Zach’s masculinity shows through when he is kind and open about what he thinks, when someone asks if he is scared he doesn’t hide it he just says oh yeah definitely. I think that is an awesome trait to have.
Sometimes I wonder how Zach would confront his insecurities if he chooses to. I, personally, lift weights on occasion to battle my insecurities about not being athletic or masculine enough. I'm aware that what might work for me might not work for Zach, though. Still, I wish that he'd try at some point.
Zach is the most honest, Ned is the most mature, Keith is the most introspective, and Eugene is the most independent. Together they balance each other out, which is why they work so well as the Try Guys. Last bit: notice how Eugene & Zach are polar opposites like Ned & Keith are.
Yeah and it’s weird . I always feel this awkward , cringey tension between Eugene and Zach . Even in the latest videos . I understand it’s “tough love” but I guess I’m just extra empathetic so I feel bad for him sometimes .
Keith: hiding behind a persona. Ned: stress, being pulled in many directions Zach: self-confidence Eugene: building emotional barriers, blocking others out
Definitely agreed. He also had the most commentary on the process, or the other guys' responses, in this video. (Ned had some too.) --though I'm sure the session was much, much longer than what we see here.
It feels as if Eugene is secretly longing for the ability to be open, deep down. Which is why I think he so openly says the opposite. Given his upbringing, I feel like his inner self truly wants to be able to be free to express, but has trouble communicating that with his outside persona.
As someone who sees my whole self in Eugene (and someone who shares the same personality type) I can say that that might be very accurate. Obviously I don't know him personally but it's very likely
Mary Ketchum I cant speak for Eugene personally, but as someone who’s been raised in an environment where being open about your problems and your shortcomings is discouraged, having people who even just notice that there’s something wrong and give you the opportunity to express yourself genuinely is something that I (and others that I know who have had similar experiences) really want to seek out but have trouble saying it outright. so while again, I can’t speak for Eugene, I think you might be onto something
I've noticed everyone is talking about Eugene and Zach, but to be honest what really got to me was Keith. He's seems so confident and happy and out there, and discovering that he believes that preforming is the only thing he's good at, pains me. (Ned also made me feel things)
Kenna T. I think they realize it too. In Hannah Harts "My Drunk Kitchen" the co starred in it and Eugene said he despises Zach the most because they are too similar.
The Zach and Eugene exchange about masculinity, was telling. Zach: I’m not a masculine man, I never have been, and I have no qualms about it. Eugene: Don’t you have problems about that? I would have so many problems with that.. Zach: What’s the alternative?
@@cakt15us81 Yea for sure, being weird can sometimes lead one to be excluded because a group of other people can't relate to a certain thing and one can lose self confidence, but in the end it can be a blessing and be freeing to be different, and it makes you realise who you truly are, something that others never realise till very very late or never.
I know this is an old comment but seeing Eugene now being able to play into his feminine side in current videos by wearing dresses, skirts, makeup and nail polish makes me so happy because he’s finally comfortable enough to show his true self to the world and it takes a lot of courage to do that and I’m so damn proud of him
Even though Eugune said he didn't want a group hug, noticed that he actually willingly walked towards their open arms with his arms crossed. I see smthg~ 😄😄😄
I loved it but I couldn't help but laugh at the end when Eugene said he doesn't mind hugging Dr. Jenn so they all came hugging him knowing that he hates hugs 😂
I see Zach's masculinity but he's also a big sweetheart. How unfortunate we live in a society where some think those two traits can't live harmoniously within a man.
Hearing Zach's story made me think back to when I felt unsure about myself as a man. I, too, hated not being strong enough or athletic enough. I also envied men and women who were. What made me decide to train again? When others threatened me with violence after a mistake or two. Long story.
I learned that gentleness was my strength. That particular strength flourished when I became a healer. One must never allow society to decide what is strength for you.
Wish that I had as much solidarity as you. Right now, though, I try to get back into training every now and then. I still believe that might makes right.
I would love to see them revisit therapy; Eugene has come so far with his coming out etc, Ned is a father, Zach is in a committed relationship, Keith has grown enormously as a performer. Therapy with those new perspectives and experiences could be really insightful.
I'm not sure if group therapy is something that they would do or be comfortable with. Therapy is deeply personal where you can share everything, even things that you feel like might make you a bad person. I've spoken to my therapist about extreme anger and the desire to hurt people when in that state and I've gotten around it. I would never want people who I interact with everyday to know that.
The funny thing is, I feel like Eugene is more like Zach than either of them realize. They simply display their insecurities differently... Zach uses self-deprecating humor and displays his insecurities as part of who he is, Eugene buries them and pretends they don't exist. And both are talented, despite what we see about Eugene being the most talented. Their insecurities come from different places, but it's still strangely similar. But they're both perfectionists, they're both lacking confidence (which they display in different ways), they're both worrywarts. Their main difference is their willingness to talk about such things. Anyone agree?
agreed. i actually have a perspective that people who are not open about their feelings, look "hard" on the outside, are actually the most vulnerable ones. they don't share their feelings as they are scared of being seen by others as weak. this is also coming from personal experience really. i used to be like eugene, looking hard on the outside, not liking actions of affections, like hugging. but then i started becoming more open about my feelings, and i do see the changes. i now love hugs. and my personality has became more like zach. the difference only being that i felt better than before (when i was eugene) because i didn't have to act like i'm strong and nothing can hurt me
+sc_senyn I bet seeing how everyone in the comment section like "omg eugene is so hot!" and "Keith is awesome" and "awww Ned and his wife" but the most we said about Zach is "yeah he's pretty cute" because he's tiny doesn't help much
I came back to this video just to see Zach's growth. He's stepping up big time, managing the lawyers in this internal lawsuit and working his ass off, not only to keep the company afloat, but improving it in a major way
Calling a man that is insecure about not being manly “sweetie” doesn’t help. You might say it with good intentions but he’s still a man and would like to be respected as such. Not seen as just adorable. I’m the same way, I don’t consider it help when I get called cute nicknames. Just respect me as a man just like I would respect however any woman would want to be treated.
I definitely relate to Eugene. I shut my feelings out so that they don't get in the way of achieving, even if that means shutting PEOPLE out. Glad to know I'm not the only one.
Okay, but Zach is my favorite try guy. He’s one of my favorites on buzzfeed in general. He’s such a sweetheart and he’s so caring and loving and this broke my heart.
he is definitely my favorite as well and i think if he wanted to he can actually be a really masculine guy by just going to the gym a few times a week not saying he needs to change just saying if he does want to its an option
Everyone really got to me in different ways, like Ned pushing himself to do too much, and Keith saying he’s the best to maybe one day he convinced of it, and zach feeling emasculated constantly because of his sensitive nature, and of course Eugene’s walls and wanting to know who he is but trying to hide it from others on his way to figuring it out
Keith is so chill if he left I think it would fall apart harder than if anyone else left. I am not saying he is my favourite. Just his dynamics with the others is so fascinating. He gets along with everyone keeps the peace between competative Eugene and Ned and sometimes undersog Zach. Evwn when Ned brought up a little beef Keith dealt with it so honestly openly and diplomatically.
I definitely agree. In the lie detector video all of the guys also said that Keith was their favorite or the one that they felt closest to in the group.
Good thing it was Ned that left then. I don't think I could've handled a break up and end to the try guys, I'm a bit unstable right now but I know that I've got try guys videos yo watch if I need cheering up.
Dear Buzzfeed, I have OCD, depression, and anxiety. This was the the best week of buzzfeed yet. People without these diseases get a glimpse of what everyday life is for me and people with mental disorders. All I have to say is thank you. 🎈
+Grady Lyle OCD, depression, and social anxiety! I've got them all as well! Not going to say hearing that others have the same obstacles as me makes me happy, but it reminds me I'm not alone.
“Eugene’s bigger, lay on him!” Haha I love this video. Seen it a few times and I still think it’s super great and has an awesome message for people who are suffering.
Rose McEwan me too! Especially because Zach is my favorite Try Guy and the one who gets the least amount of praise or attention from fans. I think Zach is very cute, talented, and funny. I really hope Zach can improve his self esteem.
I feel like I shouldn't have watched this, like it was something private... I mean obviously they wouldnt put it on the internet if they didnt want people to watch it, but still.
+Talia Føre completely agree but on the bright side it may help people realize that theyre not alone and shouldn't be ashamed of their problems. Which is why I love buzzfeed btw :)
I guess it was to motivate others who are uncomfortable with seeing a psychiatrist or therapist or whatever... Like people may see this and think "these people are always happy and charismatic yet they have issues as well..." Sooo yeah if it gets more people who need therapy to see someone then it's a great video
I think that I'm the Eugene in our group. not in being most fashionable or artsy way, but like, I don't tell my friends when I'm okay or not. I just suddenly disappear and just come back when I'm completely okay 'cause I don't want my negativity to affect them. 'cause when I'm down, I tend to be really negative and nothing good comes out from me.
Have you ever tried asking them how they feel about it? If they preferred for you to be around even when you're down? You might find out they'd like to support you and be beside you when you feel that way. I'm writing you this because I used to react exactly the same but then through therapy I've tried to change and now I often call my friends and ask for help when I'm depressed (it still takes me some courage, but getting better each time) and they are precious angels that love to be there for me and help if they can and I've never would have made it through the dark moments in these last few years without them
I never thought Zach thinks like that about him. I love Zach! He is on the leaner side but that doesn't define his masculinity. He is good at what he does specially in the Try guys videos Making people laugh is also a talent and he is great at it in fact all the try guys are!
Zach is the sweetest man I’ve ever seen on UA-cam. Out of all the Try Guys, Zach is my favorite and I can tell he’s the most real and shouldn’t be so ashamed of who he is or isn’t because to me, he’s the best. Not saying the other guys aren’t great too but I really like Zach.
Same! He's so amazing! Definitely my favorite. I love watching him and literally look for videos with him in them. The other guys are good too but he really is my favorite
The most awful thing is that he was a role model for Eugene. He was showing Eugene, who has previously said that he doesn't believe in true love, that love can be pure. He screwed that one up and I think that's part of why Eugene was so angry.
I think off the try guys feel protective of Zach. I think they all know that Keith is actually deeply insecure of vunerable and just wants everyone to be happy all the time, and I think that's why he is everybodies favorite. I think Ned has a hard time being close to Eugene because they are both so Alpha, but that any overture from Eugene means the world to him. I think Eugene deeply appreciates his friends, but is afraid to show it and become dependent of their affection, or vulnerable. But they truly trust each other, since going into business with your friends is very high stakes.
Rather than "sad"... for me it was more like "sobering." Like you realize that the Try Guys aren't just characters and actors, but real people with insecurities and flaws.
I relate to Zach a ton. I'm very insecure and even though i do play sports, I'm not popular. I'm not funny or interesting and I'm always stressed about my flaws.
donutsarelove Well don't be so hard on yourself,everyone has their flaws as well so your not alone.I think what will help you is to find a positive thing about yourself,everyone is not made to be "perfect" but when everyone tells you that your nothing Jesus is telling you that your something.those negative thoughts that is cluttering in your mind is not helping you but stressing you.You are special in God's eyes but you just need to find what you like about yourself(Drawing,best video game player etc,funny etc)
I'm sure this was meant to be funny (which it was), but just in case it was a serious joke, she means more like an "emotional agenda", where that person actually has a part in your life, and therefore has an opinion that could potentially be changed. A therapist is neutral in that sense. They're not there to judge, or to have an opinion of you, but rather to help you reflect on yourself
+Braden Kemmerer Uh, I'm gonna have to agree with Daphne on this one, I get the literal aspect of it, but she was talking about the emotional aspect. Like Daphne said, a therapist is a pretty much unbiased and neutral professional who you can talk to, whereas your parents or friends are biased and tend to sway you one way or the other without helping sometimes. The agenda refers to the ideas that individual has set in place that they then encourage you towards, like your mom wanting to be a good parent and to see you being happy may be highly encouraging whereas a therapist may find a piece that you can work on. That's, all. Correct me if im wrong! I always want to learn
+E Argoff 😐. I don't think she was. Why would she home DURING the therapy session. She did say at the beginning "When you're in a room with me, therapy is always happening."
+Braden Kemmerer Ah, I see how you're thinking about this! While at therapy, anything a therapist says to you is considered treatment many times because it's all for the patient. If you were to express concerns about yourself or someone else, the therapist's reaction is always supposed to begin the help/healing process for the situation. When you enter a professional setting (so to speak) with a therapist, everything they say to you is supposed to help you or at least provide answers to you in some way, even if it doesnt seem applicable. Again, correct me if im wrong! Have a nice day Braden.
it's so strange to see zach say these things. he is honestly the best one in the group. he's the funniest and the cutest and everything. and i'm not saying that because i feel bad for him. i am not a nice person believe me. i'm very honest. and zach makes the group what it is.
Rewatching in 2021 and noticed that even how Eugene is sitting with perfect posture, rigid and defensive while the other try guys are relaxed and slouching is so telling. He’s come so far.
All my friends who’ve had therapy have told me that therapy sucks and I should never do it, but here I am, 7 months into therapy and I actually really enjoy it 😊
Therapy is different for everyone. You have to be willing to change and notice there’s a problem. If not it will be missable because your in denial of the problem at hand. Sorry I’m a Social Worker 😂
Dakota Davis i do too, i told my friends and they said that if i wanted to be on i have to be careful bc sometimes their problems can effect yourself badly and some therapists go into depression and stuff
Of course men don't talk about their feelings, they get abused when they do. Which is despicable by the way. People should be able to talk about things like this, without being judged, or feeling like they are weak. You aren't weak, not one bit. Talking about things can really help.
i think that is true but men also just genetically dont like to talk about their weaknesses. bullying is part of it and it is horrid when it happens but its not compleatly because of that. Men just naturally dont like tslking about their feelings, not all men but most anyway
+MsAquamonkey bottom line, men just have to find friends who aren't living in an animalistic perception of alpha and beta males. Which is actually not always easy.
So true. :( I know as a female, I dislike being judged by other females for being comfortable in my own skin. But just the same, my husband grew up with a lot of judgement from other guys (inc. brothers) for being soft. It took him half of his life to lockup his emotions, and the other half of his life for me to unlock them. It's been one hell of a bumpy ride but its been worth it. Obviously, that doesn't mean he doesn't take some hits without a peep like a "man", but at least he isn't a rock. If you can, whether its a friend or lover, please teach/allow them to confide in you. Be that good friend/partner/person. :)
+MsAquamonkey I have to disagree with that. Guys don't get "abused". They just don't want to. I am aware that it is (mostly) caused by others then thinking about them differently, but I say that it is their responsibility to find someone that they can talk to. Therapists are there for a reason, too.
+Joey batman "genetically dont like to talk about their weaknesses" There's no genes which would cause this. It's all about gender roles introduced to you from early ages like 4 upwards.
aww . i can really relate to Eugene. The feeling that your always in some sort of competition even though there isn't any at all. The walls on this guy are huge
+Azrael Belair In his case it might not have been completely untrue that there was no competition though. There's plenty of families where the levels of appreceiation is based on how good you are at what you're devoted to.
My biggest insecurity is my mediocrity. I can play basketball, play volleyball, play the guitar, play the piano, got good scores in school, know stuff about computer, can dance, and some other stuff but that's it. I can do them but never was good at it. In all the fields i join, people see a lot of potential in me but somehow i just am mediocre. Got into basketball varsity team but benched. Got good scores in school but was never in the top 10. There were even times girls chased me but i could never last in a relationship for more than 2 months. I just want to have a field where i am actually good at and can proudly say i did that.
Hey, this is an old comment but if you still feel that way. Maybe you could try focusing on a few things rather than many. If you have so many things in your life it'll be hard to master one. So set your priorities and drop some stuff, it'll help, trust me. And once you're for example good enough at dancing you could try focusing on another thing. You shouldn't half ass many things that way you'll always be mediocre because you have a lot of motivation and talents but you seem to do too much. I felt the same way for many years until I decided to focus on singing for an entire year and now I can at least say that I'm a good singer and now I can focus on my grades :)
im really reserved and act as if I hate hugs and any form of affection but the truth is, I'm just scared. I'm scared of people hating me when they get to know me so I don't let them, I distance myself and quite often, I would do anything for a hug, for a female friend to hug me and make me feel loved, for a male friend to hug me and make me feel safe, I just want a hug. it would be nice I think
Jasmine Ordonez U need to watch the Try Guys video where they see the Hollywood medium guy (I forgot his name). That was much more sad than this one! 😢
Zach doesn't understand or know that he is the most amazing try guy. He's so special and smart and funny. I wish he knew how much joy he brings to my life, and to everyone elses. Zach you are an amazing person and don't ever sell yourself short.
+Adrienne StJacobs she'd be like: "what are you thinking when you look at your fanta? does the yellow colour make you feel agressive? And if so- why did you even chose that fanta to be beginn with?" loool XD
AnimeaholicsAnonymous VA Same. What saddens me is that a lot of asian families are like that. I'm asian and the pressure our families put on us has become kind of a normal thing, we even joke about it a lot but in reality...it's kinda sad. You can see it a lot during crucial moments, such as senior years where everyone is grappling to go to a good school and have good grades. I've seen like three or five breakdowns per week, and teachers have even joked that we need stretchers because somehow collapsing has become a normal thing. I wish competition in countries like ours would lessen, but it probably won't for many years to come, and we'd probably turn out like our parents - pushing our kids to be the best they can for survival whilst simultaneously pushing them to the brink.
“I feel......something.... I just don’t know what it is” -Eugene. Yes Eugene.... I feel that so hard.
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I've related to that my whole life
me 24/7
Same with me
When did that happen
"strong men talk about their feelings, bro" - Ned
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Zach’s masculinity shows through when he is kind and open about what he thinks, when someone asks if he is scared he doesn’t hide it he just says oh yeah definitely. I think that is an awesome trait to have.
Sometimes I wonder how Zach would confront his insecurities if he chooses to. I, personally, lift weights on occasion to battle my insecurities about not being athletic or masculine enough. I'm aware that what might work for me might not work for Zach, though. Still, I wish that he'd try at some point.
preach
Untoxic (?) Masculinity!!!
@@jonathandiehl892 I felt the same way as him until I got my testosterone tested at 750 ng lol
@@venyl8204 Zach needs Kratos in his life.
Try guys: shall we lie on each other
Dr Jenn: you don’t have to you really don’t have to
Try guys: well if you insist
I actually scrolled down just to re-read this comment 😂😂
Waaaait good omeeeeens, yaaay
Eugene walked into that hug, don't even lie
I WAS ABOUT TO COMMENT THAT
lol exactly
i want that fanfiction
Just about to comment that as well. We see you Eugene.
Sure did lmao (also gee, Heck yeah )
Zach is the most honest, Ned is the most mature, Keith is the most introspective, and Eugene is the most independent. Together they balance each other out, which is why they work so well as the Try Guys.
Last bit: notice how Eugene & Zach are polar opposites like Ned & Keith are.
absolutely agreeing to this
This deserves more likes!!!
together they are chris pratt
Hey what about ned
Yeah and it’s weird . I always feel this awkward , cringey tension between Eugene and Zach . Even in the latest videos . I understand it’s “tough love” but I guess I’m just extra empathetic so I feel bad for him sometimes .
zach has got to have the kindest, biggest heart ever
Nneoma Uche he is very wise
he's da man.
I'm so glad he met Maggie :)
Keith: hiding behind a persona.
Ned: stress, being pulled in many directions
Zach: self-confidence
Eugene: building emotional barriers, blocking others out
Depressed breakfast me: all of the above
@@notgbby *virtual hug* you can get through it, me a virtual stranger believes in you remember that :)
*Talks about doing things together*
"We slept together"
Lol
I feel like Zach is really the strongest try guy emotionally because he has some much going on and he really tries to be honest about it
Kayla Allred I agree, emotionally because we all know masuclinity wise hes not even close
Agreed.
Definitely agreed. He also had the most commentary on the process, or the other guys' responses, in this video. (Ned had some too.) --though I'm sure the session was much, much longer than what we see here.
Yeah, I think he has mentioned that he's dealt with depression so he might have experience with therapy which makes him more mature about this stuff
Kayla Allred True
Finally a short compilation of Ned saying "my wife"
+Skylar Chumley
There must be hours of footage
Hahaha! YES! I love Ned💜
lol XD 😁
haha
+Zannie Ho lol XD 😁
It feels as if Eugene is secretly longing for the ability to be open, deep down. Which is why I think he so openly says the opposite. Given his upbringing, I feel like his inner self truly wants to be able to be free to express, but has trouble communicating that with his outside persona.
That's me😭😭😭😢😢
As someone who sees my whole self in Eugene (and someone who shares the same personality type) I can say that that might be very accurate. Obviously I don't know him personally but it's very likely
Yeah, i´m exactly like that, so i understand him very well.
Mary Ketchum I cant speak for Eugene personally, but as someone who’s been raised in an environment where being open about your problems and your shortcomings is discouraged, having people who even just notice that there’s something wrong and give you the opportunity to express yourself genuinely is something that I (and others that I know who have had similar experiences) really want to seek out but have trouble saying it outright. so while again, I can’t speak for Eugene, I think you might be onto something
Yep.
I've noticed everyone is talking about Eugene and Zach, but to be honest what really got to me was Keith. He's seems so confident and happy and out there, and discovering that he believes that preforming is the only thing he's good at, pains me. (Ned also made me feel things)
Don't forget he also dose beautiful makeup
I suspect that Keith is someone with a gift for making people happy. He just doesn't realize it.
Nia Lorre my guy, that’s beautiful. I completely agree.
bring me the milk mother ur dp made me scream
I screamed “KEITH YOU HO, YOU ARE MORE TALENTED THAN ME TBH”
Zach and Eugene are so much more similar than they realize
Kenna T. I think they realize it too. In Hannah Harts "My Drunk Kitchen" the co starred in it and Eugene said he despises Zach the most because they are too similar.
KennaTheUA-camTrash yay I made it 2.2k
I can agree
thats so TRUE
I wonder if Eugene really did start therapy or go to a psychologist or something because he's really opened up during the few years in the try guys
I agree!
fr though
his openness and vulnerability is so admirable and beautiful. i’m so glad they did this
The Zach and Eugene exchange about masculinity, was telling.
Zach: I’m not a masculine man, I never have been, and I have no qualms about it.
Eugene: Don’t you have problems about that? I would have so many problems with that..
Zach: What’s the alternative?
My heart kinda breaks for Eugene here. But I'm also proud of Zach here for being honest.
sajinokami that was too deep
@@cakt15us81 Yea for sure, being weird can sometimes lead one to be excluded because a group of other people can't relate to a certain thing and one can lose self confidence, but in the end it can be a blessing and be freeing to be different, and it makes you realise who you truly are, something that others never realise till very very late or never.
I know this is an old comment but seeing Eugene now being able to play into his feminine side in current videos by wearing dresses, skirts, makeup and nail polish makes me so happy because he’s finally comfortable enough to show his true self to the world and it takes a lot of courage to do that and I’m so damn proud of him
@@Ruby-jb6en I know, right. XD
[Side note: this is the internet, I will never leave.]
"When you are in a room with me, therapy is always happening."
Why is this me and I'm not even a therapist
Sage Benenati omg lol
Okay sameeee aff
Sage Benenati same
Sage Benenati i
same
Even though Eugune said he didn't want a group hug, noticed that he actually willingly walked towards their open arms with his arms crossed. I see smthg~ 😄😄😄
Pink Sparker if you look closely, Keith did kinda drag him over. His left hand is on Eugene and his arm was probably pulling him toward them.
JaDe1207 DONT RUIN IT. plusss he took a few steps on his own ~.~
I saw thatt too he's so cute
He probably just accepted his fate
He does care about the guys he doesn't like to admit it tho
"I...I...feel...something...."
Eugene has therapy in his blood
Catherine Witherow
XD
Catherine Witherow ...I just don’t know what it..... is......
Ned: Jeans and a Jacket
Zach: Flannel and Jeans
Keith: Flannel and Jeans
Eugene: Full blown suit
He also wore a full-on suit when he met Ned's baby for the first time. He hides his fear with presentation.
Im so proud the try guys are in this years youtube rewind!!!
i noticed them like immediately but had to watch it again just to make sure
+Rena Unschwer Where?!
+Jazz Taylor with Rebecca Black xD
They where???
Zeebins jup
I loved it but I couldn't help but laugh at the end when Eugene said he doesn't mind hugging Dr. Jenn so they all came hugging him knowing that he hates hugs 😂
I see Zach's masculinity but he's also a big sweetheart. How unfortunate we live in a society where some think those two traits can't live harmoniously within a man.
Hearing Zach's story made me think back to when I felt unsure about myself as a man. I, too, hated not being strong enough or athletic enough. I also envied men and women who were. What made me decide to train again? When others threatened me with violence after a mistake or two. Long story.
I learned that gentleness was my strength. That particular strength flourished when I became a healer. One must never allow society to decide what is strength for you.
Wish that I had as much solidarity as you. Right now, though, I try to get back into training every now and then. I still believe that might makes right.
I have nothing against might for we all need to protect ourselves. My greatest faith is might in the divine and not just human aggression.
I can understand that, too. Believing in a higher power and believing that said higher power can guide us to live better lives do help humanity.
I would love to see them revisit therapy; Eugene has come so far with his coming out etc, Ned is a father, Zach is in a committed relationship, Keith has grown enormously as a performer. Therapy with those new perspectives and experiences could be really insightful.
I'm not sure if group therapy is something that they would do or be comfortable with. Therapy is deeply personal where you can share everything, even things that you feel like might make you a bad person. I've spoken to my therapist about extreme anger and the desire to hurt people when in that state and I've gotten around it. I would never want people who I interact with everyday to know that.
The funny thing is, I feel like Eugene is more like Zach than either of them realize. They simply display their insecurities differently... Zach uses self-deprecating humor and displays his insecurities as part of who he is, Eugene buries them and pretends they don't exist. And both are talented, despite what we see about Eugene being the most talented. Their insecurities come from different places, but it's still strangely similar. But they're both perfectionists, they're both lacking confidence (which they display in different ways), they're both worrywarts. Their main difference is their willingness to talk about such things. Anyone agree?
Domi Kat I agree
Domi Kat
agreed. i actually have a perspective that people who are not open about their feelings, look "hard" on the outside, are actually the most vulnerable ones. they don't share their feelings as they are scared of being seen by others as weak. this is also coming from personal experience really. i used to be like eugene, looking hard on the outside, not liking actions of affections, like hugging. but then i started becoming more open about my feelings, and i do see the changes. i now love hugs. and my personality has became more like zach. the difference only being that i felt better than before (when i was eugene) because i didn't have to act like i'm strong and nothing can hurt me
I absolutely agree
I agree but of course eugene is the best...hes asian
I love how Eugene hugs himself and protects himself when people try to hug him😂
Zach's made me shed a tear. I love him so much
+sc_senyn I wanted to give him a hug ;c
+sc_senyn I bet seeing how everyone in the comment section like "omg eugene is so hot!" and "Keith is awesome" and "awww Ned and his wife" but the most we said about Zach is "yeah he's pretty cute" because he's tiny doesn't help much
my too. i reallylike him.
Same, I love Zach so much :)
poor Zach ),:
I came back to this video just to see Zach's growth. He's stepping up big time, managing the lawyers in this internal lawsuit and working his ass off, not only to keep the company afloat, but improving it in a major way
I am so proud of him.
Eugene:I feel
Me:yes!
Eugene: I feel
Me:say it
Eugene: I feel something
Me: oh come on!
Makeda Taylor Pearce haha same 😂
I FEEEL IIIII FEEEELL IIIIIIII FEEEEELL IT MR KRABSSS
Makeda Taylor Pearce literally me
Makeda Taylor Pearce 😂
Makeda Taylor Pearce thanks for a comment that I enjoyed reading since everyone is talking about such sad things
I just love the fact that even though Eugene says he despites group hugs, you can clearly see him going towards the rest of the guys. Thats adorable.
He loves them really haha
Mia Hansen ikr
I like how he doesn't enjoy group hugs, but he totally made out with Ned and practically ate his face.
My heart BROKE for Zach, I've always had a soft spot for him and to hear him talk about himself like that is devstating, you're doing amazing sweetie!
JustAnotherLoverForZach
Calling a man that is insecure about not being manly “sweetie” doesn’t help. You might say it with good intentions but he’s still a man and would like to be respected as such. Not seen as just adorable. I’m the same way, I don’t consider it help when I get called cute nicknames. Just respect me as a man just like I would respect however any woman would want to be treated.
is no one gonna talk about how Eugene and Dr. Jen are wearing basically the same suit..
I feel uncomfortable when I tell people everything
Me too
HOBIE
+Ayisha Bushra Mhm. Same.
+kimjimlim916 HOBIE IS LIFE MAN
is yur profile pic Hoseok?
I definitely relate to Eugene. I shut my feelings out so that they don't get in the way of achieving, even if that means shutting PEOPLE out. Glad to know I'm not the only one.
You're not alone
We are one. :)
+JessieMcnally :-(
you guys ok
+Le_Skittle_Ninja i am exactly the same way
"Beautiful Keith and the rest"
*Eugene
+Julieta G *keith
+Lilli Teravainen it's supposed to be uppercase because it's a proper noun
* all of them. Stop treating people different. Everyone can be equal, it's just society messing things up for other people!
+XxAmaliaMillerxX ummm she was quoting the video so chill
7:26
*Eugene doesn’t want a group hug*
*walks into the group hug*
I literally was just thinking this 😂
Fair, Keith was 'helping', but still, he definitely came their way
I cried when Zach's thing came up! He's awesome! Nothing any of these guys do is bad. They're the best
Alexander Hamilton HAMILTON!!!
Alexander Hamilton HAMILTON IS LIFE
Alexander Hamilton what's your name man?
Alexander Hamilton. My name is Alexander Hamilton.
Sonali Aheer there's a million things I haven't done.
You know *"Mental Health Awareness Week"* is the best when even *"The Try Guys"* get involved :)
Agreed!!!!! They're the best!
Eleanore Bliss Glad you agree Eleanore! :)
+Graphic Design Guy hi graphic design guy👋🏼
Oliviaxx Hi Olivia! :)
the graphic design is my favorite kind of guy
Okay, but Zach is my favorite try guy. He’s one of my favorites on buzzfeed in general. He’s such a sweetheart and he’s so caring and loving and this broke my heart.
i agree 100%
he is definitely my favorite as well and i think if he wanted to he can actually be a really masculine guy by just going to the gym a few times a week
not saying he needs to change just saying if he does want to its an option
“I feel something I just don’t know what it is” - Eugene. Eugene just told my life story
Katie kiehl SAME!
the try guys are the best thing about buzzfeed!
Get outta here, spammer
+touchdalight right after Gaby and Allison :)
+touchdalight your videos are hilarious bro :D
+touchdalight stfu ur advertising ur channel, i went to ur channel one time, didn't like ur videos, good.
+touchdalight Ignore the haters!! Your videos are the best😂💗💗💗💗
I want to give Zach the biggest hug ever
Omg yessss 😥
I know right. I probably have the lowest confidence out of anyone I know
Same here. It's just so touching 😭😭 he looks so sad in the video
Same,i almost start cry
Everyone really got to me in different ways, like Ned pushing himself to do too much, and Keith saying he’s the best to maybe one day he convinced of it, and zach feeling emasculated constantly because of his sensitive nature, and of course Eugene’s walls and wanting to know who he is but trying to hide it from others on his way to figuring it out
Keith is so chill if he left I think it would fall apart harder than if anyone else left. I am not saying he is my favourite. Just his dynamics with the others is so fascinating. He gets along with everyone keeps the peace between competative Eugene and Ned and sometimes undersog Zach. Evwn when Ned brought up a little beef Keith dealt with it so honestly openly and diplomatically.
Hes definitely like a glue for the guys I agree
I definitely agree. In the lie detector video all of the guys also said that Keith was their favorite or the one that they felt closest to in the group.
3 years later and you hit the nail.
Good thing it was Ned that left then. I don't think I could've handled a break up and end to the try guys, I'm a bit unstable right now but I know that I've got try guys videos yo watch if I need cheering up.
Really wanna hug Zach now ;(
Eugene is waay better
+tronald dump
+Tronald Dump I love Eugene, he's so cool!
But it made me really sad seeing how insecure he was
+Bialyz (he=Zach)
+kennedy ann agreed
Dear Buzzfeed,
I have OCD, depression, and anxiety. This was the the best week of buzzfeed yet. People without these diseases get a glimpse of what everyday life is for me and people with mental disorders. All I have to say is thank you. 🎈
deep
same but not so much ocd anymore. I had it bad in my early years rituals and all, but thanks be to God I am better.
+Grady Lyle OCD, depression, and social anxiety! I've got them all as well! Not going to say hearing that others have the same obstacles as me makes me happy, but it reminds me I'm not alone.
Play Grey on Kongregate :P
+Grady Lyle Disorder, not disease.
At the end did anyone else notice eugene step into the hug a little?
😄😄😄😄😄
"strong men talk about their feelings" - thank you Ned
Is it just me or does Zach look really sad? like from the start
They all do
It's quite uncomfortable for them epically as males and in a group and being filmed. They're bound to be somewhat sad.
Samantha Rebecca Middleton Makes sense.
yeah like he doesn't want to open up
No he is always sad :(
ZACH IS MY CINNAMON ROLL I LOVE HIM SO MUCH I WANT TO HUG HIM AND TELL HIM HES AMAZING SO BADLY
5555
+lazypuffle horan
With all those caps I'm sure he'll notice you.
chill
+lazypuffle horan HE IS! He has a special spice in him that he doesn't know ! Zach your awesome omg:)
Zach is my boo! I want to give him a biggg hug so bad😭
My brain: Keep it in
My heart: DO NOT let it it out
My eyes: TOO LATE
*Dam breaks
My mouth:
SCREEEEEEEEEE
Me
Same
*sneeze*
“Eugene’s bigger, lay on him!”
Haha I love this video. Seen it a few times and I still think it’s super great and has an awesome message for people who are suffering.
0:37
"I-I feel something.... But I don't know what it is." Bets quote ever! XD
Gamer Girl that's me xDD
I'm going to cry because of Zach 😭😭😭
Rose McEwan me too! Especially because Zach is my favorite Try Guy and the one who gets the least amount of praise or attention from fans. I think Zach is very cute, talented, and funny. I really hope Zach can improve his self esteem.
I actually cried. I wish I could hug zach cause i know exactly what he´s going through.
I love him so much and I hate that he hurts. He's my favorite too and I hope he feels better about himself. He's so amazing
Rose McEwan i cried
I did!
I feel like I shouldn't have watched this, like it was something private... I mean obviously they wouldnt put it on the internet if they didnt want people to watch it, but still.
+Talia Føre completely agree but on the bright side it may help people realize that theyre not alone and shouldn't be ashamed of their problems. Which is why I love buzzfeed btw :)
I guess it was to motivate others who are uncomfortable with seeing a psychiatrist or therapist or whatever... Like people may see this and think "these people are always happy and charismatic yet they have issues as well..." Sooo yeah if it gets more people who need therapy to see someone then it's a great video
Jordan Fonua Lyotac I agree 100%
I agree, I feel like a voyure. I think Eugene has more issues because of his family pressures he could use help with.
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I think that I'm the Eugene in our group. not in being most fashionable or artsy way, but like, I don't tell my friends when I'm okay or not. I just suddenly disappear and just come back when I'm completely okay 'cause I don't want my negativity to affect them. 'cause when I'm down, I tend to be really negative and nothing good comes out from me.
Same
Have you ever tried asking them how they feel about it? If they preferred for you to be around even when you're down? You might find out they'd like to support you and be beside you when you feel that way. I'm writing you this because I used to react exactly the same but then through therapy I've tried to change and now I often call my friends and ask for help when I'm depressed (it still takes me some courage, but getting better each time) and they are precious angels that love to be there for me and help if they can and I've never would have made it through the dark moments in these last few years without them
Very much SAME
This is so relatable....
I don’t think my “friends” like me for this reason
Zach, for the love of god, LET. ME. HUG. YOU. omg ❤
MY SENTIMENT EXACTLY
Same.
I never thought Zach thinks like that about him. I love Zach!
He is on the leaner side but that doesn't define his masculinity.
He is good at what he does specially in the Try guys videos
Making people laugh is also a talent and he is great at it in fact all the try guys are!
yuh
Zach is my fave! I think he's the funniest and does some of the best stuff poor Zach.
my precious little baby zach,
Naomi Garcia well my name is Zach
Naomi Garc zach is not ur baby
Naomi Garcia Um, calm down there lol
I would like to see a video of Eugene trying therapy for 30 days or something like that. It would be a good experience for him.
They all recognized Keith’s insecurity and in their new office makeover the sign says beautiful Keith :’)
that legit made me cry
I think it's their wifi password
I just really want to give Zach a hug
Zach is the sweetest man I’ve ever seen on UA-cam. Out of all the Try Guys, Zach is my favorite and I can tell he’s the most real and shouldn’t be so ashamed of who he is or isn’t because to me, he’s the best. Not saying the other guys aren’t great too but I really like Zach.
Shweester6 too
Same! He's so amazing! Definitely my favorite. I love watching him and literally look for videos with him in them.
The other guys are good too but he really is my favorite
Funny that Eugene didn't want to go to therapy but wore the exact same outfit as Dr. Jen
+Hollie Gainer OMG HAHAHAH
Hahahahaa omg, thanks for pointing that out :D
Oh my god. I had to pause the video to laugh.
Bruh... He is...
4:23
"You're actually being a role model to these guys when it comes to being in a relationship"
GEEZ, THIS AGED WELL 💀💀💀💀💀💀
The most awful thing is that he was a role model for Eugene. He was showing Eugene, who has previously said that he doesn't believe in true love, that love can be pure. He screwed that one up and I think that's part of why Eugene was so angry.
Zach: *says he's not manly. Has more body hair than all the other guys put together*
Just becuase he has body hair doesn't mean he's manly
OK so body hair is manly? lmao
yes have that's much hair on your body does mean you have more masculinity.
Calvin Kone No it doesn't. Body hair is completely genetic.
body hair doesn't define how manly you are.
I love how Eugene was like ' I don't like hugs ' but when the rest of the try guys were about to hug him he slowly moved himself towards them.
I have the same problem as Eugene! I just cover it up with being overly happy so I don't have to be confused about the other things.
same, honestly.
That's me too and then people call me abnormal and weird.
* virtual hug*
Jalissa Jal I get you. I'm like that too. I just cover up my feelings with a smile.
Same
I think off the try guys feel protective of Zach.
I think they all know that Keith is actually deeply insecure of vunerable and just wants everyone to be happy all the time, and I think that's why he is everybodies favorite.
I think Ned has a hard time being close to Eugene because they are both so Alpha, but that any overture from Eugene means the world to him.
I think Eugene deeply appreciates his friends, but is afraid to show it and become dependent of their affection, or vulnerable.
But they truly trust each other, since going into business with your friends is very high stakes.
Tbh, I can relate to Zach the most. I'm really self consious and I dont do sports. I also am not really popular and I am a bit nerdy.
same
Omg aka me
You're not alone :o)
That describes me.
Same, Zach is my favorite try guy because I see myself in him.. But I like him, so that makes me feel better about myself. If that makes any sense :D
Yo this made me kinda sad
It’s so sad
Life is like that. Not everyone's as happy as they like you to believe.
Isabella Adams I agree this made me sad.😟
Rather than "sad"... for me it was more like "sobering." Like you realize that the Try Guys aren't just characters and actors, but real people with insecurities and flaws.
Yes😥😥😥
dude, the therapist looks like keith
Omg!!!
I KNOW! She reminded me of Keith, dressed up as Katy perry in that one video.
CANT UNSEE
I just cried laughing 😂😂😂 its so true I van never unsee it
*can
eugene: we sleep together
zach: *laughs, smiles a little, looks over at him*
keith: not the cool kind
zach: *smile gets a little less convincing*
I relate to Zach a ton. I'm very insecure and even though i do play sports, I'm not popular. I'm not funny or interesting and I'm always stressed about my flaws.
donutsarelove me too. i hate my life
donutsarelove it's okay Jin. I believe in you.
I feel the same, bro
donutsarelove Well don't be so hard on yourself,everyone has their flaws as well so your not alone.I think what will help you is to find a positive thing about yourself,everyone is not made to be "perfect" but when everyone tells you that your nothing Jesus is telling you that your something.those negative thoughts that is cluttering in your mind is not helping you but stressing you.You are special in God's eyes but you just need to find what you like about yourself(Drawing,best video game player etc,funny etc)
Same
My question is is that when you make an appointment with a therapist, aren't you then on their agenda?
I'm sure this was meant to be funny (which it was), but just in case it was a serious joke, she means more like an "emotional agenda", where that person actually has a part in your life, and therefore has an opinion that could potentially be changed. A therapist is neutral in that sense. They're not there to judge, or to have an opinion of you, but rather to help you reflect on yourself
Daphne Wilson I don't think it was honestly. She was being serious about talking to a parent or a friend and where you are on their agenda.
+Braden Kemmerer Uh, I'm gonna have to agree with Daphne on this one, I get the literal aspect of it, but she was talking about the emotional aspect. Like Daphne said, a therapist is a pretty much unbiased and neutral professional who you can talk to, whereas your parents or friends are biased and tend to sway you one way or the other without helping sometimes. The agenda refers to the ideas that individual has set in place that they then encourage you towards, like your mom wanting to be a good parent and to see you being happy may be highly encouraging whereas a therapist may find a piece that you can work on. That's, all. Correct me if im wrong! I always want to learn
+E Argoff 😐. I don't think she was. Why would she home DURING the therapy session. She did say at the beginning "When you're in a room with me, therapy is always happening."
+Braden Kemmerer Ah, I see how you're thinking about this! While at therapy, anything a therapist says to you is considered treatment many times because it's all for the patient. If you were to express concerns about yourself or someone else, the therapist's reaction is always supposed to begin the help/healing process for the situation. When you enter a professional setting (so to speak) with a therapist, everything they say to you is supposed to help you or at least provide answers to you in some way, even if it doesnt seem applicable. Again, correct me if im wrong! Have a nice day Braden.
well this got emotional and a bit awkward at some points
+jazz rat the music didn't help
+jazz rat why am I crying?! 😫😭
+Angelica Caraballo thats buzz feeds plan...
+jazz rat 😥so evil, lol
+jazz rat ehh i dont think it's awkward since they're all so close n can power through the criticism
i cried during Zach’s speech, i relate so much
[Zach’s speech 2:42 - 3:53]💔
it's so strange to see zach say these things. he is honestly the best one in the group. he's the funniest and the cutest and everything. and i'm not saying that because i feel bad for him. i am not a nice person believe me. i'm very honest. and zach makes the group what it is.
I don't think there's a best one in the group. The group wouldn't be what it is without any of them.
+Aliaa Bz I think zak and ned are easily replaceable.
+Namaka Lis I saw the other heartfelt comments, and your reply just made me feel some type of way.
***** Like the original commenter, I'm neither being nice nor mean, simply honest.
+Aliaa Bz i disagree i don't think there is one standout person, they all have equal weight in the group
Ned: I'm marreid!
Eugene: he's married AF! 😂😂
Rewatching in 2021 and noticed that even how Eugene is sitting with perfect posture, rigid and defensive while the other try guys are relaxed and slouching is so telling. He’s come so far.
All my friends who’ve had therapy have told me that therapy sucks and I should never do it, but here I am, 7 months into therapy and I actually really enjoy it 😊
Twilit_Sheik agreed, I really liked my therapist. She was great!
I loved therapy. It helps a lot
Therapy is different for everyone. You have to be willing to change and notice there’s a problem. If not it will be missable because your in denial of the problem at hand. Sorry I’m a Social Worker 😂
i know the original comment is 3 years old but i hope everyone is still doing amazingly
Zach speech made me cry, I'm very like him... I love you Zach, you're loved remember it!
@3:20 I just started crying. Zach you're breaking my heart.
I think I wanna be a therapist when I grow up...it has always interested me
Go for it!
yea me to, i wanna be that person
Dakota Davis i do too, i told my friends and they said that if i wanted to be on i have to be careful bc sometimes their problems can effect yourself badly and some therapists go into depression and stuff
ashpluswifi yea I guess you have to be a strong person and take good care of yourself. But that doesn't stop me
Good for you! Go for it
ok but can we have a moment to notice how sweet eugene was to the pug he was holding? loll it seems like the pug is his baby 😆
Where?
He does like dogs more than any other small form of life
"Touch my hands..."
"Ewwww their sweaty! Why would you do that?"
"Because I don't wanna be here!!!"
I literally died
+Megan Laws I'm so sorry for your loss I'm praying for you
Of course men don't talk about their feelings, they get abused when they do. Which is despicable by the way. People should be able to talk about things like this, without being judged, or feeling like they are weak. You aren't weak, not one bit. Talking about things can really help.
i think that is true but men also just genetically dont like to talk about their weaknesses. bullying is part of it and it is horrid when it happens but its not compleatly because of that. Men just naturally dont like tslking about their feelings, not all men but most anyway
+MsAquamonkey bottom line, men just have to find friends who aren't living in an animalistic perception of alpha and beta males. Which is actually not always easy.
So true. :( I know as a female, I dislike being judged by other females for being comfortable in my own skin. But just the same, my husband grew up with a lot of judgement from other guys (inc. brothers) for being soft. It took him half of his life to lockup his emotions, and the other half of his life for me to unlock them. It's been one hell of a bumpy ride but its been worth it. Obviously, that doesn't mean he doesn't take some hits without a peep like a "man", but at least he isn't a rock. If you can, whether its a friend or lover, please teach/allow them to confide in you. Be that good friend/partner/person. :)
+MsAquamonkey I have to disagree with that. Guys don't get "abused". They just don't want to. I am aware that it is (mostly) caused by others then thinking about them differently, but I say that it is their responsibility to find someone that they can talk to. Therapists are there for a reason, too.
+Joey batman "genetically dont like to talk about their weaknesses" There's no genes which would cause this. It's all about gender roles introduced to you from early ages like 4 upwards.
Zach is my favorite try guy
POV: it’s 6 years later.
Zack has really grown more confident and it’s inspiring af
aww . i can really relate to Eugene. The feeling that your always in some sort of competition even though there isn't any at all. The walls on this guy are huge
+Azrael Belair In his case it might not have been completely untrue that there was no competition though. There's plenty of families where the levels of appreceiation is based on how good you are at what you're devoted to.
Zach. You are the best. Don't ever doubt yourself, okay? We love you.
I feel like the therapist looks like keith disguised as a woman
😂😂😂😂😑😑😑😑😑
WTF HAHAHHAA
OMG YES
Way to kill the moment, dude. XD
I can't unsee this now 😂😂😂
My biggest insecurity is my mediocrity. I can play basketball, play volleyball, play the guitar, play the piano, got good scores in school, know stuff about computer, can dance, and some other stuff but that's it. I can do them but never was good at it. In all the fields i join, people see a lot of potential in me but somehow i just am mediocre. Got into basketball varsity team but benched. Got good scores in school but was never in the top 10. There were even times girls chased me but i could never last in a relationship for more than 2 months. I just want to have a field where i am actually good at and can proudly say i did that.
Can't relate I'm bad at everything...not even average
Hey, this is an old comment but if you still feel that way. Maybe you could try focusing on a few things rather than many. If you have so many things in your life it'll be hard to master one. So set your priorities and drop some stuff, it'll help, trust me. And once you're for example good enough at dancing you could try focusing on another thing. You shouldn't half ass many things that way you'll always be mediocre because you have a lot of motivation and talents but you seem to do too much. I felt the same way for many years until I decided to focus on singing for an entire year and now I can at least say that I'm a good singer and now I can focus on my grades :)
@Bug Patrol pretty sure that phrase ends in 'but better than being a master of one'
Hey, buddy. I feel the same way
Damn I relate to that heavy.
my best friend is really like eugene and i get kind of upset because i love hugs and stuff. now i think i should think more about her side
outsider |-/
outsider I hate hugs and I'm a girl and I hate hugs because I'm really reserved.
im really reserved and act as if I hate hugs and any form of affection but the truth is, I'm just scared. I'm scared of people hating me when they get to know me so I don't let them, I distance myself and quite often, I would do anything for a hug, for a female friend to hug me and make me feel loved, for a male friend to hug me and make me feel safe, I just want a hug. it would be nice I think
mashed potatoes me too. i always wanted to be so clingy with my friends and hug and stuff but i just didnt know how
outsider |-/
This is probably the only serious/sad video I've every seen from the Try Guys.
Jasmine Ordonez U need to watch the Try Guys video where they see the Hollywood medium guy (I forgot his name). That was much more sad than this one! 😢
Another sad one is fatherhood
Zach doesn't understand or know that he is the most amazing try guy. He's so special and smart and funny. I wish he knew how much joy he brings to my life, and to everyone elses. Zach you are an amazing person and don't ever sell yourself short.
Ned’s out here exposing people
"When you're in a room with me, therapy is always happening." You must be fun at parties....
Haha lol
+Adrienne StJacobs she'd be like: "what are you thinking when you look at your fanta? does the yellow colour make you feel agressive? And if so- why did you even chose that fanta to be beginn with?" loool XD
who needs therapy all bartenders do the job lol
+BlueKat 04 Minors and alcoholics.
Why does no one talks bout Ned
Hg F because he’s very Very underrated
He's nice though, n is a wife lover which is like everyone wants a husband like that im all soft 😍😍
@@lvrdvst he is.
Because he's perfect.
I can totally relate to Eugene right now.
same, also, your username..there is no way out
AnimeaholicsAnonymous VA Same. What saddens me is that a lot of asian families are like that. I'm asian and the pressure our families put on us has become kind of a normal thing, we even joke about it a lot but in reality...it's kinda sad.
You can see it a lot during crucial moments, such as senior years where everyone is grappling to go to a good school and have good grades. I've seen like three or five breakdowns per week, and teachers have even joked that we need stretchers because somehow collapsing has become a normal thing.
I wish competition in countries like ours would lessen, but it probably won't for many years to come, and we'd probably turn out like our parents - pushing our kids to be the best they can for survival whilst simultaneously pushing them to the brink.
Eugene is now a lot happier after coming out.. You can really sense it how much open he's become.. Before he used to be so closed.
Turns out he doesn't need to earn anyone's approval. Just being himself is enough.