WHAT YOU MUST DO FIRST AS A LADY BEFORE MARRIAGE || APOSTLE FEMI LAZARUS

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  • @gracejohnson2286
    @gracejohnson2286 9 місяців тому +40

    Life is not easy for the blind. You are not worthless, you're only around those who don't know your value. When the person who wants to marry you comes, you will be everything he prays for and more. Pastor Femi Lazarus

  • @vero811
    @vero811 10 місяців тому +80

    "You are not worthless; you are just around people who don't know your value."

  • @estheremmanuel3815
    @estheremmanuel3815 9 місяців тому +51

    Lord heal me from the pains of the past and prepare me for my future husband emotionally and physically

  • @ifeoluwafriendlywole-adewu3741
    @ifeoluwafriendlywole-adewu3741 Рік тому +187

    1. Heal;
    From your Past
    From our Ex
    From the dysfunctionality of your background.
    From the pain afflicted on you by your father
    From your emotional traumas
    From the wrong words spoken to you
    Heal before you deal!

  • @monicachanda3258
    @monicachanda3258 11 місяців тому +53

    What a lady should do before getting married:-
    1, Heal (Heal before your deal)
    2, Your enemy isn't necessarily God's enemy
    3, Take a Break, cry after crying take a very good meal
    4, pick up again

    • @evldflorinda
      @evldflorinda 10 місяців тому +1

      It's not easy but by the grace of God, it will be fine

  • @OluebubeWrites
    @OluebubeWrites 11 місяців тому +25

    Wounded people raising wounded people... Hmmmm... 😢😢😢

  • @Themiracleonah
    @Themiracleonah 11 місяців тому +44

    Wow!!
    One can never over prepare for marriage!!
    Cohabitation is an abomination!!
    I will get busy maximizing my single days because I need it.
    God bless you Sir

  • @AkpovwokukoGrace
    @AkpovwokukoGrace 9 місяців тому +12

    Lord heal me from the crown of my head to the sole of my feet, from my childhood trauma, from my family, friends betrayal and relationships betrayal.. amen

  • @abanghappiness9331
    @abanghappiness9331 9 місяців тому +31

    People keep telling me to move on when I lost my Fiancé I told them once I’m healed everything will be good cause I can’t go into relationship when I’m still thinking about my late guy but as time goes on I’m now getting better I thank God for restoring me bit by bit I pray God being a man cause I’m okay now going to 2years thank you Lord

    • @jemimahcharles6543
      @jemimahcharles6543 9 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for sharing this. May God continue to work on your heart.

    • @faithFul_nheeKie
      @faithFul_nheeKie 9 місяців тому

      You're whole ✨ Sending you ❤️ &💡

    • @abidemiracheal8283
      @abidemiracheal8283 7 місяців тому

      Thank God for your life

    • @chineduayogu4306
      @chineduayogu4306 2 місяці тому

      God is making everything perfect for you... Thoughts and prayers

  • @okonkwonkechi5602
    @okonkwonkechi5602 Рік тому +78

    What to put in place before marriage: Heal from your past and background. Prepare! U can never over Prepare ❤ Avoid Cohabitation 😮

  • @enehruth5422
    @enehruth5422 11 місяців тому +37

    Dear Holyspirit, please heal me completely and continue to lead me step by step everyday❤

  • @Sarahpelz98
    @Sarahpelz98 11 місяців тому +48

    Listening to this on my bed cause I don't feel like going out.
    I think it's high time, I finally heal completely. God has been helping me so far. Glory.
    Thank God I stumbled on this message.

    • @euniceberthran1491
      @euniceberthran1491 10 місяців тому

      Please how do you heal? I have been trying

    • @Sarahpelz98
      @Sarahpelz98 10 місяців тому

      @@euniceberthran1491 Healing is a decision one has to take to my best of knowledge, It hurts but one has to consciously take the courage to let go of whatever caused the pain.
      I decided to move on and see myself better than I was at that time.
      I believed it was just a phase and I would definitely go past it.
      All these with the help of God 💯
      Talk to God about the pain, everything basically and you'll find comfort, just as I did.
      God bless you sis 🙏

    • @prettyritty2056
      @prettyritty2056 10 місяців тому

      ​@@euniceberthran1491pray cry and talk to God in prayer pullout ur heart to him , and you will be heal that's what helps me ❤❤❤❤

    • @Shelleygwesetalent24
      @Shelleygwesetalent24 8 місяців тому

      @@euniceberthran1491 you face your pain face to face, cry if you have to forgive yourself and those who wronged you and ask the Holy Spirit to help you heal and mend your heart..... Don't forget Jesus loves you and sees you worthy to die for ❤️❤️❤️

  • @OluwaseyiAdemuyiwa
    @OluwaseyiAdemuyiwa Рік тому +50

    This preaching is perfectly for me because I just realized that I've been holding on to traumas of the past especially emotional trauma which really affected me and is still affecting me. I've been holding on to so many grudges and I've blocked some people and created a walI around me because of those bad memories. I really need to heal because I always feel stuck in one place each time I try to move on. I just thank God for using you sir to open my eyes. God bless you sir.

    • @dimma2509
      @dimma2509 11 місяців тому +1

      May the Lord send you healing and peace.

    • @JenniferAbali
      @JenniferAbali 10 місяців тому

      The Lord is ur strength 👍

  • @ngantukaila197
    @ngantukaila197 11 місяців тому +68

    Lord please help me heal from my childhood trauma so I can move on.

    • @maryannodeh3387
      @maryannodeh3387 11 місяців тому +4

      This is the most difficult situation in my life at the moment... childhood truama is the worse thing that can happen to anyone it just opens door to other truamas and it seems unending until God shows u mercy ....me I have seen 99 sha

    • @virginiechristinemangaonan3012
      @virginiechristinemangaonan3012 11 місяців тому +1

      Amen

    • @Pwettydamsel
      @Pwettydamsel 10 місяців тому

      Amen 🙏

    • @njerindeeri3347
      @njerindeeri3347 9 місяців тому

      Amen! You are healed in The name

    • @njerindeeri3347
      @njerindeeri3347 9 місяців тому

      Amen! You are healed in Jesus' name

  • @olaidesogoye9585
    @olaidesogoye9585 Рік тому +185

    I came from tiktok

  • @eniolaoladoke5136
    @eniolaoladoke5136 11 місяців тому +11

    1. Heal;
    From your past
    From your Ex
    From the dysfunctionality of your background
    From your emotional traumas
    From the wrong and negative words spoken to you
    Heal before you deal.

  • @abigailusani5362
    @abigailusani5362 10 місяців тому +17

    God will continue to bless you sir.. I dunno but whenever I’m down God sends me a message. I didn't stumble on this by chance. I've healed from the worst experience I had and trying to love again, now it's rocky and I found myself going through that pain again but I’m glad this message has saved me..

  • @nyamushagibridget9853
    @nyamushagibridget9853 2 місяці тому +1

    Heartbreak i know it all too well.....they left but Jesus never left.....im healing.... thank you Pastor Femi...... this was helpful......Amen 🙏🙏🙏 i shall love again

  • @ibukundeborah4386
    @ibukundeborah4386 Рік тому +23

    Lord help me heal from all my past pain...

  • @oluwabukunmibamikole1737
    @oluwabukunmibamikole1737 9 місяців тому +2

    I must heal from my past, background dysfunctionality, the wrong words spoken to me, scars, mistakes, and past emotional traumas. The journey of my healing is between me and my God. I need to heal before I deal. Overreaction is a sign that healing from a hurt has not yet taken place. I receive the grace to heal and forgive those who have hurt me in the past. God has something great in stock for me.

  • @temitopeade-dosunmu3680
    @temitopeade-dosunmu3680 9 місяців тому +11

    Learn from your mistakes,pick yourself up again,you are a Queen.Get up and deal.Don’t give people the impression that they are so important you can’t find their kind.

    • @cindyasiedu1504
      @cindyasiedu1504 2 місяці тому

      Seems like you are talking to me. Thanks for this . I’m trying to forget my ex and it’s been sooooo hard

  • @victoriafelix9665
    @victoriafelix9665 11 місяців тому +14

    Life happens to everyone.. the important things is to heal😢😢

  • @faustinaozoguji7485
    @faustinaozoguji7485 Рік тому +35

    Lord help me to heal so I can truly love and be loved by people around me. ❤️

  • @Zovani02
    @Zovani02 10 місяців тому +5

    God!!I've literally cried my eyes out!!!I am not a superman 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @amandaugwu8075
    @amandaugwu8075 Рік тому +24

    Lord help me to heal from this betrayal. I WANT TO HEAL 😢

  • @officialgraceali
    @officialgraceali 11 місяців тому +29

    I felt I was being spoken to directly. Kai.
    This message is so timely and has blessed my life. Thank you, sir.

    • @princessshirley2484
      @princessshirley2484 11 місяців тому

      Swears me too 😢like It’s just what I needed to hear and the time frame is perfect

  • @siahbeh8460
    @siahbeh8460 10 місяців тому +7

    Father, please help me heal from all the pain,rejection, lack of love... I really want to heal, Lord, help me.

  • @jenniferpius8748
    @jenniferpius8748 9 місяців тому +12

    I wish everyone with a broken heart can hear dis msg 😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤

    • @PIPI-LOVE
      @PIPI-LOVE 8 місяців тому

      It's possible as you keep sharing this message

  • @GloriaMwale-yy7rl
    @GloriaMwale-yy7rl 11 місяців тому +9

    I love the way you teach man of God,,i pray to heal from the pain my father caused me, cause sometimes i see the picture of my father in my boyfriend. May God heal me

  • @JulietNwani-el1lj
    @JulietNwani-el1lj 9 місяців тому +2

    Lord heal me from my past pain😢

  • @mfongirl
    @mfongirl 10 місяців тому +3

    'Life is not easy for the blind, you are not worthless you are only around those who don't know your value ' Apostle Femi Lazarus.

  • @florencegmunyeneh8811
    @florencegmunyeneh8811 9 місяців тому +1

    Lord Jesus Christ 🙏🏼 deliver me from every hurt, pain, mockery, shame and insults🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Joychiroma-chic
    @Joychiroma-chic 11 місяців тому +18

    Pastor Femi God bless you , you are a rare gift to this world, your messages have broken me so many times . I pray God brings healing ❤️‍🩹 to everyone hurting .

  • @winsrikhu_123
    @winsrikhu_123 10 місяців тому +2

    Life happens to all of us but the only way to stay healing is to heal.❤️

  • @Ujudivine-lk4gp
    @Ujudivine-lk4gp 28 днів тому

    Get busy maximizing your single days,you can't over prepare for marriage..that's my best part❤

  • @ChigozirimEsther
    @ChigozirimEsther 9 місяців тому +1

    This message is just for me😢........o lord help me to heal completely amen

  • @marvelloussunday5928
    @marvelloussunday5928 16 днів тому +2

    7 practical things to put in place before you marry.
    1. Heal
    Heal from your past,
    From your Ex,
    Heal from the dysfunctionality of your background.
    Heal from the pain afflicted on you by your father.
    Heal from your emotional traumas
    Heal from the wrong words spoken to you.
    Heal from the scars.
    You need to heal before you deal.
    If you refuse to forgive your ex or anyone who has hurt you, you are putting pressure on yourself and injuring yourself again.
    The journey of your healing is between you and God, not your husband.
    Your healing process is between you and the Holy Spirit. He heals broken hearts.
    Heal and forgive because of you😢
    Don't hide your pains, heal from them. Learn from your mistakes then get up and deal again. You are a queen!!
    It is not strength not to be soft as a woman.
    You are not done!
    You will love it again!!
    God has sons!
    Don't cry over those who want to manage you!
    Don't give people the impression that you can't do without them!!

  • @InessMutambo
    @InessMutambo 9 місяців тому +1

    Lord please heal me🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @ufonudofia4555
    @ufonudofia4555 Рік тому +27

    This is a time bomb. An instrumental message for me. God bless you sir for these words.

  • @shinewithdyness5428
    @shinewithdyness5428 11 місяців тому +6

    God, thanks for these after total healing from depression, child trauma, fear, anxiety

  • @charityoseghale6767
    @charityoseghale6767 Рік тому +25

    This is just for me. I have been so uptight and rigid and always irritated by men

    • @florenceolayemi-ty2un
      @florenceolayemi-ty2un 10 місяців тому

      Thank God for the Holy Spirit who is willing to heal you and make you whole 🤗

  • @deeo5777
    @deeo5777 10 місяців тому +3

    Therapy with certified therapist works also. It doesn't always have to be church counseling only. Great work sir

  • @owoyeleesther9257
    @owoyeleesther9257 8 місяців тому +1

    I was broken but I'm healed.

  • @Iambblessed
    @Iambblessed Місяць тому

    Holy spirit heal my broken heart 🙏
    God bring one of your beloved sons to me your beloved daughter in Jesus Name 🙏

  • @cynthia-jo1zz
    @cynthia-jo1zz Рік тому +35

    As a daughter how will you connect with your mother who will not even seat to have uncomfortable conversation.. connection is impossible to someone who isn't connected to themselves..you have to be conscience of this and make peace within yourself..make yourself whole..❤❤

    • @FadekeYusuf
      @FadekeYusuf 9 місяців тому

      Pray for her and let God create the connection for you, I speak from experience, pray till your prayer is answered, don't stop till you see results. God bless you.

  • @victoriaisrael383
    @victoriaisrael383 Рік тому +15

    This man is full of wisdom 😢❤

  • @utibeakpan4344
    @utibeakpan4344 15 днів тому

    Wow! I feel so blessed by a section of the sermon.
    Pastor, it felt like you were describing me from top to bottom.
    I realize I need to heal from the pain caused by both of my parents.
    Sometimes, I even feel like disowning them.
    I struggle to forgive and forget permanently, and this has deeply affected my marriage.

  • @animamesther8293
    @animamesther8293 Місяць тому

    Lord help me to heal from my past and deal again
    Amen

  • @preciousokpob3183
    @preciousokpob3183 9 місяців тому +1

    When the person am design for come, lord am waiting patiently

  • @trendyangel4684
    @trendyangel4684 11 місяців тому +2

    Overreaction is a sign that there is an injury.
    HEAL.
    Good home goes beyond pictures.

  • @meremuamos6896
    @meremuamos6896 10 місяців тому +1

    Your enemy is not necessarily God's enemy deep word❤️❤️❤️

  • @chinonyelumanumba
    @chinonyelumanumba 8 місяців тому +1

    Hallelujah 😭😭😭😭this is for me lord. I need to heal. Been reading books abstract from God to heal. But not actually seeking him everyday. I remember me fasting but was I really really serious not really. Thanks soo much😭🙌🏽his indeed close to the broken hearted 😭😭been hurt. And keep hurting myself. Thanks so much

  • @MercyObot-w4g
    @MercyObot-w4g Рік тому +21

    This message is so thought provoking, thank you Sir. I am blessed

  • @Kelishaheaven
    @Kelishaheaven 9 місяців тому

    Heal you have a past , you have scars you have x boyfriends but HEAL !!!!!!! So you don’t bleed on other people powerful 🔥🔥🔥

  • @blessingemmanuel206
    @blessingemmanuel206 8 місяців тому

    Holy Spirit heal me from every pain of my past and childhood 🙏

  • @modestafrimpong3850
    @modestafrimpong3850 7 місяців тому +1

    Heal before you deal 😍🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @olayiwolafaith6794
    @olayiwolafaith6794 11 місяців тому +4

    Holy spirit, help me. I need to heal. Thank you sir, this is timely

  • @ellaafrica3911
    @ellaafrica3911 7 місяців тому

    This message is for me... God please I really want to heal. Help me heal Lord 😢😢

  • @ugwufaith6895
    @ugwufaith6895 Рік тому +3

    Lord pls help me to heal completely for the rightful man

  • @perpetuadaniel8190
    @perpetuadaniel8190 5 місяців тому

    thank you Jesus for talking to me through this message,help me to heal Lord 🥺🥺🥺😭🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @ekawuokwufavour6797
    @ekawuokwufavour6797 9 місяців тому +1

    Message well noted😊

  • @hopesamson6714
    @hopesamson6714 9 місяців тому

    Lord, please, I need your healing in all areas of my life that I may have inner peace.

  • @mary_goldie_
    @mary_goldie_ 9 місяців тому

    I cried so much listening to this, it's so scary falling in love again
    It really is it's close to a year and I'm not even done healing

  • @bridgetanderu1475
    @bridgetanderu1475 9 місяців тому

    I needed this, I have just realized I haven't healed😢 heal me Lord 😢

  • @ObohJacinta-rl8wj
    @ObohJacinta-rl8wj 9 місяців тому +1

    Lord heal me from dis pain so that I can move on😢

  • @graceanagha1460
    @graceanagha1460 10 місяців тому +1

    Bullets fired at me😢. Lord, Heal me completely 🙏

  • @NissiPositiveN
    @NissiPositiveN Рік тому +9

    This message is for me...
    I need a therapy

  • @okedijitoyin7045
    @okedijitoyin7045 8 місяців тому

    I pray for healing from emotional disfunctionality

  • @caragudza3823
    @caragudza3823 8 місяців тому

    If i had come across this earlier , i wouldn't have lost him ...but thank you papa i will take time

  • @Glambycoucsie
    @Glambycoucsie 9 місяців тому

    And the healing is not just for the women but for men too. I am speaking from experience

  • @desirelynda5417
    @desirelynda5417 9 місяців тому

    I was talking about marriage yesterday with my friend and i find this..., it's no coincidence

  • @caragudza3823
    @caragudza3823 8 місяців тому

    Powerful sermon i have been healed ..i will become the best version of myself

  • @ejimoforchioma2715
    @ejimoforchioma2715 9 місяців тому

    Wow!wow! Wounded people raising wounded people. True sir

  • @dzahfranca1740
    @dzahfranca1740 11 місяців тому +3

    God please help me to heal from my past experience with life I beg you 😢😢😢

  • @helenoluwayemisi2066
    @helenoluwayemisi2066 9 місяців тому

    This Word is for me sir!
    I get healed completely immediately.
    Thank you so much sir

  • @zeliatembo4185
    @zeliatembo4185 6 місяців тому

    Wounded people raising Wounded people 😮😮 that's deep

  • @emmanuelemmanuela009
    @emmanuelemmanuela009 3 місяці тому

    Heal me lord. AMEN

  • @BlessingAmuda-e2i
    @BlessingAmuda-e2i 9 місяців тому

    Oh Lord... please heal me🙏🙏

  • @freedomberyln4459
    @freedomberyln4459 11 місяців тому +2

    Me crying right now while watching this video😢

  • @BamideleADELEKE-l9i
    @BamideleADELEKE-l9i 4 місяці тому

    I am wholly healed

  • @LizzyGold128
    @LizzyGold128 9 місяців тому

    Hmmm....this message really hit differently 😢 Lord help me in the healing process 🙏

  • @Gift-eo7hy
    @Gift-eo7hy 2 місяці тому

    Pls where is the full message
    This is just number one
    Will love to hear all

  • @adedejigrace8538
    @adedejigrace8538 9 місяців тому

    Lord, give me the strength to move on❤

  • @NinaGk-y1e
    @NinaGk-y1e 10 місяців тому

    I'm grateful for raising practical topics to help us, the young ones. I learnt that one can feel she is healing without knowing that one is just hardened and not properly healed. I also learnt that one can raise philosophies based on ones the hurting heart. I also learnt that, even if I hate someone, or refuses to forgive, it doesn't mean that they will suffer

  • @Assistifyco
    @Assistifyco Рік тому +12

    I want to heal but I don't know how to, I'm so hurt and the worst part is, I blame myself for it...I permitted it.

    • @aremumayowa7117
      @aremumayowa7117 Рік тому +10

      You have to first forgive yourself and then forgive the people that hurt you and ask for the overwhelming love of God to fill your heart.

    • @Healourtrauma
      @Healourtrauma Рік тому +4

      Exactly....the pain of knowing better and permitting them to inflint you with pain is something we find it difficult to forgive ourselve for

    • @EstherImaetteAkpan
      @EstherImaetteAkpan 11 місяців тому +3

      I speak healing to you through the Holy Spirit right now in Jesus Precious name. Amen
      Always say 'Holy Spirit help me'

    • @queenstarrjoel5043
      @queenstarrjoel5043 2 місяці тому

      God doesn’t see that if you would just go back to his love and ask him to heal you it might take time but you would surely feel peace

  • @OsuojiHappiness
    @OsuojiHappiness 8 місяців тому

    God please help me to heal completely 🙏🙏

  • @joypatrick946
    @joypatrick946 8 місяців тому

    Oh God pls heal me from my past

  • @oliseeziafa2757
    @oliseeziafa2757 8 місяців тому

    #30minshealthrunfor ApostleFemiLazarus ❤

  • @Josephviolet1
    @Josephviolet1 10 місяців тому

    This is me. This was for me😩😩😩
    Healing!
    I have to heal🙌🙌🙌

  • @OluwatosinOjo-damilola
    @OluwatosinOjo-damilola 11 місяців тому +7

    Lord help me to heal because of the injuries of trauma am into. No wonder I don’t have a relationship because of emotional trauma

  • @FredPhilomina
    @FredPhilomina 6 місяців тому

    Heal me lord

  • @raneljohn508
    @raneljohn508 11 місяців тому +1

    This message is for me.. going through the healing process now.. forgiveness is God. Pastor Femi found you TikTok not leaving your page.. this is not exactly situation.

  • @AboubakarGidado
    @AboubakarGidado 10 місяців тому

    Lord help me to heal before u give me the husband youve ordain for me

  • @adukwuprecious4160
    @adukwuprecious4160 10 місяців тому

    Lord please happy me to heal so i can trust and love again

  • @joysunday8516
    @joysunday8516 Рік тому +1

    Oh lord help me to heal from this betrayal
    Please lord heal me ijn 🙏🙏🙏

  • @blessingkiri5058
    @blessingkiri5058 9 місяців тому

    Lord am grateful for this far you have brought me

  • @lucianoluxuryhotelandsuites
    @lucianoluxuryhotelandsuites 9 місяців тому

    Jesus i need ur healing

  • @Margie-e
    @Margie-e 10 місяців тому

    How I managed to stumble upon this, I don't know. Thank you pastor. I'll Heal, I need it😢😢😢

  • @omotee130
    @omotee130 3 місяці тому

    You need to Heal and Forgive 🙏

  • @felicianyarko3381
    @felicianyarko3381 8 місяців тому

    Continuation of the sermon please