10 Lessons from 10 Years of Marriage | Keys to a Successful Marriage

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  • 10 Lessons from 10 Years of Marriage | Keys to a Successful Marriage
    Pastor Vlad and Pastor Lana share 10 Lessons from 10 years of Marriage.
    Listen as they share key principles to having a godly marriage! ❤️
    #relationships #marriage #valentinesday #lessonsonmarriage

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  • @jennihart599
    @jennihart599 Рік тому +211

    I found you on UA-cam recently during a time of struggle in my marriage. My husband and I have both been listening and studying your biblical marriage lessons. We have been married almost 35 years and your messages have rekindled our marriage. Thank you and may God continue to bless and use your ministry

    • @live1telescope795
      @live1telescope795 Рік тому +2

      Be careful. Matthew 7:21-23 “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’

    • @michaelroby8878
      @michaelroby8878 11 місяців тому

      ​@live1telescope795 do you know what lawlessness is?

    • @parisspilota9889
      @parisspilota9889 7 місяців тому

      P

  • @arthurmagoola7808
    @arthurmagoola7808 5 місяців тому +9

    Thanks for this message Pastor and Mrs Vlad. It’s like you’ve been watching a video of my marriage and you’ve literally given me a road map on how to get the marriage back to God. My wife and I are both born again but we’ve been fighting each other for the last 10 months rather than fighting the devil. We’ve had so many issues for the last 5 years that we haven’t dealt with and the marriage has become a real mess…real mess. Only God can fix this. I tried changing my wife and she tried changing me too, and we’ve stood our ground for so long that it is messing the family up. I can’t stand the division any more and I need gods help working through this. I really do.

  • @krissifaith6709
    @krissifaith6709 10 місяців тому +35

    Great content. It took me 7 years of marriage to realize everything was a spiritual battle. All couples need to hear this message.

  • @EbonyCharisma
    @EbonyCharisma 3 роки тому +225

    This video is over an hour long yet I watch and listen everyday.
    This morning my husband listened in with me and he was enlightened. He paused the video, turned to look at me and say “ this is good”.
    Thank you 😊 so much for uploading such an authentic, uplifting, and helpful video. God bless you‼️

  • @elizabeth18078
    @elizabeth18078 3 роки тому +268

    I love seeing and hearing from pastor vlad's wife she has so much wisdom and seems so genuine! More of her! She is a blessing and very pretty!

    • @HungryGeneration
      @HungryGeneration  3 роки тому +42

      She is truly a blessing!

    • @taylorwalkerr
      @taylorwalkerr 3 роки тому +7

      Yes!!! Does she have her own channel?!

    • @delilasloan8914
      @delilasloan8914 3 роки тому +13

      She should have a channel to bless us women who need a Christian woman to follow on UA-cam.
      I listen to vlads sermons a lot during the day while my husband is at work and I am cleaning house and cooking and it blesses my day.
      Also she was right about the shirt, it looks great!!

    • @sofiastroh8134
      @sofiastroh8134 2 роки тому +1

      I agree

    • @professorpixeldust
      @professorpixeldust 2 роки тому +10

      Gurl. Them. Shoes. Are. Fire.

  • @allanj
    @allanj Рік тому +11

    "not to attack your spouse, but fight the issue together WITH your spouse"... that would solve a TON of marriage problems!

  • @steventroyer5801
    @steventroyer5801 2 роки тому +120

    "The person who repents first is more mature."

  • @irishmeevlog4938
    @irishmeevlog4938 Рік тому +30

    Thank you for this message! As a christian. We really need to listen more and more. I just laughed when Pastor vlad said “A mature person will say sorry first” and it really hit me hard because I am more attending bible studies and yet my husband is the one who always say sorry and the first one to say sorry. Thank you that I learned here not to be manipulating and controlling. Worth spending my time to hear this. Godbless you both…

  • @estherbuhain9807
    @estherbuhain9807 3 роки тому +58

    I realized that I have many mistakes regarding marriage thank God for your ministry.

  • @daniellecordova3123jwhjej
    @daniellecordova3123jwhjej 3 роки тому +41

    Lana is such a good speaker and godly woman I love the lords voice through her.. Awesome!!

  • @selinasushil2229
    @selinasushil2229 3 роки тому +76

    I love the way pastor Vlad teaches... always a blessing to listen to him. Selina. Watching from Poona India.

  • @mariabaemedi3326
    @mariabaemedi3326 Рік тому +8

    Thank you Pastor Vlad and Lana, I have been married for over 30 years but the wisdom of God you shared on this platform felt so refreshing and inspiring. God bless you both as always and continue to preserve your marriage in Jesus Christ mighty name 🙏

  • @kaoshi_kutie
    @kaoshi_kutie 2 роки тому +25

    Love this teaching, so insightful! Not married but preparing for it one day. Also Lana is very beautiful- love her shoes 👠 ❤️✨

  • @jocelynsaburnido1193
    @jocelynsaburnido1193 2 роки тому +69

    I am so blessed by this message..please help me pray that my husband will become a Christian..

    • @hannahsmall1349
      @hannahsmall1349 11 місяців тому +1

      Father, In the Name of Jesus,
      I pray for this precious couple that you touch them to confess with their mouths and believe in their hearts that You Son, Jesus died for their sins and they will accept Him as their Lord and Savior Jesus Christ!!
      Their lives will change because of this. In Jesus Name!! Amen!!

  • @maixiong1617
    @maixiong1617 Рік тому +15

    Thank you so much for these wise words and marriage lesson. I'm going through a difficult storm in my marriage as well. Adultery has come into the picture and the devil is working hard to destroy us. I'm praying and hoping I can endure everything and not call it quits. Praying that God can reconcile us.

    • @pink3316
      @pink3316 Рік тому +1

      Same😔 stay strong and keep praying for Gods direction x

  • @youthclub5742
    @youthclub5742 3 роки тому +34

    Pls come to south africa. The prosperity gospel has spread among our ppl, leading ppl to fall in live with material things instead of the live of God. We need real preachers and pasters to preach truth.

  • @droy589
    @droy589 2 роки тому +5

    I loved the conversation. Understood the point that pastor Vlad wanted to say, 'one of you should be mature enough'. I totally get this because this is just that is happening in our relationship now.
    I think I came to the right place.

  • @ThePRINCSARA
    @ThePRINCSARA Рік тому +4

    amen KEEP GOD 1st 🥇 and everything will fall in place ❤

  • @kaylamorgan9157
    @kaylamorgan9157 3 місяці тому

    I just finished a 21 day spiritual water fasting and I feel like God has broken Generational curse and helped me take the first steps into breaking my addictions. I know I have more challenges to face but I want these chains ⛓️ fully broken by the time I’m married and have children

  • @YennyCMorales
    @YennyCMorales 3 роки тому +11

    Pastor Lana, has sooo much wisdom. Love hearing her speak. She carry herself so well.

    • @rajianliupameiarengh9572
      @rajianliupameiarengh9572 3 роки тому

      Both have a Wisdom and clear understanding I love to hear from them

    • @FlawlesZMa
      @FlawlesZMa 2 роки тому

      She is out of order. Do you not know what the bible say about women being pastors and having authority over men? she also dress worldly

    • @lukehapter4781
      @lukehapter4781 2 роки тому

      Women should not be pastors

    • @blam9360
      @blam9360 10 місяців тому

      ​@@FlawlesZMaShe's out of order? Have you not read Acts with the godly couple Priscilla and Aquila?? 😂😂😂 Get out of here, don't come back till you've educated yourself.

  • @miriamtyler9459
    @miriamtyler9459 Рік тому +6

    wow! so strong! i am in the middle of a separation with my husband who I still want very bad, but the problems between us are starting to cause major anxiety. but when he talked about point 7(i think) of the sexual desire being gone, I could feel my body reacting so negatively to what he was saying. Thank you Jesus for reveling this to me WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED EXACTLY 5 YEARS!

  • @beloved7959
    @beloved7959 Рік тому +3

    this is one of the biblically established advices in marriage I heard, I am single and been praying to the Lord a woman I am now seeing as best partner in life and ministry. Such counsel from the Word of God in a practical way and a mission centered marriage. I love this video, thanks for allowing the Lord to use your experiences to give advices, to me personally who wants to start courting the woman I prayed for.

    • @LyndaA2024
      @LyndaA2024 8 місяців тому

      God will visit you soon.
      Stay good and focused

  • @marsjupplutoneo2121
    @marsjupplutoneo2121 Рік тому +14

    Wonderful, not comparing yourself with other couples is the most important thing. 🥰 You guys are to the point .

  • @judithkurian
    @judithkurian 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you for opening my eyes … I always kept on saying but but but … making him look bad … I am the one that needs to change if you want your husband to change …amazing eye opener ..

  • @sabrinatoglia4729
    @sabrinatoglia4729 Рік тому +3

    I’ve listened to every single marriage video you made! I am an active follower of your ministry! Thank you for doing God’s work and enhancing His Kingdom! Blessings to you both!❤

  • @xaraukuleleandlifeinchrist9550
    @xaraukuleleandlifeinchrist9550 2 роки тому +12

    So blessed by this video 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
    The Lord be praised!
    God bless all who is watching

  • @pleaseletmein222
    @pleaseletmein222 8 місяців тому

    Until I found Vlad, I had never had this much fun listening to a hot take before.
    Vlad your sermons bring me so much joy. Never change.

  • @racheldaniels8803
    @racheldaniels8803 3 роки тому +13

    You both are young and still such a big blessing to the world. God bless you both and your Ministry😊... I like all your messages Pastor Vlad. No compromise on preaching the truth. 🙏 From Chennai, India. Love you both.

  • @JESUS_L0VES_Y0U
    @JESUS_L0VES_Y0U 3 роки тому +15

    We love you both from India. 🇮🇳

  • @adriandlobo
    @adriandlobo 2 роки тому +10

    Watching from Goa,India. Recently divorced and realised I have failed my wife and children in many ways. I'm 61 and don't know what to expect in future but I will trust the Lord to lead me and guide me! I love the Lord and He Loves me so i have hope for a great future.

    • @ingridclaude1257
      @ingridclaude1257 2 роки тому

      AMEN!

    • @thejourney.0123
      @thejourney.0123 Рік тому +6

      Go back to your wife and reconcile with her.

    • @silviawanjiku6164
      @silviawanjiku6164 Рік тому

      You have to find another one.. All go back to your wife

    • @perpetualkamau1747
      @perpetualkamau1747 Рік тому

      Seek God truthfully, He will turn the heart of your wife to you but be the first to say am sorry. The Bible tells us He derides to meet the desires of those who fear him. Renounce past mistakes and sin that came with them plead the blood of Yeshua to speak on your behalf then claim the promises of God and He will meet them for you, fellowship with the Holy Spirit, he will help you. Seek righteousness, do God’s way , you honor him then He will Hod you. All the best

    • @sindisiwewitnessmhlongo6247
      @sindisiwewitnessmhlongo6247 Рік тому

      May God help you to reconcile with your wife and your children.I can see that you are a Godly man by acknowledging your faults.God be with you.

  • @Egonzales85
    @Egonzales85 9 місяців тому

    I put God at the center of my marriage and I feel the spirit of conviction interceding while listening to this. When the Lord provided this revelation to me I saw what a gorgeous woman he put in my life, and I am forever in debt to my God. Thanks Pastors. So so much.

  • @michellegomes3382
    @michellegomes3382 2 роки тому +5

    I always have such a good laugh when pastor Vlad and his wife is talking together I just love their humor.

  • @aleml6993
    @aleml6993 3 роки тому +23

    "Every marriage has a snake we need to kill that snake before it kills the couple"
    What a beautiful couple a blessing, God bonds them stronger it is making their relationship shine more.

  • @julieannehonungan5403
    @julieannehonungan5403 3 роки тому +8

    I watched this together with my husband. Thank u very much pastor vlad and pastora lana. We are learning a lot from you. Praise God for your lives. 🥰

    • @ChrisRagaruma
      @ChrisRagaruma Рік тому

      Thank so much for 10 lessons of marriage that presented in talk that well presented. I am sure that your message will some one rearrange their marriage. Chris listening from Solomon Islands. God bless your Ministry.

  • @marylouponte4526
    @marylouponte4526 4 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for this wonderful and helpful video. It is such a blessing to hear this. Being single it gives me an insight on how to be a better wife for my future husband someday by in God's will🙏😇
    and having a wonderful Christ centered family.
    I do love this video so much and will always keep this.😊😇
    This is more than an hour but I'm never tired listening to it. It's so interesting.
    God Bless you Pastor Vlad and your beautiful wife😊😇

  • @simply_l.i.f.e
    @simply_l.i.f.e 5 місяців тому

    One of the best messages about marriage I’ve heard so far. God bless your marriage and your ministry! 🙏

  • @rocioserna2697
    @rocioserna2697 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for your service to all the marriages

  • @oliviapaulnavaro817
    @oliviapaulnavaro817 3 роки тому +7

    Pastor Lana I love the way she responds ❤️❤️ thank you so much pr. Vlad this is so teachable and indeed it's a different service..more Blessings..in Jesus Mighty name 🙏🙏

  • @jesussalinas9057
    @jesussalinas9057 Рік тому +1

    tears are running down from my eyes reignate so close into successful marriage.. i wish i had learn this much early in life..

  • @christellen3077
    @christellen3077 3 роки тому +14

    Wow so important thank you for sharing this for singles and married people this is life giving. Be Blessed in Jesus name.

  • @williamvanort536
    @williamvanort536 9 місяців тому

    The videos these couples are sharing are transforming me as a wife in the best way. Please pray for my marriage to glorify God in every way!

  • @YoohyunKim-se8xw
    @YoohyunKim-se8xw Рік тому +2

    It is very helpful advice about marriage 💑. Attack problems 💥respect each other. Much appreciated it. God is so good. Amen 🙏

  • @joycemburu8041
    @joycemburu8041 3 роки тому +9

    Listened to this on the hungry generation podcast and I've learnt alot.. You people are a light to the world.. GOD bless your marriage

  • @beyondfreedomchurch
    @beyondfreedomchurch Рік тому +1

    This is great for people who have only been married up to 10 years. Many different challenges as the years go by.

  • @reenaanna1178
    @reenaanna1178 Рік тому +5

    Thank you Jesus for these wonderful people😇
    Beautiful message❤
    May God continue to bless your life abundantly..

  • @macqueencuribaonate7515
    @macqueencuribaonate7515 Рік тому +1

    Such a nice topic for FAMILY .thank you for sharing this vedio, more to come.Godbless

  • @sussy7722
    @sussy7722 Рік тому +2

    I'm blessed of this sharing. Continue to inspired husbands and wife relationship. This is very true. Both of you are such an inspiration. God Bless you more. God will use both of you more for the advancement of His Kingdom. All honor and glory belongs to Him.
    The Blessing of the Lord will follow you all the days of your life.

  • @veronicadesa5404
    @veronicadesa5404 3 роки тому +3

    I love the way teaching
    Watching from Goa
    Thank you Jesus
    God bless you both

  • @sveltelee5545
    @sveltelee5545 Рік тому +68

    I desire to be married and possess a God fearing marriage like this one. Please pray for me!

  • @khorl.m.6992
    @khorl.m.6992 Рік тому +1

    This message is applicable not only to couples but also applicable to anyone among friends , church people or anyone in your contacts ,teaching us to respect the differences and learning to appreciate each other.

  • @blessingojeh5339
    @blessingojeh5339 2 роки тому +2

    I am so blessed watching this
    I mistakenly dashed on this video but I believe God just wanted me to see it. I believe it's not a mistake. Thank you pastor Vlad and Lana

  • @rbarzola7756
    @rbarzola7756 3 роки тому +8

    Thank you Jesus. my heart feels lighter after listening to you both ❤️❤️

  • @estellemiche8585
    @estellemiche8585 Рік тому +1

    I'm really blessed by you.....I pray for my future husband, may God give me a kingdom marriage ❤❤❤

  • @Ouita
    @Ouita 11 місяців тому

    Me and my boyfriend are new Christians and I love telling him all y’all’s teachings I listen to while I am at work thank Yall for sharing

  • @musingsofablackimmigrant
    @musingsofablackimmigrant 3 роки тому +20

    '...Or cook yourself' 😂😂 ouch! Pst Vlad felt that.

  • @tihanioliveira
    @tihanioliveira 3 роки тому +10

    Thank you both ❤️ God bless all marriages and singles who seek marriage. In Jesus mighty name, AMEN.🙏🏽✨

  • @pastorlawrencesanchez81
    @pastorlawrencesanchez81 3 роки тому +8

    Great teaching , it's right on but wish we knew these principles years ago , we had to learn some the hard way , but put GOD 1st , blessings from Roswell New Mexico USA , going on 42 years now

  • @reynalynortiz4014
    @reynalynortiz4014 2 роки тому +3

    This is the first time I encountered these couple. Thank you so much for letting God bless the world through both of you. Godbless.

  • @anifelestrella2119
    @anifelestrella2119 Рік тому +3

    Its good you have in common is Jesus. In my marriage, my husband and i is truly opposite in character everything...we are opposite in character, we fight or argue because we are opposite. But then again, we end up still together, especially this message of you both bring us back together especially in my part. We have different religion, but its God put us together or stick us together maybe because God's word speak

  • @joanjo9163
    @joanjo9163 Рік тому +1

    Thank you pastor and your wife for this message..
    Thank you LORD for always reminding me to do the Right Thing..

  • @filipinascamagon4663
    @filipinascamagon4663 8 місяців тому

    Amen❤Love is not an emotion,it is a devotion and a decision.

  • @gracefullyblessed555
    @gracefullyblessed555 3 роки тому +2

    Wow !!! Very good thank you Pastor Vlad& Lana God bless you both

  • @rashellewilcox2633
    @rashellewilcox2633 Місяць тому

    She is right.
    The sweater looks perfect for the video!!

  • @yumehenry6321
    @yumehenry6321 3 роки тому +22

    Thank you Holy Spirit for these words..... more Grace upon you and your wife and entire ministry💟💟💟💟
    Watching from Dubai.

  • @robertlopez3129
    @robertlopez3129 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much!!! I needed this advice, I will start praying more with my wife and start being a better listener. Thank you so much. God bless

  • @whitesugarsweetchristine1023

    Love how young these are and how they claim to know so much about successful marriages.
    Good for them.

  • @melissasealey6165
    @melissasealey6165 3 роки тому +7

    What a blessing, thank You Pastors for bringing those life changing marriage tips, so needed. God bless You both along with Your ministry, from Belize, Central America 🇧🇿 🙏

  • @LyndaA2024
    @LyndaA2024 8 місяців тому

    I look forward to listening to your videos each day and night.
    It makes my day❤️❤️❤️

  • @curlysue3907
    @curlysue3907 2 роки тому +2

    Thank You for sharing your personal experiences to help the marriages out there. Y'all are such a Blessing & are Spirit Filled!! 😊🙏✝️ 🙌

  • @oluremiajayi6096
    @oluremiajayi6096 2 роки тому +2

    I enjoyed the flow of this message and the nuggets dropped. Thank you, Pastors.

  • @aramisy.cajigas744
    @aramisy.cajigas744 3 роки тому +30

    Not only kill the snakes...
    "Hunt the foxes for us, the little foxes, that spoil the vines; for our vines are in blossom." (Song of Songs 2:15)

  • @tracey-anngrey5417
    @tracey-anngrey5417 7 місяців тому

    I love your ministry! I'm glad your wife is speaking too. Awesome❤

  • @LiLGouda.
    @LiLGouda. 2 роки тому +2

    I don't why but I'm thankful that this was recommended to me ❤️

  • @andreasaravia8764
    @andreasaravia8764 3 роки тому +5

    Amen! Thank You Pastor Vlad, it was nice to hear from the both of you! Thank you! ❤️🕊🔥🙏🏼

  • @serenachoo2020
    @serenachoo2020 3 роки тому +3

    Pastor John Bevere n Lisa Bevere also share a lot of biblical truths about marriage. God bless you both Pastor Vlad n Lana, yr teachings super inspiring!

    • @blam9360
      @blam9360 10 місяців тому

      And pastor Jimmy Evans.

  • @mariaaguirre3509
    @mariaaguirre3509 2 роки тому +4

    This was an amazing and most needed talked. I loved and understood every single lesson proposed. Those words were from a couple that was obvious to see have love, respect, passion and commitment for each other. Thank you very much to this beautiful couple from the bottom of my heart and spirit.

  • @MF-lj6se
    @MF-lj6se 3 роки тому +7

    So down to earth and practical with the examples for each point. God bless you both as a couple. Such an inspiration for both young and old couples.

  • @amiamiston9857
    @amiamiston9857 3 роки тому +3

    Pastor Lana ❤️ God bless you

  • @hemlatarai4431
    @hemlatarai4431 2 роки тому +3

    Yes, God can only make all things good 👏

  • @spontaneouscat6791
    @spontaneouscat6791 Рік тому +2

    after 13 yrs and first time understanding the bible i finally submit to my husband and its not that bad God uses authority to bless and protect us.. im thankful that he extended his love thru my husband i love you too Abba thank you Jesus for being the center of our marriage

  • @butterfliesandsilkflorals3716
    @butterfliesandsilkflorals3716 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you Patstor Vlad for sharing this encouraging video on marriage. I was blessed to see how you both gave each a turn to speak.👥💍💖

    • @LyndaA2024
      @LyndaA2024 8 місяців тому

      I noticed that too✅

  • @sheanaathanase2439
    @sheanaathanase2439 2 роки тому +3

    I soooooo love this, I’ve learn so much from this, this video was such a blessing to me, God bless you both 🙏🏼 shalom. I’ll be sending this to all my married family and friends.

  • @RoseHofa
    @RoseHofa 7 місяців тому

    Amen really touch with the messages.

  • @philpowell9111
    @philpowell9111 3 роки тому +5

    Wow your wife is so beautiful !!
    You are a blessed man !!!

  • @lucykerubo4990
    @lucykerubo4990 Рік тому

    Amen Pst.I have found you at the right time.Thank you so much.

  • @JMKrech
    @JMKrech 3 роки тому +5

    Great Word!

  • @SunnyBermea
    @SunnyBermea Рік тому +2

    I want to thank you for teaching on marriage. You and your wife are such a huge blessing. My whole family watches you all the time. May I ask what is the name of the book your wife is holding?

  • @zerubbabelshealtiel6022
    @zerubbabelshealtiel6022 2 роки тому +1

    So blessed with your messages Pastor and Pastora. From Cebu Philippines

  • @mihretsisay1716
    @mihretsisay1716 3 роки тому +4

    Hungry Gen is blessing for me . Love you guys

  • @joanjo9163
    @joanjo9163 Рік тому +1

    I know GOD LEADS ME HERE
    THIS MESSAGE IS REALLY FOR ME 😍

  • @sayedmasi9560
    @sayedmasi9560 Рік тому +1

    Thank u so much from your motivational videos. I am learning a lot from both of you, regardless your religion and believes.
    I am a Muslim I strongly believe in God. In my opinion everyone should be on their way effectively and faithfully.

  • @anifelestrella2119
    @anifelestrella2119 Рік тому +1

    God's word speak to us, to me especially.

  • @chinenyesylvester3319
    @chinenyesylvester3319 Рік тому

    Im so blessed, thank you Pastor V. and beautiful wife

  • @marywilliams1842
    @marywilliams1842 2 роки тому +3

    God is good! I am getting better as a wife.

  • @arpitabhattacharjee3949
    @arpitabhattacharjee3949 Рік тому +1

    Yeah! Marriage for me is like a near death experience... husband's never realize and it's true...

  • @hadushrezene2868
    @hadushrezene2868 2 роки тому +2

    God bless you more blessed couples!

  • @daniellekabad1865
    @daniellekabad1865 2 роки тому +2

    Soooooo good! Praise the Lord!

  • @Sucre200
    @Sucre200 9 місяців тому

    I have been looking for a channel like this to help me grow in my relationships. ❤

  • @lenayslippers3149
    @lenayslippers3149 Рік тому +3

    Such a convermation. Had the same discussion just this morning. Thank you for this. It is such a blessing!

  • @sarahgumball8597
    @sarahgumball8597 Рік тому

    This is such a blessing to me!priaseyouJesusforthismessage