Mufti Menk - The Ideal Muslim Marriage (Nikah)
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- Опубліковано 31 гру 2013
- "My brothers and sisters, when a person has faulted how do they make things right?
Like I (Mufti Menk) was saying, "The Nikah (Marriage)" how should it take place?
It must be simple! Very simple Nikah! We must not try and compete with the Jhoneses (Kuffar -- The disbelievers) - No! "That family had a very big Nikah with 2000 guests! We want to have one with 3000 guests! ; That family gave this gift, we want to have that!" No, you are making it difficult. There will be no Barakhah (blessings) in that marriage.
You can invite how many people you want, but keep it simple. Keep it segregated, separated. Make sure you understand (that) it is a religious function, it is not social function. Understand that! It is a function that is sacred, and this is why, treat it as though it is a function that is held because of the pleasure of Allah (subhanahu wa ta'ala) alone, and then you will understand.
Today we have, you know, people who get together, music is blasting, men and women are there, the bride who sometimes is very religious, the day she is getting married, her hair is showing, her cleavage is showing, her legs are showing, she is sitting in front of all the men and the husband comes in, he's supposed to be a religious person, but even he chooses clothes that do not depict any religiousness at all, and he wants to sit right in front of everyone, and everyone is taking pictures and congratulating them and all the young boys and girls. It has happened where a man has seen a woman at his own marriage, prettier than his wife, so he divorced his wife to marry that women! Wallahi I am not telling you a lie, it is a true story. Look at this!
Why? Because we don't do our things properly, and then some of us say "No man! these people are, like I said, Mulla's from Afghanistan". Astaghfirullah! Wallahi, this is a religious ruling. I mean if someone tells you "read your salah" it does not make them a bad person. If some one tells you, look this is a proper religious function which is spiritual.
I had the opportunity of sitting next to a Rabbi, in one of the aircrafts and I learned so much, because a lot of their rules and regulations are very very close to Islam. They are stricter than us in so many things & that is the pure Judaism. Subhaana Allah! But their followers will not go out and say "No...it's a barbaric religion" but we sometimes would like to go out and challenge our own religion and we don't want (it). Why is it? Let us not become dissolved in the cauldron of westernization, dissolved in the cauldron of Satanism, dissolved in the cauldron of worshipping our own desires. That shouldn't be the case. May Allah protect us (Ameen!)."
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This is why my nikkah is only going to be 2-3 people. Maybe I will do a big wedding party for social reasons later for the sake of 'enjoyment' and even then it will be done correctly but the nikkah itself is only for Allah, myself and my to-be-husband.
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+Gulsen Bello no wonder you are not a muslim.... Respect our beliefs and don't talk in such a way
vikki12307 yes a social gathering after for the other people
"Nikah is celebrating the half of the iman. Do it properly like we are doing our Shalat. Nikah is a holy reunion and it has religious function: To increase the number of this ummah. Dress appropriately, Do it properly."
I have witnessesed, the couples who spend the most on their weddings have the unhappiest marriages :(
MAshaAllah. Very useful video. Thanks
Brother menk may ALLAH grant you reward for telling us good things
I love these videos. JazakAllah khair for these. Just a humble suggestion, I wonder why do all these religious videos have a nasheed type sound in the background. Trust me, the words of learned scholars are enough to deliver an impact. There is no need for any background sound. Just my humble opinion though. JazakAllah again.
I swear by Allah I saw Scholars go to these types of weddings and not say anything against them
They supposed to be policing everyones actions? wtf you expecting them to do?lol
You are not defending islam , Islam defender, Those hu attand are magicians not ulama.by blaming it to ulama hu are againt you are destroying islam .
Thanks for the information
Alhamdulillah sincere advice.
I don't understand huge weddings or nikahs in general. I can't stand them. Especially having one myself. Not to mention you're easily prone to evil eye, jealously, envy etc like where's the blessings and Mubarak from people? Ugh. Although my mom tho smh she'll force me to have a extravagant wedding although I'm gonna try my best to have my way
Anon. Person may Allah make it easy for you
Amazing...
What song is in the background? Beautiful
masha Allah
masha allah
Allah plz forgive us u gave done this gunnah plz make duwa for me
masha allag
i give to mahar orginal muhammed nabi vachanam
1:22 astaghfarullah
selam aleykum everyone can someone right me how the celebration should be ? it is allowed to have music party between the girls only?
watch the video again
No its not allowed between women. Music is totally haram in Islam.
Nina Cubana do you want to be responsible for other peoples sins? please becareful
my question is, do parent have to there for nikka.if they are not around in the same country
+omotola fakoya no just go to a scholar
Mahfuz Munir Khan PT for the woman they need a wali (guardian like a father) without it the nikah isnt counted
beastkay byt yh but the parent doesn't have to be there, just ask a scholar to sort it out
i had a forced marriage with emmanuelle chiriqui lookalike, was buzzing man! until the in laws hid pills and condoms :/
am I know mr
You've got to be kidding me.
George Rodriguez not really
never mustafa
Kate Green approach your curiosity, you'd be amazed of the beauty within
AstagfullahIslam is a religion of peace