TOUGH LOVE - Valorie's story, how she "CUT THE CORD" with her ADULT Daughter.
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- TOUGH LOVE - Valorie's story, how she "CUT THE CORD" with her ADULT Daughter and how it affected their relationship.
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As a 40 yr old, this is extremely upsetting to hear a daughter would do this to their parent. The blatant disrespect & entitlement. Ugh. Pathetic. Lost my Mom to Alzheimer’s & vascular dementia a few years ago at age 70. What I wouldn’t give to have her back in my life. This sweet lady doesn’t deserve this. A child’s duty to their parents is to ensure their parents have anything and everything they need emotionally & materially. To bring joy to their lives. Not stress. Glad she has you in her life.
Thank you so much for the kind words, we are sorry for your loss
What a great mom you are. She needs to grow up!
Love you old man. It’s a blessing to still have choices. I still watch reruns. Love Valori too. Praying for you guys. Blessings
Thank you Russell....❤❤👍👍
new viewer here. What that girl did to her mother is atrocious. I moved to BHC from Cali last year to assist my aging mother. I could not imagine taking advantage of another human let alone a senior. My mom happens to live in the same park as Valerie's new home. I knew that entrance looked familiar when I watched the home tour video. Congratulations Valerie. The past is behind. you now. Thank God for Chris.
Thank you for joining the viewing community I hope you enjoy our videos be sure and watch the restoration videos there's still a lot to be done but we're getting closer
Valerie is a very smart woman. I’m glad she did what she had to do. It’s a shame her daughter is the way she is. Sometimes when you try to help your adult children it backfires and pushes them farther away. That’s okay. At the end of the day it’s the adults children’s loss. It’s sad that they use the grandchildren as pawns too. I hope one day Valerie’s daughter will stop taking her mom for granted and start spending genuine quality time with her. Life is short and her mom is not always going to be on this earth for her. Sounds like her daughter has some narcissistic tendencies. The daughter needs to own her own problems not blame her mom. Then and only then can their relationship be mended. I wish them all the best❤️❤️
Very well put Rose, thank you so much, your words helped a lot....❤❤❤❤😁😁
Not all heroes wear capes...
_OMC wears a cape!_
WOW...thank you so much ....❤❤👍👍
Sorry that you won't be doing any poker videos again. I was looking forward to playing at Westgate in the 1/2 with you next week!
Sorry Kevin...I just don't have the BR to play poker anymore.
@@OLDMANCOFFEE I understand man. I'll be retired in a couple years. I get it.
This is the direct result of spoiling a child. Valorie is a nice lady who spoiled her child. Congratulations on "cutting the cord"!
You are absolutely correct!!! ...she is an only child and always had/got what she wanted when growing up. ...thanks....👍👍😁😁
thx for sharing - lots of bad decisions here - hope she has learned to think more about herself instead of others ...
Love Valorie - but daughter needs to grow up big time and stand on her own .
I prefer the RV videos more than the poker stuff anyways.
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Only up from here! GL guys...keep us updated on all the new and exciting happenings!🍿
Will do Jeff.
Good story, ya'll handled it well. Hope Valerie finds a nice place to live and relax.
Thank you Kris & Valerie for sharing your story .
Best of luck with your new adventures! To both of you!
Hello Kris. Im sorry you lost your passion for poker. I will still enjoy your vlogs . Watching you for years, i consider you a friend. Stay healthy!
FAMILY ARE THE WORST TO GIVE RENT TO. THEY TAKE ADVANTAGE IF THE SITUATION .. SO SAD TO HEAR... Valerie and OMC
I don’t know if I can handle both you and the Trooper97 quitting poker. Best wishes to you sir!
Wow. Glad to hear everything is going well now. Keep the momentum moving forward
Thank you Daniel....good luck to you.
good luck with what the future brings, thanks for the video I'm sure it wasn't easy bearing your soul.
That Valerie is a real peach. Kudos to her. She doesnt play games. Very commendable!👍
Thank you so much for the kind words
Very happy for Valerie, You are a great friend/partner to her and very supportive. Now she can enjoy the rest of her retirement..
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Hey Val and Chris. Chris, I'm glad you are back. I was worried. Val, sorry about your problems with your daughter. I always thought it was strange that you moved out instead of kicking your daughter out. I'm sure cutting the cord was a hard thing to do. But I think you did the right thing.
Val, you also confirmed what I suspected Las Vegas has become. I used to stay at a motel at Harmon E and Paradise. It was a little rough but it was a gated community so it wasn't too bad. The motel is gone now and I was looking at some Airbnb in the area but I'm not sure if I should try it in that area. Has the area gotten worse? I come down for the WSOP. I was down for the WSOP in 2022 and I noticed a lot more homeless on the strip and the CVS at Harmon and Paradise has a police camera in the parking lot now. I stayed at the Silver Sevens which was a 5 min trip to the strip. I usually stay for about a month. I was thinking about spending two weeks at the Strat and another two weeks at Silver Sevens. Do you think I should avoid Airbnb and stay at the Silver Seven or just avoid the area altogether?
I would suggest you avoid the areas that you talk about....look for an Airbnb some where in Henderson anything south of Windmill and it's only a short drive to the Horseshoe Casino for the WSOP.
@Oldmancoffee Unfortunately I won't have a car, (flying in from Canada). Petty much dependent on LYFT and transit. That's why I stay at Silver Sevens and the STRAT. I take the DEUCE and the Flamingo bus. They pick me up and drop me off in front of the hotel. I know not to wander around the STRAT and Silver Seven at night. If it is late at night I take a LYFT home. South of Windmill the rental cost is the same as a hotel and the transit sucks. I'll keep looking, but right now I think my best option is the STRAT and Silver Seven. Sad I won't be seeing you at the Westgate though. Remember when we were trying to get the masseur to give Christina a massage lol.
Big fan OMC. Why do you attribute not being able to turn a profit at the 1/2 NL poker tables in Vegas. You most always showed a win with the comps earned. Looking forward to the next journey.
Well Kelly, it's really not about turning a profit at 1/2 NLH poker, it's more about not having the sufficient Bank Roll to handle the down swings and still be able to pay my bills...you really need two BR's ...Life and Poker...the poker BR was getting harder to keep. ..good question...👍👍😁😁
Great documentary! Good to see you both growing and not letting people bring you down. Chris, Poker is dumb. Glad you were able to quit.
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I have not been on this youtube ! I come on today and see you finally out vids up😊
Welcome back!
I’m so sorry this happened to you. Stay strong!
Looking forward to future vlogs in your RV❤
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Laughlin is my new Vegas substitute!
For sure....👍👍
Hey Kris and Valerie. Sometimes it’s hard to do the right thing. But needed.
Yes it is Jag...👍👍😊😊
Hope Valerie finds a nice place, gets settled and then the two of you take off on a nice RV trip. I follow a few RVers and they seem to enjoy it.
I hope so too!
Great Video, Val sometimes you just have to cut the cord God Bless and you two be careful! Looking forward to seeing yals adventures
Yes! Thank you!
You look fabulous with this weight off your shoulders . Prayers and all the best!
Thanks for the update and sharing. ms Valorie did right and was very patient - but still a hard thing.
Hate your talking a break from the Pokersszzz.... but understand and good on you for not playing when you don't have the discretionary monies available. Looking forward to more of your video's.
Thanks...👍👍😁😁....just don't have the BR for it anymore.
In Laughlin you can get a two-bedroom condo for way cheaper than in Las Vegas
You’re not alone! Asian families: parents to their children too!! 😓 It sickens my stomach! Infact my husband helped his younger brother with a car, and we were out ten of thousands and then some. 😢. Just sickens my stomach.
We are really sad to hear that Coleen....😢😢
Thanks for the video, So sad your daughter doesn't realize how lucky she had it, hopefully she will someday. What happened to the condo she lived in? Have fun on house hunting adventure!
Valorie will talk about the condo in the next video....😁😁
Just to inform seniors here, I once bought a condo in a 55+ community that u can buy from $100k to $250k and it is fantastic. The monthly HOA, utilities, taxes,insurance is about $750 to 1200 depend on the size. The facilities are world class, 16 swimming pools, golf,free transport, movie theaters , live security etc. It is called Centuryvillage deerfield beach florida. 3 miles from beach and gated community. I loved traveling and I am doing my slow travel.
That sounds fantastic and it sounds like you're enjoying it very much
When Valorie was sick in hospital you help her a lot taking care her visit her in hospital and i was thinking how nice is from you to help this lady then she have security problems at her apartment,car was stolen to you help her a lot but now when I know she have decent amount of money to leave I am really glad for her and you
Thank you so much
Glue for a second story staircase. Sounds like a lawsuit 😢
Well that's the way it was originally built that's why we homeowners insurance
Wow - very interesting video. My wife and I have three kids just a bit younger than your daughter. Although we still help them mostly in emotional matters, we did help when money was needed when they were younger. Our son is a computer programmer/expert, so money was never an issue with him. One daughter hated to accept financial help, and our youngest has needed it on occasion. We certainly are willing to help our kids when they need it, but what your daughter did is almost like from a different planet. My wife and I would never consider not paying all our debts, and our kids seem to have learned some valuable lessons from us. It is difficult to imagine having a child who would do this regarding money. I hope someday your relationship with your daughter can be repaired, but my guess is that things might not get much better with all this. I hope the pain fades with the years. Best of luck to you. 😀
Well we think some of it is the fact that she was an only child and was spoiled we want to thank you very much for your comment and your kind thoughts
Laughling would be good! Be careful with those companies that buy your house. Old man coffee, Valeries is so cute! She is a keeper!
this company was great!...no problems after a price was agreed on.
Oh man, this is sad story. I feel sorry for her new landlord
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Glad to see you back on video. Thanks for sharing your and Valorie's stories. Looking forward to what you share next.
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Thanks for sharing your story Valarie. So happy that is all behind you ,
Kris your a great person and so glad you were there to help out.
Look forward to your new adventures
Thank you Laurie....❤❤
24: Y Vegas?
There R so many great areas in the USA.
Get in the RV and travel and find the treasures of this fabulous country, then settle down. Most towns don't have a tent city.
Feel safe with people ur age and have fun. Tampa has Hardrock as well as Hollywood, & Pompano, Florida... if U R a slot casino player. .?.. something else AC protects U from the humidity in July and August. 😊
Like at the beginning, Y Vegas? Best wishes. Ann, Florida fan
Hey Ann, I came back to Vegas because I know the area.
WOW. I'm sorry she had to go through this situation. What did she do with the two bedroom apartment she had bought for her daughter to live in? I'm assuming she sold it too.
Yes, she sold it.
@@OLDMANCOFFEE Thank you for the update.
as someone in their 40s that is single and never had kids this story makes me glad i never had a bratty unentitled %*&$&%* for a kid lol
👍👍....I agree...no kids in my past....
Wise words Ms Val. Kids need a kick in the ass. I think your right Laughlin will be a great choice❤
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This is so awesome! Still having coffee from the mug I bought from you Kris!
Thank you Chris....thanks again for the purchase of the mug. 😁😁❤❤
What happened to the condo?
We will discuss that in the next video that should be coming out pretty soon
VALERIE WAS SO SMART TO GET OUT OF CALIFORNIA WHEN SHE DID. CALIFORNIA IS OFFICIALLY A FAILED STATE. IT’S DONE AND JUST GETTING WORSE BY THE DAY.
RPV IS A NICE PART OF SOUTH BAY. MY IN-LAWS LIVE IN ROLLING HILLS SO I’M THERE OFTEN. I DESPISE THE DRIVE IN LA AND THE TRAFFIC. THE ONLY THING I LIKE ABOUT THE DRIVE IS MY FAVORITE MEXICAN FOOD JOINT, ISAACS IN WILMINGTON. NOTHING IN CALIFORNIA HOLDS A CANDLE TO IT.
Thanks....I was born and raised in CA...I left in 1976...I so glad I did.
I wish u would go back to poker .. we all enjoy it
I don't have the BR for playing poker.
Great vlog! 💪🏽✅💯
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Oldman coffee.. if you still have ghat rv well consider downsizing...you just might be able to play poker!
The RV is my lifestyle poker is just a hobby
Laughlin sounds great find a nice neighborhood and make the move
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Got married ? She's supposed to move in at her husband's house.
She has a new "boyfriend" and they have moved in together.
valerie is milllionare high roller 👍
I hope Valorie took her daughter off her checking account? And, established a new one with just her name!
Yes that account has been closed
Think about creating a trust and putting all your assets in the name of the trust and the named executor will have access to your accounts only after your passing.
Yes actually the house was in a trust with Alyssa named as the executor but surprise surprise that has all changed
It's very unfortunate that Valerie's daughter was in irresponsible user of her mother. And I'm sure Valerie didn't bring her up like that. But some kids just turned sour and they do that stuff. Valerie did all kinds of stuff for her daughter and her daughter repays her by screwing her. It's a very sad situation
I dictated that, and I meant to say daughter, not granddaughter
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This is so a millennial kids. My daughter is 35 and finally cut her off from paying her car insurance. My sisters son, 34 has been living with her with his wife/son and helps himself to her checking account. I would never done this to my parents.
Thanks for sharing, glad to know I'm not alone, like you said, we would never have treated our parents like this. ❤❤
Im not a troll buddy so why you delete my comment lol! I can hive her the absolute best advice when it comes to stubborn children and "cutting the cord"..... that was the greatest thing my mom could have done and i hsve the best relationship with her now! Why you delete my comment old man?
Thanks for the comment.
Good to see ur doing well OMC. Are u gonna move to possibly Laughlin too? I thought u used poker like a part-time job to add to ur savings. Jobs aren't usually enjoyed. If u get the urge to play again, for cheap, u can play online for penny blinds instead.
Thanks...yes I will stay in Laughlin, if she decides to move there....I may play some limit poker at the Riverside when I have the money to do so.
What happened to that condo that you payed cash for? The one you gave your daughter.
she sold it.
Valorie, glad you cut the cord, but we here in Vegas know the influx of California residents who stormed Vegas and created the price hikes in homes. I agree with you Valorie I’ve been looking at Laughlin as well, I’m hating this Vegas shit hole too…. Wish you the best of luck with your future and relaxation
Thank you Lisa....good luck to you...❤❤
Do you need a son?
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Has anybody stopped to think that this story may have a little more texture to it than Valerie is presenting? Her daughter is being presented like she’s some kind of devil. Perhaps she is legitimate problems perhaps mental health problems or otherwise. Valerie was blessed to have parents who left her in her inheritance perhaps Being supporting of a granddaughter, who is struggling in life, does not mean that she is being taken advantage of. I just want everybody to realize that there is always more to the story. Valerie is presenting grown children with problems like they are a scourge that needs to be handled. We all love old man, coffee and Valerie but do we really know the inside story of how Valerie relates to her granddaughter, who is clearly struggling and has problems? Life is always gray not black-and-white and it cannot be as simple as Valerie is good her daughter is bad. End of story.
You're right Bruce...there is a lot more to this story, maybe Valorie will talk about that in the next video....🙄🙄
She has tried to contact as what she said in the video, you can lead a horse to water but you can't make emm drink it.
She’s not a horse. She is a troubled human being, and nobody chooses that for themselves. That’s what I mean when I say there is a lot of backstory here that you and I will never understand, possibly, nor will Chris ever understand.
And honestly, I love Chris and his story, and I am not saying that to patronize Chris, but rather to point out that Valerie is presenting to Chris and to the rest of us, a story possibly tinged with denial
I totally understand the horse analogy, but if Valerie‘s daughter is that horse, that will not drink my question is, how did that happen and what’s the story there? Nobody chooses to be in their 30s, estranged from their mother, and have their granddaughter estranged from their grandmother, And have inadequate financial resources, and have a recent separation from their own husband. We cannot just talk about this in terms of how much much money Valerie‘s daughter was willing to pay her. That is way too cold and uncompassionate for me.