10 commandments - Never pedestalize a woman - Be prepared to let go anytime - Control your degree of attachment to her at all times - Don't hesitate to stand up for yourself when you're objectively right - Never tolerate disrespect - Never over-invest in her. Let her match your effort too - Judge her by substance and compatibility instead of being blown away by her beauty - Never deviate from your personal and professional goals even if you're in a relationship - Build a life where she's just one of the many people/things and not the only one - Never be over-available to her, else she'll take you for granted
These notes are for my reference, have a great day😊 1. 0:35 - A woman’s natural state will naturally gravitate towards chaos. The key is to remain indifferent and not care 2. 1:41 - women view true confidence as a man who is calm 3. 3:43 - you need a volume of dates and experience because there is no substitute for confidence in the bedroom. 4. 5:44 - money does not make the man, man makes the money. You have to be more financially disciplined in life 5. 7:39 - until age 30, it is all just reps and practice, learning what women respond to and don’t respond to. Men need to allow themselves room and time to fail 6. 9:44 - women (and m people in general) always do what is in their own best self interest 7. 11:18 - having good game really comes down to guarding your attention and energy 8. 13:08 - you need to get to a point in life where you say “no” more than you say “yes” 9. 13:56 - the players and the bad boys can attract and sleep with women but at the end of the day she will want a man’s man with rock solid stability who can retain a relationship 10. 15:35 - nobody is immune to hypergamy, regardless of how rich, tall, handsome or high status the man is. The second you fall in love with a woman and she can tell, hypergamy is no longer satisfied, and she will want some other man who does not treat her as well
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Another words: you literally can only “DO YOU” when you’ve been shut down many times. You finally realize, I’m not jumping through all these hoops anymore. If she can’t bring peace, I’ll go where I can get some
man this is some great wisdom, im currently in uni and have been in love with a girl for a year and have been taking with her for the past 3 month but 2 weeks ago things have started to change/ getting colder . i heard ur advice and didnt freak out (for the most part) but now i analyzed the situation and pulled back. and also realized that "shes THE one" mind set will lead to things getting worse and her losing interest.
20 something year olds are all brats 30 something’s are all cool but divorced, have kids and/or have been chewed out too much I think the key is to remember they never have anything really to offer, it’s something you do cos you want to
It really spins me out that someone 15 years younger than me is able to advise me on stuff that my Dad never could. I've learned more from this channel in the past year than in my entire life. It's not even that I am unintelligent or uneducated. And I thought I was red pill. This stuff goes so deep.
Yes, this calmness is high self esteem! I hate one truth that I learned on this channel (about feelings based on market values), because its depressing, but I deal wit it for the better and you are developing/bettered yourself it seems in this vid 💫
Bro, don't take her words so seriously. It's just a lame excuse to get rid of him. Who knows, maybe his weiner is too tiny, or he just doesn't last more than a millisecond in bed? She's giving him an honourable exit. Appreciate her tact.
The sooner you come to terms with the myth of mutual love between men and women..... The faster you accept that openly expressing your love will not work..... The quicker you will find the peace of mind you are looking for with women.
Absolutely like! True to the bone. Unfortunately same things - if not even worse in some aspects - happen in family life. That can be a real challenge for a man.
@@anthonyvasquezactor His larger point to that imo is not leading with emotions vs having emotions. Without them we aren’t actually human. Focus and your path & the rest will follow 🙏🏽
@@christophertishlias2450 My first time on Casey's page. I don't know about the other two, but Bobby Rio is the simp simpiest simp who ever simped for a woman.
Unbelievable how far we have been seperated from our true selves that we do not know anymore what men and women realy need. We have been taught all the opposite, wrong things, for all our lives. A whole new world is opening now.
I wish I had seen this an hour ago. A woman I've known for a while, but just started talking with and was in the process of setting up the first date, knocked me off center by posting herself on a date at an expensive restaurant (she's never posted anything like this before) and I unfriended her and deleted our chats. She now knows she won. Lesson learned. Next.
@@firsthelix6726 Definitely would have realized that no woman should ever be put on such a pedestal to knock me off center. I would have reminded myself that she is one girl out of hundreds of thousands. After processing it, her actions now affect me about as much as passing a chicken hanging at a Chinese storefront in New York. I couldn't care less. But it has helped me learn something about myself and that's what was most important. I needed her attention too much which means I don't have enough going on in my own life. I only need women to be a compliment to my life, not a focus.
Solid advice. But how do you reconcile the contradiction between "Have the financial stability, make her feel secure" with "Let her go back to chaos"`?
08:22 The Japanese through an extension of failure, might call this Kaizen, a method of continuous improvement based on the theory that small, ongoing positive changes can be significant.
It‘s called positive reinforcement, and you don‘t need a video for this. Each time she does something that you value, or showed a positive behavior change, you reward her with words of elogy, and if appropriate with small or larger presents, depending on the meaning it has to you.
A friend of mine had once said "no marriage until 33". You should experience what you really want in life and that takes experiments. Every girlfriend he had before and made pressure.. he let her go if she wanted to. Finally he mets his! wife with nearly 33 and after a few months he married her. They had 2 daughters and are still happy at 67+57, both healthy and have 2 to 3times s3x the week and are still happy💪 And it's true, if you're feel enough, especially when you're married happily, it's astonishing how many women would like to be with you😳 as they say 🤔 Last thing... if you're really a confident man, no one f/m earns a pedestal, you search a partner not a princess👑
2:35 this why i been WINNING SINCE HIGH SCHOOL because I am ALWAYS calm. Women are NOT calm, they are NOT confident, they seek the opposite. Men have no clue how women really are on the inside when they in the presence of a man she ACTUALLY likes. So when they see that in a man she is like wow, this is sexy. She picks up non confidence in your TONE (low frequency not high pitch), pace at which you speak (slower better). body language (less fidgeting) and just how nothing bothers you yet you are AWARE AND IN CONTROL.
Casey goddamn goat you are the Leonardo da Vinci of this shit whorahhh anyway please make a video about jealousy and all its forms and how women use it
4:39 confidence is that not a muscle Casey. When you look at 200lbs to dead lift it, what you think motivates you to lift it, the muscles in your arms? If you need the muscles to give you confidence to lift the 200lbs then you are not a confident person, you are a product of circumstance. Me, skinny as heck, i will be confident i could lift that 200lbs and i will attempt, I more than likely won't be able to lift it, BUT MY CONFIDENCE MADE ME ATTEMPT. That the type of CONFIDENCE women seek in a man! Arm confidence = INSECURITIES to a man.
How do you handle it when you’re on a date and things are going well, then she just seems to go quiet, seems bored, and has zero eye contact with you? Assuming you did nothing wrong, wtf is going on, and how to move things OUT of that state?
Make her laugh but not at your own expense. If possible just tickle her. Might sound weird but it works. Another way to fix that is by having a controlled problem that you can fix or have her help you fix it. Third option is to impress her, learn some slight of hand magic tricks hahaha
You are not there to please her, tell her that you think eye contact is important, she is probably testing you, you can also tease her by saying stuff like are you playing silent game, telling her are you always this silent or boring, but in a joking/teasing manner, not that you get emotionally reactive over it, but call her out, if anything she should be the one making the effort to please you and entertain you on the date, be present and focus on the now, not the outcome. you can also look around the scenery in a way that shows that she doesnt mean everything to you, and you are not that sold on her, moments of silence is normal, and you dont have to fill in the silence all the time, that just shows that you cant handle being comfortable when silent
The minute u posting questions to some youtuber questioning her behavior just knowing u already losing cause u are invested in the outcome - you must not a ##$%% if you don't like her behavior inform her she is bad company and leave in the middle of date or don't go out with her again .She could also be testing how u going to react by acting bored if u willing to be a circus clown to amuse her 😂😂😂😂
1:10 and to the men & women who want to refute this claim, the MINORITY does NOT represent the majority. And listen, if such a female isn't, most likely she is finding chaos in some thing/one else!
I don't think you're saying this, but I'd urge clarification because I think some or many younger guys will think or ask if you're saying this: "if it's all just reps until 3O, should a guy expect to have no dating opportunities until that age?"
He's saying that use every dating opportunity as reps to learn from in your 20s. In other words, date as much as you can in your 20s but don't be attached to the outcome and allow yourself room to fail again and again so you can learn so your better off in your 30s.
Like the bro said, with age and experience comes wisdom...... Casey's content can actually accelerate the experience process and gift you with the wisdom to realize how little value women really bring to your life...... With this understanding you truly won't really want any of them outside of the actual value that they bring to your life as a man.
6:08 women DO NOT CARE ABOUT BUDGET!!!!! And to them, if you are budgeting YOU ARE BROKE. Women DO NOT SAVE, they live IN THE MOMENT. They see a bag THEY BUY IT. This why as the time go by and they are asked how much a man should make the number keep going up because the lifestyle they SEE ON SOCIAL MEDIA & want to live they want to be SURE that if they want to fly to Cabo today THERE IS NO BUDGETTING. Just put in the work AND PULL IN THE NUMBERS.
the wizard liz, but her tips is catered to make women more manipulative, less feminine and more masculine, use men for material gain and use them for their recourses without bringin much to the table, which feeds womens narcissism and delusions.
50 here and working out hard. Have a wife if 16 years and 3 girls. Been on the rocks for years. I tend to think that toxic woman aren’t keen to following these rules like the masses. It’s like they shock you with something else stupid. Playing the victim all the time and guilting you. Here’s what I find works ( you likely mentioned this too Casey ). Just give them a big break and do your own thing. I mean you literally have to disconnect and it’s hard at first but it seems to get easier, the more you do it. One day, perhaps we’ll be all done. Idk anymore but if she perceives you are attached still, she looks at you as lower status like Casey says and literally believes she’s got the leverage. She’ll hardly text and leave you on no contact for days even. It’s at that point… you literally have to DISCONNECT your feelings so you don’t even care anymore. Something in their head feels this and they reach out. DO NOT GET ALL HEART THROBBED for her again because of this. The cycle will start again. Woman are a bloody disaster man
@@FreeTraderFREEMAN I try to connect but mainly it’s TEXT. She’s a terrible communicator. When we are together… seldom now because we arent living together… sex happens but she tries to tell me… I don’t want to just be your booty call. She knows I won’t….just to prove it.. and I can do it. I don’t lay my life on the line for that. But it always ends up happening. I show care and attention. We had a hard past and too much water went under the bridge. Big fights. Not sure it will heal at all. Still feelings there to try from us both but I believe we both know, we are fire and gasoline. Plus, honestly, she’s the most untidy person I know. I can’t live in a dumpster. She said she did that to get me to buy her another house. Too many things to cover. I can’t live with flees all over my legs and turtles roaming the kitchen floor. Yeah… I said Turtles and the rest of Noah’s ark. Dude… just filthy. Sleeping in sand with my blankets on the floor after I get home from work. Everyone walking all over them with flees on the floor. Ok, I’m out. Love her but I just think maybe I was trauma bonded to begin with. We have kids and all so the memories of some good times are still there. Too much push pull though to manage
@@EMichaelBall very possible. Her mother is toxic as crap too. Their family is drama all the time and I fear, I could deal with the same thing. I literally was become a problem drinker on my day off of work. Had to clean house and pick everything up cuz my family didn’t want to do anything like that. I don’t endorse my drinking when I did but I was losing my mind. I was living in a garbage can. Hoarder style. I am VERY NEAT and organized. I was in a tail spin and she knew it. Too much to text
I haven’t drank a drop since I moved back in with my family. Back to working out again. Getting healthy. She was killing me. Loved her but she’s kryptonite
A girl im Messing with just got followed by a rapper and she followed back. I dont wanna mess with her anymore now lol. Should i just remove her or confront her?
Such horse shyt, this advice is so good but so bittersweet. Have you read books like "The Way of The Superior Man" by David Deida and if so what do you think of it? It's upsetting to think I can NEVER show a woman I love her or else it'll turn her off and activate hypergamy? I've felt such inspiration from women, in creative writing, my self-improvement and it was because of the love I felt for them. I did these things automatically and with a force of energy I didn't notice until it past. You mean to tell me I have to keep the love I might feel for a woman to myself as to not ruin such a dynamic where she might be my muse?
As an artist, I can relate. Personally, while there's validity to what he says. Im not in a rush to forfeit a huge aspect of my life because a youtuber said so. Plus, everything he says definitely applies to women who belong to the streets with daddy issues. This is great daddy issues women advice. Am I convinced its good for all women? Too soon to tell and a dangerous belief to adopt so easily. Also, Ive dated girls who I told them I loved them for over a year. Ya, it'll turn off a girl who doesn't love you and you can over do it. Sure, I would act like I dont love her sometimes (by not being very available), but she knows I do because of what I do for her when we meet again. Who the fuck is monogamous to someone they don't love. Anyway, just my current opinion.
Would like to see/hear some of this stuff really being used. If dude showed some stuff live. Just a live interaction. I know it would be less natural but it would be cool to see how other people do things
It kinda blows- though you are right- that you should remain indifferent. Calm-usually, unless calm is boring. Confident is different than calm. Deffinately, they will try to rest your cool ! Volume of dates/ experience- Without a doubt. Remember where you are - is the place to be. Finances- Definately bein responsible, resourceful with funds is how to be. It's all "in training" - learn from the screw ups. Build on the Go-To success mode. They are gonna be lookin out for themselves. Don't let it tip your boat over. They are in the right now- despite who is there. Good game. Stay true to you. Don't try to be in agreement with everything. The less you show you want them the better off you are. No pedestals, no idolizing. Be able to say NO, and hold to it. She wants security, stable, problem solver with a positive attitude. Complainers, go sit down. She won't go for that. They all gotta underlying monkey branching gig, built in. Stay grounded - stick to your guns !
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Where do you got the cross from? Thanks for this video! Fire.
10 commandments
- Never pedestalize a woman
- Be prepared to let go anytime
- Control your degree of attachment to her at all times
- Don't hesitate to stand up for yourself when you're objectively right
- Never tolerate disrespect
- Never over-invest in her. Let her match your effort too
- Judge her by substance and compatibility instead of being blown away by her beauty
- Never deviate from your personal and professional goals even if you're in a relationship
- Build a life where she's just one of the many people/things and not the only one
- Never be over-available to her, else she'll take you for granted
Cool
Whoever violates those commandments have committed the unpardonable sin of simping to women
Also, if your needs are not met, don't stay with her and don't even get in a relationship with her in the first place
@@jeansollot6419”partner”
Thank you for typing this fam
He’s right. The second you fall in love is the moment the ending has begun.
These notes are for my reference, have a great day😊
1. 0:35 - A woman’s natural state will naturally gravitate towards chaos. The key is to remain indifferent and not care
2. 1:41 - women view true confidence as a man who is calm
3. 3:43 - you need a volume of dates and experience because there is no substitute for confidence in the bedroom.
4. 5:44 - money does not make the man, man makes the money. You have to be more financially disciplined in life
5. 7:39 - until age 30, it is all just reps and practice, learning what women respond to and don’t respond to. Men need to allow themselves room and time to fail
6. 9:44 - women (and m people in general) always do what is in their own best self interest
7. 11:18 - having good game really comes down to guarding your attention and energy
8. 13:08 - you need to get to a point in life where you say “no” more than you say “yes”
9. 13:56 - the players and the bad boys can attract and sleep with women but at the end of the day she will want a man’s man with rock solid stability who can retain a relationship
10. 15:35 - nobody is immune to hypergamy, regardless of how rich, tall, handsome or high status the man is. The second you fall in love with a woman and she can tell, hypergamy is no longer satisfied, and she will want some other man who does not treat her as well
All this for ass😐
Lmfao idiots
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Bro might be the goat of this dating shit
I agree
Yes! Anyway know a female UA-cam channel geared to women, that is equivalent to him?? None compare.
goat shit
It's not close. Zander is HIM
Yea he is
Another words: you literally can only “DO YOU” when you’ve been shut down many times. You finally realize, I’m not jumping through all these hoops anymore. If she can’t bring peace, I’ll go where I can get some
Literally
man this is some great wisdom, im currently in uni and have been in love with a girl for a year and have been taking with her for the past 3 month but 2 weeks ago things have started to change/ getting colder . i heard ur advice and didnt freak out (for the most part) but now i analyzed the situation and pulled back. and also realized that "shes THE one" mind set will lead to things getting worse and her losing interest.
Bro is the reason why I improved in my dating life. No cap
Same bro crazy how god gave him this wisdom I just find that insane
@@Excu28 bro. He's saving our lives, man. God bless him
My experience as a 44 year old man is younger women thrive on chaos, older women want security but they want to know you are desired by other women.
I never realized how impressed women are of a man's ability to get women. It's like they are such lemmings.
Haha same here.
Tick tock tick tock
20 something year olds are all brats
30 something’s are all cool but divorced, have kids and/or have been chewed out too much
I think the key is to remember they never have anything really to offer, it’s something you do cos you want to
@@doyoueatrocksyep, chewed out, mashed up. Who the hell wants a used car?…
IN CASEY WE TRUST
It really spins me out that someone 15 years younger than me is able to advise me on stuff that my Dad never could.
I've learned more from this channel in the past year than in my entire life.
It's not even that I am unintelligent or uneducated.
And I thought I was red pill.
This stuff goes so deep.
Amen. Feels like coming out of the Matrix…
There's levels to this shit
Ya me too, I'm 25 years older then Casey and I've accepted that he has so much to teach me. Its really incredible
Sounds like you're simping for Casey...
😆
He uses a lot of toxic red pill BS though. This video is better again, but he contradicts himself all the time, unfortunately!
Love how you had a section about money and finances. Very true and good points
The 🐐 of the community
Yes, this calmness is high self esteem!
I hate one truth that I learned on this channel (about feelings based on market values), because its depressing, but I deal wit it for the better and you are developing/bettered yourself it seems in this vid 💫
Dude all I appreciate your videos a lot. This is great content
I have been trying to find more videos about true female nature in both good and bad traits then this helpful video came out, thanks again Uncle C.
Yup for example when he explain hypergamy; look at the Brazilian soccer star Kaka. His ex-wife left him because “ he was too perfect”
Bro, don't take her words so seriously. It's just a lame excuse to get rid of him. Who knows, maybe his weiner is too tiny, or he just doesn't last more than a millisecond in bed? She's giving him an honourable exit. Appreciate her tact.
That was fake news. She came put to say she never said that. Don't trust everything you see on the internet
Exactly 😮
What exactly do YOU know about the real reason of the breakup, dude? Stop brodcasting yellow press BS, and respect his private life, dude!
@@firsthelix6726 KAKA ex- wife literally said it herself during an interview. Do the research yourself, and stop being a simp
The sooner you come to terms with the myth of mutual love between men and women..... The faster you accept that openly expressing your love will not work..... The quicker you will find the peace of mind you are looking for with women.
Lol you used to think that would work?
46 year old Unc here. This is the best channel on UA-cam for this kind of thing. This lad knows his stuff.
You're always spot-on!
Thanks Mister Zander, great video good moment!
Probably because our dads didn’t need to know them because things were different 50 years ago.
Absolutely like! True to the bone. Unfortunately same things - if not even worse in some aspects - happen in family life. That can be a real challenge for a man.
You're right, Casey. People only care about themselves.
Great vid 💯
Casey is one of the greatest presenters in this subject matter.
Well articulated video. Shoutout from Scottsdale I live here too
Even my own mother is an expert at mayhem and chaos, and she's in her 80's!!!!!!!!
This dude is the GOAT Of this dating thing !!!
Such a great video. Casey is the mentor I never had but always needed. Thanks homie
Gonna have to watch this at least three times
Bro you need to do a 500k subscriber special
Game is just guarding your energy and attention. Damn that one fckn hit bro.
"Monogamy isn't realistic."
- "Trainwreck"
Chris Sixty, Bobby Rio, & Jim Wolfe are all great but Casey takes things to another level
@@christophertishlias2450Casey teaches the most important lesson of all: How to not care.
@@anthonyvasquezactor His larger point to that imo is not leading with emotions vs having emotions. Without them we aren’t actually human. Focus and your path & the rest will follow 🙏🏽
@@christophertishlias2450 My first time on Casey's page. I don't know about the other two, but Bobby Rio is the simp simpiest simp who ever simped for a woman.
@@anthonyvasquezactorI believe that was Buddha 😉
the key is to actually not care, not pretend
All of these are 💯 spot on
Fire. Thank you!
Thanks for the video. Respect.
He is the man , he cracked the code 💪🔥
Gold !! Pure gold
Just another amazing vídeo.
Killing it.
Unbelievable how far we have been seperated from our true selves that we do not know anymore what men and women realy need.
We have been taught all the opposite, wrong things, for all our lives.
A whole new world is opening now.
10 is golden.
I wish I had seen this an hour ago.
A woman I've known for a while, but just started talking with and was in the process of setting up the first date, knocked me off center by posting herself on a date at an expensive restaurant (she's never posted anything like this before) and I unfriended her and deleted our chats. She now knows she won.
Lesson learned. Next.
Well, what would you have done differently, watching this video before?
@@firsthelix6726 Definitely would have realized that no woman should ever be put on such a pedestal to knock me off center. I would have reminded myself that she is one girl out of hundreds of thousands. After processing it, her actions now affect me about as much as passing a chicken hanging at a Chinese storefront in New York. I couldn't care less.
But it has helped me learn something about myself and that's what was most important. I needed her attention too much which means I don't have enough going on in my own life. I only need women to be a compliment to my life, not a focus.
point number 10 on spot just look what happened to Kaka.
In creole Kaka means shiet anyway , so definitely his wife full of shiet
What happened?
@@andyng5321
His wife said she divorced him because he was too perfect for her
@@puertoricanprince7690 yea I went to google, thank you though
@@puertoricanprince7690 and she was not happy that something was missing. After a while she start dating Eduardo Scarpa Julião hahah.
Damn this shit is golden
Good game = guarding energy.
Love isnt the end goal. You gotta be able to trust each other and respect is more important than love. Like it says in scripture, guard your heart
Powerful knowledge
Bro is neo to Kevin Samuel's morpheus, breaking us out the matriarchy one by one.
this is the science of women
#9 Is some damn knowledge
Thanks Broh!
very wise words
This guy knows his sh*t
Thanks brother❤
Great vid, Casey. And I concur! Keep up the good work.😊🫶🏼
Casey l truly respect your gangster; well done Sir!!!
Thanks buddy.
Im totally pissed ...😂😂😂 good DAMN! Im boiling blood in anger!!😡
women are like bankers, the lend you a fortune when you dont need it anymore.
Solid advice.
But how do you reconcile the contradiction between "Have the financial stability, make her feel secure" with "Let her go back to chaos"`?
You cannot control how much chaos she wants to be in. You control what you can control, namely, your frame and your finances.
08:22 The Japanese through an extension of failure, might call this Kaizen, a method of continuous improvement based on the theory that small, ongoing positive changes can be significant.
can you make a video on how to properly give her validation when she does something for you or compliments you?
It‘s called positive reinforcement, and you don‘t need a video for this. Each time she does something that you value, or showed a positive behavior change, you reward her with words of elogy, and if appropriate with small or larger presents, depending on the meaning it has to you.
I'm 57 and still learning new things from this young dude...
A friend of mine had once said "no marriage until 33".
You should experience what you really want in life and that takes experiments.
Every girlfriend he had before and made pressure.. he let her go if she wanted to.
Finally he mets his! wife with nearly 33 and after a few months he married her.
They had 2 daughters and are still happy at 67+57, both healthy and have 2 to 3times s3x the week and are still happy💪
And it's true, if you're feel enough, especially when you're married happily, it's astonishing how many women would like to be with you😳 as they say 🤔
Last thing... if you're really a confident man, no one f/m earns a pedestal, you search a partner not a princess👑
No marriage ever
2:35 this why i been WINNING SINCE HIGH SCHOOL because I am ALWAYS calm. Women are NOT calm, they are NOT confident, they seek the opposite. Men have no clue how women really are on the inside when they in the presence of a man she ACTUALLY likes. So when they see that in a man she is like wow, this is sexy. She picks up non confidence in your TONE (low frequency not high pitch), pace at which you speak (slower better). body language (less fidgeting) and just how nothing bothers you yet you are AWARE AND IN CONTROL.
Is it worth it ?
9 gives me hope.
Casey goddamn goat you are the Leonardo da Vinci of this shit whorahhh anyway please make a video about jealousy and all its forms and how women use it
Bro I literally gulped when I clicked on this video 😂
Pause
Casey, how long have you and your wife been together?
can we get an updated video on front end game
This guys is good he if fning goood, He Does not Miss
4:39 confidence is that not a muscle Casey. When you look at 200lbs to dead lift it, what you think motivates you to lift it, the muscles in your arms? If you need the muscles to give you confidence to lift the 200lbs then you are not a confident person, you are a product of circumstance. Me, skinny as heck, i will be confident i could lift that 200lbs and i will attempt, I more than likely won't be able to lift it, BUT MY CONFIDENCE MADE ME ATTEMPT. That the type of CONFIDENCE women seek in a man! Arm confidence = INSECURITIES to a man.
thats ego not confidence, ego lifting
How do you handle it when you’re on a date and things are going well, then she just seems to go quiet, seems bored, and has zero eye contact with you? Assuming you did nothing wrong, wtf is going on, and how to move things OUT of that state?
Make her laugh but not at your own expense. If possible just tickle her. Might sound weird but it works. Another way to fix that is by having a controlled problem that you can fix or have her help you fix it. Third option is to impress her, learn some slight of hand magic tricks hahaha
You are not there to please her, tell her that you think eye contact is important, she is probably testing you, you can also tease her by saying stuff like are you playing silent game, telling her are you always this silent or boring, but in a joking/teasing manner, not that you get emotionally reactive over it, but call her out, if anything she should be the one making the effort to please you and entertain you on the date, be present and focus on the now, not the outcome. you can also look around the scenery in a way that shows that she doesnt mean everything to you, and you are not that sold on her, moments of silence is normal, and you dont have to fill in the silence all the time, that just shows that you cant handle being comfortable when silent
The minute u posting questions to some youtuber questioning her behavior just knowing u already losing cause u are invested in the outcome - you must not a ##$%% if you don't like her behavior inform her she is bad company and leave in the middle of date or don't go out with her again .She could also be testing how u going to react by acting bored if u willing to be a circus clown to amuse her 😂😂😂😂
What if I don't do the reps? What if I don't earn women because I didn't do the reps? At 30 I've only done one rep (one short term relationship)
Casey ---Top G club
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50 and learning this. That’s sad man
all gold
Nice place Casey
Where do you got the cross from?
Rhett Butler (Clark Gable) said it best years ago on the silver screen: "Frankly my dear I don't give a damn".
1:10 and to the men & women who want to refute this claim, the MINORITY does NOT represent the majority. And listen, if such a female isn't, most likely she is finding chaos in some thing/one else!
I don't think you're saying this, but I'd urge clarification because I think some or many younger guys will think or ask if you're saying this:
"if it's all just reps until 3O, should a guy expect to have no dating opportunities until that age?"
He's saying that use every dating opportunity as reps to learn from in your 20s. In other words, date as much as you can in your 20s but don't be attached to the outcome and allow yourself room to fail again and again so you can learn so your better off in your 30s.
@@FabioPintoTalks I agree. I was just pointing out his syntax may have been misinterpreted by the more... e'ckem... autistic amongst us...
If a woman's natural state is koas its because she's RESPONDING to the world around her which has alot to do with you.
Damn 10 fucking got me. How is this dead on though?
Like the bro said, with age and experience comes wisdom...... Casey's content can actually accelerate the experience process and gift you with the wisdom to realize how little value women really bring to your life...... With this understanding you truly won't really want any of them outside of the actual value that they bring to your life as a man.
Preach 🙏
6:08 women DO NOT CARE ABOUT BUDGET!!!!! And to them, if you are budgeting YOU ARE BROKE. Women DO NOT SAVE, they live IN THE MOMENT. They see a bag THEY BUY IT. This why as the time go by and they are asked how much a man should make the number keep going up because the lifestyle they SEE ON SOCIAL MEDIA & want to live they want to be SURE that if they want to fly to Cabo today THERE IS NO BUDGETTING. Just put in the work AND PULL IN THE NUMBERS.
Not all women are like that. I used to take my ex to McDonald’s and always tell her I was broke paying off my student loan. I wasn’t broke
Hey Casey, are you in crypto? BTC halving tomorrow.
Who is your female equivalent?!?! Your videos are amazing. No male youtuber has known into my mind like you!
“Female equivalent” as in, female youtuber equivalent where the advice is reversed
Sadia Khan
the wizard liz, but her tips is catered to make women more manipulative, less feminine and more masculine, use men for material gain and use them for their recourses without bringin much to the table, which feeds womens narcissism and delusions.
50 here and working out hard. Have a wife if 16 years and 3 girls. Been on the rocks for years. I tend to think that toxic woman aren’t keen to following these rules like the masses. It’s like they shock you with something else stupid. Playing the victim all the time and guilting you. Here’s what I find works ( you likely mentioned this too Casey ). Just give them a big break and do your own thing. I mean you literally have to disconnect and it’s hard at first but it seems to get easier, the more you do it. One day, perhaps we’ll be all done. Idk anymore but if she perceives you are attached still, she looks at you as lower status like Casey says and literally believes she’s got the leverage. She’ll hardly text and leave you on no contact for days even. It’s at that point… you literally have to DISCONNECT your feelings so you don’t even care anymore. Something in their head feels this and they reach out. DO NOT GET ALL HEART THROBBED for her again because of this. The cycle will start again. Woman are a bloody disaster man
Her mood swings could be menopause or perimenopause related. Convincing her to do something about it could be a problem, of course. Best wishes!
I understand this disconnection. However do you disconnect in terms of sex, assistance, attention, care, time, ?
@@FreeTraderFREEMAN I try to connect but mainly it’s TEXT. She’s a terrible communicator. When we are together… seldom now because we arent living together… sex happens but she tries to tell me… I don’t want to just be your booty call. She knows I won’t….just to prove it.. and I can do it. I don’t lay my life on the line for that. But it always ends up happening. I show care and attention. We had a hard past and too much water went under the bridge. Big fights. Not sure it will heal at all. Still feelings there to try from us both but I believe we both know, we are fire and gasoline. Plus, honestly, she’s the most untidy person I know. I can’t live in a dumpster. She said she did that to get me to buy her another house. Too many things to cover. I can’t live with flees all over my legs and turtles roaming the kitchen floor. Yeah… I said Turtles and the rest of Noah’s ark. Dude… just filthy. Sleeping in sand with my blankets on the floor after I get home from work. Everyone walking all over them with flees on the floor. Ok, I’m out.
Love her but I just think maybe I was trauma bonded to begin with. We have kids and all so the memories of some good times are still there. Too much push pull though to manage
@@EMichaelBall very possible. Her mother is toxic as crap too. Their family is drama all the time and I fear, I could deal with the same thing.
I literally was become a problem drinker on my day off of work. Had to clean house and pick everything up cuz my family didn’t want to do anything like that. I don’t endorse my drinking when I did but I was losing my mind. I was living in a garbage can. Hoarder style. I am VERY NEAT and organized. I was in a tail spin and she knew it. Too much to text
I haven’t drank a drop since I moved back in with my family. Back to working out again. Getting healthy. She was killing me. Loved her but she’s kryptonite
The Ten Commandments.....
A girl im Messing with just got followed by a rapper and she followed back. I dont wanna mess with her anymore now lol. Should i just remove her or confront her?
Nah bro hit her morals lower her self image and her morals
Such horse shyt, this advice is so good but so bittersweet. Have you read books like "The Way of The Superior Man" by David Deida and if so what do you think of it? It's upsetting to think I can NEVER show a woman I love her or else it'll turn her off and activate hypergamy? I've felt such inspiration from women, in creative writing, my self-improvement and it was because of the love I felt for them. I did these things automatically and with a force of energy I didn't notice until it past. You mean to tell me I have to keep the love I might feel for a woman to myself as to not ruin such a dynamic where she might be my muse?
A muse is unreachable. I don't sleep with a muse.
As an artist, I can relate. Personally, while there's validity to what he says. Im not in a rush to forfeit a huge aspect of my life because a youtuber said so. Plus, everything he says definitely applies to women who belong to the streets with daddy issues. This is great daddy issues women advice. Am I convinced its good for all women? Too soon to tell and a dangerous belief to adopt so easily. Also, Ive dated girls who I told them I loved them for over a year. Ya, it'll turn off a girl who doesn't love you and you can over do it. Sure, I would act like I dont love her sometimes (by not being very available), but she knows I do because of what I do for her when we meet again. Who the fuck is monogamous to someone they don't love. Anyway, just my current opinion.
Would like to see/hear some of this stuff really being used. If dude showed some stuff live. Just a live interaction. I know it would be less natural but it would be cool to see how other people do things
He's not a pick up artist.
But there‘s still a lot of red pill crap he says that doesn‘t work in the real world!
It kinda blows- though you are right- that you should remain indifferent.
Calm-usually, unless calm is boring. Confident is different than calm.
Deffinately, they will try to rest your cool !
Volume of dates/ experience- Without a doubt. Remember where you are - is the place to be.
Finances- Definately bein responsible, resourceful with funds is how to be.
It's all "in training" - learn from the screw ups. Build on the Go-To success mode.
They are gonna be lookin out for themselves. Don't let it tip your boat over. They are in the right now- despite who is there.
Good game. Stay true to you. Don't try to be in agreement with everything.
The less you show you want them the better off you are. No pedestals, no idolizing.
Be able to say NO, and hold to it.
She wants security, stable, problem solver with a positive attitude.
Complainers, go sit down. She won't go for that.
They all gotta underlying monkey branching gig, built in.
Stay grounded - stick to your guns !
Deep deep down you can feel he's right 🤔
Who’s been a fan since Casey was pronouncing hypergamy as “hyperGAMEy”???