My parents left me out of the family Christmas postcard photo, including only my adopted brother...

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024

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  • @YourGodStalin
    @YourGodStalin Місяць тому +166

    OP should have called their parents and said "Guys, don't get a divorce or blame each other, you're both PoS's who deserve equal blame."

  • @iamhector24
    @iamhector24 Місяць тому +65

    You didn’t overreact child. Your feelings matter and are valid.

  • @ancadiamant
    @ancadiamant Місяць тому +53

    Even if OP never said anything about the Christmas card cover then with the release of it, people would really question about why OP is not in it.

  • @WillSolaceNeedsTherapy
    @WillSolaceNeedsTherapy Місяць тому +84

    That’s manipulation shit- ‘I’m sorry you took my words into offense’ like op said that’s gaslighting. Hell no.

    • @sammykittens4150
      @sammykittens4150 29 днів тому +1

      The brother is in a great spot for manipulation of them all for the inheritance cuz it's really sus with the brother?!!!

    • @kingofdeath9012
      @kingofdeath9012 26 днів тому +4

      @@sammykittens4150 Nathan is still in the will, he never got cut out.

  • @user-ty3zt4dz8o
    @user-ty3zt4dz8o Місяць тому +15

    Op is not at fault for anything her parents do or say. Any decision they make is their own doing. You are out of the situation, don't go back. Stay with your grandmother and look out for yourself. In time you will be able to make your own decisions and will be able to stand up for yourself. God bless you.

  • @slPen-tx3fl
    @slPen-tx3fl Місяць тому +17

    YOU ARE NOT AT FAULT!!!!!!!! THE PARENTS CHOSE AND THESE ARE THE CONSEQUENCES OF THEIR CHOICE!!

  • @Flower-d3j
    @Flower-d3j Місяць тому +29

    Gradma is a absolute G 😎

  • @opencoloringbook6744
    @opencoloringbook6744 Місяць тому +25

    how your brother Nathan is SUDDENLY, realizing how he treated her. Now, he wants to be siblings again. Makes me think he's worried about not getting any money.
    Betcha parents and Nathan are trying to manipulate her into being a family so they can get back into the inheritance.

    • @ChefRye1
      @ChefRye1 Місяць тому +10

      I don’t know about that adopted kids have different survival instincts, I would question it more if they are flesh and blood.

    • @mamasplayinhookie3131
      @mamasplayinhookie3131 Місяць тому +6

      Nathan is in the will. Grandma never cut him off, just the parents.

    • @maraudersacrusader
      @maraudersacrusader 25 днів тому +8

      He's 15, his mind was still young, and he acclimated to his parents. He's a good kid, and from the sounds of it, he wasn't harassing her, just ignoring her. He realized his mistake and is growing from it.

  • @rosieruiz3789
    @rosieruiz3789 Місяць тому +8

    I am very proud of you, for standing to your decisions🌷 Many blessings to you as you start a new chapter in your life🌹

  • @glenmassey3746
    @glenmassey3746 Місяць тому +6

    Op and brother have nothing to be sorry or forgiven, it was their parents own choices that got them any kind of flack.

  • @Levithos
    @Levithos 20 днів тому +3

    I have a feeling that the T2 diabetes is not the main issue with OP's body. It sounds like a hormone imbalance somewhere that caused the early diagnosis of T2. They really should go to an endocrinologist for, not just the T2, but any other hormonal issues that may pop up. An endo would be able to run tests for them too, and would maybe be able to pinpoint what the issue is with the weight, especially at such a young age.

  • @gbengalsfan
    @gbengalsfan 17 днів тому +2

    You wouldn’t believe how much this actually happens in families. My hubby his older brother is adopted and his parents treated his adopted brother better than they did my hubby. Even though his adopted brother has caused so much trouble since he was little. He stole from my hubby and his parents, he’s been on national television for something very bad. He’s been in and out of prison since he was 17 years old. Hell he even caused his parent’s divorce. I remember my father in law telling me that they were always doing for his adopted brother that they weren’t able to do for my husband growing up. The reason I say adopted brother is b/c we don’t claim him. I will never forget this one time my daughter actually heard my mil tell her friends that my hubby’s biological grandparents loved the adopted brother more than they did my husband. She came to me crying asking me why they didn’t love my husband. (My daughter was 7 at the time). The adopted brother even tried to get my hubby un-alive when they were little. My hubby’s grandpa even told my in laws that the adopted brother was trying to make it to where he was their only child when they little.

  • @girl1213
    @girl1213 22 дні тому +5

    Nathan's not their son. He's their trophy. He was only adopted to make them look good. Seems Nathan is on the road to understand that, but right now to him, it's better than the unstable bio family he left behind for this adoption. The Time will come.

  • @sebastiancervantesll
    @sebastiancervantesll Місяць тому +11

    And they are really going to fracture in the 8 to 15 years as Nathan gets to that age. Will he or won’t he, as to their old age, retirement age, family and friends perception in the long run. Cheese as it ages, sometimes delicious, sometimes delicious and stinky. OP is not going away, but she is going and they can not stop it.

  • @EEJyung105
    @EEJyung105 26 днів тому +3

    “Grandma’s place is closer to my school so I could walk to school instead of taking the bus” on a wheelchair my guy?

    • @barbaraeverly1922
      @barbaraeverly1922 16 днів тому

      Yeah, I caught that one too!

    • @lindacrowe8428
      @lindacrowe8428 13 днів тому

      These stories are always full of contradiction.

    • @derpy_mushroom531
      @derpy_mushroom531 5 днів тому

      While reddit stories are often fake yes
      walking is a general statement which can be understood by all, probably more natural than just "wheelchairing"

  • @davidmcrowder
    @davidmcrowder Місяць тому +20

    For shits sake, talk to your grandma. About this and how its effectig you.

  • @user-ho4tb5qe7v
    @user-ho4tb5qe7v Місяць тому +4

    It's not bad she mentioned the adoption he was 6 when he was adopted he already knew about it

  • @devilsfan23
    @devilsfan23 Місяць тому +4

    Most likely the parents wanted OP to come home so maybe the Grandmother would add them back to the will.

  • @helloitsemily24
    @helloitsemily24 Місяць тому +44

    idk if it was a mistake but op said "walk to school" but op is in a wheelchair?

    • @JoeyMarx
      @JoeyMarx Місяць тому +49

      The wheelchair is used for the fibromyagia flare ups only. OP can walk but briefly needs a wheelchair

    • @ghoste3991
      @ghoste3991 Місяць тому +25

      Most wheelchair users can walk. Its called being an ambulatory wheelchair user.

    • @actually_a_catt
      @actually_a_catt Місяць тому +13

      Also people tend to use walk in a general sense, as like travel that isn’t in a vehicle.

    • @A_Wee_spook
      @A_Wee_spook Місяць тому +19

      1 they said they don't use the wheelchair all the time, and 2 folks think disabled people change their language to never use the terms for what we can't do. But we don't. Wheelchair users still say they walked somewhere, blind people still say they saw the movie, and deaf people still say they heard about the news.

    • @Fiero425
      @Fiero425 Місяць тому +2

      I was about to say that. It's akin to a blind person saying "I saw...." ;-)

  • @codyjones8153
    @codyjones8153 Місяць тому +11

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  • @Insatiable-saucy
    @Insatiable-saucy Місяць тому +2

    if i was in her situation i always know how to push stuff out of my mind, play 2 matches of rank 2 germany, it gives me plenty to be angry and complain abou, if i win then it also gives me plenty to be happy about

  • @rainbowmeowmix
    @rainbowmeowmix 24 дні тому +1

    I'd like to have a very violent chat with OP's parents....as a father it just makes my blood boil when people treat their kids like that.

  • @RiderEpsilon
    @RiderEpsilon 22 дні тому +1

    Welp if op was a burden to her parents the when they re ild she can say to them that she doesn t want to have burdens in her life

  • @joannwilde4617
    @joannwilde4617 Місяць тому +9

    With your parents treating you like crap. Are you an affair child ?

  • @killahbee6761
    @killahbee6761 Місяць тому +3

    How i8s she walking to school if she's in a wheelchair?

    • @elizabethtrudgill3567
      @elizabethtrudgill3567 Місяць тому +4

      She uses the wheelchair when she has flare ups from one of her medical conditions, she doesn't need it all the time.

  • @alveanjones4524
    @alveanjones4524 Місяць тому +5

    I detest the background in the video.

  • @rebeccah3091
    @rebeccah3091 22 дні тому +1

    what a fake story . I am so done with this channel

  • @vivi-ce7mc
    @vivi-ce7mc Місяць тому +1

    w

  • @therealtruthaboutobamaandt3885
    @therealtruthaboutobamaandt3885 23 дні тому +2

    @helloitsemily..... WHAT WAS SHE SUPPOSE TO SAY, "ROLL TO SCHOOL"!?