WHAT YOU MUST DO FIRST AS A LADY BEFORE MARRIAGE || APOSTLE FEMI LAZARUS

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  • WHAT YOU MUST DO FIRST AS A LADY BEFORE MARRIAGE || APOSTLE FEMI LAZARUS

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  • @vero811
    @vero811 5 місяців тому +64

    "You are not worthless; you are just around people who don't know your value."

  • @gracejohnson2286
    @gracejohnson2286 4 місяці тому +27

    Life is not easy for the blind. You are not worthless, you're only around those who don't know your value. When the person who wants to marry you comes, you will be everything he prays for and more. Pastor Femi Lazarus

  • @ifeoluwafriendlywole-adewu3741
    @ifeoluwafriendlywole-adewu3741 7 місяців тому +146

    1. Heal;
    From your Past
    From our Ex
    From the dysfunctionality of your background.
    From your emotional traumas
    From the wrong words spoken to you
    Heal before you deal!

  • @Themiracleonah
    @Themiracleonah 6 місяців тому +39

    Wow!!
    One can never over prepare for marriage!!
    Cohabitation is an abomination!!
    I will get busy maximizing my single days because I need it.
    God bless you Sir

  • @monicachanda3258
    @monicachanda3258 6 місяців тому +39

    What a lady should do before getting married:-
    1, Heal (Heal before your deal)
    2, Your enemy isn't necessarily God's enemy
    3, Take a Break, cry after crying take a very good meal
    4, pick up again

    • @evldflorinda
      @evldflorinda 5 місяців тому +1

      It's not easy but by the grace of God, it will be fine

  • @AkpovwokukoGrace
    @AkpovwokukoGrace 4 місяці тому +11

    Lord heal me from the crown of my head to the sole of my feet, from my childhood trauma, from my family, friends betrayal and relationships betrayal.. amen

  • @estheremmanuel3815
    @estheremmanuel3815 4 місяці тому +36

    Lord heal me from the pains of the past and prepare me for my future husband emotionally and physically

  • @enehruth5422
    @enehruth5422 6 місяців тому +34

    Dear Holyspirit, please heal me completely and continue to lead me step by step everyday❤

  • @OluebubeWrites
    @OluebubeWrites 6 місяців тому +18

    Wounded people raising wounded people... Hmmmm... 😢😢😢

  • @okonkwonkechi5602
    @okonkwonkechi5602 7 місяців тому +75

    What to put in place before marriage: Heal from your past and background. Prepare! U can never over Prepare ❤ Avoid Cohabitation 😮

  • @abanghappiness9331
    @abanghappiness9331 4 місяці тому +20

    People keep telling me to move on when I lost my Fiancé I told them once I’m healed everything will be good cause I can’t go into relationship when I’m still thinking about my late guy but as time goes on I’m now getting better I thank God for restoring me bit by bit I pray God being a man cause I’m okay now going to 2years thank you Lord

  • @siahbeh8460
    @siahbeh8460 5 місяців тому +7

    Father, please help me heal from all the pain,rejection, lack of love... I really want to heal, Lord, help me.

  • @ibukundeborah4386
    @ibukundeborah4386 7 місяців тому +23

    Lord help me heal from all my past pain...

  • @faustinaozoguji7485
    @faustinaozoguji7485 7 місяців тому +35

    Lord help me to heal so I can truly love and be loved by people around me. ❤️

  • @abigailusani5362
    @abigailusani5362 5 місяців тому +16

    God will continue to bless you sir.. I dunno but whenever I’m down God sends me a message. I didn't stumble on this by chance. I've healed from the worst experience I had and trying to love again, now it's rocky and I found myself going through that pain again but I’m glad this message has saved me..

  • @olaidesogoye9585
    @olaidesogoye9585 9 місяців тому +183

    I came from tiktok

  • @victoriafelix9665
    @victoriafelix9665 6 місяців тому +14

    Life happens to everyone.. the important things is to heal😢😢

  • @ngantukaila197
    @ngantukaila197 6 місяців тому +65

    Lord please help me heal from my childhood trauma so I can move on.

    • @maryannodeh3387
      @maryannodeh3387 6 місяців тому +3

      This is the most difficult situation in my life at the moment... childhood truama is the worse thing that can happen to anyone it just opens door to other truamas and it seems unending until God shows u mercy ....me I have seen 99 sha

    • @virginiechristinemangaonan3012
      @virginiechristinemangaonan3012 6 місяців тому

      Amen

    • @Pwettydamsel
      @Pwettydamsel 5 місяців тому

      Amen 🙏

    • @njerindeeri3347
      @njerindeeri3347 4 місяці тому

      Amen! You are healed in The name

    • @njerindeeri3347
      @njerindeeri3347 4 місяці тому

      Amen! You are healed in Jesus' name

  • @oluwabukunmibamikole1737
    @oluwabukunmibamikole1737 4 місяці тому +2

    I must heal from my past, background dysfunctionality, the wrong words spoken to me, scars, mistakes, and past emotional traumas. The journey of my healing is between me and my God. I need to heal before I deal. Overreaction is a sign that healing from a hurt has not yet taken place. I receive the grace to heal and forgive those who have hurt me in the past. God has something great in stock for me.

  • @temitopeade-dosunmu3680
    @temitopeade-dosunmu3680 4 місяці тому +7

    Learn from your mistakes,pick yourself up again,you are a Queen.Get up and deal.Don’t give people the impression that they are so important you can’t find their kind.

  • @eniolaoladoke5136
    @eniolaoladoke5136 6 місяців тому +9

    1. Heal;
    From your past
    From your Ex
    From the dysfunctionality of your background
    From your emotional traumas
    From the wrong and negative words spoken to you
    Heal before you deal.

  • @Sarahpelz98
    @Sarahpelz98 6 місяців тому +45

    Listening to this on my bed cause I don't feel like going out.
    I think it's high time, I finally heal completely. God has been helping me so far. Glory.
    Thank God I stumbled on this message.

    • @euniceberthran1491
      @euniceberthran1491 5 місяців тому

      Please how do you heal? I have been trying

    • @Sarahpelz98
      @Sarahpelz98 5 місяців тому

      @@euniceberthran1491 Healing is a decision one has to take to my best of knowledge, It hurts but one has to consciously take the courage to let go of whatever caused the pain.
      I decided to move on and see myself better than I was at that time.
      I believed it was just a phase and I would definitely go past it.
      All these with the help of God 💯
      Talk to God about the pain, everything basically and you'll find comfort, just as I did.
      God bless you sis 🙏

    • @prettyritty2056
      @prettyritty2056 5 місяців тому

      ​@@euniceberthran1491pray cry and talk to God in prayer pullout ur heart to him , and you will be heal that's what helps me ❤❤❤❤

    • @Shelleygwesetalent24
      @Shelleygwesetalent24 3 місяці тому

      @@euniceberthran1491 you face your pain face to face, cry if you have to forgive yourself and those who wronged you and ask the Holy Spirit to help you heal and mend your heart..... Don't forget Jesus loves you and sees you worthy to die for ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jenniferojay746
    @jenniferojay746 5 місяців тому +4

    God!!I've literally cried my eyes out!!!I am not a superman 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @OluwaseyiAdemuyiwa
    @OluwaseyiAdemuyiwa 7 місяців тому +45

    This preaching is perfectly for me because I just realized that I've been holding on to traumas of the past especially emotional trauma which really affected me and is still affecting me. I've been holding on to so many grudges and I've blocked some people and created a walI around me because of those bad memories. I really need to heal because I always feel stuck in one place each time I try to move on. I just thank God for using you sir to open my eyes. God bless you sir.

    • @dimma2509
      @dimma2509 6 місяців тому +1

      May the Lord send you healing and peace.

    • @JenniferAbali
      @JenniferAbali 5 місяців тому

      The Lord is ur strength 👍

  • @shinewithdyness5428
    @shinewithdyness5428 6 місяців тому +6

    God, thanks for these after total healing from depression, child trauma, fear, anxiety

  • @charityoseghale6767
    @charityoseghale6767 7 місяців тому +23

    This is just for me. I have been so uptight and rigid and always irritated by men

    • @florenceolayemi-ty2un
      @florenceolayemi-ty2un 5 місяців тому

      Thank God for the Holy Spirit who is willing to heal you and make you whole 🤗

  • @mfongirl
    @mfongirl 5 місяців тому +3

    'Life is not easy for the blind, you are not worthless you are only around those who don't know your value ' Apostle Femi Lazarus.

  • @amandaugwu8075
    @amandaugwu8075 8 місяців тому +24

    Lord help me to heal from this betrayal. I WANT TO HEAL 😢

  • @joychiroma7314
    @joychiroma7314 6 місяців тому +17

    Pastor Femi God bless you , you are a rare gift to this world, your messages have broken me so many times . I pray God brings healing ❤️‍🩹 to everyone hurting .

  • @cynthia-jo1zz
    @cynthia-jo1zz 7 місяців тому +35

    As a daughter how will you connect with your mother who will not even seat to have uncomfortable conversation.. connection is impossible to someone who isn't connected to themselves..you have to be conscience of this and make peace within yourself..make yourself whole..❤❤

    • @FadekeYusuf
      @FadekeYusuf 4 місяці тому

      Pray for her and let God create the connection for you, I speak from experience, pray till your prayer is answered, don't stop till you see results. God bless you.

  • @ufonudofia4555
    @ufonudofia4555 8 місяців тому +27

    This is a time bomb. An instrumental message for me. God bless you sir for these words.

  • @florencegmunyeneh8811
    @florencegmunyeneh8811 4 місяці тому +1

    Lord Jesus Christ 🙏🏼 deliver me from every hurt, pain, mockery, shame and insults🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @uniquehomesandproperties92
    @uniquehomesandproperties92 7 місяців тому +2

    This raw truth, undiluted.
    God bless you man of God 🙏

  • @officialgraceali
    @officialgraceali 6 місяців тому +27

    I felt I was being spoken to directly. Kai.
    This message is so timely and has blessed my life. Thank you, sir.

    • @princessshirley2484
      @princessshirley2484 6 місяців тому

      Swears me too 😢like It’s just what I needed to hear and the time frame is perfect

  • @jacintanekwuojo9638
    @jacintanekwuojo9638 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for your teachings … This is it all for me❤🙏

  • @arulebatemitope2699
    @arulebatemitope2699 6 місяців тому +1

    Oh my God! This is so powerful and has blessed me❤

  • @amari8071
    @amari8071 8 місяців тому +7

    This message is timely thank you sir.

  • @OjoJanet
    @OjoJanet 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much Sir for this message. God help me to heal

  • @olayiwolafaith6794
    @olayiwolafaith6794 6 місяців тому +4

    Holy spirit, help me. I need to heal. Thank you sir, this is timely

  • @simplyversatile16
    @simplyversatile16 7 місяців тому +2

    Wow. Great advice. Thank you sir, God bless you. 🙏🏾

  • @user-kt6cn1hc9z
    @user-kt6cn1hc9z 8 місяців тому +4

    Explosive teaching sir. I'm blessed to hear this.

  • @GloriaMwale-yy7rl
    @GloriaMwale-yy7rl 6 місяців тому +7

    I love the way you teach man of God,,i pray to heal from the pain my father caused me, cause sometimes i see the picture of my father in my boyfriend. May God heal me

  • @kayodelayomi5601
    @kayodelayomi5601 7 місяців тому +1

    Thanks so much,more grace.this is eye opener

  • @user-js3if9vw6b
    @user-js3if9vw6b 8 місяців тому +21

    This message is so thought provoking, thank you Sir. I am blessed

  • @winnieodwee2155
    @winnieodwee2155 6 місяців тому +2

    Ohh many thanks man of God, today you have truly spoken to me. I thank God for this grace 🙏.

  • @The_Moyosola
    @The_Moyosola 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this
    You're blessed

  • @GloriawuntimaAbudu
    @GloriawuntimaAbudu 8 місяців тому +6

    Heal before you deal
    Thank you sir

  • @bokonojolie6543
    @bokonojolie6543 6 місяців тому +2

    You ministered to me directly sir 😭 thank you so much for this

  • @onaziijosi2102
    @onaziijosi2102 7 місяців тому +2

    Very well informed message,God bless sir

  • @EXCELwithTina
    @EXCELwithTina 6 місяців тому +2

    I am blessed by this message Sir.

  • @deborahauossonabi5938
    @deborahauossonabi5938 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you sir for this word,😢😢it is for me,God bless you sir .

  • @maryonuorah489
    @maryonuorah489 6 місяців тому

    I love what God is using you to do sir❤

  • @patiencehedima5964
    @patiencehedima5964 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much sir for all you do

  • @rofhiwam2411
    @rofhiwam2411 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this ❤❤

  • @Ndaya245
    @Ndaya245 8 місяців тому +2

    I NEEDED THIS!

  • @joella3938
    @joella3938 6 місяців тому

    Healing!
    Thank you, sir. 🙇

  • @balogunhopei
    @balogunhopei 6 місяців тому

    This message really touched my heart

  • @ChigozirimEsther
    @ChigozirimEsther 4 місяці тому +1

    This message is just for me😢........o lord help me to heal completely amen

  • @nwachinemererosevivian2585
    @nwachinemererosevivian2585 5 місяців тому

    I'm grateful for this at this point in my life

  • @durojolablessing3253
    @durojolablessing3253 6 місяців тому +2

    This is really insightful

  • @InnocenciaChiphwanya
    @InnocenciaChiphwanya 5 місяців тому

    This is so powerful... I thank God cuz I have come Across this teaching

  • @adaharcourt7023
    @adaharcourt7023 8 місяців тому +1

    I came from tiktok... very timely for me.

  • @ritachinenyenwadonatus2866
    @ritachinenyenwadonatus2866 6 місяців тому

    This is so true, it's actually happening to me right now 😢💔tnx for your encouragement sir. I came here through TikTok

  • @favezworld882
    @favezworld882 5 місяців тому

    Oh God this message… I need the full version🙏

  • @ObodoechinaElizabeth
    @ObodoechinaElizabeth 4 місяці тому

    So blessed listening to this message. Thanks sir

  • @raneljohn508
    @raneljohn508 6 місяців тому +1

    This message is for me.. going through the healing process now.. forgiveness is God. Pastor Femi found you TikTok not leaving your page.. this is not exactly situation.

  • @MayokunJolaolu
    @MayokunJolaolu 5 місяців тому

    Thank you holy spirit for the strength to finally listen to this message, thank you for helping me in this journey of healing my heart…

  • @vanessamarion4584
    @vanessamarion4584 6 місяців тому +1

    I feel blessed 🙌 finding this message 🙏

  • @faithsayid4606
    @faithsayid4606 9 місяців тому +3

    Thank you Jesus

  • @blessingokon8010
    @blessingokon8010 6 місяців тому

    I make sure i download Apostles Femi messages every week via the TG link... I play one message every night.. God bless you sir for yielding to God🙏🏽

  • @AdedoyinAdekoyejo
    @AdedoyinAdekoyejo 6 місяців тому +1

    Thanks so much Sir
    God bless you 🙏

  • @PeaceAbezi-es9ry
    @PeaceAbezi-es9ry 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for this message ❤

  • @victoriaisrael383
    @victoriaisrael383 7 місяців тому +15

    This man is full of wisdom 😢❤

  • @jenniferpius8748
    @jenniferpius8748 4 місяці тому +11

    I wish everyone with a broken heart can hear dis msg 😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤

    • @PIPI-LOVE
      @PIPI-LOVE 3 місяці тому

      It's possible as you keep sharing this message

  • @MichaelSly-n1p
    @MichaelSly-n1p 3 дні тому

    Thanks for the words apostles Femi

  • @stellamisomali1990
    @stellamisomali1990 4 місяці тому

    Very encouraging, I like it and its true may GOD help us

  • @marthangafor6414
    @marthangafor6414 7 місяців тому +1

    This is a deep word!

  • @anthoniaukochovwera4586
    @anthoniaukochovwera4586 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank u sir this message is for me , a merry heart doeth good like medicine ❤❤❤

  • @blessingchidimmaeze6286
    @blessingchidimmaeze6286 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you pastor lazarus....this message came at the time i needed it the most 😢

  • @KDMOJ8553
    @KDMOJ8553 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you sir. I have been struggling to heal... I pray holy spirit help me 🙏

  • @Kammydesigns
    @Kammydesigns 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank you sir for this❤

  • @tomiwafetuga9878
    @tomiwafetuga9878 4 місяці тому

    Thank you Apostle… this message came right on time.

  • @yvonneporch7834
    @yvonneporch7834 5 місяців тому

    Thank you sir for this message
    I will be healed

  • @tmtv9672
    @tmtv9672 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you sir for thisss message

  • @winsrikhu_123
    @winsrikhu_123 5 місяців тому +1

    Life happens to all of us but the only way to stay healing is to heal.❤️

  • @Peace-gc2ni
    @Peace-gc2ni 6 місяців тому

    Thanks for this powerful message sir 🔥🔥🔥

  • @user-ify_excel_fabric
    @user-ify_excel_fabric 6 місяців тому

    Thank you sir for this message

  • @blessingkiri5058
    @blessingkiri5058 4 місяці тому

    Lord am grateful for this far you have brought me

  • @ugwufaith6895
    @ugwufaith6895 7 місяців тому +3

    Lord pls help me to heal completely for the rightful man

  • @okwuchukwublessing8012
    @okwuchukwublessing8012 7 місяців тому +1

    thank you pastor femi, you just addressed me

  • @bridgetanderu1475
    @bridgetanderu1475 4 місяці тому

    I needed this, I have just realized I haven't healed😢 heal me Lord 😢

  • @harmonygeorge-buannie2041
    @harmonygeorge-buannie2041 9 місяців тому +1

    I am blessed oh🙌

  • @joysunday8516
    @joysunday8516 7 місяців тому +1

    Oh lord help me to heal from this betrayal
    Please lord heal me ijn 🙏🙏🙏

  • @caragudza3823
    @caragudza3823 3 місяці тому

    Powerful sermon i have been healed ..i will become the best version of myself

  • @imikudeborah-yb5tv
    @imikudeborah-yb5tv 4 місяці тому

    Your right Apostle ,thanks for the message

  • @amakarhoda9147
    @amakarhoda9147 6 місяців тому

    Thank you sir, I'm blessed.

  • @rebeccaattah6544
    @rebeccaattah6544 7 місяців тому +1

    Oh Lord please heal me 🥺🙏
    Thank you sir

  • @Assistifyco
    @Assistifyco 8 місяців тому +11

    I want to heal but I don't know how to, I'm so hurt and the worst part is, I blame myself for it...I permitted it.

    • @aremumayowa7117
      @aremumayowa7117 8 місяців тому +10

      You have to first forgive yourself and then forgive the people that hurt you and ask for the overwhelming love of God to fill your heart.

    • @Healourtrauma
      @Healourtrauma 7 місяців тому +4

      Exactly....the pain of knowing better and permitting them to inflint you with pain is something we find it difficult to forgive ourselve for

    • @EstherImaetteAkpan
      @EstherImaetteAkpan 6 місяців тому +3

      I speak healing to you through the Holy Spirit right now in Jesus Precious name. Amen
      Always say 'Holy Spirit help me'

  • @Esther_nw
    @Esther_nw 5 місяців тому

    I came from Instagram… this blessed me 🥺

  • @oseyemidamilola5592
    @oseyemidamilola5592 6 місяців тому

    Thank you sir. God bless you 🙏