The Love of A Virgo Man is Complicated

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  • @spirituallysavage4699
    @spirituallysavage4699 Рік тому +33

    Soooo complicated that it doesn't feel like Love...it feels like an obstacle/maze that you never make it to the end of...#virgomen🤦🏾‍♀️😩

  • @Luckykat218
    @Luckykat218 Рік тому +34

    All the virgo men I know are super complicated. It’s exasperating 😩

    • @keneciaesson420
      @keneciaesson420 Рік тому +2

      No lie here just learning this

    • @aml8760
      @aml8760 Рік тому +2

      Its a journey for those who are in it for lasting love...

    • @purposedpatience6597
      @purposedpatience6597 Рік тому +1

      😂😂yeessss my father is very tiring to deal with lol

    • @Luckykat218
      @Luckykat218 Рік тому

      @purposepatience6597 same here 🙊😮‍💨🤪

  • @spirituallysavage4699
    @spirituallysavage4699 Рік тому +33

    I agree men need a break ...I don't feel like a man should always be up under their woman....butttt Virgo's will see you for two days straight and then disappear for 2 weeks....if 2 days with someone you suppose to love drains you that fast...then there's no love there...anddd the more distance there is in a relationship for me...causes me to lose interest...and it shows me that you can put more time and effort into other things but when it comes to showing emotions,time, and love with me all of a sudden within a few days your overwhelmed and needs to disappear for days/ weeks...So how could you ever maintain a relationship or especially a marriage?

  • @ManickaThomas
    @ManickaThomas Рік тому +14

    What it sounds like you’re talking about is capacity and your window of tolerance. Every person has a different level of what they can hold before they become overwhelmed, frustrated or stressed. You have to understand the capacity of the person you’re dealing with.

  • @mhielle07
    @mhielle07 Рік тому +12

    Your videos are a big big help especially for cancers like me hahahahahahahaha thank you for giving the time to send these out, Reverend. You're helping a lot of us.

  • @caramelbrulee7389
    @caramelbrulee7389 Рік тому +8

    I’m about to give up on getting to know my Virgo crush. This is as bad as dealing with a Scorpio. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @TeganM.C.
    @TeganM.C. Рік тому +7

    Congratulations on your apartment! You look wonderful and it's always nice to hear from you! I hope that you take the down time you need and realize that those who care for you will remain in your life! Have a great weekend!

  • @patricerenee1717
    @patricerenee1717 Рік тому +7

    No one wants love that is complicated. Love should be easy …. I’ll watch the video now lol ♉️

  • @FatmaSamyFAS
    @FatmaSamyFAS Рік тому +3

    Welcome back Jay ❤❤ congrats on the new apartment 🎉 you deserve it .. God bless

  • @Glow4everboutique
    @Glow4everboutique Рік тому +6

    I am a libra and I already move out from 2 Virgo I can’t deal with the in and out 🤷‍♀️🙄

  • @dawnharrison7232
    @dawnharrison7232 4 місяці тому

    Johnathan you are such a good explainer in general. You make so much sense on human behaviour . You are my daily dose of therapy 😀

  • @Chenaiandchenea01
    @Chenaiandchenea01 Рік тому +4

    Nice haircut 😍glad you’re back!

  • @Lightworkersforjesus
    @Lightworkersforjesus 7 місяців тому +2

    I'm a Pisces/Aries cusp I never thought I would fall for a Virgo. I grew up with a Virgos. My dad and my brother are both Virgos. There was barely any harmony. Then when I had children my oldest son was my most challenging and he is a Virgo. I'm finding this relationship challenging but I don't want to lose him. We have been having conflicts and both of us have said things we regret. It's like we are magnets and we just keep being pulled back toward each other. I glad to hear your point of view. He often tells me that I don't listen. I repeat what he said to him. I try to explain that I need some clarity because I always feel that his statements are vague. He gets upset at me. This affects us when doing a lot of things together as a team. Making plans has been hard. I want to figure out how to navigate this.

  • @VenusianEmpress444
    @VenusianEmpress444 Рік тому +9

    After dating almost 2 years (11.6) my Virgo man finally is looking at things in a different perspective. A perspective outside of himself amd what he thought was right. we have had major change since 😊my patience paying off 😂❤🎉 im a Taurus sun Virgo moon and Virgo Rising

  • @Awe_InMyHead24
    @Awe_InMyHead24 9 місяців тому +1

    Okay; I think I get it. So from an analytical perspective it either is or ain’t. Emotional perspective you have to absorb these different emotions, feel them, understand them, and answer the “Big Why”. And sometimes it can either be painful or euphoric.

  • @tanyaknox5540
    @tanyaknox5540 Рік тому +3

    I'm a Virgo woman in a relationship with a Virgo man. I'm really trying to be patient and hang in here because I love him.😅

  • @glendanesmith
    @glendanesmith Рік тому +4

    Johnathan you look very similar to a guy I used to date and he was a Virgo ♍️ 😂.. I wish I could show you his picture 😂

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  Рік тому +1

      We be looking the same!

    • @Ms1Fields
      @Ms1Fields Рік тому +1

      I swear, the Virgo I flirt with looks similar to him so much when I think about him I accidentally see Johnathan 😮😂

  • @jensta2257
    @jensta2257 Рік тому +5

    I’m kind of confused then, so do Virgos not have emotions or they avoid them because they fear what they may feel?
    I’m a Capricorn and my thing is I feel emotions very heavily, strong and deep that I am actually shy to show them and I feel very stupid showing emotions so I hide them and act cold..
    but now I’m starting to think that’s not quite how virgos feel lol

  • @christophersmith9683
    @christophersmith9683 9 місяців тому +1

    We're very similar to Pisces with that ghosting/running away 🤣 & similar to Scorpio with the trust issues

  • @VenusianEmpress444
    @VenusianEmpress444 Рік тому +5

    I think he is more open now bc i was so patient with understanding him. I do nurture him amd i kno that's why he trusts me....awwwww

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  Рік тому +2

      Realness

    • @kingofall92
      @kingofall92 Рік тому +4

      Yeah we love to be really cared for 😭😭❤️❤️❤️

    • @crystalcormier9376
      @crystalcormier9376 Рік тому

      Yeah sis patience is the key in dealing with the earth signs. When it comes to dealing with virgos and capicorns you gotta have patience with us cause we alot to deal with. Lol. I'm capicorn December 27th 1981 and I'm not easy to deal with I'll be the first to admit. You said two keywords patience and understanding. Much ❤️

  • @spirituallysavage4699
    @spirituallysavage4699 Рік тому +14

    How can you say when a Virgo loves they love for real, when they can only give 30% of their time into a relationship before they start to shut down? If you're always needing to be alone and only giving 30% ...How do you know it's love? Sounds like a person afraid of emotions...easily overwhelmed just because they have to express emotions...

    • @aml8760
      @aml8760 Рік тому +2

      He's giving context to virgo behavior...not saying its right. Listen to understand; not judge.

    • @siphookobama8344
      @siphookobama8344 Рік тому

      @@aml8760 you are right

    • @siphookobama8344
      @siphookobama8344 Рік тому +1

      It's to listen to understand onto the person you are dealing with

  • @blossom902
    @blossom902 Рік тому +4

    Wait, so you saying virgo men will ghost their girlfriend after a the perfect date ? Lol that’s 😮 sad asf 🤣🤣

  • @Lightworkersforjesus
    @Lightworkersforjesus 7 місяців тому +1

    The reason women handle more of the emotional issues with nurturing. Men have the need to distance at times. I biological in nature. Hormones play a big role in this. I wish my Virgo would just say I need a break. He is still in the just walk out and not say anything.

  • @theeladyj
    @theeladyj Рік тому +7

    Im a Leo , currently on and off with a virgo. We fight and make up constantly, i care about him and he cares about me. But its hella difficult dealing with him. I leave him alone sometimes and let him come to me

    • @JonathanRWhitfield
      @JonathanRWhitfield  Рік тому

      I understand that

    • @NeemaSteven328
      @NeemaSteven328 Рік тому

      Im a leo too ! Its the same thing with me 😢i love him but its so difficult . I want to give up

    • @theeladyj
      @theeladyj Рік тому

      @@NeemaSteven328me too🥲🥲 but i know he will chase me

  • @rosagatica6349
    @rosagatica6349 Рік тому

    Maaaaaaan this shiiiit is on point!!!!! My bday is the 13th his is the 14th! 😂😂 omgoodness I wish this video came out last week

  • @Cataleya35Scorpo
    @Cataleya35Scorpo Рік тому +1

    So complicated I’ve been with one for 8 years so exhausting Scorpio woman with a Virgo man

  • @Awe_InMyHead24
    @Awe_InMyHead24 9 місяців тому

    Would you say that is a challenge for Virgo Women too? ( Dealing with Emotions).

  • @jessicajackson2438
    @jessicajackson2438 7 місяців тому

    Ok handsome I see you 🔥🔥 I'm listening but I'm looking also lol ♒

  • @emmaculateobar1354
    @emmaculateobar1354 Рік тому +1

    Baby am a Taurus Sun Sag moon, i have all the patience in the world.. I’mma give you a whole year to figure it out… 5 years if you want more time… Coz me and virgo,, i ain’t leaving you for shii*

    • @Starr0581
      @Starr0581 Рік тому +1

      Same... I'm a Taurus ☀️ Sag 🌝
      I feel u 💯 lol

    • @emmaculateobar1354
      @emmaculateobar1354 Рік тому

      @@Starr0581 Am so glad someone has experienced the Taurus and Virgo bond, Like I literally cry when i have to part ways with a virgo.. feels like part of your heart has been yanked out.

  • @Awe_InMyHead24
    @Awe_InMyHead24 9 місяців тому

    How is one sure about something they have never experienced before?

  • @aml8760
    @aml8760 5 місяців тому

    Al-gooo- rhythm 😊 yesss

  • @Awe_InMyHead24
    @Awe_InMyHead24 9 місяців тому

    Okay, so how can you help a Virgo Man or Men talk about their emotions without making them feel overwhelmed?

  • @kingofall92
    @kingofall92 Рік тому

    As a Virgo man you didn’t even have to explain this long honestly if you don’t see how trying to love you the best way I can in you still say fuck me then it’s good I’ll just try to upgrade 😊 I don’t have to time to explain myself

    • @zuriaarmani
      @zuriaarmani Рік тому +3

      Everyone feels & receives love differently tho.

  • @jessicajackson2438
    @jessicajackson2438 7 місяців тому

    My honey is but I match energy I love and need my space but I give him to same amount of energy he gives me... I have my own life and we're cool big love for him

  • @hutchersoncordelia8079
    @hutchersoncordelia8079 Рік тому +2

    All the Virgo men in my family and I know are sooooo complicated, emotional, and self-centered that it’s exhausting to ME!! Lol!!! They miss out on the fun and enjoyment of people around them.

  • @chiquita-og4ct
    @chiquita-og4ct Рік тому +2

    So, are a lot of Virgo men single or in situationship

  • @lovedlover2667
    @lovedlover2667 Рік тому

    The ice machine sounded like a cheetah

  • @donnajorgensen1564
    @donnajorgensen1564 Рік тому +1

    Otho man try to show no emotions at all. I give up. Life is to short. I have patience. But. It takes too. I feel like if you want me or you don’t stop playing games. !

  • @Awe_InMyHead24
    @Awe_InMyHead24 9 місяців тому

    What does that mean “Mimic twice cut once”?

  • @can272
    @can272 Рік тому

    Algor , rhythm Algor rhythm. , Algorithm. Deeper sounding AL gore on the A and g, then the R in rhythm then focus on the M. , the I. Is like itham 😂 algorerytham 😂 no algorithm

  • @glendanesmith
    @glendanesmith Рік тому

    22:57 is so true ...

  • @christinebruins8751
    @christinebruins8751 Рік тому

    What if that is not true? What if for some it is easy? What if it is easy

  • @vyonnarobinson2329
    @vyonnarobinson2329 Рік тому

    Thank you for your insight
    Do you do one on one sessions ?

  • @Bluj__
    @Bluj__ Рік тому +1

    🖊️📒👀

  • @MasonHeaux
    @MasonHeaux Рік тому +2

    this was a really good video that made me shift my perspective a little bit. Im a taurus sun with water placements (pisces moon & cancer rising + taurus venus) and i sometimes like to shower my virgo with abundance of love cause that’s what comes naturally and sometimes i have to understand that, he shows love and emotions differently than i do. however, i been watching your vids for a hot min, so i apply what i know (from your vids & astrology) to the situation and its really been working in my favor to not overcompensate from a sense of lack & to also be in tune with and aware of my energy and his. 🫶🏽🔥 6mnths in, i think im doing good so far lol.
    also thanks again for the positive message at the end, as well. i definitely needed to hear that! much love!