A Woman Thought Divorce Was A Good Idea Until She Had To Ask Her Ex-Husband To Pay Child Support
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- Опубліковано 21 жов 2024
- A Woman Thought Divorce Was A Good Idea Until She Had To Ask Her Ex-Husband To Pay Child Support
In this video, we share the true story of a woman who thought divorce was a good idea, only to realize she had to ask her ex-husband for child support. Life after divorce is full of challenges, especially as a single mother facing financial pressure, emotional recovery, and the struggle to balance work and parenting.
We will delve into how to apply for child support, the impact of divorce on children, and tips for managing expenses in a single-parent family. Additionally, we'll provide practical advice to help you feel more confident when asking for child support and how to start over after divorce.
Whether you're a woman going through a divorce or just interested in this topic, this video offers valuable insights and advice. Subscribe to our channel for more content on divorce, child support, and the life of a single mother!
Who told you to divorce your husband? Did he cheat on you, did he have a mistress. You chose to leave your husband. You can now suffer the consequences!
She thinks Asian men is a loser so good luck lady for the rest of your life.
The question is, what did she do that led him to cheat on her. That part of the story never comes up from the woman. It takes 2 to tango as the say.
Single mom is a choice, not a victim 😢😢
They all probably want to marry a white guy.
Get used to it. This is how a man supporting a wife feels every month. I had a wife for 25 years that could not understand that debt had to be paid....What a relief to be single again.
Sadly you had, i have
See how tricky the woman talked about the debt as if she didn't accumulate it by herself. Did she want her husband to pay it off because she's his wife at the time? Is that why she called him a bad name? Perhaps, this is the main reason behind her divorce. Her husband refused to pay it for her.
How is a man imcompetent if your life gets worse after leaving him?
Doublethink. It's not that hard, you should learn it.
@@QuanTrietLOLDropping your income source is stupid isn’t it ?
@@QuanTrietLOL If I’m broke, should I divorce my husband, knowing I can’t afford the kids, yeah that’ll make my life better 🤡🤡
@@QuanTrietLOL Let’s divorce our meal ticket and then see if life gets any better 🤡
@@Who_Cares300 No no no. A woman should both free herself of the incompetent husband, and get financial support from him until she finds another better (richer) husband.
Now that's doublethink.
No lets interview the husbands, See what they have to say about these women choosing divorce.
You reap what you sow….
Divorced women often find it difficult to find a more suitable partner. Many women tend to have a worsening situation after divorce.
女人要坚强，要独立，不需要男人！ 🙂
@@MickeyMishraI agree! The Y chromosome is so small and shriveled… better off without that thing.
Servw them well
no simps for women like that
波娃姑娘！
No simps for ANY women
The men were simps initially, when they married them and had to pay high dowries, pay the wedding costs, have a fully paid house and a car, tolerate his mother-in-law attitudes, etc. But now they've woken up and will not beg them to come back after these women have had their divorce request. 😉
First woman - This is how us men feels every month. We don't cry nor make youtube video to shows how pitiful we are.
Many women tend to overestimate themselves and believe they can live just fine without a man when going through a divorce. However, as time goes by and they face the hardships of life, they begin to miss the good qualities of their ex-husbands. In hindsight, they realize they should have thought things through more carefully.
Well, some of their husbands were as stupid as hell, bring another woman to the house? Who can stand such low behaviour?
The ex-husband never paid child support . 🤔🤨 IS IT HIS CHILD ? One sided story from her. 🙄
It’s always a one sided story and social media and courts and lawyers will side with her always and especially when there’s a “female” judge…
In the west it's always men fault, no matter what happens. This is China, so you don't know.
Why would she have to take on all the debt? That sounds like the court found she was the one who spent all the money.
She doesn't sound like she wants to take care of the baby but the dad didn't keep the child either so...
A woman with chid don't sleep outside. That's leave to the man.
Price you pay for stupidity. Have a baby then divorce the dad. They think their friends n family will share the burden but they think ur an unfit mom
it was their decision to leave... they took the children to hurt their ex... now it's why should he get away with this. Bitter to the end cos ex didn't beg them to come back. This is their way of begging ex to be in their life again. You can drop of the child at his place and you pay child support, lady.
No sympathy.
she wanted endless free money...and had pre-planned divorce before that😂😂😂... however it didn't go that way.
So the girl whose husband brought home another woman should have stayed with him? Not every story presented here is the same.
@@gravityissues5210 My grandfather brought home another woman and my grandmother gave him a rubber to use.
I don't know if she's in the right or wrong. Maybe she was treated harshly by her husband. But either way, divorce women in China are treated very ruthlessly. You gotta understand that a marriage certificate is in China is like a slave contract in a lot cases.
@@williss1192 until I hear the ex-husband’s point of view, I’ll take what she said with a grain of salt.
Women are never happy. This one said "screw the easy life with a husband, let's crank up the difficulty to max as a single mum"
why should you get away with initiated divorce for your selfish single's freedom?, why should you get away with making bad choices ?
They all claim to be strong and independent until they go broke and then the child support lawsuit comes through
I do support the men paying child support to help take care of their children. It should be mandatory and all fathers responsibilities. However, the child support that should be paid must be a realistic one, based on how much is required to raise a child and not how big a man's pocket/income is, like in the US. The US child support laws have it all wrong.
Videos like these make me feel better about myself :)
these women will never take responsibility for their actions. instead of saying "when WE divorced" just tell the truth, SHE divorced him. it's usually the women that asks for these impulsive divorces, they need to be punished.
Marriage should be a one and done situation. If you get a divorce, society should shunned the divorce person from marrying again! This should apply to both men and women!
It's really all about adaptability... One can call it one's 'fate'. It is then necessary for both the individuals involved to make the effort to make the best of a 'bad' situation. This means one should learn to always look at the positive side of things, and most importantly, to consciously strive to cultivate a loving heart when facing difficulties.
The price divorce no sympathy from us men.
Wah wah wah wah 😢😢😢😢😢😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅. Now you know how men feel on that grind.
If the child finds you annoying then you're annoying. If even people who are supposed to love you unconditionally can't stand you...
Firstly, we also need to hear their ex husbands side of the story. Sure there are dead beat husbands, skirt chasing even after marriage.
We need to be sure these ladies are not just wallowing in self pity and victim hood. A man might also look for affection and sex else where if he is not getting from his wife. Parental alienation. How can we be sure these ladies are not doing such, denying fathers to their children and yet screaming deadbeat fathers. Let’s be fair eh
In Cantonese this is called "抵死 (dai2 sei2), meaning "serves you right"
Absolutely zero...ZERO sympathy.
you asked for equality, enjoy it
Not only the divorce, but how do women always seem to get into debt. From what I've seen, they tend to spend money they don't have on unimportant things then play victim when they fall into debt. They don't seem to understand what living within their means is
Bet she cheated, anyways she thought she deserves better and now she gets what she deserves in reality.
No pity.
Mother love for her child is instinct and strong. The sad reality of divorce will shatter everyone. No winners. Cheap ego and impulsive decision to divorce and sexual infidelity does not pay.
This is what happens when strong independent women is pushed hard.
In the USA the girl automatically gets the child , usually if under 12 years old.Also child support is mandatory till child is 18 for whoever the husband is.
For whoever the *father* is
@@xAznSkyxx: From whoever she *claims* is the father☝️
@@Mr._Tony thats not how child support works. If that was the case then the system cn be easily abused by anyone.
It only works if that person adopted or VAP which both is under acknowledged legal agreement. If that 'father' had none of this then he does not need to pay for child support even if the 'father' married to the child mother.
@@OtoriDaisuke : Thanks for your clarification. I don't know what the VAP part means, but what I do know for a fact is, that in Europe some 25 to 35% of children, do *not* have the father who ends up paying for the child
Women love America for a reason.
They are strong and independent until its no longer suitable, agreeable, easy or bearable. Then they need a man. No thanks!
For all men watch and learn. No mercy.
These women can make money as call girl
I thought these women are strong and independent and don't need no man......hahahaha your misery is music to my ears strong and independent my arse....no sympathy from me
Keep clear fm such women
Impower, strong,independent, well education woman and I don't need no man attitude.😂😂😂😂
Divorced women are punished in third world countries 😂😂😂😂😢😢😢😢 she thought she was living in America 😂😂😂😂😂
In the US a father would be expected to provide child support to the mother in accordance with his means.
Never feel embarrassed for asking a man for child support its 2024 children need money to live a decent life thats crazy
They divorced taking the children and NOT suing for child support because they didn't need it then and they still don't, they simply want to harm the father for the bad decision she made.
If the first woman has a credit card then she must've continued to make financial mistakes after the divorce until it was too late, and also she's wearing a ton ot makeup, so I don't believe a single word out of her mouth.
13.50 wow you x husband dodged a bullet like neo
If you can't raise the kids, give them to the father. It's as simple as that.
no, they need the child to blackmail the man
Marriage is a sacrifice to self meaning you die to self and care for other. Forgiveness is key. You will find a better partner in the future after learning a lesson of being lonely and some things in you must die in order to create space for someone else and share you love and care to this person.
The problem is while they are learning their lesson they are getting older and less desirable. Mothers need to teach their daughters not to screw around and waste time.
This is exactly how married nen feel Evey month 😅.
Sounds like a citizen from the US Southeast - In the SE, we have difficulty dealing with debt.
so sad too hear to woman loosing child because of finabcial issues
Its strange how women go online and share their life with everyone for no reason… really strange
divorce, unhappiness and double income, sounds very attractive to men
🎶 she'll bring honor to us all 🎶
OMG how will I sleep tonight after hearing this poor selfish girls drivel
Actions comes with Karmatic Reactions 😌 My Grandma said *If you do good deeds eventually you will receive good deeds, but if you do bad karma will come around for you. So do the best you can and be a great man of which you can be.*
How can anyone assume theyll be more free when they divorce, are jobless, and has a kid?
What in the ever living fuck?
She is holding the baby hostage, instead of giving him to the husband who can take better care of teh child.
That's what all these divorce women with children do, they hold the child hostage and ask for extortion money which they call child support
Men are doers, show their love doing stuff for their family, and would love to have their wives do more for them - cook for them, iron their clothes, help a little. Women often are the talkers, they say and want to hear more sweet words. Normally both sides understand that the other will always be "lacking" compared to what they do. The problem is, if they split, the man will be more lonely and hearthbroken - his "soft pillow" is gone after all - but materially he will be even better, divorce rape nonwithstanding. He lost what few tenderness he had in his daily life, and he was already ready to work for it. He was already providing more than he needed just for himself, now he has to work less, but what consolation is that after a while? The woman, though? Ouch ouch ouch. The woman is truly effed. She needs to work MORE now, and without what little companionship her husband provided. No consolation prize for her.
This is the video in a nutshell.
There's only one word that adequately describes these women, the word is sick. Its all my child this my child that but you can tell they are just bitter that the ex they thought they would leave miserable and unhappy is getting on just fine without them.
ahhh modern women.....dont worry and dont regret, it is your choice.....be happy and accept it.
a family person both man/woman sacrifice many things just to feed his/her family. This saying only noble and works for those who FAITHFUL. Think this things through, don't just think of yourself. Sometimes what you think is right is just illusion and often you are one step before everything become disaster from bad.
If women were better at balancing a budget then they'd be in a better position.
If you say maybe a unicorn will appear in your house, that's more believable than a woman knowing how to balance her finances.
Stupid. The impulses of a child, and they can vote.
If I wanted to send a financial gift to the first person to give to her mother how can I do that.
I was touched, because my mom also helped me with my 2 girls when I went through a divorce many years ago. In America we have laws that require parents to share in the cost of raising kids even after a divorce. I paid child support until they became 18 years old, and then helped them financially when they went to college. Are laws in China different?
I tried sending money along with a half dozen other people to Iran to help a family through UA-cam, but that didn't work out. UA-cam took 30% off the top and when I checked a couple months later the family never saw the money. Can you cash an American check or use a debit card from America?
50-50 doesn't look so bad now huh?
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I think its a guilt trap. They are saying their own twisted version of their story. I think reality is different
Child support will send men to the poor house. It's like providing for 2 families. I'm not sure why Chinese men would want a woman older than him or that Chinese women believe they can get a man younger than her. No man wants a woman older than him... unless he's a gold digger. But then, it may be different in China where there are 30 million more eligible men than women. So if you're poor, no woman wants you so you'll take any woman... even old divorcees with children. It's awesome to be born as an Asian woman in this generation. They have multiple local men and foreigners chasing after them... not to mention the law on their side.
Do the other parent not been to pay child support in China if they are not the one with the child?
They end a pregnancy just like pooping so what do you think?
@@robertnoble6661 Just like California and Colorado.
@@poodlescone9700That's pretty much all over America honestly. Blaming only Cali and Colorado for that is like a Catholic Priest calling out another religion for immoral practices with children.
No child support? Didn't he help make the kid? Wtf
First woman works in the Gym. Very very high probably that she's was cheating & child isn't of the Husband. Hope he has taken the DNA test before paying in the future.
Chang Thunderdong claims another foolish victim.
Always a victim, never do anything wrong...thats called narcissist...(listen how much they say I, I'm, Me, My, Mine) and a child need the father more than the mother. All propaganda.
Father’s teach your daughters to not fall for the lie of modern feminism, boss babe, strong independent women don’t need a man mentality. My ex did some pretty nasty bullshit back in the day thankfully my daughter saw it all, she has seen the result and all the fallout. I’m trying hard to impress on her there is great value in being content, family and love. Modern feminism has ruined so many families.
and i'm a single mom😂
Still nowhere near the shit that women put us through in the US, and a couple of these aren't shitty women post divorce in the interview, though I'd like to hear from the ex husbands .
haha 😂
start working during the night
sometimes i feel bad for stupid people but hey, you dug ur own grave
Womp womp womp
Wtf is 3rd chick talking about so much word 🥗
14:05 so much copium lol
Diplomacy was dead...
-.- a hard to listen person , only listens when he stumbles
Welcome to a mens life
Ho ho ho.
you marry for money and you divorce for money in the modern time....stop crying. It is the choice you make in life and we don't trust your story. A family matter is very personal. you put your story on youtube, public domain for what? to make money...BS. 2 thumb down !!!!
🤦♂️
She was trapped.
simp
Too much detail. This shit feels scripted.
Am i the only one who noticed a cockroach in her neck? 06:33
This is what being a man is like, boo hoo
Who is this girl
Any info ?
She may soon become a call girl, due to her current finanical pressure.
Why? You interested in becoming a stepfather?
@@lowspender147 no, lm too well off to go for used/divorced women. I rather go for 20 yr old, single and simple minded and plain like plain yogurt with little opinion.
There’s at least one in every bar, take your pick
Wtf man, pay the child support, the kids is yours unless the DNA test said otherwise. Something is wrong with the law
Dude, he probably found out the kid was not his. She didnt give any context what so ever for why she wasnt geting child support from him, making the so called "dad" look like a deadbeat, sounds familiar to you? Because these kind of stories are flying all over the place in the US like wildfire and most of those stories dont hold any truth.
Her story does not add up.
Don't form an opinion before you hear both sides. If women leave and their lives get worse. It's most likely not the husband's fault.
@@kieragard so they'll just let the children unsupported? They are the real victim here, they are the one suffer the most
@@lowspender147 are they even his children though? Maybe he knows something.
this is why women dont understand why men is busy workplace, it to get promotion so he can support his family, although it is regretful path every men choose, he couldn't leave, if he did, he missed his opportunities to get promotion. it took a men to get the career path. that why he call her. then women all jump conclusion without knowledge of what he does.
Anybody notice the bug?
Divorce is good when you are selfish.. don't hanging around..get Lost...
6:07 That bug was getting close to her face. 🪲
Her problem is genuine...she doesn't feel anything these days.