WHAT YOU MUST DO FIRST AS A LADY BEFORE MARRIAGE || APOSTLE FEMI LAZARUS

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  • WHAT YOU MUST DO FIRST AS A LADY BEFORE MARRIAGE || APOSTLE FEMI LAZARUS

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  • @gracejohnson2286
    @gracejohnson2286 10 місяців тому +47

    Life is not easy for the blind. You are not worthless, you're only around those who don't know your value. When the person who wants to marry you comes, you will be everything he prays for and more. Pastor Femi Lazarus

  • @vero811
    @vero811 11 місяців тому +83

    "You are not worthless; you are just around people who don't know your value."

  • @estheremmanuel3815
    @estheremmanuel3815 10 місяців тому +53

    Lord heal me from the pains of the past and prepare me for my future husband emotionally and physically

  • @ifeoluwafriendlywole-adewu3741
    @ifeoluwafriendlywole-adewu3741 Рік тому +197

    1. Heal;
    From your Past
    From our Ex
    From the dysfunctionality of your background.
    From the pain afflicted on you by your father
    From your emotional traumas
    From the wrong words spoken to you
    Heal before you deal!

  • @Themiracleonah
    @Themiracleonah Рік тому +43

    Wow!!
    One can never over prepare for marriage!!
    Cohabitation is an abomination!!
    I will get busy maximizing my single days because I need it.
    God bless you Sir

  • @AkpovwokukoGrace
    @AkpovwokukoGrace 10 місяців тому +13

    Lord heal me from the crown of my head to the sole of my feet, from my childhood trauma, from my family, friends betrayal and relationships betrayal.. amen

  • @enehruth5422
    @enehruth5422 Рік тому +40

    Dear Holyspirit, please heal me completely and continue to lead me step by step everyday❤

  • @monicachanda3258
    @monicachanda3258 Рік тому +54

    What a lady should do before getting married:-
    1, Heal (Heal before your deal)
    2, Your enemy isn't necessarily God's enemy
    3, Take a Break, cry after crying take a very good meal
    4, pick up again

    • @evldflorinda
      @evldflorinda 11 місяців тому +1

      It's not easy but by the grace of God, it will be fine

  • @OluebubeWrites
    @OluebubeWrites Рік тому +27

    Wounded people raising wounded people... Hmmmm... 😢😢😢

  • @abanghappiness9331
    @abanghappiness9331 10 місяців тому +33

    People keep telling me to move on when I lost my Fiancé I told them once I’m healed everything will be good cause I can’t go into relationship when I’m still thinking about my late guy but as time goes on I’m now getting better I thank God for restoring me bit by bit I pray God being a man cause I’m okay now going to 2years thank you Lord

    • @jemimahcharles6543
      @jemimahcharles6543 10 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for sharing this. May God continue to work on your heart.

    • @faithFul_nheeKie
      @faithFul_nheeKie 10 місяців тому +1

      You're whole ✨ Sending you ❤️ &💡

    • @abidemiracheal8283
      @abidemiracheal8283 8 місяців тому +1

      Thank God for your life

    • @chineduayogu4306
      @chineduayogu4306 3 місяці тому +1

      God is making everything perfect for you... Thoughts and prayers

  • @okonkwonkechi5602
    @okonkwonkechi5602 Рік тому +80

    What to put in place before marriage: Heal from your past and background. Prepare! U can never over Prepare ❤ Avoid Cohabitation 😮

  • @Sarahpelz98
    @Sarahpelz98 Рік тому +48

    Listening to this on my bed cause I don't feel like going out.
    I think it's high time, I finally heal completely. God has been helping me so far. Glory.
    Thank God I stumbled on this message.

    • @euniceberthran1491
      @euniceberthran1491 11 місяців тому

      Please how do you heal? I have been trying

    • @Sarahpelz98
      @Sarahpelz98 11 місяців тому

      @@euniceberthran1491 Healing is a decision one has to take to my best of knowledge, It hurts but one has to consciously take the courage to let go of whatever caused the pain.
      I decided to move on and see myself better than I was at that time.
      I believed it was just a phase and I would definitely go past it.
      All these with the help of God 💯
      Talk to God about the pain, everything basically and you'll find comfort, just as I did.
      God bless you sis 🙏

    • @prettyritty2056
      @prettyritty2056 11 місяців тому

      ​@@euniceberthran1491pray cry and talk to God in prayer pullout ur heart to him , and you will be heal that's what helps me ❤❤❤❤

    • @Shelleygwesetalent24
      @Shelleygwesetalent24 9 місяців тому

      @@euniceberthran1491 you face your pain face to face, cry if you have to forgive yourself and those who wronged you and ask the Holy Spirit to help you heal and mend your heart..... Don't forget Jesus loves you and sees you worthy to die for ❤️❤️❤️

  • @oluwabukunmibamikole1737
    @oluwabukunmibamikole1737 10 місяців тому +2

    I must heal from my past, background dysfunctionality, the wrong words spoken to me, scars, mistakes, and past emotional traumas. The journey of my healing is between me and my God. I need to heal before I deal. Overreaction is a sign that healing from a hurt has not yet taken place. I receive the grace to heal and forgive those who have hurt me in the past. God has something great in stock for me.

  • @abigailusani5362
    @abigailusani5362 11 місяців тому +17

    God will continue to bless you sir.. I dunno but whenever I’m down God sends me a message. I didn't stumble on this by chance. I've healed from the worst experience I had and trying to love again, now it's rocky and I found myself going through that pain again but I’m glad this message has saved me..

  • @nyamushagibridget9853
    @nyamushagibridget9853 3 місяці тому +1

    Heartbreak i know it all too well.....they left but Jesus never left.....im healing.... thank you Pastor Femi...... this was helpful......Amen 🙏🙏🙏 i shall love again

  • @OluwaseyiAdemuyiwa
    @OluwaseyiAdemuyiwa Рік тому +51

    This preaching is perfectly for me because I just realized that I've been holding on to traumas of the past especially emotional trauma which really affected me and is still affecting me. I've been holding on to so many grudges and I've blocked some people and created a walI around me because of those bad memories. I really need to heal because I always feel stuck in one place each time I try to move on. I just thank God for using you sir to open my eyes. God bless you sir.

    • @dimma2509
      @dimma2509 Рік тому +1

      May the Lord send you healing and peace.

    • @JenniferAbali
      @JenniferAbali 11 місяців тому

      The Lord is ur strength 👍

  • @faustinaozoguji7485
    @faustinaozoguji7485 Рік тому +35

    Lord help me to heal so I can truly love and be loved by people around me. ❤️

  • @Zovani02
    @Zovani02 11 місяців тому +5

    God!!I've literally cried my eyes out!!!I am not a superman 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @ibukundeborah4386
    @ibukundeborah4386 Рік тому +23

    Lord help me heal from all my past pain...

  • @ngantukaila197
    @ngantukaila197 Рік тому +68

    Lord please help me heal from my childhood trauma so I can move on.

    • @maryannodeh3387
      @maryannodeh3387 Рік тому +4

      This is the most difficult situation in my life at the moment... childhood truama is the worse thing that can happen to anyone it just opens door to other truamas and it seems unending until God shows u mercy ....me I have seen 99 sha

    • @virginiechristinemangaonan3012
      @virginiechristinemangaonan3012 Рік тому +1

      Amen

    • @Pwettydamsel
      @Pwettydamsel 11 місяців тому

      Amen 🙏

    • @njerindeeri3347
      @njerindeeri3347 10 місяців тому

      Amen! You are healed in The name

    • @njerindeeri3347
      @njerindeeri3347 10 місяців тому

      Amen! You are healed in Jesus' name

  • @victoriafelix9665
    @victoriafelix9665 Рік тому +14

    Life happens to everyone.. the important things is to heal😢😢

  • @eniolaoladoke5136
    @eniolaoladoke5136 Рік тому +11

    1. Heal;
    From your past
    From your Ex
    From the dysfunctionality of your background
    From your emotional traumas
    From the wrong and negative words spoken to you
    Heal before you deal.

  • @marvelloussunday5928
    @marvelloussunday5928 Місяць тому +4

    7 practical things to put in place before you marry.
    1. Heal
    Heal from your past,
    From your Ex,
    Heal from the dysfunctionality of your background.
    Heal from the pain afflicted on you by your father.
    Heal from your emotional traumas
    Heal from the wrong words spoken to you.
    Heal from the scars.
    You need to heal before you deal.
    If you refuse to forgive your ex or anyone who has hurt you, you are putting pressure on yourself and injuring yourself again.
    The journey of your healing is between you and God, not your husband.
    Your healing process is between you and the Holy Spirit. He heals broken hearts.
    Heal and forgive because of you😢
    Don't hide your pains, heal from them. Learn from your mistakes then get up and deal again. You are a queen!!
    It is not strength not to be soft as a woman.
    You are not done!
    You will love it again!!
    God has sons!
    Don't cry over those who want to manage you!
    Don't give people the impression that you can't do without them!!

  • @florencegmunyeneh8811
    @florencegmunyeneh8811 10 місяців тому +1

    Lord Jesus Christ 🙏🏼 deliver me from every hurt, pain, mockery, shame and insults🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @olaidesogoye9585
    @olaidesogoye9585 Рік тому +185

    I came from tiktok

  • @temitopeade-dosunmu3680
    @temitopeade-dosunmu3680 10 місяців тому +13

    Learn from your mistakes,pick yourself up again,you are a Queen.Get up and deal.Don’t give people the impression that they are so important you can’t find their kind.

    • @cindyasiedu1504
      @cindyasiedu1504 3 місяці тому

      Seems like you are talking to me. Thanks for this . I’m trying to forget my ex and it’s been sooooo hard

  • @officialgraceali
    @officialgraceali Рік тому +29

    I felt I was being spoken to directly. Kai.
    This message is so timely and has blessed my life. Thank you, sir.

    • @princessshirley2484
      @princessshirley2484 Рік тому

      Swears me too 😢like It’s just what I needed to hear and the time frame is perfect

  • @jenniferpius8748
    @jenniferpius8748 10 місяців тому +12

    I wish everyone with a broken heart can hear dis msg 😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤

    • @PIPI-LOVE
      @PIPI-LOVE 9 місяців тому

      It's possible as you keep sharing this message

  • @ChigozirimEsther
    @ChigozirimEsther 10 місяців тому +1

    This message is just for me😢........o lord help me to heal completely amen

  • @Kamto-Chukwu
    @Kamto-Chukwu 11 місяців тому +2

    Life happens to all of us but the only way to stay healing is to heal.❤️

  • @amandaugwu8075
    @amandaugwu8075 Рік тому +24

    Lord help me to heal from this betrayal. I WANT TO HEAL 😢

  • @GloriaMwale-yy7rl
    @GloriaMwale-yy7rl Рік тому +9

    I love the way you teach man of God,,i pray to heal from the pain my father caused me, cause sometimes i see the picture of my father in my boyfriend. May God heal me

  • @Joychiroma-chic
    @Joychiroma-chic Рік тому +18

    Pastor Femi God bless you , you are a rare gift to this world, your messages have broken me so many times . I pray God brings healing ❤️‍🩹 to everyone hurting .

  • @utibeakpan4344
    @utibeakpan4344 Місяць тому

    Wow! I feel so blessed by a section of the sermon.
    Pastor, it felt like you were describing me from top to bottom.
    I realize I need to heal from the pain caused by both of my parents.
    Sometimes, I even feel like disowning them.
    I struggle to forgive and forget permanently, and this has deeply affected my marriage.

  • @siahbeh8460
    @siahbeh8460 11 місяців тому +7

    Father, please help me heal from all the pain,rejection, lack of love... I really want to heal, Lord, help me.

  • @victoriaisrael383
    @victoriaisrael383 Рік тому +15

    This man is full of wisdom 😢❤

  • @shinewithdyness5428
    @shinewithdyness5428 Рік тому +6

    God, thanks for these after total healing from depression, child trauma, fear, anxiety

  • @ufonudofia4555
    @ufonudofia4555 Рік тому +27

    This is a time bomb. An instrumental message for me. God bless you sir for these words.

  • @nsamwabanda-iw3tw
    @nsamwabanda-iw3tw Місяць тому

    After this session,I am breaking out and rise up has a queen,deep insight Apostle

  • @chinonyelumanumba
    @chinonyelumanumba 9 місяців тому +1

    Hallelujah 😭😭😭😭this is for me lord. I need to heal. Been reading books abstract from God to heal. But not actually seeking him everyday. I remember me fasting but was I really really serious not really. Thanks soo much😭🙌🏽his indeed close to the broken hearted 😭😭been hurt. And keep hurting myself. Thanks so much

  • @mfongirl
    @mfongirl 11 місяців тому +3

    'Life is not easy for the blind, you are not worthless you are only around those who don't know your value ' Apostle Femi Lazarus.

  • @deeo5777
    @deeo5777 11 місяців тому +3

    Therapy with certified therapist works also. It doesn't always have to be church counseling only. Great work sir

  • @Iambblessed
    @Iambblessed 2 місяці тому

    Holy spirit heal my broken heart 🙏
    God bring one of your beloved sons to me your beloved daughter in Jesus Name 🙏

  • @perpetuadaniel8190
    @perpetuadaniel8190 6 місяців тому

    thank you Jesus for talking to me through this message,help me to heal Lord 🥺🥺🥺😭🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @JulietNwani-el1lj
    @JulietNwani-el1lj 10 місяців тому +2

    Lord heal me from my past pain😢

  • @Ujudivine-lk4gp
    @Ujudivine-lk4gp 2 місяці тому

    Get busy maximizing your single days,you can't over prepare for marriage..that's my best part❤

  • @ellaafrica3911
    @ellaafrica3911 8 місяців тому

    This message is for me... God please I really want to heal. Help me heal Lord 😢😢

  • @cynthia-jo1zz
    @cynthia-jo1zz Рік тому +35

    As a daughter how will you connect with your mother who will not even seat to have uncomfortable conversation.. connection is impossible to someone who isn't connected to themselves..you have to be conscience of this and make peace within yourself..make yourself whole..❤❤

    • @FadekeYusuf
      @FadekeYusuf 10 місяців тому

      Pray for her and let God create the connection for you, I speak from experience, pray till your prayer is answered, don't stop till you see results. God bless you.

  • @bridgetanderu1475
    @bridgetanderu1475 11 місяців тому

    I needed this, I have just realized I haven't healed😢 heal me Lord 😢

  • @mary_goldie_
    @mary_goldie_ 11 місяців тому

    I cried so much listening to this, it's so scary falling in love again
    It really is it's close to a year and I'm not even done healing

  • @MercyObot-w4g
    @MercyObot-w4g Рік тому +21

    This message is so thought provoking, thank you Sir. I am blessed

  • @olayiwolafaith6794
    @olayiwolafaith6794 Рік тому +4

    Holy spirit, help me. I need to heal. Thank you sir, this is timely

  • @meremuamos6896
    @meremuamos6896 11 місяців тому +1

    Your enemy is not necessarily God's enemy deep word❤️❤️❤️

  • @InessMutambo
    @InessMutambo 10 місяців тому +1

    Lord please heal me🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @caragudza3823
    @caragudza3823 9 місяців тому

    Powerful sermon i have been healed ..i will become the best version of myself

  • @blessingemmanuel206
    @blessingemmanuel206 9 місяців тому

    Holy Spirit heal me from every pain of my past and childhood 🙏

  • @ejimoforchioma2715
    @ejimoforchioma2715 10 місяців тому

    Wow!wow! Wounded people raising wounded people. True sir

  • @owoyeleesther9257
    @owoyeleesther9257 9 місяців тому +1

    I was broken but I'm healed.

  • @charityoseghale6767
    @charityoseghale6767 Рік тому +25

    This is just for me. I have been so uptight and rigid and always irritated by men

    • @florenceolayemi-ty2un
      @florenceolayemi-ty2un 11 місяців тому

      Thank God for the Holy Spirit who is willing to heal you and make you whole 🤗

  • @LizzyGold128
    @LizzyGold128 10 місяців тому

    Hmmm....this message really hit differently 😢 Lord help me in the healing process 🙏

  • @NinaGk-y1e
    @NinaGk-y1e 11 місяців тому

    I'm grateful for raising practical topics to help us, the young ones. I learnt that one can feel she is healing without knowing that one is just hardened and not properly healed. I also learnt that one can raise philosophies based on ones the hurting heart. I also learnt that, even if I hate someone, or refuses to forgive, it doesn't mean that they will suffer

  • @helenoluwayemisi2066
    @helenoluwayemisi2066 10 місяців тому

    This Word is for me sir!
    I get healed completely immediately.
    Thank you so much sir

  • @Kelishaheaven
    @Kelishaheaven 10 місяців тому

    Heal you have a past , you have scars you have x boyfriends but HEAL !!!!!!! So you don’t bleed on other people powerful 🔥🔥🔥

  • @hopesamson6714
    @hopesamson6714 10 місяців тому

    Lord, please, I need your healing in all areas of my life that I may have inner peace.

  • @raneljohn508
    @raneljohn508 Рік тому +1

    This message is for me.. going through the healing process now.. forgiveness is God. Pastor Femi found you TikTok not leaving your page.. this is not exactly situation.

  • @GloriawuntimaAbudu
    @GloriawuntimaAbudu Рік тому +6

    Heal before you deal
    Thank you sir

  • @animamesther8293
    @animamesther8293 2 місяці тому

    Lord help me to heal from my past and deal again
    Amen

  • @blessingkiri5058
    @blessingkiri5058 11 місяців тому

    Lord am grateful for this far you have brought me

  • @osemudiamenamede1310
    @osemudiamenamede1310 9 місяців тому +1

    Lord please help me heal

  • @Josephviolet1
    @Josephviolet1 11 місяців тому

    This is me. This was for me😩😩😩
    Healing!
    I have to heal🙌🙌🙌

  • @joysunday8516
    @joysunday8516 Рік тому +1

    Oh lord help me to heal from this betrayal
    Please lord heal me ijn 🙏🙏🙏

  • @MayokunJolaolu
    @MayokunJolaolu 11 місяців тому

    Thank you holy spirit for the strength to finally listen to this message, thank you for helping me in this journey of healing my heart…

  • @vanessamarion4584
    @vanessamarion4584 Рік тому +1

    I feel blessed 🙌 finding this message 🙏

  • @ritachinenyenwadonatus2866
    @ritachinenyenwadonatus2866 Рік тому

    This is so true, it's actually happening to me right now 😢💔tnx for your encouragement sir. I came here through TikTok

  • @essita7735
    @essita7735 9 місяців тому

    God bless you Sir
    Truth Truth Truth 💯

  • @modestafrimpong3850
    @modestafrimpong3850 8 місяців тому +1

    Heal before you deal 😍🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @ekawuokwufavour6797
    @ekawuokwufavour6797 10 місяців тому +1

    Message well noted😊

  • @caragudza3823
    @caragudza3823 9 місяців тому

    If i had come across this earlier , i wouldn't have lost him ...but thank you papa i will take time

  • @anyanwumichelle5803
    @anyanwumichelle5803 10 днів тому

    I honestly needed to hear this.

  • @desirelynda5417
    @desirelynda5417 10 місяців тому

    I was talking about marriage yesterday with my friend and i find this..., it's no coincidence

  • @blessingchidimmaeze6286
    @blessingchidimmaeze6286 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you pastor lazarus....this message came at the time i needed it the most 😢

  • @Ololadecorner
    @Ololadecorner 6 днів тому

    Thank you Jesus 🙏🎉❤

  • @francablessing9285
    @francablessing9285 9 місяців тому

    God bless this man for me.

  • @Margie-e
    @Margie-e 11 місяців тому

    How I managed to stumble upon this, I don't know. Thank you pastor. I'll Heal, I need it😢😢😢

  • @InnocenciaChiphwanya
    @InnocenciaChiphwanya 11 місяців тому

    This is so powerful... I thank God cuz I have come Across this teaching

  • @janetdamilola9589
    @janetdamilola9589 11 місяців тому

    Hmmm Papa thank so much for this it really meet me at the point of my need, sir I need help to heal from my background and my father 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @amari8071
    @amari8071 Рік тому +7

    This message is timely thank you sir.

  • @KDMOJ8553
    @KDMOJ8553 Рік тому +1

    Thank you sir. I have been struggling to heal... I pray holy spirit help me 🙏

  • @ritamirriamekpe9422
    @ritamirriamekpe9422 4 місяці тому

    Thank you sir God bless you richly i pray for more pf God's grace on you sir

  • @MichaelSly-n1p
    @MichaelSly-n1p 6 місяців тому

    Thanks for the words apostles Femi

  • @blessingokon8010
    @blessingokon8010 Рік тому

    I make sure i download Apostles Femi messages every week via the TG link... I play one message every night.. God bless you sir for yielding to God🙏🏽

  • @bokonojolie6543
    @bokonojolie6543 Рік тому +2

    You ministered to me directly sir 😭 thank you so much for this

  • @clementgrace8937
    @clementgrace8937 10 місяців тому

    Thank You Pastor Sir
    Holy Spirit help me to Heal completely

  • @nwachinemererosevivian2585
    @nwachinemererosevivian2585 11 місяців тому

    I'm grateful for this at this point in my life

  • @Glambycoucsie
    @Glambycoucsie 10 місяців тому

    And the healing is not just for the women but for men too. I am speaking from experience

  • @okunfeyiwaabisoye2461
    @okunfeyiwaabisoye2461 Рік тому +8

    Ahhhh Pastor Femi, this is for me 😭

  • @mfongirl
    @mfongirl 11 місяців тому

    Dont give people the impression that they so important you can't find thier kind.
    Apostle thank you so much for this excerpts. More Grace to you Sir🎉

  • @favezworld882
    @favezworld882 11 місяців тому

    Oh God this message… I need the full version🙏

  • @NancyApeh
    @NancyApeh 11 місяців тому

    Thank God I came across this word,Lord please heal me

  • @nsamwabanda-iw3tw
    @nsamwabanda-iw3tw Місяць тому

    Dear lord please heal me from all my emotional trauma,