Gogo bathini thanks for the knowledge and advise that you always gives us I'm from mamelodi Pretoria always listening to your videos may the almighty god be with you and ancestors watch over you and bless you
Thokoza Gogo my fiance is using his mother's surname, however, his parents were married traditionally, amahlabiso wenza ne nyongo ya sebenziswa. But they never married in a western way meaning they didn't sign at home affairs and change surnames but eventually they separated indefinitely and his father has passed away without reuniting with his mother. Now my question is; should my fiance change his surname to his father's before we get married officially ngesintu because I don't want our kids to use a wrong surname after being married
Thokoza Mkhulu. Thank u for the topic yesibongo. Ngixakekile kumanje ngenxa yokushintsha isibongo because being pressured by my dad to change isibongo bcoz ubeshadile nomama n ekugcineni ezange asayenza izinto ezi ryt ukuyongikhipha khabo mama aphinde angifake kwesakhe, kwa ukubonga khabo mama azange Akasayithinti yonke leyo. Impilo imile nsi sengifisa kwa ukubuyela kusibongo engikhule ngaso.
Thokoza gogo.... Thank you so much yazi wayishaya khona, exactly what I wanted to hear.. And I was just talking about it now.... My question is answered
😂😂😂 Ernest! Ernest! Ernest! How many times I call u, be careful don't ever again saying those words, uthini uthi abakini bayathakatha, please ungazingeniseli amanzi endlini mfana wami. Ngithi ungumfana ngoba ngibona ireasoning power yakho ifile.
@@ernestmatlhake197 so Ernest that mkhovu of yours that u have been lost is the cause of your family. By the way how does it lost, is it dead or it is missing
Thokoza Gogo, Can you please talk about ukuthetyulwa, how do you see if umuntu uthetyulwilwe futhi uyenzani step forward ukumulungisela or ukulungisa??
Yeah this topic is very interesting and my question is what happens when you you stay with your girlfriend at your place and the girlfriends family doesn't want anything to do with you and you bring up your kids and you give them your surname before you pay for demage or inhlawulo?
Thokoza gogo. If one who is far away from where you reside but would love to have some enquiries, how can we contact you? Specifically for online enquiries?
Thokoza gogo.Thanks for the information. Ngicela ukwazi ukuthi How does not changing your surname affect you in marriage .Im called by my moms last name since I dont know and never seen any of my family.I had a marriage breakdown and I remember my ex asking me my real last name.I asked my mom by then I was in my 30s and she told me.I never had luck since then and now Im about to get married and afraid that the same will happen again.Will it not affect me being in my mothers name?Ngicela usizo Mbatha.
Thokoza salkwazi sendoda, I do have a question in my case ngisebenzisa isbongo sa baba but it appears ubaba was off outside the marriage and akangeniswanga kuso appropriately, so I’ve been advised a number of times that I need to change my surname back to my mom’s bc I’ve inherited generational curses, and problems that don’t even concern me thru this surname. Should I still consider doing research? Or is it valid enough for me and my children to go back to my maternal surname?
Can i ask Gogo , does it happen that as a boy child you pay nhlawulo for your deceased father and also pay lobola in order for u to get or change 2 your father's surname ?? ... Because i believe that at the end of the day you will need your surname.
Thokozani gogo i grow up in orphanage , surname that I’m using no one knows where is come from and who give me, I grow up with father and mother or biological, by record on this orphanage they do know about this surname what can I can do? How can I found my biological family?
With all due respect I disagree with you. If uyingane yakoMalume as uMlanjwana kumele umuntu asebenzise isibongo sakoMalume. I'm speaking as a man myself, I feel it's up to us ukuthy uma sikhulelise izingane zabantu to play our part ekuthenini sizilobole, sizishade finish. Let's be responsible as men. If wena as ubaba ufuna ingane ibize isibongo sakho kzomele nigcagce noNina. If not khohlwa that child is not yours. Ingane yakoMalume leyo, and yonke into yaleyongane iphuma koMalume. Ukuhlawula akusho ukuthy ingane eyakho. It's your responsibility to do. Ukumithisa ingane yabantu ungayiganile icala lelo ndoda. Uhlawula ukuthy ungcolise igceke Kanye nengane yakomunye umuzi. Uma uzothi wena ngeke uhlawule kulungile, Koda ngikuqhaphelise, lomuntu who you impregnated has an army of ancestors. ksasa izokhala induku kwena nobukleva buyophela Koda angikho lapho. Asingadukisani kepha sikhanyelisane. Isintu asihlolwa. If uzobiza isibongo esiWrong ksasa ezakho ingane zizobiza siphi? As uMlanjwana wena uvusa umuzi wakaboMalume. and ensure this thing doesn't carry on generations after you. Amen
I found out that my Great Grandfather was Monare and it happened that he passed on and one of his child (my grandfather) took a surname of a stepfather. Is it possible for me to change my surname back to my gteat grandfather's surname?
If ubaba akuvalela ngaphandle, mhlawumbe kunesizathu. Personally I would tell you to rather carry on using the surname you are using currently (especially if it's mom's surname) because you are not the one that chose it, ufike unaso. You need to understand ukuthi akwazeki ukuthi wena ufoste ukungena ekhaya kubo baba, if you were left khabo mama remain doing izinto khabo mama. Iqala alikho nawe.
If khabo baba azange befake umama or nawe zange bakwenzele umsebenzi wakuthi bekufake, uyafana nomtwana osese ngaphansi ekhaya khabo mama. And then isibongo just like ugogo ecaza kwi video, you don't have to change it cause akusiwuwe ozibeke sona.
Gogo I’d like a phone consultation. I can’t come to you I live overseas. I know you insist that people come to you. Do you make an exception in a situation such as mine?
Gogo always encourages that you dont use surnames but rather call upon all the ancestors that walk with you in light and those that are protecting you.
@Gogo Bathini Mbatha SAWBONA MKHULU.... NGICELA UKUSIZWA LA...UMUNTU ENGIZWANA NAYE HIS USING A SURNAME HE THOUGHT WAS HIS REAL FATHER JUST TO FIND OUT UKUTHIN HIS NOT THE FATHER AND SEWASHONA LO BABA MASIBUZISA KUBO ABAZI LUTHO NOMAMA WAKHE WASHONA ANGENZE NJANI
Gogo bathini thanks for the knowledge and advise that you always gives us I'm from mamelodi Pretoria always listening to your videos may the almighty god be with you and ancestors watch over you and bless you
Wakhuluma sengathi ukukhuluma nam Gogo.👏
Ngabe ngiyabuza,sengobuza uma siphinde sibonana.Thokoza 👏👏👏
Thokoza Gogo my fiance is using his mother's surname, however, his parents were married traditionally, amahlabiso wenza ne nyongo ya sebenziswa. But they never married in a western way meaning they didn't sign at home affairs and change surnames but eventually they separated indefinitely and his father has passed away without reuniting with his mother. Now my question is; should my fiance change his surname to his father's before we get married officially ngesintu because I don't want our kids to use a wrong surname after being married
Thokoza Mkhulu. Thank u for the topic yesibongo. Ngixakekile kumanje ngenxa yokushintsha isibongo because being pressured by my dad to change isibongo bcoz ubeshadile nomama n ekugcineni ezange asayenza izinto ezi ryt ukuyongikhipha khabo mama aphinde angifake kwesakhe, kwa ukubonga khabo mama azange Akasayithinti yonke leyo. Impilo imile nsi sengifisa kwa ukubuyela kusibongo engikhule ngaso.
Thokoza 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Mthiya | Shandu
Heavy topic kodwa kuzolunga especially as boBaba sahlukana nobaby mama.
Makwande🕯🙌🏽
Syabonga Gogo yazi lezinto ezenziwa abazali bethu kudala zibuyela kuthina manje lapho angazi nokuthi ngenze njani ngoba ziningi futhi zifuna imali. Zisiphula umoya
Thokoza Gogo, as usual we thank you for the enlightening work. Please don't forget to finish the series Yama bhayi
Your wisdom Gogo🙌🏾 Siyabonga
Thokoza gogo....
Thank you so much yazi wayishaya khona, exactly what I wanted to hear..
And I was just talking about it now.... My question is answered
Thokoza Gogo and thanx for the video.You help us to know ourselves.iNkosi thele umusa.MALUJU.
Thokoza gogo👏👏👏. Lesson learned! Very useful information.
Thokoza Gogo
Can you please have an episode on Imimoya ehlukile (uMndawu, Mndawo, etc) and how they differ etc
I agree, it would be nice to understand lemimoya
Yeyi ngoba iyahlupha imimoya. Kungasiza kakhulu. Thanx for suggestions
Thokoza Gogo
Ngath ngaba live so to ask questions
@@naomizinhle7695
That would be nice.
Uthisha wethu madoda kanye nezinye inyanga👏👏
hi gogo bathini
can you please have a discussion about o kuhlanganisa izidalwa , what needs to happen nd the ceremony to do it ???
Thokoza gogo ndaze ndalile yile video
Ngo May 2021 ndishintshe isurname kuba ndi divosile
Noma ndiphahla ngempepho emzini wami ayivuthi impepho
Umkhwenyana wandishiya nomuzi wahamba wagana
Thank you Gogo, I want to change my father's surname to my Mother's surname because in my father's side bayathagatha.
Usuyabheda kemanje
😂😂😂 Ernest! Ernest! Ernest! How many times I call u, be careful don't ever again saying those words, uthini uthi abakini bayathakatha, please ungazingeniseli amanzi endlini mfana wami. Ngithi ungumfana ngoba ngibona ireasoning power yakho ifile.
@@thokomhlongo1288 It is simply for you to say that. I lost my only. Bamenza umkhovu.
Nawe thagatha!!!!😂
@@ernestmatlhake197 so Ernest that mkhovu of yours that u have been lost is the cause of your family. By the way how does it lost, is it dead or it is missing
Thank you for educating me!
Thokoza gogo, in xhosa or english yinton "emsamo/emsama"?
Thank you for changing my life
Heeee yaaz I called today from Eastern cape may be I was speaking to the wrong person, tanks very much salukazi sendoda for the new number.
Thokoza gogo, could you also please do a video yokuth uphahla kuphi nakanjani uma ma wakho no baba wakho banga kholelwa emadlozini,bakhetha insindiso
Siyacamagusha Gogo, camagu ❤🤝🏼
Thokoza Gogo, Can you please talk about ukuthetyulwa, how do you see if umuntu uthetyulwilwe futhi uyenzani step forward ukumulungisela or ukulungisa??
Thank u very much gogo bathini mbatha🙏
Yeah this topic is very interesting and my question is what happens when you you stay with your girlfriend at your place and the girlfriends family doesn't want anything to do with you and you bring up your kids and you give them your surname before you pay for demage or inhlawulo?
Ngicela ukubuza Gogo kweziwa njani Uma usuphuma ekhaya komama awusicazele
Very informative thokoza Makhosi 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Thokoza gogo.
If one who is far away from where you reside but would love to have some enquiries, how can we contact you? Specifically for online enquiries?
Camagu Gogo!! Ngemfundiso zakho ngoba siyalahleka
Thokoza gogo.Thanks for the information. Ngicela ukwazi ukuthi How does not changing your surname affect you in marriage .Im called by my moms last name since I dont know and never seen any of my family.I had a marriage breakdown and I remember my ex asking me my real last name.I asked my mom by then I was in my 30s and she told me.I never had luck since then and now Im about to get married and afraid that the same will happen again.Will it not affect me being in my mothers name?Ngicela usizo Mbatha.
Lock Smith 🔐 you have teach me Isizulu but im Motswana 💘 you gogo
Gogo siyezwa silalele kodwa abazali abafuni ukuphuma neqiniso ngalento iyasihlupha kakhulu nabantwana abangenacala bayahlupheka manje.
Ngikuzwakahle gogo bathini Mbatha
Thokoza salkwazi sendoda, I do have a question in my case ngisebenzisa isbongo sa baba but it appears ubaba was off outside the marriage and akangeniswanga kuso appropriately, so I’ve been advised a number of times that I need to change my surname back to my mom’s bc I’ve inherited generational curses, and problems that don’t even concern me thru this surname. Should I still consider doing research? Or is it valid enough for me and my children to go back to my maternal surname?
Thokoza
You need a consultation…
Thokoza salkwazi👏🏾
Ngisanda kuyithola le video amnandi kangaka Mntomdala. Hhai iyahlaba lendaba. Thokoza Gogo!!
Mthiya,makuwukuthi babaleka from swaziland (kubangawa ubukhosi), bafika kwazulu bazocasha okungesona esenu,ilungiswa kanjani indaba yesibongo. Ngikhuluma ngenzeka ngesikhathi Selembe.
Babaleka from eswazini bafika KwaZulu they started used the Ngcobo surname, but abakwa Dlamini
Wahamba no Sne 🤣 kodwa Gogo 🙌
Can i ask Gogo , does it happen that as a boy child you pay nhlawulo for your deceased father and also pay lobola in order for u to get or change 2 your father's surname ?? ...
Because i believe that at the end of the day you will need your surname.
Siyabonga Gogo , for rectifying the number
Thokoza
Thokoza Gogo.
Ingane yami ibizwa isbongo sakubo ngoba ubaba wayo wayewmuntu ozohlawula, enzele ingane umsebenzi as soon as ngiteta, so ngokunqena ukukhu sigqigqa ama home Affairs siyoshintsha, wabiza isbongo sakubo. Akabange esenza njengezinhlelo zakhe nengane ayihlawuliwe isize yaba na4. Kungaba yinkinga if ngimbuyisela ngasesbongweni sami, since evele engenzelwanga lutho kubo?
Thokozani gogo i grow up in orphanage , surname that I’m using no one knows where is come from and who give me, I grow up with father and mother or biological, by record on this orphanage they do know about this surname what can I can do? How can I found my biological family?
You were lied to.... I will need to seed you.....
Thokozani gogo,ngixela ukubuza isizulu angisazi kahle kodwa ngizozama ngibanephupho iliza njalo ngilahlekelwe umsemo kodwa ngile kwagobela ngiufune ngingautholi lisho ukuthini iphupho lami salukazi sami ngibawa ungisize
Me gogo are didn't get married to my boyfriend my kids used his Surname but now i want to change them i think they must used mine
Siyabonga Gogo... u Sne wakwenzani ? All the examples u Sne 🤗
🤣😂🤣😂😅. Ngiyabavuma o Sneh
@@dr.gogobathinimbathatv ngiyabona Gogo 😅😅😅
Uyazi I have request a step child to change back the surname to the maiden surname. Will the consequences be the same as spousal change of surname?
Am also changing my surname from my stepfather back to my moms,ngoba izinto zam azihambe kahle.
Thokoza gogo cela kubuza siyashitsheka yini isibongo Uma umkhulu washada nogogo wase eshona engakamtholi ubaba nabanye ba wazalwa ngaphandle bananye isibongo
Aaah Gogo ibalimazile abaningi ke leyo😤😤😤😡😡
Kunzima gogo eyesibongo indima ngempela
Manje Gogo i want to know this what if you grew up konw ukuthi Ubaba ngabani but you used mothers surname since birth , manje how do you solve that
We thank you
Manje if ngifuna ukushintsha igama, kwemziwa njani lapho
Baba uMbatha mina inkinga yami ubaba akahlawulanga kodwa ngisebenzisa isibongo sababa kodwa sibe nenhlambuluko emsamo before ngibuyele kulesi sakamama
Thokoza gogo
Umama wagana Buthelezi waya egoli wathola UNkosi,U Nkosi walobola kancane wahlawula kodwa kwavunyelwana ngokuthi izinkomo ziyadlula yena usazolobola futhi wavuma uma esho. Mina ngikhulele komalume kodwa ngibiza UNkosi ngoba ngeqa ngaya kwaNkosi zabheda izinto ngiwa nezimoto ngaze ngayoshweleza komalume zalunga izinto emuva kwalokho ngaganwa ngakha umuzi ngiwubiza ngesibongo sikamama uZulu kodwa nginguNkosi epasini ngifuna ukusishintsha maduze. Abanye bathi ngingamadaka akwaButhelezi ikhona into enjalo umama ushone esebiza uZulu ngangcwaba eduze kwabazali bakhe kwaZulu wazisholo yena ngabe ngenza iphutha
Uyilongwe kwaButhelezi kpdwa awusiye owakhona.
Yuu belong ekhaya koninalume vese kwaZulu...
Thokoza gogo wethu❤️👏👏👏
Thokoza Mthiya👏👏👏 Thokoza Gogo, ngizwa kahle👂
MTHIYA NGICELA UKUBUZA NGINE NGANE OKWATHIWA EYAMI NGAYAMUKELA KAHLE NGAYONDLA...MASE NGITHOLAISINA 2 YEARS UKUTHI KUNOMUNYE NAYE OWAZI UKUTHI EYAKHE NAYE UYONDLA IBIZA ISIBONGO SAKHE...NGABE KUNAMTHELELA MUNI LOKHO ENGANENI?
With all due respect I disagree with you. If uyingane yakoMalume as uMlanjwana kumele umuntu asebenzise isibongo sakoMalume. I'm speaking as a man myself, I feel it's up to us ukuthy uma sikhulelise izingane zabantu to play our part ekuthenini sizilobole, sizishade finish. Let's be responsible as men.
If wena as ubaba ufuna ingane ibize isibongo sakho kzomele nigcagce noNina. If not khohlwa that child is not yours. Ingane yakoMalume leyo, and yonke into yaleyongane iphuma koMalume. Ukuhlawula akusho ukuthy ingane eyakho. It's your responsibility to do. Ukumithisa ingane yabantu ungayiganile icala lelo ndoda. Uhlawula ukuthy ungcolise igceke Kanye nengane yakomunye umuzi. Uma uzothi wena ngeke uhlawule kulungile, Koda ngikuqhaphelise, lomuntu who you impregnated has an army of ancestors. ksasa izokhala induku kwena nobukleva buyophela Koda angikho lapho.
Asingadukisani kepha sikhanyelisane. Isintu asihlolwa. If uzobiza isibongo esiWrong ksasa ezakho ingane zizobiza siphi? As uMlanjwana wena uvusa umuzi wakaboMalume. and ensure this thing doesn't carry on generations after you. Amen
Salukazi sendoda namhlanje ngathi uthunyelwe ukuzokhuluma nami ngisho nazibongo owenze ngazo i example ezami uMbatha no Zungu
Siyathokoza salukazi sendoda🙏🙏🙏
Thokoza gogo. Yho, fanele ngi fike lapho sizoyixoxa lendaba yama surname. 😏😏😏
I found out that my Great Grandfather was Monare and it happened that he passed on and one of his child (my grandfather) took a surname of a stepfather. Is it possible for me to change my surname back to my gteat grandfather's surname?
Uyamthanda uSneh salukazi sendoda😂😂
Thokoza Gogo
Yazi lendaba yesibongo iyinkinga, ngimdala manje and ubaba wami akazimisele ukulungisa isimo sami waze wangixosha and kukhona nesimo sezikhwama. Ngenza kanjani ukuxazulula lento?
If ubaba akuvalela ngaphandle, mhlawumbe kunesizathu. Personally I would tell you to rather carry on using the surname you are using currently (especially if it's mom's surname) because you are not the one that chose it, ufike unaso. You need to understand ukuthi akwazeki ukuthi wena ufoste ukungena ekhaya kubo baba, if you were left khabo mama remain doing izinto khabo mama. Iqala alikho nawe.
@@angelamissh9425 Isibongo esababa
If khabo baba azange befake umama or nawe zange bakwenzele umsebenzi wakuthi bekufake, uyafana nomtwana osese ngaphansi ekhaya khabo mama. And then isibongo just like ugogo ecaza kwi video, you don't have to change it cause akusiwuwe ozibeke sona.
Engisasalelwa ukukwenza ukumukelwa esibongweni saka buthelezi and ubaba uvumile ukuthi angibuyele esibongweni sikamama sengibe nesibonakaliso sokuyokwenza umsamo ekhaya lomama
Gogo I’d like a phone consultation.
I can’t come to you I live overseas. I know you insist that people come to you. Do you make an exception in a situation such as mine?
Yes I do. 0835339183
I’m getting mixed messages now Gogo. You said to only contact you on the 035 number..
Sanzima nasi isivivinyo Salukazi sendoda, kodwa lokhu kuyinkomba yomsebenzi omuhle owenzayo. uzonqoba, amasela ezi number ngeke aphumelele.
Ey Gogo watsho exactly lento ndikuyo
When ngiphahla should I use isurname kamama or my ex husband surname since we divorced
Gogo always encourages that you dont use surnames but rather call upon all the ancestors that walk with you in light and those that are protecting you.
Don't use surnames
Angeke bakwenze lutho Mhlophe! INkosi
Izo-dealer nabo
Thokoza Gogo ngicela ukubuza lapha asisethembi kumele siqinisekise.Ngidideka lapha bengithi ngiyafona for bookings ngithi ngifuna ukuza kuwe ekhaya.Manje ngifisa ukuzwa mangifisa ukuzo bheka kumele ngize ekhaya noma ngize idolobheni e-office?
@Gogo Bathini Mbatha SAWBONA MKHULU.... NGICELA UKUSIZWA LA...UMUNTU ENGIZWANA NAYE HIS USING A SURNAME HE THOUGHT WAS HIS REAL FATHER JUST TO FIND OUT UKUTHIN HIS NOT THE FATHER AND SEWASHONA LO BABA MASIBUZISA KUBO ABAZI LUTHO NOMAMA WAKHE WASHONA ANGENZE NJANI
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Makwande okuhle kuwe gogo
Siyabonga Shandu
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