunnytoes7200
      @bunnytoes7200 Рік тому +1

      Pam! You have become a bright light in my life. I can’t imagine why anyone could possibly find fault with what you do here on your channel. Those odd and off topic questions don’t merit an apology. You are one of the most wonderful souls here online. Continue to shine bright with your tips, hacks and lovely approach. To be truthful I’ve adopted your “come with me” or “follow me, I’ll show you what to do”! And often share a link to your channel so others might be blessed by you also.

    • @kathyperez9695
      @kathyperez9695 Рік тому +1

      Me too I enjoy watching your videos! Your awesome! God Bless You!

    • @anoldladi
      @anoldladi Рік тому

      Me too.

  • @happyjubilee4021
    @happyjubilee4021 Рік тому +10

    Hi Ms. Pam 👋🏼 You have been such a wealth of knowledge for me and my family. We appreciate you so much 🥳 Keep up the great work of sharing what you know all around the 🌎 May God continue to abundantly bless and protect you in all your endeavors, in Jesus name, Amen 🙏🏽 ❤

  • @cooknwoman
    @cooknwoman Рік тому +10

    You're a sweetheart Pam! You're kind and considerate of other people's feelings. You are an awesome witness, a mature loving Christian woman❣️ It warms my heart and I know thousands of folks are watching you -- and now, a lot are doing some thinking about something far more important than cooking. Thank you Pam❣️ You're sister in ✝️Christ and a fellow cook.
    Love, 👩🏼‍🍳cooknwoman

  • @moniquewrites9046
    @moniquewrites9046 Рік тому +41

    You’re doing the right thing both legally and professionally. It’s a liability if you get into the health realm.
    More people on the internet or influencers need to take this approach.

  • @michaelsaintz
    @michaelsaintz Рік тому +63

    Pam, the fact that this subject weighed so heavily on your mind and in your heart speaks volumes. Let me just say that you did not have to apologize, people should have common sense and know that their questions should have been directed to a medical professional. Forgiveness is not required because you did nothing wrong. I enjoy your show for cooking tips, food storage, cooking from scratch and so on but not for medical advice. Everyone is so sue happy and you must protect you and yours. Keep doing what you're doing and God bless.😊❤❤

    • @dwandavis3736
      @dwandavis3736 Рік тому +1

      Pam, I enjoy your channel and the wealth of information you provide. Never once did it occur to me to ask you medical questions. You do your thing just as you have always done. Keep giving us helpful tips. People who have medical questions should consult a healthcare professional. No apologies needed. Keep doing you.❤

    • @fdgd9998
      @fdgd9998 Рік тому +2

      They weren't upset that you didn't answer. They didn't care that you would ruin your reputation or life. They wanted what they wanted and that was that. It's funny😅most people have a smart via computer/phone and refuse to ask Google. I admire u for protecting yourself.

  • @GODSPEAKS898
    @GODSPEAKS898 Рік тому +4

    Pam, no worries beautiful lady. There is no need to apologize. I love how you create simple meals along with very easy to follow recipes instructions. I really love how excited you are and this is part of what makes your channel worth watching. If people need advice regarding their health, there are a plethora of doctors on UA-cam who can help them. Love your channel dear lady. ❤❤❤❤👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾!!

  • @carlysmith1689
    @carlysmith1689 Рік тому +9

    You have nothing to apologize for, your response is the appropriate one, as a medical professional I cannot give advice without a Dr/ patient relationship, and people often get aggravated with that as they want free advice/ recommendations for problems, keep doing what you are doing, just hearing your voice and watching your beautiful and blessed persona never fails to brighten my day, plus my cooking has also improved, thanks so much for being Pam ❤

  • @kathleen2709
    @kathleen2709 Рік тому +59

    No apology necessary. Your responses all along have simply proven your integrity and your concern for others. Many people who might be less honorable, or less thoughtful and prayerful about it, might have just jumped in there and given answers out of their realm. I admire you even more for your conscientiousness. Bless you Pam!

  • @catherineruiz2845
    @catherineruiz2845 Рік тому +27

    As an social media influencer, and a very good one, you are being 100 percent responsible in going pubic on your vlog to let your audience know that you are not in a position to address their dietary health needs. There is no need for you to apologize for being responsible. I love your channel Ms. Pam, please keep doing what you are doing.

  • @paulamartin9618
    @paulamartin9618 Рік тому +4

    Ms Pam! You teach exactly what you set out to do. I wouldn’t expect you to answer those kinds of questions. I love this channel. There really isn’t any need to apologize for anything. You’re so sweet. No one should feel upset about the truth. ❤❤❤

  • @jimwalker76
    @jimwalker76 Рік тому +19

    Pam, you are so kind. You will always have people asking all kinds of things. They ask you because they hold you in such high esteem. They think you know everything. You know so much, and you help so many. We love your channel. Only a person who truly cares about her followers would have addressed this issue. Much respect and love to you. ❤❤❤

  • @ms.booklover2676
    @ms.booklover2676 Рік тому +117

    Now Chef Pam, I cannot imagine their silence always means they are upset. I would think people could figure out you are not presenting yourself as anything but an absolutely excellent cook, but I guess there are those . . . . Why anyone would be angry with you, I don’t know, and I personally don’t think you owe anyone an apology. You are stupendous for doing so, and please keep cooking and keep teaching us those brilliant hacks. ❤️❤️❤️ You are loved.

    • @jeanmarielieb2929
      @jeanmarielieb2929 Рік тому +13

      Those people may not have been angry with you. People seem to be losing their manners due to frequency of social media use.

    • @cynthiar6426
      @cynthiar6426 Рік тому +10

      @@jeanmarielieb2929 People do seem to be losing their manners. It's strange.
      I was in the hospital and not feeling my usual self when I forgot to tell a pca "please" when I asked him to hand me something. I said, "I'm sorry. I forgot my manners. Please hand me (whatever it was)." The man then said, "Ok, Your Majesty.", in sort of an annoyed tone, like I offended him. Then I didn't know what to say. I feel like I offended him twice. So I just stayed quiet.
      I'm still gonna use my manners even if people are weird. I was raised with manners.
      When I was a child all grown-ups' first names were Mr., Mrs., Ms., or Miss.
      I'm 60 now and have only ever had one friend's children call me Mrs. and that was over 30 years ago. I liked it.

    • @cutenobi
      @cutenobi Рік тому +4

      I don’t think it’s losing manners, they probably don’t want to waste anymore of her time with redundant emails. Everyone can’t be pleased and people aren’t mind readers.

    • @Ladycrafty6
      @Ladycrafty6 Рік тому +7

      I just think that many people forget manners and dignity sitting behind a keyboard! Your channels are fabulous!❤

    • @mariap.thisislife8735
      @mariap.thisislife8735 Рік тому +6

      Seems it's not cool to have manners these days, the world has gone nuts these past few years. God bless us all 🌿🪻🌿

  • @cws.4915
    @cws.4915 Рік тому +29

    Precious Pam, no apologies needed and we’re sorry you felt the need to apologize. God has blessed us with you sharing your gift, time and talents and love of cooking and nick-nacks with us! You’re a beautiful, godly and wise woman of God. We love and appreciate you! Hugs 😇🙏🏾❤️✝️

  • @LewisAcreFarm
    @LewisAcreFarm Рік тому +6

    I found out about your channel through Anne Dale. She speaks so highly of you as does Sherrie at Black's Tropical Homestead. I have only watched a handful of your videos but enjoyed them very much. I love that you always give God the glory in all that you do.
    Now, as for people that ask for help with diet and nutrition, it is quite obvious that you have built a lot of trust with your audience. In this day and age, people no longer trust doctors or people in authority in general. To be able to say that you have gained their trust is monumental. The fact that people no longer trust modern medicine and have begun to move more towards a lifestyle like our forefathers likely speaks to the reasons why you are getting these questions. When modern pharmaceuticals do more harm than good, people begin to look for alternative ways to help heal their bodies. They are beginning to realize that the plants God put on this earth are here for a reason and that they have medicinal properties. They are learning that they can often heal their bodies naturally or use natural resources in tandem with modern medicine and be healthier than with modern medicine alone. The problem is that 80-90% of modern physicians refuse to acknowledge this symbiosis. They refuse to even hear their patients when natural remedies or alternatives are suggested. To tell them to seek medical advice gets them nowhere if what they are seeking is trusted natural health advice. I understand why you felt the need to take the stance you have taken. I do. However, as a person who understands where this world is headed and knowing that self-sufficiency and the ability to care for and treat my own ailments is of utmost importance, I also know that I need to seek out those people who have the knowledge and that I can trust, to guide me and help me find what works for me. When you find someone who has knowledge (or you believe that they may know what you are seeking) and you trust them enough to ask for help, it can be extremely disheartening to be told to go talk to the doctor when they are the ones giving you medication that's keeping you sick or that you're trying to get off of. Many channels that I have seen who give natural health information simply give a disclaimer that they are not medical professionals, that their listeners need to do their own research, and that they should check with their doctor or pharmacist to make sure whatever they are going to do or try is safe for them. If the source you are using does not issue some sort of disclaimer of that nature, you should never trust them. It's that simple. Offering recipes that "may be beneficial for Some ____" (fill in the blank: diabetics, hbp, high cholesterol, etc) would be helpful for some but would also not open you up to liability. However, I would never presume to tell you what you should or should not do. I am simply offering a different perspective on the subject.
    I love reading your daily affirmations/ scriptures that you post. Thank you 😊

  • @emc2862
    @emc2862 Рік тому +5

    You are doing the right thing, Pam! I wouldn't expect you to give out person- specific diet advice but your tips, tricks, and kitchen suggestions are excellent! Keep them coming! We love you! 🥰👍

  • @mikobrooks7376
    @mikobrooks7376 Рік тому +24

    ❤forgiven . Just don't quit your channel.

  • @lissajedi
    @lissajedi Рік тому +23

    Chef Pam, no need to apologize! You handled those comments perfectly! And as a diabetic, you are spot on that no 2 diabetics are the same in their disease state and treatment. My hubby is diabetic also, and some foods spike his sugar but don't mine and vice versa. We're all unique, and I'm happy to hear you address that. You are awesome, and I absolutely love your videos!

  • @lisachristmon6940
    @lisachristmon6940 Рік тому +2

    You don’t have to apologize Pam! I love your videos and advice. Keep up the good work!! 👍🏽👏🏾🥰

  • @sistakia33
    @sistakia33 Рік тому +3

    I find that you are kind and sweet and you just do what YOU do! Some of us are in the middle of cooking when we realize we don't have the ingredients we thought we did and we want to know if there's a substitute! But no one should expect you to come up with medical advice! To be honest there are folks on here with medical and law degrees and even their advice has to be takeñ with a grain of salt because they can't take responsibility for folks they've never met!
    Ms. Pam, you just keep doing what you do best and we'll keep loving this about you! ❤

  • @malamaurer4043
    @malamaurer4043 Рік тому +33

    Dearest Pam, you have the kindest heart ❤ No need to apologize. This is such a sweet video ❤ I love your honesty ❤ There are too many unlicensed and unqualified people creating information they have no business creating. Your honesty is seriously like a breath of fresh air 💖

  • @beverlywilliams4627
    @beverlywilliams4627 Рік тому +13

    Miss Pam, you can't please everyone, you just have to please yourself. 😂You, did the correct thing. I love your channel. Please continue your good work.God bless you and your family.🇯🇲🇨🇦👍👃

  • @tcollick7163
    @tcollick7163 Рік тому +4

    Pam I love the information you share with us and I retain it and apply it when needed. I don’t know how people can be upset with you because you don’t give out health information. You aren’t a Dr you have never been to Medical School or had any Medical Training so are Right not to give Medical Advice no matter how slight it may seem bc that one little insignificant information could turn someone’s life upside down and to live with knowing that you caused harm not on purpose but on something you should have never even addressed is mind blowing . So you continue to share with us what your channel purpose has always been for and all should be fine . With this being said I look forward to seeing your next video and you have a fabulous weekend 💕

  • @michelemoneywell8765
    @michelemoneywell8765 Рік тому +4

    You put so much into your channel. I greatly appreciate not only your cooking advice, kitchen hacks, and tips, but also your presence. The light of the Holy Spirit shines in you. It's calming and beautiful, and reflects your character. Thank you so much for being a light. 💗

  • @Delaney2024
    @Delaney2024 Рік тому +10

    You shouldn’t have to apologize. You are a GREAT cook and teacher. Thank you for all the excellent videos. God bless you!

  • @sherryfannon1767
    @sherryfannon1767 Рік тому +26

    Thank you Pam for telling people this. I believe people didn’t realize that you could not give advice on medical issues. You stated it a kind manner and maybe the people that asked the questions will let you know they understand. I enjoy watching your channel. Prayers and hugs.

    • @lianealbert7728
      @lianealbert7728 Рік тому +1

      Exactly… and on top of that everyone knows how to google and look for things on the internet. If they want diabetic recipes, why is it up to this woman to cater to a single individual on a frequent basis. There’s a host of ways to access that information already on line.

  • @cottonflannigan3671
    @cottonflannigan3671 Рік тому +2

    You are a Precious, Beautiful Soul...
    You do not owe anyone an apology...

  • @elainesmith2843
    @elainesmith2843 Рік тому +1

    Well said! Thank you for clearing that up and protecting yourself from any liabilities.
    “ You Cook!” Point blank Period and a very good one at that 👍👏🔥🔥🔥🙏👍🙏🙏🙏👏🥰👍☮️

  • @cindyduran4236
    @cindyduran4236 Рік тому +8

    Nothing to forgive...we love you! Blessings!

  • @kimmi5704
    @kimmi5704 Рік тому +5

    Come on Ms. Pam! That was keeping it 💯! No apologies are needed. Thank you for all of the information that you share. Speaking for myself and many others, we are grateful. Blessings to you. ❤️

  • @kudabear4898
    @kudabear4898 Рік тому +3

    No need to apologize Pam.....you are a cooking channel.....I love your channel.....a lot of things you have told your viewers my mother had already showed me and they all work and your inspirational comments I have used on a daily basis to help my 15yr old granddaughter who has very low self esteem. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR CHANNEL AND FAITH!!!!

  • @debbiewilkinson4277
    @debbiewilkinson4277 Рік тому +1

    God bless you Ms. Pam ❤. Very well said. Very intelligent. A person of integrity. Thank you 🙏

  • @sheilabailey2940
    @sheilabailey2940 Рік тому +69

    I don't feel you have to apologize for refusing to give advice you don't have the authority to render. Keep doing what you're doing, Pam. Much love!😊❤️

  • @LpoolDogLover
    @LpoolDogLover Рік тому +24

    Pam you are a blessing to me! I love your cooking and helpful tips. Please just ignore people who are inappropriate. Every channel gets their share of this. Please just let the rest of us enjoy you! And I love your inspirational messages. Hugs!!

  • @Orpilorp
    @Orpilorp Рік тому +6

    Hello Pam! You have a great cooking channel, and I'm sorry some people saw your kindness and helpfulness as a home chef to also be a health coach. (I hope that makes sense.) Your love for our Saviour Jesus is what brings me back for another episode, along with your kitchen tips. ❤

  • @cherrychin867
    @cherrychin867 Рік тому +2

    No apologies necessary, Pam. I am a Registered Nurse, over 30 years now and ppl do not understand the liability factors. Each person is different. Plans of care should come from your doctor, just as you’ve stated. You told them what to do!🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

  • @KN-ly5he
    @KN-ly5he Рік тому +20

    I think it just goes to show how much people obviously trust you to ask you those things. I love your spirit and demeanor.

  • @jannamullins2871
    @jannamullins2871 Рік тому +25

    Pam, you seriously a very sweet person. I watch your videos and even though I’ve done a lot of the shortcuts for most of my life, you continually teach me. You are one of those people that if we lived close, I know we could be good friends (I’m from the Deep South). The instinct that you have to feel the need to apologize shows how good your heart is. You did the right thing by telling them what you did and if they can’t give you a simple “thank you” for responding to them, then I really feel they don’t deserve the concerns that it has brought to you. I was told once to do the right thing and let God take care of the rest. I try to live by that and it’s helped. Sending hugs and prayers from Ohio.

  • @themoonlitquill
    @themoonlitquill Рік тому +3

    You have such a calming presence, and I just love listening to you share your thoughts and wisdom. Thank you!
    With regards to these bizarre questions and requests, you may (sadly) have to write a disclaimer on your channel. Never once did I think you were here to solve the world's problems. You give great cooking advice, and that's why most of us are here. Sending ❤ and hugs from Wisconsin!

  • @Jojodancer1978
    @Jojodancer1978 Рік тому +8

    You are the sweetest person to even care about our reaction to your response. Keep doing what you’re doing, I guarantee you the majority of us really appreciate what you’re doing, and how you’re doing it. And, oh yeah, sure wish I could cut up garlic with that precision 😅

  • @normanichols5465
    @normanichols5465 Рік тому +18

    I have learned so much from you and I appreciate your knowledge. I don’t believe you owe anyone an apology. It is presumptuous if anyone to ask you for medical advice or information. Thank you for your kind heart and your willingness to share your tips and recipes. You are an amazing lady! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @g-maprepper972
    @g-maprepper972 Рік тому +9

    No need to apologize. I love your channel and your sweet spirit!

  • @crazyfamily6
    @crazyfamily6 11 місяців тому +2

    I've been watching your channel for over a week now, without subscribing, but this video got me to subscribe. Thank you for your kindness, respect, integrity and great recipes and information. BTW, this is the only channel I've ever subscribed to. God bless you Pam.

  • @donnacollins1356
    @donnacollins1356 Рік тому +42

    Do you think maybe they seen some of your garden videos and just thought..... Because you are such a beautiful person inside and out they were hoping you could help them you exude trust is what I'm saying Also I'd take it as a compliment from now on Pam I just found your channel not long ago and I don't want you to not continue with it Stay awesome Pam

    • @CookingAtPamsPlace
      @CookingAtPamsPlace  Рік тому +16

      I don't think anyone meant any harm, but I needed everyone to know that even though you may ask, I can't speak on it. Thanl you so much for your kind words

  • @patbuffington4791
    @patbuffington4791 Рік тому +3

    Ms Pam. I love your channel & all the tips & hacks you give for cooking!
    As far as your not giving people answers to health or nutrition questions, I stand by you! There are so so so many people on the internet who ARE giving those types of advices and they have no idea what they’re talking about. It seems like they’re just putting their advice out there to get points, to get their “15 minutes of fame”, not to give true or sound advice. They think they’re going to get rich so they keep copying what lots of other people say with no regard to people’s health or lives. They all say it act like they are the “experts” and they’re just plain ordinary people.
    I don’t think you really needed to apologize for NOT giving advice to people, but your heart is true. Keep teaching us your tips & tricks for cooking, and keep being true to your morals. God bless you 🙏❤

  • @lifegozon6127
    @lifegozon6127 Рік тому +1

    Ms. Pam, your honesty and graciousness is appreciated and respected for NOT overstepping boundaries! Your approach reflects your commitment to helping and not harming people. Your actions also suggest that you are NOT on a power trip to gain viewers/followers, etc. YOU ARE ON POINT, DON'T CHANGE!!! Much respect & blessings to you and for you!!!

  • @denecostantino8542
    @denecostantino8542 Рік тому +2

    ❤ THANK YOU PAM, FOR CONTINUING TO CORRECT SITUATIONS THAT POP UP PERIODICALLY..GREAT LEADER PAM, THAT TAKES CARE OF BUSINESS !!!

  • @NJK-777
    @NJK-777 Рік тому +20

    No apology needed, you’re a wealth of information on what you do know, and we’re glad you share it. Thank you Pam. You are right in being cautious on questions that are not your forte. It’s better not to speak on those things. The Lord bless you. ❤

  • @revmd621
    @revmd621 Рік тому +15

    This is a cooking channel. That’s the disclaimer! No apologies needed. You cook and give helpful tips. Chef Pam, don’t let those people change the intent of your channel. There are many who are blessed by what you do. Those who need more than what you’re teaching and offering, they can change to another channel and govern themselves.

  • @susanoconnor5931
    @susanoconnor5931 Рік тому +2

    You are a wonderful woman who is able to help us,not so gifted in the kitchen, provide our families with delicious food. 🙏 Thank you

  • @juanitamays1432
    @juanitamays1432 8 місяців тому +2

    Hi Pam. It is good to clarify what you can legally do and not do on your wonderful cooking videos. I enjoy you just being you while you share recipes and kitchen tips. 😊 Thank you.

  • @angelabaril104
    @angelabaril104 Рік тому +3

    Love you Ms. Pam, you are such a beautiful person inside and out and I just love learning from you. I am 66 years old and also have many ailments that comes with this age. I appreciate your grace and dignity you give all of us on your channel. I pray that your heart will be lifted and this subject will leave you with a calming peace and free your mind. May all you do be blessed and may you and yours be eternally blessed from the store house of Gods glory.

  • @beckymcqueen2691
    @beckymcqueen2691 Рік тому +6

    You have answered these questions in the right way. You've handled it in an honest way. People do not realize you can be held liable if you gave advice concerning health issues and diet. I was a pharmacy tech for 15 years....when customers ask about OTC meds to take for a cold, etc. I could not give them advice... the pharmacist could. He was insured and trained.
    There is no need for an apology.
    People need to consult their physician.
    God Bless You
    Keep on doing what your doing and sharing your knowledge.
    ♥️

  • @lorisimons1852
    @lorisimons1852 4 місяці тому +1

    My husband always said, never trust a skinny cook. He was right. You teach great receipes. People that have issues will alter the receipe for health reasons or avoid it altogether. Keep up the great lessons and ignore the hate, its not from God. Bless you sister. ✌❤🙏

  • @elainehorne188
    @elainehorne188 Рік тому

    Thank you! Yes, it needed to be said. Bless you!

  • @bettylougreen6987
    @bettylougreen6987 Рік тому +12

    I can for the cooking tips and food storage help. I stayed because of who you are as a person. I love the daily wisdom and I truly appreciate all you do to help people. Thank you again for helping me in the kitchen. You have not misled most of us and we truly appreciate you.

  • @littleladyscave376
    @littleladyscave376 Рік тому +4

    You're a true sweetheart. You have nothing to apologize for. As a diabetic with high blood pressure, I adjust and substitute ingredients in recipes myself. Much love ❤🙏

  • @patriciafarran9742
    @patriciafarran9742 10 місяців тому +3

    Some people seem have lost the ability to think for themselves.
    I don’t think you need to apologize, but, if it was on your heart to do so, you did it.
    We appreciate you and your ability to teach us about cooking and tips and tricks in the kitchen.
    There is nothing wrong with staying in your lane.
    Now, I’m about to try your technique for frying some chicken without oil or breading thank you. ❤

  • @Kisha12able
    @Kisha12able Рік тому +1

    No apologies necessary, I love ❤️ your videos. Thank you 🙏🏽 for sharing and for what you do. 👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽👍🏽

  • @MoTheCat3
    @MoTheCat3 Рік тому +12

    You have such a sweet spirit and personality that it's natural for others to be drawn to you, and sometimes that means they will ask you for advice looking to make their lives gentler and sweeter. I am glad you are clarifying what you can and cannot do for others, for their sakes as well as yours.

  • @joysun5016
    @joysun5016 Рік тому +6

    No apologies needed ❤ your channel is my go to for anything cooking/kitchen related - praise the Lord for you - abundance and many blessings to you and your family 🙏 Hallelujah thank God for Pam's channel

  • @TinaRN
    @TinaRN Рік тому

    God Bless you, beautiful lady! I feel sorry for those who feel they needed an apology, from you, however, your apology showed the kind of woman that you really are! Too bad they don’t feel inclined to tip you for all your great teaching!
    Thank you, please know how much we appreciate you, and keep up your superb work of art and of heart! We love you, Ms. Pam!
    P.S.: WHERE on earth did they come up with elderly??? Geeze! I’m, truly, honestly, sincerely, thinking 50’s, maybe 60… they must be in their 20’s!!! I’m 47!

  • @maggiesmith9987
    @maggiesmith9987 Рік тому +1

    You are a very wise woman. As a health professional, I approve of this message. Apology unnecessary 💖

  • @MaryWilliams-dl6ow
    @MaryWilliams-dl6ow Рік тому +6

    You have absolutely no need to apologize!
    I enjoy watching you not only for your cooking, but mostly for your sweet spirit!

  • @carmenbarron1200
    @carmenbarron1200 Рік тому +6

    Oh Pam...you had me scared to death thete for a minute. You are most precious and I love your videos and your cooking style. You have no need to Apologize. You've never led us to believe that you were a health care professional. 💗

  • @barbara816
    @barbara816 Рік тому +1

    🙏 Much Love Respect for you Pam! ❤ Prayers go Up, Blessings come down🙏

  • @adventurousspirit6628
    @adventurousspirit6628 Рік тому +1

    You're a sweet soul and I loved the way you addressed this issue. Thank you for all the tips and tricks, I appreciate you!

  • @carolynpayne9778
    @carolynpayne9778 Рік тому +6

    I think a lot of people ask those questions just to be funny. They are not that concerned otherwise they would respond back to you with a "I thank you". Don't feel any kind of way! Keep doing the phenomenal job that you are doing to help us! We Love you!!!!❤❤❤

  • @Koali2011
    @Koali2011 Рік тому +5

    I guess another way to say it is “I’m not qualified or certified to give the advice you’re asking for “. You are absolutely correct to stand firm in your decision on this. Im a newbie here and I’ve been so much enjoying you and your great recipes! But just like everyone else, if I know I shouldn’t be eating that, no matter how wonderful it looks, I am the one responsible for my health and foods I eat. Keep bringing us your sunshine sister! Im sorry it had bothered your heart about this, but you are very wise to address it. I wish we were neighbors! You seem like a very nice, strong and sweet lady! God bless you Pam!

  • @bevfitzsimmonds3382
    @bevfitzsimmonds3382 Рік тому +1

    We understand, Pam. There are plenty of youtube videos on these topics for anyone to google, made by doctors, nutritionists, and specialists. You do a great job, Pam. Keep going. God bless! 😊👍💐

  • @karencummins6736
    @karencummins6736 22 дні тому +1

    You are so precious and I love your honesty. Keep up the good work on all three of your channels.

  • @misstrekfreak
    @misstrekfreak Рік тому +4

    You are my go to for hacks, tips and cooking things we don’t get in UK. I really appreciate that Pam 🙏🏻👋🏻🇬🇧