Do You Regret Motherhood? ft. Jessica Rose
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- Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
- “Even in transition, I am enough”
Welcome to the fourth week of Good Moms Gone Wild September.
This week, Good Moms are joined by content creator, author, mompreneur and the rapper who allowed Erica & Milah to live out their video vixen dreams, Jessica Rose.
In this episode, the ladies talk about Jessica leaving a Christian cult during the pandemic, the reality of motherhood vs. the societal expectation of “motherhood”, how to balance being cheap and bougie, the obstacles of being a mompreneur, and so much more!
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@ThisIsJessicaRose
I literally had no idea that I wasn’t the only one that felt like this about being a mom.
I knew I wasn’t. I just was tryna find the right women to be open and honest with themselves let alone me. It is a difficult topic cause nobody talks about it. I’m so happy they had this show
well that’s crazy girl there’s over 7 billion ppl on this planet
Thanks for having me on guys! Love yall!
39 Years old childfree and never married! Loving it!
This is such an important conversation especially for black women because all of our feelings are attacked. Amazing job y’all!
This!
For everybody..This "especially" stuff is a discriminatory term
I just clicked on this and I haven’t listened to one word but imma answer this question. Hell yeah I regret when I entered into motherhood and sadly my husband and children know this. Motherhood happened to me at age 20 and I regret it so much at 53. I spent my entire life taking care of other people and this shit is miserable!
Jesus please no I pray that I’ll feel different once they’re grown. I’ve been raising kids since 17. No proms , no trips just work and taking care of babies. This is a trap
19:50 for the ones who came for her story of regret!
Thank you lol
Thanks ☺️
I’ve never felt so seen y’all. Literally exhausted af getting ready for work crying in my coffee because this is mf spot on. 🙌🏽 Thanks for having the mom conversation.
Girl me too. I hate motherhood and my kids are all grown!
@@sonyahathaway9753 How did you get through 18 years of doing something you literally hate. I just want to hide and cry
@@fbaker1289 I was in survival mode and I never got to sit with myself to think about my circumstances.
@@sonyahathaway9753 you're scaring me out of wanting them because I feel like I will regret it 😢😢
I can totally relate. I felt like I regretted having my son when I did. I wish I would’ve traveled first and gotten to know myself more first. That didn’t happen. I accepted that I felt that way. My son passed away when he was 7 years old in 2019. After he passed I realized that I had a sense of relief from all those mother worries you all are talking about, and I felt guilty for that.
Bro Wtf did you just say. You’re sick af. Rip to an Angel who deserved a way better mother.
That's valid. Even though as a mom I was like huh?!. Your entitled to feel that way. This is a safe place. I appreciate you sharing.
Thats real...motherhood is so hard. Im sure you felt so many things with that experience.
@@munguia824 that’s pretty sick to say that to a mother who lost a child. Me sharing some of my most vulnerable thoughts doesn’t mean My son deserved a way better mother. Those real life thoughts that I worked through when he was alive didn’t take away from the way I mothered him. In fact I was complimented for the way I mothered him.
I pray you never have to experience your children dying before you especially while they are young.
The nerve
@@aliciamonet2178 girl the nerve for you to say you felt relief when your son passed away. I would assume a grieving mother would take all the negative parts of being a mother any day if that meant having their child alive and well. Like who even says something so fucked up like that. Re read your comment like do you not see how fucked up your comment sounds? Cause I’m genuinely in awe how you don’t see an issue with that. A little bit of psychology here shows that you’re trying to perceive yourself as a great mother and even mentioned how others complimented you to overcompensate for the fucked up comment you posted.
Girlllll!!! I feel like that too about playtime, I dont want to play cars and dinosaurs, I will for a certain amount of time.. but not all the time. And I felt guilty about that
if one more person tells me that I HAVE to play fuckin video games 👊🏾👊🏾 noooo lolll
Triggggered!! NOTHING will prepare you for motherhood! I related with this so much ✨
I can relate so much to this. I love my kids but sometimes it gets mentally overwhelming being a mom. Not cuz the kids are causing it but it’s cuz of the mom brain and all the stress and anxiety that comes with the mom role. Thank you for this. It’s nice to know I’m not alone in thinking like this.
I felt that mom part, moms get so much flack for not liking being a mom, hating the role, venting online etc. Imagine a step mom doing it though? I'm a step mom and the only person I can be honest with is my fiance. Everyone else has the warped idea I'm supposed to completely love the role, love her like my own etc. Like real delusional shit.
Being a stepmom sounds painful , especially if you don’t have kids of your own. It takes a special person to raise a child thats someone else’s
Everything that you said and just imagine if the child’s mom is already a pain in the butt. I am a mother of two and a stepmother of two and the stepmother role is 10 x harder and that’s because of the mom.
Amen!!! It's so good knowing we are not alone in feeling this way about motherhood. It's just too much sometimes.
I’m sooooo glad I found this podcast! I’m a new mom and my anxiety is getting out of control
You’re my people for real. I used to feel like people who followed other people’s content online like they’re real friends were desperate but now I realize it’s also cause real ones who are motivated, spiritual (but not dogmatic) manifesting gangsters are few and far between. This global community internet shit is wild.. anyway- single mama and creative over here rooting for y’all 🧡
ngl. just be observing at the young ripe age of 24 … y’all be making this shit sound so depressing. some of y’all try to lie to yourself to convince yourself but we need more convos like this !
Speaking from me as an introvert being a mother really has impacted how much time I have alone to refuel. Now I’m at the point like the women on the show, I hire and delegate out in order to reclaim back my time.
Your conversations are always on time. Love you all! Xx
“Postpartum is forever!” -Chanel Portia-Albert (ancient song doula collective)
1000% felt the most normal I’ve ever felt in my life by hearing them speak my thoughts aloud. Thank you ❤
Thank you for this, all these feeling I have being bottled up are depressing and knowing there are other mothers who think this makes me feel better.
Needed this thank you...as a Mom of 4 ....this shyt is hard and I don't like homework, playing or trying to figure out what to cook every dayumn day..thank yall for telling the truth!!!
so why would you have 4 then?!
@@bg6358they dont want more children... trauma responce... they learn how to survive sleepless nights worring and othèr it becomes drug to them... their mind and body are programmed to same cycle... thats how they learn to survive chaos... and if there is no more chaos on which they get used to... they create new kid
I FEEL Y’ALL about the mom talk on this one. I am very vocal about these feelings and say it freely. I HAVE THE SAME THOUGHTS!! I am good at it because I want to raise good humans but it so much pressure.
Thank you for having this conversation! I wish more people would take the time to be empathetic to this.
Thank you for creating a space for us to be safe with these feelings 🙏🏾
Mannnnnnee I was telling other moms this and they wanna look at me like I’m crazy…..I’m sooooo happy I’m not the only person who feels like this…..
I feel like I found my people. I relate so much.
Really enjoyed this episode. I truly understand how this feels and when I would say this ppl would always try to bash me. And it’s like I’m really being honest. Doesn’t mean I don’t love my child, but it does mean that I’m human. And life be lifein! Lmao 😂
I love Jess so much. I really, REALLY want her to win.
Lol I LOVE when you lean into your Valley Girl voice 🤣 Remind me of my high school days 💁🏽♀️
the way the tarot card is ALWAYS spot on is crazy !
This episode was so honest and I absolutely love it 🙌🏽
Dayuuum we were read for filth at the beginning lol I love you guys❤
“Catch the fuck up” Milah voice 🤣 love it ❤️
I have older children soon to be 23 & 15 yo and I have a 17yo I'm pretty open and honest. I tell them often don't have children until ur ready and sure. Don't get me wrong love all u with everything in me but I wouldn't have had a kid a 21. My mom wanted grands yea I'm not doing that to my children.
Experience life, children no matter how planned changes ur life completely no matter how much u think it stays the same.
So relatable , thank you so much ❤
Literally the thoughts I've been having.
thank you ! I appreciate you ladies. 💯💯✌🏾❤️
Erica, you betta SANG!!!!!! I need the music, ASAP!
It feels good that I’m not the only one that thinks this👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Roll that beautiful bean footage of all the fifth graders singing “I believe I can fly” in the 90’s
I appreciate the realness
I don’t want to say I regret motherhood’s role; but IT Is F*cking Hard and I hate when ppl judge my parenting. My girls Know Love just Naturally but they also understand when I’m not with whatever they are doing or trying to say. My girls are little 2 and 3. I understand they are toddlers but my kids are super advanced and Me parenting hard I do not feel bad. My kids aren’t about to run over me when they want to. We’re NOT Doing That At All.
❤️❤️❤️❤️
Aye!!!! Yes original 818, East Valley over here. I love that you two put real valley girls on the map.
Love this! ❤
A psilly session is key ❣️🍄❣️
Olivia brought me here .. thanks sis
it’s Erica with the myspace music page 😂😂 #BringMyspaceBack
😂😂😂 this shit was so good and funny !!
I didn’t know about the live show in Atl 😢 I woulda sooooo have been there!
where is this video link of jessica and the cult videos lolol i’m laughing 😭
Do Jessica Rose have a pod?
You guys my dad is one of the pastors at this church and he’s gay I'm not lying. When I heard kingdom date it sounded far too familiar, Jared Brady went to the same church and got out, but their all over the world but teach the same thing. It’s so eerie to hear people’s experiences at this church and know my family is still in it. And my dad is in the closet and runs 8 churches in London. That church sucks, you have to write a sin list of every sin you have ever done and can remember just to get baptized. That church is for sure cultish I’ve watched people’s whole personalities change after joining.
Well if you’re building on this platform wouldn’t it be wise to modify the intro… I never commented or found it confusing, I just thought it was poorly written.
What’s her podcast or Instagram ? Can you link her
Fuuuckkkkk i watched it too late 😭
@14:04 y’all ain’t monolithic yet you want to but don’t listen to R. Kelly JUST BECAUSE other ppl may look at you a differently. Sad‼️ @15:33 you sound lame / opportunistic. That’s NOT what an artist is. smh. Integrity lives 💯🔐 And to Jessica Rose, speed walk so that you sweat and jog (run when can) and as long as you’re drenched in sweat (it’ll work from speed walking everyday even if you can’t tell. Try to start with 1 mile a day). Love to all. Bless.