"I dont need a man, I'm an independent woman"... Cool story
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An unloved child will eventually burn-down the village to feel some warmth.
You fucked up that African proverb really badly.
@@nanasakyi6402 Same way how welfare policies and the feminist movement of the 60s fucked up the Black community
@@jellybutterpeanut1 every community, the feminist movement is just evil in and of itself
Sheck East
They were paraphrasing...
Sheck East well he kinda got the idea, so shut up.
"If you want go fast go alone. If you want to get far, go together." - African Proverb
I love that saying! simple but effective.
Mudhara uriGuzha WekwaChihota?
ehe @@town944folk indava?
That's where my mom is from. KuMahusekwa
I'm liking the African sayings. :)
"Humans are not independent creatures" we are actually almost on the same level as ants, we absolutely need each other to survive
Preach
@Cookie Snugglez. What the hell is going on in your pic?
@@Noor_Jacobs03 its a work of art and you fucking know it
@@cookiesnugglez7318. Nigga, I didn't say I didn't like it🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️😂😂.
@@Noor_Jacobs03 a lot. A lot is going on that pic 🤣🤣
I love it.
Woman: I don’t need a man!
Dude: Well if you 100% independent, what you need me for?
Woman: Oh, I got a list!!!!
Some women huh
I swear most women don't think before they speak they really do say the stupidist things sometimes. cracks me up 😂
Women fail to see the forest because that one tree is in her way.
@@MrMaiko231 kinda like most men huh? Coming from a male. This is true we say things like 2+2=5 when in truth the truth will be revealed as 2+2=3 but when you look further behind your biases 2+2=4.
I don’t need a man , I’m a lesbian
"I don't need no man." is a double-negative.
Checkmate.
The Renaissance Man
A double negation in boolean algebra
Checkmate females
🤣😅🤣😅🤣
Lmao 😂👌🏾
You're the anime character with the glasses as well...
@@kj-ng9fo but it's grammatically incorrect
I've cried when whole ass strangers have died. Nah, if my partner cries cause his ex died, that's valid. It's sad when people die, just in general. Tf
Nah , you only cry and sob for days when it’s someone you love. It’s okay to feel some type of way when someone you used to be with does die because they obviously meant something to you and you share memories with. But crying a whole bunch of times it’s not valid at all. There’s some love still going on there.
@@Lila17_ At the end of the day it's a person, that you used to know, that has died. They're gone, no longer here. That in itself would make me feel sad, I would cry for that person and their family. And if I used to know them it would make me feel even more sad, even if i'm happy with my current partner. Someone who hasn't experienced loss may not understand.
@@Lila17_ Liz t, deleted his/her comment. Strange
lethabo malatji that’s weird lmao
I don't know about that. One of my ex is still a close friend so yeah if she was to die it would be devastating and I would cry... but amy other ex I would feel bad for sure but not cry. I haven't spoken with any of them for a while now
I spent 10 years with my ex, we been broke up for 3 years. There’s no sex, no feelings, none of that. We do share a child. If he died, I would be DEVASTATED, fucking Devastated. I would never be with him again, I don’t miss him, but... I did at one point. That will never go away, what we had will never go away. That’s with any ex I’ve spent time with. Like when ppl break up and try to tear that person down, like I might be angry now... but what we shared was special at one point in my life & I did love you. And that alone makes you apart Of me forever because it helped mold who I am. And regardless of my pain, anger, or whatever that person made me feel in the end. I respect them for the good times we shared.
Because you have the right to feel that way, that was your other half no longer. And the one who had a child with. You have the right to cry and feel hurt. I would too.
Every story these days.
@DJHart ya I think it can be with anyone you cross paths with. Regardless of how bad it ends, AT ONE TIME.. there was love there & that love helped mold who you are. So for me... that’s special, even if I dislike them now. Out of respect for what I shared with them... I won’t bad talk then, try to ruin their lives, whatever.
It’s just completely insane someone would say they’d break up with you for crying over someone. Especially knowing... all these females would do the exact same.
Yeah there’s no reason to bash , you had so much time with him. I had a similar experience but I do not share a child with him. I hope you continue to stay positive and one day find someone else that’s even better ❤️
Sounds like you went through good and stable relationships but it didn't last bc things just happen. I hope you and your exes are living the best life
Some men don't have anyone..
During quarantine, I went weeks without speaking to anyone but the cashiers at the market. Before quarantine, I went weeks without speaking to anyone but the cashier at the market. I can't be the only one in this situation..
Stay strong bro. This has been tough on all of us out there. But it too shall pass.
I feel that bro, not everyone's the same, it's fine being on your own as long as you're not completely alone imo
This is an issue with a lot of men in general
I feel you...I’m not a man, but I’m alone right now and it’s hard. I didn’t have a lot of interaction before the panorama and I have even less now. Being alone sucks, just know it’ll get better one day and you’ll forget the lonely days 🤪
Me too soldier
“I don’t need no man” Niggas had them receipts ready. 😂.
These two individuals are the wisest and most socially aware, yet “stoopidest” pair I have ever seen!! They are hilarious!😂🤣
Referring to the entire bit starting at 8:00 lmao
Taven Parker Facts
Not stupid just putting humor in the topic
@@GreatRhyno I don't think he meant stupid in that way.
@@charlie7mason yeah nah it's because he said stoopid
yooo aba's anime impression is sooo spot on. Japan sign this man as a voice actor, that was incredible.
I agree 100%. The next Samurai Jack, at least.
The comment I was looking for 😂 😂
Yes!!! 😆 your comment needs more likes!
said 'Japan sign this man' - I died hahaha
Nah fuck that put him as a character in a anime
I'm single NOT because I don't need a man or I'm independent but because I'm shit in relationships 😂... Hope that makes sense 🙄
Where u from
Yeahhh
The truth.
I relate 😂😂😂
This whole ridiculous notion that we dont need each other is harmful. We are placed on this earth for each other. The human interaction is essential. Never understood this I dont need a man mentally.
I mean nothing in life is guaranteed. What if you never meet the right man? Are you gonna let yourself be unhappy for your entire life?
Meanwhile, in some anxious persons head blaming everyone else for their problems: "I H8 9E0Ple"
@@iironhide6209 No. But im not going to lie to myself and say "I don't need a man" .
@@iironhide6209 right. That's the point. You shouldn't actually NEED someone else to validate your existence. Of course it's nice if you find the "right" person, but how many people are in messed up relationships because they can't be alone. I don't agree with their outlook on this.
@@kokolatte825 No offense, but you are a product of mass brainwashing. From the idea that there is a right person( Mr. Right does not exist for anybody) to the I don't need anybody but if a unicorn comes along I'll accept the invitation. Pure narcissism typical of the social media era. You're not that important or special(like feminists tell you) and most men would be just fine for you. You just place yourself on a pedestal for absolutely no good reason.
Can we start addressing toxic femininity? The lack of emotional intelligence, maturity, and security is The Real problem here.
so what your actually saying is toxic femininity was never a thing until after woman started addressing the toxic man and now instead of listening and addressing that you wanna deflect and go out of your to point out anything and everything a woman does no matter how small or inconsequential it really is? figures. wow. great way to all lives matter the situation.
I love your "The Real" joke
Alchemy is the practice of breaking down components of the material world into pure and impure elements.
@@MiyukiSawada240 no one said that
MiyukiSawada240 actually wrong. It just never had a name untill recently. Women have ALWAYS Been toxic
That rihanna quote is CRAZY!
UM, how insecure do you have to be to not understand that when a loved one (yes, an ex was a loved one) DIES it can be traumatic. At one point that person meant something.
I don't even know my current man's ex girl, but if she passed away, honestly I'd probably shed a tear as well. Death is sad, wtf. And I would definitely understand why he'd be sad. Someone he shared 8 years of his life with passed on? I'd be concerned if it didn't upset him.
I think rihanna posted that as a meme. Literally something to laugh about. She doesn't strike me as that insecure.
"It is not good for man to be alone"
-God
@Student HannahBeatrix Valladolid I wont rob you of your own research.
@@iceqtip2764 exactly it's literally in first pages of the book like seriously your point is extremely valid and contradicts what they say damn this is deep
@Student HannahBeatrix Valladolid The Bible
@Student HannahBeatrix Valladolid Me neither, dude... I have relatives that read but not me
@Student HannahBeatrix Valladolid who was there when God said it? Who wrote it down? Lmao I love the way you think!
I feel like Adrienne contradicted herself when she said she didn't need a man to protect and provide but she needed him for "love, kindness, loyalty, faithfulness, companionship, etc" - that is providing. Providing doesn't solely mean financially protection doesn't always mean physically. I speak as a married woman who needs her husband for more than money and a bodyguard. It is my opinion that a lot people (both men and women) only have surface level understanding of the terms "providing, protecting, submitting" which is very superficial. My husband and I talk about things like this often and honestly I completely understand the statement of "if you're so independent what do you need me for?" I think a lot of women don't realize OR don't like the fact that men have wants/needs/desires too. Also he NEVER said if she is too independent then she is "useless" to him in a relationship. Loni took his words and twisted it to make HER point and I don't rock with that.
Winner Winner Chicken Dinner!
Bonus (because i'm typing while listening) the clip talking about the Rihanna meme is surprising to me too. If you had a connection with somebody and you had feelings for them and they pass you have every right to morn that loss. Again we are all connected and if you believe in things like soul ties and every exchange then people you deal with don't just wear off of you just because you are in a new relationship. And the idea that you crying over a person passing meaning you are still in love with this is absurd. People can just honestly hope the other is doing well without wanting to present for it.
Your husband is a blessed man.
@Jason Mullings Right, generalize a whole gender. How logical 😂.
She started "what he said was" and then fails to recap what he said.... if you independent, why you need my support? He included emotional with his statement as he was referring to the whole package in response to the "I dont need no man" rhetoric girls similar to her spout off commonly. I guess lazy people need to strawman.
Wow. Mad at your partner for crying over the fact that someone they once cared about died? Petty.
I'd go beyond petty, that mentality is concerning.
More like self-hatred. Imagine hating yourself so much that you feel jealous of a dead person.
it's definitely petty, but I'd be lying if I said I would not be annoyed if my partner cried if his baby mom died especially cause she is useless in my opinion
@@Under_theHill She still carried his child if hes a good dad he will always have some love for her because of that. You being annoyed is understandable but so is him being sad.
I find most females are always acting for the self. Tunnel vision.
"I dont need a man"... 5 minutes later... Procceeds to cry because of lonliness and not having a man. I ROTFL. Hahahaha. Comedy gold.
You are that all pervasive cc TV camera that keeping an eye on all these single ultra feminists after they shut the door and cry inside
Bwahahahhahahahahaah
If the pandemic teached us something is how much we crave companionship.
And the powers that be know that.
And also how much online companionship is unstable
Yep
... and taught
@@alicia_nicole sorry for the grammar mistake. French being my first language and English my third, I still make obvious errors.
@@soray88 I should be the one for apologizing for being a butthole. Everyone in the world knows multiple languages but us Americans.
When people scream, "I DOn't NeeD a MaN" with this much passion, it's like a chihuahua barking sharply, trying to convince everyone that it's big and tough. LMAO
😂😂😂
😂😂🤣
Pretty much lol. When I hear someone say that, it just reminds me of a little kid that just got hurt and trying to make it seem that they are ok, when in reality they are hurting. Like damn sis it's ok to want someone lol
@@garygreen3638 Exactly LOL
@@danil.6667 I'm just saying I have seen that alot lol. So I see you have an UA-cam channel. Is that like for phonics or what not? Just curious
"EVERY WOMAN WANTS A GOOD MAN, TILL THEY FIND ONE THAT REQUIRES THEM TO BE A BETTER WOMAN"
EXACTLY!!!👍🏾👍🏾
Yeah, I have noticed they do choose time and time again the guys were no Change is Required of them. The guys who don't get alot of dates, the women see they are required to Change/Elevate something about themselves. The guys the women realize Change is not a Requirement, those guys (get their turn)and are chosen for the Relationship? (Yes, Get their Turn! It's a "Thank You, Next" culture that's been here long before Ariana Grande hit the scene.
Well said.
@@waldlaufer3333 Thanks brother Hope all is well in your world
@@briar35981 Yes, i am purposely single, so I am fine😅. Hope, you're, too! Greetings from Germany 👍
in regards to the " Ri Ri" part of this video, I recently had a similar situation with a woman I had been dating for 6 months and had left her husband of 20 years, with an additional 6 months that had passed even before that. She professed her love and devotion to me on countless occasions and repeatedly denounced any feeling for him whenever the subject came up in regards to taking the steps in filing for separation and then eventually divorce. When he finally came clean that he had also been seeing someone new ( who was also 15 years younger than her ) she was utterly devastated and cried for days afterwards.It was at this point after several discussions between us, that she was uncertain about her true feelings for me, even though she insisted that despite her reaction to him saying he was now with someone new, she had no residual feelings for him at all, it was simply a matter of her being hurt that it was finally over between them.
That Rihanna tweet says a lot about her. I’d prob cry right then and there if I heard someone I cared about died...especially an ex!
Well her ex is chris brown so i kinda understand how she associate exes as something to be bitter about
This is psychopathy.
She has the right to feel that way since her ex was Chris brown lol, of course she wouldn't give a shit, but at the same time she isnt valid, she has a husband and kids.
@@tshaolin971 not no psychopathy, stop using words you don't know.
People say I should be over my ex after 3 years. We were married for 27 years. I am slowly healing and finding myself.
27 years is a massive chunk of your life! You take all the time you need to heal 🙏🏼
@@rukiakameel6244 Thank you very much. I appreciate your understanding and sweet words.
That takes time to heal from. My dad was married to my mom for 23 years and had three children with her. It took him five years to start getting to where he could see himself happier without her, and I know deep down he still wanted things to work out even now. You have the right to mourn the loss and let that mourning run it’s course, because when you love someone and the relationship ends, it is like someone died, especially with that much time invested. Instead of people telling you to “get over your ex”, they just shouldn’t bring it up.
@@tarragoncake1556 Very true. I am sorry about your father having to go through it. You saw his pain. Same thing happened to my Mom after 32 years of marriage and 6 kids later. Unfortunately she passed away from Colon Czncer and I feel of a broken heart as she was diagnosed with cancer 3 years after my Dad and her split up. It is like death. Some ways worse in the fact, they will always be on the same planet and if they see someone else or remarry, You say to yourself, "That was my life."
Take your time. Its ok. You’re on your own timeline.
"WOMEN CRY ABOUT BEING INDEPENDENT UNTIL IT'S TIME TO GO TO COURT."
-Comedian "EARTHQUAKE."
damn that's deep
Until Valentines day
Until they see a spider or a rat
Until they start having car trouble
Until they hit 30
Until they friends are all in relationships
Until the winter time
Exactly.
No feminists in a custody battle my man
Don't get married. Family court system is totally biased against men.
With the way people are acting now, I'm gonna stay to my damn self lol. I have a friend who we text each other once a week "are you alive" and we say yes. Works out pretty good lol
THANK YOU! We wouldn’t even exist without each other. We don’t want to be codependent or too independent, but interdependence is the sweet spot.
I think the best comparison is. You dont need arms and legs to live. But you feel it when its not there. You can do most things without them but not all things. You feel stronger and more confident with them. But at the end of it all, you still smile and keep on carrying on. So it doesnt really bother me when they say "I dont need a man." Because its true. And my response "But a good man can make your life better and isn't that worth finding out instead of holding all that resentment?"
@@sergioalvarez1919 I like your comparison. It can certainly add more to your life, so why not go for it when the opportunity arises
@@Edanasaur Well most people are too scared. And dont know what to do when they meet a legit good person. But that's because they dont actually know what a good man/woman looks like.
@@sergioalvarez1919 I think you've hit the nail on the head there :)
The portion about “if your ex dies and you cry, you’re single.”
So... I’m supposed to hate my exes? We can’t have parted as friends, realizing we just weren’t right for one another?
For real. If most of my exes died, I’d shed a tear. I’m human. I care/cared about you. It’s not that deep.
NO! You're supposed to throw a party, and throw confetti on their grave, just so you can please your emotional unstable significant other, because their self-esteem is way more important than a human life!
@@Crunkz21 lol I almost lost your sarcasm damn! It was dark!
I agree one of my ex's is a b!tch and I would pop a bottle of she died the other is a amazing woman and I wish her complete happiness. So how a relationship ends does matter
There's a reason they say "don't put your d in crazy." This shit right her.
That anime reference took me out 😭😂 we know they all lying how Adrienne contradict herself on live tv Ctfu
Rachel Nicole u mean how the show The Real contradicts lol
It was funny
I've never heard of you two... I recently came across one of your videos on Facebook during a very dark and trying time. A time where finding a distraction from everything going wrong has been nothing short of impossible. But am I ever greatful to stumble across these 2 fellow Canadians and their amazing videos. I use to see comments like this one on other creators videos all the time and couldn't really understand where they were coming from. I do now. Thank you so much for the amazing content you put out, the critical thinking aspect of it something I admire. I cant wait till everything is back to normal and bills are all caught up, so I can purchase some merch and wear it proudly. ♡
„I mean....hei is still a Man....but I still Iike his loyalty“
So she is talking down to him for being a man and yet she is happy to have him around like pet dog.
Talking down to men is perfectly fine...,now imagine, just imagine
"I don't need a man"
same woman
"Men need to step up"
The greatest hypocrisy
Same woman: my car needs to be fixed, help...
OR
Can you help me with_______?
@afrodamus true, my husband has ASD (autism "light" so to speak) and we found that out when we had been together for years already. He doesn't work, he does have income but i'm the breadwinner. It's not a dealbreaker though, when i'm at work he does a lot in the house and takes care of the kids. I'm not complaining, we love each other and that's all that matters. Sure i could find a man that would earn more than me, but will it make me happier than i am now? I doubt it.
@afrodamus not creepy at all, i'll take it as a compliment, thanks! I completely understand that men are turned off from dating nowadays, with a majority of women demanding to be treated like a queen while they don't deserve it at all. I don't associate with those type of women, i'd probably get angry at their entitled behaviour constantly lol.
Toxic Feminism is cancer and is eating away at civilization
After I left my ex I am having a great time. I used to really worry I'd be alone but now that is the great part. Sure I'd like someone to live with but I'd rather be alone than with another abusive toxic woman.
Herry Bells Exactly! And that’s the point I made. Men and women have killed themselves over a breakup or failed marriage because they felt they needed their partners (for survival). You don’t need a relationship to survive, so choose wisely
@@amateurastronomer9752 Exactly! Well said.
Same....So much better now a days and I get to be honest with women bcuz I play the game like them:
"What your credit score baby??"🤣
""What can you do for me??"🤷🏿♂️
Proud of ya bro bro we taking No L's
TRUTH.
And this is exactly what they where talking about. When you've been hurt or abused, you're going to feel like life is better without that particular individual to where you generalize it all for self. Just imagine if you didn't have anyone toxic and abusive. No one says need a relationship like life support. That's where the "over need" of it comes in. No one life is better without anyone because a relationship is an "enhancement" of happiness.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽YES❣️ I just had this conversation w/my youngest son yesterday re expectations in relationships and life and kids are set up to believe these perceptions are the norms in life based off books, cartoons, movies, and the like and not enough ppl have ever made it their business to even mention the dangers that come from believing in theses made up and unattainable expectations.
lost both parents very young (7 and 14 ) so idk I what parents do but I made sure I was def going to inform my children. Thank you both for sharing this information and other topics on your channel. It makes a huge difference having two males discuss what you do and in the in manner in which you both do 🙏🏽🦋👏🏽 - Thank you very much 👍🏽
Thank you so much for this video I am 22 years old and I always have the agency to feel like I need to be super independent while it's okay for me to actually still need people I'm very young but the society that I'm in rn pushes on young adults to be independent while we are all suffering
Yep, we all need someone. My husband always says that I’m the glue that holds our family together but I always remind him that without him I wouldn’t have anything to hold on to.
The first comment I gave a genuine aw to
Awwwwwwwwwww😢
Your husband a lucky man your a one in a billion
YESSSS you have marriage down to a science, holding down each other!
:')
I do need my man. Proud to say it. I'm not weak, not dependent on him, but I need him. Stop degrading human beings by downplaying their role in your life just to cover up your insecurities.
We all need each other in some aspect. No one was born to be alone. People just let a couple bad experiences ruin their chances at finding better relationships with new people. Just gotta accept the fact that everyone will hurt you at some point in time.
The ones who are willing to build with you are the ones worth keeping relationships with.
Needing man depends on person to person....so y to judge....as if men don't need women...bruhh
Healthy part is, have balance both be independent, but also learn to rely on each other. Am woman with a woman, i preached i don't need a man, I would never cook for a man.
Here I am, cooking for my woman and cleaning house every day. It's a simple compromise you take as an adult couple, you arrange tasks to run your life smoother.
I need my man too.
I believe we all can work together as mankind. But the truth is this you are born alone and you die alone. Some people guide you and prepare you for life then you are on your own.
We are more like birds than Ants
I honestly love watching your vids. It helps me understands a lot of logical things and how to convey my emotions better without contradicting myself. Huge fan thank you!
The name of the song at the end is called "Water runs dry" by
Boyz II Men for anyone wondering.
It's too well known for people to not know.
Independent woman that still craves attention and validation from others? M'kay...
Khama Nkhoma that’s a good one
And cry "Where are all the good Mens gooooonnnneeeeeeee?"
Khama Nkhoma we need to talk about them both equally they go hand and hand. Because of them both we have a divide.
Vince Bastier She probably gets pumped and dumped by Chad and Tyrone and swats away the good guys. She wants Chad/ Tyrone to commit because that’s what she’s attracted to.
@@quis398 Oh yeah and comeback after you on her 30's when she sees where you are in life while keeping her gonewild reddit profile and all other hoes bases to get that bad boy D while you pay for her, HELL NO, ain't happening.
As a "strong independent black woman who don't need a man" I have had to eat those words and humble myself. We do need people in our lives and we were designed for companionship. Having my husband in my life really is the best thing that has ever happened to me.
You are obviously a logical thinker though. It takes a true “strong independent black woman” to come here and admit she was wrong. Women need men, just like men need women. I’d be lost without my wife! She is the balance for me. She calms me when I’m irrational, softens me when I’m too hard, and she gives me the comfort I need when things are crushing me. I travel a lot for work, and all I can think about when I’m gone is how much I have to have that woman!
Been there girl!! For me it was the pain and pride talking. I’m glad you are happy 😊
@@vsperatos Notice I said we do need PEOPLE in our lives and COMPANIONSHIP. Whether or not it's a man is ultimately up to you. It could be a pet or a friend or any other person you value and desire an intimate relationship with. My husband is my best friend so his companionship adds more value to my life, that doesn't mean I never had value before. It just means that is MY personal experience. Everyone is different. But I am speaking for myself.
@@vsperatos Companionship is key. Who’s gonna hold u accountable? Cause u can’t do that urself 😂
@@vsperatos No..ur heart can be deceitful at times. Yes u need self reflection, but literally u need friends, or just ppl in general who will just hold u accountable. Because ur not perfect so u can’t hold urself accountable FULLY.
Oh. What you just said hits home, I'm that girl that claim I don't NEED a man. But I've based that need on money; I can support myself and make my own money. I don't NEED a man to save me financially. For the first time I realise that me WANTING a man also might be a sense of need. Cause I do get sad sometimes and I do feel lonely sometimes cause I have no one to come home to, no one that offers to pick me up when I have to walk home in the pouring rain and no one to sleep next to. And maybe it's ok to add that to something I need? To be vulnerable in that way without feeling less than and own that? This made me think. Thank you so very much for opening my mind to that idea❤ I actually feel more empowered now🙌
I love you guys so much. Just discovered your channel and I’m binging through all of it! Great dynamic between you two, and I like that your perspectives on life is based on reality and not on what’s trending today or what the “cool kids” are doing/saying!
Keep up the good work y’all!
Like the women that sing single ladies like a gospel while beyonce home with her man lmaoooo
Lol. TRUTH!
HA!!!!!! SOOOOO true!
That’s cause he has 99 problems and his bitch ain’t one
That also cheated on her plenty of times lmao
Truth hurts...
There's literally no middle ground anymore. People act as if everything has to be black or white there are so many issues that have grey areas.
Darrylyn quick exactly. No compromise. God help us lol
Everyone appears to forming their own very specific groups and everyone appears to be talking at people and not to them
you should never compromise when dealing with garbage ideologies like Marxism, communism, socialism and feminism. these ideologies consume your society. keep it out at all costs.
@@FazeParticles Feminism..ehh I have my own feelings about modern day feminism. Especially in the Western world.
@priveyful your just fueling the fire. There's women commenting negative about men as well so now that we understand there are negative men AND women there's no need to point out one as if it's more significant than the other
Needs are different from wanting companionship. When you are complete alone, you are able to have healthier relationships if you chose them eventually. Codependency is real. Some people come together because they are trauma-bonding and that’s not love.
2:20 minutes and and one of the most simple yet, realest things I've ever heard. Thank you!
Adrienne needs to stop giving relationship advice her understanding is low level
Real talk
Shes a fucking idiot.
Please tell that to my gf
Lol true
On national TV only real therapists or health professionals should give advices that are broadcasted to the masses.
Otherwise it does more damage than good.
“Some people in competition with life “ - Preach
i cant tell you how grateful i am for finding this channel!they make me think in a different light and it has changed me for the better. God fxkn thank you aba and preach.i hope yall cover more and more topics
9:16 has been such a hard lesson for me to learn. This lesson is so usable in multiple situations. I'm still in college and got a ways to go, I'm also working on my weight loss so I have a lot of things "in the oven" of sorts and it's hard to just back off and be like it'll take time.
That video basically sum-up as this:
Mrs. Independent: "I don't need a Man."
Man: "Okay, fine."
Mrs. Independent: "What do you mean fine?"
Excuse you, but it's MISS Independent 'cause she isn't married.
this sounds stoopid!
I don't get it
@@nix_ Like the Ne Yo song
@@sowhat... What song?
"Your ego is your self-image created by thought. It’s your social mask requiring validation because it lives in fear of losing its sense of identity." Thibaut
One thing that I love about their videos is that Aba & Preach reaffirm what I already know to be true in my heart but don’t feel all the time. Everybody needs people like this in their lives. You aren’t weak for needing someone, truth in its rawest and purest form.
The man in the car made so much sense though!! He never said he doesn’t want an independent woman! He just meant he wants to feel a little bit needed and to be able to add something nice to his partner life. If you don’t want a partner you shouldn’t be in a relationship 😂
BINGO!!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
They knew what he meant, but they knew they wanted to dunk on him to pander to their audience. Typical.
"This is why I keep receipts on people."
LMAO I love that line.
“I love my dogs and let me tell you why; My dogs, they need me but they don’t act like they don’t. My girl need me like my dogs need me but she play me like I ain’t s***.” Patrice O’Neal
I was just listening to a few of his stuff. 🤣🤣
The 🐐
Libra Alibaba lol same here man.
Qadree 100%
I wish he written that fucking book. RIP
I love your mature balanced perspective especially with the dose of laughter .
This was such a smart outlook, props to you guys !! Very good points made! 🥰
I swear these women are believing their own hype.
That’s what you become when you’re in front of an audience and a guy who turns on the applause and laughter sign.
At this point their there own hype man
She said; "I don't need a man, but I want you"
As if wanting us does us a favor.
I'm 25 and I know my ancestors would come from the grave and smack me for believing this political agenda called feminism. Good thing is more women especially here in Africa are seeing the downside of this agenda. I need a man. I need a leader and a pillar in my life. The man was created for this. Excuse my language, but F*** this movement. Gender roles are not social constructs.
@@Marcus_Thomas_ ikr. We don't give a fuck that you want us. That's not a benefit.
Single Women: “ I don’t need no man!” 🤬
Men: 🤷🏾♂️
Dogs: 👀 aight bet, more for me then 😍
Chill dog 😂
Hamsters, bunnies, fish and guinea pigs too. Why are dogs and cats always the go to lol. Other animals also need love.
That's why dogs will always be man's best friend while diamonds are a woman's best friend. It show how lonely women really are.
RedCloude damnnnn I’m stealing this anology
Don’t forget about reptiles and the beautiful pieces of metal and plastic known as guns/cars.
Vous êtes très forts tous les 2 pour ouvrir des discussions sur des sujets habituellement.....😤, disons clivants lol, avec un point de vue toujours ouvert... I have someone I love I'm my life.....but I'm literally crying right now..... Loni got me.....thats for this kind of moments that I used to love the real
you guys are great. super funny and intelligent. very real and still have compassion about all the situations. and always seem to have logical and compassionate statements to share with your viewers. yet y'all two still boys and talk shit . I love it.
My wife is amazing, she has strengths in areas where I lack and vice versa, it’s amazing.
It's the simpanzees like you
@brave Yikes. Admitting that him and his wife have different strengths and both need each other is not simping.
@@assainscreed1234 u clearly don't get pussy! U sound dumb
@@assainscreed1234 none of ur comment have any likes lol....we all know u lame lol no bitches at all...😂😂😂
@@skrynnskrylla3897 idgaf if my. Comment got any likes or not, only bitches worry about that. You on sum bitch nigga shit.snap out of it.
Interdependence is the goal, it's important. This isn't the same as codependence
Pretty much. It's a partnership, not a competition.
@@oz_jones I love this sooo TRUE it's about partnership. Too often genders compete with eachother.
The prefix inter is dying these days.
Exactly!
Exactly it's different. How is it that women don't understand this?
These women are the definition of "don't get high on your own supply"
Are you quoting biggie smalls? He said that in a song
My ex got mad at me for not crying with her about her ex’s death anniversary
What the fuck?
@@fmjjjjn7510 my thoughts exactly
“You can’t cry when your ex die.”
Not logical to expect someone to control their emotions when they hear someone they cared about has DIED. Just because it hurts YOUR feelings to know that they care about another human being losing their life.
Their human after all
I was grieving my ex's death. One moment in time your together with that person and when they do die it can be tough.
I know that if my mom died, my dad would grieve. If my dad died, my mom would grieve. Just because their marriage didn’t work out doesn’t mean they aren’t friends still. My dad still respects my mom as the mother of his children, and my mom respects my dad for being the father of her children. Not all relationships end on a bitter note.
Also - why would anyone but a narcissist's feeling be hurt if their spouse/partner cries when their ex die? I for one would like to have a human as a partner, not a machine.
My Ex(first EVERYTHING) Died this past December, regardless of how our relationship ended, we remained friends, his death broke my heart!! I dont see how anybody could be that uncaring about another human being, that they once loved!!! To have such a cold mindset isn't even human to me!!!
Women who shout "I'm a strong independent woman! I don't need no man!" are the same type that ask "Where did all the good men go?!" Hypocrisy, pure hypocrisy.
Hashae Unlimited
I think I get your point but wouldn’t those statements be contradictory? Not hypocritical?
@@mangastar234 Ideological contradiction is hypocritical.
Thomas Ko
Wouldn’t it just mean they’re flippant and change their mind at the drop of a hat? Idk if I’d really consider that hypocrisy, the person is just flighty.
@@mangastar234 What do you think a hypocrite is?
Thomas Ko
When you have one standard for yourself and another for others. Like if I told you not to speed on the highway but then do so myself.
People look for, externally what they don't have themselves.
To that end, the best thing a person can do; is know what exactly they need, and why they need it. To have a healthy understanding of one's own strengths, and weaknesses is so much more impressive than bravado.
I've been binge-watching you guys and I don't know why I didn't discover you both sooner... anyways I love your content.
I'm Japanese and I approve of the anime glasses joke. bahahahaha
Nani?
私の日本語が良くないんですので日本が大好きです❤️ black in Japan.
@@Tes-qe1jc 良くしゃべれてると思いますよ～！
sakamoto
Nani a Japanese Neil
6:05 - A wise man once said, when you start to personally attack, you've already lost the debate.
True
"WHEN THE DEBATE IS LOST, SLANDER BECOMES THE TOOL OF THE LOSER."
-SOCRATES.
its a logicall fallacy called ad hominem
@@goahdejen6176 it is a losers way of being to arrogant and foolish to stop.
@@bigwill9421 and what happened to him?
Preach, it’s good to see you become more and more comfortable and real. Keep it up sir
I love this channel bruh and the topics y'all cover are great. I can't wait to see y'all get to a million subscribers 🤙🏾
You two must be protected by any means necessary.
Prep's Casket Omg
Just like majority of these women showing body on IG are actually lonely..
Attention is their "currency".
FoshoGotFlow the irony is they make those posts to get validation from men
@@folatooreal8582 Watch them yell "I don't doo dis fo men i do dis fo mahself/to piss udda wahmen".
FoshoGotFlow yes! I’m a woman and I agree.
FoshoGotFlow not really. They only get Lonely when they get older
You both have fantastic chemistry on camera. Great video!
I really dont need anyone, I've been happier single
No maybe you are more comfortable alone ...
YOU ARE DEFINITELY NOT HAPPY . You know the truth deep down , look inside yourself and tell the truth
@@curtiscj3087 that I've been happier single? Lmaoooo
@@whyme3546 I love being surrounded by friends, it's awesome but being in a couple type relationship is terrible. I've experienced nothing but stressful things, I've been better single. I was single for 19 years of my life and was perfectly fine 😂😂 I think I can do it again
All-female talk shows are always a huge cringe fest tbh
Bro that profile pic wtf
1000 %percent agree
marsnz thank you 🙏🏽
Lol scrolled past the comment then came back to confirm what I saw
@@YungGeeno It's the album cover of Windowlicker by Aphex Twin
“It’s not about being better; he’s still a man.”
Tf is that supposed to mean lol?
She don’t even know lol, they all retarded
I thought it was just me wondering... she tried to make some deep philosophical commentary and fked it right up from the get go lol
Alyssa Arbertha it’s in reference to him being white because so many people dragged her for swirling... because well BM as a collective suck
@@auntieruckus6444 yea but not as bad as bw
@@auntieruckus6444 okay...but you don't need us anyway right? So you gonna be good regardless 👌
Asserting/acquiring extreme independence is often a byproduct of having trusted and counted on others, only to have been grately dissapointed and/ or the absence of an individuals altogether for the opportunity to try. Some of us truly are independent based on acceptance. Meaning, it just is what it is. We don't "long" for bonding, but it's nice/cool if it shows up. I do not believe that in this life we are entitled to companionship or "romantic" love, nor that without it, life is "unfulfilling". I personally just like knowing that in a zombie apocalypse, I can hold my own solo bolo on all aspects. If someone wants to join forces, cool. But👏ya👏 can't👏be👏a👏liability.👏
You guys making me laugh. Lovin the videos by the way,Keep em comin.Peace&Love
"A womans logic is based on her emotional state at the time."
Facts Kellerman yo this sf true especially when we on pms or that time of the month 😭😂😂
A lesson every man has to learn
Logic is king. Emotions are queen.
Facts
Exactly, and men who exhibit this trait are very weak men.
I need my man and my man needs me.. We are each other's help mate and partner... He allows me to be independent in my dreams and personal goals while maintaining a healthy level of support.. And vice versa!!
@Mr F n N ???
@Mr F n N.. I guess I'm gay for my man then 😂😂😂😂
@@ashyroachking3211 why are you so hostile?? 😂😂😂 you didn't have to call me a stupid ass black woman just so you can feel good about pulling out your virtual red pen.. Sheesh 😂😂😂
@@thundakat2556 😂😂😂😂😂
@@ashyroachking3211 lmao u ok?
When ya’ll listened to Boys to men... so much swoon! My mom got serenaded by them and given a rose. I loved the 90’s and miss them more than I thought I would.
I was bitter at one point, I saw Women with happy homes and I wanted that, but I was proud and would say I don’t need a man so much that I started believing I was going to be alone. I was not making good choices so I was not getting good results, I eventually realized I had to change and took a hard look at myself that let me see I had a great man right in front of me. We have been married 7 years now , he is my best friend and I don’t see my life without him, I thank God for him.
I’m African. I learned at an early age that life’s also about interdependence. It opens us up to different people’s perspectives. I mean bro. It makes us more caring, loving and understanding to a diverse group of people.
No man is an island.
No man is an island, except the Island of Man but that is actually an island, not a man.
Sorry, had to make a joke. What you said is true, I am just a doofus.
@@oz_jones I still laughed, good on you🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@oz_jones I looked at the original comment and was like inspired and went to replies to see if he said anything else and this cracked me up
I'm African.
Nobody asked
@@oz_jones 😭
Ouf this raising kids in single homes is not helping.
It truly isn't
@@Sp1n1985 # they can when it's time for child support.
@@redboots2499 pretty sure that's the publicly appointed lawyer who read the by laws
@@Sp1n1985 # yeah you right.
This guys teach, entertains, put out their opinions 🙌🙌
Love it 🔥
I swear yall are like my brothers in my head!!! I love yall!!
That blow up doll scene is LEGENDARY 😂😂😂
“I don’t need a man” = “hold me back” 😂
Surgical precision on that analysis 💯
And the boyztomen tribute at the end had me creasing
Mannn... Why did I just recently find these two?? I've been binge watching the backlog for real
In my opinion, you never truly get over someone. You just learn to care for others more. It's okay for someone to cry over an ex because they built some sort of emotional connection together.
I was done after the anime reference 😄
Ikr😂
As was I!
I wasn't expecting that
Aba were you talking to me?
Na
Yes he wasss girlll lol
@@AbaNPreach Whoooo are you talking to? :D
@@sermilion_audio That was a great episode
@@AbaNPreach lmao
Y'all actually had me singing the song 😅...
The vibe you 2 push is amazing