It's just heartbreaking, and makes you so angry, what is WRONG with our healthcare system that blantant symptoms like BLEEDING, and PAIN, get fobbed off and ignored!!?? WTF!!!
Doesn't seem real does it? I still can't believe it x she can hear you x I hope you all speak to her like I do xxxx When you're down or feeling overwhelmed....stop...ground yourself....find something tiny in your surroundings and smile xxxx
@TheDogPooPro No, it doesn't seem real🥺 especially because I've been watching you 2 beautiful ladies from the start. I just picture Mom & Sooz walking in hand in hand on that beach..🫶🫂🫶
Makes me smile when Sooz manages to talk to us. Sending strength and love to Sooz, Emma, and Mom. Thank you for your important message Sooz. You are saving lives
I know this was recorded months ago. But since this the first time I've seen it, I Must reply. Yes! Your message has been, is now, and will continue to, Save Lives!!! We do need to advocate for ourselves, we know our "normals" and deserve to be taken seriously when we know something is off You and your sister and all your loved ones have my prayers! From Vermont USA 🙏 ❤
They should be held accountable individually, everyone that ignored you and didn't do their job properly, everyone should be facing abuse charges, This is what is wrong, they don't care because they don't have to because they are covered under the umbrella of the NHS, every time we here about people like you, not being listened to and being left in agony and now facing terminal cancer, they shrug it off, if a formal complaint is made, you will receive a standard letter from NHS apologising and that's it, they are off scot free, maybe if they were held accountable individually they would do their job properly. In any other job or area of life, if you deliberately were the cause of this harm to anyone, you'd be going to jail. ❤❤
I agree with you if you are ignored find a new healthcare provider. Everyone knows their own body and what is normal, I’d get a lawyer. God bless you! You deserve a miracle.
Sooz, I canot believe that they (medical staff) are disregarding your symtoms … it’s horrific. There are no words to say really, or actually, there are a sh*t load of them to scream out… 😔. Thank you for sharing these messages with your YT community. I am so very sorry to hear your journey, but I fully understand why you so graciously share with us here, and hopefully, your voice will resonate very loudly with those that need to hear it 😒
I think we all need to accept this is the new normal. The NHS is on its last legs by the looks of it. I believe it will be people with private healthcare that will get the help.
I saw mentioned on another channel when fighting to be assessed and ignored or refused treatments - if you ask your go for a referral and they refuse ask them to not your request and their response on your medical notes as this can trigger their response or concern for future legal action and may prompt them to support your requests. It’s worth a shot. Much love to both of you xxx
Emma, it’s okay to be afraid of needles or whatever else in your life is an issue for you. It’s happening to you and it’s very real. You can’t compare to Sooz or anyone else as if it bothers you, it bothers you! 😘. Sooz, you are a strong, strong woman! 💪🏻. In America where our health care is quite different from yours the message here for us has been to be your own advocate, to speak up, to question, to find a different doctor or health center if you’re not happy. Your message will reinforce that as so many are afraid to challenge a doctor. But the fact is, they don’t know everything and the only one who will fight for you is you. I pray they get your pain meds sorted and get you comfortable soon! ❤❤❤😘😘😘🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
This message is for the beautiful Sooz. I love seeing you on video and pray you are always this up beat and pain free.Really hope we get to see of you here. As a doctor I am mortified by your story. I just cannot believe how your symptoms were ignored-this is seriously reprimandable! You cannot let this go! I am livid!!!!!! I am aware as humans we make mistakes but to scoff at your major symptoms and making you feel belittled is not correct at all. My father a Surgeon, advised me to never ignore what a patients is saying -they are more likely correct and know themselves more than we would know them. With even one symptom - we screen patients-and in fact I am working to add in more cancer screening programs, that are not routine-especially following mRNA vaccines I am fairly new to this channel but would like to make a small suggestion if you permit me to and forgive me for butting in. I am sure you might have looked into what I am going to mention and its not for cure but for prolongation and better living without or less pain etc. But have you discussed Immunotherapy. for Metastatic cancer . It is still considered experimental but are encouraging for quality and other numbers-again not for cure. If you have gone through all that with the GP or Specialist I apologise for bringing this up. On a more Dharmic note, and only because I know certain words bring comfort and as you say you believe in all Gods, may i give my two cents. As a Hindu-we say God is the Universe and exists within us, so the energy within us-ie the soul and the consciousness never dies,as neither does the Universe. Depending on our Karmic actions we are either reborn mostly in the same family or circle of people to pay back and return etc with those we deal with in our lives or if perfectly led lives and desire to break free from the circle of rebirth, to become one with and going back to Bhagwanji (God) who started it it all with the energy sound Om or Aum. So my dear girl. Fight as much as you can-but with fearlessness and internal peace.Lord Krishna says 'what have you to fear when I am (or your God of belief) with you at all times-brush aside all fears and be free from the attachment of fear and anger and become absorbed in My (God's) existence and warmth, since one can only change or end the physical form but the soul is immortal. Lord Vishnu had to come down as human forms and go through sufferings to teach humans about handling life via the BhagwadGita and Ramayana or Mahabharat ( presenting as his reincarnations in the form of Lord Ram, Krishna and Buddha and many more) I really hope this doesn't offend you but encourage you instead. Loads of love and do look into anything that can help your living.( including meditation, turmuric and curcumin or Kada and other Ayurvedic teas that are anti inflammatory and might proved some help with the pain situation. Apologies for the long message. Praying for you
Sooz dear can you tell us the story o how you found out you had cancer? What stage? Can you please let me know. All my prayers for you my dear Sooz, love and hugs 💖🤗🤗🤗🤗
@@annettepurtle3757 I went to the gp multiple times over a year or more. Telling them all my symptoms. I keep getting told they were normal and to go home. They have me naproxen for the pain and tranexamic acid for the bleeding and basically left me to deal with it. It remained unmanageable so I kept going back to the GP, and kept being told to go home. I eventually broke down, I nearly collapsed wuthering the pain, crying and begging I asked for help again. They booked me an ultrasound, who told me it was a big fibroid. I went back to the gp soon after because my symptoms were still horrendous and asked what I need to do to fix this fibroid. At the same time, I asked, 'could this be cancer'. The gp had a look at my cervix and immediately said she was sorry and booked me an urgent next day appointment with the hospital gynecology department. I was then told it was terminal, stage 4, metastatic, had scans etc and found out it was everywhere. And here I am 😢
No Emma you aren’t crying because you got a blood test, you are crying because of the reason WHY you are having that blood test, eg preparation for your laparoscopy and hysteroscopy , which is to find out if you have cancer. Also being at the hospital is triggering for you because of everything going on with Sooz. So please don’t play down your fears and anxiety…..you are going through such a difficult time. I’m just glad you can talk to us all, we are here for you. I just want to give you a hug and make everything ok…..it breaks my heart to see you upset 💕💕
Love you both so much 💗 Fantastic message Sooz, and so bloody true. I have serious health issues from not being seen by my GP for two years because GPs weren't seeing their patients because of covid. I have long covid which is debilitating but I've felt that there's something else going on which the long covid has masked. Over and over again I told the GP but was ignored. Eventually, after begging to be referred to a neurologist I've had nerve conducting and emg tests which showed very bad significant nerve damage to my legs and feet which needs further investigations. I'm left disabled, can only walk a few steps and totally urinary incontinent because of nerve damage. I'm 53 and a single Mum to five children. Three are adult and have left home, and two minors who live with me. I now have carers come in twice a day to support me and my children, who are Young Carers themselves. Emma, I'm so sorry you got so upset at hospital today. It's hardly surprising sweetheart and I'm glad you eventually got some numbing cream. Please never feel guilty, you have no reason to be. You're a wonderful sister, the best. I hope you both have a peaceful evening 😘😘 Oh, and my old boy doggy, Timmy, does what Dave does. We call it 'the looky thing' 😂😂 Timmy yips as he does it 😂 Much love as always 💗💜💗💜
I hope they take you seriously x I fought illness all through my 30's, 15 years passed and I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. I honestly thought that was my lot. When I got the cancer news I was floored 😢 Keep fighting, tell them my story, don't be ignored xxx
@@suziegarner5891 they are doing now, thank you Sooz. My sister has MS and I still had to beg for the tests. I will tell your story to my consultant, my next appointment is this month on the 28th. You and Emma are on my mind constantly. Much love 💗💜💗💜
It is insane the way none of these “health care workers “ are so callous. They just don’t listen. I’m so sorry this has happened to you both. Sending all the love and prayers to you both
Wow. I thought I had acid reflux with IBS, but worried of cancer. I’m 39 years old. My PCP sent me directly to get ultrasound of my kidneys, liver, gallbladder, and stomach. Then sent to a gastro who did a endoscopy and colonoscopy, no questions asked. I then had those procedures and was sent to my gyno and had 2 ultrasounds of my cervix, ovaries, etc. full bloodwork as well. I was cleared of everything and formally diagnosed with GERD. I am American and pay for insurance. Sometimes I hate paying my bill but paying has required these doctors to perform any and all test I demand and if they don’t, I go to a doctor that will.
Suzie your words are heard here in Canada sweetheart. I will definitely be telling everyone I know about your story. You must be your own advocate ! Everyone spread the word. ❤
After watching this video Sooz I’m going to push harder and advocate more on my own behalf at my doctor. I have been having stomach pains and terrible bowel movements for a year and a half. I keep hearing my bloodwork is good and the ultrasound I had is good just change my diet. I’ve tried changing my diet and it’s still painful. Thank you for talking about this. ❤️
It’s disgusting that these professionals go on a hunch. It’s not right. And stop thanking us. We are all here cause we care about you both. All our love, from Australia! ❤
Our health system is broken and unaccountable. A good friend of mine with a history of cancer went for investigations for problems swallowing and eating and was told by the radiologist that she had Barrett’s oesophagus a kind of acid reflux. Two years later it killed her, it was of course cancer that was eventually diagnosed too late for any treatment to be effective. I love your vlogs as they are a real journal of the realities of being ill in the UK in 2023. Take care both of you and sending big hugs and love. Xxx
Sooz….I admire your willingness to share your conditions when you don’t feel like it. I admire you for not sparing us the anger you feel….we should all be so transparent. We know you’re talking life or death here. Dear Jesus, our Lord and Savior, please keep your healing hands on our Sister Sooz, carry her through this storm with peace, dignity and the love only You can provide. I praise You for allowing Emma to be by her side as much as possible and necessary. I thank You for allowing me to get to know these beautiful twins that you created in your image. Please be with them through all the pain, both physical and emotional. In Your name, I give you praise for Your promise of new mercies every day. Amen.🙏🏻💕💐🌹
Aww sooz ,you look beautiful, the Doctors have alot to answer for , they told my mom she was suffering from IBS ,and like you she knew something wasn't right after many Doctors trips ,she was finally diagnosed with ovarian cancer , it was to late by this time ,absolutely heartbreaking , she handled it amazingly its harder for family as feel so useless, the only way for you to cope is to have positive thoughts, I absolutely no how hard this is , I don't no much about your situation, I can see a strong woman ,I really think these Doctors need more training or something, this is all so wrong, to many lives are being lost , im sure you have helped other women by doing all this ❤
Emma and Sooz, You shouldn't be going through any of this. It makes me so angry😠 I suffer with Chronic Pancreatitis, I've had it for 25 years and I have had some awful doctors over them 25 years😮💨 It's an awful feeling being pushed away and ignored, especially when you know that something isn't right with YOUR OWN BODY. I have so much love and respect for you both for documenting your journey, which is going to help others not to take NO for an answer. Much love to you both and your family❤🥰 and your gorgeous fur babies🐶🐕🐰🐇 I have 2 Chihuahuas Poppy and Pedro, and a German shepherd called Kelby. So I absolutely share your love for animals❤️🥰 xxxx
Omg you are both unbelievable. Such beautiful, caring, brave and talented girls! It’s actually difficult to put into words how it feels to be included in both of your lives xx 😘
Oh sweetheart, no need whatsoever for guilt. You've got to take care of you as well, and you are. We love you and Sooz and keep the prayers and good fairy vibes flowing for you!
Ooh sooz you sure gave them a piece of your mind well done that was a damn good painkiller!! It was lovely to see a little bit of you today x hope you more brighter days ahead with lovely Emma x
Emma your doing amazing u and sooz are amazing strong ladies. Sooz is right about drs and concerns my mum had a wart and kept freezing it for 6 years was size off a rugby ball when something was done. Found out was cancer she lost her leg is now cancer free, then she lost her dad few years ago to cancer another neglect. Keep fighting the love and support you give each other is amazing xxxx
My god Sooz what a beautiful soul you are .I wish I had a magic wand to change everything 😢😢 I hope we Soozies soldiers can change the way we are fobbed off and yes I am 1 of them, by telling your story to the professionals things can change love you both keep fighting xx
Emma your fears are as real as anyone else’s and do not forget that. You are not the only one believe me. Do what you need to to make yourself comfy. We all care about BOTH of you ok. God bless you and your family. ❤ Susie morphine is not the best for pain. Tell your doctor so they can change to whatever works, no one in 2023 should be in any pain! YES WE ALL PRAY FOR YOU SUSIE ❤
Sooz you are a hero in my eyes. You are going to help so many people speak up on their own behalf and make the health care industry listen to what they have to say. God bless you. I have been praying for you since I found this channel a couple of weeks ago and I will continue to pray for you and your family and friends.
Sooz I agree with you. If one won't listen you have to keep fighting. You know what is normal for your own body. I was told I was going through menopause, and brushed off. After becoming anemic, and finally finding someone to listen to me. I was told it could be a fibroid, but because of family history of cancer I pushed to get checked. If you don't speak up the medical professionals will just push you off.
I don't think I have ever seen two more beautiful people you both just radiate goodness .x my dad was being seen fir over two years white cell count through the roof had squamous removable on face when he voiced his concerns told not to get obsessive about cancer . When they eventually looked he had lung cancer and 6 weeks left . We were too shocked to fight so I have nothing but admiration for you both x
Thank you for sharing your journeys. It is very frustrating to have doctors not listen. There is no reason in the 21st century that woman still are not listened to.
I'm furious for you both ladies. I'm furious that doctors don't listen, I'm furious that they gaslight. They treat people like an inconvenience. I know they aren't all like that but far too many are. These are educated well paid people, its not good enough. Kindest thoughts to you both xx
It really upsets me that the doctors are so uninterested in delving deeper into their patients symptoms and sending them for whatever test are necessary to come to a conclusion. I lost my brother at 26 years of age due to a brain tumor that they said was middle ear infection, my brother went for a biopsy in January 2018 and then had difficulty with his speech. By September 2018 he was gone.
Your doctor and his people are criminals, Suzie! They should lose their medical license for this, I am so sorry they allowed this to happen. I will keep praying and I’ll share this video. ❤
So lovely to see you again Sooz! You looked beautiful 😊. The message you gave was so powerful, I’m sure the GPS won’t know what’s hit them in the morning, all those women that have been fobbed off (myself included) will be knocking their door down at 8.30 🤣😂. You are both doing a fantastic job at making a difference. Emma I really enjoyed watching your day to day routine and was surprised to hear you had bariatric surgery! I’m looking forward to watching that video but please don’t rush, we know you have far more important things to focus on. Keep up the great work, sending you love from Sheffield xx
Sooz, kudos to you through your pain and discomfort to be able to speak so eloquently and passionately about what happened to you ❤ Emma I hate needles too, blood test ones but I’m ok with vaccinations and even had acupuncture 🤷♀ just being at the hospital makes you emotional, no need to apologise my lovely. Hope you both have a lovely evening together
😊Hi Emma - I have a needle phobia too and it's often put me off accessing medical care and intervention. I decided to take some power/control back and try and work through it, used numbing creams on several occasions when needing injections, I also found listening to music helped too. I wouldn't say i am 'cured' though and have been putting off some checks/appointments. You're videos are really helping me see how I must go to these and make sure everything is ok as having symptoms. I agree that numbing cream should be available in every pharmacy, most especially at GP surgeries/hospitals. I've always had to order online.Thank you for being such an advocate & support❤😊 I will continue to pray for you Sooz 🙏
Emma don't minimize how you feel hon. It's okay. Wr all have something we're afraid of and crap we're going through. Don't feel guilty ad we are definitely here for you All.. our hearts are with you both and your families 💜❤
Inspite of everything that Sooz is having to endure, she looks beautiful. It makes my blood boil listening to how doctors can fob off patients with legitimate symptoms, it happens all over the world I fear. There are very few dedicated Doctors who will take the time to address patients concerns and follow up or make referrals to a specialist. Too bad you can't sue for medical malpractice but spreading the word far and wide, as you both are doing, is beyond valuable. Bless you both, you are Angel's. Love and BIG hugs to you both. 🤗 ❤
Fabulous Sooz .... Rant on ... ! We hear you girls .. you're amazing you really are .. have a restup lovedup time together .. love always ❤️❤️🙏 ps....it took 2years to be diagnosed n major organs removed because of it And I'm still floored by no change! 💋💋
You girls are amazing about getting the word out to never quit advocating for your self. Sooz you really inspire me and are so beautiful. Saying prayers for the both of you. Much love ❤
Oh my, I didn't realize you were ill as well! I'm so angry on your behalf! So good of you to spread the message to whoever will listen. Prayers for you both.
Hopefully it's nothing to worry about but I don't want to be ignored like Sooz was. I'm pushing through the NHS for all the other women here in the UK so that can all be heard. I want to stand up and say....I got the help I pushed for so that others hopefully can too 😫💕
Sooz you are absolutely beautiful even in pain!! I hate hearing about your pain, it’s just not okay. Thank you for sharing your story with all of us, it WILL help. Always praying for you all!!!
Emma everyone is afraid of something no need to be ashamed of it I am terrified of thunder and lightening it's ridiculous really I turn into a five yeard old!! lol!. Thank you both of you your both so beautiful and Sooz I do pray every night for you before I go to sleep, so sorry what happened to you I am sure you have saved some lives!. God Bless you both 🤗🤗xx
Oh Emma you’re crying for Sooz and you’re crying for yourself. I want to give you both a big warm hug and praying everything will be okay with your health Emma. Sending lots of love 💕 ❤
Honestly girls you are THE BEST!!! It’s so incredible to see how much you support each other and how strong your bond is- you’re both the best fighters and should be so proud ❤️ thank you so much for continuing to spread awareness and helping others on the same journey who have also been ignored and those who are battling with their GP’s to be seen for the right reasons and symptoms as Sooz so kindly mentioned 🙏🏼 you are such an inspiration and I can not thank you enough for sharing your story of love and strength and I can 100% guarantee you are going to help thousands of people 🙏🏼 thank you so much you beautiful two and the biggest love to you - you’re beyond ❤xXx
It’s incomprehensible how they could wait an entire year to even take a look or do a Pap smear. How is that even possible??? Isn’t it a basic screening test? That doctor should be named and shamed and put into retirement. You Sooz are just incredibly fierce when you start talking! Hope you continue to have some good days.
First of all ladies, you both look beautiful today. I ran to answer the phone and came back and I had no clue it was now Sooz on the video. I sit here thinking about how can we help these girls, I feel this overpowering need to do something, to fight on your behalf and tell the world what you're going through and what this invading insidious evil is taking from you. Sorry, I just feel so very angry, anger keeps the tears away. I know a lot of people using Morphine and they say it makes them feel zonked out and tired Glad you are together for a few nights, watch some funny movies and laugh. I do not follow any religion but you are both never far from my mind. Much Love girls xx
That video was so heartbreaking to watch, sooz you are saving lives by speaking up about the symptoms to look out for, what an inspiration you are. Emma you are such a lovely caring person, nothing is too much trouble, your mum must be so proud of you both ❤❤xx
My heart just goes out to you and sooz. I can not tell you how strong and beautiful y’all are. I will keep you and Sooz in my prayers. I have severe anxiety when it comes to needles also so I know exactly how you feel ❤
Sooz, thank you & im glad the rants help, if i didnt know you were poorly you look good😊 My heart breaks that you were ignored its just SHAMEFUL & WRONG😢 So So sorry🤗🤗 You are both just lovely x
Great to see Sooz, absolutely horrifying they called her symptoms normal, I'm absolutely shocked, those symptoms to me as a nurse sound extremely serious but even if I was not a nurse. And it's so common to specially ignore the pain of women, "it's just menopause go home". The only thing patients can do is keep on fighting, not give up if something is not right, get second opinions.
Oh my goodness! Sooz I love your spark and fire❣️ we would definitely be close chums if we ever met♥️ prayers love and peace be with you always🙏🏼🫶🏻 love you too Emms 🤗
I live in France. The medical system in France is going through masses of problems but I think that in spite of all the problems here Sooz would have been taken very seriously seriously.
Devastating and a travesty what you’ve all been through and continue to do so, much love ♥️♥️♥️we love you Sooz and Emma and you’re all both so brave and courageous thank you for being so amazing 🤩 ♥️♥️♥️
Thank you so much Sooz...You have every right to rant. Your Dr. did NOT LISTEN to you...Your cancer could have been cured. This is what is sad....Sending my love to you Sooz and Emma......May God Bless both of you and your dear Mum....Love, Cherie......
My God Sooz you are such a champion. Girl you are saving lives daily. You have turned your horrendous situation into your life passion. Respect Sooz massive respect. Anger can be a wonderful tool when wielded by someone in your position. Such a worthwhile life. Whatever your faith, there will be a stretch limo sent for you when your time comes. ( if I am lucky I may get a rickshaw) a life well lived darling girl, highest regards. Patricia from Australia.
I’m a new sub. My heart breaks for you sooz. Thank you for all you and Emma are doing to bring awareness to stand up for yourself and not be fobbed off. ❤
Sweet bunny. So precious. Glad you got your pre-op over with. I know how difficult it must have been. Sooz, I wish they could make your pain disappear. I'm so sorry that you are going through all of this. Sending hugs and definitely prayers. Yes, I have friends and myself who have horror stories about how poorly we were treated by the medical community. Things aren't any better in the States, especially if you're a woman. It's maddening. My love to you both. ❤❤🙏🙏
I lost my sister to doctors not listening to her for two yrs they kept telling her it was ibs by the time they eventually done tests sadly she had terminal ovarian cancer so watching sooz and yourself speak out about this means so much to me one of the issues are doctors have ego's they need to drop and actually listen we all know our own bodies bodies sending ❤ to you both
❤Sending love and prayers for you both. Thank you Sooz for continuing to care so much about others. I am so sad you were ignored. My mum had Ocular Melanoma and it spread during COVID times when they delayed her mri to 11 months instead of 6. Just had a Pap smear here in Canada and told the results will take 4 months. Do they seriously think this is ok? I believe no matter what the energy spirit lives on. Thank you both for sharing your journey and helping to make women aware.
It's Absolutely infuriating how you and others are treated. They are playing god with people's lives and they have No right. their motto is to do No Harm.. ignoring signs and symptoms is doing just that. Ty Sooz for explaining your meds and your symptoms. You are one a million and You Matter, wr All matter. I agree wr All need to start holding these providers Accountable! Love, hugs and prayers from the US.
Hello Sooz lovely to see you ❤what a treat … yes I am on morphine for nerve pain and it’s basically garbage. So, yes you’re right my love 😍 we love you very much Sooz in Toronto ❤
Oh Sooz! Well done darling!!! It doesn’t take much to exhaust yourself after doing the smallest things. As a nurse of 25 years and after hearing your symptoms from Emma a few weeks ago! I was absolutely shocked, even more shocked after hearing you express your symptoms. It’s fantastic you are helping others by being vulnerable and using your example to educate people. I have seen this so many times too, including myself. It’s re traumatising patients when they act this way and it is getting worse. It makes me extremely angry too. I feel so badly for you. I have had chronic pain for 10 years and had many surgeries after breaking (multiple vertebral fractures) I still have many issues and been very unwell, my spine is collapsing and has pushed my sternum out looking like I have three tits! It’s called hyperkyphosis, my spine is tipping forward and the curve should be about 20-40 degree curve, anything over 40 isn’t great and my curve is at 90 degrees, which has turned me into a hunch back lol my chest cavity has no room in it now , my internal organs are being compromised, so I get a lot of pain, heart palpitations and shortness of breath , falling over all the time.. It will lead to heart and respiratory failure in the end. There is nothing being done to stop the profession. This is nothing compared to what you are going through, and I am not trying to take any of the seriousness of what is happening to you, im Just trying to say I get the frustration and anger and how over time, it gets to you having people dismiss you, gaslight you, belittle you, you end up being almost too scared to go seek help in fear of being rejected and not taken seriously, we are the best tool for diagnosing what is wrong in our own bodies, we know when things are not right, drs should be weary of every single case that comes through that door no matter what the chances are. Always think about what the worst case scenario could be and test for it, if it comes back as ok then no one has any regrets and more people will live. I know we have a crisis at the moment with our public health system, financially both our countries are struggling, but I’m sure everyone would gladly pay an extra tax or whatever if we knew we would get excellent health care! It makes me very angry. Drs think their sh!+patients and this culture needs to change. They don’t obviously know everything and even I have rolled my eyes and known more than some of these drs. They need to go that extra mike with every single patient they come across. As a nurse of 25years, If I believe that something was been missed, by the Dr I try my best to do what I can, such as - writing out a referral or tick a few more boxes on a blood work form ! Document my concerns in their notes. Tell the patient or family members to go to a private specialist etc. I would not leave my shift until I had done everything possible for my patients. The amount of times I’ve left specialists in tears too many times. When I first had my accident I went to emergency dept in ambulance. I’d been in respiratory arrest for 4-5 minutes (my kids thought I’d died I was deprived of oxygen and my face was purple) ) and then continually seizured for 30mins - woke up to my kids hysterical and ambulance staff around me. I was in so much pain, but the Dr didn’t even care and was a bitch , sent me home after 1 1/2 hours with a Panadol and said I was fine, I wasn’t, 7 weeks later after being in extreme pain, unable to breath, vomiting and falling over! I had a X-ray which showed 5 seperate fractures in my thoracic spine and cervical spine. ! That was the start of my shit show! I’m Sorry to go on about me, but I’m Just trying to let you know that although my story is not the same as yours, I do understand how mentally challenging it is to be in the system and the obstacles you come up against, should not be there, , it’s not good enough ! Bloody hell what these people have done by neglecting your cries for help, is criminal, they should know these signs as very suspect. I do and I’m not a Dr! We need to stand up and speak out and complain about these drs or health professionals who do not do their job properly! I’m behind you 200 percent ! Sorry to go on and on but I’m so mad! Lol sorry this comment is all over the place ! Big hugs to you for speaking up in order to share your story in order to help others. Thank you so very much for what you are doing. X much love dear xx kiwi xx
I’m so sorry this has happened to you .. they surgery or doctor should be called out if that’s what they have called to ..currently been unwell and my doctors has been amazing and fast tracked tests and are being super fast 🤞🏽that’s how it should be x
I’m a shocking over-waterer. I should pick a day and stick to it, but I don’t. Vitamins are good, but don’t forget your minerals. I take iron, zinc, magnesium and vitamin D with calcium for my old bones. Every now and then I take turmeric and black pepper. Hospital sucks but I’m really happy that you are being seen. Why do people think it’s ok to talk about weight? It’s a shame we aren’t allowed to slap people anymore (joking,) they might think twice. You look very lovely today. Have a good one. Much love to Suzi and the rest of your adorable family. x
It's just heartbreaking, and makes you so angry, what is WRONG with our healthcare system that blantant symptoms like BLEEDING, and PAIN, get fobbed off and ignored!!?? WTF!!!
I'm watching this back again today after a year. I still can't believe you have gone beautiful, Sooz🥺 xxx
Doesn't seem real does it? I still can't believe it x she can hear you x
I hope you all speak to her like I do xxxx
When you're down or feeling overwhelmed....stop...ground yourself....find something tiny in your surroundings and smile xxxx
@TheDogPooPro No, it doesn't seem real🥺 especially because I've been watching you 2 beautiful ladies from the start. I just picture Mom & Sooz walking in hand in hand on that beach..🫶🫂🫶
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Makes me smile when Sooz manages to talk to us. Sending strength and love to Sooz, Emma, and Mom. Thank you for your important message Sooz. You are saving lives
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I know this was recorded months ago. But since this the first time I've seen it, I Must reply. Yes! Your message has been, is now, and will continue to, Save Lives!!! We do need to advocate for ourselves, we know our "normals" and deserve to be taken seriously when we know something is off You and your sister and all your loved ones have my prayers! From Vermont USA 🙏 ❤
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They should be held accountable individually, everyone that ignored you and didn't do their job properly, everyone should be facing abuse charges, This is what is wrong, they don't care because they don't have to because they are covered under the umbrella of the NHS, every time we here about people like you, not being listened to and being left in agony and now facing terminal cancer, they shrug it off, if a formal complaint is made, you will receive a standard letter from NHS apologising and that's it, they are off scot free, maybe if they were held accountable individually they would do their job properly. In any other job or area of life, if you deliberately were the cause of this harm to anyone, you'd be going to jail. ❤❤
I agree with you if you are ignored find a new healthcare provider. Everyone knows their own body and what is normal, I’d get a lawyer. God bless you! You deserve a miracle.
I am terminal too but not through incorrect diagnosis. I pray and would be proud to pray for you and your family xxxx
Sooz, I wish you didn't have to pay such a high price for sending your message that will save others, still praying for the miracle you deserve xxx
Sooz, I canot believe that they (medical staff) are disregarding your symtoms … it’s horrific. There are no words to say really, or actually, there are a sh*t load of them to scream out… 😔. Thank you for sharing these messages with your YT community. I am so very sorry to hear your journey, but I fully understand why you so graciously share with us here, and hopefully, your voice will resonate very loudly with those that need to hear it 😒
😢You are a great ambassador Sooz for what is so wrong with our health service. You rant away girl, you ARE making a difference. Hugs from Scotland ❤
I think we all need to accept this is the new normal. The NHS is on its last legs by the looks of it. I believe it will be people with private healthcare that will get the help.
I saw mentioned on another channel when fighting to be assessed and ignored or refused treatments - if you ask your go for a referral and they refuse ask them to not your request and their response on your medical notes as this can trigger their response or concern for future legal action and may prompt them to support your requests. It’s worth a shot. Much love to both of you xxx
Emma, it’s okay to be afraid of needles or whatever else in your life is an issue for you. It’s happening to you and it’s very real. You can’t compare to Sooz or anyone else as if it bothers you, it bothers you! 😘. Sooz, you are a strong, strong woman! 💪🏻. In America where our health care is quite different from yours the message here for us has been to be your own advocate, to speak up, to question, to find a different doctor or health center if you’re not happy. Your message will reinforce that as so many are afraid to challenge a doctor. But the fact is, they don’t know everything and the only one who will fight for you is you. I pray they get your pain meds sorted and get you comfortable soon! ❤❤❤😘😘😘🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
This message is for the beautiful Sooz. I love seeing you on video and pray you are always this up beat and pain free.Really hope we get to see of you here. As a doctor I am mortified by your story. I just cannot believe how your symptoms were ignored-this is seriously reprimandable! You cannot let this go! I am livid!!!!!! I am aware as humans we make mistakes but to scoff at your major symptoms and making you feel belittled is not correct at all. My father a Surgeon, advised me to never ignore what a patients is saying -they are more likely correct and know themselves more than we would know them. With even one symptom - we screen patients-and in fact I am working to add in more cancer screening programs, that are not routine-especially following mRNA vaccines I am fairly new to this channel but would like to make a small suggestion if you permit me to and forgive me for butting in. I am sure you might have looked into what I am going to mention and its not for cure but for prolongation and better living without or less pain etc. But have you discussed Immunotherapy. for Metastatic cancer . It is still considered experimental but are encouraging for quality and other numbers-again not for cure. If you have gone through all that with the GP or Specialist I apologise for bringing this up. On a more Dharmic note, and only because I know certain words bring comfort and as you say you believe in all Gods, may i give my two cents. As a Hindu-we say God is the Universe and exists within us, so the energy within us-ie the soul and the consciousness never dies,as neither does the Universe. Depending on our Karmic actions we are either reborn mostly in the same family or circle of people to pay back and return etc with those we deal with in our lives or if perfectly led lives and desire to break free from the circle of rebirth, to become one with and going back to Bhagwanji (God) who started it it all with the energy sound Om or Aum. So my dear girl. Fight as much as you can-but with fearlessness and internal peace.Lord Krishna says 'what have you to fear when I am (or your God of belief) with you at all times-brush aside all fears and be free from the attachment of fear and anger and become absorbed in My (God's) existence and warmth, since one can only change or end the physical form but the soul is immortal. Lord Vishnu had to come down as human forms and go through sufferings to teach humans about handling life via the BhagwadGita and Ramayana or Mahabharat ( presenting as his reincarnations in the form of Lord Ram, Krishna and Buddha and many more) I really hope this doesn't offend you but encourage you instead. Loads of love and do look into anything that can help your living.( including meditation, turmuric and curcumin or Kada and other Ayurvedic teas that are anti inflammatory and might proved some help with the pain situation. Apologies for the long message. Praying for you
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Sooz dear can you tell us the story o how you found out you had cancer? What stage? Can you please let me know. All my prayers for you my dear Sooz, love and hugs 💖🤗🤗🤗🤗
I think I put it in one of the first videos or the symptoms video. Go back and have a watch if you can. They're hard to watch though 💔😫
@@annettepurtle3757 I went to the gp multiple times over a year or more. Telling them all my symptoms. I keep getting told they were normal and to go home.
They have me naproxen for the pain and tranexamic acid for the bleeding and basically left me to deal with it.
It remained unmanageable so I kept going back to the GP, and kept being told to go home. I eventually broke down, I nearly collapsed wuthering the pain, crying and begging I asked for help again. They booked me an ultrasound, who told me it was a big fibroid. I went back to the gp soon after because my symptoms were still horrendous and asked what I need to do to fix this fibroid. At the same time, I asked, 'could this be cancer'. The gp had a look at my cervix and immediately said she was sorry and booked me an urgent next day appointment with the hospital gynecology department. I was then told it was terminal, stage 4, metastatic, had scans etc and found out it was everywhere. And here I am 😢
@@suziegarner5891 this is such o sad and so unfair,I’m sorry Susie for what you are going through, my hugs go out for you,🥰🤗🤗🙏🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼😞
No Emma you aren’t crying because you got a blood test, you are crying because of the reason WHY you are having that blood test, eg preparation for your laparoscopy and hysteroscopy , which is to find out if you have cancer. Also being at the hospital is triggering for you because of everything going on with Sooz. So please don’t play down your fears and anxiety…..you are going through such a difficult time. I’m just glad you can talk to us all, we are here for you. I just want to give you a hug and make everything ok…..it breaks my heart to see you upset 💕💕
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I'm sat with Sooz now....finally trying to wind down xxx
Love you both so much 💗
Fantastic message Sooz, and so bloody true. I have serious health issues from not being seen by my GP for two years because GPs weren't seeing their patients because of covid. I have long covid which is debilitating but I've felt that there's something else going on which the long covid has masked. Over and over again I told the GP but was ignored. Eventually, after begging to be referred to a neurologist I've had nerve conducting and emg tests which showed very bad significant nerve damage to my legs and feet which needs further investigations. I'm left disabled, can only walk a few steps and totally urinary incontinent because of nerve damage. I'm 53 and a single Mum to five children. Three are adult and have left home, and two minors who live with me. I now have carers come in twice a day to support me and my children, who are Young Carers themselves.
Emma, I'm so sorry you got so upset at hospital today. It's hardly surprising sweetheart and I'm glad you eventually got some numbing cream. Please never feel guilty, you have no reason to be. You're a wonderful sister, the best. I hope you both have a peaceful evening 😘😘
Oh, and my old boy doggy, Timmy, does what Dave does. We call it 'the looky thing' 😂😂 Timmy yips as he does it 😂
Much love as always 💗💜💗💜
I hope they take you seriously x I fought illness all through my 30's, 15 years passed and I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. I honestly thought that was my lot. When I got the cancer news I was floored 😢
Keep fighting, tell them my story, don't be ignored xxx
@@suziegarner5891 they are doing now, thank you Sooz. My sister has MS and I still had to beg for the tests.
I will tell your story to my consultant, my next appointment is this month on the 28th.
You and Emma are on my mind constantly. Much love 💗💜💗💜
Thank you to Suzie for her words. They will save lives I am sure of it. We are all angry with you. I pray you both find the peace you deserve. ❤
It is insane the way none of these “health care workers “ are so callous. They just don’t listen. I’m so sorry this has happened to you both. Sending all the love and prayers to you both
Wow. I thought I had acid reflux with IBS, but worried of cancer. I’m 39 years old. My PCP sent me directly to get ultrasound of my kidneys, liver, gallbladder, and stomach. Then sent to a gastro who did a endoscopy and colonoscopy, no questions asked. I then had those procedures and was sent to my gyno and had 2 ultrasounds of my cervix, ovaries, etc. full bloodwork as well. I was cleared of everything and formally diagnosed with GERD.
I am American and pay for insurance. Sometimes I hate paying my bill but paying has required these doctors to perform any and all test I demand and if they don’t, I go to a doctor that will.
Zoos and Emma , sending gentle hugs to you both , such beautiful girls inside and out , lots of love from Northern Ireland ❤
Suzie your words are heard here in Canada sweetheart. I will definitely be telling everyone I know about your story. You must be your own advocate ! Everyone spread the word. ❤
My heart is broken for what you two are going through.
Sending love and prayers from California ❤
Sad that you prayers won't change anything.
Tina Collins if they believe in prayer then so be it ! If you don't like it scroll on !
After watching this video Sooz I’m going to push harder and advocate more on my own behalf at my doctor. I have been having stomach pains and terrible bowel movements for a year and a half. I keep hearing my bloodwork is good and the ultrasound I had is good just change my diet. I’ve tried changing my diet and it’s still painful. Thank you for talking about this. ❤️
Love you both so much. Thank you Sooz for your passionate “rant” you will change lives! ✨💕
It’s disgusting that these professionals go on a hunch. It’s not right. And stop thanking us. We are all here cause we care about you both. All our love, from Australia! ❤
Our health system is broken and unaccountable. A good friend of mine with a history of cancer went for investigations for problems swallowing and eating and was told by the radiologist that she had Barrett’s oesophagus a kind of acid reflux. Two years later it killed her, it was of course cancer that was eventually diagnosed too late for any treatment to be effective. I love your vlogs as they are a real journal of the realities of being ill in the UK in 2023. Take care both of you and sending big hugs and love. Xxx
Sooz….I admire your willingness to share your conditions when you don’t feel like it. I admire you for not sparing us the anger you feel….we should all be so transparent. We know you’re talking life or death here.
Dear Jesus, our Lord and Savior, please keep your healing hands on our Sister Sooz, carry her through this storm with peace, dignity and the love only You can provide. I praise You for allowing Emma to be by her side as much as possible and necessary. I thank You for allowing me to get to know these beautiful twins that you created in your image. Please be with them through all the pain, both physical and emotional. In Your name, I give you praise for Your promise of new mercies every day. Amen.🙏🏻💕💐🌹
Aww sooz ,you look beautiful, the Doctors have alot to answer for , they told my mom she was suffering from IBS ,and like you she knew something wasn't right after many Doctors trips ,she was finally diagnosed with ovarian cancer , it was to late by this time ,absolutely heartbreaking , she handled it amazingly its harder for family as feel so useless, the only way for you to cope is to have positive thoughts, I absolutely no how hard this is , I don't no much about your situation, I can see a strong woman ,I really think these Doctors need more training or something, this is all so wrong, to many lives are being lost , im sure you have helped other women by doing all this ❤
Emma and Sooz, You shouldn't be going through any of this. It makes me so angry😠 I suffer with Chronic Pancreatitis, I've had it for 25 years and I have had some awful doctors over them 25 years😮💨 It's an awful feeling being pushed away and ignored, especially when you know that something isn't right with YOUR OWN BODY. I have so much love and respect for you both for documenting your journey, which is going to help others not to take NO for an answer. Much love to you both and your family❤🥰 and your gorgeous fur babies🐶🐕🐰🐇 I have 2 Chihuahuas Poppy and Pedro, and a German shepherd called Kelby. So I absolutely share your love for animals❤️🥰 xxxx
How does the German shepherd get along with the little dogs?
@barbaravyse660 The little dogs are definitely the boss, especially my female Chihuahua lol😆 she's the boss of both of them😄
Omg you are both unbelievable. Such beautiful, caring, brave and talented girls! It’s actually difficult to put into words how it feels to be included in both of your lives xx 😘
Oh sweetheart, no need whatsoever for guilt. You've got to take care of you as well, and you are. We love you and Sooz and keep the prayers and good fairy vibes flowing for you!
I am an nhs theatre nurse and i am ashamed and disgusted that you were ignored!!😢 I am so sorry ❤❤
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Ooh sooz you sure gave them a piece of your mind well done that was a damn good painkiller!!
It was lovely to see a little bit of you today x hope you more brighter days ahead with lovely Emma x
Bum swab 😂
You are a star ⭐️ lady.
Never apologise for tears ❤
Oh my goodness, Emma 😢
I'm sending you the hugest HUGS🤗🤗
I'm crying with you
Aww, sooz you are so beautiful 😍 its so nice seeing you 💖
I’m here there & everywhere trying to listen to what’s been happening hope you don’t mind xxx
Emma your doing amazing u and sooz are amazing strong ladies. Sooz is right about drs and concerns my mum had a wart and kept freezing it for 6 years was size off a rugby ball when something was done. Found out was cancer she lost her leg is now cancer free, then she lost her dad few years ago to cancer another neglect. Keep fighting the love and support you give each other is amazing xxxx
My god Sooz what a beautiful soul you are .I wish I had a magic wand to change everything 😢😢 I hope we Soozies soldiers can change the way we are fobbed off and yes I am 1 of them, by telling your story to the professionals things can change love you both keep fighting xx
Your bunny is too cute 🥰! I love your Winnie The Pooh sweatshirt and adorable little dog! Who watches the pets while you're with Suzie?
My husband is at home with all our furry ones xx
Sooz and Emma beautiful gals. Loving you and sending you twin prayers. Your advocacy is blessed and powerful. Keep going gals. Hugs and love xxxx
Sooz! We love you!❤
We do understand that you're not able to be on as much.
Rant away! Anytime!
Glad Emma is with you now ❤
Emma your fears are as real as anyone else’s and do not forget that. You are not the only one believe me. Do what you need to to make yourself comfy. We all care about BOTH of you ok. God bless you and your family. ❤ Susie morphine is not the best for pain. Tell your doctor so they can change to whatever works, no one in 2023 should be in any pain! YES WE ALL PRAY FOR YOU SUSIE ❤
Sooz you are a hero in my eyes. You are going to help so many people speak up on their own behalf and make the health care industry listen to what they have to say. God bless you. I have been praying for you since I found this channel a couple of weeks ago and I will continue to pray for you and your family and friends.
Sooz I agree with you. If one won't listen you have to keep fighting. You know what is normal for your own body. I was told I was going through menopause, and brushed off. After becoming anemic, and finally finding someone to listen to me. I was told it could be a fibroid, but because of family history of cancer I pushed to get checked. If you don't speak up the medical professionals will just push you off.
I don't think I have ever seen two more beautiful people you both just radiate goodness .x my dad was being seen fir over two years white cell count through the roof had squamous removable on face when he voiced his concerns told not to get obsessive about cancer . When they eventually looked he had lung cancer and 6 weeks left . We were too shocked to fight so I have nothing but admiration for you both x
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Thank you for sharing your journeys. It is very frustrating to have doctors not listen. There is no reason in the 21st century that woman still are not listened to.
I'm furious for you both ladies. I'm furious that doctors don't listen, I'm furious that they gaslight. They treat people like an inconvenience. I know they aren't all like that but far too many are. These are educated well paid people, its not good enough. Kindest thoughts to you both xx
It really upsets me that the doctors are so uninterested in delving deeper into their patients symptoms and sending them for whatever test are necessary to come to a conclusion. I lost my brother at 26 years of age due to a brain tumor that they said was middle ear infection, my brother went for a biopsy in January 2018 and then had difficulty with his speech. By September 2018 he was gone.
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Your doctor and his people are criminals, Suzie! They should lose their medical license for this, I am so sorry they allowed this to happen. I will keep praying and I’ll share this video. ❤
So lovely to see you again Sooz! You looked beautiful 😊. The message you gave was so powerful, I’m sure the GPS won’t know what’s hit them in the morning, all those women that have been fobbed off (myself included) will be knocking their door down at 8.30 🤣😂. You are both doing a fantastic job at making a difference. Emma I really enjoyed watching your day to day routine and was surprised to hear you had bariatric surgery! I’m looking forward to watching that video but please don’t rush, we know you have far more important things to focus on. Keep up the great work, sending you love from Sheffield xx
Sooz, kudos to you through your pain and discomfort to be able to speak so eloquently and passionately about what happened to you ❤ Emma I hate needles too, blood test ones but I’m ok with vaccinations and even had acupuncture 🤷♀ just being at the hospital makes you emotional, no need to apologise my lovely. Hope you both have a lovely evening together
😊Hi Emma - I have a needle phobia too and it's often put me off accessing medical care and intervention. I decided to take some power/control back and try and work through it, used numbing creams on several occasions when needing injections, I also found listening to music helped too. I wouldn't say i am 'cured' though and have been putting off some checks/appointments. You're videos are really helping me see how I must go to these and make sure everything is ok as having symptoms. I agree that numbing cream should be available in every pharmacy, most especially at GP surgeries/hospitals. I've always had to order online.Thank you for being such an advocate & support❤😊 I will continue to pray for you Sooz 🙏
It heartbreaking. Lots of love to Sooz and Emma.
Sooz, you are so beautiful and sweet to chat. Praying for you and yours including Emma. 🙏♥️
Emma don't minimize how you feel hon. It's okay. Wr all have something we're afraid of and crap we're going through. Don't feel guilty ad we are definitely here for you All.. our hearts are with you both and your families 💜❤
Inspite of everything that Sooz is having to endure, she looks beautiful. It makes my blood boil listening to how doctors can fob off patients with legitimate symptoms, it happens all over the world I fear. There are very few dedicated Doctors who will take the time to address patients concerns and follow up or make referrals to a specialist. Too bad you can't sue for medical malpractice but spreading the word far and wide, as you both are doing, is beyond valuable. Bless you both, you are Angel's. Love and BIG hugs to you both. 🤗 ❤
Fabulous Sooz .... Rant on ... ! We hear you girls .. you're amazing you really are .. have a restup lovedup time together .. love always ❤️❤️🙏 ps....it took 2years to be diagnosed n major organs removed because of it And I'm still floored by no change! 💋💋
You girls are amazing about getting the word out to never quit advocating for your self. Sooz you really inspire me and are so beautiful. Saying prayers for the both of you. Much love ❤
Thank you for being so strong to share your message!!! Sending you so much Love and a big hug x ❤️❤️❤️
Oh my, I didn't realize you were ill as well! I'm so angry on your behalf! So good of you to spread the message to whoever will listen. Prayers for you both.
Hopefully it's nothing to worry about but I don't want to be ignored like Sooz was. I'm pushing through the NHS for all the other women here in the UK so that can all be heard. I want to stand up and say....I got the help I pushed for so that others hopefully can too 😫💕
@@TheDogPooPro Praying for you both. Good on you for advocating for others! Not one more person should go through it.
You 2 ladies are absolute troopers…..sending love and hugs to you both ❤xx
Sooz, you are amazing and so strong. Your message is so telling.
Sooz you are absolutely beautiful even in pain!! I hate hearing about your pain, it’s just not okay. Thank you for sharing your story with all of us, it WILL help. Always praying for you all!!!
Emma everyone is afraid of something no need to be ashamed of it I am terrified of thunder and lightening it's ridiculous really I turn into a five yeard old!! lol!. Thank you both of you your both so beautiful and Sooz I do pray every night for you before I go to sleep, so sorry what happened to you I am sure you have saved some lives!. God Bless you both 🤗🤗xx
Oh Emma you’re crying for Sooz and you’re crying for yourself. I want to give you both a big warm hug and praying everything will be okay with your health Emma. Sending lots of love 💕 ❤
Honestly girls you are THE BEST!!! It’s so incredible to see how much you support each other and how strong your bond is- you’re both the best fighters and should be so proud ❤️ thank you so much for continuing to spread awareness and helping others on the same journey who have also been ignored and those who are battling with their GP’s to be seen for the right reasons and symptoms as Sooz so kindly mentioned 🙏🏼 you are such an inspiration and I can not thank you enough for sharing your story of love and strength and I can 100% guarantee you are going to help thousands of people 🙏🏼 thank you so much you beautiful two and the biggest love to you - you’re beyond ❤xXx
You are a fighter, Sooz! I'm praying for you. Bless you both! ❤❤
Sending my love to you both❤❤❤❤ wishing you ladies much peace and happiness! Pet that little Cookie for me!
It’s incomprehensible how they could wait an entire year to even take a look or do a Pap smear. How is that even possible??? Isn’t it a basic screening test? That doctor should be named and shamed and put into retirement. You Sooz are just incredibly fierce when you start talking! Hope you continue to have some good days.
First of all ladies, you both look beautiful today. I ran to answer the phone and came back and I had no clue it was now Sooz on the video. I sit here thinking about how can we help these girls, I feel this overpowering need to do something, to fight on your behalf and tell the world what you're going through and what this invading insidious evil is taking from you. Sorry, I just feel so very angry, anger keeps the tears away.
I know a lot of people using Morphine and they say it makes them feel zonked out and tired
Glad you are together for a few nights, watch some funny movies and laugh.
I do not follow any religion but you are both never far from my mind. Much Love girls xx
Oh Sooz I have been praying very hard for you. I ask that God lessons your pain and keep fighting. Your are a beautiful soul.
That video was so heartbreaking to watch, sooz you are saving lives by speaking up about the symptoms to look out for, what an inspiration you are. Emma you are such a lovely caring person, nothing is too much trouble, your mum must be so proud of you both ❤❤xx
Absolutely Heartbreaking 🙏💜🙏
My heart just goes out to you and sooz. I can not tell you how strong and beautiful y’all are. I will keep you and Sooz in my prayers. I have severe anxiety when it comes to needles also so I know exactly how you feel ❤
Sooz you are such a strong, inspirational lady ❤
I am praying for you with everything that I have. 🙏
Love and hugs to you and Emma❤❤xx
Nice to see you Sooz. Prayers for your pain to ease up. 🙏🌸
Sooz, thank you & im glad the rants help, if i didnt know you were poorly you look good😊
My heart breaks that you were ignored its just SHAMEFUL & WRONG😢
So So sorry🤗🤗
You are both just lovely x
Praying for both you girls!!! the medical system is broken everywhere, including America
Great to see Sooz, absolutely horrifying they called her symptoms normal, I'm absolutely shocked, those symptoms to me as a nurse sound extremely serious but even if I was not a nurse. And it's so common to specially ignore the pain of women, "it's just menopause go home". The only thing patients can do is keep on fighting, not give up if something is not right, get second opinions.
Oh my goodness! Sooz I love your spark and fire❣️ we would definitely be close chums if we ever met♥️ prayers love and peace be with you always🙏🏼🫶🏻 love you too Emms 🤗
I live in France. The medical system in France is going through masses of problems but I think that in spite of all the problems here Sooz would have been taken very seriously seriously.
Devastating and a travesty what you’ve all been through and continue to do so, much love ♥️♥️♥️we love you Sooz and Emma and you’re all both so brave and courageous thank you for being so amazing 🤩 ♥️♥️♥️
Thank you so much Sooz...You have every right to rant. Your Dr. did NOT LISTEN to you...Your cancer could have been cured. This is what is sad....Sending my love to you Sooz and Emma......May God Bless both of you and your dear Mum....Love, Cherie......
My God Sooz you are such a champion. Girl you are saving lives daily. You have turned your horrendous situation into your life passion. Respect Sooz massive respect. Anger can be a wonderful tool when wielded by someone in your position. Such a worthwhile life. Whatever your faith, there will be a stretch limo sent for you when your time comes. ( if I am lucky I may get a rickshaw) a life well lived darling girl, highest regards.
Patricia from Australia.
I’m a new sub. My heart breaks for you sooz. Thank you for all you and Emma are doing to bring awareness to stand up for yourself and not be fobbed off. ❤
Sweet bunny. So precious.
Glad you got your pre-op over with. I know how difficult it must have been.
Sooz, I wish they could make your pain disappear. I'm so sorry that you are going through all of this. Sending hugs and definitely prayers. Yes, I have friends and myself who have horror stories about how poorly we were treated by the medical community. Things aren't any better in the States, especially if you're a woman. It's maddening.
My love to you both. ❤❤🙏🙏
Thank you x hugs right back xxx
@@TheDogPooPro you both are the sweetest. 💞💞
I lost my sister to doctors not listening to her for two yrs they kept telling her it was ibs by the time they eventually done tests sadly she had terminal ovarian cancer so watching sooz and yourself speak out about this means so much to me one of the issues are doctors have ego's they need to drop and actually listen we all know our own bodies bodies sending ❤ to you both
Oh my god x so so sorry 😞 💔🫂😫😭
This is so heartbreaking and should not be happening. Sooz you are so strong darling. Love you all xsuex
You are both such beautiful people!❤️
Sooz thank you so so much for speaking out❤ Emma thanks for sharing❤
Prayers and love to both of you beautiful ladies.
❤Sending love and prayers for you both. Thank you Sooz for continuing to care so much about others. I am so sad you were ignored. My mum had Ocular Melanoma and it spread during COVID times when they delayed her mri to 11 months instead of 6. Just had a Pap smear here in Canada and told the results will take 4 months. Do they seriously think this is ok? I believe no matter what the energy spirit lives on. Thank you both for sharing your journey and helping to make women aware.
Ooo those bottles are great , the toner I use is quite expensive so I think that would definitely make it go further, sending love to you and sooz ❤
It's Absolutely infuriating how you and others are treated. They are playing god with people's lives and they have No right. their motto is to do No Harm.. ignoring signs and symptoms is doing just that. Ty Sooz for explaining your meds and your symptoms. You are one a million and You Matter, wr All matter. I agree wr All need to start holding these providers Accountable! Love, hugs and prayers from the US.
You two lovely ladies are the sweetest and all I can say to this video is Thank you, thank you, thank you. ❤
Sending my love and hugs as always xxx
Hello Sooz lovely to see you ❤what a treat … yes I am on morphine for nerve pain and it’s basically garbage. So, yes you’re right my love 😍 we love you very much Sooz in Toronto ❤
Oh Sooz! Well done darling!!! It doesn’t take much to exhaust yourself after doing the smallest things. As a nurse of 25 years and after hearing your symptoms from Emma a few weeks ago! I was absolutely shocked, even more shocked after hearing you express your symptoms. It’s fantastic you are helping others by being vulnerable and using your example to educate people. I have seen this so many times too, including myself. It’s re traumatising patients when they act this way and it is getting worse. It makes me extremely angry too. I feel so badly for you. I have had chronic pain for 10 years and had many surgeries after breaking (multiple vertebral fractures) I still have many issues and been very unwell, my spine is collapsing and has pushed my sternum out looking like I have three tits! It’s called hyperkyphosis, my spine is tipping forward and the curve should be about 20-40 degree curve, anything over 40 isn’t great and my curve is at 90 degrees, which has turned me into a hunch back lol my chest cavity has no room in it now , my internal organs are being compromised, so I get a lot of pain, heart palpitations and shortness of breath , falling over all the time.. It will lead to heart and respiratory failure in the end. There is nothing being done to stop the profession. This is nothing compared to what you are going through, and I am not trying to take any of the seriousness of what is happening to you, im
Just trying to say I get the frustration and anger and how over time, it gets to you having people dismiss you, gaslight you, belittle you, you end up being almost too scared to go seek help in fear of being rejected and not taken seriously, we are the best tool for diagnosing what is wrong in our own bodies, we know when things are not right, drs should be weary of every single case that comes through that door no matter what the chances are. Always think about what the worst case scenario could be and test for it, if it comes back as ok then no one has any regrets and more people will live. I know we have a crisis at the moment with our public health system, financially both our countries are struggling, but I’m sure everyone would gladly pay an extra tax or whatever if we knew we would get excellent health care! It makes me very angry. Drs think their sh!+patients and this culture needs to change. They don’t obviously know everything and even I have rolled my eyes and known more than some of these drs. They need to go that extra mike with every single patient they come across. As a nurse of 25years, If I believe that something was been missed, by the Dr I try my best to do what I can, such as - writing out a referral or tick a few more boxes on a blood work form ! Document my concerns in their notes. Tell the patient or family members to go to a private specialist etc. I would not leave my shift until I had done everything possible for my patients. The amount of times I’ve left specialists in tears too many times. When I first had my accident I went to emergency dept in ambulance. I’d been in respiratory arrest for 4-5 minutes (my kids thought I’d died I was deprived of oxygen and my face was purple) ) and then continually seizured for 30mins - woke up to my kids hysterical and ambulance staff around me. I was in so much pain, but the Dr didn’t even care and was a bitch , sent me home after 1 1/2 hours with a Panadol and said I was fine, I wasn’t, 7 weeks later after being in extreme pain, unable to breath, vomiting and falling over! I had a X-ray which showed 5 seperate fractures in my thoracic spine and cervical spine. ! That was the start of my shit show! I’m
Sorry to go on about me, but I’m
Just trying to let you know that although my story is not the same as yours, I do understand how mentally challenging it is to be in the system and the obstacles you come up against, should not be there, , it’s not good enough ! Bloody hell what these people have done by neglecting your cries for help, is criminal, they should know these signs as very suspect. I do and I’m not a Dr! We need to stand up and speak out and complain about these drs or health professionals who do not do their job properly! I’m behind you 200 percent ! Sorry to go on and on but I’m so mad! Lol sorry this comment is all over the place ! Big hugs to you for speaking up in order to share your story in order to help others. Thank you so very much for what you are doing. X much love dear xx kiwi xx
I’m so sorry this has happened to you .. they surgery or doctor should be called out if that’s what they have called to ..currently been unwell and my doctors has been amazing and fast tracked tests and are being super fast 🤞🏽that’s how it should be x
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You look beautiful Suzie and Emma ❤️ xx
I’m a shocking over-waterer. I should pick a day and stick to it, but I don’t.
Vitamins are good, but don’t forget your minerals. I take iron, zinc, magnesium and vitamin D with calcium for my old bones. Every now and then I take turmeric and black pepper.
Hospital sucks but I’m really happy that you are being seen. Why do people think it’s ok to talk about weight? It’s a shame we aren’t allowed to slap people anymore (joking,) they might think twice.
You look very lovely today. Have a good one.
Much love to Suzi and the rest of your adorable family. x