As a person who just recently got married, you should get a quiet room at your venue! Weddings are chaotic and stressful and you should get a room that you can run away to (briefly) when things get too much!
This is such a good idea. My best friend was so stressed during her wedding, and while there were areas she could go to that were quieter, it was at A Venue, so time was limited and there wasn’t anywhere familiar and quiet to get a good relax in. Luckily a lot of other folks (esp her parents) pitched in to clean up and get everything taken care of as it was winding down so my partner and I (the best them and they of honor respectively) were able to get the new couple out of there, fed on Taco Bell, and to their nice, quiet hotel room without any worries.
I'm a florist and I lit tf up when you said you're gonna do real flowers!!!! Makes my little heart sing!!! This is gonna be a long comment so apologies in advance 🙏🏻 So a few things, wedding flowers can be very very expensive, ESPECIALLY if you specifically want to go sustainable with it. It's definitely possible but for example I'm from the UK so to be sustainable using UK grown flowers is best but they usually cost a ton more, they're more limited (especially per season) and other such issues. So for you guys I guess it would be looking for florists that will only use Canada grown flowers. Not only that but wedding flowers are just expensive in general, trust me I know some of the prices you'll get quoted are insane but we really do charge those insane prices for a reason 😅 the intricacies, time, detail and quality of flowers+work is literally so expensive you have no idea, I have 2 degrees in floristry and the wedding units were the absolute hardest, don't even get me started on actually doing them😭 so the prices are mental yes but SO worth it, honestly for me personally having the biggest budget for flowers at a wedding is so truly worth it because they make any venue so so magical!!! Another thing, I don't know if you or your family plan on arranging any flowers by yourselves but I actually recommend against it, especially since you want to be sustainable and are already making your dress and such!! Flowers are typically all done the day and night prior to wedding and the day of the wedding due to needing to have them at a specifc state of Bloom and freshness etc. And that will put a lot of pressure on members of a wedding party, trust me all the florists I know won't even do their own flowers because the time and stress is like crazy overwhelming! Especially because you then have to do all the set by yourself too like....gives me shivers thinking about it😭 it also could cost you a lot more bc if anyone isn't professional it's way easier to make mistakes and snap stems or things to turn out looking a bit off so then you have to remake it but then you're risking the flowers integrity, it's a whole thing, and then the sustainability of wasting flowers and packaging and such,, it's a logistical nightmare 😅 but if it's something you or your family really truly want to do then definitely go for it! Its your big day after all! I just think it's important to know good and well what you're getting into🥲 Also about tulips!!! Amazing choice firstly, one of my fave flowers ever and I'm a HUGE fan of tulips at weddings! So tulips will often be wired for integretity but those wires aren't biodegradable so that's something to keep in mind, but not using wires will mean your tulips are a lot harder to keep in specific positions, and remember tulips just keep growing so if you were to do your flowers yourselves you'll likely have to touch your tulips up like right before the wedding bc they'll likely have grown and moved out of place a bit :') also there's this gorgeous thing you can do either tulips called flexing (or reflexing) where you gently bend the petals outwards, so like the petals flip direction and open up and it looks like completely different flower but it's absolutely GORGEOUS, one of the reasons I love tulips so much 🩷 Also yes I agree big time, faux flowers are a huge waste and nowhere near as pretty but like you said, you can't rent silk flowers for weddings and even silk flower petals! So if you wanted like rose petals down the aisle but don't wanna spend hundreds on real ones then renting some silk ones is always a good shout imo! :] Also there are some absolutely stunning types of floral arrangements out there, don't be afraid to really dig deep and search because there are some less common, truly unique and beautiful types of arrangements out there and it's always worth exploring because you can get some gorgeous non traditional pieces that really make your wedding stand out and feel magical! Okay I think that's everything I wanted to say, I love flowers so much and floristry is such a deep passion I just had to freak out a bit when you mentioned flowers bc wedding floristry is some of my fave 🫶🏼 congrats to you both and I'm so so excited to follow your journey !!!
I really appreciate Stevie's take on the husband/wife/spouse thing. Just because words have been gendered historically doesn't mean they must always have the same gendered implication or meaning, to everyone who uses them. Being okay with certain traditionally gendered language as a non-binary person doesn't undermine or invalidate your experience, in the same way that pronouns and presentation don't equate to gender identity, etc. ❤
oh same...their take was a Good one, it makes sense. words are what you need them to be! i have a sweet beautiful husband and i love being his wife bc i like that title - it's cute! but other words are fun too. my gender's whatever the hell i want it to be! also personally i love the word "partner" more than something like "spouse" bc it makes me feel like a fruity little cowboy LMAO
Re: sustainability and dresses for the wedding party: basically every bridesmaid dress ever ends up on the secondhand market, lol, so I’m sure you’ll be fine
I feel Stevie so deeply on the no religion boundary. That's a huge thing for me too and I'm glad you all are comfortable to say that is a boundary and not suffer in silence.
I love the idea of maybe crafting together with your bridal party accessories like jewelry or something, that way the hand made craft element is still there but it's not all on you, and your friends get to make what fits them best! 👀🧡
@@Pixielocks Im just watching the video and I’m invested and stuff but I can’t stop laughing at Jennifer in the back. The EYE staring at me through the screen
All my siblings had confetti that was dried flower petals from my parents’ garden, which I love. I would like silk flowers for mine, or maybe Lego bouquets that guests could take as souvenirs.
The part talking about Stevie taking Pixie's surname is so real If my partner and I get married (I'm female, he's male) we've agreed that he'll take mine cuz it just sounds way better lmao Dude's surname is like a generic white man's first name
My husband proposed to me but when we got the paperwork done (it took some time until we actually got to planning) I proposed to him in the hall of the citizen office on the stairs and asked him if he still was down for the wedding after all those years. He cried, I cried - it was cute. (I am nonbinary, he’s a very soft cis man)
25:15 YEAH STEVIE - I KNOW HAHAHA I had to be SO CALM when you told me you were soooo slick with it and here I am VIBRATING because I knew already 😂😂 but I hyped you up as a GOOD FRIEND should 😂 I love yous LOL
I'm sure there's a ton of extra crafty DIY plans you already have for your wedding, but may I suggest crochet or felt flowers as some additional faux flower options? 🥺👉👈 they're way more sustainable than the plastic ones from the craft stores and would be such a cute way to incorporate more textile arts into your wedding decorations, plus they'd be great little home decor pieces afterwards!
Hey just to say that the Pandemic isn't over, a lot of people are dying every day and a lot of people know people that are getting sick or still permenantly disabled from covid like my friends mama and still can't leave the house because covid is very much a real issue I know so many people that have caught it in the past month, so yeah. not over :(
I replied to another comment saying this- I totally just worded my sentence poorly 😭 Was referring to the quarantine itself, I should have said lockdown or quarantine not “pandemic”. I have a lot of disabled friends and am super aware that things are still very scary out there 🥺🫡
AT 10:53 HAVE JUST HAD TO BUST INTO THE OFFICE TO YELL TO MY CIVIL PARTNER 'WE HAVE TO SUE.' BC THEY (my malewife) HAD BEEN CALLING ME THEIR WUSBAND FOR LIKE 3 YEARS. /lh but oh my god 😭😭😭😭😭😭 big big congratulations from a fellow wusband i guess......
28:39 the pony autism coming out of me her name officially is DJ-P0N3 but the fans call her Vinyl Scratch, I don't believe we ever hear her name in show but Hasbro only calls her DJ-P0N3 in merch sorry I love ponies xx
I definitely get the pastel goth vibes with you too, it might be a good combo of both of the aesthetics? Like absolutely include all of the pastel rainbows with a dash (or two) of blacks! I'm sure it'll be the wedding of the century no matter how you both theme it! 🌈💞
Stevie talking about their planning for the proposal and accommodating your preferences was so sweet! (I also agree that it shouldn’t be a total surprise lol!) Im so happy for you two!
AHHHHH YAAASSS QUEEN you got this up so fast! We truly do lovveee a good Stevie Feature on the track ✨ the commitment you both have to authenticity, honesty, and communication with each other (as well as privacy!) is so genuinely inspiring, and I hope this sets a good example for people about what posting about your relationship online can look like when you’re a content creator on social media and your partner isn’t. I feel like a lot of people tend to accidently monetize their relationships because it really streamlines the parasocial relationships with followers, so it’s really nice that Stevie only comes on when they want to, and that they suggested this video!
You guys are just so stinking cute and made for each other . I’m so happy for you and I’m so happy you found each other in this crazy world I didn’t meet my soul mate till I was 37 after years of searching . I hope you have the wedding and the life of you’re dreams and live a long and happy life together xx
10:35 "what would that make you to me?" *YES* okay but as a nonbinary trans masc person this is kind of GOALS Except I rather HAVE a wife than BE a wife I rather be called "beastie" like in sleeping beauty or beast /beauty and the beast than " wife" But I'd love being called someone's husband, signifigant other, s.o, their partner, partner, ther half, dove etc etc just not fem stuff as for as of right now that frightens me when people use default womanly titles for me I rather come across nonbinary or just plain man lol Excuse my ramblings I just really liked the question discussion
I am getting married in July, I’m the bride and I’m having a dude of honour and my fiancé has a groomswoman. We are having a handfasting too! Edited to add I am also making my own dress and the pain of future husband not seeing it before the wedding is real
If you plan your wedding in the summer then you could plan a bunch of tulips before so that you can cut them to use. My aunt did this for my cousins wedding. I think she planted almost 300. It was beautiful.
so excited for you both but so jarred and surprised to hear pixie casually say “the pandemic is over” :( pandemics aren’t over until everyone is able to exist in public safely and disease is mitigated! really expected pixie to be more tapped into health/disability justice than this. unsure what resources are available in canada but encourage you to look into the information dispensed by your local covid and disability organizers!
I think it’s as over as it can be. As I’m sure you know, there’s no way for everyone to exist safely in public. In an ideal world, yes, but in the world we live in? No not at all. The government and general public don’t care enough about the disabled community to make any good serious changes. Since people are no longer dying in the 100s of thousands and can go outside and take a vaccine for Covid, it as a pandemic is over.
Thank you :-( I stopped watching after that comment. I encourage pixie (and anyone reading this) to talk with covid conscious loved ones and reach out to their local disability/covid organizing groups. High quality masks save lives. I love pixie and Stevie and am very happy for them ♡
A friend was planning her wedding years ago, I was going to be a bridesmaid and our other best female friend, my partner for the wedding in a suit because she is a lesbian that loves vintage suits. And everyone was perfectly ok with that. The wedding never happened, though, because the groom turned out to be one of those guys that thinks that "everything" is going to change once they got married. (Kids, etc.) My friend was NOT ok with that so she called everything off.
This was all so exciting and fun to listen to 😊 very happy for you! I'm always surprised when people discuss taking the other spouse's name because in Quebec we just aren't allowed to do it, so it was never a conversation I needed to have with my husband 😅
Thank you two for the smiles this video gave me. I am so so happy for you guys and true love is alive, well, and in the room with you two actually! Sending love ❤
I’m still so so happy for you both. And totally understand not wanting an internet presence, I love seeing Stevie in the videos but their feelings and privacy are way more important.
23:50 Talking about the wedding party, my best friend had her bridesmaids & bridesmate, so there were mixed genders for her side, and at least half of us were queer. I've also had other friends who had groom's men & groom's gals. I'm sure there's a Non-binary term that could easily be applied in this situation
On the topic of oomfies being at the wedding, my partner was invited to a wedding for a streamer that he mods for a few years ago. It was kind of cool that we got to meet internet friends. Not that I knew anyone but my partner. 😂 But it was really cool and a super non-traditional wedding as both the bride and groom met playing video games online.
25:42 had to pause cry laughing break Oh god... pfff lol Yoy guys are so cute why am I always physically ill in some way when yoy guys make me laugh 😭😂 Context: I messed up my throat in my sleep and it's all scratchy so it hurts to laugh to hard /breath to much
I LOVE YOU GUYS IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU IVE BEEN WATCHING SINCE MIDDLE SCHOOL AMD NOW IM ALMOST 20 AND SCARED I LOVE YOU PIXIE CONGRATULATIONS YOU DESERVE THE JUICIEST BERRIES FROM EVERY ISLAND
Surprise!✨ You do have a Christian follower😂 - and I’ve been watching for years☺️ tbh, it does makes my heart sad to hear your opposition to God when He loves you so much, but it’s your decision. Congratulations on the engagement😊 I’m so happy for you and wish you all the best!💕
Awh I’m sorry 😭 Stevie jokes about it pretty loosely because of their family and experiences but we have Christian friends and have nothing but love for you also 🥺🩷
@@Pixielocks Oh don't worry! That's sweet of you to say, but I'm not offended at all😉💕I'm just saying you're missing out😜, having a relationship with God is wonderful and He has so much peace, love, and freedom He wants to give you - but again it's your decision. I'm so sorry that it sounds like people have misrepresented God's love to you both, its such an horrible thing and that hurt is real. Thank you responding, I feel so honored!🥰 And know I regularly keep you in my prayers with all your health struggles💕 It makes me so sad that you've had to deal with such hard things, but I'm thankful that things have been better!
You guys look like the 2 houses meme
SO TRUE
Having seen the two houses in real life, yes
As a person who just recently got married, you should get a quiet room at your venue! Weddings are chaotic and stressful and you should get a room that you can run away to (briefly) when things get too much!
Yesssss I was chatting w Stevie about having a room or two in the cottage for exactly that 🥺💗
def! i had a basement quiet room at mine with a super nintendo, it was a hit!
This is such a good idea. My best friend was so stressed during her wedding, and while there were areas she could go to that were quieter, it was at A Venue, so time was limited and there wasn’t anywhere familiar and quiet to get a good relax in.
Luckily a lot of other folks (esp her parents) pitched in to clean up and get everything taken care of as it was winding down so my partner and I (the best them and they of honor respectively) were able to get the new couple out of there, fed on Taco Bell, and to their nice, quiet hotel room without any worries.
"For some reason in my memory, I'm marrying the vacuum cleaner"
-Pixielocks 2024
"I've been looking at PANTONES!" I've never related to Pixie more
I'm a florist and I lit tf up when you said you're gonna do real flowers!!!! Makes my little heart sing!!! This is gonna be a long comment so apologies in advance 🙏🏻
So a few things, wedding flowers can be very very expensive, ESPECIALLY if you specifically want to go sustainable with it. It's definitely possible but for example I'm from the UK so to be sustainable using UK grown flowers is best but they usually cost a ton more, they're more limited (especially per season) and other such issues. So for you guys I guess it would be looking for florists that will only use Canada grown flowers. Not only that but wedding flowers are just expensive in general, trust me I know some of the prices you'll get quoted are insane but we really do charge those insane prices for a reason 😅 the intricacies, time, detail and quality of flowers+work is literally so expensive you have no idea, I have 2 degrees in floristry and the wedding units were the absolute hardest, don't even get me started on actually doing them😭 so the prices are mental yes but SO worth it, honestly for me personally having the biggest budget for flowers at a wedding is so truly worth it because they make any venue so so magical!!!
Another thing, I don't know if you or your family plan on arranging any flowers by yourselves but I actually recommend against it, especially since you want to be sustainable and are already making your dress and such!! Flowers are typically all done the day and night prior to wedding and the day of the wedding due to needing to have them at a specifc state of Bloom and freshness etc. And that will put a lot of pressure on members of a wedding party, trust me all the florists I know won't even do their own flowers because the time and stress is like crazy overwhelming! Especially because you then have to do all the set by yourself too like....gives me shivers thinking about it😭 it also could cost you a lot more bc if anyone isn't professional it's way easier to make mistakes and snap stems or things to turn out looking a bit off so then you have to remake it but then you're risking the flowers integrity, it's a whole thing, and then the sustainability of wasting flowers and packaging and such,, it's a logistical nightmare 😅 but if it's something you or your family really truly want to do then definitely go for it! Its your big day after all! I just think it's important to know good and well what you're getting into🥲
Also about tulips!!! Amazing choice firstly, one of my fave flowers ever and I'm a HUGE fan of tulips at weddings! So tulips will often be wired for integretity but those wires aren't biodegradable so that's something to keep in mind, but not using wires will mean your tulips are a lot harder to keep in specific positions, and remember tulips just keep growing so if you were to do your flowers yourselves you'll likely have to touch your tulips up like right before the wedding bc they'll likely have grown and moved out of place a bit :') also there's this gorgeous thing you can do either tulips called flexing (or reflexing) where you gently bend the petals outwards, so like the petals flip direction and open up and it looks like completely different flower but it's absolutely GORGEOUS, one of the reasons I love tulips so much 🩷
Also yes I agree big time, faux flowers are a huge waste and nowhere near as pretty but like you said, you can't rent silk flowers for weddings and even silk flower petals! So if you wanted like rose petals down the aisle but don't wanna spend hundreds on real ones then renting some silk ones is always a good shout imo! :]
Also there are some absolutely stunning types of floral arrangements out there, don't be afraid to really dig deep and search because there are some less common, truly unique and beautiful types of arrangements out there and it's always worth exploring because you can get some gorgeous non traditional pieces that really make your wedding stand out and feel magical!
Okay I think that's everything I wanted to say, I love flowers so much and floristry is such a deep passion I just had to freak out a bit when you mentioned flowers bc wedding floristry is some of my fave 🫶🏼 congrats to you both and I'm so so excited to follow your journey !!!
So many typos, apologies 🙏🏻
I really appreciate Stevie's take on the husband/wife/spouse thing. Just because words have been gendered historically doesn't mean they must always have the same gendered implication or meaning, to everyone who uses them. Being okay with certain traditionally gendered language as a non-binary person doesn't undermine or invalidate your experience, in the same way that pronouns and presentation don't equate to gender identity, etc. ❤
oh same...their take was a Good one, it makes sense. words are what you need them to be! i have a sweet beautiful husband and i love being his wife bc i like that title - it's cute! but other words are fun too. my gender's whatever the hell i want it to be! also personally i love the word "partner" more than something like "spouse" bc it makes me feel like a fruity little cowboy LMAO
@@muckpuppyhe*
NOT STEVIE BEING THE SEASONING LOLL (fr tho that was a hilarious metaphor)
the way pixie lights up around stevie & talking about the wedding makes my heart so happy🥹🩷 i’m so happy for you guys
I did dried flowers as confetti! We used dried lavender and rose petals for the send off and it was really sweet.
Omg!!!!!!!! Okay this might be the best idea! 🥺🎉
19:02 SCREAMING AT PIXIES SMILE LMAOOO y'all are so sweet
Stevie Vessey does sound like a super star name
Re: sustainability and dresses for the wedding party: basically every bridesmaid dress ever ends up on the secondhand market, lol, so I’m sure you’ll be fine
Omg wait ur smart
a lot of my bridesmaids got their dresses second hand 🩷
Can you have a rehearsal wedding in animal crossing for livestream?
Aw you guys, this is like watching a vlog by Reese and Cyrus from animal crossing lmao
HEHE
stevie saying everyone should just let their freak out made me SNORT LMFAO
I feel Stevie so deeply on the no religion boundary. That's a huge thing for me too and I'm glad you all are comfortable to say that is a boundary and not suffer in silence.
The face Pixie made when you essentially gave them full creative control over the wedding 😂
Him*
I thought “spouse” was kind of a meh word until my husband started greeting me by saying, “My spouse, my house!” I’m the home of his heart. 😍🤢😂
Jillian Clark sounds like an explorer from the like 1700s 😂😂😂
I love the idea of maybe crafting together with your bridal party accessories like jewelry or something, that way the hand made craft element is still there but it's not all on you, and your friends get to make what fits them best! 👀🧡
A huge congrats to you both! But as side note I must ask...JENNIFER ARE YOU OK DEAR
LMAO I took her apart to wash and restuff her and I have been putting off finishing it for like months for no reason 😭😭😭
@@Pixielocks Im just watching the video and I’m invested and stuff but I can’t stop laughing at Jennifer in the back. The EYE staring at me through the screen
All my siblings had confetti that was dried flower petals from my parents’ garden, which I love. I would like silk flowers for mine, or maybe Lego bouquets that guests could take as souvenirs.
The part talking about Stevie taking Pixie's surname is so real
If my partner and I get married (I'm female, he's male) we've agreed that he'll take mine cuz it just sounds way better lmao
Dude's surname is like a generic white man's first name
Wait, GIANT PEEP HAS IT’S FLUFF GUTS HANGING OUT!! 😱 Please give giant Peep a healing smooch 💖
i was so distracted the whole time over it too 😢😅.
My husband proposed to me but when we got the paperwork done (it took some time until we actually got to planning) I proposed to him in the hall of the citizen office on the stairs and asked him if he still was down for the wedding after all those years. He cried, I cried - it was cute. (I am nonbinary, he’s a very soft cis man)
25:15 YEAH STEVIE - I KNOW HAHAHA I had to be SO CALM when you told me you were soooo slick with it and here I am VIBRATING because I knew already 😂😂 but I hyped you up as a GOOD FRIEND should 😂 I love yous LOL
I'm sure there's a ton of extra crafty DIY plans you already have for your wedding, but may I suggest crochet or felt flowers as some additional faux flower options? 🥺👉👈 they're way more sustainable than the plastic ones from the craft stores and would be such a cute way to incorporate more textile arts into your wedding decorations, plus they'd be great little home decor pieces afterwards!
Hey just to say that the Pandemic isn't over, a lot of people are dying every day and a lot of people know people that are getting sick or still permenantly disabled from covid like my friends mama and still can't leave the house because covid is very much a real issue I know so many people that have caught it in the past month, so yeah. not over :(
yep. i was looking for this comment. let’s not normalize a deadly and disabling virus and act like it’s not happening anymore.
I replied to another comment saying this- I totally just worded my sentence poorly 😭 Was referring to the quarantine itself, I should have said lockdown or quarantine not “pandemic”. I have a lot of disabled friends and am super aware that things are still very scary out there 🥺🫡
It’s is over ppl die everyday from everything let ppl live their life and enjoy life and big moments
@@Pixielocksyou said nothing wrong
“Just have your dream wedding baby” 🤣🤣🤩 love you together! Congrats again 🥰🥰🥰
AT 10:53 HAVE JUST HAD TO BUST INTO THE OFFICE TO YELL TO MY CIVIL PARTNER 'WE HAVE TO SUE.' BC THEY (my malewife) HAD BEEN CALLING ME THEIR WUSBAND FOR LIKE 3 YEARS. /lh but oh my god 😭😭😭😭😭😭 big big congratulations from a fellow wusband i guess......
THE GRINCH SMILE SIDE BY SIDE HAD ME ROLLING
28:39 the pony autism coming out of me her name officially is DJ-P0N3 but the fans call her Vinyl Scratch, I don't believe we ever hear her name in show but Hasbro only calls her DJ-P0N3 in merch
sorry I love ponies xx
Omg thank you for the correction!!!!!! 🫡💕💕💕💕
Not at all to minimize the work & care the goes into relationships, but oh my gosh y'all are couple goals.
"I think everyone should just let their freak out" absolutely sent me
“I’ve been looking at PANTONES :D” killed me that was so cute
"autism wedding" that sounds like such a fun time i wanna play on my ds in the corner while listening to whatever wedding happenings are going on
The way Stevie fully just crashed into the couch when Pixie brought up the fact that they asked for her ring size 😂
21:30 Stevie following Pixie’s had with their eyes 😭🤣🤣
PIXIE YOU CAN COLLECT LEAVES AND MAKE CONFETTI OUT OF LEAVES AND MAYBE EVEN FLOWER PETALS IT WILL BE SO CUTE OKAY THANKS BYE
Please look up pastel goth wedding stuff and I feel like it would it would help make the perfect wedding color theme. To make it both of you.
I definitely get the pastel goth vibes with you too, it might be a good combo of both of the aesthetics? Like absolutely include all of the pastel rainbows with a dash (or two) of blacks! I'm sure it'll be the wedding of the century no matter how you both theme it! 🌈💞
im so fucking happy for you guys 😭
having recently lost my partner, it is very comforting to watch you both be so in love and talking about the wedding :]
I'm so sorry for your loss
So sorry for your loss. I hope you have ample space and time to grieve. Sending you love, take care
My lesbian boss at my old job called people's spouces their honey or sweetie and i think thats adorable.
Stevie talking about their planning for the proposal and accommodating your preferences was so sweet! (I also agree that it shouldn’t be a total surprise lol!) Im so happy for you two!
we neeeeeed wedding planning and everything videos please i’m also getting married!!!! in late 2025
You guys are just so adorable together. I’m so so so so happy for you. Congratulations and million times lol. Super excited for future videos.
AHHHHH YAAASSS QUEEN you got this up so fast! We truly do lovveee a good Stevie Feature on the track ✨ the commitment you both have to authenticity, honesty, and communication with each other (as well as privacy!) is so genuinely inspiring, and I hope this sets a good example for people about what posting about your relationship online can look like when you’re a content creator on social media and your partner isn’t. I feel like a lot of people tend to accidently monetize their relationships because it really streamlines the parasocial relationships with followers, so it’s really nice that Stevie only comes on when they want to, and that they suggested this video!
24:34 HELP I HEAR THE SHRIMP FROM SHARK TALES AHH ILYSM 😂🌈💖
You guys are just so stinking cute and made for each other . I’m so happy for you and I’m so happy you found each other in this crazy world I didn’t meet my soul mate till I was 37 after years of searching . I hope you have the wedding and the life of you’re dreams and live a long and happy life together xx
Instead of throwing rice or confetti (not great for the critters) you could have your guest throw like herbs and babies breath :)
10:35 "what would that make you to me?"
*YES*
okay but as a nonbinary trans masc person this is kind of GOALS
Except I rather HAVE a wife than BE a wife
I rather be called "beastie" like in sleeping beauty or beast /beauty and the beast than " wife"
But I'd love being called someone's husband, signifigant other, s.o, their partner, partner, ther half, dove etc etc just not fem stuff as for as of right now that frightens me when people use default womanly titles for me
I rather come across nonbinary or just plain man lol
Excuse my ramblings I just really liked the question discussion
I like your brown hair, Stevie.
I am getting married in July, I’m the bride and I’m having a dude of honour and my fiancé has a groomswoman. We are having a handfasting too! Edited to add I am also making my own dress and the pain of future husband not seeing it before the wedding is real
I use the faux flowers from my wedding as home decor :D
If you plan your wedding in the summer then you could plan a bunch of tulips before so that you can cut them to use. My aunt did this for my cousins wedding. I think she planted almost 300. It was beautiful.
BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE
so excited for you both but so jarred and surprised to hear pixie casually say “the pandemic is over” :( pandemics aren’t over until everyone is able to exist in public safely and disease is mitigated! really expected pixie to be more tapped into health/disability justice than this. unsure what resources are available in canada but encourage you to look into the information dispensed by your local covid and disability organizers!
Girl shut up omg lmao
I think it’s as over as it can be. As I’m sure you know, there’s no way for everyone to exist safely in public. In an ideal world, yes, but in the world we live in? No not at all. The government and general public don’t care enough about the disabled community to make any good serious changes.
Since people are no longer dying in the 100s of thousands and can go outside and take a vaccine for Covid, it as a pandemic is over.
Thank you :-( I stopped watching after that comment. I encourage pixie (and anyone reading this) to talk with covid conscious loved ones and reach out to their local disability/covid organizing groups. High quality masks save lives.
I love pixie and Stevie and am very happy for them ♡
it's over for them and that's what pixie meant obviously
@@molls127 right? like...
whoo im so early! so happy for you both!!
The world *does* want more stevie
I’m in love with how in love you guys are with each other 😭🥹💖🌈✨
SO EXCITED TO SEE MORE VIDEOS ABOUT THE ENGAGEMENT/WEDDING!! Y'all are literally perfect together, the vision of love itself 🥳💞
This vid is cute but like JENNIFERS GUTS ARE HANGING OUT LIKE CALL THE AMBULANCE???
A friend was planning her wedding years ago, I was going to be a bridesmaid and our other best female friend, my partner for the wedding in a suit because she is a lesbian that loves vintage suits. And everyone was perfectly ok with that. The wedding never happened, though, because the groom turned out to be one of those guys that thinks that "everything" is going to change once they got married. (Kids, etc.) My friend was NOT ok with that so she called everything off.
lol the fact that you kept referencing Smosh with Detective Where'smycoffee!! :)
This was all so exciting and fun to listen to 😊 very happy for you!
I'm always surprised when people discuss taking the other spouse's name because in Quebec we just aren't allowed to do it, so it was never a conversation I needed to have with my husband 😅
Thank you two for the smiles this video gave me. I am so so happy for you guys and true love is alive, well, and in the room with you two actually! Sending love ❤
i veryyy rarely comment but i have been watching you since your lolita days and i am just so happy for you
Is this just a video diary where we watch Pixie fall in love with Stevie all over again? 🖤🩷
He gives dark academia vibes to me and pixie gives pastel cottage core
I’m still so so happy for you both. And totally understand not wanting an internet presence, I love seeing Stevie in the videos but their feelings and privacy are way more important.
Stevie “The Garnish” Vessey
6:39 I wasn't looking because I was rolling and I dropped the fully opened grinder lmfaoooo
Awe this makes my heart sing for you both! Congrats!
Definitely use real flowers, some companies can preserve wedding bouquets into art work you can keep forever! ✨ 💐
23:50 Talking about the wedding party, my best friend had her bridesmaids & bridesmate, so there were mixed genders for her side, and at least half of us were queer.
I've also had other friends who had groom's men & groom's gals.
I'm sure there's a Non-binary term that could easily be applied in this situation
U both are sooo cute, I love to listen your conversations!! 💜💖💜
I always find husband so severe sounding. Let me as an Aussie gift you our abbreviation, hubby ❤ Sounds a lil more affectionate, maybe an option x
So happy for you guys because you seem very happy together and like true partners. Wish you all the best, now and in the future.
dying of laughter when you made that scary sound 😂
Your Grinch face reaction took me out! 😂
OMG DETECTIVE WHERES MY COFFEE REFERENCE AHHHHHH
In one of my loved one's weddings, we used dried flower petals as confetti :3
Stevie is the friggin CUTEST! Congrats!
Ummm unrelated but is Jennifer okay???
ITS LIKE MOUSE AND SPORE
On the topic of oomfies being at the wedding, my partner was invited to a wedding for a streamer that he mods for a few years ago. It was kind of cool that we got to meet internet friends. Not that I knew anyone but my partner. 😂 But it was really cool and a super non-traditional wedding as both the bride and groom met playing video games online.
Steve’s brain is melting ❤❤😂❤❤
Stevie Vessey is hella bouncy 🤌
25:42 had to pause cry laughing break
Oh god... pfff lol
Yoy guys are so cute why am I always physically ill in some way when yoy guys make me laugh 😭😂
Context: I messed up my throat in my sleep and it's all scratchy so it hurts to laugh to hard /breath to much
I'm obsessed w stevies hair 🤩🤩🤩🤩
I LOVE YOU GUYS IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU IVE BEEN WATCHING SINCE MIDDLE SCHOOL AMD NOW IM ALMOST 20 AND SCARED I LOVE YOU PIXIE CONGRATULATIONS YOU DESERVE THE JUICIEST BERRIES FROM EVERY ISLAND
I asked about last names on Twitter! Thanks for answering! Very excited to see all the updates to come 😊
this is the cutest video i’ve ever seen in my life
u guys are so cute 😭💕💕💕💕
You two warm my heart 🥰
Surprise!✨ You do have a Christian follower😂 - and I’ve been watching for years☺️ tbh, it does makes my heart sad to hear your opposition to God when He loves you so much, but it’s your decision. Congratulations on the engagement😊 I’m so happy for you and wish you all the best!💕
Awh I’m sorry 😭 Stevie jokes about it pretty loosely because of their family and experiences but we have Christian friends and have nothing but love for you also 🥺🩷
@@Pixielocks Oh don't worry! That's sweet of you to say, but I'm not offended at all😉💕I'm just saying you're missing out😜, having a relationship with God is wonderful and He has so much peace, love, and freedom He wants to give you - but again it's your decision. I'm so sorry that it sounds like people have misrepresented God's love to you both, its such an horrible thing and that hurt is real. Thank you responding, I feel so honored!🥰 And know I regularly keep you in my prayers with all your health struggles💕 It makes me so sad that you've had to deal with such hard things, but I'm thankful that things have been better!
The Grinch side by side 😂
It depends on where you are. If there's something near you but you can rent faux flowers