Why would she go visit a guy who keeps on talking about other women?! He’s not interested… Auntie go if you want to enjoy the weekend but that’s about it
Even then she shouldn't because he's just slowly trying to chip away and devalue her when she's putting on her best and he keeps bringing up other women,. And she doesn't seem to notice it's a progressive thing with severe impact to the self image so she's not guarding herself against it, there are probably more devaluing habits he has that she is not noticing and it'll cost more than what she thought would be a good time. She should cut the one guy and meet someone who can share a mutual connection where they are present and celebrate each other's company. She's lovely and she can have that.
@@lavenderangel2655 I agree and I wouldn’t go personally. A guy who keeps on bringing up other women is disrespectful but she seems to want to go to enjoy the weekend.
If she likes him she definitely shouldn’t go but if she’s bored one weekend, not really interested and knows how to set it straight nice/nasty (it’s a skill y’all lol) with no afterthought then yes, go spend pop pop money lol
I’m just going to say this, because I know this is a multicultural channel I don’t want to seem like I’m excluding others but I’m primarily familiar with my community and it’s where my affinity lies. I’m SO SICK of young blk women being asked to further lower already bargain basement standards. And what’s even further egregious is when the women in our community reinforce it.
@@hrstories2yes it is helping Africa, lmfaoo. As a Nigerian it is helping us. Women are getting married and having kids in marriage. We are educated and most industries in our country. Please educate yourself. We thrive regardless of our leaders. Our men are providers. They play their role. Never heard an African man tell me lower my standards 😂😂
@@shachede6828 so why is Africa at the bottom of the barrel? IF all.Africans are educated and successful, why is the continent in such turmoil and extreme poverty?
Black hair, nice restaurants & elegant clothing. Colored hair, tattoos, tight clothes, revealing clothes, boss masculine energy, allll of that attract feminine men, rappers, scammers, illegal activity, just not good targets . Most times we give off fun girl and not wife. It’s a journey for us all . We all are learning
Ms. Maria he's just trying to make you jealous. He might be used to women "jumping" for him. Have your own stories about men helping you, n doing 4 you, taking you here n there. I would go and have a great time, no commitment, no fuss over him, n go shopping...all expenses paid. 🥰
Ummmm….Why do these average girls keeps coming on here saying they “too much” but Ms. Maria came in here beautiful, has a doctorate and she didn’t come on here talking about “I’m this” “I’m that”…. Some of these girl aren’t really looking in the mirror 😭😭😭
I always wondered why I attracted men with no money -I always heard it’s because u attract what u are . But it’s actually because guys can sense a woman with money and they want whatv we have . Men y’all gotta do better - Now it all makes sense
Omg Same! I don't believe in that u attract what u are mess because it's far from true. Good people typically attract trashy people because they want to steal everything from money to spirituality.
Lauren was sweet. I love seeing young woman actually interested in taking advice on how to class it up. The right exterior and energy will attract the guy you need.
Looking Beautiful Ms. Ashley❤ Great Advice w/ such a so kind delivery. I too am working on turning down my Ms. Corporate Energy. Work in progress....wheeeee Chile
Ms. Maria, If he's doing this over the phone, it is a red flag. Don't go visit him because he will triangulate you with another woman during the visit.
Nope ... leave him alone ... he's not over the ex. Also ... tell him to come visit you .... why do you have to be flown out Ms. Maria .... if he can spend money to fly you out ... he can spend money to come see you .... flying out comes with great expectations from Mr. ... IJS
5:52 Not trying to burst a bubble as this is a very highly educated woman with multiple degrees-respect. But “all but dissertation“ or ABD means you didn’t finish the PhD program as you didn’t defend your dissertation. You’re not dr. 😢 educated and knowledgeable? Yes. Holds a PhD, no.
Every time he brings up another woman she should bring up otber men! He probably lying so she should too. Don't let him play you Auntie! Go tit for tat! Who he think he is! Book sense is useless without common sense.
Fr I'll be like my last boyfriend bought me a car in full unfortunately I wrecked it after the break up lol he was a pretty good guy but he had to move away for work he wanted me to come but I wasn't willing being so new in the relationship. He did say if I ever need him just give him a call 😂kill that ego on 54321
Why would she go visit a guy who keeps on talking about other women?!
He’s not interested…
Auntie go if you want to enjoy the weekend but that’s about it
To have a great time!
Even then she shouldn't because he's just slowly trying to chip away and devalue her when she's putting on her best and he keeps bringing up other women,. And she doesn't seem to notice it's a progressive thing with severe impact to the self image so she's not guarding herself against it, there are probably more devaluing habits he has that she is not noticing and it'll cost more than what she thought would be a good time.
She should cut the one guy and meet someone who can share a mutual connection where they are present and celebrate each other's company. She's lovely and she can have that.
@@lavenderangel2655 I agree and I wouldn’t go personally. A guy who keeps on bringing up other women is disrespectful but she seems to want to go to enjoy the weekend.
@@EspritsFantomes yes, that's true. I hope it goes okay.
If she likes him she definitely shouldn’t go but if she’s bored one weekend, not really interested and knows how to set it straight nice/nasty (it’s a skill y’all lol) with no afterthought then yes, go spend pop pop money lol
I’m just going to say this, because I know this is a multicultural channel I don’t want to seem like I’m excluding others but I’m primarily familiar with my community and it’s where my affinity lies. I’m SO SICK of young blk women being asked to further lower already bargain basement standards. And what’s even further egregious is when the women in our community reinforce it.
Africans do not teach that in our community.
@@obaakitua1is that helping Africa though?
@@hrstories2yes it is helping Africa, lmfaoo. As a Nigerian it is helping us. Women are getting married and having kids in marriage. We are educated and most industries in our country. Please educate yourself. We thrive regardless of our leaders. Our men are providers. They play their role. Never heard an African man tell me lower my standards 😂😂
@@shachede6828 so why is Africa at the bottom of the barrel? IF all.Africans are educated and successful, why is the continent in such turmoil and extreme poverty?
@@hrstories2and why do they all leave if they have the opportunity if Africa is so great ?
No! Do not go visit him.
My sentiments!!
He sounds like he is noy healed from past hurts.
Agreed. It won't be fun and he will be exhausting
Black hair, nice restaurants & elegant clothing. Colored hair, tattoos, tight clothes, revealing clothes, boss masculine energy, allll of that attract feminine men, rappers, scammers, illegal activity, just not good targets . Most times we give off fun girl and not wife. It’s a journey for us all . We all are learning
Ms. Maria he's just trying to make you jealous. He might be used to women "jumping" for him. Have your own stories about men helping you, n doing 4 you, taking you here n there. I would go and have a great time, no commitment, no fuss over him, n go shopping...all expenses paid. 🥰
She aging like fine wine she is beautiful ❤
Make up
@@laurenmumphery4682 only a hater would say that.
She sure is.. it's hard to believe she's still single!
@@laurenmumphery4682it’s only so much you can cover with makeup
Turn ya boss down and princess up.
Be the damsel in distress. Guys are problem solvers. The right guy will cater to your every need.
Isn’t this the truth . Calm the boss energy down
Ummmm….Why do these average girls keeps coming on here saying they “too much” but Ms. Maria came in here beautiful, has a doctorate and she didn’t come on here talking about “I’m this” “I’m that”…. Some of these girl aren’t really looking in the mirror 😭😭😭
Yes humility goes long way! I like her though he is a bit mis-informed.
No men is intimidated by your degrees.
she is tho that wig cost about 300
She actually kinda did. I like her personality, but she made it a big deal.
I always wondered why I attracted men with no money -I always heard it’s because u attract what u are . But it’s actually because guys can sense a woman with money and they want whatv we have . Men y’all gotta do better - Now it all makes sense
No woman is undesirable. No man approaches any woman without wanting something from her.
Omg Same! I don't believe in that u attract what u are mess because it's far from true. Good people typically attract trashy people because they want to steal everything from money to spirituality.
Based on my life experience you probably always talk about your achievements or what you have.
@@thewaldronproject1st thing out her mouth is her achievements.
Miss Maria 😂 love her! Just lifted my spirits.
We need beauty tips from Ms. Marie! I wanna look like that at 60! 🥵
Miss Maria: he is eliminating himself from your prospect pool. Leave him out. On to the next one.
60 where?
If I like someone I’m not going to waste my time listening to them talk about other women. She needs to at least be a big girl and speak up.
Ugh I needed this advice so bad. I’ve been wanting to dress more feminine and turn my boss down
Also don’t go on that trip unless he’s paying for it fully and giving you money for bills/spending.
Lauren was sweet. I love seeing young woman actually interested in taking advice on how to class it up. The right exterior and energy will attract the guy you need.
Looking Beautiful Ms. Ashley❤
Great Advice w/ such a so kind delivery. I too am working on turning down my Ms. Corporate Energy. Work in progress....wheeeee Chile
I would say listen I’m not interested in your last lovers
This lady is FUNNY! She said is it ok for me to go for something to do! Go head Mrs!
Ms. Maria, If he's doing this over the phone, it is a red flag. Don't go visit him because he will triangulate you with another woman during the visit.
I really appreciate you Ashley ❤️
Lauren is pretty you gave her great advice ❤
Nope ... leave him alone ... he's not over the ex. Also ... tell him to come visit you .... why do you have to be flown out Ms. Maria .... if he can spend money to fly you out ... he can spend money to come see you .... flying out comes with great expectations from Mr. ... IJS
Maria need a party time show too
I’m gonna need her to put some respect on Betty Wright’s lyrics. No Pain is a classic 🤣
yeah girl, I was trying to sing along. 😅
Listen 😂😂😂😂
She doest have a PhD if she is still ABD (All but Dissertation)...Three masters is still super impressive though.
The Bettye Wright verse was key.😊
Lis-ten ❤🎉 Miss Maria was a time ❤
I like Ms Maria!!! Yessss ma’am ❤❤❤😃😃
It’s all about where Lauren might be going she is beautiful but these soft life men will see her as a big boss and take advantage of her😂
I love this lady. Yes she should go and have fun.
5:52 Not trying to burst a bubble as this is a very highly educated woman with multiple degrees-respect. But “all but dissertation“ or ABD means you didn’t finish the PhD program as you didn’t defend your dissertation. You’re not dr. 😢 educated and knowledgeable? Yes. Holds a PhD, no.
She lonely! Thirsty to.
Every time he brings up another woman she should bring up otber men! He probably lying so she should too. Don't let him play you Auntie! Go tit for tat! Who he think he is!
Book sense is useless without common sense.
Fr I'll be like my last boyfriend bought me a car in full unfortunately I wrecked it after the break up lol he was a pretty good guy but he had to move away for work he wanted me to come but I wasn't willing being so new in the relationship. He did say if I ever need him just give him a call 😂kill that ego on 54321
I don’t know about that blonde 👱♀️ Queen.
The texture does not match our hair a nice yaki is better 💐..
Mrs Marie is so cute!!!
Ash said “ahh ahhh ah ahh””😂😂😂
Miss Maria you doing good!
Ashley, I have a question that I genuinely want to know, is it that braids are less elegant?? I’m referring to Knotless braids.
“Flewed “ out. ? You mean Flown out.
It’s a cultural joke … flewed out😂 taken from the one of the city girls video.
whew i feel lauren
did i miss the live? 😟
I believe the ones with this frame are from her tiktok lives.
I asked the same thing
Didn’t see either UA-cam and tictok as well
Wait yeah this was a repeat from her TIk Tok… she just reposted it here on you tube…Miss Maria 😊 love her ❤
60 where ???😍😍
*Rugs for hair😥😥*