[F4A] [TF4A] Shopping With Your Autistic GF (She gets overstimulated)

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  • Опубліковано 21 січ 2025

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  • @SyntheticSylph
    @SyntheticSylph 21 день тому +37

    So much respect for the Pathfinder love, it really doesn't get the attention it deserves compared to 5e, and really great to see WotR get the praise it deserves x3 Gods this was so fucking adorable to listen to, like genuinely there are few things lovelier than getting to share in a loved one's interests, especially with the level of passion that an infodump brings. Fuck if the texture, touch, and overstim details weren't spot on though... I was in tears over how real and gutting you made that portion come across, especially with the concerns over spoiling the date and feeling like an inconvenience. You really captured just how heartbreaking that can feel, while also demonstrating perfectly how wonderful and impactful it is to have a loved one show the patience and understanding of our needs when in a situation like this. As unpleasant as the overstim portion was, you did a phenomenal job balancing that out with how delightful the infodump was, and really getting to the heart of just how much it means to an autistic partner to feel so understood and loved. Thank you so much for making this Fae, it really means a lot to get to see such a wonderful depiction of autistic acceptance and love!!!

  • @imaginem2472
    @imaginem2472 21 день тому +36

    Ahhh I love this, the whole infodump was amazing! (Also damn i think you got me I might have to buy this game now)

    • @FlawlessFae
      @FlawlessFae  21 день тому +7

      Ehehehe... my mission as the number one wrath of the righteous fan was a success then!

  • @DoughnutDragon
    @DoughnutDragon 20 днів тому +15

    My instinct to protect kicked in when she started getting over stimulated.
    I would have been asking "what can i do to help?"
    I don't know if I'm autistic but i definitely relate to a lot of autistic experiences with sensory issues like certain textures making me want to remove my skin to cleanse my body of its grossness, i always have a way to listen to music on me so that i can block out all the chatter because i am unable to tune things out so if there's like 4 different conversations happening in an area it's not indistinct chatter it is now 4 seperate conversations i have to process simultaneously plus any random environmental sounds like a ticking clock or an electrical hum that most people apparently don't pay any attention to, smells also can give me headaches so some asshole wearing perfume can ruin my whole day just be being in the same building as me because now i have a headache and if i dare say anything they just be an ass to me about something that is causing me physical pain that they inflicted because apparently if you can't see the issue outwardly then it doesn't exist.
    Oh I'd like to tell those kinda people their own bullshit when they have a brain tumor because then maybe they'd realize how bullshit that is.
    Rant aside, cute audio, relatable character, must protecc.

  • @RailgunGoBoomBoom
    @RailgunGoBoomBoom 21 день тому +46

    (Autistic girly here)
    THANK YOU FAAAAAAAAAAAAAE

    • @FlawlessFae
      @FlawlessFae  21 день тому +8

      Shaking your hand

    • @RailgunGoBoomBoom
      @RailgunGoBoomBoom 21 день тому +6

      @@FlawlessFae shaking yours back

    • @blacktop586
      @blacktop586 21 день тому

      Are you saying you're autistic? I'm not trying to assume I'm just checking

  • @Corbzilla300Cookies
    @Corbzilla300Cookies 21 день тому +15

    True, it is loud and crowded, it’s the way of life sometimes….. oh look, a blanket and it looks so soft, lol

  • @Forgmin7764
    @Forgmin7764 21 день тому +17

    Based Pathfinder enjoyer. Love to see Autism rep as well

  • @Iminsaiyan_
    @Iminsaiyan_ 12 днів тому +3

    The info dump is to relatable wtf. (My bloodline ends with me)

    • @GoodGirlLuna3
      @GoodGirlLuna3 15 годин тому

      Me with warframe (you will probably not understand half the words i say until you get at least 20 hours in)

  • @derschwenki9615
    @derschwenki9615 21 день тому +8

    Boy am i glad we (as the listener) made the effort to do a little sneaky action to buy the skirt for her. Really nice audio and Happy new year Fea! I wish you and everyone who reads this the best for 2025! ;)

  • @heatfromsapphire
    @heatfromsapphire 20 днів тому +20

    Sent this to a transfem friend who has autism and she was just freaking out, like “HEY, THAT’S ME!!! *I DO THAT*!!!”

    • @FlawlessFae
      @FlawlessFae  20 днів тому +4

      Then I've achieved my goal!!

  • @Fluffkitscripts
    @Fluffkitscripts 20 днів тому +6

    Can confirm pathfinder tabletop is also Like That. The playtesters are definitely consummate min-maxers.

  • @immid4764
    @immid4764 21 день тому +5

    Amazing work as always. I got a little mad at myself for not working on a script that was pretty similar to this because now I know it most likely won’t be an audio on it but I got 2-3 more ideas planned. On the other hand I am a bit grateful that you did it because you did it better than what I could’ve done. Now that means all of my future scripts will go straight to Reddit. I still don’t know why I over share like this in UA-cam comments but :3c 💜💜💜💜

  • @comyuse9103
    @comyuse9103 7 днів тому +1

    pathfinder mentioned! Azatas are easily the coolest outsiders, no contest!

  • @dantekun1203
    @dantekun1203 21 день тому +5

    That was very cute and wholesome. Thank you.

  • @kingoftrashopinions6633
    @kingoftrashopinions6633 21 день тому +2

    Came into this expecting a sweet audio, came out of it with exactly that and a good game recommendation on top of it. Awesome deal 🔥

  • @ericoneill-thomas8492
    @ericoneill-thomas8492 18 днів тому +4

    not going to lie a lot of this stuff I do feel like the techier stuff and if I hade the confidantes the power to go on about anything for hours without even noticing but it was the public thing that really got me a bit because even I started to get a bit nerves when the whole to many people thing happened because I'm really not use to being around a lot of people or just being around people for to long so yeah I think this was well made and stuff like that keep up the good work friend

  • @tsl-2024m
    @tsl-2024m 11 днів тому +2

    This meant a lot to me.. as an autistic 17 year old.. I also wear headphones in moments like those.. I love music very much. Thank you for making this.. I saw myself in both people here💕I hate it when it’s very crowded and people are touching me, like do you mind?! Lol.. thank you again..♥️ I’m subbing

  • @TheBobberan
    @TheBobberan 19 днів тому +2

    Man I already really wanted to buy n play Pathfinder n now I’m probably gonna go do it next time I got some free cash :>
    As always fantastic audio and I do genuinely feel the sorta ‘your mate is never endingly going on a tangent and you love it so you don’t wanna stop em’ vibe

  • @rusticdebris8021
    @rusticdebris8021 20 днів тому +4

    Cool Pathfinder mention! I should really try 1e pathfinder, tried 2e in the past and wasnt a fan, but I love Starfinder!

  • @kohanis76543
    @kohanis76543 17 днів тому +2

    Pathfinder over DnD? I subscribe immediately!

  • @couchbear6108
    @couchbear6108 21 день тому +4

    Autistic guy here. I hate crowed malls . I deliberately chose days and times when the mall is not busy. Week days are usually a safe bet .

  • @SamuelCarter-p1u
    @SamuelCarter-p1u 20 днів тому +3

    Autistic dude here can say this is a great representation of autism
    Also love the character I saw myself in this character

  • @Black_Knight48
    @Black_Knight48 21 день тому +5

    This hits wayyyyy too close to home haha

  • @flying_fish-_-7069
    @flying_fish-_-7069 19 днів тому

    "I'll give it to you as a gift, but it's for me" So, like lingerie? lol great vid.

  • @tspancakes8574
    @tspancakes8574 20 днів тому +3

    easily overstimulated gang

  • @CoupleOfNerds_YT_channel
    @CoupleOfNerds_YT_channel 14 днів тому +2

    Is there more asmr like this?
    As someone on the spectrum i don't get a lot of asmr with autistic people in it

    • @FlawlessFae
      @FlawlessFae  14 днів тому

      There's not a lot out there, I have another audio with an autistic listener though. It's some good overstim comfort.

  • @arkraith4148
    @arkraith4148 21 день тому +2

    She's perfect

  • @sammcfarlane2494
    @sammcfarlane2494 21 день тому +2

    I love your cat in the background

  • @wolfbane3626
    @wolfbane3626 21 день тому +3

    I do injoy your voise hope you have good new year fae

  • @Ace13ee
    @Ace13ee 20 днів тому +4

    My goodness I did this on a date (I was overwhelmed) and I sat down and the girl just left the store and broke up w me

    • @FlawlessFae
      @FlawlessFae  20 днів тому +4

      I'm really sorry to hear that. Nobody deserves to be treated that way. I hope you can find someone who accepts all of you someday

    • @DoughnutDragon
      @DoughnutDragon 20 днів тому +2

      Sounds like you avoided a relationship with someone who would never care enough to try and understand you, let alone help you in any way.
      Call it the garden weeding itself.
      It sucks that its hard to find considerate people nowadays.
      I hope you find someone who is willing to put effort into a relationship.

    • @TheYear2525
      @TheYear2525 14 днів тому +1

      Ooof, I'm so sorry. On the other hand sounds like you dodged a bullet. What's wrong with people, how can they be such assholes?

  • @jjavis218
    @jjavis218 21 день тому +4

    29:50 CAT!

    • @FlawlessFae
      @FlawlessFae  21 день тому +5

      Kibby... sometimes a recording does not go perfectly, and I think that's ok

    • @SyntheticSylph
      @SyntheticSylph 21 день тому +3

      @@FlawlessFae It's just one of those free range mall cats, 100% part of the immersive experience x3

    • @jjavis218
      @jjavis218 21 день тому +1

      @@FlawlessFae it’s amazing that there’s a cat it gives character and it’s very funny

  • @GoodGirlLuna3
    @GoodGirlLuna3 15 годин тому +1

    I GOOOOOTTA check out Pathfinder and Rogue Trader now, I need more peak in my fucking VEIIIIINS

  • @PePexGordman
    @PePexGordman 17 днів тому +1

    Amazing audio and lovely feminine voice

  • @Moonstruck_Arrow
    @Moonstruck_Arrow 19 днів тому +3

    But if I’m autistic, and you’re autistic, then who’s driving the plane???

    • @jacobb8832
      @jacobb8832 15 днів тому

      I don't get it.
      I'm autistic, too.

    • @mrk5179
      @mrk5179 3 дні тому +1

      NO ONE! We’re on autopilot now >:)

    • @Moonstruck_Arrow
      @Moonstruck_Arrow 3 дні тому

      @@jacobb8832it’s a riff on a gag from some cheesy 90s sitcom.

  • @tay7931
    @tay7931 21 день тому +2

    clocked (ily tho)

  • @aeronbernal3987
    @aeronbernal3987 19 днів тому +2

    I need more of this peak🔥

  • @1o1kys90
    @1o1kys90 18 днів тому +1

    Do you want to borrow my iPod? It has death core and black metal.

  • @TheMightyCakeDemon
    @TheMightyCakeDemon 21 день тому +3

    Pathinder is better than 5e. That's my hill, I'll die there if need be.

    • @AghiTron
      @AghiTron 20 днів тому

      So perish. /j
      It's really down to preference. My experience with PF1e is some of Kingmaker and WotR, but I found it a bit too intricate. My PF2e experience is an intro game and reading the handbook, and I find it to be better streamlined while still having great build depth.
      I pitched it to my friends for our 2nd campaign, but half of them are very casual and the other half is neutral, so we're doing D&D5e again, but I'm homebrewing extra mechanics for bosses.
      Regardless, I understand why PF1e appeals to people, and it's perfectly valid.
      May I now cross your hill without anyone dying?

    • @TheMightyCakeDemon
      @TheMightyCakeDemon 20 днів тому +1

      @@AghiTron Super fair, honestly. There's a lot about 5e that's great, and I'll always love it. I haven't had the chance to play Pathfinder 2e yet, but it looks interesting. I just really like how many ways you can build a character in Pathfinder. It warms my autistic heart.

  • @blacktop586
    @blacktop586 21 день тому +2

    I know a buddy who's autistic

  • @Kampferguy
    @Kampferguy 21 день тому +2

    ROGUE TRADER MENTIONED!!!! NOMOS BLOW UP THAT IMPERIAL NAVY CRAFT THIS INSANT!!!!
    Also really good to hear people talk about wotr lmao, Azata is a really good path and tbh it's probably the best of the "good" aligned paths, but that might've changed after the golden dragon drop. I should come back to it, it's really good but I dropped it after I felt bad for running lich and doing bad and evil things

    • @FlawlessFae
      @FlawlessFae  21 день тому +2

      That's always the trouble, isn't it? The evil options are so cool, but it's so hard to be mean to these characters you care about. I did a demon playthrough once, but only barely did enough evil to qualify, and ended up switching to gold dragon as soon as I got the chance lol.

    • @Kampferguy
      @Kampferguy 21 день тому +1

      @FlawlessFae I flat out had to stop playing demon after you slap irabeth that shit ACTUALLY hurt my soul, but I hear going demon -> golden dragon is actually one of the most fitting path changes in the game and is really well told so I might have to try it again

    • @FlawlessFae
      @FlawlessFae  21 день тому

      @@Kampferguy slapping irabeth was one of the demonic options I abstained from. Couldnt bring myself to do it

    • @Kampferguy
      @Kampferguy 21 день тому +1

      @@FlawlessFae lich kinda tricked me because there's nothing SUUUUPER evil you do before act 3 it's all kinda just comedically evil foreshadowing and the lich mentor you get is really petty and funny so I was blindsided when the EVENT with Irabeth happened and having to deal with Anevia afterwards made me just stop

    • @Kampferguy
      @Kampferguy 21 день тому

      @@FlawlessFae and apparently from what I read the slap permanently messes her up and she's terrified of you so its like :( i don't want my goat to be scared of me....

  • @legonick357
    @legonick357 21 день тому +2

    99% of ttrpg systems >> D&D
    I'm a Lancer fan personally, but god, the scene really needs to differentiate from 5e's busted ass

    • @FlawlessFae
      @FlawlessFae  21 день тому +2

      I've played so many ttrpgs at this point, but Lancer is absolutely one of my faves. I played this former engineer who became a pilot to avenge her wife, did lots of nuclear cavalier tokugawa shenanigans AND got to roleplay some delicious angst. Good times

    • @flamingrubys11
      @flamingrubys11 21 день тому +1

      tbh it would be less dnd if other systems had simple ways of doing stuff ie dnd has dnd beyond and owlbear rodeo... even has avrae for online discord

    • @legonick357
      @legonick357 20 днів тому +1

      @flamingrubys11 other systems have tools, like Lancer's Comp/Con, all d&d has is cultural momentum

    • @legonick357
      @legonick357 20 днів тому

      @@FlawlessFae Nice! As thanks for these audios if you ever want to play Lancer again I'd run it for you

    • @flamingrubys11
      @flamingrubys11 20 днів тому

      @@legonick357 well i would love to try pathfinder but i couldnt find anything that allowed for easy online play like dnd

  • @sammcfarlane2494
    @sammcfarlane2494 21 день тому +5

    I’m autistic, can you make more autistic audios?