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i once tried to “expose” this dark subliminal community but then someone made a subliminal to specifically kill me (and it’s still up). Best experience of my life 10/10 would recommend
Once I came across a 'manifest your own jungkook' subliminal and people in the comment section were like "omg the day after listening to this i keep seeing allot of Asian guys its working" 💀
What's funny is that these are the same people-kids-who preach against way-cism and spam "POC friendly" all over their subs, but they'll turn around and se_ualize/fet_shize asians.
@@BleedingGrafitti and also call every Asian person they see whatever k-pop idol they can think of first. The weirdest part is that they don’t even realize it half the time
i think the positive ones r rad. im definitely a skeptic but im all for trying to manifest good things in ur life. so why are we out here on youtube.com manifesting abusive parents????? hello??????
on a deeper level, “wanting to be abused” is a post traumatic response. usually it’s because they don’t remember their trauma, and they want a reason to feel the way they do. i struggled with this a lot, but it didn’t go this far at all
I really don’t like this. Because it makes people who constantly get into abusive relationships, want to get abused, when really abusive/manipulative people can see a victim miles away and approach them.
@@defffnotalexis i don't have much to say about the ug community since I make surface (safe) subliminals. Being in this community for a while, I believe they use those subs to worsen their already mental illnesses so they can get diagnosed so people can feel more sympathetic towards them rather than disregard their problems because they're 'minor' or they probably listen because they hate themselves and feel the need to be punished with absurd things.
i was abused by my dad for years until it got to the point where one night my mum told me and my sister to pack our bags and to leave as soon as we could. we were homeless for 2 months and i got depression and i got severe anxiety and germophobia. its sickening to think that people want to be abused. abuse has long term affects and will haunt you for the rest of your life, be grateful youre not emotionally / physically scarred for life. edit: i didnt expect so many people to see this but dont worry guys, were living in a rental (until we get money from selling the house after the divorce) and im seeing a therapist who is really helpful. im getting the help i need and im getting better. i cant reply to all the replies im getting so if you see this thanks your comment means a lot, have a good day everyone
@@MinMin-kq2zn thanks im seeing a therapist and shes really helping. were living in a rented house right now but once we get money from selling the house we'll have somewhere permanent :)
as a person who listens to subliminals for self love, good grades, astral projection, and manifestation boosters, we are not all like that 😭subliminals are mostly used to enhance self love, mental health, and other aspects of a persons life, not to destroy them- anyways, i was kinda jamming out to that big boob subliminal, cant wait to get my honker badonker 3000's
im in recovery from anorexia right now, im 18 and was in a very bad place until like november of last year i used to listen to "become stick thin" and other ana subliminals the channels who made those also had videos like "get autism" "get sexually harrassed by your parent" "get kidnapped" "get did" and it was SOOO wild!! most of the videos didnt have titles in normal alphabet letters so you couldn't find them by searching for them lmao. no idea how i found these but i still have so many channels in my private playlists edit : ive noticed that usually the people who watched these already had problems and were trying to feel even worse ?? like they were scared of feeling better because being mentally ill was such a big part of their identity, as really young teens / even children sometimes edit 2: the darkest kinds of subs have titles with emojis and symbols, and dont have music, ive seen some shit
I've had the same experience 😭 I used to listen to so many ED subs when it was severe I even got caught lol luckily I've gotten better and now listen to more positive ones
As someone who is the child of actually abusive parents, My jaw dropped to the fucking floor when you showed those subliminals. Yall having shitty parents isnt an anime tragic back story pls touch grass lmfao
THISSS like im a abuse surviver, I had the exact same reaction as you. Like why would any one want abusive parents. Grass can’t even save these people any more.
I actually got introduced to subs as a whole when a so called "underground sub" video popped up on my page. It took me a long time to figure out what the video even was. The one i found first wasn't even too dark but then i checked the channel's other vids and i got disgusted and scared. I like the normal subs tho, if you have any sub channel recommendations i'd love to find good ones.
i think these corners of the internet are heavily populated by mentally ill adolescents that aren't able to/don't have access to any sort of validation that their lives or problems are 'bad enough'. i myself frequented tumblr and instagram pages at ages 8-12 that romanticized this sort of thinking. but to hammer in your point -- the trauma i had been exposed to at the time negatively impacted me and my mental health enough, and being in these sort of subcultures did more harm than help. these spaces aren't healthy, and they aren't safe, irregardless of if i had been coping, or if anyone listening to these videos is coping. i don't think its wise to ignore something like this simply because people use it as a coping mechanism. it's important to acknowledge why ppl listening to this stuff isn't okay so they can be directed to healthier outlets which is what i think this video helped to do. anyway. love u jerm
ok i know u just commented this but i didnt sleep well last night so i have been taking it easy today and reading comments. fucking love how u worded this. i think once u get a lil older its a little easier to reflect back on these spaces/communities and see how damaging they really are. it frustrates me to see these groups online because i remember being younger and having friend groups that encouraged harmful behavior and how much that influenced me to not seek help. it upsets me seeing people justifying and rationalizing like… getting worse. you can get better whenever you’re ready but why get worse and take other impressionable people down with you? just realized im ranting a little on ur comment but idk i have some Thoughts. okay getting off my phone now
@@jermbot THANK U i literally didn’t sleep either and i was worried that what i was saying didn’t make any sense so i’m so glad u get me. Yes exactly! like u said growing up and realizing that a lot of harmful behaviors have been normalized for u Bc of ur environment (online or otherwise) is upsetting and then to not only see those environments thriving but to see ppl… Validating their existence under the guise of ‘a way to deal with reality’ is just gross. love the last thing u said so much too bc i think esp with everything going on its so easy to justify like wallowing in the bad shit b4 ur ready to heal but that’s not necessary or helpful. idk. anyway literally rant ur head off babes my favorite ‘discourse’ (? Don’t think i know what that word means) is like the internets psychological impact on development so i’m obsessed
@@cruelyear a person in the reply section of one of the comments is literally fighting people on how these subs are a coping mechanism and they help them in a way as they'll get abused more and then people will notice and help them?? And I was like what the actual fuc-
and this is exactly why the subliminal community needs to be gatekeeped. i usually dont like gatekeeping things, but as someone who saw the shifting community become hell as it grew more famous it really is for the better. we dont need submakers with bad intentions or more harm
yea i found a sub that was used for worsening hallucinations??? like give you extreme mental illness and hallucinations??? i think it was supposed to give you schizophrenia or sum 😀 it was something
Actually, i think people that feel like they dont deserve to feel happy will listen to these subliminal. I can say it's like some sort of SH. So it's like what Jerm said, they already got something playin in their head.
This is my thoughts exactly. If I found this two years ago? I would’ve listened to it just to guilt myself into feeling bad for everything. I’m so sorry for all the people who use this
I left a relationship and He told me he feels like he doesn’t deserve happiness and me. Long story short It took a toll on us and had to leave the relationship for the better. I have to agree that this is a form of SH and it is very destructive.
@@user-wy9fb5dp2j Some people may seek attention due to root / deeper problems, I think. I hope these people get help and stop with the content that can harm others though but being alone and isolated can be extremely harrowing on your actions I think, and these kinds of channels seem so lonely. Yknow? Lol
i;ve used subliminals before (positive ones) and I didnt even know these ones existed. as someone who's dealt with a lot of mental issues before, no one should have to wish to go through that, honestly. also the subliminal for the big boobs is a twice song which is another kpop song, kinda found that funny lol
lol i used to be one of those subliminal users. 16, depressed af, didn’t know wtf i was doing, thought i deserved to suffer, thought i needed a reason to feel as much pain as i did. felt like i was ungrateful for having a comfortable life yet feeling the way i felt. finally got back on my meds and have gotten a lot better, haven’t gone back to those subliminals and deleted all the saved playlists i have. anyone using/making these subliminals, i understand where you’re coming from, and i hope you find better ways to cope like i did
Hey, subliminals are currently destroying my life right now and I have no one to talk or run to about it, could I maybe vent to you on D1scord or something?
@@stealthyrat just a tip, “don’t make excuses” isn’t something you should ever say to someone in a delicate mental state. It only makes people feel worse 9 time out of 10 and comes off as aggressive and blaming
i saw somewhere that “if you’re looking for physical pain to match the emotional pain inside of you, seek help. you don’t need trauma to be depressed.” and i think some people would super benefit off of this mindset
Yes I agree. When my depression was super bad I would have thoughts like “why am I so sad if nothing bad has ever happened in my life” People probably seek answers to that question. That’s a great quote to share.
Agree. At first I felt like this was just privileged white girls wanting to be ✨special✨ but the more I think about the more it seems obvious that no one normal would ever want to do this. I feel more sad for this “community” than I do offended honestly
This is an amazing point! 👏 I oftentimes feel really depressed and anxious even though there's not much stuff I've been through in life. I always felt bad for feeling that way because I know that other people have been through so much worse than I have so I tried to shrug it off and not make it a big deal. But then I finally realized that it's ok to feel depressed and anxious despite not going through horrible trauma. And I also realized that what I was going through is actually pretty common. There's so many other things that can depress you in life even if they aren't as extreme as abuse. Life comes with so many different kinds of trauma and hardship that can cause depression or anxiety. So until people realize that, they'll also be able to recognize that they didn't need to be abused to feel the way they are feeling now. You don't need a villian origin story to feel sad 😂
i used to be on ed twitter and there were so so many kids on there as young as twelve who daily listened to subliminals that would "help" them not eat, not feel hungry, hate their bodies, etc. it's honestly horrible that kids as young as that listen to those subliminals every single day hoping that it'll work :/
One id like to point out that they work and that there’s a good side to the subliminal community helping with grades and self love and manifestation boosters
Honestly when i get a new phone or get more storage and fix my phone im going to make a "desired person gets better mental health,gets better coping ways etc" subliminal.
jermbot how dare you play 3 seconds of the abusive parents subliminal 0.78 seconds after you played it my nan came storming into my room and threw a pepper mill at my heading knocking me unconscious i am now typing this from a hospital bed
:( I think Jerm is spot on about this coming from a dark place. a lot of people consuming content like this are probably people who are already mentally ill/in some sort of abusive situation and have been conditioned to invalidate themselves, so they're trying to make it feel more real as a way of coping and processing. I never tried to purposely develop illnesses or lie for attention as a kid, but when I was being severely emotionally abused and constantly gaslit, I'd have days where I just wished there was some sort of 'real evidence' for what I was going through/an explanation for why I felt that way. I was taught that the only valid reason for someone to have the feelings and problems I did would be if they were experiencing more obvious, black-and-white abuse. I've grown up and am learning to stop normalizing the verbal abuse and neglect I experienced, and have since been diagnosed with C-PTSD. Mentally healthy people don't seek stuff like this out!
Yeah imo was thinking the same thing. I feel like that line of clear abuse is not as concrete as we’d like to think it is - if the thing that crossed the line happens it just means you’re going to move your line further and say the people who have even worse must’ve had the “real abuse”^tm. I was never one to search or listen to these subliminals, as I was so ashamed of having these thoughts, but they were there so I feel like I kinda relate to the people who do those things. This kind of mindset leaves you in such a vulnerable state - and especially with the kind of “freedom” kids have on the internet - I have my own extreme paranoia and anxiety to thank for not being taken advantage of so badly. I invalidated everything that could give me pain with a myriad of excuses - but the reality is that doesn’t make the pain go away - so you just end up in this limbo where you’re constantly on edge and everything feels horrible but you feel like you can never admit to that. You tell yourself that if xyz definite bad situation happened you’d finally be able to cry - you’d finally have someone to blame - you’d finally be alllowed to feel without being whiny. You treat this repression as a kind of virtue (and misappropriate all the feel better messages about trauma making you more mature, and hardships making you stronger) and you feel you are better than the people who’ve been through less but call what it is they’ve been though abuse (cuase it is.) And you realize how the people who’ve been through worse probably would be better than you, and though logically you know that worse problems would be even harder to deal with, you can’t suppress the jealousy you feel inside that the people who’ve been through worse are the ones who can truly validate their pain.
@@stuffz4040 Yeah, you nailed it, a whole lot of your comment just feels like looking in a mirror lmao, I think it's definitely important and good that you touched on the "you'd just keep moving the line" thing because that's 100% true lol. I used to tell myself shit like "at least I don't have PTSD! that would really, really mean it was bad" "at least I'm not disabled" Like, six years later, both of those things are now true, because I wasn't aware of it but I was actively developing C-PTSD and several chronic illnesses *and* I had undiagnosed autism, which has absolutely been disabling, but I always blamed the symptoms on myself and figured I was just dumb, awkward, and dramatic. (Though, I think I should specify - even if none of those things turned out to be true, I'd still have had a right to be upset about what I was going through. Trauma is trauma, even if you were healthy when it happened, even if it doesn't cause PTSD. There are other ways it can stay with you.) It doesn't matter because I've absolutely moved the line. Now it's "at least my PTSD is from x/y/z and not something worse" or "at least my flashbacks aren't really that debilitating" It makes me so sad, too, that a lot of this seems to be influenced by the media we grow up consuming. I don't think it's publicly acknowledged that all of these grey areas exist. There's hardly any nuance in the way mental health and trauma are shown in the materials we consume, at least in my experience. Sometimes the subject of people wishing they had it worse so they could have a 'good excuse' for their pain comes up online, and I see all these people who are obviously young teens/tweens talking about how much they relate and it breaks my heart :( I want all of them to know that it's bad enough already if they're at that spot.
@@agstinacueva1673 naw bruh it has every right to exist. It just shouldn't be exposed to social medias like tiktok. And without sublimals people will have hard times manifesting
Mental illness becoming a popularity thing is sad. There's people who've died due to their mental illnesses. People who've lived horrible, destructive lives and couldnt control it. Why tf would someone WANT to actively experience that?? It's more worrying with the possibility of younger kids finding this stuff and diving into it. It's sad. Going through these traumas and living through mental illness is NOT A PERSONALITY TRAIT. But actively wanting to seek out suffering that other could not control is a sign of being a piece of crap lmao
People romanticise mental illness but not the actually ugly sides. You don't see people wanting to have hair loss or constipation because of anorexia or like wanting to now shower for a really long time because they're depressed. Same with disorders like adhd or tourettes. They just want the "cute and quirky" sides.
@@Faeriiexx True, when I was young and impressionable I fell for the trap of thinking being mentally ill was beautifully tragic, and not just a horrible experience. I'm pretty ashamed of that tbh. I wish knowledge about what real mental illness looks like was more widely available, cause it seems you either see mentally ill people being painted as martyrs/heroes or just crazy people who deserve no empathy. It's sickening.
it’s a sense of control (or maybe they want a lack of control) they recognize it’s not a personality trait who are you to judge a method of s/h / coping? who are you to judge what someone decides to do with their own life? i agree that it’s worrying with younger kids finding this stuff. however, people actively want to experience this stuff because they likely already have before. they might feel invalid (and therefore want to be worse), are unready for recovery, or any other similar reason. it’s not romanticizing. please, don’t judge people from the little bits you know. being a piece of crap? the only one being a piece of crap is you. you’re so insensitive. stop with your saviour complex. not everyone is okay with being okay. not everyone wants to be okay. is that not alright? should everyone just be okay all the time? someone would want to actively experience that because they want a sense of control / no sense of control. it’s a false sense, but who the fvck are you to judge that? people are not one dimensional. someone being mentally fvcked and wanting to get worse should not be treated as horrible human beings. they should be treated with just as much respect or at least compassion as someone who is trying to seek help. not everyone can seek help. not everyone can get better. you are an insensitive prick. stop acting like you are any better than them. stop acting like you know that they’re horrible people. they are not. stop judging them at a surface level. thank you.
@@Faeriiexx i don't get what part of mental illnesses are "cute and quirky" There are people struggling to get through each day without completely falling apart, praying to get better. I've had a first hand experience of asking for help and not getting any. It hurts to see people wanting to have something that can permanently leave a scar on them for the rest of their lives.
its actually pretty common where people who have gone through trauma wish they had more trauma so that their feelings are validated. so the people making and watching theses videos are actually traumatized. an example maybe they were verbally abused by their parents and feel like it isnt enough to have the feelings they have so they wish that their parents physical abused them so that there is a reason to feel the way they do. trauma is trauma. even if someone went through more then you have, your feelings are vaild.
I've been seeing so many 'Why would you want abusive parents??????' from fellow survivors and it's been making me sad that there isn't more of this. Validating these guys is so much more effective than shaming them and, ironically, invalidating them. I pity Jerm if he reads these comments, he's attracted a very niche crowd of people.
The fact that i actually feel seen... it feels nice but also very shameful.. you explained my entire life and life choices.. Personally i never came across those subliminal videos but if i had done so when i was in highschool... i would probably have been watching it all day. I am not in a great place either now since i still have other unhealthy ways to make myself feel validated..🤷♀️
11:28 THIS REALLY WORKS!! I was walking up the hill while listening to this and as I continued on my journey and this part came up, my already luscious D cup has started to grow. First into an e cup then an f cup and before you knew it I could barely stand it surely would have busted through my bra if I was wearing one. They got so humongous, after adjusting to the weight for a couple of seconds I began to dance to the what is Love instrumental playing in the background finally feeling like my ultimate bias jihyo. WORKED GREAT 10/10 WOULD RECOMMEND!!
As a victim of family abuse, i still flinch when people touch me unexpectedly. Even though ive had therapy over this trauma, my body just reacts in that way. I dont like showing affection through physical touch and ive had failed relationships because of it. These subliminals makes my blood boil!
Im sorry that happened,I suffered from it too. And what makes me angry isnt the fact they want to harm themselves,its the fact that they PROMOTE it as if its something "cute".
im a sexual abuse and domestic abuse survivor and i genuinely cant understand why someone would want to be abused like do you want trauma??? 😭😭 whats wrong with being happy and okay bruh
How do I put this I didn’t listen to subliminals like that when I was younger But even as someone who is also a sexual abuse survivor with a disfunctional family I went through a phase where I felt like I haven’t gone through anything traumatising or bad Now I realize that I was really wrong I’m reading the comment section and it seems to be a common thing I thought I was just messed up
I feel like a lot of people who listen to those subliminals have already gone through it and its sort of a sh for them, i know that once i got away from my s3xually abusive father, i felt myself missing him and the attention. it doesn't make it alright and therapy is so much better, but in a way i see where they're coming from
I agree, it’s hard to step away from something that’s been part of your life. It’s almost like being addicted to it, because you don’t know else to live. (From my personal experience with my own abuse- not trying to say that’s how anyone else feels.) I hope everyone who listens to these as a form of SH seeks help and tries to form healthier habits.
@@roooooni you're right. a good way i explain it to people is the term "comfort in familiarity". (though, it's just my experience; not everyone feels that way).
I'm sorry you were so betrayed. Good for you for recognizing and addressing the feelings instead of revictimizing yourself over and over again with replacements. I wish I would've understood my motivations earlier instead of drowning my inner chaos in a bag of dic--inappropriate sexual partners.
I think the reason behind a lot of these could be that they already feel bad, but it's not enough to be taken seriously, so if they had an actual mental disorder or trauma, they'd get the attention they want. They want to be acknowledged and are prolly really young.
completely agree but a lot of the time it is because of actual mental illness or trauma, i remember acting just like this when i was young and going through trauma. you know you're struggling and you want help, but you feel like it isn't 'bad enough' for you to reach out or nobody notices you're struggling. i can see why people use these if they're in a situation like that but it just isn't healthy and it makes me really sad for those kids
Subliminals weren't really a thing when I was younger but I think I can provide some insight into the whole "I wish I had a mental illness" or "I wish something traumatizing would happen to me" phenomenon, because I had thoughts like these. When I thought like that I was in fact mentally ill and traumatized (I had/have OCD and depression plus now that I'm an adult I've been diagnosed with BPD). But I didn't know it, I didn't remember a lot of my early childhood trauma and the things I did remember I just didn't think anything of because I thought my experience was the typical normal upbringing. I didn't have the words to describe the ways in which I was suffering, I thought it was just me being "defective". So I wished I had a mental illness because then my pain could be explained, or I wished for something traumatic to happen to me because I thought that then I would be "allowed" to struggle the way I already was. I don't know if there are people out there who are neurotypical and generally mentally healthy who actually just want to have issues, but I think in most cases (including my own) it's people who are already suffering like he said in the video.
Tw: self harm I relate to this a lot. The whole need to be “edgy” and desire to experience painful things is very much a sign that something isn’t right. For me I always felt like an alien and had problems with wanting attention. I was also chronically bored and derealized. I never faked mental illness but I definitely played up the edginess and wished my life was more difficult because I didn’t really feel like I existed. I felt like I needed to be in pain in order to be noticed, in order to be more than just this empty existing shell. I ended up becoming a satanist and self harmed for some time. I sabotaged my reputation and purposefully scared my classmates into thinking I was possessed. All I wanted was to feel alive and be noticed. I still don’t quite know why. But now I’m diagnosed with anxiety, schizotypal personality disorder and autism, and it’s helped me understand why I’m like this. Even now, 10 years later, it’s still a struggle to not let those labels overtake my identity and control me. It would be so easy to turn them into my entire personality and fall back into that same pattern. But I’m trying to avoid that. I still feel that pain is a necessary part of life, but I don’t glamorize things that I’ll never understand anymore. I see now that for me it was a tool to fix my issues, but for the people actually born into lives like that, it was nothing more than torment.
omg, that's actually me- wtf can i really have childhood trauma? i have been cutting since 7th grade and i am 17 now but still struggle with everything and always wished i had a more tough life as i could have explained why i am so depressed all the time :0
100% relatable, when I was younger I never felt like I was allowed to be in pain or depressed. I occasionally still have those thoughts, although far less intensely or frequently. Thank you for sharing, you put it into words very well.
Just want to share that trauma is actually imprinted in your genetic sequencing. It literally affects the base of who you are and changes the neural pathways in your brain and how your body regulates itself! It not only changes how you will behave for the rest of your life, but it also changes the coding of your body. Trauma goes really really really deep. As someone with CPTSD and is a recovering heroin addict, it's not fun. And if young people think this will help you find some sort of community they are dead wrong. The "community" you will find will be filled with people stuck in victim mentality who can't enforce boundaries and have issues with insecurity. All of these traits make it incredibly difficult to maintain a healthy friendship. Not to say that traumatized and sick people aren't good friends at all. I know plenty of people who have suffered and are amazing. But let's be honest... Alot of people who have been traumatized have a very difficult time being good friends. Me included. At 23 I'm finally starting to become a better person. So if youre a teen goddamn good luck. These people need to listen to positive things and seek help.
right? having CPTSD myself, years of therapy and different meds and I'm only 22. before everything happened I always thought that being sad was normal but that you can always rise again. now that I'm broken beyond repair everytime I hear someone throwing around the word trauma and depression like it's nothing I cringe. I can't just switch and forget everything that happened to me, therapy works but more often than not feels like I'm running in circles, having connection with people is so hard to maintain. I don't wish this hopeless feeling to my worse enemy.
At 22 and 23 I had no idea CPTSD existed. I was a full blown poly-addict, oversexualized incest, physical, verbal and mental torture survivor that believed everything shameful, ugly and wrong with me was my unchanging fault because I graduated from a fancy private prep school and should've been entering the corporate world not bartending, whoring and snorting my way through the men achieving success within it. Phew, quick breath. You'd think that school would've at least taught me not to use run on sentences. I feel so much love, hope and admitted jealousy that you have such insight and will eventually be able to heal and help others earlier a full decade + before I did. If I could wish any of it away the only thing I would change is to know more about it before I had kids not while desperately trying to fix myself for them afterwards. Erasing my own trauma wouldn't have guaranteed saving them from it, it's too embedded in both lines of family history. One side from extreme poverty and the other from extreme wealth. Either pole of priviledge isolates people and that's when bad things happen. Thank you for renewing my stubborn optimism and thank you for having the courage to work on yourselves. Watching people try and abuse themselves through subliminal messages is just them trying to put physical manifestations on the real trauma they feel. Emotional neglect is probably the worst thing I suffered even beyond the repeated sexual and physical abuse from multiple family members and others from 2 to 16. We don't come into the world with the expectation to live without pain but we do have an expectation that other humans will react and respond to our pain with understanding and comfort. Society has increasingly moved towards living in two generation nuclear family homes increasingly with less and less contact and support from others in our daily existence. The expectations and pressures of this lifestyle have lead to the emotional neglect that preceded and caused the opioid and mental health epidemics of today. I'm not the only one to say it has a whole hell of a lot to do with the problems of our oligarch leadership and self-serving corporatatists as well. But, because its physical harms won't welt until much later and the bruising is all unseen in the brain people don't feel any validation or even recognize the roots of their constant pain. Maybe these people don't flinch when the toaster pops the bread up or punch people who wake them from deep sleep but they're still abuse victims and are begging for help. The internet is a saving lifeline for information and knowledge proliferation but we still need to see, touch and experience life with other humans. Not just family, certainly not just within the concentration camps of indoctrination colloquially called schools. But, playing, talking, working together to create art and community and things of lasting pride. I know it's excruciating to try and be around other people sometimes but that's often only because of how we view ourselves. Your broken makes you beautiful and interesting and a waaay better dinner guest than the porcelain perfect dolls that polite society is made up of. Trust me, these healthy people are bored out of their effing minds and crave the crazy, weird and dark places our brains go to. And not just for fleeting entertainment. Sure they may show up to all the study group sessions or have the motivation to start a successful wine and chat podcast with friends that leaves you longing for the ability to show up places consistently. But, the podcast is about serial killers, they're literally spending hours dissecting and trying to understand people with CPTSD. Obviously some of them are very unevolved in their perspectives and unyielding in their judgement of what they think to be bad choices but that's a reflection of them and they aren't the majority any longer. People want to connect and understand and heal each other and those that aren't doing that are really hurting themselves. Don't keep hurting yourselves, you can be a repeat offender with a body count of one. Or you can go fight crime by connecting with another person and just training yourself to show up. Put a reddit thread up, iso of CPTSD survivors who are struggling not to go full Unabomber in the woods alone. Then you can have a weekly live stream, cameras covered where you just sit in the dark for 30 min talking about weird thoughts you had while interacting with normies that week. Then maybe after awhile you turn cameras on or just make it 2x a week. Baby steps for baby humans with wise old minds. We have a hard time showing up for people because we haven't been taught how to do that when we're hurting, only when we're perfect. We have to teach ourselves, I hope that helps give you the courage to start. Both of you have renewed mine. And if you've finished reading this Tolstoyonian diatribe you are a shut in, or a secret optimist too. I wish you all the luck and love, it gets better. Weirder but better and nobody has successful podcast or UA-cam channel sitting around talking about 'normal'.
@@wafflewaffle8529 yes but those choices and events are most often reinforcing past pathways rather than forging new ones. It takes concerted effort, mindfulness and self-examination to recognize why you are doing what you are doing and then be brave and strong enough to change it. This is only possible with support. Something we are increasingly scared away from giving. Not monetary support, unwavering wise emotional support. Hard to do with 8 sec attn spans and pervasive fear mongering.
11:43 it's true i have listened to what is love? a bajillion times in my life and now i have massive gigantic anime girl badonka bazookas. thank you twice
I feel so validated by the fact that you brought up the lasting damage abuse does to your chemical production 🥺 I have lasting damage which makes me produce more stress hormones, so i've basically had panic attack levels for more than 10 years without a break. Most people don't believe that's possible, so hearing someone just say that out loud is such a relief 🥺
just leaving this here if anyone wants to know how subliminals actually work: Subliminals are audios where theres affirmations playing in the background which reprogram your mind to think in a way you want. You are so powerful that just by changing your thoughts, your reality changes to fulfil them. alot of ppl overcomplicate this and probably take this as some magic, but no its just having a better I mindset. I reccomed reading the book "power of subconscious mind" to better understand how having a better mindset to fit your ideals can be beneficial.
i vaguely understand how subliminals work but i don't understand how your subconcious can really influence anyone outside of yourself. in that case, couldn't you use subliminals to become rich, or never get sick? i'm sorry it's just that i tried a flat stomach subliminal once and it was honestly kind of traumatic, i couldn't sleep for months and kept having intrusive thoughts and anxiety so its hard to believe that they work anyway :(
@@helenaorr You got intrusive thoughts? Uhm, I think that should definitely not happen in a normal subliminal. Can you please maybe tell me the name of the UA-cam channel that you found this particular subliminal in? Maybe it's a harmful one with bad affirmations
@@helenaorr I can understand there's a lot of risk that the submaker might put in bad affs and shit, but these subliminals don't hold the power, YOU DO, so do what works for you, love yourself, be confident in yourself, focus on healing, thinking positive and acting as if you already have your ideals, I'm sure you'd get your results just believe.
I've been listening to subs since I got on YT a few years back. Desired hair, help desired person, perfect health, pet lives a long life, desired Halloween season etc, and never in a million years would I have guessed that the community (just a portion of it, but it's enough nonetheless) would go down this path.
My mum let my dad emotionally abuse me and my sisters all through our childhoods "to make you stronger" and "teach you what men are really like" and let me tell you, that did NOT work. I cry at any criticism because I associate it with punishments like being forced to sleep outside in winter. Abuse doesn't make you strong at all.
i found a subliminal titled “desired mental illness subliminal” a while ago and i kindly asked the creator to delete it. the majority of the comments were actually THANKING the creator??!! like wtf
It's funny (not really) because I JUST got recommended a subliminal for a "yandere boyfriend" and I was like holy fucK??? because yandere is someone who is like in love with you but its super unhealthy and to the point of obsession, to where they will usually even kidnap you or kill other people for you. and people were commenting "omg I hope listening to this will get them to come and kidnap me faster." and "I listened to this and my door was open when I didnt open It I hope they come for me soon." and im just like this is insane and I hope all these people get therapy NOW.
as someone who has been in the subliminal community , i’m really grateful you differentiated the good ones from the bad in order to not falsely lead anyone to generalize the community:-)
I'm so happy for Gizmo to find someone that actually takes good care of him, someone to love him how every animal deserves to be loved basically. I feel like you two will be very happy together and truly hope that he grows up as a healthy kitty from now on 💜💜💜 (Ps: Don't be scared, I had a kitten that was born with a crooked tail, that happens sometimes, but it doesn't invalidate them in most cases.)
at my lowest i would listen to subliminals to feel in control l (lose weight/low bmi/unhealthy weight subliminals) and oh my GOD those subliminals were weird. theres so many about getting fatal diseases, i opened a doc about them and it was a way to self harm/cope. its so weird. even if something is for coping doesnt excuse it. explanation doesnt mean excuse
Like Jeremy said, I think that most people who listen to these subliminals are already mentally ill. Thinking you need to suffer in any way is not normal. If you watch these, please go to a therapist (or at least talk to someone), you deserve to be happy. Also thanks for saving Gizmo, Jeremy, listening to you talking about him being ill and then getting better thanks to you made me cry. :(
as someone who is bipolar, my day to day life before medication/ when i am off it is literally a living hell. the fact that people think it is a quirky fun thing to have will never fail to be fucking INSANE to me.
as someone that has been in the sub community for three years, i think its hilarious looking at how stupid the affirmations in underground subs look and they do work by the way as long as you have strong belief!! they have helped me a lot x
I remember trying to relieve my epilepsy so I searched for a subliminal if that ever existed. The only video I found was a subliminal on manifesting epilepsy. What the fuck😻
This was me with ADHD I went to find a sub to get rid of adhd cuase I fucking hate it and I saw one that's said "Gets adhd[forced]" and I was like who tf wants this
I would never wish my depression or history of loneliness, feeling neglected, or being abused on my worst enemy and yet there's a whole community of people who actively wish it on themselves. It makes me sick.
yeah one of my friends developed an eating disorder because of how their parents treated them and how they were given food all the time to shut up, talking to them and letting that sink in really made me realise how fucked up trauma can be for an individual
i think social media is awful for glamorizing/romanticizing abusive situations which is probably why a lot of teens now want that attention. i've also been in the community for years, since i was very young actually, and i never understood the "darker" side of subs. i remember finding one that was to get s*xually har*ssed and feeling sick. i truly, deeply hope whoever is using/making these subs gets the help they need, because it's not healthy. i really appreciate your take on this
From a pov of someone who was actually abused, WTFFFF IS WRONG WITH PPL. like you don't want to be abused that shit fucks with you severely. Like no one is ok even after years of escaping that abuse.
ppl use these to sh or make it worse so they can get noticed like what if someone was being verbally abused ? u wouldnt know bc they don't have bruises
i used to listen to "become extremely thin" subliminals, and in my experience they do work, i became around 87 lbs and got hospitalized. but now i am on the road of recovery. at least i can understand people that use "get extremely thin" subliminals because they already have been struggling with anorexia, i don't support these subs being made though, i only understand the people that use them. what i absolutely do not understand is the "become bipolar" "get ptsd" etc. and they make me so mad. as someone who has ptsd it is absolutely NOTHING that you want in your life, trauma messes you up BIG TIME, and there is no fully recovering in that, i would never wish this on my worst enemy, i hope these people get help or exposed asap before they get harmed for listening to these subliminals.
Idk if you meant it this way, but a video just scientfically can't make you lose weight. I think the most that can happen is it putting you in a mindset in which you act in ways that will make you lose weight. Sorry you went through that tho, hope you're doing better now
@@pho_is_not_interesting yes thank you 😊💕 maybe you’re right, but i never really had a fast metabolism, until i listened to these subliminals, or maybe it was a mind thing, but thank you for your comment ✨
Just knowing these people exist, make me so... Day ruined enough like are you serious? Really? And kpop songs but pianos and then anime chics crying istg I can't no I can't I can't anymore 😭
ive met ppl who are the intended audience for these subliminals and it genuinely baffles me how they treat trauma like its a prize and act like they arent fun or interesting without it. no matter how many times you tell them hey stop doing this stop being so self destructive its not worth it, they act like they are the victim and they wont get hurt by it when they know exactly what theyre doing
I shamelessly admit that I used to listen to subliminals all the time in hopes that my eyes would magically turn hazel/green..I'd even close my eyes and lay down and shit
I really appreciate you making this video. I suffered traumatic abuse and neglect as a child and now as an adult and suffer with crippling anxiety and have to go to therapy once a week. Suffering abuse is NOT aspirational. Wtf.
When will people learn that abuse doesn't make you stronger? Abuse breaks you down and you have to fix your self alone with nobody to help you. Even after taking help, the trauma from abuse stays with you forever. Stop glorifying mental illnesses.
I just binge watched all ur other videos i havent seen yet (i was trying to watch slowly cuz i didnt want them to end, but failed) and i was really sad so a new video makes me so happy 😭💖 Update: Gizmo is so cute i love him
honestly as someoje who used to listen to subs a few years ago, if used in the right way, subliminals are quite nice idc about the science behind it -call it manifestation, placeboo, whatever you want so you could imagine its like a cool superpower but if that 'cool superpowers' are at the wrong hands, we're screwed. (honestly i dont even know where this is going anymore i cant form sentences ffs) and these kind of subs are a good example for that: they're ruining themselves and people's overall impression of the community
I was abused and neglected until I left my parents at 16, (only to be abused by bf's but whatever) and you hit the nail, the trauma will never go away. somehow it will always find a way to stick around, and It's really sickening to see people make light of it just to make themselves feel included. Thanks for covering this
Lowkey this is what happens when the suffering = improvement mentality gets skewed. People equate any kind of extreme suffering with emotional growth but bro that's just not what happens. Abuse and mental illness set your brain BACK. You aren't "more mature". You are more vulnerable and susceptible to manipulation when you are hurt. If you really want to be taken seriously then you should be trying to become a well-adjusted person. Damn 😭
subliminals are genuinely the wildest thing like yk it doesn’t really work, but at the same time you want it to? bc it’d be so nice if it did ps ty jerm for posting we’re living for it 🙌🙌
The comment sections are so confusing though. I’ve seen a few of them and the comments seem so certain that they work that they almost make you believe it. Or maybe I’m just dumb lol.
@@thursdaytractiontuesdaytit1325 people make themselves believe it, it's kinda like placebo effect, you know? Most homeopathy fans also say it works, but that doesn't mean it does
They can actually work, even if they don’t REALLY work, they can make you believe it does which will help you reach your goal or whatever you’d like to accomplish
it maybe can work with experience authors, but i wouldn't place my trust on people who are still new and do subliminals for fun, you don't even know what they put in there
"Let's get those boobs boobin'" That made my entire day!!! I just found you today and watched several of your vids. Seems to me, You're back..and better than ever! So glad to hear you share about needing a break and being self aware enough to be able to step away and take care of you and your mental health. I imagine there are lots of us, all ages, who need to hear this and see you as an example. And... I love that you can poke fun at dark subjects. I think it's healthy and helps us cope with the reality of how difficult managing our mental health can be. You got a new subscriber and fan today. Thanks for being you.
The way you edit your videos… sometimes i think youre just making an inside joke none of us know about… like why did dua lipa appear? LOVE it tho. I dont think i get most of them but still… amazing…
so i played one kiss while charles manson was dancing and then i thought about dua lipa more and dua manson was born. i do not understand my editing process
the "max ur credit card one day and the next you can't leave your bed" thing was a personal callout to me. (diagnosed bipolar for like 10 yrs at this point, clearly still struggling)
To be completly honest, as someone that used to listen to some subliminals, there's a good side of subliminals but most of them are mostly about changing your appearance, It's obviously not very healthy mentally and emotionally, and sometimes even phisically. So if you're a creator just please think before putting harmful things like that on the internet where young people could find easily, and for anyone watching those know that being abused or in depression isn't cool. If you have suffered with it in the past talk to someone that might help you. Things like that shouldn't get any attention or even be there in the first place smh.
Yes i have come across a few subliminals but all of them were about being pretty and having a good body. I find it a bit excessive i wonder if there are subliminals for being smart, academic success etc.
@@lechatnoir482 there definitely are! I listen to study hard and academic success ones :) idk if they work but i figure why not since I need something in the background while I study
@@lechatnoir482 my fav unique subliminal is one by nür. It’s one with compliments complimenting you, and it makes me feel nice every time I listen to it
i feel the same way! i tried listening to one of flat stomach and even though i'm still skeptical, i think there definitely is some truth to them. my problem with the community is that so many of them are about changing your body and face and say it is about "becoming a better version of yourself," which kind of rubs me the wrong way and discourages me from joining the community :(
Bro I watch asmr a TON and because of that, I’ve had quite a few subliminals pop up in my feed before since some of those videos are deemed as “relaxational” or are supposed to be listened to while asleep. But bro. So many of them are twisted. It’s usually mentally ill people being scared to recover. It’s really depressing
no because that is the life I lived and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. (with an exception of the abuser, he deserves far worse than what he did to us) I still wake up wondering "why me? why my family? " I've been through so much and now that I'm in a healthy environment and healing I still think about ending it all because of the sheer amount of shit I've been through and how badly it fucked me up. Genuinely cannot imagine any kind of world where ANYONE would want to go through what me and my little sisters did.
And let me say, looking out my door or window every other night fully expecting someone to come in and brutally murdered me, my boyfriend, and my cats... not very fuckin fun. Having PTSD triggers is so fucking awful, genuinely terrifying, and it sends you down a fucking spiral. Once again, not something I would wish for, in fact, I've been working EXTRAORDINARILY hard to try and heal from all the shit I've been through, I'm getting better as I've been in this healthy environment for about 2 years now, but I still have my spirals. I spend most of my time wishing I was born in a different life, timeline, realm. NO ONE should have to go what we went through, and then have to be thrown into the adult world and forced to do the best they can to heal from it with little to no resources like we have.
These dark subliminal messages seem like something I would’ve been into when I was 12. I had a fixation on mental illness and trauma back then. Now after years of therapy and just getting older I can tell that the younger version was just trying to seek out validation. As I wanted to prove to myself that I was sick since I was usually gaslit and neglected into believing I didn’t have any mental health issues and that I was just lazy and stupid, when actually I was incredibly depressed, anxious, lonely, and miserable. Maybe the people watching these are just looking for validation as well since they can’t possibly be happy. Also obviously mental illness and abuse is terrible and I wish I wasn’t affected by such things since it had made me miserable and mean for a long time.
i know i was clowning on the people that made these subliminals but PLEASE dont go and harass them they already have a lot on their plates 😭😭😭
Hey! I just wanted to say if the crook is on the tip or top of the tail- that’s a genetic deformity in some cat breeds. I had a kitty with it.
It should be a crime to hate crime mentally unstable people
Honestly I just find myself looking forward to jermbots uploads. They're so wholesome
Please climb into my walls . I need me some happiness
I KNOW 🧐🤓☝I WAS CLOWNING 🤡🤡🤡🤡 ON THE PEOPLE THAT MADE THESE SUBLIMINALS 😴🙏😓🧘😓🤛🥀🕯💊🚬⚰ BUT 🗣📣PLEASE🗣📣 DONT 🙅♀️🙅♀️🚫⛔❌❗ GO 🏃🏃♀️🏃🏃♀️🏃 AND HARASS THEM 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 THEY ALREADY 🙄🕐 HAVE A LOT🆘 ON THEIR PLATES➡🍝🍝🍝🍝😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤳
bro im so dead☠️
i once tried to “expose” this dark subliminal community but then someone made a subliminal to specifically kill me (and it’s still up). Best experience of my life 10/10 would recommend
Sooo… did you die ?
@@Aries.111 dang :(
Wtf is wrong with people
Brb gonna make a subliminal to revive you 🙏🙏🙏
@@thisbecomesyourchannelurl thank u sm i appreciate it
i saw a 'become korean' subliminal and i have no hope for humanity now 😃😃
oli london core
@@jermbot lmfao T-T
someone replied to this comment saying "it worked for me" 😨😨 i think they deleted their reply but still huh😟
@@luv4eva1111 probably realized it sounded funnier in their head. respect
@@jermbot lmfao 💀
Once I came across a 'manifest your own jungkook' subliminal and people in the comment section were like "omg the day after listening to this i keep seeing allot of Asian guys its working" 💀
What's funny is that these are the same people-kids-who preach against way-cism and spam "POC friendly" all over their subs, but they'll turn around and se_ualize/fet_shize asians.
@@BleedingGrafitti and also call every Asian person they see whatever k-pop idol they can think of first. The weirdest part is that they don’t even realize it half the time
LMFAO NO WAY😭😭
i would expect nothing less from armys 💀💀
bruh💀
I've been in the subliminal community for years and i remember when dark subs started getting popular we were all like... what
yeah honestly, these subs really bring us sub community's image(?) down
i think the positive ones r rad. im definitely a skeptic but im all for trying to manifest good things in ur life. so why are we out here on youtube.com manifesting abusive parents????? hello??????
@@jermbot 😭😭😭
@@jermbot people need reasons to feel bad for themselves I think💀
@@jermbot well said
Pretty sure I don’t need a tutorial to become mentally ill 💕
Everyone reading this be blessed forever i hope you have a wonderful day and your dreams come true and you're healthy and wealthy!🧿🍀🧘🙏🏼💸🧜🏼🌈🥝
welcome to the club bae
@@jermbot oh helloooo 🤩✋
@sewer~rat same
Right?
on a deeper level, “wanting to be abused” is a post traumatic response. usually it’s because they don’t remember their trauma, and they want a reason to feel the way they do. i struggled with this a lot, but it didn’t go this far at all
wow
That’s sad
I really don’t like this. Because it makes people who constantly get into abusive relationships, want to get abused, when really abusive/manipulative people can see a victim miles away and approach them.
yeah but what about those “get autism in 5 minutes or less” videos
@@defffnotalexis i don't have much to say about the ug community since I make surface (safe) subliminals. Being in this community for a while, I believe they use those subs to worsen their already mental illnesses so they can get diagnosed so people can feel more sympathetic towards them rather than disregard their problems because they're 'minor' or they probably listen because they hate themselves and feel the need to be punished with absurd things.
i was abused by my dad for years until it got to the point where one night my mum told me and my sister to pack our bags and to leave as soon as we could. we were homeless for 2 months and i got depression and i got severe anxiety and germophobia. its sickening to think that people want to be abused. abuse has long term affects and will haunt you for the rest of your life, be grateful youre not emotionally / physically scarred for life.
edit: i didnt expect so many people to see this but dont worry guys, were living in a rental (until we get money from selling the house after the divorce) and im seeing a therapist who is really helpful. im getting the help i need and im getting better. i cant reply to all the replies im getting so if you see this thanks your comment means a lot, have a good day everyone
I hope you're doing better❤️❤️❤️
@@MinMin-kq2zn thanks im seeing a therapist and shes really helping. were living in a rented house right now but once we get money from selling the house we'll have somewhere permanent :)
Connie ᓚᘏᗢ that's great to hear I'm rooting for you（＾ω＾）
I'm sorry I hope you're doing better & r happy in life💜💜
@@connie8023 that's wonderful I wish u all the happiness & joy in life 💖
as a person who listens to subliminals for self love, good grades, astral projection, and manifestation boosters, we are not all like that 😭subliminals are mostly used to enhance self love, mental health, and other aspects of a persons life, not to destroy them- anyways, i was kinda jamming out to that big boob subliminal, cant wait to get my honker badonker 3000's
Did they work for you
@@kyhoney they worked for me !
@@kyhoney works for me
Used to think it’s a coincidence
but there are too many occasions that it worked
Lmao mood
Can you please recommend some safe channels ?^^
im in recovery from anorexia right now, im 18 and was in a very bad place until like november of last year
i used to listen to "become stick thin" and other ana subliminals
the channels who made those also had videos like "get autism" "get sexually harrassed by your parent" "get kidnapped" "get did" and it was SOOO wild!! most of the videos didnt have titles in normal alphabet letters so you couldn't find them by searching for them lmao. no idea how i found these but i still have so many channels in my private playlists
edit : ive noticed that usually the people who watched these already had problems and were trying to feel even worse ?? like they were scared of feeling better because being mentally ill was such a big part of their identity, as really young teens / even children sometimes
edit 2: the darkest kinds of subs have titles with emojis and symbols, and dont have music, ive seen some shit
i would use those same ones. they'd just pop up on my homepage👎
legit!! its a form of s*lf h*rm
@@s0phia71 yeah :( and then you kinda fall through a rabbit hole
@@fullcapsethan exactly. i get so sad when i think abt the people who use them :(
I've had the same experience 😭 I used to listen to so many ED subs when it was severe I even got caught lol luckily I've gotten better and now listen to more positive ones
As someone who is the child of actually abusive parents, My jaw dropped to the fucking floor when you showed those subliminals.
Yall having shitty parents isnt an anime tragic back story pls touch grass lmfao
THISSS like im a abuse surviver, I had the exact same reaction as you. Like why would any one want abusive parents. Grass can’t even save these people any more.
Honestly
SAME what the actual fuck
Fr,they must think that having a shitty live is badass and treat it like some kind of aesthetic...
Yeah like wtf
As a person in the sub community, it really terrifies me that I see this type of shit on youtube. WHY TF WOULD YOU WANT THIS 😭
I actually got introduced to subs as a whole when a so called "underground sub" video popped up on my page. It took me a long time to figure out what the video even was. The one i found first wasn't even too dark but then i checked the channel's other vids and i got disgusted and scared.
I like the normal subs tho, if you have any sub channel recommendations i'd love to find good ones.
@@blueghost4769 moza morph
@@blueghost4769 eggtopia and kapelsu
Fr 😭
@@blueghost4769 enchanted workshop!
i think these corners of the internet are heavily populated by mentally ill adolescents that aren't able to/don't have access to any sort of validation that their lives or problems are 'bad enough'. i myself frequented tumblr and instagram pages at ages 8-12 that romanticized this sort of thinking. but to hammer in your point -- the trauma i had been exposed to at the time negatively impacted me and my mental health enough, and being in these sort of subcultures did more harm than help. these spaces aren't healthy, and they aren't safe, irregardless of if i had been coping, or if anyone listening to these videos is coping. i don't think its wise to ignore something like this simply because people use it as a coping mechanism. it's important to acknowledge why ppl listening to this stuff isn't okay so they can be directed to healthier outlets which is what i think this video helped to do. anyway. love u jerm
ok i know u just commented this but i didnt sleep well last night so i have been taking it easy today and reading comments. fucking love how u worded this. i think once u get a lil older its a little easier to reflect back on these spaces/communities and see how damaging they really are. it frustrates me to see these groups online because i remember being younger and having friend groups that encouraged harmful behavior and how much that influenced me to not seek help. it upsets me seeing people justifying and rationalizing like… getting worse. you can get better whenever you’re ready but why get worse and take other impressionable people down with you? just realized im ranting a little on ur comment but idk i have some Thoughts. okay getting off my phone now
@@jermbot THANK U i literally didn’t sleep either and i was worried that what i was saying didn’t make any sense so i’m so glad u get me. Yes exactly! like u said growing up and realizing that a lot of harmful behaviors have been normalized for u Bc of ur environment (online or otherwise) is upsetting and then to not only see those environments thriving but to see ppl… Validating their existence under the guise of ‘a way to deal with reality’ is just gross. love the last thing u said so much too bc i think esp with everything going on its so easy to justify like wallowing in the bad shit b4 ur ready to heal but that’s not necessary or helpful. idk. anyway literally rant ur head off babes my favorite ‘discourse’ (? Don’t think i know what that word means) is like the internets psychological impact on development so i’m obsessed
@@cruelyear a person in the reply section of one of the comments is literally fighting people on how these subs are a coping mechanism and they help them in a way as they'll get abused more and then people will notice and help them?? And I was like what the actual fuc-
I completely agree, I would’ve probably watched these a lot if I had known about them about 1-2 years ago
and this is exactly why the subliminal community needs to be gatekeeped. i usually dont like gatekeeping things, but as someone who saw the shifting community become hell as it grew more famous it really is for the better. we dont need submakers with bad intentions or more harm
Definitely
yea i found a sub that was used for worsening hallucinations??? like give you extreme mental illness and hallucinations??? i think it was supposed to give you schizophrenia or sum 😀 it was something
seriously. people can so easily create harmful subs and label them something good.
@d b not really cuz like hobbies are like whatever but like when it comes to shit like subliminals which can affect you kinda more than fandoms
the subliminal community is fucking cringe
3:30 "Abuse is not funny, I think it is hilarious" 💀💀
LMAOO
Actually, i think people that feel like they dont deserve to feel happy will listen to these subliminal. I can say it's like some sort of SH. So it's like what Jerm said, they already got something playin in their head.
This is my thoughts exactly. If I found this two years ago? I would’ve listened to it just to guilt myself into feeling bad for everything. I’m so sorry for all the people who use this
I left a relationship and He told me he feels like he doesn’t deserve happiness and me. Long story short It took a toll on us and had to leave the relationship for the better. I have to agree that this is a form of SH and it is very destructive.
Yh I also think it must become in some way addictive; like people talk about with gore
that’s true, but most people do it in order to acquire attention
@@user-wy9fb5dp2j Some people may seek attention due to root / deeper problems, I think. I hope these people get help and stop with the content that can harm others though but being alone and isolated can be extremely harrowing on your actions I think, and these kinds of channels seem so lonely. Yknow? Lol
i;ve used subliminals before (positive ones) and I didnt even know these ones existed. as someone who's dealt with a lot of mental issues before, no one should have to wish to go through that, honestly. also the subliminal for the big boobs is a twice song which is another kpop song, kinda found that funny lol
“what is [b00b]?”
@@tess8691 LMFAOOO
@@tess8691 umm breast
kpop = most powerful manifestation tool😭
@@kiana.yasmin omg the kpop song piano covers plsssss
lol i used to be one of those subliminal users. 16, depressed af, didn’t know wtf i was doing, thought i deserved to suffer, thought i needed a reason to feel as much pain as i did. felt like i was ungrateful for having a comfortable life yet feeling the way i felt. finally got back on my meds and have gotten a lot better, haven’t gone back to those subliminals and deleted all the saved playlists i have. anyone using/making these subliminals, i understand where you’re coming from, and i hope you find better ways to cope like i did
Hey, subliminals are currently destroying my life right now and I have no one to talk or run to about it, could I maybe vent to you on D1scord or something?
@@Brepieas yo I'm here as well. Drop the discord.
@@Brepieas literally get off social media, hang out with friends, eat healthy and exercise all the problems will go away, don’t make excuses
@@stealthyrat just a tip, “don’t make excuses” isn’t something you should ever say to someone in a delicate mental state. It only makes people feel worse 9 time out of 10 and comes off as aggressive and blaming
yes, the people making these videos are feeding off of sick kids
i saw somewhere that “if you’re looking for physical pain to match the emotional pain inside of you, seek help. you don’t need trauma to be depressed.” and i think some people would super benefit off of this mindset
Yes I agree. When my depression was super bad I would have thoughts like “why am I so sad if nothing bad has ever happened in my life”
People probably seek answers to that question. That’s a great quote to share.
wow
Agree. At first I felt like this was just privileged white girls wanting to be ✨special✨ but the more I think about the more it seems obvious that no one normal would ever want to do this. I feel more sad for this “community” than I do offended honestly
This is an amazing point! 👏 I oftentimes feel really depressed and anxious even though there's not much stuff I've been through in life. I always felt bad for feeling that way because I know that other people have been through so much worse than I have so I tried to shrug it off and not make it a big deal. But then I finally realized that it's ok to feel depressed and anxious despite not going through horrible trauma. And I also realized that what I was going through is actually pretty common. There's so many other things that can depress you in life even if they aren't as extreme as abuse. Life comes with so many different kinds of trauma and hardship that can cause depression or anxiety. So until people realize that, they'll also be able to recognize that they didn't need to be abused to feel the way they are feeling now. You don't need a villian origin story to feel sad 😂
wow ur being consistent and i love it. tysm for posting often 😫
i love u wtf!!! happy to be back
Ikr
i used to be on ed twitter and there were so so many kids on there as young as twelve who daily listened to subliminals that would "help" them not eat, not feel hungry, hate their bodies, etc. it's honestly horrible that kids as young as that listen to those subliminals every single day hoping that it'll work :/
One id like to point out that they work and that there’s a good side to the subliminal community helping with grades and self love and manifestation boosters
Honestly when i get a new phone or get more storage and fix my phone im going to make a "desired person gets better mental health,gets better coping ways etc" subliminal.
@@rivroyerr We understand there is a good side but you need to understand that there is also a bad side and we are critizing this
I remember being a major creator of those at that age 💀
jermbot how dare you play 3 seconds of the abusive parents subliminal 0.78 seconds after you played it my nan came storming into my room and threw a pepper mill at my heading knocking me unconscious i am now typing this from a hospital bed
LMFAOOO bro the way i immediately muted my phone when he said he was gonna play it 💀
HELP
@@heheboi55 me too
:( I think Jerm is spot on about this coming from a dark place. a lot of people consuming content like this are probably people who are already mentally ill/in some sort of abusive situation and have been conditioned to invalidate themselves, so they're trying to make it feel more real as a way of coping and processing. I never tried to purposely develop illnesses or lie for attention as a kid, but when I was being severely emotionally abused and constantly gaslit, I'd have days where I just wished there was some sort of 'real evidence' for what I was going through/an explanation for why I felt that way. I was taught that the only valid reason for someone to have the feelings and problems I did would be if they were experiencing more obvious, black-and-white abuse. I've grown up and am learning to stop normalizing the verbal abuse and neglect I experienced, and have since been diagnosed with C-PTSD. Mentally healthy people don't seek stuff like this out!
Yeah imo was thinking the same thing. I feel like that line of clear abuse is not as concrete as we’d like to think it is - if the thing that crossed the line happens it just means you’re going to move your line further and say the people who have even worse must’ve had the “real abuse”^tm.
I was never one to search or listen to these subliminals, as I was so ashamed of having these thoughts, but they were there so I feel like I kinda relate to the people who do those things. This kind of mindset leaves you in such a vulnerable state - and especially with the kind of “freedom” kids have on the internet - I have my own extreme paranoia and anxiety to thank for not being taken advantage of so badly. I invalidated everything that could give me pain with a myriad of excuses - but the reality is that doesn’t make the pain go away - so you just end up in this limbo where you’re constantly on edge and everything feels horrible but you feel like you can never admit to that. You tell yourself that if xyz definite bad situation happened you’d finally be able to cry - you’d finally have someone to blame - you’d finally be alllowed to feel without being whiny. You treat this repression as a kind of virtue (and misappropriate all the feel better messages about trauma making you more mature, and hardships making you stronger) and you feel you are better than the people who’ve been through less but call what it is they’ve been though abuse (cuase it is.) And you realize how the people who’ve been through worse probably would be better than you, and though logically you know that worse problems would be even harder to deal with, you can’t suppress the jealousy you feel inside that the people who’ve been through worse are the ones who can truly validate their pain.
@@stuffz4040 Yeah, you nailed it, a whole lot of your comment just feels like looking in a mirror lmao, I think it's definitely important and good that you touched on the "you'd just keep moving the line" thing because that's 100% true lol. I used to tell myself shit like "at least I don't have PTSD! that would really, really mean it was bad" "at least I'm not disabled"
Like, six years later, both of those things are now true, because I wasn't aware of it but I was actively developing C-PTSD and several chronic illnesses *and* I had undiagnosed autism, which has absolutely been disabling, but I always blamed the symptoms on myself and figured I was just dumb, awkward, and dramatic. (Though, I think I should specify - even if none of those things turned out to be true, I'd still have had a right to be upset about what I was going through. Trauma is trauma, even if you were healthy when it happened, even if it doesn't cause PTSD. There are other ways it can stay with you.)
It doesn't matter because I've absolutely moved the line. Now it's "at least my PTSD is from x/y/z and not something worse" or "at least my flashbacks aren't really that debilitating"
It makes me so sad, too, that a lot of this seems to be influenced by the media we grow up consuming. I don't think it's publicly acknowledged that all of these grey areas exist. There's hardly any nuance in the way mental health and trauma are shown in the materials we consume, at least in my experience. Sometimes the subject of people wishing they had it worse so they could have a 'good excuse' for their pain comes up online, and I see all these people who are obviously young teens/tweens talking about how much they relate and it breaks my heart :( I want all of them to know that it's bad enough already if they're at that spot.
@@ohno4930 this comment hit way too close to home except the only thing i have a proper diagnosis right now is cptsd
Nah they just edgy kids
Totally
This is why the subliminal community should be a secret
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@@freddougman58 ?
@@freddougman58?
It shouldnt exist period💀
@@agstinacueva1673 naw bruh it has every right to exist. It just shouldn't be exposed to social medias like tiktok. And without sublimals people will have hard times manifesting
Mental illness becoming a popularity thing is sad. There's people who've died due to their mental illnesses. People who've lived horrible, destructive lives and couldnt control it. Why tf would someone WANT to actively experience that?? It's more worrying with the possibility of younger kids finding this stuff and diving into it. It's sad. Going through these traumas and living through mental illness is NOT A PERSONALITY TRAIT. But actively wanting to seek out suffering that other could not control is a sign of being a piece of crap lmao
People romanticise mental illness but not the actually ugly sides. You don't see people wanting to have hair loss or constipation because of anorexia or like wanting to now shower for a really long time because they're depressed. Same with disorders like adhd or tourettes. They just want the "cute and quirky" sides.
history repeats itself lol
@@Faeriiexx True, when I was young and impressionable I fell for the trap of thinking being mentally ill was beautifully tragic, and not just a horrible experience. I'm pretty ashamed of that tbh. I wish knowledge about what real mental illness looks like was more widely available, cause it seems you either see mentally ill people being painted as martyrs/heroes or just crazy people who deserve no empathy. It's sickening.
it’s a sense of control (or maybe they want a lack of control)
they recognize it’s not a personality trait
who are you to judge a method of s/h / coping? who are you to judge what someone decides to do with their own life?
i agree that it’s worrying with younger kids finding this stuff.
however, people actively want to experience this stuff because they likely already have before. they might feel invalid (and therefore want to be worse), are unready for recovery, or any other similar reason.
it’s not romanticizing. please, don’t judge people from the little bits you know.
being a piece of crap? the only one being a piece of crap is you. you’re so insensitive.
stop with your saviour complex. not everyone is okay with being okay. not everyone wants to be okay. is that not alright? should everyone just be okay all the time?
someone would want to actively experience that because they want a sense of control / no sense of control. it’s a false sense, but who the fvck are you to judge that?
people are not one dimensional. someone being mentally fvcked and wanting to get worse should not be treated as horrible human beings. they should be treated with just as much respect or at least compassion as someone who is trying to seek help.
not everyone can seek help. not everyone can get better.
you are an insensitive prick.
stop acting like you are any better than them.
stop acting like you know that they’re horrible people. they are not.
stop judging them at a surface level.
thank you.
@@Faeriiexx i don't get what part of mental illnesses are "cute and quirky"
There are people struggling to get through each day without completely falling apart, praying to get better.
I've had a first hand experience of asking for help and not getting any.
It hurts to see people wanting to have something that can permanently leave a scar on them for the rest of their lives.
its actually pretty common where people who have gone through trauma wish they had more trauma so that their feelings are validated. so the people making and watching theses videos are actually traumatized. an example maybe they were verbally abused by their parents and feel like it isnt enough to have the feelings they have so they wish that their parents physical abused them so that there is a reason to feel the way they do. trauma is trauma. even if someone went through more then you have, your feelings are vaild.
o.o
i love you’re profile picture
....why do you know me??? o.o
I've been seeing so many 'Why would you want abusive parents??????' from fellow survivors and it's been making me sad that there isn't more of this. Validating these guys is so much more effective than shaming them and, ironically, invalidating them. I pity Jerm if he reads these comments, he's attracted a very niche crowd of people.
The fact that i actually feel seen... it feels nice but also very shameful.. you explained my entire life and life choices..
Personally i never came across those subliminal videos but if i had done so when i was in highschool... i would probably have been watching it all day. I am not in a great place either now since i still have other unhealthy ways to make myself feel validated..🤷♀️
I am not even a woman nor do I want big bonkers, however, I believe we need more subliminals like that instead of sad anime girls
literally me except im a woman who wants big bonkers
@@kalonacreno tf u dont
@@cyerkshut up ppl like u r annoying
@@cyerkyes the hell they do 🗣️‼️
11:28 THIS REALLY WORKS!!
I was walking up the hill while listening to this and as I continued on my journey and this part came up, my already luscious D cup has started to grow. First into an e cup then an f cup and before you knew it I could barely stand it surely would have busted through my bra if I was wearing one. They got so humongous, after adjusting to the weight for a couple of seconds I began to dance to the what is Love instrumental playing in the background finally feeling like my ultimate bias jihyo.
WORKED GREAT 10/10 WOULD RECOMMEND!!
@Laitoiel IT DOESSS 💀💀💀💀
Wow
OHHH so happy for you sweetheart !
This song is What is love by Twice
twerk
did not expect for jerm to confirm we take the same meds while I was high but here we are
i freakin love zoloft
@@jermbot stop im so jealous it doesnt work for me 😭
@@jermbot what does it actually work bc im taking that soon
@@jermbot Zoloft dolls
I’m on Prozac but I was thankful for the reminder to take my meds
i remember seeing a "chronic diarrhea" joke subliminal and i can't stop thinking about it
"Abuse is not funny. I think it's hilarious-
NOOOO THEY ARE SEPARATE THOUGHTS 😭😭😭
@@jermbot sorry but you're getting cancelled for this 😔
jerm bot more like jail bot 👮♂️
@@jermbot how could you say that jerm T-T
As a victim of family abuse, i still flinch when people touch me unexpectedly. Even though ive had therapy over this trauma, my body just reacts in that way. I dont like showing affection through physical touch and ive had failed relationships because of it. These subliminals makes my blood boil!
im sorry you went through that. i hope you're able to heal from that some day and in your own time.
Im sorry that happened,I suffered from it too.
And what makes me angry isnt the fact they want to harm themselves,its the fact that they PROMOTE it as if its something "cute".
im a sexual abuse and domestic abuse survivor and i genuinely cant understand why someone would want to be abused like do you want trauma??? 😭😭 whats wrong with being happy and okay bruh
How do I put this
I didn’t listen to subliminals like that when I was younger
But even as someone who is also a sexual abuse survivor with a disfunctional family
I went through a phase where I felt like I haven’t gone through anything traumatising or bad
Now I realize that I was really wrong
I’m reading the comment section and it seems to be a common thing
I thought I was just messed up
I feel like a lot of people who listen to those subliminals have already gone through it and its sort of a sh for them, i know that once i got away from my s3xually abusive father, i felt myself missing him and the attention. it doesn't make it alright and therapy is so much better, but in a way i see where they're coming from
I agree, it’s hard to step away from something that’s been part of your life. It’s almost like being addicted to it, because you don’t know else to live. (From my personal experience with my own abuse- not trying to say that’s how anyone else feels.) I hope everyone who listens to these as a form of SH seeks help and tries to form healthier habits.
@@roooooni you're right. a good way i explain it to people is the term "comfort in familiarity". (though, it's just my experience; not everyone feels that way).
I hope you're fine now
the subliminal community is fucking cringe
I'm sorry you were so betrayed. Good for you for recognizing and addressing the feelings instead of revictimizing yourself over and over again with replacements. I wish I would've understood my motivations earlier instead of drowning my inner chaos in a bag of dic--inappropriate sexual partners.
i hope Gizmo's having a good day🌟💙
he just ate breakfast and now hes asleep in my lap :)
@@jermbot what a sweet baby:') thank u for that information, that's adorable
I think the reason behind a lot of these could be that they already feel bad, but it's not enough to be taken seriously, so if they had an actual mental disorder or trauma, they'd get the attention they want. They want to be acknowledged and are prolly really young.
completely agree but a lot of the time it is because of actual mental illness or trauma, i remember acting just like this when i was young and going through trauma. you know you're struggling and you want help, but you feel like it isn't 'bad enough' for you to reach out or nobody notices you're struggling. i can see why people use these if they're in a situation like that but it just isn't healthy and it makes me really sad for those kids
I'll never be ungrateful for my mental illness again, there are people who would kill to have what I have 💜💯
omg slayyy
😂😂😂
People die for this, people lie for this 😔😔
Subliminals weren't really a thing when I was younger but I think I can provide some insight into the whole "I wish I had a mental illness" or "I wish something traumatizing would happen to me" phenomenon, because I had thoughts like these. When I thought like that I was in fact mentally ill and traumatized (I had/have OCD and depression plus now that I'm an adult I've been diagnosed with BPD). But I didn't know it, I didn't remember a lot of my early childhood trauma and the things I did remember I just didn't think anything of because I thought my experience was the typical normal upbringing. I didn't have the words to describe the ways in which I was suffering, I thought it was just me being "defective". So I wished I had a mental illness because then my pain could be explained, or I wished for something traumatic to happen to me because I thought that then I would be "allowed" to struggle the way I already was.
I don't know if there are people out there who are neurotypical and generally mentally healthy who actually just want to have issues, but I think in most cases (including my own) it's people who are already suffering like he said in the video.
worded so well thank u
Tw: self harm
I relate to this a lot. The whole need to be “edgy” and desire to experience painful things is very much a sign that something isn’t right. For me I always felt like an alien and had problems with wanting attention. I was also chronically bored and derealized. I never faked mental illness but I definitely played up the edginess and wished my life was more difficult because I didn’t really feel like I existed. I felt like I needed to be in pain in order to be noticed, in order to be more than just this empty existing shell. I ended up becoming a satanist and self harmed for some time. I sabotaged my reputation and purposefully scared my classmates into thinking I was possessed. All I wanted was to feel alive and be noticed. I still don’t quite know why. But now I’m diagnosed with anxiety, schizotypal personality disorder and autism, and it’s helped me understand why I’m like this. Even now, 10 years later, it’s still a struggle to not let those labels overtake my identity and control me. It would be so easy to turn them into my entire personality and fall back into that same pattern. But I’m trying to avoid that. I still feel that pain is a necessary part of life, but I don’t glamorize things that I’ll never understand anymore. I see now that for me it was a tool to fix my issues, but for the people actually born into lives like that, it was nothing more than torment.
same! shit like this causes me to fucking dissociate
omg, that's actually me- wtf can i really have childhood trauma? i have been cutting since 7th grade and i am 17 now but still struggle with everything and always wished i had a more tough life as i could have explained why i am so depressed all the time :0
100% relatable, when I was younger I never felt like I was allowed to be in pain or depressed. I occasionally still have those thoughts, although far less intensely or frequently. Thank you for sharing, you put it into words very well.
12:03 the fact that this song is also kpop... stream TWICE what is love? for bigger bazongas
We as a society need to normalize seeking help
Just want to share that trauma is actually imprinted in your genetic sequencing. It literally affects the base of who you are and changes the neural pathways in your brain and how your body regulates itself! It not only changes how you will behave for the rest of your life, but it also changes the coding of your body. Trauma goes really really really deep. As someone with CPTSD and is a recovering heroin addict, it's not fun. And if young people think this will help you find some sort of community they are dead wrong. The "community" you will find will be filled with people stuck in victim mentality who can't enforce boundaries and have issues with insecurity. All of these traits make it incredibly difficult to maintain a healthy friendship. Not to say that traumatized and sick people aren't good friends at all. I know plenty of people who have suffered and are amazing. But let's be honest... Alot of people who have been traumatized have a very difficult time being good friends. Me included. At 23 I'm finally starting to become a better person. So if youre a teen goddamn good luck. These people need to listen to positive things and seek help.
right? having CPTSD myself, years of therapy and different meds and I'm only 22. before everything happened I always thought that being sad was normal but that you can always rise again. now that I'm broken beyond repair everytime I hear someone throwing around the word trauma and depression like it's nothing I cringe. I can't just switch and forget everything that happened to me, therapy works but more often than not feels like I'm running in circles, having connection with people is so hard to maintain. I don't wish this hopeless feeling to my worse enemy.
At 22 and 23 I had no idea CPTSD existed. I was a full blown poly-addict, oversexualized incest, physical, verbal and mental torture survivor that believed everything shameful, ugly and wrong with me was my unchanging fault because I graduated from a fancy private prep school and should've been entering the corporate world not bartending, whoring and snorting my way through the men achieving success within it. Phew, quick breath. You'd think that school would've at least taught me not to use run on sentences.
I feel so much love, hope and admitted jealousy that you have such insight and will eventually be able to heal and help others earlier a full decade + before I did. If I could wish any of it away the only thing I would change is to know more about it before I had kids not while desperately trying to fix myself for them afterwards. Erasing my own trauma wouldn't have guaranteed saving them from it, it's too embedded in both lines of family history. One side from extreme poverty and the other from extreme wealth. Either pole of priviledge isolates people and that's when bad things happen.
Thank you for renewing my stubborn optimism and thank you for having the courage to work on yourselves. Watching people try and abuse themselves through subliminal messages is just them trying to put physical manifestations on the real trauma they feel. Emotional neglect is probably the worst thing I suffered even beyond the repeated sexual and physical abuse from multiple family members and others from 2 to 16. We don't come into the world with the expectation to live without pain but we do have an expectation that other humans will react and respond to our pain with understanding and comfort.
Society has increasingly moved towards living in two generation nuclear family homes increasingly with less and less contact and support from others in our daily existence. The expectations and pressures of this lifestyle have lead to the emotional neglect that preceded and caused the opioid and mental health epidemics of today. I'm not the only one to say it has a whole hell of a lot to do with the problems of our oligarch leadership and self-serving corporatatists as well. But, because its physical harms won't welt until much later and the bruising is all unseen in the brain people don't feel any validation or even recognize the roots of their constant pain. Maybe these people don't flinch when the toaster pops the bread up or punch people who wake them from deep sleep but they're still abuse victims and are begging for help.
The internet is a saving lifeline for information and knowledge proliferation but we still need to see, touch and experience life with other humans. Not just family, certainly not just within the concentration camps of indoctrination colloquially called schools. But, playing, talking, working together to create art and community and things of lasting pride.
I know it's excruciating to try and be around other people sometimes but that's often only because of how we view ourselves. Your broken makes you beautiful and interesting and a waaay better dinner guest than the porcelain perfect dolls that polite society is made up of. Trust me, these healthy people are bored out of their effing minds and crave the crazy, weird and dark places our brains go to. And not just for fleeting entertainment. Sure they may show up to all the study group sessions or have the motivation to start a successful wine and chat podcast with friends that leaves you longing for the ability to show up places consistently. But, the podcast is about serial killers, they're literally spending hours dissecting and trying to understand people with CPTSD. Obviously some of them are very unevolved in their perspectives and unyielding in their judgement of what they think to be bad choices but that's a reflection of them and they aren't the majority any longer.
People want to connect and understand and heal each other and those that aren't doing that are really hurting themselves. Don't keep hurting yourselves, you can be a repeat offender with a body count of one. Or you can go fight crime by connecting with another person and just training yourself to show up. Put a reddit thread up, iso of CPTSD survivors who are struggling not to go full Unabomber in the woods alone. Then you can have a weekly live stream, cameras covered where you just sit in the dark for 30 min talking about weird thoughts you had while interacting with normies that week. Then maybe after awhile you turn cameras on or just make it 2x a week. Baby steps for baby humans with wise old minds. We have a hard time showing up for people because we haven't been taught how to do that when we're hurting, only when we're perfect. We have to teach ourselves, I hope that helps give you the courage to start. Both of you have renewed mine. And if you've finished reading this Tolstoyonian diatribe you are a shut in, or a secret optimist too. I wish you all the luck and love, it gets better. Weirder but better and nobody has successful podcast or UA-cam channel sitting around talking about 'normal'.
Doesn’t any new experience change who you are at some level? I don’t mean to take away from your comment ..
@@wafflewaffle8529 yes but those choices and events are most often reinforcing past pathways rather than forging new ones. It takes concerted effort, mindfulness and self-examination to recognize why you are doing what you are doing and then be brave and strong enough to change it. This is only possible with support. Something we are increasingly scared away from giving. Not monetary support, unwavering wise emotional support. Hard to do with 8 sec attn spans and pervasive fear mongering.
@@caroldias5219 wish the best for u fr
11:43 it's true i have listened to what is love? a bajillion times in my life and now i have massive gigantic anime girl badonka bazookas. thank you twice
I feel so validated by the fact that you brought up the lasting damage abuse does to your chemical production 🥺
I have lasting damage which makes me produce more stress hormones, so i've basically had panic attack levels for more than 10 years without a break. Most people don't believe that's possible, so hearing someone just say that out loud is such a relief 🥺
I wasn't expecting to be validated this morning but here's Jerm with his niceness.
You're not alone, I developed panic disorder because of my abuse; and it'll be apart of me forever
I don't have panic but I have anxiety and I just feel compelled to freeze
just leaving this here if anyone wants to know how subliminals actually work: Subliminals are audios where theres affirmations playing in the background which reprogram your mind to think in a way you want. You are so powerful that just by changing your thoughts, your reality changes to fulfil them. alot of ppl overcomplicate this and probably take this as some magic, but no its just having a better I mindset. I reccomed reading the book "power of subconscious mind" to better understand how having a better mindset to fit your ideals can be beneficial.
also b4 anyone calls this out I'm not condoning those bad subs nor am i talking abt them
i vaguely understand how subliminals work but i don't understand how your subconcious can really influence anyone outside of yourself. in that case, couldn't you use subliminals to become rich, or never get sick? i'm sorry it's just that i tried a flat stomach subliminal once and it was honestly kind of traumatic, i couldn't sleep for months and kept having intrusive thoughts and anxiety so its hard to believe that they work anyway :(
@@helenaorr You got intrusive thoughts? Uhm, I think that should definitely not happen in a normal subliminal. Can you please maybe tell me the name of the UA-cam channel that you found this particular subliminal in? Maybe it's a harmful one with bad affirmations
@@helenaorr I can understand there's a lot of risk that the submaker might put in bad affs and shit, but these subliminals don't hold the power, YOU DO, so do what works for you, love yourself, be confident in yourself, focus on healing, thinking positive and acting as if you already have your ideals, I'm sure you'd get your results just believe.
@@onaplayz1651 mm i don't remember, i just know it was a flat stomach subliminal with wanna one - energetic playing
gizmos part hit really fucking hard because my cat went missing today and he looks a lot like gizmo and now im just here crying yay oversharing
omg im so sorry
@@gabi3742 thanks dude my other cat's also going through a lot. he doesn't know what to do anymore and keeps searching for him and it makes me cry
@@itiswhatitismindset im sure your cat is in a better place now ❤ i hope you and your other cat feel better :(
@@gabi3742 thanks man ly 💗
I used 16:19 as a subliminal and went up 3 cup sizes! Thank you Jerm Bot 🙏🏻😌
Wow really impressive ! Really happy my sub worked for you
lmao
@@lydajajasubliminal6803 BAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHSBSV I LUVVIES U I DON'T KNOW IF UR SERIOUS OR NOT SBSBHA
@@pix6005 I am actually xD
@@lydajajasubliminal6803 omg
Can't wait for the kitty to grow out of its fuzzy fur and grow a glossy and healthy coat from all the good care it'll receive in this wonderful home
I've been listening to subs since I got on YT a few years back. Desired hair, help desired person, perfect health, pet lives a long life, desired Halloween season etc, and never in a million years would I have guessed that the community (just a portion of it, but it's enough nonetheless) would go down this path.
My mum let my dad emotionally abuse me and my sisters all through our childhoods "to make you stronger" and "teach you what men are really like" and let me tell you, that did NOT work.
I cry at any criticism because I associate it with punishments like being forced to sleep outside in winter.
Abuse doesn't make you strong at all.
i found a subliminal titled “desired mental illness subliminal” a while ago and i kindly asked the creator to delete it. the majority of the comments were actually THANKING the creator??!! like wtf
WHAT!? 🤨 bruh some people are insane. The community is getting outta control fr 😭
a lot of those people are mentally ill 😭 just leave them alone
It's funny (not really) because I JUST got recommended a subliminal for a "yandere boyfriend" and I was like holy fucK??? because yandere is someone who is like in love with you but its super unhealthy and to the point of obsession, to where they will usually even kidnap you or kill other people for you. and people were commenting "omg I hope listening to this will get them to come and kidnap me faster." and "I listened to this and my door was open when I didnt open It I hope they come for me soon." and im just like this is insane and I hope all these people get therapy NOW.
@@Bonesforall this is so tragic but also funny at the same time... omg people need to go touch grass
HUH
as someone who has been in the subliminal community , i’m really grateful you differentiated the good ones from the bad in order to not falsely lead anyone to generalize the community:-)
I'm so happy for Gizmo to find someone that actually takes good care of him, someone to love him how every animal deserves to be loved basically. I feel like you two will be very happy together and truly hope that he grows up as a healthy kitty from now on 💜💜💜 (Ps: Don't be scared, I had a kitten that was born with a crooked tail, that happens sometimes, but it doesn't invalidate them in most cases.)
at my lowest i would listen to subliminals to feel in control l (lose weight/low bmi/unhealthy weight subliminals) and oh my GOD those subliminals were weird. theres so many about getting fatal diseases, i opened a doc about them and it was a way to self harm/cope. its so weird. even if something is for coping doesnt excuse it. explanation doesnt mean excuse
"have ptsd subliminal" thats what amber heard listened to in preparation for her psychological exam
STOP😭😭😭😭😭💀
Like Jeremy said, I think that most people who listen to these subliminals are already mentally ill. Thinking you need to suffer in any way is not normal. If you watch these, please go to a therapist (or at least talk to someone), you deserve to be happy.
Also thanks for saving Gizmo, Jeremy, listening to you talking about him being ill and then getting better thanks to you made me cry. :(
consistent era
u kno it 😎
as someone who is bipolar, my day to day life before medication/ when i am off it is literally a living hell. the fact that people think it is a quirky fun thing to have will never fail to be fucking INSANE to me.
ok but I think we can all agree those few minutes at the end with gizmo were much needed- hes actually so adorable 🥺
The big boob subliminal is just the piano cover of what is love by twice 😭😭
what do you think gave jihyo those honkers?
@@KeithieB so funny XD
LMAO
as someone that has been in the sub community for three years, i think its hilarious looking at how stupid the affirmations in underground subs look
and they do work by the way as long as you have strong belief!! they have helped me a lot x
I remember trying to relieve my epilepsy so I searched for a subliminal if that ever existed. The only video I found was a subliminal on manifesting epilepsy. What the fuck😻
This was me with ADHD I went to find a sub to get rid of adhd cuase I fucking hate it and I saw one that's said "Gets adhd[forced]" and I was like who tf wants this
reminds me of when i wanted to get rid of my tics 😻
imagine walking into your kid's room and they're watching these subliminals.
id chose child neglect
I would never wish my depression or history of loneliness, feeling neglected, or being abused on my worst enemy and yet there's a whole community of people who actively wish it on themselves. It makes me sick.
yeah one of my friends developed an eating disorder because of how their parents treated them and how they were given food all the time to shut up, talking to them and letting that sink in really made me realise how fucked up trauma can be for an individual
i think social media is awful for glamorizing/romanticizing abusive situations which is probably why a lot of teens now want that attention. i've also been in the community for years, since i was very young actually, and i never understood the "darker" side of subs. i remember finding one that was to get s*xually har*ssed and feeling sick. i truly, deeply hope whoever is using/making these subs gets the help they need, because it's not healthy. i really appreciate your take on this
11:38 THAT'S WHAT IS LOVE BY TWICE I'M CRYING
Huge "am I gay" quiz vibes. Like yes. You're part of the club hun.
From a pov of someone who was actually abused, WTFFFF IS WRONG WITH PPL. like you don't want to be abused that shit fucks with you severely. Like no one is ok even after years of escaping that abuse.
ppl use these to sh or make it worse so they can get noticed
like what if someone was being verbally abused ? u wouldnt know bc they don't have bruises
@@pawble get help then
@@ventaliq i aint got money for therapy
i used to listen to "become extremely thin" subliminals, and in my experience they do work, i became around 87 lbs and got hospitalized. but now i am on the road of recovery.
at least i can understand people that use "get extremely thin" subliminals because they already have been struggling with anorexia, i don't support these subs being made though, i only understand the people that use them. what i absolutely do not understand is the "become bipolar" "get ptsd" etc. and they make me so mad. as someone who has ptsd it is absolutely NOTHING that you want in your life, trauma messes you up BIG TIME, and there is no fully recovering in that, i would never wish this on my worst enemy, i hope these people get help or exposed asap before they get harmed for listening to these subliminals.
that’s terrible!! I’m glad you’re getting better though! 😔💗
Idk if you meant it this way, but a video just scientfically can't make you lose weight. I think the most that can happen is it putting you in a mindset in which you act in ways that will make you lose weight. Sorry you went through that tho, hope you're doing better now
@@Namelessbread thank you for your sweet comment! 🥺❤️
@@pho_is_not_interesting yes thank you 😊💕 maybe you’re right, but i never really had a fast metabolism, until i listened to these subliminals, or maybe it was a mind thing, but thank you for your comment ✨
@pixels in love nah subliminals work lol
When that video of Charles Manson dancing came up, I snorted iced coffee through my nose, that was pure gold 💀
Just knowing these people exist, make me so... Day ruined enough like are you serious? Really? And kpop songs but pianos and then anime chics crying istg I can't no I can't I can't anymore 😭
please for the love of God just leave us alone we don't want any attention brought to us we r just trying to cope just leave us alone please
ive met ppl who are the intended audience for these subliminals and it genuinely baffles me how they treat trauma like its a prize and act like they arent fun or interesting without it. no matter how many times you tell them hey stop doing this stop being so self destructive its not worth it, they act like they are the victim and they wont get hurt by it when they know exactly what theyre doing
I shamelessly admit that I used to listen to subliminals all the time in hopes that my eyes would magically turn hazel/green..I'd even close my eyes and lay down and shit
nah bro my eye color actually did change, they were dark brown but now they are obviously a light hazel color. i didnt expect it to work😭
Those actually work though lmao
IM SICKKK
Same and it actually worked for me lmao. I now have green eyes 😼
I don't think that's biologically possible. But to each their own lmao
U BE SO ACTIVE BAEEE LOVE TO SEE IT
Everyone reading this be blessed forever i hope you have a wonderful day and your dreams come true and you're healthy and wealthy!🧿🍀🧘🙏🏼💸🧜🏼🌈🥝
my jaw dropped this entire video how do people want to be abused 0-0
I really appreciate you making this video. I suffered traumatic abuse and neglect as a child and now as an adult and suffer with crippling anxiety and have to go to therapy once a week. Suffering abuse is NOT aspirational. Wtf.
When will people learn that abuse doesn't make you stronger? Abuse breaks you down and you have to fix your self alone with nobody to help you. Even after taking help, the trauma from abuse stays with you forever. Stop glorifying mental illnesses.
I just binge watched all ur other videos i havent seen yet (i was trying to watch slowly cuz i didnt want them to end, but failed) and i was really sad so a new video makes me so happy 😭💖
Update: Gizmo is so cute i love him
I literally saw a subliminal titled “get anxiety + panic attacks” i literally didn’t know what to say
ug subs r WILLDDDD bruh 😭
u slayed this jermbot, love that ur being active
honestly as someoje who used to listen to subs a few years ago, if used in the right way, subliminals are quite nice idc about the science behind it -call it manifestation, placeboo, whatever you want so you could imagine its like a cool superpower but if that 'cool superpowers' are at the wrong hands, we're screwed. (honestly i dont even know where this is going anymore i cant form sentences ffs) and these kind of subs are a good example for that: they're ruining themselves and people's overall impression of the community
Pushing the Y/N life a bit to far
I was abused and neglected until I left my parents at 16, (only to be abused by bf's but whatever) and you hit the nail, the trauma will never go away. somehow it will always find a way to stick around, and It's really sickening to see people make light of it just to make themselves feel included. Thanks for covering this
as someone from the subliminal community this is the first im hearing of this plz dont think we all are like this-
Lowkey this is what happens when the suffering = improvement mentality gets skewed. People equate any kind of extreme suffering with emotional growth but bro that's just not what happens. Abuse and mental illness set your brain BACK. You aren't "more mature". You are more vulnerable and susceptible to manipulation when you are hurt. If you really want to be taken seriously then you should be trying to become a well-adjusted person. Damn 😭
subliminals are genuinely the wildest thing
like yk it doesn’t really work, but at the same time you want it to? bc it’d be so nice if it did
ps ty jerm for posting we’re living for it 🙌🙌
The comment sections are so confusing though. I’ve seen a few of them and the comments seem so certain that they work that they almost make you believe it. Or maybe I’m just dumb lol.
@@thursdaytractiontuesdaytit1325 people make themselves believe it, it's kinda like placebo effect, you know?
Most homeopathy fans also say it works, but that doesn't mean it does
They can actually work, even if they don’t REALLY work, they can make you believe it does which will help you reach your goal or whatever you’d like to accomplish
no but they do actually work, ive gotten lots of results from them . its literally just a form of manifestation
it maybe can work with experience authors, but i wouldn't place my trust on people who are still new and do subliminals for fun, you don't even know what they put in there
"Let's get those boobs boobin'" That made my entire day!!! I just found you today and watched several of your vids. Seems to me, You're back..and better than ever! So glad to hear you share about needing a break and being self aware enough to be able to step away and take care of you and your mental health. I imagine there are lots of us, all ages, who need to hear this and see you as an example. And... I love that you can poke fun at dark subjects. I think it's healthy and helps us cope with the reality of how difficult managing our mental health can be. You got a new subscriber and fan today. Thanks for being you.
I’m into positive manifestation subliminals and this video had me in stitches. You have a new subscriber after one view. 🤣
The way you edit your videos… sometimes i think youre just making an inside joke none of us know about… like why did dua lipa appear? LOVE it tho. I dont think i get most of them but still… amazing…
so i played one kiss while charles manson was dancing and then i thought about dua lipa more and dua manson was born. i do not understand my editing process
@@jermbot omg thank youuuu! So many synapsis(?) LOVE that
You fr one of my comfort channels 12/10 content every time 🙌🏼 and your kitten is adorable 🖤
As an abuse victim who still has to live with her abusive parents, this is disgusting
the "max ur credit card one day and the next you can't leave your bed" thing was a personal callout to me. (diagnosed bipolar for like 10 yrs at this point, clearly still struggling)
My bank account on $30 and the low is soo low rn. Hope ur ok. Been over 10yrs for me too.
@@mrs.galloway i imagine you also laughed super hard when u saw someone wanted to be bipolar.... like what part of this is desirable lol
as someone who gets hit by their dad, i totally recommend it
/(obv sarcastic)
I'm so sorry. I hope you get out of that situation soon. Wishing you all the happiness in the world
can we talk about the kitten montage at the end 💕💕💕 wow 10/10
To be completly honest, as someone that used to listen to some subliminals, there's a good side of subliminals but most of them are mostly about changing your appearance, It's obviously not very healthy mentally and emotionally, and sometimes even phisically. So if you're a creator just please think before putting harmful things like that on the internet where young people could find easily, and for anyone watching those know that being abused or in depression isn't cool. If you have suffered with it in the past talk to someone that might help you. Things like that shouldn't get any attention or even be there in the first place smh.
Yes i have come across a few subliminals but all of them were about being pretty and having a good body. I find it a bit excessive i wonder if there are subliminals for being smart, academic success etc.
@@lechatnoir482 there definitely are! I listen to study hard and academic success ones :) idk if they work but i figure why not since I need something in the background while I study
@@Bonesforall thank you i will give it a go
@@lechatnoir482 my fav unique subliminal is one by nür. It’s one with compliments complimenting you, and it makes me feel nice every time I listen to it
i feel the same way! i tried listening to one of flat stomach and even though i'm still skeptical, i think there definitely is some truth to them. my problem with the community is that so many of them are about changing your body and face and say it is about "becoming a better version of yourself," which kind of rubs me the wrong way and discourages me from joining the community :(
Bro I watch asmr a TON and because of that, I’ve had quite a few subliminals pop up in my feed before since some of those videos are deemed as “relaxational” or are supposed to be listened to while asleep. But bro. So many of them are twisted. It’s usually mentally ill people being scared to recover. It’s really depressing
no because that is the life I lived and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. (with an exception of the abuser, he deserves far worse than what he did to us) I still wake up wondering "why me? why my family? " I've been through so much and now that I'm in a healthy environment and healing I still think about ending it all because of the sheer amount of shit I've been through and how badly it fucked me up. Genuinely cannot imagine any kind of world where ANYONE would want to go through what me and my little sisters did.
And let me say, looking out my door or window every other night fully expecting someone to come in and brutally murdered me, my boyfriend, and my cats... not very fuckin fun. Having PTSD triggers is so fucking awful, genuinely terrifying, and it sends you down a fucking spiral. Once again, not something I would wish for, in fact, I've been working EXTRAORDINARILY hard to try and heal from all the shit I've been through, I'm getting better as I've been in this healthy environment for about 2 years now, but I still have my spirals. I spend most of my time wishing I was born in a different life, timeline, realm. NO ONE should have to go what we went through, and then have to be thrown into the adult world and forced to do the best they can to heal from it with little to no resources like we have.
These dark subliminal messages seem like something I would’ve been into when I was 12. I had a fixation on mental illness and trauma back then. Now after years of therapy and just getting older I can tell that the younger version was just trying to seek out validation. As I wanted to prove to myself that I was sick since I was usually gaslit and neglected into believing I didn’t have any mental health issues and that I was just lazy and stupid, when actually I was incredibly depressed, anxious, lonely, and miserable. Maybe the people watching these are just looking for validation as well since they can’t possibly be happy.
Also obviously mental illness and abuse is terrible and I wish I wasn’t affected by such things since it had made me miserable and mean for a long time.
This just reminded me to listen to some good friendship subliminals to cure my loneliness thx jerm