By black women having degrees she means "humanities/ social sciences", and by opening businesses she means "hair salons, and OF". Black men have a higher median income than black women, so what on earth she talking about?
Because experiences have shown that women, who make more than their husband's, esp. Black American women, get cheated on or abused. If a BA man can't feel like he can provide for BA, it's an insult to his manhood. That's unless the two can come to an agreement on things. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹
@@laurenclark1990 whoever has the highest income is usually the one who cheats,it's always the wealthy athletes and entertainers who get accused of cheating in their nonrich wives,no blue collar man is gonna cheat on his wealthy wife if he is lucky enough to snag one
They say they want equal relationships (i.e., they won't submit to his authority), but at the same time, the men they want are in all ways their superior. Taller, stronger, smarter, wealthier, etc. This doesn't add up.
They want the best man available to submit to their will after a period of struggle to feel like they earned something special they can show up to their friends. Hope this helps.
Fellas, invest in Red Lobster, Olive Garden, Ruby Tuesday's and Pet Food because a decade from now, all of those will be in high demand because of the lonely desperate women that are to hard-headed to see the error of their ways today!💯
I'm literally laughing at a woman I briefly tried to date who made 400k per year and admits that she can't see herself with a man who isn't a provider and makes more than her. She now realizes after her 3rd marriage just ended that admits she's going to be alone for a while because she can't see any other dynamic. My own mother warned me not to try and date her because she made so much more than me. Turned out she was right. The games she played and the disrespect were ridiculous. Now she's doing everything to keep herself up but doing no work on her character. She created her own prison of loneliness and I won't lie it makes me chuckle
You ever notice that if the man is making much more than the woman, he ISN'T disrespectful...but she STILL gets out of pocket sometimes just to see if he checks her? These women are not worth any effort. They prefer broke dudes anyway.
And let's be realistic, information I found says only 11% of women earn over $100000 per year; it's likely less if it's $150,000. All these big mouth women run their mouths acting like the majority of men make 6 figures. They will not find what they want and even if they did, they'll still divorce him. It's part of their game plan; err, retirement planning.
A wife doesn't need to "encourage" a man to make more money, or be more successful. A wife is to be a help mate, period. If a man is blue collar, white collar, or executive level, educated, uneducated, etc., he is not obligated to become more than what his station in life is due to what a wife claims she wants. There is nothing wrong with being encouraging, yet, the goal is never to make that man into what she expects him to be. That is a plan that will fail. Men, be what you are, strive to be whatever you are capable of being, provide and protect based on that, and live well. That is all you are required to do. Not every man is a CEO, business owner, or high powered entrepreneur and that does not make any man who is not these things any less of a man just because some woman isn't satisfied with that status.
Part of the duty and joy of being married to someone is to encourage and support them into being a better person. To build them up into someone greater than they were.
@@christophertaylor9100 That should only be if they consent to that. Otherwise you're pressuring them into doing/becoming something/someone they don't want to do/become & that's not right.
Due to what the wife claims what she wants? Do you know why GOD chose Abraham? It had nothing to do with his wife. GOD chose Abraham because he said. "Abraham would command his house". That includes his wife. It's not about what the wife wanted, it was about what Abraham wanted. PERIOD! The man is supposed to lead his house. Everybody falls under him. And a man being made in GOD'S image and likeness is not gonna go for a woman trying to be an authority figure over him. GOD gave the order of Authority GOD Christ Man Woman And it doesn't change because a woman gets a job and makes more money or not. Her husband is above her. PERIOD! Thus saith the LORD.
Men, keep your standards high. Stay away from toxic women. Stay away from single mothers. Stay away from overweight and obese women. If she’s not on the same page or level as you, leave her alone. Women do it all the time.
The problem with women that makes a lot of money and wanting a man that makes the same or higher is, """drum roll""" What makes you think that same man WANTS you?😅
Western culture has indoctrinated _Western_ females to beleive that if they are high(er) income earners, this will compensate for them being physically less attractive than the competition.
👆🏿Thank you!!! These women want to work, split the housework and have their men pay for everything. This seems like the worst deal possible and a lot of morons are going for it.
When men make money, they wanted to take care of the family. When women make money, they want to take care themselves. Women say it best, "HIS money is OUR money, but HER money is HER money."
When BW make comments about there ain’t BM men on their level I laugh. Boss babes are invisible to them they want in shape non combative women with real hair and no kids.
It's funny...smart Brothers don't run around bragging about how much they make because doing that earns enemies and bad attention. Yet 60-something percent of us are middle class. Women who make a lot of money--especially Black women who do--are in the minority, yet ALL THEY DO is talk about how well they're doing. 🤔
It's kind of annoying a lot of us have to be humble. I legit don't care about making enemies but don't brag about my income. I kind of just stay to myself and don't enjoy talking to random people who think they deserve your validation because they exist and you're supposed to see yourself as inferior.
I’ve noticed”MOST”women want what’s popular at that present time period.Think about it fellas if you’re seasoned you’ll see it.I’m 57 going on 58,we’ll seasoned & stand 10 down.
same ol shit from 80's to 90s to 2000s now 20's it dont change fam..i watch my grandmothers, mother, sister and now nievces...psycho of babel and bullsheet
Some of these women grew up with a positive father figure in their life, an average man. Now, they're saying that a man like their father, is not good enough for them. How do they think that would make their father feel?
Learning how to be a wife starts in early childhood. If a little girl is being raised by a single mom, she's not learning how to be a wife. We've had at least 4 generations. Were single mother families are the norm. If you want a woman who is suitably trained to be a wife. You have got to go where they still make them.
Titus 2:3-5 3. The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; 4. That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, 5. To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. 6Young men likewise exhort to be sober minded.
Fathers do not provoke your children to wrath but bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord. Ephesians 5 Train up the child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart. Generations of men not leading and guiding their children have caused this problem !
In my early 20's, I dumped a girl who refused to get a job, had no goals, and I just got tired of paying for everything...I had a lot of girls pissed at for the first two reasons.
My wife and I have a lovely lady as a family friend who has been to trying to level up for nearly 25 years. Guess what? She is nearly 65 years old now and still alone. The sad part is that she turned down plenty of solid, marriage-minded brothers along the way. One brother that she broke off an engagement with married another woman, and he has been married for nearly 15 years. This is a cautionary tale for attractive women who think that the male attention will last. Eventually, the attention will cease and you may end up a spinster with dogs and cats for companionship.
@@marcusjones5287 That's true and it's really sad for them. Our family friend is a beautiful woman, dime-piece material in her heyday. Yet, because of her poor choices, she squandered solid marital prospects. Now, she has to face old age by herself. It goes to show that pride goes before a fall.
I married a female like my mother. Caring, a hard worker, educated, knew about finances, knew we had a business to run, and knew that she is second, and I am always first. We're always there for each other, when needed, no matter what. We've had our times, but we both know that nobody can take her, or my place.
Here's the thing women are NOT talking about , yes they are getting educated , BUT HOW did they FINANCE that education , if they took out GOV'T loans and you marry then CONGRATULATIONS the MAN also assumes THAT loan , I know ALOT of women who have Ph'd 's and have 6 figure debt
My brother, thank you for pointing this out because most of these women run around here in grave, grave, grave financial debt. They believe that they are running circles around us me in and out doing us, but the only thing they are out doing a seeeen is getting themselves into debt so deep. The only thing they can do is get married and hopefully get out of all of the debt. They are in thank you very much.
That is the whole reason for wanting men with a ton of money, is because they have spending habits and need someone to paid their debt. Reason so many have OF, sugar babies and do "many strange things for a little bit of change"
Why is it when modern women say "it's been in research" that it's a valid point that they're making but at the same time can't explain who conducted the research that is weird asf 🤔
“Women should look good. Work on yourselves. Education? I spit on education. No man is ever going to put his hand up your dress looking for a library card.” -Joan Rivers
Ain't this the same lady that said that our woman where delusional and now she saying this , they move the goalpost so much to make sure there never wrong but that makes them wrong most of the time
Why bother with modern Western women when no matter what, she is unwilling to change, grow, and/or improve with a good man? Let Loneliness be their companion and Regret their husband.
I'm trying to get my house remodeled to put it up for sale and it's taking longer than I thought. If it ain't one thing it's another. Thanks for the concern Corey........Raulh
@Please Act Right happy Father's Day. Though your content is very informative and entertaining, you are an uncle blessings with wisdom in this space, so as a self claimed nephew, I was genuinely concerned with your well-being. Blessings Unc
"There aren't enough eligible BM ..." Then date out. That should be the go-to response for now on. Don't try to convince them otherwise, just tell them to find another store.
The problem is, is that they can't - at least not easily. They'd first have to change to be the ideal kind, fit, friendly, and cooperative woman to even be considered by any other men. Most BW won't, and as a consequence are the very last to be desired out of all the kinds of women on Earth. If they do - they're nigh-guaranteed to be the most fit, friendly, and cooperative women in comparison to other types of women - never giving the other men the sh*tty end of the stick that they'd be more than willing to give any BM. They won't buck up to Master Bob - not even raising her voice in protest - but will be demanding and difficult with any BM who shows interest.....
Lmao Kevin Samuels had a heart attack trying to reason with these women. Y’all keep bumping your head up against a brick wall. Y’all better leave these damn fools alone 😂😂😂. Also if these bw are making so much money why are they leading in evictions 🧐?
This is the same Rebecca Lynn Pope who stops matchmaking because these women have unrealistic expectations. It looks like she did not follow her own statement.
Marriage is a partnership it's not you do this and I do that. Your married your not roommates. A couple is supposed to be working together building a home, family, securing a future as far as retirement. These women are selfish and greedy beyond measure. They want all the benefits of a marriage without putting any effort into it. Women do not want a man who earns less than her because she wants more money from the man when she decides to bail the marriage alimony, child support ect ect. The woman with the pink hair said it herself " if when I leave him I want him to be stable on his own" Translation I don't want to pay him anything because I make more than he does. Since when did a woman who leaves the marriage ever really care about the well being of her spouse? NOTTA
@@evos469Exactly it’s not, there’s a leader and a helper/follower period………nothing I say is successful when there’s not a clear defined hierarchy or chain of command, the captain goes down with the ship because all decisions were his fail or success! 🤷🏽♂️
When it comes to relationships, I am now basically at an inflexion point where American/western women have nothing to say worth listening to. All I need do is stack those bills, self actualize & travel, experience different cultures, foods, natural, historical & cultural areas of interest. And at some point should I wish to marry, I will seek a partner outside the western realm. There is really nothing left here. Ofcourse there are exceptions but who has the energy to seek out a unicorn when the non-western world is full of beautiful gazelles?
I and to this epiphany about 3 months again also I’m married but if a man isn’t married he better go out of the western realm if not he is going to get messed over most likely
Man duck her. Let her pay 100% of the bills alone. Get your passport and find "the one" that do not mind working with you, that respect you, that let you lead, that staying faithful to you, .... Believe me she is WAITING for you.
When a woman says she expects a man to pay the mortgage and car note, the next question should be are you going to ok with hime deciding where they live and the car she drives?
Thank you that’s the part they skip if he wants to put her in a economy 4 door she has a issue she wants a Benz and you to pay for it they aren’t fooling anyone
This is the best video I have seen from Raulh in a long time. I enjoy all of them, but this one was daaaamnnnnn good! On another note, I noticed something in common in all of these women on these podcasts talking about their expectations of a man. 1. They all have bad attitudes, which will turn off any man, especially the high value men they think they are entitled to have. 2. None of them actually have a man in their life, either a high value one or a broke Pookie.
And foreign fine, fit, more beautiful, feminine and cooperative, women in Brazil, Colombia, Dominican Republic, Thailand, Venezuela, Ecuador, Costa Rica, Philippines, Vietnam and Cambodia are in the buffet line gladly sweeping these American/western good men off their feet and they are winning. And these men are happier and always smiling!
If only more of these counties would get rid of those stupid and useless covid travel restrictions and stop pretending it's still 2020, then more western men can meet these foreign women to find wives.
Been busy workin on my house getting it ready for sale. Soon as it sales, I'm out. Philippines here I come✈✈✈✈✈✈✈. Thanks for the concern Eugene.........Raulh
@@desreenjackson7638 Because I mentioned that I’m moving there on my channel from time to time, I’ve been invited to so many different places in the Philippines. Iloilo, Lapu-Lapu, IT Park in Cebu, Lahug, etc,. Just to name a few. Everybody wants to introduce me to their Filipina girlfriends friend, cousin, or coworker. I guess I’m gonna have to do a lot of island hopping once I get there and get settled. Lol. As far as having people in my corner, all those I previously mentioned are welcoming me to their area so I’m already set before I even get there. I haven’t learned the language yet because I don’t know where I’m gonna end up. They have different languages so I don’t wanna learn one and end up in an area where they don’t speak that language just to have to start learning a different language all over again. So I’ll just wait till I get there and get settled. I'm still working on my house so I won't be posting as much for another week. Once I'm done I'll get back to work on posting regularly again. Thanks for the concern, I really appreciate the love. ......Raulh
character and moral values are the last things on their mind. However, after the breakup, it's the first thing they mention. "he never REALLY loved me".
The girl in the interview clip pisses me off so much i swear like so he is stable but she STILL left him cuz he wasn't making as much money as her but after sometime you best believe she'll be begging him for a 2nd chance after her prime is gone and let's pray his rejection will be epic
In my case, she walked out of the marriage and left me to raise our two sons by myself and one year later I filed for divorce, renewed my passport and i am now in a great relationship with a black Colombian lady and I couldn’t be happier! I am on my way to Cali Colombia in august! Proud PPB since 1970!!! Guys, get your passports and get the hell out of hell!!!
I’m so glad that I’m single and have my own home, my own cars, and my own everything, I will never get married and never, ever let a woman live with me
Zoom Brothers Zoom! I'm zooming to the Dominican Republic and the Republic of Colombia! Where Afro-Latina are FIT, FRIENDLY, FEMININE, AND HIGHLY COOPERATIVE! Viva Passport Bros.! ASE!
Don't give up Brother Rahul, I know it's like a needle in a hay stack, but she out here some where for you. They're not all bad. Pray that God will send you your help mate.
You know how they say "never say never?" Well I'm saying I will NEVER date another one of these western women ever again. I don't know how many more days I have left here on this earth and I refuse to spend another minute of my time with these women in the USA. Like Lexy O who responded said, she's in Asia. As soon as my house sells, I'm out of here. ✈✈✈✈✈ I appreciate the encouragement tho Tank.......
She is looking for a daddy. But what these dingbats don’t get is that there’s a word for a woman getting all her bills paid, and that word is DEPENDENT. And when you are a dependent, then you are the child and the man is the parent. And what happens when the child tries talking when the adults (bill payers) are talking? They’re told to shut the hell up and stay in a child’s place.
Just recently came across this channel and have been doing a bit of binge watching. IMO this is one of the most significant channels on navigating relationships & dissecting the male/female dynamic. I've found the info thus far to be both timely & relevant and also 'very' necessary. The insights provided (and dare I say 'exposed' in often the most humorous fashion) are greatly appreciated. So thanks Raulh and keep the faith gentlemen.
Because that's the guy she's attracted to and who "makes her wet". Don't be confused when you observe women saying one thing and then doing another. If you see this happening just know that in the VAST majority of those cases that discrepancy exists because she's trying to have her cake and eat it too. She wants BOTH the man she says she wants who makes more money than her, AND the man you see her with "who barely makes anything" because he's providing something else that she wants (but that you haven't heard her say) which is usually that he makes her tingle and appears to her as being good genetic stock OR really good in bed (or most commonly BOTH). So when their actions aren't matching their words, it's a safe bet that her words weren't explaining the entire picture and her actions are filling in the rest. Their words weren't lying per se, they were just incomplete when it comes to explaining EVERYTHING they want. Get it? Women want MORE, big surprise there right? Women ALWAYS want: 1) MORE, 2) something else, & 3) I don't know, pick something for me & make it amazing. So the sooner men can figure out these basic truths the better off they'll be and the less suffering they'll endure when dealing with women. Good luck and spread the word!!
Absolutely amazing that you can find soooooooooooooo many videos out there like this one. Seems like everyday another one and another one and another one!!!!!
This video analysis was so on point. Many modern women have lost their ability to appreciate anything that any man has done and will be willing to do to create a life journey of love and joy. Their happiness has become dependent upon material things and not about building an empire of financial freedom (together). After a lot of talk and promises, they are ready to divorce when the husband realizes that it's all about the money.
You can define it however you want, use analogies, idioms, or even fairytales. The one that tells it all is "They want their cake and eat it too" and will stomp their feet, throw tantrums and become intractable when fighting logic and common sense.
You are roommates, you agree to be roommates. Until death do you part. This is not a play on words. You promised to be under the same household. To help and to hold, support. A roommate can leave at any time. Marriage is an agreement to stay together until the end of your time.
Why won't women understand that getting a career and money doesn't make them more attractive ? There are 10s of thousands of men telling them we don't care about that. but they won't listen.
This is one of the 304's or boss chicks from the ghetto that expect a man to marry them (with their kids) and raise them up out of their situation, yet when the shoe is on the other foot they're ready to bounce 😂😅
When a man makes more money pays all the bills/trips she will feel he's being to controlling usurping his leadership wanting authority in the relationship
This is what happens when you let corporations. Encourage womyn to be like men. To achieve like men. Earn, and, then Encourage a moden mindset. While still wanting a man to be more successful
Barber School in Texas tend to hover around $15,400 which is about $150 under the national average. 1500 hours in length which usually is between 6 months to 12 months.
I have female friends from high school that went off to college, got umpteen degrees, work a corporate job, got a high value hubby, had kids, then for whatever reasons they broke up. Kids are now on their own and my friends are home, alone, THICC aka overweight, and won’t settle cause they once had a high value man and still think they can get one cause “I got a PhD.” Like KS said, “You can’t make this shit up.”
It's amazing how these hyenas talk about all the degrees they have, but when a guy gets degrees they see him as corny. Well, let them all kick rocks!!! Proverbs 21:19 is piling up wins, brothers!!!
It's just a matter of time before the SHTF in this country. When it happens, Many men will not lift a finger to help these feminist women. Tough times has a way of humbling folks.
I need a man who can man up and be the man I need him to be without me so I can leech off him and brag about how awesome he is to my friends. Why do you need to brag? Oh so why does everyone else get to brag but I don't.
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By black women having degrees she means "humanities/ social sciences", and by opening businesses she means "hair salons, and OF". Black men have a higher median income than black women, so what on earth she talking about?
Good stuff
What's the name of the podcast at 9:36? I'd like to watch that full episode.
I refuse to be with a woman who only sees me as an ATM. That's a Hell No!!
Exactly 💯
Good luck with that one
Agreed bro , you are better off with your own alone
All women only see men as ATM’s and meat shields.
Then don't go overseas, bc that's how relationships.
They may end in love and respect but it starts with your wallet
"If you don't need a man for his money, then why does he have to make more money than you?" That's the hypocrisy of hypergamy.
Good point
Because experiences have shown that women, who make more than their husband's, esp. Black American women, get cheated on or abused. If a BA man can't feel like he can provide for BA, it's an insult to his manhood. That's unless the two can come to an agreement on things. 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹 🏵 🌼 🌸 🌻 🌹
@@laurenclark1990 not true
@@laurenclark1990 just an excuse to be a gold digger
@@laurenclark1990 whoever has the highest income is usually the one who cheats,it's always the wealthy athletes and entertainers who get accused of cheating in their nonrich wives,no blue collar man is gonna cheat on his wealthy wife if he is lucky enough to snag one
They say they want equal relationships (i.e., they won't submit to his authority), but at the same time, the men they want are in all ways their superior. Taller, stronger, smarter, wealthier, etc. This doesn't add up.
They want the best man available to submit to their will after a period of struggle to feel like they earned something special they can show up to their friends. Hope this helps.
The hypocrisy, contradictions, & blatant lies of modern Wohmen.🤦♂
The key word in your comment is "want." None of these women actually have the type of man they "want" and none of them ever will.
These are entitled Selfish people disguising it as "standards“
Sure it does. They want servitude
Fellas, invest in Red Lobster, Olive Garden, Ruby Tuesday's and Pet Food because a decade from now, all of those will be in high demand because of the lonely desperate women that are to hard-headed to see the error of their ways today!💯
All those companies will be out of business in 7-10 years, if not sooner. Just look at BB&B.
Investing in Franzia boxed wine, which is the largest-volume boxed wine brand in the world!! I'm gonna be RICH!
Don't forget Duracell or Energizer batteries for their toys😂😂😂😂
And invest in pet shops...its their only friends
@@eugenedantzler4485 🤣🤣🤣
I'm literally laughing at a woman I briefly tried to date who made 400k per year and admits that she can't see herself with a man who isn't a provider and makes more than her. She now realizes after her 3rd marriage just ended that admits she's going to be alone for a while because she can't see any other dynamic. My own mother warned me not to try and date her because she made so much more than me. Turned out she was right. The games she played and the disrespect were ridiculous.
Now she's doing everything to keep herself up but doing no work on her character. She created her own prison of loneliness and I won't lie it makes me chuckle
😂😂😂😂😂. She better realise money isn't everything. Your mom is a wise woman bro!!💯
You ever notice that if the man is making much more than the woman, he ISN'T disrespectful...but she STILL gets out of pocket sometimes just to see if he checks her?
These women are not worth any effort. They prefer broke dudes anyway.
It makes me chuckle too. Lol
@@carls9310 i noticed
Very soon she won’t hit the wall, but will definitely crash into the walls of Mexico with full force. 🤣🤣🤣🙈
"Because he wasn't doing better than me."
Bingo.
A woman who makes $150k won't settle for a man who makes less than $225k.
And let's be realistic, information I found says only 11% of women earn over $100000 per year; it's likely less if it's $150,000. All these big mouth women run their mouths acting like the majority of men make 6 figures. They will not find what they want and even if they did, they'll still divorce him. It's part of their game plan; err, retirement planning.
Unless he’s extremely handsome and abusive.
Submissive and growth go together you will never hear that in modern women unless it's twisted first person.
What’s, the Percentage of Women making over $150,000.00?
Less , than 1 Percent.
@@Marchaund🤦♂️
A wife doesn't need to "encourage" a man to make more money, or be more successful. A wife is to be a help mate, period. If a man is blue collar, white collar, or executive level, educated, uneducated, etc., he is not obligated to become more than what his station in life is due to what a wife claims she wants. There is nothing wrong with being encouraging, yet, the goal is never to make that man into what she expects him to be. That is a plan that will fail. Men, be what you are, strive to be whatever you are capable of being, provide and protect based on that, and live well. That is all you are required to do. Not every man is a CEO, business owner, or high powered entrepreneur and that does not make any man who is not these things any less of a man just because some woman isn't satisfied with that status.
Part of the duty and joy of being married to someone is to encourage and support them into being a better person. To build them up into someone greater than they were.
“Encourage” = guilt, pressure and nag.
Well said bro
@@christophertaylor9100 That should only be if they consent to that.
Otherwise you're pressuring them into doing/becoming something/someone they don't want to do/become & that's not right.
Due to what the wife claims what she wants? Do you know why GOD chose Abraham? It had nothing to do with his wife.
GOD chose Abraham because he said. "Abraham would command his house". That includes his wife. It's not about what the wife wanted, it was about what Abraham wanted. PERIOD! The man is supposed to lead his house. Everybody falls under him. And a man being made in GOD'S image and likeness is not gonna go for a woman trying to be an authority figure over him.
GOD gave the order of Authority
GOD
Christ
Man
Woman
And it doesn't change because a woman gets a job and makes more money or not. Her husband is above her. PERIOD! Thus saith the LORD.
Women dating down is wrong.
So why is men dating down right?
I am eagerly awaiting some of the twisted logic to justify it……great question
Double standards, brah!!! Don’t cha know???
It's not. Men have a responsibility to change that standard
Men, keep your standards high. Stay away from toxic women. Stay away from single mothers. Stay away from overweight and obese women. If she’s not on the same page or level as you, leave her alone. Women do it all the time.
The problem with women that makes a lot of money and wanting a man that makes the same or higher is, """drum roll""" What makes you think that same man WANTS you?😅
Western culture has indoctrinated _Western_ females to beleive that if they are high(er) income earners, this will compensate for them being physically less attractive than the competition.
Exactly
There's no way in the world if my wife is working which means, "she's not a housewife" will I paying all the bills! NO WAY!
👆🏿Thank you!!! These women want to work, split the housework and have their men pay for everything. This seems like the worst deal possible and a lot of morons are going for it.
Thank you
When men make money, they wanted to take care of the family. When women make money, they want to take care themselves. Women say it best, "HIS money is OUR money, but HER money is HER money."
When BW make comments about there ain’t BM men on their level I laugh. Boss babes are invisible to them they want in shape non combative women with real hair and no kids.
It's funny...smart Brothers don't run around bragging about how much they make because doing that earns enemies and bad attention. Yet 60-something percent of us are middle class.
Women who make a lot of money--especially Black women who do--are in the minority, yet ALL THEY DO is talk about how well they're doing. 🤔
Preach
It's kind of annoying a lot of us have to be humble. I legit don't care about making enemies but don't brag about my income. I kind of just stay to myself and don't enjoy talking to random people who think they deserve your validation because they exist and you're supposed to see yourself as inferior.
I’ve noticed”MOST”women want what’s popular at that present time period.Think about it fellas if you’re seasoned you’ll see it.I’m 57 going on 58,we’ll seasoned & stand 10 down.
same ol shit from 80's to 90s to 2000s now 20's it dont change fam..i watch my grandmothers, mother, sister and now nievces...psycho of babel and bullsheet
Some of these women grew up with a positive father figure in their life, an average man. Now, they're saying that a man like their father, is not good enough for them. How do they think that would make their father feel?
"I want my man to be stable, if I were to leave him......." (she doesn't want to have to pay him support --- was that what she was going to say?)
Yep, she plans to break up before she starts a relationship
I don’t think for one second that she cares about the financial status of the guy she dumps 😂😂
That is exactly what she was going to say. 😮. I wanted her to finish that sentence so bad.
Learning how to be a wife starts in early childhood. If a little girl is being raised by a single mom, she's not learning how to be a wife. We've had at least 4 generations. Were single mother families are the norm. If you want a woman who is suitably trained to be a wife. You have got to go where they still make them.
Titus 2:3-5
3. The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;
4. That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
5. To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. 6Young men likewise exhort to be sober minded.
Fathers do not provoke your children to wrath but bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord. Ephesians 5
Train up the child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart.
Generations of men not leading and guiding their children have caused this problem !
Bars!
In my early 20's, I dumped a girl who refused to get a job, had no goals, and I just got tired of paying for everything...I had a lot of girls pissed at for the first two reasons.
My wife and I have a lovely lady as a family friend who has been to trying to level up for nearly 25 years. Guess what? She is nearly 65 years old now and still alone. The sad part is that she turned down plenty of solid, marriage-minded brothers along the way. One brother that she broke off an engagement with married another woman, and he has been married for nearly 15 years. This is a cautionary tale for attractive women who think that the male attention will last. Eventually, the attention will cease and you may end up a spinster with dogs and cats for companionship.
You should get 10,000 likes on this comment. However, all the women in this video would argue you down if you told them this story.
@@marcusjones5287 That's true and it's really sad for them. Our family friend is a beautiful woman, dime-piece material in her heyday. Yet, because of her poor choices, she squandered solid marital prospects. Now, she has to face old age by herself. It goes to show that pride goes before a fall.
Fellas go where you are celebrated not tolerated
I married a female like my mother. Caring, a hard worker, educated,
knew about finances, knew we had a business to run, and knew that she
is second, and I am always first. We're always there for each other, when needed, no
matter what. We've had our times, but we both know that nobody can take her, or my place.
Congratulations. You are a lucky man.
Where did you find her? These types of women are very rare in the U.S.
You are first, and she is second for what?
@Victorious For when I'm not around, she runs the house, and surroundings.
@@Victorious-gx9ur So he can concentrate on his purpose here on earth. When a man can do this the whole family wins!
Ladies, no one is competing with you. The hell with your degrees and businesses. Are you caring, nurturing, and supportive? I am a King.
Here's the thing women are NOT talking about , yes they are getting educated , BUT HOW did they FINANCE that education , if they took out GOV'T loans and you marry then CONGRATULATIONS the MAN also assumes THAT loan , I know ALOT of women who have Ph'd 's and have 6 figure debt
Don't forget a lot of loud mouth BW don't have Ph'd's or make 6 figure. which why they are the most evicted group in the country.
My brother, thank you for pointing this out because most of these women run around here in grave, grave, grave financial debt. They believe that they are running circles around us me in and out doing us, but the only thing they are out doing a seeeen is getting themselves into debt so deep. The only thing they can do is get married and hopefully get out of all of the debt. They are in thank you very much.
That is the whole reason for wanting men with a ton of money, is because they have spending habits and need someone to paid their debt. Reason so many have OF, sugar babies and do "many strange things for a little bit of change"
@@keithingram8690 Exaaactly. They’re starting off negative, in the red, but “bragging points” for having a degree. Yeah ok sure. 🙄
That dude on da mic is the calmest dude I ever seen.
Why is it when modern women say "it's been in research" that it's a valid point that they're making but at the same time can't explain who conducted the research that is weird asf 🤔
When they say that without citing the source it means their lying, that's all that is.
“Women should look good. Work on yourselves. Education? I spit on education. No man is ever going to put his hand up your dress looking for a library card.”
-Joan Rivers
Lol....
This is great advice. I’m happy to say I’ve found my Proverbs 31 wife. There’s nothing like it gentlemen.
Me too and I'm three decades in...I feel real sorry for our youths...I recommend tickets to the mother land.
Ain't this the same lady that said that our woman where delusional and now she saying this , they move the goalpost so much to make sure there never wrong but that makes them wrong most of the time
Why bother with modern Western women when no matter what, she is unwilling to change, grow, and/or improve with a good man? Let Loneliness be their companion and Regret their husband.
We missed you, Rauhl! Glad to see your ok. Keep up the good work 👏🏿
I'm trying to get my house remodeled to put it up for sale and it's taking longer than I thought. If it ain't one thing it's another. Thanks for the concern Corey........Raulh
@Please Act Right happy Father's Day. Though your content is very informative and entertaining, you are an uncle blessings with wisdom in this space, so as a self claimed nephew, I was genuinely concerned with your well-being. Blessings Unc
@@Schooling2BETTER Thank you nephew Corey 😇 Happy Fathers day to you too..........Raulh
"There aren't enough eligible BM ..."
Then date out. That should be the go-to response for now on. Don't try to convince them otherwise, just tell them to find another store.
The problem is, is that they can't - at least not easily. They'd first have to change to be the ideal kind, fit, friendly, and cooperative woman to even be considered by any other men. Most BW won't, and as a consequence are the very last to be desired out of all the kinds of women on Earth. If they do - they're nigh-guaranteed to be the most fit, friendly, and cooperative women in comparison to other types of women - never giving the other men the sh*tty end of the stick that they'd be more than willing to give any BM. They won't buck up to Master Bob - not even raising her voice in protest - but will be demanding and difficult with any BM who shows interest.....
Wow. Lizzos with unreal expectations. Delusion on full display.
modern women my brother but don't worry the time will come when they will beg for the guy who either makes less than her or a guy who makes avarage
Lmao Kevin Samuels had a heart attack trying to reason with these women. Y’all keep bumping your head up against a brick wall. Y’all better leave these damn fools alone 😂😂😂.
Also if these bw are making so much money why are they leading in evictions 🧐?
This is the same Rebecca Lynn Pope who stops matchmaking because these women have unrealistic expectations.
It looks like she did not follow her own statement.
Isn’t it suppose to be OUR MONEY?
American women only care about themselves my advice leave them alone
Yea, HIS money is "our money", not hers. Her money is HER money. See the hypocrisy.. I mean difference? smh
Marriage is a partnership it's not you do this and I do that. Your married your not roommates. A couple is supposed to be working together building a home, family, securing a future as far as retirement. These women are selfish and greedy beyond measure. They want all the benefits of a marriage without putting any effort into it. Women do not want a man who earns less than her because she wants more money from the man when she decides to bail the marriage alimony, child support ect ect. The woman with the pink hair said it herself " if when I leave him I want him to be stable on his own" Translation I don't want to pay him anything because I make more than he does. Since when did a woman who leaves the marriage ever really care about the well being of her spouse? NOTTA
FACTS💯
Marriage isn't a partnership if it was a partnership there wouldn't be expectations of gender roles.
@@evos469Exactly it’s not, there’s a leader and a helper/follower period………nothing I say is successful when there’s not a clear defined hierarchy or chain of command, the captain goes down with the ship because all decisions were his fail or success! 🤷🏽♂️
When it comes to relationships, I am now basically at an inflexion point where American/western women have nothing to say worth listening to. All I need do is stack those bills, self actualize & travel, experience different cultures, foods, natural, historical & cultural areas of interest. And at some point should I wish to marry, I will seek a partner outside the western realm.
There is really nothing left here. Ofcourse there are exceptions but who has the energy to seek out a unicorn when the non-western world is full of beautiful gazelles?
I and to this epiphany about 3 months again also I’m married but if a man isn’t married he better go out of the western realm if not he is going to get messed over most likely
Man duck her. Let her pay 100% of the bills alone. Get your passport and find "the one" that do not mind working with you, that respect you, that let you lead, that staying faithful to you, ....
Believe me she is WAITING for you.
When a woman says she expects a man to pay the mortgage and car note, the next question should be are you going to ok with hime deciding where they live and the car she drives?
Thank you that’s the part they skip if he wants to put her in a economy 4 door she has a issue she wants a Benz and you to pay for it they aren’t fooling anyone
The "MOST EDUCATED" and still can't figure it out 😂
ikr Lol.......
This is the best video I have seen from Raulh in a long time. I enjoy all of them, but this one was daaaamnnnnn good! On another note, I noticed something in common in all of these women on these podcasts talking about their expectations of a man. 1. They all have bad attitudes, which will turn off any man, especially the high value men they think they are entitled to have. 2. None of them actually have a man in their life, either a high value one or a broke Pookie.
2:52 Teachers can have a Masters degree and make $40K...why doesn't he qualify? He's educated!
So let's say she was making $75.,000/yr and he was making $40,000/yr, that's $115,000/yr combined, that should make the relationship work.
And foreign fine, fit, more beautiful, feminine and cooperative, women in Brazil, Colombia, Dominican Republic, Thailand, Venezuela, Ecuador, Costa Rica, Philippines, Vietnam and Cambodia are in the buffet line gladly sweeping these American/western good men off their feet and they are winning. And these men are happier and always smiling!
If only more of these counties would get rid of those stupid and useless covid travel restrictions and stop pretending it's still 2020, then more western men can meet these foreign women to find wives.
"Leave her, where you found her!" Which is probably in them skreetz!
Raulh is back!!!!!! Finally brother!!! I was about to send a search party after you!!!!!! Lol
Been busy workin on my house getting it ready for sale. Soon as it sales, I'm out. Philippines here I come✈✈✈✈✈✈✈. Thanks for the concern Eugene.........Raulh
@@pleaseactright1 no problem brother! Safe travels!!!!
@eugenedantzler4485...I was wondering the same thing.... where's Raulh?😆
@@pleaseactright1 Hey Raulh 👋🏽, have you built up a community of friends over there? ....are you doing your homework i.e learning the language?🙂😉
@@desreenjackson7638 Because I mentioned that I’m moving there on my channel from time to time, I’ve been invited to so many different places in the Philippines. Iloilo, Lapu-Lapu, IT Park in Cebu, Lahug, etc,. Just to name a few. Everybody wants to introduce me to their Filipina girlfriends friend, cousin, or coworker. I guess I’m gonna have to do a lot of island hopping once I get there and get settled. Lol. As far as having people in my corner, all those I previously mentioned are welcoming me to their area so I’m already set before I even get there. I haven’t learned the language yet because I don’t know where I’m gonna end up. They have different languages so I don’t wanna learn one and end up in an area where they don’t speak that language just to have to start learning a different language all over again. So I’ll just wait till I get there and get settled. I'm still working on my house so I won't be posting as much for another week. Once I'm done I'll get back to work on posting regularly again. Thanks for the concern, I really appreciate the love. ......Raulh
“Please act right” -I want that for a bumper sticker.
character and moral values are the last things on their mind. However, after the breakup, it's the first thing they mention. "he never REALLY loved me".
The girl in the interview clip pisses me off so much i swear like so he is stable but she STILL left him cuz he wasn't making as much money as her but after sometime you best believe she'll be begging him for a 2nd chance after her prime is gone and let's pray his rejection will be epic
Get, a Dog or Cat get Your Scissor game up!!!
In my case, she walked out of the marriage and left me to raise our two sons by myself and one year later I filed for divorce, renewed my passport and i am now in a great relationship with a black Colombian lady and I couldn’t be happier! I am on my way to Cali Colombia in august! Proud PPB since 1970!!! Guys, get your passports and get the hell out of hell!!!
I’m so glad that I’m single and have my own home, my own cars, and my own everything, I will never get married and never, ever let a woman live with me
Zoom Brothers Zoom! I'm zooming to the Dominican Republic and the Republic of Colombia! Where Afro-Latina are FIT, FRIENDLY, FEMININE, AND HIGHLY COOPERATIVE! Viva Passport Bros.! ASE!
Don't give up Brother Rahul, I know it's like a needle in a hay stack, but she out here some where for you. They're not all bad. Pray that God will send you your help mate.
I bet he finds her in Southeast Asia
You know how they say "never say never?" Well I'm saying I will NEVER date another one of these western women ever again. I don't know how many more days I have left here on this earth and I refuse to spend another minute of my time with these women in the USA. Like Lexy O who responded said, she's in Asia. As soon as my house sells, I'm out of here. ✈✈✈✈✈ I appreciate the encouragement tho Tank.......
@@Lexy-O You know it..........
@@pleaseactright1See you in the Phillipines Raul!Getting my stuff together now!
@@keithadams2368 Yes Sir.........
They are just ratchet, that's all. No man would ever be enough for them, no matter how much he makes or what he does.
Well, that big girl is not going to get a man that has money.
I can always count on Uncle Raulh for a flawless voice of reason! ✊️🤘
Thanks Ricepaddy...........Raulh
She is looking for a daddy. But what these dingbats don’t get is that there’s a word for a woman getting all her bills paid, and that word is DEPENDENT. And when you are a dependent, then you are the child and the man is the parent. And what happens when the child tries talking when the adults (bill payers) are talking? They’re told to shut the hell up and stay in a child’s place.
Who cares....after 4 yrs of living alone I gringe at the idea of someone sharing my space. No thanks.
Those three on the couch I feel them because I’m not dating a woman that weighs more than me
Just recently came across this channel and have been doing a bit of binge watching. IMO this is one of the most significant channels on navigating relationships & dissecting the male/female dynamic. I've found the info thus far to be both timely & relevant and also 'very' necessary. The insights provided (and dare I say 'exposed' in often the most humorous fashion) are greatly appreciated. So thanks Raulh and keep the faith gentlemen.
I wonder why they say they won't date a man who doesn't make more than them but you always see them with a guy who barely makes anything. 🤔
Because that's the guy she's attracted to and who "makes her wet".
Don't be confused when you observe women saying one thing and then doing another.
If you see this happening just know that in the VAST majority of those cases that discrepancy exists because she's trying to have her cake and eat it too.
She wants BOTH the man she says she wants who makes more money than her,
AND the man you see her with "who barely makes anything"
because he's providing something else that she wants (but that you haven't heard her say)
which is usually that he makes her tingle and appears to her as being good genetic stock OR really good in bed (or most commonly BOTH).
So when their actions aren't matching their words, it's a safe bet that her words weren't explaining the entire picture and her actions are filling in the rest.
Their words weren't lying per se, they were just incomplete when it comes to explaining EVERYTHING they want. Get it?
Women want MORE, big surprise there right?
Women ALWAYS want:
1) MORE,
2) something else, &
3) I don't know, pick something for me & make it amazing.
So the sooner men can figure out these basic truths the better off they'll be and the less suffering they'll endure when dealing with women.
Good luck and spread the word!!
One Problem Is Mistaking The Word “Provider” Solely As Monetary.
Absolutely amazing that you can find soooooooooooooo many videos out there like this one. Seems like everyday another one and another one and another one!!!!!
It is actually sad that so many of these videos exist on social media.
This video analysis was so on point. Many modern women have lost their ability to appreciate anything that any man has done and will be willing to do to create a life journey of love and joy. Their happiness has become dependent upon material things and not about building an empire of financial freedom (together). After a lot of talk and promises, they are ready to divorce when the husband realizes that it's all about the money.
You can define it however you want, use analogies, idioms, or even fairytales. The one that tells it all is "They want their cake and eat it too" and will stomp their feet, throw tantrums and become intractable when fighting logic and common sense.
You are roommates, you agree to be roommates. Until death do you part.
This is not a play on words. You promised to be under the same household. To help and to hold, support. A roommate can leave at any time. Marriage is an agreement to stay together until the end of your time.
Why won't women understand that getting a career and money doesn't make them more attractive ? There are 10s of thousands of men telling them we don't care about that. but they won't listen.
This is one of the 304's or boss chicks from the ghetto that expect a man to marry them (with their kids) and raise them up out of their situation, yet when the shoe is on the other foot they're ready to bounce 😂😅
...not once during the entire interview that lady mentioned love, affection, mutual respect or genuine care for each other...not once!!
I realise the dog and cat food aisle at my supermarket is expanding very fast.
Good work bruh..you laid this one perfectly
The guy she dropped doged A bullet.
You said it right valuing everything that doesn’t produce a healthy relationship.
When a man makes more money pays all the bills/trips she will feel he's being to controlling usurping his leadership wanting authority in the relationship
This is what happens when you let corporations. Encourage womyn to be like men. To achieve like men. Earn, and, then Encourage a moden mindset. While still wanting a man to be more successful
Barber School in Texas tend to hover around $15,400 which is about $150 under the national average. 1500 hours in length which usually is between 6 months to 12 months.
They mentally is trash.. it’s pointless to even try.. just practice and leave.. what’s the point?
2:38 took me out.....accelerating at an accelerated rate?? What are you doing??? Running on a treadmill??? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
They are TRADITIONAL when it benefits THEM otherwise forget it
The older my ( ex ) wife got, the more materialistic and money hungry she became... the same woman who saw no point in having a savings account.
When did you know it was time to walk away?
That's the same match marker who quit due to unrealistic expectation of her clients😂😂😂
That was powerful
So if the man pays all the bills like the mortgage, she needs to leave when the relationship don’t work out.
When a woman decides the man is paying all the bills, she has decided she is leading & running the house for her selfish needs. She has no shame.
Thank you brother Raul. Great lesson for men. Iron sharpens iron and men sharpen men.
I like seeing how many of us are thanking Raulh. Thats awesome! It shows we value this man.
I have female friends from high school that went off to college, got umpteen degrees, work a corporate job, got a high value hubby, had kids, then for whatever reasons they broke up. Kids are now on their own and my friends are home, alone, THICC aka overweight, and won’t settle cause they once had a high value man and still think they can get one cause “I got a PhD.” Like KS said, “You can’t make this shit up.”
It's amazing how these hyenas talk about all the degrees they have, but when a guy gets degrees they see him as corny. Well, let them all kick rocks!!! Proverbs 21:19 is piling up wins, brothers!!!
Circles?!…they don’t make more than us
This channel is pure gold!
Thanks Wellington......Raulh
My parents are from the Caribbean and my mom always used to say she going to back home and find me a wife lol.
Thank you for telling me that I appreciate that advice cuz this is how you wean out the bad apples
It's just a matter of time before the SHTF in this country. When it happens, Many men will not lift a finger to help these feminist women. Tough times has a way of humbling folks.
..."im used to, i don't believe in, i Can be" ..Ruuuun!!!! away
They are also failing in circles around men.
Thank you Uncle Raulh for all you do for us. 👍
You're welcome and thank you for your support.........Raulh
I love it when you add scriptures to provide truth..
I need a man who can man up and be the man I need him to be without me so I can leech off him and brag about how awesome he is to my friends.
Why do you need to brag?
Oh so why does everyone else get to brag but I don't.