*Whoever reading this comment may you stay blessed with your lovely family & may you be protected from every disease and may your all dreams come true I work hard for my village food channel and if you will support me I will be happy*
Thank you for asking a Imam about this 👍 In the future when you have any questions you should rather ask an Imam instead of asking muslim friends :) You‘re doing great as a muslim 👏😊
"Islam is a perfectly complete teachings. Islam gives you rules. But it's up to you to follow it. It's your responsibility" This is soooooo wise. Big respect to Imam Abdullah Al Khory. Jaazzakallahu khairan imam Abdullah Al Khory This is informative content. May people get benefits from this. Thankyou brother Daud for uploading this content
I am 33 and single since born... Of course i feel jealous when my friends have boyfriend.. Until one day my friend said to me 'its okay.. At least you safe from sin of couple' This was said from my good friend of mine.. I mean she is good in practising Islam but still did wrong when she's dating.. I feel like Allah really loves me and He wants to protect me.. That's why I am still single.
@@foreverrocks7989 How is she lazy? Because she's single? Is every single person lazy? Soulmates and life partners are arranged by the Almighty Himself, not us. Also it's better to be single than in a bad relationship that drags both partners down
@@aishahshamsul8642 Ok. First of all it's her I commented on. Why do you care? She can ask for herself. If she asks me then I will answer why. Secondly I don't get this trend to get offended for others. I think she has backbone to ask for herself or she don't care enough for answer which is also fine. But I am definitely not answerable to you..
I like your way of thinking Daud because you aren't afraid to ask and don't feel embarrassed for not knowing meaning you don't have false barriers blocking you from learning
This was my comment from the previous dating video. Looks like I said the same words as the imam. Alhamdulilah. In my opinion, "Dating" is fine if you are sincerely considering marrying that person. It is not okay to date if you are thinking of not even marrying that person. Dating in Islam means: 1. Invite the person to parent's house first. This has to always be first. 2. Zero skinship (no kiss, hug, sleep together) 3. Never alone with the opposite gender (family member of the girl is there with them) Sahih hadith is below on man and woman that are not married being alone together “No man is alone with a woman but the shaytaan is the third one present.” [Narrated by Ahmad, al-Tirmidhi and al-Haakim; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’ (2546)
@seek mogol Who told you that? It's not true, I'm really shocked. I am a Muslim since I was born and have never heard of this before. Please correct your information. (Islam forbids these things that harm people and animals.)
Abdullah : "Women's beauty disappears overtime Her wealth may disappear someday But faith never goes away Anyway in islam,love grows after marriage" Beautiful love is in islam,it's not in drama 대박♡
If a person don't date he or she will be forced by parents to choose the partner in their places the groom or the bride and there is will not be any freedom to choose a more suitable partner which lead to forced marriage to end with a divorce afterwards. This teaching is completely false and it don't support any of the Islamic teachings. I'm Tunisian Muslim women and I did choose my own partner by dating him which is now is my fiancee and that's make me proud of myself 💕😍❤️
@@maryempire1104 I am not dating, I know Allah has prepared a good man for me in Islam there is ta'aruf, we can determine whether a man is good or not through ta'aruf
@@maryempire1104 abdullah "in islam it's called wali first of all can guardian like the father or brother of a women you want to marry you can say to them "i want to marry her" after that,you can go through the necessary procedures for marriage after that,you can talk to her and you can exchange your interests with each other,if your wife's appearance is important tou you ,you can see"
@@am_2966 lmao completely wrong after you marry her everything will change even she is going to change towards you. Without dating you cannot check the real face of a women or of a men. I dated my fiancee and we both didn't fall on Zina or sex before marriage because we both know it's a sin. All dating we done is going out to a restaurants, amusement parks, museums, Cinema, Coffee shops. You are so silly 😂
@@maryempire1104 u sound more silly. U just enjoyed ur time with a man and didnt end up getting married with him. As a muslim, u can only date with the intention of knowing if the person would be right for marriage or not. And that date includes, talking to each other. Getting to know each other more better. Not like going to parks, resturants and cinemas. Bcx in that way u r more close to na mehram. Also, u dont really necessary need to go to CINEMA or PARK to know the person better.
imagine saving all that love for that one single person. There's nothing better than halal love; no jealousy,no toxicity or lust. Just pure love approved by Allah, your family and yourself. Basically sounds peaceful to me. This imam explained it beautifully, huge respect :)
3:29 Actually I gave everyone that same answer in the comment section of the one with the Malaysian. To me that is considered dating. 1. Guy meet the parents of the woman he is interested in. They have dinner together with the parents there. 2. They get to know each other without skinship while having a person from the woman's family with them. 3. Marry or move on and leave the relationship (All 3 steps above is halal according to the imam) To me this is the same as dating but I guess not to the imam?
Learning is a good process to understand islam in depth. Good effort Daud Kim...ask imam when you feel confused. You're so brilliant. Love you brother for the sake of Allah.
@Ozymandias Nullifidian that happen before he becomes muslim. After becoming a muslim he learn the beauty of islam. Islam teach us to forgive and forgiveness. No revenge in any situation. Allah promise will grant paradise/Jannah to both of them if they forgive each other. Dear, I think you should learn islam in depth so that you know how Allah (the Al mighty) love all His servants even if they have committed sins. Allahu Akbar.
@Ozymandias Nullifidian May Allah guide you to the right path. I hope Allah give you taufik and hidayah. Aamiin. I don't want to argue with you. "Assalamu'alaikum" if you are muslim
@The Astronomer how about you do some actual research than reading some article by some random dude. Read the Quran watch the scholars .errors? What errors ? Jesus PBUH was also a prophet just like prophet Muhammad PBUH. Instead of reading articles go and do a bit of research on your own and learn the truth
@@_graiderz2462 there is blessing in every (good) act that starts with bismillah. It also helps us to make sure that what we would do/say is not against Islam, because no one would do bad things while saying 'in the name of Allah', because Allah commands us to only do good :)
If a person don't date he or she will be forced by parents to choose the partner in their places the groom or the bride and there is will not be any freedom to choose a more suitable partner which lead to forced marriage to end with a divorce afterwards. This teaching is completely false and it don't support any of the Islamic teachings. I'm Tunisian Muslim women and I did choose my own partner by dating him which is now is my fiancee and that's make me proud of myself 💕😍❤️
I'm actually an atheist, but i love watching daud's videos, they make me understand a lot about a religion that seems so different. May your god bless you!
Assalamualaikum brother. Can you prove Allah SWT doesn't exist?? The proof is the Qur'an . Before denying just read the glorious Qur'an. This life is a test from Allah SWT. You'll find true guidence and peace insha'Allah.
If you have read the Qur'an without biased thinking then I've nothing to say. You got the message from Allah SWT. You will find guidence insha'Allah. And the burden of proof is on everyone who will benefit from the proof . Again I would love to tell you the proof is the Qur'an. Assalamualaikum.
Have you practiced what you've agreed with the Qur'an or do you think everything in the Qur'an is wrong ? I am not forcing you to believe in Allah swt. I would love to know what logic and reason did you found reading the Qur'an that you believe it is wrong. If you've just read a few pages and saying it is wrong then I would suggest you read the Qur'an in search of guidence . If you do something thinking it is wrong how can you be guided. If you hadn't read the Qur'an fully please complete it then comment brother. Assalamualaikum.
I'm born as a muslim but i don't pray and i don't even know that much about islam as much as he (daud) knows, and i feel really ashamed to call myslef a muslim..but through his channel i've got to learn alot and I'll practicing as well even though I'm already Born a muslim but as i said i don't know anything about it! Thankyou so much daud sir, allah blees you💙
Sister You have chance Learn your religion islam And do good deeds and left bad deeds And ask Allah to forgive you Insha'Allah you will become good person
There is not late in islam as long as you are alive, I am a born Muslim as well my ignorant led me to atheism but Alhamdulillah Allah guided me to islam again 3 years ago, since then I'm learning my religion everyday bcoz now I know what is my purpose of life
Itsn't late, take ur time, the more you approach Allah, Allah approach you twice as more as you♡ and don't let you sins take over you, Allah forgives:)
*my non-muslim frnd once asked me why dating is not allowed in Islam, I couldn’t tell him the proper reason bcz I didn’t know it too, now I'm gonna send him this video..*
Its mainly becoz the possibilty of Zina is high when dating. Vocal interactions literally day-by-day might one day lead to Physical interactions which can push muslim off the boundaries towards biggest sin. So therefore muslims scholars made it Haram.
Not dating is ok, because "Ta'aruf" exists bro.... If you are worried about not sure whether that the girl gonna be a perfect person for you, or someone that is your ideal wife, you can do "Ta'aruf".... Ta'aruf is a process to get to know each other before marriage with the help of the lady's family member, your mentor or imam, so muslims are not blindly marry someone we barely know....I think Ust. Abdullah Al-Khory can explain better if you ask him.... Oh, one word I really want to say is: I'm really proud of you Daud Kim! You are really admirable! Your love of Islam, and your efforts to make others realize how beautiful Islam is really respectable....I wish for you that all of this good deeds of yours gonna make you got a lot of "Pahala" from Allah...aamiin.... Please stay strong, and I wish you to always have a happy life...hope allah to always protect you and your family 😊
It's true, remember taaruf is really important, and the person we choose to be the medium also important, someone we trust, and value us.. so they will carefully examined our future spouse. It happens to my friend, that a man wants to get married with her introduced by her neighbour. All seems ok, until their married, the man like to beat my friend, now they divorced. The man's family hide the truth about their son attitude, and the neighbour also knew about this, but she look down to my friend thinking that she don't deserve a good man anyway. My friend is a really straightforward person, like so kind that people like to bully her. Because of this i hope all women will do the taaruf properly..
taruf is not dating, its a process of knowing the person there is a clear difference between dating and taruf, dating is meeting bw girl and boy only while taruf is between whole families
My sister, the Qur’an, in front of you .. Read Surat Al-Nur .. You will find many instructions for women, including verse 28-31. And Surat al-Ahzab 59 ..Ta'aruf In the presence of the father ... some of the young men whom God guided during the engagement period crosses the red lines and then sees his fiancée as a cheap woman and leaves her. I advise all girls not to go with the guy even during the engagement period
I once want to date somebody so badly in my teenage years. But my father doesn’t allow me til the age of 20. In my high school year, all of a sudden, there’s a lot of articles which said that dating is forbidden in Islam. My family was kind of religious, but we never aware of it til that time. So my father would never allow me and my sister to date. At first, I still want to date. But seeing how most of my friends dating, my mindset changes so drastically. For the one who thinks that dating without never having a sexual activities was posibble, it is indeed posibble, but very very rare! even in a Muslim country like Indonesia. It actually depends on the environment, but most of the people who are in a long time relationship have experienced the actual sex, or at least experience a sexual activities that led to the actual sex. Not to mention, the mental damage that it cause when you actually love somebody too deeply but he/she broke your heart. And the time that will be wasted in a teenage years where we actually could learn the skills and find out what we want to do in our lives. I know for some of you, what I wrote might be too much, but this is just what I see in people who are dating especially in their youth.
@@PrechtGaebolgHades but thats wats wrong too marriages cant be broken easily if ur husband is not someone who he seemed to be (ppl tend to hide alot of tgings their families too) then ur stuvk with thme fr a long time that might actually lead to depression or worse... and in my country a divircee is looked down uoon esp a women so its rally hard everyone i know who has gone through smthng like this end up just hidimg it and just suffer and even if the family knows they dont do anything esp for women becuz they would be a "disgrace" and somethng happend to a distant frnd of mine she was married to a doctor he seemed like a g8 guy i had net him and thought he was a gud man (arranged marriage) but my frnd she suddenly one day called and told me things abt how her husband ia abbusive and she had been suffering from the same thing for 6 yrs and she couldnt take it anymor i was soo angry and i told her to tell her family and leave as soon as possible and get a divorce i knew her family would be angry but i thought if they knew the situation they will understand but she started crying saying she cant and she wont and that she is afraid i was really worried and told her to spend the night with me she came but when i saw her she was as thin as a skeleton and her such big black circles under her eyes i convinvced her to show me her marks and when i saw her body it was so so so gruesome i literally started crying i couldnt stand it and without telling her told her family and they told me that they will handle it but told me not to say a word but nothing changed after 2 months i found out that she had...took ...her own life... i was so angry but the her family never blamed the husband and settled everything quitely ppl for crying and feeling bad for him while they didnt know it was his fault
Salam I am a Muslim. In Islam dating is allowed but with restrictions. It is called halal dating. You can have a boyfriend or girlfriend but you cannot be alone, live with each other alone, have sexual activities or have kids before marriage. Boyfriend and girlfriend is halal with certain restrictions.
Imam Abdullah is truly inspiring! His confidence and faith in Islam is so strong. May Allah bless him in both words with good! Thank you Daud too, May Allah protect you from haram and give deep knowledge in Islam!
Allah is our creator we have to believe him undoubtedly because Allah knows everything what to prohibited and what to not!! Believe him and pray him to go to Jannah!! Inshallah
I swear to God I love this channel. I was going through a difficult time in my life and almost on the verge of losing my faith, that’s when the video of Daud joining Islam popped up and I literally cried because of his words. I was so worried because I always thought I was not a good follower then I realised that Allah is the most merciful and whenever we are on the verge of losing our path...He is always there to help us and guide us. Being a Muslim is the best thing ever and I’m lucky to have been born as a Muslim. I learned so much from this channel
I am a born Muslim but I sometime pray and sometimes don't I still don't know many things about islam but I am learning it. And your videos are helping me alot. I am ashamed that I am not able to maintain the prayer routines but I will try my best. Thank you Daud Kim for encouraging me through your vodeos.
When I was in high school , I couldn’t maintain my prayer , but someday I promised myself to maintain my prayers for one month and after this month I have not lost any prayer:) May Allah help you to find your way!
Honestly, as a Malaysian, this is indeed one of the most difficult things to do as a Muslim. The youths really follow the Western style of dating before marriage. They expect you to get to know your partner 1-5 years by dating before deciding to get married. Anyone who married someone they just knew is seen as weird. If you proposed marriage before dating, you seen as desperate or a weirdo. Even some Muslim Malaysian parents think it's better to date first before deciding to settle down with a partner in marriage. It's really tough! But also, because of this, we see a lot of cases of depression and anxiety among the youths because they go through break ups and broken hearts. We see a lot of late marriages where people date in their 20s and only get married in their 30s and 40s (there are statistics showing Malaysians are getting married later and later in life). We also see a lot of cases of abandoned babies. We also see a lot of viral/high-profile cases of husband and wife cheating on each other. The ummah is torn apart because of this mindset. The ummah is in need of help from Allah. But for Allah to help us, we need to make the changes in ourselves first.
I am Malaysian Muslim. I agree that most of us live only to meet other people expectation. I'm just 20 something and never once I have date anybody but the people around my age except my family always talk about how my friends date and some of them already married because they date from highschool and so on. In the end, I secluded myself from these people. I spend more time with old wise people. Sometimes it is better to create a distance from people that pulled you away from Allah, and Allah will give you better companion for our hardships. Our life partner is Allah's secret. We don't get it when we want it, but we will get it the time we are ready for it.
@F Haque nah, just because one dons a hijab doesn't mean they are religious or know a lot about Islam. Also though many wear hijab, not everyone wears it. Some wear it because they know hijab is important in religion but some wear it because of culture, for the sake of wearing and aesthetics. Also not everyone knows that dating is haram because it has become very normalised. Those who attend religious classes might at least know it is discouraged but those who can't attend religious classes due to various reasons (poverty, lack of access to mosque or something), wouldn't know that dating is not allowed and would see the people around as example. When everyone and anyone (Muslims around them) dates, they might think it is permissible. Even if parents are strict against dating, nowadays people are good at hiding and secretly date. It's so hard honestly and I wish there's a solution to educate people to not date first. P.s: *this applies anywhere. tbh just because a country is a religious/so called Islamic country, doesn't mean everyone is abiding or religious. You can have amazing religious facilities like mosque, surau, madrasah, prayer room in malls etc but in the end, it is the individuals choice on whether they want to make good use of the religious resources available.
@F Haque yeah actually sometimes as an outsider to each others country, you wont really know the situation or environment (since we depend only on online or news) unless we go to the country, experience the environment and observe/interact with the people ourselves to know that some things are actually happening. What you see online that depicts each other's lifestyle or environment in the different countries are very limited and the media choose whether to show only the good sides or the negative sides (therefore resulting in people having extremely positive perception or extremely negative perception of a country/people)
It is not like that brother, sometimes, good men marry bad women and vice versa, the verse you are referring to is not about marrying, it means, good speech comes from good people (men and women) and bad speech comes from bad people.
No its not cuz u know our prophet noh peace on him he used to be a good and and a messenger too but hes wife was a bad women u should think about it again
What Abdullah al-kory said was 10000000000000000000% CORRECT. Alhamdulillah. Plz whatever concerns u HV always try to contact the imam first. Mashallah beautiful explanation
6:20 أثارت إعجابي الجملة: كلما درسته، أصبحت الأمور منطقية أكثر❤ بالمناسبة!: مع انني مسلمة لم أكن أعرف الكثير من المعلومات حول هذا الموضوع لكن الآن توسعت آفاقي👍💗
And also we believe that rather than dating a lot of guys/girls trying to find the real love and the one for us ...we should believe that Allah's choice is always the best for us if we have faith in allah and have a good relationship with Allah he will surely send the perfect match for us when the time is right 😊😊 Nothig good comes from dating that what young ppl in islamic countries should believe nowaday
Just a small side note, when someone else says the prophets first name like “Muhammad” you should also say peace be upon him out loud in English or Arabic. 😁
Alhamdulillah. You are learning from the right source. I didn't even watch that other video bc I had a feeling (since I have lived in Malaysia) that she would not be objective in the matter. But Alhamdulillah you went to the Imam and learned the right way, from Qur'an and Sunnah (and not what people are used to doing, a lot of people doing haram doesn't make it halal). Thank you for making this video
Well the Malaysian girl also said the halal way of dating for marriage near the end. Meet parents. Have dinner with the parents. Meet in public and get to know each other with a family member of the woman. Do this for a couple of months and decide to marry or move on and end this relationship while having zero shinship. It's simple.
Honestly it's so impressive how he explained it very well like a born muslim .... maashaaAllah .. Daud ..u might find it weird at first but when u learn about the bad side of dating u'll find it logic why it's harram ;; thank u for this video and a big thanks to Imam
@@taqdisansari8523 like the Imam said dating will eventually leads to a sexual relation : when the girl gets pregnant (by mistake) she either get an abortion (which is haram is islam because it's considered as killing a living soul) or abandon the newborn baby !! so the kid won't know his origins (what if he marries a girl who turns out to be his sis !!) (without forgetting the diseases which r sexually transmit) also it might just be having a heartbreak than goes into depression than suicide !!! there's also ppl who gets so obssessed with their partner & keep stalking &threatening them in the name of 'jealousy' .. well there r many examples.. u may say that this could happen even without dating .. that's true .. but not as much as we see those days!! hope i answered ur question
No, beauty never disappears. If you take care of yourself, you will still look good. If you eat 5 dishes of birani everyday, and smoke, ya good luck 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@DiamondsRexpensive what he said was not meant this, he meant after marriage we will used to each other face because thats the nature of human and plus no matter how much you try you will get old one day, thats why they say choosing your partner because of the way they look wont last long. but yeah if i take that as a joke then your right :))))
Penjelasan yang mudah dimengerti, cara yang menuntun. Jadi ketika mendengarkan tidak akan terpaksa dalam menerima penjelasannya. Masya Allah. Bertanya pada imam mengenai hal sensitif sangat bagus😍
اقرأي تفسير الآيه ..قبل ان تضعيها . الآيه ليس لها علاقة بالمواعدة ..و انما نهي عن خطبة المرأة التي تكون في العـدة ..او حتى قـول ذلك بشكل صريح ( اريد خطبة فلانه ) لكن لا مانع من التعريض ، وهو ان يقول احب ان اتزوج واحدة مثل فلانة .. ::::::::: اما في المواعدة قوله تعالى ( و لا تخضعن بالقول فيطمع الذي في قلبه مرض ) و المواعدة و المكالمات الغير مشروعه كلها خضوع ..نسال الله العفو و السلامة . و الآيه التي ذكرها الشيخ في الفيديو أيضا في محلها جزاه الله خير الجزاء .. . و اتمنى ان تحذفي تعليقك لأنه ليس في محله..و قد يضل به غيرك . .
@@alhuzaif9015 "And there is no sin on you if you make a hint of betrothal or conceal it in yourself, Allâh knows that you will remember them, but do not make a promise of contract with them in secret except that you speak an honourable saying according to the Islâmic law.[1] And do not consummate the marriage until the term prescribed is fulfilled. And know that Allâh knows what is in your minds, so fear Him. And know that Allâh is Oft-Forgiving, Most Forbearing" this translation is from Google.
And do not turn a blind eye when you are dating someone. You will definitely try to hide your bad traits and show good deeds. Dating is not a way to know a good partner at all because anyone can show what he wants to show and hide what he wants to hide.
Yes, right. All of her bad attitudes were exposed after marriage, which even led to regret because during the dating he only knew and (maybe) married her because he only knew her good attitude.
Acually, I asked my dad "how can I marry with a guy, dont even know his personality" and he told me that "you think you can know him enough by dating. You cant know someone clearly until you share your life. You cant find the true person by dating. But of course there is a way to know who is true person for you. There are confidential middleman's (like someone say that 'there is a congruous person for you') and of course this middleman should know you and the other person clearly. If you are both serious about getting marry, you can meet at public for know each other. And if both of you dont have bad impressions about each other you can marry." After my dad telling this to me, It sounded very reasonable to me. (My mom and dad also married that way and they are living happily for 17 years Maşallah😅)
There is absolutely nothing wrong with having dates in Islam.... I prefer having dates during Ramadhan. at least 3-4 dates while breaking my fast..... dates are sweet and have good nutritional value....pump up ur blood sugar levels too....
Mashallah...this imam explained the most sensitive and controversial topic in islam in a very detailed and friendly manner...mashallah...i am very satisfied with this video daud...because in the video with sabrina, she gave a very wrong impression about dating in islam and i was very upset with that video...but jazakallah for uploading this video with an imam(the person who knows the most and correct knowledge about islam)...Mashallah
ماشاء على الشيخ والاستاذ عبد الله الكلام معه ممتع ومقنع بارك الله فيك والله يزيد من امثالك . وشكرا لك داوود لأنك تعرفنا على مسلمين كوريا . اختكم من المغرب .
You might haven't seen my message on Instagram ! That's why I sent it ,I told you don't ask common people ask an imam bcz common ppl give you answers from their point of view I mean they give answers as it suits them ,I really appreciate your hardworking in learning Islam more ,I'm proud as well ,may Allah bless you and guide us always the right path Big love and support from Algeria 💙
Finally, we get the right answer from an Islamic scholar, the one whose knowledge is unquestionable, i.e. based on Al Qur'an and As Sunnah. Kudos to Imam Al Kory...
Really like his explanation. He explained from what he had learned. He is a good imam. "Everybody make a mistake, and the best person is to repent their mistake and never do the mistake again".
ماشاءالله تبارك الله لقاء جميل وممتع ومفيد معك ومع الشيخ عبدالله الكوري... حفظكم الله وسددكم وأعانكم ووفقكم وثبتكم ونفع بكم الإسلام والمسلمين.. 06:18 الله أكبر 06:20 الله أكبر والحمدلله.
We want to know a person before getting married but we don't know that person may actually be different from what he or she appears to be. When we date we hide our faults and weaknesses and dream of beautiful life. But after marriage things come out and reality is too horrible 😣. So with agreement of families and elderly persons many decisions are easy, fair and better. And if by chance anything goes wrong after marriage, there are families to intervene and get things right. I heard from sincere old couples that love begins after marriage. Even this way all life is romantic 😍. So, it's better to believe in Allah and the halal resources in all matters because we can be wrong, not Allah!
Actually, it is dumb to marry someone without doing a background check on them, and believing they are good just because they are Muslims. You actually have to sit with the guy or the girl, and understand what kind of person they are, before you are tied to them for LIFE. Because you are marrying them, not your elders. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
@@DiamondsRexpensive Dating and keeping a background check are two totally different things, dear! You are very lucky if you sit with her or him and can learn facts about personality! Sometimes it takes years to find reality and the moment we marry that person, things change the next moment. And finally we run to elders crying out! Better share the responsibility of choosing the right person with your family. You can see that person, talk and share ideas in a suitable environment before taking the decision. Not to trust your humble muscles, man!!!
@@DiamondsRexpensive u miss the whole point. In islam before marriage, u should meet the parent or friend of the one u want to get married and ask them about that person, and know all things that needs to know which is called 'taaruf' And in other simple word it is background check of the person before u marry that person. U cannot date. But u can do background check with their families or friends and getting to know the person better
Abdullah Al-Kory explained everything very clearly and all according to Quran and Sunnah...Maa Shaa Allah....May our youngsters follow the Halal path and make their lives beautiful both in this world and the world hereafter Ameen
I also see it this way: when you date people and break up you kinda feel alone and it becomes like an addiction to date.Then it becomes your weakness.I don't like to give others this oppurtunity abuse me in any kind of way.
Oh, you want her loaded with money? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oops you are probably a woman. Then, you wanna be loaded with money like her and marry someone younger than you and perhaps, spend on him?
@@DiamondsRexpensive أنا لا أعرف كتابة الانجليزي بس أنا بفهم الكتابه أريد أن أقول إنك ترى الأشياء من منظور آخر لأن سيدتنا خديجة رضي الله عنها أعجبت بالرسول عليه الصلاة والسلام بسبب أمانته في العمل وصدقه لا لأنه أصغر منها في السن أو لكي تنفق عليه والرسول عليه الصلاة والسلام لم يتزوجها لأنها غنيه بل كان يحبها حب شديد حتى بعد مماتها ظل وفائه لها وحبه لهذا نريد قصة حب صادقه مثل الرسول عليه الصلاة والسلام وسيدتنا خديجة رضي الله عنها 😊
Imam explained perfectly to many of us about dating and I agree with him that dating is the beginning of the greatest sin. Allah did everything as the best for us 🤲🤲🤲
Salam brother. I am a Muslim. In Islam dating is allowed but with restrictions. It is called halal dating. You can have a boyfriend or girlfriend but you cannot be alone, live with each other alone, have sexual activities or have kids before marriage. Boyfriend and girlfriend is halal with certain restrictions.
Asslam o Alikum.I really like the method of Abdul Al-Kory to explain. he explains all thigs in a very kind way. he is very wise! And his explanation is very easy to understand and very clear! Machaeallah! Please, do more videos with him!! 🌸✨ Indeed Islam is True religion. may ALLAH bless you both. love from Pakistan
When a girl or a boy becomes accustomed to fulfilling her sexual desires without marriage, they lose so much in the mess that no relationship is important to them. Even if they get married, they get divorced quickly because they get tired to each other. That is why divorce is more prevalent in non-muslim and people are suffering from mental conflicts. Depression is found in them very much and the children are also suffering from depression. That's why Islam teaches us a right way to live happy i really love my Islam Allhamdulillah I'm a muslim 🇵🇰🌹
Lmao, right xD In Islam Dating is not haram as long as you don't do Zina or Sex before marriage. I'm a Muslim woman and I dated my ex-fiancee and my ex-boyfriends we did go out to amusement parks, restaurants, and coffee and I did never have the feeling for sexual desire. You are very stupid lol
@@maryempire1104 it's your own opinion ma'am... You can go with him after marriage then Islam has no problem with your opinion... How many girls lost virginity before marriage many boys left them after flirting... Dating is the root where it starts... He gave you reference in the video & you're denying the teaching of our prophet Muhammad pbuh
@@khizarmumtaz8448 Lmao I'm 31 years old Muslim woman and I dated my ex fiancee and my ex boyfriends and I wasn't having any sexual urges. You are very backward extremist. You think only woman that don't have the control over her sexual urges which is very close minded of you.
The imam answer perfectly, yes dating is somehow became trending in Malaysia, but what can I say is back to the Quran and sunnah by follow Islam scholar, not the trending one because only Allah knows the best so that Allah arrange everything nicely and for we as Muslim we should decide what are the best path for our journey ... From 🇲🇾 Malaysian
I didn't know about this and I saw a popular hijabi singer from your country dating several men and I was so baffled she was doing that and no-one was saying a thing.
Do not marry unbelieving women (idolaters), until they believe: A slave woman who believes is better than an unbelieving woman, even though she allures you. Nor marry (your girls) to unbelievers until they believe: A man slave who believes is better than an unbeliever, even though he allures you. Unbelievers do (but) beckon you to the Fire. But Allah beckons by His Grace to the Garden (of bliss) and forgiveness, and makes His Signs clear to mankind: That they may celebrate His praise. (Bakara-221)
In 5:5 it says that Muslim women can't marry anything other than a Muslim man but a Muslim man can marry a Christian or a Jude but of course it's better if it's a Muslim.
Um slave? Im curious sister and brother why is slavery talked in islam when is not allowed? If slavery is not allowed why are there rules for it? Plz help me understand this more!
@@klyhoriomuno4102 At the time when Quran reveals there was a system to have slaves for whole life. so the people of that time and for future can understand.
@@klyhoriomuno4102 it does not mean slavery in arabic that's because english language is not rich of vocabelary to use the exact terme we use the closest terme but it still not the same
Masha Allah Daud you really had came to Imam to ask about the rule of dating before getting married... you really had done the right thing because there must be explanation based on Qur'an and hadith... May Allah always protect you and meet you with the girl who has good faith, beautiful outside and inside,, Insha Allah...
When Allah knows you're ready for the responsibility of commitment, he will reveal the person under the right circumstances. Wait patiently. Don't waste your time wishing grow and be ready, you'll see Allah will give you better than you could ever dream of.😃
"Whenever you get the opportunity to spread sunnah then do so, you will have the reward of the sunnah and the reward of the one who acts upon it until the day of judgement"😊😊😊
Omg thanks a lot Daud Kim & also Imam even tho Ive been a muslim In ma whole life but I learned soo i much with this nice video . as a muslim girl I just accepted its haram but never knew the reason & now I know & I'm srsly thankful now Allah bless u both u guys r doing a very big help to improve islam
خطأ .. الفتاة المخطوبة لا تذهب مع خطيبها لأي سبب حتى يقترنوا بالزواج . وهذه ليست من تعاليم الإسلام ولا القيم العربية الأصيلة . كم من فتاة ضاع شرفها بسبب هالشيء والرجال لن يتزوجوا مع فتاة تسكعت مع خطيبها ثم تركها .
MaShaAllah I love Sheik Abdullah! He gives you the answer as it is without sugar-coating it or trying to change it. With marriage, when the man proposes to the woman's family, they go and ask about him in his workplace, and in the Masjid to make sure what people say about him is clear, and people shouldn't lie when asked about someone for marriage and it is not considered backbiting. Actually, when you see the societies that have dating like in Korea, they rarely have successful marriages, so what is the point of dating, even those who love each other they end up breaking up or divorced. If they are few cases then it is understandable but a lot of cases are like this!
Yup this is the correct way Daud. I'm glad you talked to the Imam, he knows his stuff! Also, something he missed is that you can get engaged to the girl after agreeing with her parents. Usually engagements last a few months to half a year it depends, and you can go out with the girl and everything if there's a third party with you and you're never alone together. You can basically try out each other and if you're still happy with each other by the end of the engagement then you can proceed with the marriage. This is the "halal" way of doing it and without committing any sins or zina.
Sorry but engagement is not a halal relationship, this is culture masquerading as religion again. You can go out with your fiancé thinking it's a halal relationship, it's just like dating. Daud Kim, please don't be confused by people's advice, ask your Imam about this if you want to be sure, don't take anyone's word for it. There is no evident of going out with your fiancé being halal in Islam, to my knowledge
Yup, thats correct, that’s what i was trying to say in my comment above. Even in most conservative families in Saudi or UAE, they do engagement . Usually its few months , with approval of her family, and they are not alone. With in boundaries, ITS NOT HARAM. Like at uni or at work, guys and girls see each other and talk and study. It’s normal .
Everytime someone says Prophet Muhammad's name that ends with 'Sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam' or not, we should reply it with 'Sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam' too. Bcz Allah loves it when we selawat to Prophet Muhammad Peace be Upon Him (PBUH).. If we selawat to him one time, Allah replies us with ten selawat. ❤❤
Lol that's what I was thinking. But how do you do with matchmakers? Almost every marriage I saw like that was a fail, you don't get to see the "vice" of the person before hand
I volunteer as tribute👀👀. Those that convert choose the faith and path of light themselves meanwhile we are born into Islam and let culture govern us rather than religion. Daud is such a great Muslim
What an exemple this imam subha n Allah , he was like you Daud do not despair 👌🏽 You who read this may Allah give you the best women (after mom) or husband ❤️
I respect this Imam for giving a straight forward answer to the dating question. Because I know some imams don't want to break hearts of the young daters and comment in an ambiguous way. We have to believe what is haram and halal if we are Muslims. Sometimes we think it's the best for us but actually that's the worst for us, but we don't know!
Alhamdulillah, Indeed Islam is Truth!!!!
알함두릴라, 이슬람은 정말 진리의 종교입니다!!
الحمد لله على نعمة الإسلام..
May Allah bless you and make you succeed in dawa. Inshallah
Abdullah Al-Kory الحمدالله
الله يبارك فيك
God pless you 💙
alhamdullah
Halal Love 💖
Aoa Brother👋
👍🏻
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Hii I just wanted to tell you the word in the thumbnail “date” meant the date fruit in Arabic ❤️❤️
Thank you for asking a Imam about this 👍 In the future when you have any questions you should rather ask an Imam instead of asking muslim friends :) You‘re doing great as a muslim 👏😊
I am Christian but I love Muslims. To whoever who called them terrorist, hope when you grow up, you will learn that Muslims are very kind people.
Tysm! I really appreciate your honesty and love towards Muslims!
👏🏼👏🏼
thanku for your beautiful thinking about Muslims
Preach this!! That acc means a lot 👏👏👏
Allhamdullillah
What makes Daud Kim a better person is his humbleness...he always accept truth and is eager to learn more and more 🤗👍
The truth?give me a break
@The Astronomer May allah lead you the right path brother.
@@hikmahaskari He was guided by Allah the most merciful
@@Kakashi_hatakeee take a break at hell 🤗
@@abdullahalrakib7654 shut up
I love how soft the imam spoke to explain to people, so calm and full with fact in Qur'an. I hope they will be more collaboration Daud Kim with Imam 😄
*This imam is very knowledgeable and also very clear. He doesn't mix wrong with right 🤗🤗*
I agree 🤗
@@isroiljonmadaminov8217 where are you from
Right
@@ruhaan1206 from Uzbekistan
I agree
"Islam is a perfectly complete teachings. Islam gives you rules. But it's up to you to follow it. It's your responsibility"
This is soooooo wise. Big respect to Imam Abdullah Al Khory. Jaazzakallahu khairan imam Abdullah Al Khory
This is informative content. May people get benefits from this. Thankyou brother Daud for uploading this content
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I am 33 and single since born... Of course i feel jealous when my friends have boyfriend.. Until one day my friend said to me 'its okay.. At least you safe from sin of couple'
This was said from my good friend of mine.. I mean she is good in practising Islam but still did wrong when she's dating.. I feel like Allah really loves me and He wants to protect me.. That's why I am still single.
Have patience, Allah has a good reason for everything. He must have fixed a good life partner for u🙂
You are just lazy😂😂
@@foreverrocks7989 How is she lazy? Because she's single? Is every single person lazy? Soulmates and life partners are arranged by the Almighty Himself, not us. Also it's better to be single than in a bad relationship that drags both partners down
@@aishahshamsul8642 Ok. First of all it's her I commented on. Why do you care? She can ask for herself. If she asks me then I will answer why.
Secondly I don't get this trend to get offended for others. I think she has backbone to ask for herself or she don't care enough for answer which is also fine. But I am definitely not answerable to you..
@@foreverrocks7989 cause we Muslims care for each other💪 and if someone offended to a Muslim we get angry😤 that's why he answered you🤷♂️
I like your way of thinking Daud because you aren't afraid to ask and don't feel embarrassed for not knowing meaning you don't have false barriers blocking you from learning
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He is not afraid to learn and that is commendable! 💜💜💜
This was my comment from the previous dating video. Looks like I said the same words as the imam. Alhamdulilah.
In my opinion, "Dating" is fine if you are sincerely considering marrying that person. It is not okay to date if you are thinking of not even marrying that person. Dating in Islam means:
1. Invite the person to parent's house first. This has to always be first.
2. Zero skinship (no kiss, hug, sleep together)
3. Never alone with the opposite gender (family member of the girl is there with them)
Sahih hadith is below on man and woman that are not married being alone together
“No man is alone with a woman but the shaytaan is the third one present.” [Narrated by Ahmad, al-Tirmidhi and al-Haakim; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’ (2546)
Learning is a big word
❤️❤️❤️الانسان بيبكى من الجمال ...حاجه جميله لما تلاقى انهم فهمين الاسلام صح😭❤️❤️❤️❤️
دحين من جد المواعدهه محرمهه؟!
@@meowloveeqq3679 من جدك؟!!
طب انتي شفتي وسمعتي انو الإمام يقول انها حرام لانها اقرب طريق للزنى وش تبغين اكثر وللحين تسألين اذا حرام ولا لا!🤡
@seek mogol Who told you that? It's not true, I'm really shocked. I am a Muslim since I was born and have never heard of this before. Please correct your information.
(Islam forbids these things that harm people and animals.)
@@syrianexol9287 . . 🐸
@@meowloveeqq3679 🤡❤
"Because you are in love, you can't see the person's bad things" omooo that's so trueeee
Abdullah :
"Women's beauty disappears overtime
Her wealth may disappear someday
But faith never goes away
Anyway in islam,love grows after marriage"
Beautiful love is in islam,it's not in drama
대박♡
If a person don't date he or she will be forced by parents to choose the partner in their places the groom or the bride and there is will not be any freedom to choose a more suitable partner which lead to forced marriage to end with a divorce afterwards.
This teaching is completely false and it don't support any of the Islamic teachings.
I'm Tunisian Muslim women and I did choose my own partner by dating him which is now is my fiancee and that's make me proud of myself 💕😍❤️
@@maryempire1104 I am not dating, I know Allah has prepared a good man for me
in Islam there is ta'aruf, we can determine whether a man is good or not through ta'aruf
@@maryempire1104 abdullah "in islam it's called wali first of all can guardian like the father or brother of a women you want to marry you can say to them "i want to marry her"
after that,you can go through the necessary procedures for marriage
after that,you can talk to her and you can exchange your interests with each other,if your wife's appearance is important tou you ,you can see"
@@am_2966 lmao completely wrong after you marry her everything will change even she is going to change towards you. Without dating you cannot check the real face of a women or of a men.
I dated my fiancee and we both didn't fall on Zina or sex before marriage because we both know it's a sin. All dating we done is going out to a restaurants, amusement parks, museums, Cinema, Coffee shops.
You are so silly 😂
@@maryempire1104 u sound more silly. U just enjoyed ur time with a man and didnt end up getting married with him. As a muslim, u can only date with the intention of knowing if the person would be right for marriage or not. And that date includes, talking to each other. Getting to know each other more better. Not like going to parks, resturants and cinemas. Bcx in that way u r more close to na mehram. Also, u dont really necessary need to go to CINEMA or PARK to know the person better.
imagine saving all that love for that one single person. There's nothing better than halal love; no jealousy,no toxicity or lust. Just pure love approved by Allah, your family and yourself. Basically sounds peaceful to me. This imam explained it beautifully, huge respect :)
yes exactly......when a person spends his love in wrong way he even loses his real love for right one
So you are an Muslim ARMY isn't it.... Me too... I'm from India where are you from?
I love your explanation too may Allah bless you
Muslim Army🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
@@djoumanamedoudi6971 aww thank chu♡. May Allah bless you too
فعلا المفروض نحمد ربنا لاننا مسلمين !!♡
@seek mogol ؟؟
can you speak english
@seek mogol Learn to listen before ruling on a case
Islam is the light of life
الحمد لله على نعمة الإسلام
يا جماعه التعليق عربى ليش الانجليزيين و الكوريين هنا
انا اتكلم ا لانجيليزيه أما الكوريه و لا حتى حرف 😂💔
@seek mogol PLEASE REPORT THIS COMMENT!!!!
I was non Muslim 5 years ago and now I am dawah spreader alhamdullah!!!
ma sha Allah...may Allah bless you
Jazak Allah khairun
MA SHA ALLAH
MashaAllah...May Allah give u more strength to take His creature to Him.....
Masyaallah, alhamdulillah keep it up bro
Alhamdulillah I never have boyfriend! My father always give me advice that our husband in the future more better than boyfriend.
Masya Allahh...👍👍👍😍😍
Wow! Are you a female Muslim who lives in Korea??
@@JackFrostIsHere 네, but I move from there one year ago
yes of course!
ما شاء الله تعالى ثبتكِ الله أُختي و جعلكِ قُدوة للفَتياتِ المُسلمات
Wow he gave the best answer and u can't find better answer than this , woww
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Yes. Spot on.
I totally agree
3:29 Actually I gave everyone that same answer in the comment section of the one with the Malaysian. To me that is considered dating.
1. Guy meet the parents of the woman he is interested in. They have dinner together with the parents there.
2. They get to know each other without skinship while having a person from the woman's family with them.
3. Marry or move on and leave the relationship
(All 3 steps above is halal according to the imam)
To me this is the same as dating but I guess not to the imam?
------Man has 72 virgins in the islamic Heaven; woman will be a prostitute?
I like how the Imam Abdullah is always smiling mashallah
Being a Muslim is about changing yourself, Not changing Islam .
Truee
"couple islamic" . Malay ppl can relate
mashallah , so amazing
@@wanr7697 hahaha wei, islamic couple
@@emliaithnin9685 "kapel islamik" enn, hahahah
The best part of this video I like is that Daud Kim admitt his mistake and beautifully correct it by leading himself and others on right path 🥰
What Kind of mistake
@Habiba Siraj ?
Learning is a good process to understand islam in depth. Good effort Daud Kim...ask imam when you feel confused. You're so brilliant. Love you brother for the sake of Allah.
@Ozymandias Nullifidian that happen before he becomes muslim. After becoming a muslim he learn the beauty of islam. Islam teach us to forgive and forgiveness. No revenge in any situation. Allah promise will grant paradise/Jannah to both of them if they forgive each other. Dear, I think you should learn islam in depth so that you know how Allah (the Al mighty) love all His servants even if they have committed sins. Allahu Akbar.
@Ozymandias Nullifidian May Allah guide you to the right path. I hope Allah give you taufik and hidayah. Aamiin. I don't want to argue with you. "Assalamu'alaikum" if you are muslim
The way the imam explained it, that's just perfect. Islam is the true religion and a complete guide for this temporary life.
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Agree with you.. 👍🏻
@The Astronomer how about you do some actual research than reading some article by some random dude. Read the Quran watch the scholars .errors? What errors ? Jesus PBUH was also a prophet just like prophet Muhammad PBUH. Instead of reading articles go and do a bit of research on your own and learn the truth
Mashallah He describes in a very clear way...Islam is the best religion. Alhamdulilah
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Imam Abdullah Korry studied the correct Islamic knowledge & teachings. That is why his answer is correct spot on.
@@marfauzamatjusoh8198 you re blind
@@Kakashi_hatakeee Why so rude?
I love how the Imam said Bismillah first before he start to answer his question.
I literally say Bismillah before starting anything even when I brush my hair or wear my shoes😅
But why?
@@_graiderz2462 there is blessing in every (good) act that starts with bismillah. It also helps us to make sure that what we would do/say is not against Islam, because no one would do bad things while saying 'in the name of Allah', because Allah commands us to only do good :)
If a person don't date he or she will be forced by parents to choose the partner in their places the groom or the bride and there is will not be any freedom to choose a more suitable partner which lead to forced marriage to end with a divorce afterwards.
This teaching is completely false and it don't support any of the Islamic teachings.
I'm Tunisian Muslim women and I did choose my own partner by dating him which is now is my fiancee and that's make me proud of myself 💕😍❤️
@@SuperFast201 I can understand the blessing part. The second part however, I dont think that is always true..
Thanks for explaining btw.
I'm actually an atheist, but i love watching daud's videos, they make me understand a lot about a religion that seems so different. May your god bless you!
May God bless you 😊👍🏼
If you want to know about God read surah ikhlas. This surah is the definition of God.
This surah will tell you who Allah SWT is.
Assalamualaikum brother.
Can you prove Allah SWT doesn't exist??
The proof is the Qur'an .
Before denying just read the glorious Qur'an.
This life is a test from Allah SWT.
You'll find true guidence and peace insha'Allah.
If you have read the Qur'an without biased thinking then I've nothing to say.
You got the message from Allah SWT.
You will find guidence insha'Allah.
And the burden of proof is on everyone who will benefit from the proof .
Again I would love to tell you the proof is the Qur'an.
Assalamualaikum.
Have you practiced what you've agreed with the Qur'an or do you think everything in the Qur'an is wrong ?
I am not forcing you to believe in Allah swt.
I would love to know what logic and reason did you found reading the Qur'an that you believe it is wrong.
If you've just read a few pages and saying it is wrong then I would suggest you read the Qur'an in search of guidence .
If you do something thinking it is wrong how can you be guided.
If you hadn't read the Qur'an fully please complete it then comment brother.
Assalamualaikum.
I'm born as a muslim but i don't pray and i don't even know that much about islam as much as he (daud) knows, and i feel really ashamed to call myslef a muslim..but through his channel i've got to learn alot and I'll practicing as well even though I'm already Born a muslim but as i said i don't know anything about it! Thankyou so much daud sir, allah blees you💙
i hope ALLAH give us hidayah "ameen"
@@pcmalek5 amen
Sister
You have chance
Learn your religion islam
And do good deeds and left bad deeds
And ask Allah to forgive you
Insha'Allah you will become good person
There is not late in islam as long as you are alive, I am a born Muslim as well my ignorant led me to atheism but Alhamdulillah Allah guided me to islam again 3 years ago, since then I'm learning my religion everyday bcoz now I know what is my purpose of life
Itsn't late, take ur time, the more you approach Allah, Allah approach you twice as more as you♡ and don't let you sins take over you, Allah forgives:)
*my non-muslim frnd once asked me why dating is not allowed in Islam, I couldn’t tell him the proper reason bcz I didn’t know it too, now I'm gonna send him this video..*
Its mainly becoz the possibilty of Zina is high when dating. Vocal interactions literally day-by-day might one day lead to Physical interactions which can push muslim off the boundaries towards biggest sin. So therefore muslims scholars made it Haram.
Are you Bangladeshi
You know Niloy
You know Koreanbhai?
@@k-popfan165 yup.. I am Bangladeshi and I know both Nilay and Koreanbhai. 😊
Not dating is ok, because "Ta'aruf" exists bro....
If you are worried about not sure whether that the girl gonna be a perfect person for you, or someone that is your ideal wife, you can do "Ta'aruf"....
Ta'aruf is a process to get to know each other before marriage with the help of the lady's family member, your mentor or imam, so muslims are not blindly marry someone we barely know....I think Ust. Abdullah Al-Khory can explain better if you ask him....
Oh, one word I really want to say is: I'm really proud of you Daud Kim! You are really admirable! Your love of Islam, and your efforts to make others realize how beautiful Islam is really respectable....I wish for you that all of this good deeds of yours gonna make you got a lot of "Pahala" from Allah...aamiin....
Please stay strong, and I wish you to always have a happy life...hope allah to always protect you and your family 😊
It's true, remember taaruf is really important, and the person we choose to be the medium also important, someone we trust, and value us.. so they will carefully examined our future spouse.
It happens to my friend, that a man wants to get married with her introduced by her neighbour. All seems ok, until their married, the man like to beat my friend, now they divorced.
The man's family hide the truth about their son attitude, and the neighbour also knew about this, but she look down to my friend thinking that she don't deserve a good man anyway.
My friend is a really straightforward person, like so kind that people like to bully her. Because of this i hope all women will do the taaruf properly..
taruf is not dating, its a process of knowing the person there is a clear difference between dating and taruf, dating is meeting bw girl and boy only while taruf is between whole families
Finally, someone with common sense. Thank you for existing amongst this stupidity.
My sister, the Qur’an, in front of you .. Read Surat Al-Nur .. You will find many instructions for women, including verse 28-31.
And Surat al-Ahzab 59 ..Ta'aruf In the presence of the father ... some of the young men whom God guided during the engagement period crosses the red lines and then sees his fiancée as a cheap woman and leaves her.
I advise all girls not to go with the guy even during the engagement period
فَإِن لَّمْ تَجِدُوا فِيهَا أَحَدًا فَلَا تَدْخُلُوهَا حَتَّىٰ يُؤْذَنَ لَكُمْ ۖ وَإِن قِيلَ لَكُمُ ارْجِعُوا فَارْجِعُوا ۖ هُوَ أَزْكَىٰ لَكُمْ ۚ وَاللَّهُ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ عَلِيمٌ (28) لَّيْسَ عَلَيْكُمْ جُنَاحٌ أَن تَدْخُلُوا بُيُوتًا غَيْرَ مَسْكُونَةٍ فِيهَا مَتَاعٌ لَّكُمْ ۚ وَاللَّهُ يَعْلَمُ مَا تُبْدُونَ وَمَا تَكْتُمُونَ (29) قُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَغُضُّوا مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِمْ وَيَحْفَظُوا فُرُوجَهُمْ ۚ ذَٰلِكَ أَزْكَىٰ لَهُمْ ۗ إِنَّ اللَّهَ خَبِيرٌ بِمَا يَصْنَعُونَ (30) وَقُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنَاتِ يَغْضُضْنَ مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِنَّ وَيَحْفَظْنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ وَلَا يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا ۖ وَلْيَضْرِبْنَ بِخُمُرِهِنَّ عَلَىٰ جُيُوبِهِنَّ ۖ وَلَا يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا لِبُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ آبَائِهِنَّ أَوْ آبَاءِ بُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ أَبْنَائِهِنَّ أَوْ أَبْنَاءِ بُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ إِخْوَانِهِنَّ أَوْ بَنِي إِخْوَانِهِنَّ أَوْ بَنِي أَخَوَاتِهِنَّ أَوْ نِسَائِهِنَّ أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُهُنَّ أَوِ التَّابِعِينَ غَيْرِ أُولِي الْإِرْبَةِ مِنَ الرِّجَالِ أَوِ الطِّفْلِ الَّذِينَ لَمْ يَظْهَرُوا عَلَىٰ عَوْرَاتِ النِّسَاءِ ۖ وَلَا يَضْرِبْنَ بِأَرْجُلِهِنَّ لِيُعْلَمَ مَا يُخْفِينَ مِن زِينَتِهِنَّ ۚ وَتُوبُوا إِلَى اللَّهِ جَمِيعًا أَيُّهَ الْمُؤْمِنُونَ لَعَلَّكُمْ تُفْلِحُونَ (31) سورة النور
I once want to date somebody so badly in my teenage years. But my father doesn’t allow me til the age of 20. In my high school year, all of a sudden, there’s a lot of articles which said that dating is forbidden in Islam. My family was kind of religious, but we never aware of it til that time. So my father would never allow me and my sister to date.
At first, I still want to date. But seeing how most of my friends dating, my mindset changes so drastically.
For the one who thinks that dating without never having a sexual activities was posibble, it is indeed posibble, but very very rare! even in a Muslim country like Indonesia. It actually depends on the environment, but most of the people who are in a long time relationship have experienced the actual sex, or at least experience a sexual activities that led to the actual sex. Not to mention, the mental damage that it cause when you actually love somebody too deeply but he/she broke your heart. And the time that will be wasted in a teenage years where we actually could learn the skills and find out what we want to do in our lives.
I know for some of you, what I wrote might be too much, but this is just what I see in people who are dating especially in their youth.
That's why marriage is important. Because relationships can be broken easily but not marriages.
@@PrechtGaebolgHades but thats wats wrong too marriages cant be broken easily if ur husband is not someone who he seemed to be (ppl tend to hide alot of tgings their families too) then ur stuvk with thme fr a long time that might actually lead to depression or worse...
and in my country a divircee is looked down uoon esp a women so its rally hard everyone i know who has gone through smthng like this end up just hidimg it and just suffer and even if the family knows they dont do anything esp for women becuz they would be a "disgrace" and somethng happend to a distant frnd of mine she was married to a doctor he seemed like a g8 guy i had net him and thought he was a gud man (arranged marriage) but my frnd she suddenly one day called and told me things abt how her husband ia abbusive and she had been suffering from the same thing for 6 yrs and she couldnt take it anymor i was soo angry and i told her to tell her family and leave as soon as possible and get a divorce i knew her family would be angry but i thought if they knew the situation they will understand but she started crying saying she cant and she wont and that she is afraid i was really worried and told her to spend the night with me she came but when i saw her she was as thin as a skeleton and her such big black circles under her eyes i convinvced her to show me her marks and when i saw her body it was so so so gruesome i literally started crying i couldnt stand it and without telling her told her family and they told me that they will handle it but told me not to say a word but nothing changed after 2 months i found out that she had...took ...her own life... i was so angry but the her family never blamed the husband and settled everything quitely ppl for crying and feeling bad for him while they didnt know it was his fault
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@@ayeshakhan106 hi Ayesha!
Salam I am a Muslim. In Islam dating is allowed but with restrictions. It is called halal dating. You can have a boyfriend or girlfriend but you cannot be alone, live with each other alone, have sexual activities or have kids before marriage. Boyfriend and girlfriend is halal with certain restrictions.
Imam Abdullah is truly inspiring! His confidence and faith in Islam is so strong. May Allah bless him in both words with good! Thank you Daud too, May Allah protect you from haram and give deep knowledge in Islam!
Allah is our creator we have to believe him undoubtedly because Allah knows everything what to prohibited and what to not!! Believe him and pray him to go to Jannah!! Inshallah
Yeah and not prohibiting things from nowhere like this imam did
Has anyone talked about a man's smile and his way when talking, this is the ethics of Islam
I swear to God I love this channel. I was going through a difficult time in my life and almost on the verge of losing my faith, that’s when the video of Daud joining Islam popped up and I literally cried because of his words. I was so worried because I always thought I was not a good follower then I realised that Allah is the most merciful and whenever we are on the verge of losing our path...He is always there to help us and guide us. Being a Muslim is the best thing ever and I’m lucky to have been born as a Muslim. I learned so much from this channel
Oml myday! Hello there! And agree with you!
ur name tho...
ihatesnakeu films yes I know 🙂
اسأل الله لك الثبات على دين الحق
He is a Good Imam, May Allah proctect him and all sincere Muslims in Korea. Ameen.
Alluhuma amen.
He is a random Revert what are you talking about
Alhamdulilah, I really feel happy watching such people who try to show the beauty of islam Mashaallah
Mashallah
Masha Allah
and marry child brides! be cause is lam per mits marrying little girl
wear your BURKA !
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I am a born Muslim but I sometime pray and sometimes don't I still don't know many things about islam but I am learning it. And your videos are helping me alot. I am ashamed that I am not able to maintain the prayer routines but I will try my best. Thank you Daud Kim for encouraging me through your vodeos.
May Allah guide you wherever you are.
Same story
@@xwen21781 thanks
When I was in high school , I couldn’t maintain my prayer , but someday I promised myself to maintain my prayers for one month and after this month I have not lost any prayer:) May Allah help you to find your way!
@@faa2362 thanks and congratulation
Honestly, as a Malaysian, this is indeed one of the most difficult things to do as a Muslim.
The youths really follow the Western style of dating before marriage. They expect you to get to know your partner 1-5 years by dating before deciding to get married. Anyone who married someone they just knew is seen as weird. If you proposed marriage before dating, you seen as desperate or a weirdo. Even some Muslim Malaysian parents think it's better to date first before deciding to settle down with a partner in marriage.
It's really tough! But also, because of this, we see a lot of cases of depression and anxiety among the youths because they go through break ups and broken hearts. We see a lot of late marriages where people date in their 20s and only get married in their 30s and 40s (there are statistics showing Malaysians are getting married later and later in life). We also see a lot of cases of abandoned babies. We also see a lot of viral/high-profile cases of husband and wife cheating on each other.
The ummah is torn apart because of this mindset. The ummah is in need of help from Allah. But for Allah to help us, we need to make the changes in ourselves first.
I am Malaysian Muslim. I agree that most of us live only to meet other people expectation. I'm just 20 something and never once I have date anybody but the people around my age except my family always talk about how my friends date and some of them already married because they date from highschool and so on. In the end, I secluded myself from these people. I spend more time with old wise people. Sometimes it is better to create a distance from people that pulled you away from Allah, and Allah will give you better companion for our hardships. Our life partner is Allah's secret. We don't get it when we want it, but we will get it the time we are ready for it.
It's very difficult these days. May Allah make it easy for all of us to marry a righteous spouse.
@F Haque nah, just because one dons a hijab doesn't mean they are religious or know a lot about Islam. Also though many wear hijab, not everyone wears it. Some wear it because they know hijab is important in religion but some wear it because of culture, for the sake of wearing and aesthetics. Also not everyone knows that dating is haram because it has become very normalised. Those who attend religious classes might at least know it is discouraged but those who can't attend religious classes due to various reasons (poverty, lack of access to mosque or something), wouldn't know that dating is not allowed and would see the people around as example. When everyone and anyone (Muslims around them) dates, they might think it is permissible. Even if parents are strict against dating, nowadays people are good at hiding and secretly date. It's so hard honestly and I wish there's a solution to educate people to not date first.
P.s: *this applies anywhere. tbh just because a country is a religious/so called Islamic country, doesn't mean everyone is abiding or religious. You can have amazing religious facilities like mosque, surau, madrasah, prayer room in malls etc but in the end, it is the individuals choice on whether they want to make good use of the religious resources available.
@F Haque yeah actually sometimes as an outsider to each others country, you wont really know the situation or environment (since we depend only on online or news) unless we go to the country, experience the environment and observe/interact with the people ourselves to know that some things are actually happening. What you see online that depicts each other's lifestyle or environment in the different countries are very limited and the media choose whether to show only the good sides or the negative sides (therefore resulting in people having extremely positive perception or extremely negative perception of a country/people)
Rightly said 😊
"Good men are for good women, and Good women are for good men".
Yes
If you r translation الطيبون للطيبات you are translating it wrong
It is not like that brother, sometimes, good men marry bad women and vice versa, the verse you are referring to is not about marrying, it means, good speech comes from good people (men and women) and bad speech comes from bad people.
No its not cuz u know our prophet noh peace on him he used to be a good and and a messenger too but hes wife was a bad women u should think about it again
The translation is wrong
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What Abdullah al-kory said was 10000000000000000000% CORRECT. Alhamdulillah. Plz whatever concerns u HV always try to contact the imam first. Mashallah beautiful explanation
6:20 أثارت إعجابي الجملة:
كلما درسته، أصبحت الأمور منطقية أكثر❤
بالمناسبة!: مع انني مسلمة لم أكن أعرف الكثير من المعلومات حول هذا الموضوع لكن الآن توسعت آفاقي👍💗
يعني المواعدة عادي ومو محرمة؟
@@leenaziz8569 حسب علمي حرام لكن إذا كانت بحدود عادي
@@leenaziz8569 هو يقصد بعد الزواج وليش قبل
@@leenaziz8569 من الفيديو يقلك حرام اعد الفيديو وحط الترجمة وافهم بنفسك
@@haroushcinema9095 وين هي الترجمة الكتابة اللي تحت الفيديو سريعة
And also we believe that rather than dating a lot of guys/girls trying to find the real love and the one for us ...we should believe that Allah's choice is always the best for us
if we have faith in allah and have a good relationship with Allah he will surely send the perfect match for us when the time is right 😊😊
Nothig good comes from dating that what young ppl in islamic countries should believe nowaday
قصدك نحنا لو تزوجنا واحد وسخ واخلاقو مو حلوة بس لنتجنب انو ندخل في علاقة قبل الزواج فهاذا افضل لنا؟؟؟؟ لا
@@ghoggalianfel4424 I think you didn't understand my comment sweetheart ^^
@@ghoggalianfel4424 و المواعدة ايضا لن تجنبك الزواج من شخص سيء
@@helein4568 yeah exactly 👌
Very True💯🙌🏻
Just a small side note, when someone else says the prophets first name like “Muhammad” you should also say peace be upon him out loud in English or Arabic. 😁
Excellent 👌
Yeah, you read durood whenever our prophet is mentioned.
Or in any language. :)
Its better to say in arabic.
"sallallahu alaihi wasallam"
صلى الله عليه وسلم
It doesn't have to be out loud
Alhamdulillah. You are learning from the right source.
I didn't even watch that other video bc I had a feeling (since I have lived in Malaysia) that she would not be objective in the matter. But Alhamdulillah you went to the Imam and learned the right way, from Qur'an and Sunnah (and not what people are used to doing, a lot of people doing haram doesn't make it halal). Thank you for making this video
From Malaysia too. Agreed
Well the Malaysian girl also said the halal way of dating for marriage near the end. Meet parents. Have dinner with the parents. Meet in public and get to know each other with a family member of the woman. Do this for a couple of months and decide to marry or move on and end this relationship while having zero shinship. It's simple.
yes I'm from malay yess ...😉😉
@@naylisyazwina6836 argh agree
love myself okeyh from Malay? Malaysia yes i know haha
You are a wonderful person because you did not listen to semi-Muslims, but went to the imam and asked him, may God reward you all the best
100% is true what said imam abdullah al-kory.. the real muslim must be like that..
------Man has 72 virgins in the islamic Heaven; woman will be a prostitute?
Honestly it's so impressive how he explained it very well like a born muslim .... maashaaAllah .. Daud ..u might find it weird at first but when u learn about the bad side of dating u'll find it logic why it's harram ;; thank u for this video and a big thanks to Imam
Could you give examples of the bad side of dating please?
@@taqdisansari8523 like the Imam said dating will eventually leads to a sexual relation : when the girl gets pregnant (by mistake) she either get an abortion (which is haram is islam because it's considered as killing a living soul) or abandon the newborn baby !! so the kid won't know his origins (what if he marries a girl who turns out to be his sis !!) (without forgetting the diseases which r sexually transmit)
also it might just be having a heartbreak than goes into depression than suicide !!!
there's also ppl who gets so obssessed with their partner & keep stalking &threatening them in the name of 'jealousy' ..
well there r many examples.. u may say that this could happen even without dating .. that's true .. but not as much as we see those days!!
hope i answered ur question
@@leejieunwiss9312 jazakillahu khair sis :)
" beauty, wealth will disappear but true faith wont "
the best sentence
No, beauty never disappears. If you take care of yourself, you will still look good. If you eat 5 dishes of birani everyday, and smoke, ya good luck 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@DiamondsRexpensive what he said was not meant this, he meant after marriage we will used to each other face because thats the nature of human and plus no matter how much you try you will get old one day, thats why they say choosing your partner because of the way they look wont last long. but yeah if i take that as a joke then your right :))))
Penjelasan yang mudah dimengerti, cara yang menuntun. Jadi ketika mendengarkan tidak akan terpaksa dalam menerima penjelasannya. Masya Allah. Bertanya pada imam mengenai hal sensitif sangat bagus😍
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
وَلَا جُنَاحَ عَلَيْكُمْ فِيمَا عَرَّضْتُمْ بِهِ مِنْ خِطْبَةِ النِّسَاءِ أَوْ أَكْنَنْتُمْ فِي أَنْفُسِكُمْ عَلِمَ اللَّهُ أَنَّكُمْ سَتَذْكُرُونَهُنَّ وَلَكِنْ لَا تُوَاعِدُوهُنَّ سِرًّا إِلَّا أَنْ تَقُولُوا قَوْلًا مَعْرُوفًا وَلَا تَعْزِمُوا عُقْدَةَ النِّكَاحِ حَتَّى يَبْلُغَ الْكِتَابُ أَجَلَهُ وَاعْلَمُوا أَنَّ اللَّهَ يَعْلَمُ مَا فِي أَنْفُسِكُمْ فَاحْذَرُوهُ وَاعْلَمُوا أَنَّ اللَّهَ غَفُورٌ حَلِيمٌ.
سورة البقرة _الآية 235
فَإِن لَّمْ تَجِدُوا فِيهَا أَحَدًا فَلَا تَدْخُلُوهَا حَتَّىٰ يُؤْذَنَ لَكُمْ ۖ وَإِن قِيلَ لَكُمُ ارْجِعُوا فَارْجِعُوا ۖ هُوَ أَزْكَىٰ لَكُمْ ۚ وَاللَّهُ بِمَا تَعْمَلُونَ عَلِيمٌ (28) لَّيْسَ عَلَيْكُمْ جُنَاحٌ أَن تَدْخُلُوا بُيُوتًا غَيْرَ مَسْكُونَةٍ فِيهَا مَتَاعٌ لَّكُمْ ۚ وَاللَّهُ يَعْلَمُ مَا تُبْدُونَ وَمَا تَكْتُمُونَ (29) قُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَغُضُّوا مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِمْ وَيَحْفَظُوا فُرُوجَهُمْ ۚ ذَٰلِكَ أَزْكَىٰ لَهُمْ ۗ إِنَّ اللَّهَ خَبِيرٌ بِمَا يَصْنَعُونَ (30) وَقُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنَاتِ يَغْضُضْنَ مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِنَّ وَيَحْفَظْنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ وَلَا يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا ۖ وَلْيَضْرِبْنَ بِخُمُرِهِنَّ عَلَىٰ جُيُوبِهِنَّ ۖ وَلَا يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا لِبُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ آبَائِهِنَّ أَوْ آبَاءِ بُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ أَبْنَائِهِنَّ أَوْ أَبْنَاءِ بُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ إِخْوَانِهِنَّ أَوْ بَنِي إِخْوَانِهِنَّ أَوْ بَنِي أَخَوَاتِهِنَّ أَوْ نِسَائِهِنَّ أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُهُنَّ أَوِ التَّابِعِينَ غَيْرِ أُولِي الْإِرْبَةِ مِنَ الرِّجَالِ أَوِ الطِّفْلِ الَّذِينَ لَمْ يَظْهَرُوا عَلَىٰ عَوْرَاتِ النِّسَاءِ ۖ وَلَا يَضْرِبْنَ بِأَرْجُلِهِنَّ لِيُعْلَمَ مَا يُخْفِينَ مِن زِينَتِهِنَّ ۚ وَتُوبُوا إِلَى اللَّهِ جَمِيعًا أَيُّهَ الْمُؤْمِنُونَ لَعَلَّكُمْ تُفْلِحُونَ (31) سورة النور
I can't read use Google translator
@@rofi5 ooo I didn't got it.😔
اقرأي تفسير الآيه ..قبل ان تضعيها .
الآيه ليس لها علاقة بالمواعدة ..و انما نهي عن خطبة المرأة التي تكون في العـدة ..او حتى قـول ذلك بشكل صريح ( اريد خطبة فلانه )
لكن لا مانع من التعريض ، وهو ان يقول احب ان اتزوج واحدة مثل فلانة ..
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اما في المواعدة قوله تعالى ( و لا تخضعن بالقول فيطمع الذي في قلبه مرض )
و المواعدة و المكالمات الغير مشروعه كلها خضوع ..نسال الله العفو و السلامة .
و الآيه التي ذكرها الشيخ في الفيديو أيضا في محلها جزاه الله خير الجزاء ..
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و اتمنى ان تحذفي تعليقك لأنه ليس في محله..و قد يضل به غيرك .
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@@alhuzaif9015 "And there is no sin on you if you make a hint of betrothal or conceal it in yourself, Allâh knows that you will remember them, but do not make a promise of contract with them in secret except that you speak an honourable saying according to the Islâmic law.[1] And do not consummate the marriage until the term prescribed is fulfilled. And know that Allâh knows what is in your minds, so fear Him. And know that Allâh is Oft-Forgiving, Most Forbearing" this translation is from Google.
Muslim all around the world just have two rules guidance..there is Al Qur'an and Hadist, Alhamdulillah may Allah always protect us, aamiin.
انت تعمل جاهدا لتطبيق الإسلام أفضل من المسلمين نفسهم الأخلاق في القمة
كيف يطبق الاسلام احسن من المسلمين ترا هو بعد مسلم
@@الحمدللهالحمدلله-ق1ق نعم أنه نطق بالشهادة
نعم اعلم ذلك ولذلك اقول هو ايضا مسلم
@@الحمدللهالحمدلله-ق1ق يمكن قصده اللي ولدوا مسلمين
هوا اسلم علفكرا😂
And do not turn a blind eye when you are dating someone. You will definitely try to hide your bad traits and show good deeds. Dating is not a way to know a good partner at all because anyone can show what he wants to show and hide what he wants to hide.
Yes, right. All of her bad attitudes were exposed after marriage, which even led to regret because during the dating he only knew and (maybe) married her because he only knew her good attitude.
This is what present in the Islamic book in Iraq for the high school lol😂😂
@@TheGhost-lm1xp 😂ola!! That's right! You're 6th preparatory student, aren't you?
Rere yee this speech from the 6th grade No I am at college second grade but can’t forget those books bcz the many times that I had read them😂😂
@@TheGhost-lm1xp
😅 I see ! ikr ! I can't forget them too!
I'm also in my second collage stage, nice Coincidence.
That's why we should do "Istekhara" when we are puzzled to be sure that Is my partner perfect for me or not....
Best way to do istikhara absolutely right dear👍
@@ayyankhan7635 Yes...thank you😊
What if you're still not sure?
@@taqdisansari8523 repeat it again
@@kijo. jazakallahu khayr.
Acually, I asked my dad "how can I marry with a guy, dont even know his personality" and he told me that "you think you can know him enough by dating. You cant know someone clearly until you share your life. You cant find the true person by dating. But of course there is a way to know who is true person for you. There are confidential middleman's (like someone say that 'there is a congruous person for you') and of course this middleman should know you and the other person clearly. If you are both serious about getting marry, you can meet at public for know each other. And if both of you dont have bad impressions about each other you can marry." After my dad telling this to me, It sounded very reasonable to me. (My mom and dad also married that way and they are living happily for 17 years Maşallah😅)
Mashallah very interesting and thank you for sharing 💞💞
me and my husband also married that way, since 2006 till now, with three kids now still romantic couple :-D
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu
Love From India 🥺
@@hanan.m1053 you're welcome🙏🙏
@@nevyk5838 Mashallah, May Allah protect your marriage🙏💛
IDK why but I like Islam more and more whenever you talk about it. 😊
Love from India 🇮🇳
I wish Allah directing you in right path.take my love
Hello nihu i am from india. Feel free to talk about islam
Read Qur'an to know reason why we born and why this life is for?
May God guide your heart 💝💝
The imam's face sparkles with smile.
Masha Allah Abdullah, for replies presented in the light of Islam about dating.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with having dates in Islam....
I prefer having dates during Ramadhan.
at least 3-4 dates while breaking my fast.....
dates are sweet and have good nutritional value....pump up ur blood sugar levels too....
Don't.... just don't 😂😂😭
Bruh when I read dates during Ramadan I was like wth 😂
U got me shocked for a moment 😂
😂😂😂😂💜died
High Horse dudeee😂😂😂😂😂
Mashallah...this imam explained the most sensitive and controversial topic in islam in a very detailed and friendly manner...mashallah...i am very satisfied with this video daud...because in the video with sabrina, she gave a very wrong impression about dating in islam and i was very upset with that video...but jazakallah for uploading this video with an imam(the person who knows the most and correct knowledge about islam)...Mashallah
ماشاء على الشيخ والاستاذ عبد الله الكلام معه ممتع ومقنع بارك الله فيك والله يزيد من امثالك . وشكرا لك داوود لأنك تعرفنا على مسلمين كوريا . اختكم من المغرب .
You might haven't seen my message on Instagram ! That's why I sent it ,I told you don't ask common people ask an imam bcz common ppl give you answers from their point of view I mean they give answers as it suits them ,I really appreciate your hardworking in learning Islam more ,I'm proud as well ,may Allah bless you and guide us always the right path
Big love and support from Algeria 💙
Haloo 🇩🇿🇩🇿
@@ayamerah1969 hey 💙💙
Finally, we get the right answer from an Islamic scholar, the one whose knowledge is unquestionable, i.e. based on Al Qur'an and As Sunnah. Kudos to Imam Al Kory...
Really like his explanation. He explained from what he had learned. He is a good imam.
"Everybody make a mistake, and the best person is to repent their mistake and never do the mistake again".
ماشاءالله تبارك الله
لقاء جميل وممتع ومفيد معك ومع الشيخ عبدالله الكوري...
حفظكم الله وسددكم وأعانكم ووفقكم وثبتكم ونفع بكم الإسلام والمسلمين..
06:18 الله أكبر
06:20 الله أكبر والحمدلله.
Random Who's Reading this Comment,,,you're special and unique,,,God Bless You And Have A Lucky Life🤗
Thank you so much ❤🖐
Ameen
Same to you.
Sorry, I am not SPECIAL.
👍🏻
Hehe same to you... Allah hafiz
We want to know a person before getting married but we don't know that person may actually be different from what he or she appears to be. When we date we hide our faults and weaknesses and dream of beautiful life. But after marriage things come out and reality is too horrible 😣. So with agreement of families and elderly persons many decisions are easy, fair and better. And if by chance anything goes wrong after marriage, there are families to intervene and get things right. I heard from sincere old couples that love begins after marriage. Even this way all life is romantic 😍. So, it's better to believe in Allah and the halal resources in all matters because we can be wrong, not Allah!
Actually, it is dumb to marry someone without doing a background check on them, and believing they are good just because they are Muslims.
You actually have to sit with the guy or the girl, and understand what kind of person they are, before you are tied to them for LIFE. Because you are marrying them, not your elders. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
@@DiamondsRexpensive Dating and keeping a background check are two totally different things, dear! You are very lucky if you sit with her or him and can learn facts about personality! Sometimes it takes years to find reality and the moment we marry that person, things change the next moment. And finally we run to elders crying out! Better share the responsibility of choosing the right person with your family. You can see that person, talk and share ideas in a suitable environment before taking the decision. Not to trust your humble muscles, man!!!
@@DiamondsRexpensive u miss the whole point. In islam before marriage, u should meet the parent or friend of the one u want to get married and ask them about that person, and know all things that needs to know which is called 'taaruf'
And in other simple word it is background check of the person before u marry that person. U cannot date. But u can do background check with their families or friends and getting to know the person better
الله 🕋 الرحمن 🕋 الرحيم 🕋 الملك 🕋 القدوس 🕋 السلام 🕋 المؤمن 🕋 المهيمن 🕋 العزيز 🕋 الجبار 🕋 المتكبر 🕋 الخالق 🕋 البارئ 🕋 المصور 🕋 الغفار 🕋 القهار 🕋 الوهاب 🕋 الرزاق 🕋 الفتاح 🕋 العليم 🕋 القابض 🕋 الباسط 🕋 الخافض 🕋 الرافع 🕋 المعز 🕋 المذل 🕋 السميع 🕋 البصير 🕋 الحكم 🕋 العدل 🕋 اللطيف 🕋 الخبير 🕋 الحليم 🕋 العظيم 🕋 الغفور 🕋 الشكور 🕋 العلي 🕋 الكبير 🕋 الحفيظ 🕋 المقيت 🕋 الحسيب 🕋 الجليل 🕋 الكريم 🕋 الرقيب 🕋 المجيب 🕋 الواسع 🕋 الحكيم 🕋 الودود 🕋 المجيد 🕋 الباعث 🕋 الشهيد 🕋 الحق 🕋 الوكيل 🕋 القوي 🕋 المتين 🕋 الولي 🕋 الحميد 🕋 المحصي 🕋 المبدئ 🕋 المعيد 🕋 المحيي 🕋 المميت 🕋 الحي 🕋 القيوم 🕋 الواجد 🕋 الماجد 🕋 الواحد 🕋 الأحد 🕋 الصمد 🕋 القادر 🕋 المقتدر 🕋 المقدم 🕋 المؤخر 🕋 الأول 🕋 الآخر 🕋 الظاهر 🕋 الباطن 🕋 الوالي 🕋 المتعالي 🕋 البر 🕋 التواب 🕋 المنتقم 🕋 العفو 🕋 الرءوف 🕋 مالك🕋 الملك 🕋 ذو الجلال 🕋 والإكرام 🕋 المقسط 🕋 الجامع |الغني 🕋 المغني 🕋 المانع 🕋 الضار 🕋 النافع 🕋 النور 🕋 الهادي 🕋 البديع 🕋 الباقي 🕋 الوارث 🕋 الرشيد 🕋 الصبور
ما شاء الله
الله يحفظك يا أ خي
ماشاء لله تعالي ،هل انت عربية؟🌼🌸
@@اسرىٰ-غ3ر انا عربي وا (فتخر)
Aku Orang Indonesia Aku sangat kagum sama kalian berdua semoga Persahabatan kalian selalu Abadi....Amiin......
Aku.Doakan kalian Berdua.jadi Orang Sukses Selamat.Dunia dan.Achirat....Amiin.......
ماشاء الله تبارك الله.. فعلا الحديث المّوَثق بدلائل من القرآن والسنة فعلا يدخل القلب واكيد سليم 100/100.. الله يرزقك على سعيك لتعلُم دينه 🤲💕❤️
Abdullah Al-Kory explained everything very clearly and all according to Quran and Sunnah...Maa Shaa Allah....May our youngsters follow the Halal path and make their lives beautiful both in this world and the world hereafter Ameen
I also see it this way: when you date people and break up you kinda feel alone and it becomes like an addiction to date.Then it becomes your weakness.I don't like to give others this oppurtunity abuse me in any kind of way.
I don't want Love story like Romeo and Juliet,, I want Love story like Khadija ( r.a ) and Muhammad ( saw ).💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝
Oh, you want her loaded with money? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oops you are probably a woman. Then, you wanna be loaded with money like her and marry someone younger than you and perhaps, spend on him?
@@DiamondsRexpensive أنا لا أعرف كتابة الانجليزي بس أنا بفهم الكتابه أريد أن أقول إنك ترى الأشياء من منظور آخر لأن سيدتنا خديجة رضي الله عنها أعجبت بالرسول عليه الصلاة والسلام بسبب أمانته في العمل وصدقه لا لأنه أصغر منها في السن أو لكي تنفق عليه والرسول عليه الصلاة والسلام لم يتزوجها لأنها غنيه بل كان يحبها حب شديد حتى بعد مماتها ظل وفائه لها وحبه لهذا نريد قصة حب صادقه مثل الرسول عليه الصلاة والسلام وسيدتنا خديجة رضي الله عنها 😊
Imam explained perfectly to many of us about dating and I agree with him that dating is the beginning of the greatest sin. Allah did everything as the best for us 🤲🤲🤲
Salam brother. I am a Muslim. In Islam dating is allowed but with restrictions. It is called halal dating. You can have a boyfriend or girlfriend but you cannot be alone, live with each other alone, have sexual activities or have kids before marriage. Boyfriend and girlfriend is halal with certain restrictions.
ماشاءاللّہ. زبردست.!!
This is what Islam actually tells us about dating. It's 100% rational answer based on true Islamic point of view.
Asslam o Alikum.I really like the method of Abdul Al-Kory to explain. he explains all thigs in a very kind way. he is very wise! And his explanation is very easy to understand and very clear!
Machaeallah!
Please, do more videos with him!! 🌸✨
Indeed Islam is True religion. may ALLAH bless you both. love from Pakistan
I agree with you, sister
When a girl or a boy becomes accustomed to fulfilling her sexual desires without marriage, they lose so much in the mess that no relationship is important to them. Even if they get married, they get divorced quickly because they get tired to each other. That is why divorce is more prevalent in non-muslim and people are suffering from mental conflicts. Depression is found in them very much and the children are also suffering from depression. That's why Islam teaches us a right way to live happy i really love my Islam Allhamdulillah I'm a muslim 🇵🇰🌹
Lmao, right xD In Islam Dating is not haram as long as you don't do Zina or Sex before marriage. I'm a Muslim woman and I dated my ex-fiancee and my ex-boyfriends we did go out to amusement parks, restaurants, and coffee and I did never have the feeling for sexual desire.
You are very stupid lol
I couldn't agree more 👏
@@maryempire1104 it's your own opinion ma'am... You can go with him after marriage then Islam has no problem with your opinion... How many girls lost virginity before marriage many boys left them after flirting... Dating is the root where it starts... He gave you reference in the video & you're denying the teaching of our prophet Muhammad pbuh
@@khizarmumtaz8448 Lmao I'm 31 years old Muslim woman and I dated my ex fiancee and my ex boyfriends and I wasn't having any sexual urges. You are very backward extremist. You think only woman that don't have the control over her sexual urges which is very close minded of you.
Mary Empire did you understand what that imam said? You are so ridicilous....
ماشاء الله الامام شرح الحكمه من تحريم العلاقات ما قبل الزواج بطريقه مبسطه و مقنعه ربنا يباركلك و يجعلها في ميزان حسناتك يا رب
The imam answer perfectly, yes dating is somehow became trending in Malaysia, but what can I say is back to the Quran and sunnah by follow Islam scholar, not the trending one because only Allah knows the best so that Allah arrange everything nicely and for we as Muslim we should decide what are the best path for our journey ... From 🇲🇾 Malaysian
And one thing u didn't say is, men will use girls, throw them away, and then choose the girl they didn't play with 🙄🙄🙄
I didn't know about this and I saw a popular hijabi singer from your country dating several men and I was so baffled she was doing that and no-one was saying a thing.
@@MissSraG Because its her business what she does with her life whether people agree or not.
Agree. I'm from Malaysia too 🇲🇾. Salam & regards 🙂
BMA
If dating is trendind and not controled by Islamic Law then very soon illegal S## will also trend .....
Then LG then Pe## then animal# ....
🙄
Do not marry unbelieving women (idolaters), until they believe: A slave woman who believes is better than an unbelieving woman, even though she allures you. Nor marry (your girls) to unbelievers until they believe: A man slave who believes is better than an unbeliever, even though he allures you. Unbelievers do (but) beckon you to the Fire. But Allah beckons by His Grace to the Garden (of bliss) and forgiveness, and makes His Signs clear to mankind: That they may celebrate His praise.
(Bakara-221)
In 5:5 it says that Muslim women can't marry anything other than a Muslim man but a Muslim man can marry a Christian or a Jude but of course it's better if it's a Muslim.
Um slave? Im curious sister and brother why is slavery talked in islam when is not allowed?
If slavery is not allowed why are there rules for it?
Plz help me understand this more!
@@klyhoriomuno4102 At the time when Quran reveals there was a system to have slaves for whole life. so the people of that time and for future can understand.
@@klyhoriomuno4102 it does not mean slavery in arabic that's because english language is not rich of vocabelary to use the exact terme we use the closest terme but it still not the same
In arabic it's "abd" means the one who worship come from "al aibada" the worship
Masha Allah Daud you really had came to Imam to ask about the rule of dating before getting married... you really had done the right thing because there must be explanation based on Qur'an and hadith... May Allah always protect you and meet you with the girl who has good faith, beautiful outside and inside,, Insha Allah...
“As I learn more about Islam it makes more sense.”
who else is a muslim here
like it up for daud being a muslim
When Allah knows you're ready for the responsibility of commitment, he will reveal the person under the right circumstances. Wait patiently. Don't waste your time wishing grow and be ready, you'll see Allah will give you better than you could ever dream of.😃
I am really proud that I am a Muslim.
Allah show right path to everyone.
Bu kadar güzel anlatılamazdı... Allah razı olsun kardeşim 🌿🌿 Love from TURKEY 🇹🇷🇹🇷
My Ustadz Said: Build love over marriage, Don't build marriage over Love, because inside there is no blessing. "Dating: NO, Ta'aruf: YES ..
"Whenever you get the opportunity to spread sunnah then do so, you will have the reward of the sunnah and the reward of the one who acts upon it until the day of judgement"😊😊😊
Omg thanks a lot Daud Kim & also Imam even tho Ive been a muslim In ma whole life but I learned soo
i much with this nice video . as a muslim girl I just accepted its haram but never knew the reason & now I know & I'm srsly thankful now
Allah bless u both u guys r doing a very big help to improve islam
هكذا كانت نظرتي للموضوع قبل أن أشاهد الفيديو كلام الشيخ سليم مية بالمية
خطأ .. الفتاة المخطوبة لا تذهب مع خطيبها لأي سبب حتى يقترنوا بالزواج . وهذه ليست من تعاليم الإسلام ولا القيم العربية الأصيلة . كم من فتاة ضاع شرفها بسبب هالشيء والرجال لن يتزوجوا مع فتاة تسكعت مع خطيبها ثم تركها .
MaShaAllah I love Sheik Abdullah! He gives you the answer as it is without sugar-coating it or trying to change it.
With marriage, when the man proposes to the woman's family, they go and ask about him in his workplace, and in the Masjid to make sure what people say about him is clear, and people shouldn't lie when asked about someone for marriage and it is not considered backbiting.
Actually, when you see the societies that have dating like in Korea, they rarely have successful marriages, so what is the point of dating, even those who love each other they end up breaking up or divorced. If they are few cases then it is understandable but a lot of cases are like this!
Alhamdulillah, love this. Sheikh Abdulillah is the best! His explanation is so clear and he gave excellent and sound advice
Yup this is the correct way Daud. I'm glad you talked to the Imam, he knows his stuff! Also, something he missed is that you can get engaged to the girl after agreeing with her parents. Usually engagements last a few months to half a year it depends, and you can go out with the girl and everything if there's a third party with you and you're never alone together. You can basically try out each other and if you're still happy with each other by the end of the engagement then you can proceed with the marriage. This is the "halal" way of doing it and without committing any sins or zina.
u gave a good point.Usually we have seen that people think after engagement ,you are in halal relation
Sorry but engagement is not a halal relationship, this is culture masquerading as religion again. You can go out with your fiancé thinking it's a halal relationship, it's just like dating. Daud Kim, please don't be confused by people's advice, ask your Imam about this if you want to be sure, don't take anyone's word for it. There is no evident of going out with your fiancé being halal in Islam, to my knowledge
@@SK-ns6sl Actually he is saying that a third party must be involved everytime you meet with your fiance.
@S K Yes you can as long as you're not alone and you're with a third party, It's completely fine.
Yup, thats correct, that’s what i was trying to say in my comment above. Even in most conservative families in Saudi or UAE, they do engagement . Usually its few months , with approval of her family, and they are not alone. With in boundaries, ITS NOT HARAM.
Like at uni or at work, guys and girls see each other and talk and study. It’s normal .
Everytime someone says Prophet Muhammad's name that ends with 'Sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam' or not, we should reply it with 'Sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam' too. Bcz Allah loves it when we selawat to Prophet Muhammad Peace be Upon Him (PBUH).. If we selawat to him one time, Allah replies us with ten selawat. ❤❤
Hi Atiqah!
Yes it is😊
My conclusion is that brother Daud is thinking of getting married and settle down.🤗🤗🤗🤗
# matchmakers aunts squad
😄😄😁😁
😂😂😂
Lol that's what I was thinking. But how do you do with matchmakers? Almost every marriage I saw like that was a fail, you don't get to see the "vice" of the person before hand
I hope he can find someone as beautiful hearted as he is and I am positive he will!
@@MissSraG yesss wish for him all the besttt
I volunteer as tribute👀👀. Those that convert choose the faith and path of light themselves meanwhile we are born into Islam and let culture govern us rather than religion. Daud is such a great Muslim
I love what you are doing plz come to maldives 100% muslim country.
Then why did your Prime Minister Stood with Modi On Islamophobia when OIC Slammed India For Being Islamophobic.
@@gabenewell4211 we have a president. Modi is indian. That was the president not the people. Or me.
@@gabenewell4211 and what about u why your pakistani PM stand with Chinese president who is a killer of thousands of uygur tell me
@@junedshaikh9165 Lol I am An INDIAN
@S b i love Bangladesh too. We have thousands of Bangladeshi workers in Maldives and my grandfather have 2 workers.
Abdulla Al-Kory is the person of knowledge, perfect explanation!
The way of explaining things is really outstanding. The Imam is beautifully explain. May Allah bless both of you.
What an exemple this imam subha n Allah , he was like you Daud do not despair 👌🏽
You who read this may Allah give you the best women (after mom) or husband ❤️
Alhamdu allah I haven't dated a man yet❤️🤲🏻Because I'm hiding my feelings for my husband in the future only. 💙
U are truly daebak.hihi
Masha ALLAH
MashaAllah
@@zaynahstudies You can control your feelings.If he's exchanging the same feelings for you, he's going to marry you.
Me too
I respect this Imam for giving a straight forward answer to the dating question. Because I know some imams don't want to break hearts of the young daters and comment in an ambiguous way. We have to believe what is haram and halal if we are Muslims. Sometimes we think it's the best for us but actually that's the worst for us, but we don't know!
Subhanallah,,,itu penjelasan yang harus di dengar oleh banyak orang agar tidak salah jalan,,,semoga sehat slalu.