How to talk to your kids about private parts

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  • @Jinirukalover
    @Jinirukalover 8 днів тому +135

    My mother also taught me about most of the things while growing up and I feel this is the reason I didn't fall for adult websites. Overall sex education is really important

    • @harsh1057
      @harsh1057 8 днів тому +6

      Don't U think the Girl shown is too Young

    • @SenorSol
      @SenorSol 8 днів тому +12

      @@harsh1057 Why would she be "too young" if she's already asking these questions? If you had paid attention to the video then you'd remember that Swati said the information explained to the child has to be 'age-appropriate'!
      Are you one of those prudes who didn't pay attention in class?

    • @harsh1057
      @harsh1057 8 днів тому

      ​@@SenorSolwhere would a CHILD, hear LESBIAN/GAY, PENIS, SEX, either the Company she/he has is Wrong or too much of Phone without Parental CONTROL

    • @harsh1057
      @harsh1057 8 днів тому +4

      ​@@SenorSolage appropriate she said na,a 3 yr old asking why u took Pad to bathroom, why not be a BIT Discrete about it, don't take it in front of them, even then if they somehow find out then tell them, they should know about Pads maybe a year or 2 prior to when they r going to need it

    • @SenorSol
      @SenorSol 8 днів тому

      @@harsh1057 Is that you 'mansplaining' to women and girls about menstruation?
      Your arrogance is simply stunning, not to mention your Victorian prudishness! Ultimately your attitude speaks volumes about yourself and not a modern and progressive female educator making the best decisions for her child.
      I really pity any daughter that you raise!

  • @adityaoke2824
    @adityaoke2824 8 днів тому +73

    I remember, when I was 5, I saw a sanitary pad advertisement and asked my mom why women wear diapers just like small babies and she conveniently lied to me saying that when we travel long distances to some remote area where there are no toilets we use sanitary pad.😅😅

    • @JosephK-DaSun0fMorning
      @JosephK-DaSun0fMorning 6 днів тому +2

      She didn't lie exactly, was really clever about it.

    • @slime1592
      @slime1592 2 дні тому

      My mom would tell me I would learn what it was about once I grew up and even then it was I who discovered, and not she who told. 😂

  • @Rajesh_Patel
    @Rajesh_Patel 8 днів тому +51

    Appreciate the way and points she talked. I think it's better if kids learn such subjects from parents than outsiders....👍🙏

  • @swarnabhg4721
    @swarnabhg4721 8 днів тому +29

    Although my parents didnt talked abt these much.. but I M fortunate that because of my curiosity I fell into the right Self improvement and educational channels That helped me to learn more About these topics!!

    • @divyamishra4717
      @divyamishra4717 7 днів тому +4

      You are smart to do the right thing. Most people fall into the traps of corn.

  • @vikram4746
    @vikram4746 8 днів тому +27

    We need such education, for the younger generation. Take charge before the wrong people do.

  • @beyondinfinity3658
    @beyondinfinity3658 7 днів тому +24

    My teacher slapped me because in my 8th standard I asked my classmates (girls) that what is period out of my innocence because nobody taught me & they thought I’m making fun of girls thus complaining to teacher. Eventually I get to know what is pain instead of period. -_-

    • @prajju8114
      @prajju8114 6 днів тому +7

      Most of our elders are still narrow minded unfortunately 😢

  • @palakondarayuduuppu6420
    @palakondarayuduuppu6420 8 днів тому +39

    We need more in schools to young generations, because as a child I was mentally tortured and I never knew its a mental torture. And never had a counselor or anyone I can share with or get help. I don't know why I was forced from morning 8 am to night 9 pm to study and never think about games sports and life skills.
    I don't know why my childhood was terrible and never got any support.
    Please create more content and change how society works.

    • @harsh1057
      @harsh1057 8 днів тому +1

      That is the Case with Most of the Indian Students, except of those like Me who even after daant fatkaar maar go to ground and Play anyway

    • @prajju8114
      @prajju8114 6 днів тому

      You are not alone. Same with 100% of indian students

  • @sandradsouza1345
    @sandradsouza1345 8 днів тому +5

    This is sooo important for parents to know thank you for bring this to the attention of the parents who would know how to deal with their kids

    • @IrfanKhan-dt7ck
      @IrfanKhan-dt7ck 7 днів тому +1

      Right age of giving sex education is important

  • @stephendsouza7969
    @stephendsouza7969 5 днів тому +3

    Teach your children on good touch and bad touch specially when they start going to school also make them comfortable while talking about issues related to health or body parts and give them the confidence to talk openly to parents. Today’s children r smarter and they learn faster as they grow up.

  • @shubham_indalkar
    @shubham_indalkar 8 днів тому +27

    I think it's better not to make things awkward between them and you.
    Some things are meant to be known at the right age, early exposure to these things might result in losing their childhood.
    Why does a kid needs to know what is lesbian?

    • @hamzatalib1551
      @hamzatalib1551 8 днів тому +12

      exactly what i think. Such a small kid shouldnt know this stuff in my opinion. A kid might learn it whether in a good place or a bad place, but no matter what, you cant protect them from these bad places even if u discuss these stuff before itself. So its better to discuss it at the right age, whether they know about it yet or not

    • @vaishu20rockin
      @vaishu20rockin 8 днів тому +7

      Do u hv problem with lesbians... Even if we don't talk about it kids will become what they r meant to be... It's ones choice of love life... By teaching them awareness about what Lesbians or gay kids r not going to become one... They r learning to respect that love life n respect them...

    • @vaishu20rockin
      @vaishu20rockin 8 днів тому +9

      ​@@hamzatalib1551 if u don't talk about it kids will start exploring themselves... Kids hv curious mind and they lot of questions about sex,naked they surely would hv read these words or heard these words from someone....before they explore n gets bad, it's better we as parents teach them...

    • @haricharan9852
      @haricharan9852 8 днів тому

      true fact! hope these stupid lefties understand this!

    • @shubham_indalkar
      @shubham_indalkar 8 днів тому

      @@vaishu20rockin Yes, god created only two genders: male and female, then there is Kinnar(transgender). These are enough, we don't have to make it complicated by teaching our kids more genders. Childhood should be simple, not complicated.
      When the time comes and their curiosity increases, they know where to find the answers by that age.

  • @speakonthemic5078
    @speakonthemic5078 6 днів тому +2

    Wow, they r spreading awareness to talk about sexual health openly by beeping even name of simple body parts

  • @Bharat_Powerful
    @Bharat_Powerful 8 днів тому +3

    The best way to start Sex Education is change its name. Even the Sex word can create anxiousness and awkwardness.
    I studied lot from UA-cam about it.
    But still I never told anything about my parents.
    Even still I am reading subtitles my phone volume is zero.

  • @mommynmum
    @mommynmum 5 днів тому +1

    You proved you are an expert in this when you said 'vulva' instead of 'vagina'.

  • @QueenHela240
    @QueenHela240 5 днів тому +1

    My mom didn't even tell me anything about period. So when it started I thought I was going to die. 🤦🏻‍♀️😂😂

  • @geomonabe
    @geomonabe 7 днів тому +3

    Kids ask the most interesting questions. My 4yo asked why feces was bad, and I had no answer but that it was unhygienic, as saying it was full of germs but came out of us all made no sense to me all of a sudden 😅

    • @NiraliAngel4
      @NiraliAngel4 6 днів тому

      Feces is bad because its the waste that the body has discarded after absorbing all sorts of nutrients from the food that we ate. Waste should always be in the dustbin/to be kept far away...

  • @sragdharaghosh3582
    @sragdharaghosh3582 2 години тому

    Ma'am give the new mothers a crash course on how to begin this sex education at home! Honestly.....I will pay for it. I paid at school to learn really stupid subjects but this is what matters in the end to build or break a person, which no school had ever taught us!

  • @RJKK
    @RJKK 7 днів тому +1

    I didn't realise teaching my 5 yr old about gay, lesbian n reproduction was so crucial in his life while playing with his cars n blocks...

  • @harsh1057
    @harsh1057 8 днів тому +9

    That Girl is so young, I don't think she needs to know all of that at Such a YOUNG AGE, maybe in the next 4or5 yrs but definitely NOT NOW, girl loving girl why the Hell does she need to know about that

  • @kumaranVitta
    @kumaranVitta 8 днів тому +17

    A year ago, this lady was embroiled in a huge controversy.
    I think you are broadcasting this news without investigating it completely.
    I don't want to talk about it here, as a news organization you should investigate it yourself.
    And it's also worth noting here that she doesn't have a formal education degree to teach such things to children.
    This is something that only trained doctors and educators with degrees they can teach children. People posting videos on social media to teach children such things can be a danger to children and society.
    Personally, no one here has any problem with taking lessons for her own child...and I don't know if the government will agree to that.
    But posting videos on social media and taking lessons in public is not completely acceptable.
    brut As a viewer who has the faith in your news and the utmost respect for your company, I ask that you not support such people.
    And yet it was her child, showing kid face like this.
    What authority does she have to post the video?
    How are you posting it so openly without hiding the child's face?
    Brut
    It is time to do a self-examination of yourself

    • @PrabhaKaranlive
      @PrabhaKaranlive 8 днів тому +2

      Exactly. Brut should stop promoting scammers.

    • @marinathomas7820
      @marinathomas7820 8 днів тому +3

      The comment I was looking for

    • @Slay963
      @Slay963 8 днів тому +1

      care to elaborate?

    • @kiranpandiyan159
      @kiranpandiyan159 7 днів тому +2

      I was thinking the same.

    • @deepadamu
      @deepadamu 6 днів тому +2

      I never post comments on any social media. But if i don't do that now, it will be an insult to all the doctors and medical professionals out there. This woman should not be publicized by a so called news media. Or i would doubt the credibility of this media. Agree to your comment completely.

  • @deenagre
    @deenagre 8 днів тому +2

    Teach them after 12 or 14 years of age when they start understanding things better. I see the girl in the video answering what a lesbian is; and thats totally absurd and idiotic of the parents to teach them definitions at such age.
    Children are meant to ask questions about everything which doesn't mean they need to be told it to them before time. They should be tought on need to know basis.

    • @kiranpandiyan159
      @kiranpandiyan159 7 днів тому +1

      I agree with you, you can say they love each other and end with it. You don't need to detail everything when kids don't understand things properly.

    • @Ss..348
      @Ss..348 4 дні тому

      Today's kids know about s*x and p*rn at 10-11 years, it's important to teach them at this age before they discover it the wrong way

  • @VoidStar6900
    @VoidStar6900 8 днів тому +8

    I personally believe childrens should only know about good and bad touches instead of these unnecessary things

    • @rajkschwartz
      @rajkschwartz 8 днів тому +2

      The world is changed my daughter is protected from so much at home but her teacher says they talk subject that are mind blowing and she is in 7 Th grade in a reputed school in Chennai India

  • @tanvish_patil4582
    @tanvish_patil4582 5 днів тому

    Great work 👍

  • @Sandeep-Ydv-san
    @Sandeep-Ydv-san 2 дні тому

    for girls its mothers
    for boys it's always a friend 😂 who also doesn't know much.
    me on the other hand learned it PROPERLY from an article written by some certified doctor on google after my friend talked about it after he had watched a movie he shouldn't have @the age of 9.😅
    but sex ed should be a separate topic for the kids, people have made it a taboo

  • @SirsasthNigam.
    @SirsasthNigam. 4 дні тому

    Its a good thing reproductive system is taught in biology of 10th-12th

  • @RiyaMISHRA-xk5ty
    @RiyaMISHRA-xk5ty 8 днів тому +3

    Loved the video 😍

  • @alphaparticle2823
    @alphaparticle2823 8 днів тому +1

    I didn't have sex education while growing up neither parents nor teachers taught but i grew up fuline ❤ Thanks to me.Thanks Me😅

  • @Benisonbaghel
    @Benisonbaghel 8 днів тому +2

    Welcome to the 21st century!

  • @itachiofthesharingan67
    @itachiofthesharingan67 8 днів тому +1

    As a 90s kid, we never had these kinds of discussions with our parents, and we turned out just fine. However, some of the things being taught seem too early. It's important to teach concepts like good touch and bad touch, but some of the other lessons might be introduced too soon.
    I'm not sure what else she's being taught, but I hope it's not gender ideologies...
    I appreciate these steps.....good mother

    • @vaishu20rockin
      @vaishu20rockin 8 днів тому

      Hi there's no such thing as good or bad touch... Kids can't understand that it will be confusing... Be it even parents they ask permission if ur ok, can I hug u, u look cute and I want a hug can I n can I give u one kiss... If the kids doesn't want or wants will show reactions... Now some will ask how will u breastfeed ur baby without permission... Babies hv sense feeling when an unknown person lifts the baby will start crying that's the cue baby doesn't like to touched by unknown PPL.. but our elders wouldn't care to listen to babies feelings... We never had these kind of teaching n that s why there r men n women who force their body on other person who is not interested n that's why rape cases r going high in India...

    • @abhisheknair3667
      @abhisheknair3667 8 днів тому +5

      No we didnt turn out fine. Our idea of sex is what we learnt from adult websites or misinformation from school friends.
      Teaching about all sexual body parts & their functions is not wrong. And if showing a child a straight marriage is normal, then so should others be. Its actually your bias towards LGBTQ, that makes you think its bad to tell the kids about them

  • @teenagajraj2797
    @teenagajraj2797 8 днів тому

    Great 👏👏

  • @idiotsarwar---7878
    @idiotsarwar---7878 8 днів тому +12

    Pseudo-feminism of Pseudo intellectuals

    • @Slay963
      @Slay963 8 днів тому +5

      19th century aah mindset

    • @abhisheknair3667
      @abhisheknair3667 8 днів тому

      Illiterate

    • @SeraYagami
      @SeraYagami 8 днів тому

      If you don't teach your children, a pedophile will. And you will not like that for your child.

    • @ishanirayNEET
      @ishanirayNEET 8 днів тому +8

      what? learning about biology is considered feminism nowadays? i must've been living under a rock. ( and ur user name explains a lot about ur mindset. )

    • @abhisheknair3667
      @abhisheknair3667 7 днів тому

      Illiterate

  • @lakshyarocks8832
    @lakshyarocks8832 8 днів тому +3

    Ana de Armas 😌

    • @swarnabhg4721
      @swarnabhg4721 8 днів тому

      Aane de Aamras ..

    • @harsh1057
      @harsh1057 8 днів тому

      ​@@swarnabhg4721😂😂Good SENSE OF HUMOUR u have

  • @IrfanKhan-dt7ck
    @IrfanKhan-dt7ck 7 днів тому

    U can teach her when she hit puberty.

  • @Aishyhere
    @Aishyhere 7 днів тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @umashankars2493
    @umashankars2493 8 днів тому +4

    No.
    Children don't need to learn about sex.
    You can't use child abuse as an excuse to teach it to them.

    • @terminator-pf2so
      @terminator-pf2so 8 днів тому

      yes i agree

    • @terminator-pf2so
      @terminator-pf2so 8 днів тому +2

      there is a high chance that the child will some how remeber these words and trust me if there is and actual assulter he/she will be more attracted to him tho he may fear that he knows what i am doing but some how or the other the child who is not aware of these words will speak up if u just teach him that this part is private and no one should touch it . and the most serious problem is (90% of kids get to know about porn by this) they just search up these words and get addicted to porn

    • @Slay963
      @Slay963 8 днів тому

      donkey is the world's second dumbest animal, you are the first

    • @Slay963
      @Slay963 8 днів тому +2

      sex education is needed, that's why so many crimes happen otherwise

    • @abhisheknair3667
      @abhisheknair3667 8 днів тому +6

      Children dont need to learn about sex?
      So then how do you expect them to learn about it? Their teenage friends providing then misinformation , or adult sites?

  • @benaddsouza8147
    @benaddsouza8147 8 днів тому

    My question is does School don't teach this?

    • @Slay963
      @Slay963 8 днів тому

      parents come first

    • @abhisheknair3667
      @abhisheknair3667 8 днів тому +1

      Teachers in schools are also humans and parents just like us. They are also uncomfortable discussing sex with their own child, then dont even think about others
      Also what guarantees that some of the childrens parents will not get offended if some school starts teaching sex openly

    • @kiranpandiyan159
      @kiranpandiyan159 7 днів тому +1

      outside major cities most of the schools skip it citing culture nonsense. Also she was embroilled in controversy don't completely follow anyone.

    • @Slay963
      @Slay963 7 днів тому

      @@kiranpandiyan159 not something to brag about

  • @shareka478
    @shareka478 6 днів тому

    😮wow

  • @Arun_xkumar
    @Arun_xkumar 8 днів тому

    And who are you?

  • @PrabinKonwar-q3f
    @PrabinKonwar-q3f 6 днів тому +2

    Born in 2002 my mom never taught me about these things lol..still am i dumb? Am i left behind the race...NO?. Lol these liberals and their bullistry 😂

  • @abialex1444
    @abialex1444 6 днів тому

    But in this video u use bipp sound that's not fair

  • @RiyaMISHRA-xk5ty
    @RiyaMISHRA-xk5ty 8 днів тому +3

    At the very first point of the time I found a woman whose thoughts exactly resembled me
    I highly appreciate ☺️🙏🏻 your initiatives on such a vital topic which is often being concealed by the people and society

  • @AnneX59
    @AnneX59 8 днів тому

    As mothers we teach our kids wats special to our hearts. I teach my 4 yr old Lit Criticism n Theory. 😂😂😂😂 i teach her popular Culture. Raymond Williams ... Kate Millet ...
    Laura Mulvey and Germaine Greer 😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @shafeekgf
    @shafeekgf 5 днів тому

    Don't teach about wrong thing to children..

  • @PrabinKonwar-q3f
    @PrabinKonwar-q3f 6 днів тому

    Yeah then there will be a day when mom's will teach their sons how to jrk , calling it *sx education*

  • @RJKK
    @RJKK 7 днів тому +1

    I didn't realise teaching my 5 yr old about gay, lesbian n reproduction was so crucial in his life while playing with his cars n blocks...