90 Day Fiancé: Chidi's Sister IN TEARS After He Says He Still Wants to Be With Rayne

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  • @TIA228
    @TIA228 2 місяці тому +743

    That’s the devil tempting Chidi to remove him from his covering which would destroy him. Resist and Run Chidi

    • @AntiscampoliceTV
      @AntiscampoliceTV 2 місяці тому +44

      True, Rayne is trying to transmit demons of fornication to Chidi😮

    • @carmenmiranda8963
      @carmenmiranda8963 2 місяці тому +18

      AMEN...Well said.

    • @phililenqayi2861
      @phililenqayi2861 2 місяці тому +46

      I agree. She's a bit demonic in her demeanor

    • @Reycobaby
      @Reycobaby 2 місяці тому +7

      Yes

    • @Alovellyone
      @Alovellyone 2 місяці тому +29

      With temperament, she will definitely unalive him and cover it up. The family being so far away wouldn't be able to receive justice. He needs to marry someone in his country. I don't know why he won't. If he were my probably, I would definitely stand in the way of him marrying her.

  • @marynjeri5651
    @marynjeri5651 2 місяці тому +989

    Chidi"s sister is sooooo sweet😊

    • @kelseykaye7269
      @kelseykaye7269 2 місяці тому +29

      She seems like a classy lady

    • @jazzyj6640
      @jazzyj6640 2 місяці тому +13

      Soooo sweet. ❤

    • @sgg7285
      @sgg7285 2 місяці тому +10

      Yes she is very

    • @Skittles861
      @Skittles861 2 місяці тому +6

      SO sweet my goodness!

    • @marynjeri5651
      @marynjeri5651 2 місяці тому +7

      @@kelseykaye7269 her dignity can't stoop so low to Rayne level

  • @StubbyLegz
    @StubbyLegz 2 місяці тому +634

    It’s heartbreaking to see how genuinely terrified Chidi’s family is for him.

    • @Blossom4me
      @Blossom4me 2 місяці тому +14

      Yes it is 😢

    • @flokeyku-y2j
      @flokeyku-y2j 2 місяці тому

      they were terrified that the woman would step outta the show and the fake nigerian scammer bro,would not get a cent
      ahan!! he now needs to find another idiot to cheat on!!

    • @shannaholmes833
      @shannaholmes833 2 місяці тому +3

      It really is. It’s like releasing him to a damn beast!

    • @flokeyku-y2j
      @flokeyku-y2j 2 місяці тому

      @@shannaholmes833 he is not a victim or a baby ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh stop the nonsense ahhh
      say that to a teen girl that 🙄🙄😴😴is gloomed by an older ball and nt this old ball male

    • @shannaholmes833
      @shannaholmes833 2 місяці тому

      @@flokeyku-y2j lol you say it to them. I said what I said.

  • @topshop30
    @topshop30 2 місяці тому +366

    Chidi has a wonderful support system with his lovely sister and friend. Niles is commendable for apologizing and explaining his behavior. Hope they both find happiness as they're great honest people

  • @LynnTibo
    @LynnTibo 2 місяці тому +407

    Who is she making that video and ass shots for? Her blind boyfriend? So much disrespect from Rayne on all the levels. Chidi definitely deserves so much better

    • @elainefranco725
      @elainefranco725 2 місяці тому +48

      I agree. She is very ignorant woman

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 2 місяці тому +13

      💯 Correct

    • @Azzura_365
      @Azzura_365 2 місяці тому

      She seeks intimacy …. So desperately!!!!! She feels rejected and tries to attract anyone s attention just to be …. 😂 oh God ! Go back home to your kids and buy a toy for yourself from Nigeria . A black one ☝🏼

    • @Shewas-kathybates
      @Shewas-kathybates 2 місяці тому +8

      There were no ass shots chile lmaooo it was for the show

    • @johnene
      @johnene 2 місяці тому +23

      I watched it and thought, "oh yeah, chidi is blind.. WTF". I don't know who she was talking to and shaking it for.

  • @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688
    @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 2 місяці тому +598

    Rayne needs some serious counseling. She is a broken woman, who hasn't healed from previous relationships. I wondered how she was comfortable leaving her kids for weeks. It's disturbing. Chidi's sister is a jewel.

    • @lilo2373
      @lilo2373 2 місяці тому +60

      Her own kid said “I hope she stays” in Nigeria 😅

    • @kelleyjohnson7694
      @kelleyjohnson7694 2 місяці тому +7

      100

    • @AntiscampoliceTV
      @AntiscampoliceTV 2 місяці тому +9

      ​@@lilo2373 Yeah, so telling.

    • @AntiscampoliceTV
      @AntiscampoliceTV 2 місяці тому +6

      Niles said he didn't think he would marry her on the trip, but said they would discuss it. I saw that clip. Maybe he has amnesia as well! 😅😅

    • @theethee777
      @theethee777 2 місяці тому +9

      I love his sister!

  • @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688
    @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 2 місяці тому +707

    Melicia, we love you. You bring life to ET.

  • @linoroll8296
    @linoroll8296 2 місяці тому +197

    I believe because of her previous relationships, Rayne looked for someone that will be 100% dependent on her and she can completely control. That's why she is trying to push out the sister. She will bring him to the US to keep him at the farm and he will not be able to go anywhere without her. He won't even be able to do a Michael and escape. I am so sad for him.

    • @CanadianBisdak
      @CanadianBisdak 2 місяці тому +20

      She’s a narcissist! Once she gain control of Chidi, that’s it for Chidi. He can’t get help. Rayne will never allow that to happen. She’s gonna be killing him slowly.

    • @thelocalartisanguide7937
      @thelocalartisanguide7937 2 місяці тому +13

      Yes sounds like a horror movie.

    • @patwilliams9175
      @patwilliams9175 2 місяці тому +1

      She definitely wants to control Chidi. I hope Chidi holds onto his support system and sees Rayna for who/what she is. Chidi needs support not control. Rayna doesn't respect Chidi, she doesn't respect his religious beliefs nor his spiritual vow to uphold his faith and his desire to remain celibate until marriage. She's essentially saying that anything that she's not in agreement with is against her personally therefore Chidi needs to remove the problem. Chidi needs to find him a sane woman in his country or at least on the same continent bcuz Rayna is Crazy and that's why she has had so many problems in relationships and that's why her crazy ass has been single the past 5+ years. She has only told her side of past relationship problems. I bet the ex partners have a whole lot to say about Rayna and her craziness. Chidi needs to leave her alone altogether because she's told him that he's messing with the wrong person and I believe her on that statement. He's Not ready for her crazy. On the other hand she don't want to end up in jail in his country bcuz she's assaulted his sister or him.

    • @PreciousNwachukwu-j7c
      @PreciousNwachukwu-j7c 2 місяці тому +2

      Do a Michael?😂😂

  • @vidaacheampong9209
    @vidaacheampong9209 2 місяці тому +184

    Rayne has a mental problem, you don’t go by her rules, you are out there to get her and she attacks. Chidi being blind doesn’t need a woman like that.

    • @rachelbusby2533
      @rachelbusby2533 2 місяці тому +15

      She still doesn't respect his beliefs at all she is trying so hard to get him to break them and don't care only her way or no way

    • @bintajarju7611
      @bintajarju7611 2 місяці тому +8

      Nobody needs a woman like Rayne

    • @Momoartzn
      @Momoartzn 2 місяці тому +3

      Chidi needed divine protection and holy water from that, Lord.

  • @itsbarbaramensah
    @itsbarbaramensah 2 місяці тому +56

    Chidi's sister is the sister we all need in our corner. I love how she leads with love and respect. God bless Chidi's sister!

  • @PigeonWarlord
    @PigeonWarlord 2 місяці тому +324

    I did not need that visual of Rayne

    • @isabellancali5388
      @isabellancali5388 2 місяці тому +29

      I know, right? I had second-hand embarrassment for her when I saw that scene on last night’s episode. 🙈

    • @Marie-g3s
      @Marie-g3s 2 місяці тому +29

      Better than angela flashing us at the tell all. Many of us are still traumatized

    • @carmenmiranda8963
      @carmenmiranda8963 2 місяці тому +9

      I AGREEEEEE 200 PERCENT. 😅😅

    • @johnene
      @johnene 2 місяці тому

      Who was she showing that off for? Chidi is blind. I don't know who she's showing her butt to.

    • @Mila-lu4mb
      @Mila-lu4mb 2 місяці тому

      Lol😅😅😅😅

  • @martha2615
    @martha2615 2 місяці тому +229

    Chidi’s sister and her husband are really nice and wonderful people. They were soo nice to Rayne, but she was just crazy. May God bless Chidi and his family ❤

    • @nangie56
      @nangie56 2 місяці тому

      Rayne allegedly had another blind Nigerian boyfriend. Not sure if it was before she met Chidi but she allegedly verbally abused him and called him the N word. I wonderer why she chooses only blind guys.

    • @patwilliams9175
      @patwilliams9175 2 місяці тому +4

      Rayna has a mind problem, something is really wrong with her.

    • @frenatfarms
      @frenatfarms 2 місяці тому +2

      what chidi needs now is to relax... she will find someone soon...

    • @mishonthompson8245
      @mishonthompson8245 2 місяці тому +1

      @martha2615 Sweetie it's not she was just crazy SHE IS CRAZY meaning still crazy 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Kristina-fb4jq
    @Kristina-fb4jq 2 місяці тому +188

    Chidi needs to let her go

  • @TheFantasticFox822
    @TheFantasticFox822 2 місяці тому +112

    Rayne demonstrating zero understanding of the term ‘consent’. Chidi needs to be wrapped in barbed wire fencing if he goes to meet her 😂

  • @protectedearthempress3986
    @protectedearthempress3986 2 місяці тому +68

    Rayne has no respect for Chidi, his culture or his religious beliefs. They are not a match..he needs to let her go.

    • @carmenmiranda8963
      @carmenmiranda8963 2 місяці тому +5

      Or even his family. Women come and go but FAMILY IS FOR EVER.

  • @local.sagittarius
    @local.sagittarius 2 місяці тому +93

    i wish i had a sister like victoria🥺

  • @JemIsMyName-o
    @JemIsMyName-o 2 місяці тому +57

    Rayne will never know love because she can’t show love. Chidi is surrounded by nothing but love. She lost a great man with a great family but she didn’t deserve it anyway.

    • @JannieJannie-mm2kr
      @JannieJannie-mm2kr 2 місяці тому +1

      She fights, instead of love, but they are way different anyhow

  • @mozartbabe
    @mozartbabe 2 місяці тому +273

    By the way, Chidi's friend, Christian, is handsome! 😍💯 On a serious note, Chidi needs to let Ranay/Renee go. You can't heal someone who doesn't want to be healed. Frankly, her behavior has been monstrous.

    • @Ohana9999
      @Ohana9999 2 місяці тому +25

      Right????? AND he has common sense lmao he's so attractive ❤❤

    • @kelleyjohnson7694
      @kelleyjohnson7694 2 місяці тому +7

      100

    • @gerdavandersan2018
      @gerdavandersan2018 2 місяці тому +8

      She is acting really out of control and could really snap . That's what I feel imagen her being with Chidi alone He's blind I fear she could totally loose it and harm him badly . Also the pointing of her fingerss at Chidi is a big sign to me she's dangerous 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

    • @mozartbabe
      @mozartbabe 2 місяці тому

      @@Ohana9999 💯💯💯

    • @mozartbabe
      @mozartbabe 2 місяці тому +2

      @@gerdavandersan2018 very much so! She's a walking talking danger sign.

  • @Victoria.Henderson
    @Victoria.Henderson 2 місяці тому +87

    Would Niles consider a second trip with a family member coming with him to ease his family’s concerns?

  • @neckwatch
    @neckwatch 2 місяці тому +47

    I hate to say this but I believe that Rayne is the reason why her past relationships failed. Rayne doesn't seem to be very loveable with all the whackjob conspiracy theories in her head. She's also a narcissist and would never be with someone who disrespected my family like that. Good on Chidi for standing up for himself in the end. Rayne should leave him alone. She is toxic.

  • @FreeYourself-q4s
    @FreeYourself-q4s 2 місяці тому +101

    Chidis sister is beautiful, and has the best intentions with her brother. I hope he realizes that 😢💔

  • @02loud
    @02loud 2 місяці тому +132

    I like Niles and Matilda, hope they work out.

  • @bettyconaway
    @bettyconaway 2 місяці тому +50

    He is not safe around Rayne !

    • @Jessybabyxo
      @Jessybabyxo 2 місяці тому

      Absolutely. She will send him to the hospital like andan was lol. she’s insane

    • @Gemisnotmyname
      @Gemisnotmyname 2 місяці тому

      @@Jessybabyxohahahahahahha

  • @Kristina-fb4jq
    @Kristina-fb4jq 2 місяці тому +171

    Niles & Matilda are the best couple, Love Love!

    • @jamaicanqueen1058
      @jamaicanqueen1058 2 місяці тому +26

      Omg, they are so cute together. I didn’t like that Niles lied to her about the wedding, hope he doesn’t do this going forward.

  • @Ohana9999
    @Ohana9999 2 місяці тому +99

    Chidi needs to stop making excuses for that woman! BEING TRAUMATIZED DOES NOT JUSTIFY ABUSING OTHERS! IN FACT IT SHOULD MAKE U ASHAMED OF PUTTING OTHER PEOPLE THROUGH ABUSE AS WELL! My God Chidi lost his eyesight and yet he's such a sweet person and hasnt let the trauma turn him bitter or into somebody who lashes out for no reason. RUN AWAY FROM HER SWEETIE!!!!

    • @sandym2427
      @sandym2427 2 місяці тому

      We will never know how much damage she has done to Chidi's soul. All the days of doubting himself, maybe years. It's not easy to admit you have made a mistake, especially for a serious Christian man

  • @JohnFlores04
    @JohnFlores04 2 місяці тому +54

    Rayne should definitely be in a straight jacket and not in a lingerie.

    • @ljane3440
      @ljane3440 2 місяці тому +1

      Most realistic comment🤭🤗 😂😂

    • @dondada2959
      @dondada2959 2 місяці тому +1

      Right😂

    • @thegospelbox
      @thegospelbox 2 місяці тому

      😂😂😂😂

  • @theethee777
    @theethee777 2 місяці тому +70

    Matilda is so beautiful. She seems to have the emotional intelligence needed to be with him.

    • @DreamDeva
      @DreamDeva 2 місяці тому +15

      Noted. She was fine with the ear plugs, asking is the ok ... Supportive not embarrassed and kept it real, she wants better life etc, but the love is so there so I'm rooting for this couple I love they are abstaining, cuz Myles said , .... Well.... We know what he said lol

    • @thelocalartisanguide7937
      @thelocalartisanguide7937 2 місяці тому +8

      He is lucky to have her, she can keep him in check.

    • @yawfraser
      @yawfraser 2 місяці тому

      ​@@DreamDeva you absolutely right

    • @Ankns-ug5ih
      @Ankns-ug5ih 2 місяці тому +1

      @@thelocalartisanguide7937 I'm not sure if Niles is really into her, but what I get from Matilda's interaction is that she's compassionate towards him, thus the motherly type of care she shows when assuring him that she'll wait until they wed. She's going to be a good wife, and if Niles don't keep her, he's going to be miserable for a longtime.

    • @thelocalartisanguide7937
      @thelocalartisanguide7937 2 місяці тому

      @@Ankns-ug5ih He better. not mess this up. She can make sure they have a good life together.

  • @YaLittleFriend
    @YaLittleFriend 2 місяці тому +94

    Christian is a REAL FRIEND. God bless him❤🕊️

  • @luckygirl8879
    @luckygirl8879 2 місяці тому +6

    Chidis sister has a very pure heart. It's amazing.

  • @BlackRoyalsCuisine
    @BlackRoyalsCuisine 2 місяці тому +30

    Melissa please do an interview with chidi and his sister ❤

  • @isabellancali5388
    @isabellancali5388 2 місяці тому +85

    I would love to see a spin-off with Niles’ and Matilda’s families-them meeting, stories of how they both were when they were younger, managing Niles and his autism and social skills, seeing what his family really thinks about the situation/relationship, etc etc. I really want to see more of Ghana, too. ❤

    • @karolinap8313
      @karolinap8313 2 місяці тому +7

      Wasnt he packing alone in the first episode, saying like his family doesnt support this relationship? Or at least, maybe they wanted to not be present in front of cameras and be part of show

  • @pattido777
    @pattido777 2 місяці тому +130

    "False faith"? Says the woman who deitifies aliens. Chidi can do better. There, I said it!!

    • @YaLittleFriend
      @YaLittleFriend 2 місяці тому +4

      😂😂

    • @myswanktrendz
      @myswanktrendz 2 місяці тому

      Exactly, and the only demon coming forth is her aggression.

  • @a.m.3921
    @a.m.3921 2 місяці тому +116

    And we all thought it couldn't get crazier than Jasmine and Natalie. There is something seriously SCARY AF about Rayne/Renee.

    • @melinamusuku
      @melinamusuku 2 місяці тому +12

      We are passed Jasmine and Natalie 😅 this is screaming Angela

    • @ingiyan8741
      @ingiyan8741 2 місяці тому +10

      That just goes to show… there’s some SERIOUSLY CRAZY people in the world. Stay safe ❤

    • @alessandrapanella9100
      @alessandrapanella9100 2 місяці тому

      I agree she’s bipolar, delusional, and probably schizophrenic and not on medication as she should be. She could be a danger. I mean, she could go nuts then point then do something crazy criminal

    • @firebenderkitty313
      @firebenderkitty313 2 місяці тому +10

      Jasmine would probably scream the house down and trash your belongings if she was really upset. Rayne on the other hand looks like she would stab someone and lock them in her chicken pen.

    • @thelocalartisanguide7937
      @thelocalartisanguide7937 2 місяці тому +5

      @@melinamusuku Angela with a serious mental issue.

  • @josefamorales3147
    @josefamorales3147 2 місяці тому +34

    At this point, Victoria has done all she could do. It's time for Chidi to make the right decision.

  • @Bekind.24
    @Bekind.24 2 місяці тому +59

    Melicia!! You make the recaps so beautiful with so much thought and care and articulate for every episode. Always looking forward to the next recap 😊

  • @jessicasingh824
    @jessicasingh824 2 місяці тому +31

    His sister is a trooper letting go to see his options

  • @darlam3917
    @darlam3917 2 місяці тому +57

    I’d tell chidi to run but I’m afraid he’ll trip or run into something so…. Chidi safely walk away as quickly as possible!

    • @TheRandomINFJ
      @TheRandomINFJ 2 місяці тому +7

      It's the little things that reveal who people are. I like your comment. I like your character 🤜🤛❤

    • @darlam3917
      @darlam3917 2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks 🙏 I appreciate your compliment

  • @pinkyshoes22
    @pinkyshoes22 2 місяці тому +41

    The comment about Chidi drinking on his sister is so out of pocket!

    • @isabellancali5388
      @isabellancali5388 2 місяці тому +23

      She’s said it a couple of times now, both on and off the show on social media. It’s quite dirty and offensive.

    • @Ohana9999
      @Ohana9999 2 місяці тому +18

      It is DESPICABLE she's unhinged !!

    • @firebenderkitty313
      @firebenderkitty313 2 місяці тому +10

      She's disgusting. She doesn't care to realize that Chidi and his sister are close and she helps him a lot. If he didn't have such a supportive family he would probably be on the streets. She should be grateful for his loving family. She doesn't want an equal relationship, she wants 100% control of someone.

  • @noluthandomanqunyana2234
    @noluthandomanqunyana2234 2 місяці тому +32

    Ohh this is so unfair , all those people from Matildas family and Niles was all alone.😢

  • @Sophie-cw7bf
    @Sophie-cw7bf 2 місяці тому +16

    Chidi sister is beautiful god bless her, her husband is so lucky she is a great woman 💯💯💯💯❤❤❤❤❤

  • @brandyongwae6079
    @brandyongwae6079 2 місяці тому +14

    If they are already fighting like this and Chidi is not out of Nigeria, if he gets to the US it will be hell for him.

    • @Beautyedit01
      @Beautyedit01 2 місяці тому +1

      Exactly!!! It will be worse than Michael

  • @journeymansmitty8283
    @journeymansmitty8283 2 місяці тому +56

    Well I perfectly agree with chidi sister homegirl is wombat crazy😂😂😂😂

    • @EnubeeStyle
      @EnubeeStyle 2 місяці тому +3

      😂😂🤷🏽
      I take it that you don't believe in aliens 😅

    • @dondada2959
      @dondada2959 2 місяці тому +3

      Wombats are cute

  • @Roadtripmutt
    @Roadtripmutt 2 місяці тому +22

    Chidi deserves so much better than her. She's no victim. She's doesn't deserve him.

  • @imwhoimap
    @imwhoimap 2 місяці тому +96

    RUN Chidi!!!

    • @carmenmiranda8963
      @carmenmiranda8963 2 місяці тому +3

      !!!YESSSSSS, PLEASE!!!!!

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 2 місяці тому +1

      Please Chidi🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️run

  • @tiaracarroll8389
    @tiaracarroll8389 2 місяці тому +22

    Chidi’s family is so sweet I really hope he finds real love 💕💕

    • @myswanktrendz
      @myswanktrendz 2 місяці тому

      I truly believe being on this show has raised his profile, and the right gal will reach out to him.

  • @Emma_obk
    @Emma_obk 2 місяці тому +7

    Chidi greeting family by ma'am and sir❤.. Mad respect. That time a stranger decides not to respect such respectable family

  • @SusanD7112
    @SusanD7112 2 місяці тому +2

    I’m so glad that he finally let her go. He’s a man of integrity and morals. He deserves so much better. Something very demonic wicked about her and I’m glad he didn’t fall for it.

  • @ewurakuainkum7297
    @ewurakuainkum7297 2 місяці тому +34

    Chidi it's okay to leave a toxic relationship. You are not her savior. Her only savior is Jesus live her to Him and leave the relationship.

    • @isabellancali5388
      @isabellancali5388 2 місяці тому +1

      Amen. 🙏🏽🙌🏽

    • @sarahhaag6601
      @sarahhaag6601 2 місяці тому

      Well said....please use that for the interview with chidi!!!!!

    • @Africaisthefuture-zh8bo
      @Africaisthefuture-zh8bo 2 місяці тому +1

      By the way, thats true. If she knew jesus like Chidi and his family does, shes will be transformed into a loving, peaceful person. The opposite of what she is. Thays what Jesus does. He transforms our thinking, hearts, behaviours, our way of talking etc..

  • @bsherman4353
    @bsherman4353 2 місяці тому +37

    Chidi sister is extremely beautiful ❤

  • @ownerofmess
    @ownerofmess 2 місяці тому +17

    This is the 1st time I hope a couple doesn’t work out on 90 day fiancé. This lady is sick and Chidi is too good for her.

  • @Squidink96
    @Squidink96 2 місяці тому +26

    I love Niles he’s so sweet and adorable

  • @flblackbutterfly1
    @flblackbutterfly1 2 місяці тому +72

    Chidi is a devout Christian and in Christianity you should never marry an unbeliever. Period.

    • @autumnk.buntion8869
      @autumnk.buntion8869 2 місяці тому +15

      1 Corinthians 7:12-14
      If a brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her.
      And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him.
      For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband.

    • @theconfessionscircle1935
      @theconfessionscircle1935 2 місяці тому +10

      ​@@autumnk.buntion8869they aren't married, this applies when one comes to christ having ready been married. By no means are believers just supposed to freely marry a non believer...for how shall 2 walk together less they agree....be not unequally yoked with unbelievers...not to mention she is trying to entice him to sin....

    • @arikathleen
      @arikathleen 2 місяці тому +1

      @@theconfessionscircle1935I think in this situation , you’re right . But I’m some others it could be best you walk with them and guide them through their questioning .

    • @autumnk.buntion8869
      @autumnk.buntion8869 2 місяці тому

      @theconfessionscircle1935 oh, I definitely agree with you in this situation. What she's doing to him is absolutely disgusting and infuriating. I'm not sure if that is the case for all relationships, however. My boyfriend is the one who inspired me to open a Bible, and I've never put it down. I never believed in it, but I did have to be open, if that makes sense.

    • @Africaisthefuture-zh8bo
      @Africaisthefuture-zh8bo 2 місяці тому

      It simply causes unnecessary arguments on a daily basis. It errodes your relationship with God. It was said in the bible as advice for a simpler and happier marriage. There's no way you can be happy with an unbeliever. They tear you down, affect your prayer and church life and so much more

  • @aplusdiva7006
    @aplusdiva7006 2 місяці тому +12

    Chidi that lady is after your soul. Leave her behind 😢 of course she feels love for you to travel all that way. She ignores your boundaries. She cause discomfort in your family and she hates the fact you believe in God. Leave her to dust please I beg.

  • @CMichelleWhite
    @CMichelleWhite 2 місяці тому +4

    I’m glad Chidi is going to stand up for himself ! Where are all the comments that say that the people overseas are only in the relationships for a green card? 🤔

  • @TonieDePasquale
    @TonieDePasquale 2 місяці тому +6

    Yeah. “False faith”??!!!! She has no respect for him or his beliefs - RUN

  • @ijeomafranca8678
    @ijeomafranca8678 2 місяці тому +16

    Rayne is Angela 2.0. Jeeez she's something else. Chidi my dear please you deserve better ok? Thanks Mel for the video, been waiting ❤❤

  • @carolinemadondo
    @carolinemadondo 2 місяці тому +1

    Victoria the sweetest and most loving sister ive ever seen on this show. ❤ her so much. She is his very strong support system. Kind loving humble and generous

  • @MultiAngelluv
    @MultiAngelluv 2 місяці тому +2

    I hope he finds a true wife! He’s a true gem.

  • @mimirw8031
    @mimirw8031 2 місяці тому +10

    Can someone tell chidi to please love himself first!! That lady is crazy cray

  • @mountainrose4917
    @mountainrose4917 2 місяці тому +1

    Poor Chidi and his sweet family. They don't deserve to be treated the way Rayne treats them. 😢

  • @JDjee5
    @JDjee5 2 місяці тому +9

    Her behavior is proof why she attracts the wrong type of guy over and over again. Chidi is overall out of her league.

  • @sinceritydjp
    @sinceritydjp 2 місяці тому +16

    Chidi needs to let it go. Its not worth it.

  • @alidowber5099
    @alidowber5099 2 місяці тому +5

    Chidi wouldn’t even debate it if he was not blind. He thinks he can’t do any better

  • @justcocoatv2336
    @justcocoatv2336 2 місяці тому +5

    Rayne sees Chidi as a secx object. She didn’t love him for real. She just wanted to make him break his vow of celibacy

  • @hopemckenzie3502
    @hopemckenzie3502 2 місяці тому +8

    I love Chidi's family! Most wholesome!

  • @GOTTA_RUN
    @GOTTA_RUN 2 місяці тому +4

    Rayne seems insanely dangerous for a man like Chidi.

  • @kadiatulahai1917
    @kadiatulahai1917 2 місяці тому +12

    Rayne doesn’t want to see chidi family. She just wants him to herself

  • @Imsortofnewhere
    @Imsortofnewhere 2 місяці тому +15

    Matilda fan button ✅

  • @portiarose6914
    @portiarose6914 2 місяці тому +9

    i already had felt rayne was “different” with all the previous episodes but her putting those pjs on and recording herself like that just made me feel like she really is not well…

  • @sierraforte3709
    @sierraforte3709 2 місяці тому +3

    I love Chidi sister and her husband the way they actually sit. And listen to him to try to understand and have nun be good intentions for him and his safety

  • @ThePatty2304
    @ThePatty2304 2 місяці тому +18

    I love Chidi's family! I wish them the best.

  • @ImaniKarimsDiary
    @ImaniKarimsDiary 2 місяці тому +3

    11:03 omg his sister has me in tearssss 😭 so much emotional intelligence and maturity

  • @1Kaileegirl
    @1Kaileegirl 2 місяці тому +5

    Chidi's sister is very beautiful inside and out
    Run Chidi run don't look back

  • @debbig9450
    @debbig9450 2 місяці тому +13

    Chidi is a good man and has a beautiful family. His sister made me cry😢💔 I also love Niles and Matilda; their love is sweet and wholesome. i hope that Niles and Matilda do get married eventually when Niles is ready. ❤❤

  • @sk84033
    @sk84033 2 місяці тому +3

    Chidi, please know this is not love. I hope you listen to your amazing family, they care and are there for you!

  • @girlwiththetattoo11
    @girlwiththetattoo11 2 місяці тому +9

    I want to know if Niles is going to try to take some of his family with him on the next trip? I feel like they need to see the two of them together. 😊

  • @chrismults1500
    @chrismults1500 2 місяці тому +9

    Rayne is a sad, demanding & disrespectful person. Her continuing derogatory remarks about his faith are repulsive. Victoria, her husband & Christian are amazingly beautiful people that he is extremely fortunate to have surrounding him. Hold on Chidi, the right woman is out there.

  • @user-dn6fw1ss1c
    @user-dn6fw1ss1c 2 місяці тому +6

    Chidi and his family have such big hearts, it's a shame that they're in this position.

  • @klaird_h4727
    @klaird_h4727 2 місяці тому +13

    Did she really say that in the preview?! This chic needs ro go🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🙄

  • @AnnaAnna-un4gj
    @AnnaAnna-un4gj 2 місяці тому +5

    And for who Rene made that spicy video for ? How disrespectful for Chidi.

    • @Africaisthefuture-zh8bo
      @Africaisthefuture-zh8bo 2 місяці тому

      Exactly! He cant see so why disrespect him by making the video?? Renee is not okay.

  • @13crowintuitivestarot
    @13crowintuitivestarot 2 місяці тому +11

    Aw Chidi has all genuine people surrounding his life!! (Not Rayne 🤣) That’s so nice to see. ❤️❤️

  • @Sophie-cw7bf
    @Sophie-cw7bf 2 місяці тому +8

    Rah lol Matilda family looks serious thoughhhhhhhh 😂😂 I’m scared for Nile’s 😢😢

    • @yawfraser
      @yawfraser 2 місяці тому

      The side eye her mom gave him scared me 🤣🤣

    • @bobscratchett5346
      @bobscratchett5346 2 місяці тому

      Serves him right! He has humiliated Matilda and her family. He’s lucky Matilda is so nice. I’d have injured him and dumped him.

    • @Ankns-ug5ih
      @Ankns-ug5ih 2 місяці тому

      Yeah, they're serious over there. A local barber in Kumasi told him to be truthful when he tells Matilda's family about his plan to delay the wedding. If he lies to them, they're going to put a curse on him.

  • @garybowes3081
    @garybowes3081 2 місяці тому +9

    I was very disappointed in Niles in this episode. He should have been truthful and honest right from the start

  • @user-ln6pu7kq9j
    @user-ln6pu7kq9j 2 місяці тому +50

    Chidi is being a fool. There’s no more sympathy once people make stupid choices after receiving clarity and advice from those they love.

    • @ShayMarie.00
      @ShayMarie.00 2 місяці тому +15

      He could be in denial. Give him a bit of time. They've been "together" for 5 years. His initial reaction in the video was filmed less than 24 hours after Rayne's blowup.

  • @ixion567
    @ixion567 2 місяці тому +10

    Niles can be very proud of himself.

  • @jessicasingh824
    @jessicasingh824 2 місяці тому +14

    wtf the nightgown he can’t see it girl

    • @DreamDeva
      @DreamDeva 2 місяці тому +8

      Pay attention, duh. She said "he can feel it". Trying to seduce him like that demon she freaking is

    • @DreamDeva
      @DreamDeva 2 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @abbybarrett4855
      @abbybarrett4855 2 місяці тому

      She looked dusty af🤢 greasy tangled hair like she hasn’t showered.

  • @azimiza1210
    @azimiza1210 2 місяці тому +3

    Not rayne telling chidi to calm down when she’s a walking hurricane

  • @jb-ze1yh
    @jb-ze1yh 2 місяці тому +5

    Tigerlilly is too old to be that thirsty. Her poor kids gonna be in another traumatic experience

  • @90dayallday
    @90dayallday 2 місяці тому +27

    Dude. One word. RUN. (For chidi)

  • @LaBamba2
    @LaBamba2 2 місяці тому +1

    Chidis family is so kind, even the baby rolls with the screaming, Wish him luck,sweet man.

  • @audrinaUkaobasi
    @audrinaUkaobasi 2 місяці тому +27

    This is another Micheal and Angela episode and if they don’t get her off now they will have another lawsuit on their hands.
    Stop ok’ing this type of behavior just for ratings. Chidi deserves respect as well as his family. I’m praying this don’t become worst then it is.
    Run Chidi Run ❤🙏🏽

  • @BB-cy6rp
    @BB-cy6rp 2 місяці тому +3

    I’m scared for Chidi’s safety if he ever gets fully alone with her 😢. She’s mentally unbalanced and some one should really check on her kids !

  • @nereidgreen6653
    @nereidgreen6653 2 місяці тому +9

    Anything with Melicia Johnson deserves a like.

  • @RisseG03352
    @RisseG03352 2 місяці тому +2

    Chidi: I want to be celibate.
    Rayne: Lemme get this lingerie!
    Me: 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @taniat5204
    @taniat5204 2 місяці тому +2

    Niles is still one of my top faves on the show but let’s be honest. Lying/being indirect to not hurt someone’s feelings is not just an autistic trait. Neurotypical people unfortunately do it every day.

  • @mememcguire1616
    @mememcguire1616 2 місяці тому +11

    Rayne is acting like Angela was.....Really please soften up Rayne.

  • @BlackRoyalsCuisine
    @BlackRoyalsCuisine 2 місяці тому +10

    One flew over the cookooos nest 😢

  • @April-201
    @April-201 2 місяці тому +28

    She should host all 90 day reunions

    • @carmenmiranda8963
      @carmenmiranda8963 2 місяці тому +5

      YESSSSSSSSSSSS! THAT WOULD BE AWESOME.

    • @myswanktrendz
      @myswanktrendz 2 місяці тому +2

      Yes! At least she'd ask the questions we all are wondering, instead of letting them off with lame answers.

    • @Terranitup31
      @Terranitup31 2 місяці тому +3

      Hard agree

  • @vvvv-h8m
    @vvvv-h8m 2 місяці тому +3

    When this aired on the tv Chidi made a comment that even on the phone before she came to his country she would cuss and yell. If this is true Chidi why did you continue this relationship she showed you her true behaviour. Is Chidi desperate for love that he will sadly accept this crazy lady?

  • @mariannaczinkoczi6774
    @mariannaczinkoczi6774 2 місяці тому +4

    It's sad that Chidi considered going back with Rayne. But i hope after their latest argument he will finally let this craziness go. They so much don't fit together.