5 Signs She’s Claiming Her Interest In You (And Warning Other Women To BACK OFF)
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5 Signs She’s Claiming Her Interest In You (And Warning Other Women To BACK OFF)
Have you ever felt like you're suddenly the center of attention, but you can't quite put your finger on why? Today, we're uncovering the hidden signals women send to "claim" their interest in a man - a fascinating blend of subtle gestures and actions that silently scream, "He's mine!" It's not just about the overt displays of affection; it's the clever, under-the-radar ways she marks her territory, making it known to others around you that she's staking her claim, all without you even realizing it. From specific mentions in conversations to strategic social media interactions, we're diving into how women signal to the world (and to potential rivals) that you're off the market. Intrigued to learn about these secret tactics? Stick around, and let's decode the language of silent claims together.
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We know that we are not yours, that you are not ours, and that it's just our turn on a mysterious and exotic ride, kind of like at the county fair, but with a splash of Disney, like on Space Mountain - you don't really know what’s in there until you get inside.
We also know that if you had a father, and could produce recent pictures of you with him, that he would never square with what you do behind his back. He is your instruction manual, and without one, you're a defect.
Then we find out about ~your~ kids.
I like her. She's the Regular man's Khaleesi. She can be the Mother of my Dragon 🐉 and I her Khal
Tell y'all don't see the resemblance?
I thought it was weird my GF peed the couch, but she was just marking her territory.
Decades of rewarded failures; the same reason that she will swallow a strand of hair and wonder why it comes out as a string of beads.
Amber Hurd?
well Mark your territory doggy style😊
@@nothingleft3473 More like Amber Turd.
I pissed a girls bed once, I blamed her cat, I don’t think she believed me but she still seen me after that, made me question her judgment lol
Reverse the roles with the same actions and the guy would be arrested for harassment.
Correct. This is why you should never listen to advise from a woman on how to pursue them. You wouldn't ask a fish how to catch a fish, you would ask a fisherman.
At the very least he's called possessive and insecure
I already know you don't get women.
I can already tell you can't pick up a woman.
Pay attention, not child support.
Drizzle drizzle
Twice, I've had women who had friendzoned me display all these behaviors. I recognized the intent and asked the two ladies out again, and was promptly friend-zoned a second time, both times. Women will do these things to protect their Plan B or "bestie" man from interested women. It's diabolical.
Yeah shut her down by going with the woman that's actually interested in you
women ☕
Opposite for me. I had women who I had friendzoned display all these behaviors. I stopped hanging out with them because I felt like they were cockblocking me. I was right!
Women are incapable of true friendship.
Same here. Asked a young lady to be my girl after several dates, she rejected me. So I started seeing my plan b lady and my first option found out and alluva sudden she’s jealous. Make up your damn mind. I gave you a chance
If women want to mark a guy, she needs to actually state it in words. Guys are not all that complicated.
Like-----> Babe, can you block her? I don't care if she's your childhood friend. You don't call or text a man like that just to catch up. If you want to talk, talk in your group chat. I dont like dms and calls.
Like----> Can you not go? Is it just the 2 of you going to get her things at the airport? Why? You have better things to do and I'd be overthinking what you'll be doing. Tell her to find someone else to drive for her.
Something like these? 🤣🤣😂😂
@@dimpledimple5545 If she is calling him "babe" that would suggest they are in a relationship..... The first bit of this video where she just pops up and inserts her self into any conversation with a female.. That was made to sound like they are not in a relationship and she is telling the other lady's to stay away with out using her words...BTW that is a big red flag for us and a good way to chase us away as it makes you look clingy and controlling "A high emotional maintenance woman."
@@jonathanbair523 You dont mark any man who isn't yours. Hence, you should be in a relationship, with proper label and commitment for me to be able to enforce my boundary.
if signaling other ladies this man is mine, I dont know how to do that. As I was told, do not assume a guy likes you, unless he says so. So i dont want to act assuming.
I will flirt, I will be open to date invitations and I will want the man to PURSUE me if I like him and want to be his woman. Otherwise, other women can have him.
@@jonathanbair523 yes I am clingy. No I am not controlling and definitely not high maintenance. If quietly crying when angry or upset is high emotional maintenance woman, then I guess I am. But it takes a lot to make me lose my patience and I rarely lose my temper. I dont raise my voice and I shut up when there's no point in arguing.
If not allowing any woman to chat you or call you privately in a not so normal frequency is clingy and controlling, then I am.
If you dont want any of my guy friends to call me and chat and ask me to hang out, then you should do the same.
You can do it both ways.. 1. Block her or 2. I can go through your conversations.
that's not jealousy or not trusting you. Thats my boundary. Ive seen enough cheating.
Why all the drama? Three simple words, "I like you."
Put a ring on it. Then 5 to 10yrs later I'm not happy anymore. I want the CC again. Now I'm taking half your stuff.
Bilking Brad Simpson is a Big Business.
(Yeah) my new pickup line? F'K yoooouu Beeeeach ? Work every time!
She kept riding the CC, she just wanted to put enough time in for the courts to give her a slam dunk and well as hit you with as many child support claims (probably not your kids either) as she could on the way out.
"I need to find myself." Code for I just want to sleep around.
wow that sounds like a stupid idea
Heaven forbid a girl actually just tells you she likes you instead of playing head games, this should be tips for the 80's because girls don't act like this anymore.
Weak men make for hard times, so things are looking up, kind of like Catherine Martin looked up at Jaime Gumb in The Silence of the Lambs, but then looked up at Clarice Starling.
drizzle drizzle
I can’t fully agree with this train of thought but I can say it’s appears as prevalent behavior
Yes they still do act like this. You just don't experience it (because you're too busy whining about how the world works and being alone, instead of making the best of it)
@@hj-xb2tr Cool story bro
I recently watched a video where someone was comparing dating advice from the 50s with modern dating advice, and while the 50s advice had some problems, the modern "advice" was basically a how to guide to be forever single. It was very surreal.
she becomes your stalker
you know, that thing that can get most men arrested even if they aren't stalking women
Ive been no contact eith someone who hurt me and I made a new fb account and she was there less than 10 mn after I activated it
Like aliens, I feel like she has been watching the whole time
Keep in mind gentlemen for any of this to happen at all EVER you have to be tall, attractive or obviously rich
I'm tall and attractive, but transparently not rich.
I'm neither tall, nor rich, whether or not I'm attractive is something I cannot measure myself so take that for what you will, but I have received this sort of attention in the past.
Lol. You're Never going to get laid
Have had this happen to me, but I only tick the attractive box. I am average of height and was broke when it happened. She had tried to get my attention at a party before, but I rejected her. I think that was what made her try and claim me later on.
or charming or funny or smart or interesting
Guys bring your own protection use it and and dispose it . Don't get trapped.
Don't forget to put some Drake's Hot Sauce in it before disposal ... 🌶❤🔥
Dispose of it privately IN YOUR OWN HOUSE, when they are gone. Do not let them take it, do not give them the chance to take it, and do not get rid of it 10nfeet from your house. You find every means to destroy the sample and dispose of it.
Sad that's it's like this, but that's absolutely what you need to do. The "I gotta' hit it raw" guys are in for a world of hurt..
Guys, avoid sex until you're married. Avoids a lot of problems.
Yep as I thought I’m dying alone
Dying alone is far not a worst thing. Actually, some call it freedom. Be free to do what you want. I bought a bike, got to the gym and making aircraft models, for example. And I won't give it up for woman.
@@lunotarr you shouldn’t have to give it up for a woman. She should want you to be happy as a man doing what makes you happy as a man
@@TraciDoering-hw8hu yep, she should. But in reality they always try to destroy this. No one wanted me to be happy. Actually, no one wanted me to be me)
I'm 73, single, own my own house in FL. Have a fishing boat, have hobbies, I love it when a plan comes together. No games.
you are actually lucky. Better to die alone than having been used/lied/mislead your whole life.
If she's staking her claim, just start picking your nose. Claim revoked!
My cat loved licking my nose pickings.
The _protective stance._
Had a girl do this to me... Only problem was, she was married.
I don't play that game.
The 6th sign is when she files for divorce and is claiming a man's pay.
When she shows up at your place with a covered dish, she is interested.
I don't know what state you live in but, out here, when she shows up naked, with a six-pack, and a pizza, I know she's got the hots for me:-)
Dream come true
I knew a guy who would report that for harassment.
the problem is that some women will do this and have NO intention of having a relationship with the man.. she is just SO self-centered that she has to "flex" her power.
Yes
I had this happen a few NY eves ago
I was cockblocked by a girl as revenge for not choosing her
She 'claimed' me and pressured me into a bunch of shots and disappeared as soon as her rival lost interest
Bitch was slick
And then they all lose interest anyway.
You got this, don't stop working on it and the right one will love it and you.
Only because you did not act on her hints.. That is a huge turn off to women - perhaps the biggest.
Pay attention, not child support.
Drizzle drizzle
That's only AFTER she finds out you don't have a 6 figure income
@@andersnielsen6044 Or because you did. That's also a turn off for some women
I'd be wary of that. Possessiveness without my consent? Not good energy.
I get your objection, but I will counter with this thought: you and a friend (maybe a loser friend or not) had interest in and pursued the same gal, but you willingly backed away to benefit your friend in his attempt. It is the same thing. I don't know if there is a witty rhyme for the female counterpart of "bros before hoes" but it is that principle.
If you had no problem jumping on any gal you liked regardless of the desires found in your friend group, then disregard my comment. There was always a "big man" who couldn't care less paired with a less socially adapted crew. Maybe that was you, if so congratulations. But if you ever found yourself thinking "but my buddy X wants to go out with her" you are the lesser friend.
I am as well. We can build an ever decreasing stratum of our lack of willingness to step on some toes.
“You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.”
-Inigo Montoya
When she raises her leg next to the fire hydrant, watch out!!!!!
Now I know why my son who women cconsider a "high value man " Refuses to get married and perfers to work and make money.
I was waiting for a date at a restaurant, and talking to a waitress. My date walked in, glared at the waitress, literally yanked me out of the barstool and stomped out of the restaurant. It was like a cartoon. No subtle or secret signals with this one.
Lmao did she look like an angry Disney character on makeup and heels? 😂
@@dasfx2895 - That’s good! An even better analogy is Azula from _Avatar: The Last Airbender_ : literally a similarity in overall appearance and piercing angry expression, though hyper jealous of other women instead of a psychopath like Azula. Just glad she couldn’t fire bend! Well, most of us have to go through a few false-starts before we score with the right one (been with my wife 21 years).
@@24X7CARZ Mmm I hope you're happy bro, live long and prosper 🖖🏾
@@dasfx2895 - Thank you, and wishing you the same!
She's crazy and a cheater
if you’re talking with a woman, and another woman comes in and goes into a protective stance, turn away, or touch the arm of the first woman, guide her away and say, “excuse me, we were talking.” Don’t tolerate presumptiveness and rude BS. Shut that crap down hard.
"When casting a Fire spell, it can get really hot for your hands, so it's helpful to douse them in water or wear thick gloves before casting." That's basically what you said, useless knowledge from a world that is entirely different from our own
Think you've watched a bit to many *Teen movies* mate
Sounds like you're the kind of guy girls need to protect each other from. That only happens when we can tell another is in danger.
Fascinating video, Let's stop taking relationship and family for granted. I have battled depression since my wife left me. I have tried all I can to make her see that I love her with everything I am made of but she has insisted on leaving. This has made me so empty, and I do not know what to do. I can barely function properly at work. I am frustrated and miserable. I really miss her.
Your pain resonates with me. Letting go of someone dear to your heart is an immense challenge. I found myself in a comparable situation when my 12-year-long relationship ended, and I struggled to accept it. Despite my efforts to reconcile, I eventually turned to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, which eventually led to a reunion. I'm now filled with joy.
I'm keen on meeting the counsellor you're talking about. What steps should I take?
Online, you'll find shelly renee white, revered for her expertise as a spiritual counselor. She has the ability to reunite couples and promote holistic well-being.
Thank you for this information. I have just looked her up on Google. impressive.
Grow a pair! Do a push-up or something. Stop being a whiner. Women don't get off on that. You're doing the exact opposite of what you shouldn't be doing. Work on yourself. Get a hobby. Once she sees you are doing better without her she will see it and by then you'll be over her. You pestering her and crying for her just gives her more affirmation she left you for being a needy cry baby
I saw the more aggressive variant of the shared drink thing once. This girl reached over and took a sip of my drink, never breaking eye contact. All over at that point.
Had a chick do that with my drink. At her birthday party she invited me to. In front of her boyfriend. It was fun playing that off, while not relaying the texts we had between the two of us previously.
Pink shoes in the bedroom floor.
Makeup in the bedroom
Spraying pillows with perfume
Jewelry in my truck's cupholder
Knickers in my lunch box and a dozen red roses sent to me via my bosses office- I was adjutant to the Col. at the time and he got every other officer on campus in office before presenting to me. Mad as a box of frogs as she was a character and mind blowing in the bedroom! Lol
Harley-Davidson motorcycles are not leaking oil. They are marking their territory.
so are russian vehicles
Leak on, brothers
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I fucking knew it, its gotta go. My 2 trumpets mean more to me.
My Harley doesn't leak, it just happens to be a squirter
1st sign, she doesn't want to give up her "friend zoned bestie!!!"
Came here to found out if someone was doing this to me.
But then I looked into a mirror and realised... ofcourse not
Why do I feel if a man approached a woman in the same manner he would be labeled as possessive, creep and toxic? Probably would end up being accused of harassment as well. Do even women are aware that most of the time they speak and behave as hypocrites?
Q. Why do I feel if a man approached a woman in the same manner he would be labeled as possessive, creep and toxic?
A. Because you have be paying attention and not child support. Good on you.
Pay attention, not child support.
🌧🌧
I am asexual a women and had a friend same gender who did this shit to not just me but the friend group, she got possessive by materializing in thin air siting on laps grabbing arms when she felt her friendship was threaten with me or the others, to me it was a level of insecurity and toxicity. I just stopped hanging out with them, they were limiting my opportunities to meet new people make new friends when they were around plus their attitude was annoying.
I dont see why you are generalizing a gender and blaming other people when you are responsible for yourself and your own actions. The best thing anyone can do on both sides is just walk away but people have a very hard time letting other go thus building resentment hate etc
When men do this it's creepy and called stalking.
Never good to mix with neurotic & narcissistic. It never ends well.
Women that are possessive usually end up displaying other characteristics that are unpleasant. Most of the time, it's selfishness.
"double edged sword" - I couldn´t agree more , I once experienced a female acting like that against other girls. Almost like overprotecting, eager to keep other girls away. Naive as I was back in the days I took that as flattering and followed up on getting together with her. Pretty soon her "eager to protect property" expanded over both me and my own surrounding. I couldn´t speak to anyone I knew without her fussing about jealousy. It was ridiculous, like walking around eggshells, being imprisoned - she virtually saw me as a property object. Had to end it because it becoming a madhouse, people even thinking I was as much to blame.
My man preach. Run men!
_"like walking around eggshells, being imprisoned"_
Same happened to me. She was so insecure, I wouldn't even speak to other females casually in her presence, or else I'd have to pay for it later by hearing her accusations of me wanting another girl. Turned out, she was the one doing just that. Snapchatting other men, sexting with them. (This is only what I _knew_ she was doing, but it was enough) 99.9% of these cases it's always projection when they do that. I'll never put myself through living like that again. I'm much happier single.
@@AbstractM0use Yepp projection, something about other guys correctly describing details of her naked. - Me too.
Sounds like NPD
Yup, completely agree. People who think when you complain about jealousy that you are humble bragging have no clue how suffocating it is.
Surely that has to work both ways if she's doing All that without your knowledge and your not actually interested in her and she doesn't know this then she is messing your chances of meeting somebody you want (problem)
Exactly
If women were even remotely close to ~average~ at picking men, they would be on DraftKings, making ‘so much history’ breaking the Vegas sports book industry, instead of on Tinder, and trying their luck in divorce court.
Oh don't you know? That's not how women who insist on mind games work. They'd rather you be alone if they don't get their way. It's just as much sabotaging you.
It makes me wonder how much this plays into the "hard to get" phenomenon. Many guys know how to tell if a lady wants them, but is showing some resistance. If the gal you are actually interested in follows this territorial marking, but you are truly not interested in dating the girl who always wants to third wheel you on a date. Is the gal you want being actively pushed out by a gal you view as a sister? Is that a challenge for you to distance yourself from an awkwardly possessive female friend?
Every woman knows that they do it, but go ahead with your angry squawking comments about how i must be a rapist. You saying it will never make it true.
The fact that these needed a video explains so much about how people say dating is so hard these days.
Thanks. You gave me understanding about her overreaching and being a bit more careful with her feelings when they likely mean more than I think they do or what they think they should mean. It's a lot like the trading that I do; It doesn't matter that the candlestick pattern appears, but WHEN it appears.
My woman knows there’s no competition. She’s the champion. No contenders. Without her, I’d be in more solitude than I already live with.
I was laughing into the first minute and a half! This is so true!
This is great. Just being pursued by a woman makes a man more attractive to others by default. Very useful!
She gives you eye contact and smiles, biggest clue you need.
...especially when you get out that card.
She wants to know what the limit of that card is.
Bilking Brad Simpson is a Big Business.
Polite
True..I’m a woman
Not always
This explains why women always work in retail. They don't actually want a person to buy their product, they just want to get laid.
You did a good job, I had to learn those things the hard way, and I missed out on interesting relationships because of it. There is no weakness in showing your affaction like discribed in this video, those are playful ways to get around the awkwardness that is showing your feelings. But please remember, not all men understand those ways, and sometimes you have to get out of your way and just say "hey, I'm interessted in you".
Being possessisive, staking a claim, isn't that emotional and coercive abuse, or whatever? Maybe only when a man does it. Not to mention harassment, if 'unrequited'
I am not a psychic, not claiming to be; but the timing of this video is astonishing. Earlier I was thinking of this very topic in knowing about a woman putting herself in front of her friends to a guy and thinking that is women's language and she was letting the other ladies know she is staking her claim to not try him...
...And on the very same day you release this video about signs of women taking claim and warning off other women. Exactly why I commented. I watch your videos alot but I rarely speak. Today's coincidence is worth the mention, for me anyway. It fascinates me.
You are very intelligent and very skilled. Knowing all this dating & attraction stuff, and your ability to speak so well while thoroughly explaining the topic. You are very amazing.
Just goes to show you a woman dose not need to play game... A lady comes off looking far more better when she uses her words to communicate her interest....
Wow, the content is great. But, what an absolutely incredible speaker. Awesome production, very well produced.
Great!
I like these videos because I like watching & hearing Anna talk. What a lovely & intelligent young lady!
Sadly these examples can also be signs of a stalker. Aggressive moves means they don’t respect boundaries and can also hint at psychological disorders such as bipolar disorder or physical disorders such as Graves’ disease.
Great video thank you Joyanima 🌹
I got this reaction multiple times around the workplace but here's the kicker (and this probably should be obvious) these women doing these territorial back off already had BFs!
I shouldn't be surprised, it's such a female thing to do oh and although one did use the rather coy, secret methods you talk about here one just wasn't having any of that (the Latina, naturally) and just straight up yelled at me to come over to her and ignore the other females I was talking to and told everyone to back off...and these were women older than her too that could probably kick her ass!
Yeah...you'd ask well how come I didn't make a move? *Because they were already in a relationship! I aint no side piece!*
"Let me tell you, my friend - there's nothing friendly about this move" - hilarious!
Thanks for confirming no one is interested in me.
X means this woman is into you, unless its tuesday and its raining when it means stay away. At night time tho, if she adds a little giggle, it means the opposite
Only if it's Tuesday and an odd-numbered day of the month...
Oh…. Oh no… I gotta find another work place… this is very informative.
Wow! It's been ages (years?) I haven't seen one of your vid, you haven't changed (in a good way 😉)
Weeellll....I just asked what colors he liked, then whipped up a crocheted couch cover; he loved it! Then I bought him a toaster oven and a larger toaster. And another crocheted bedcover in a pattern he liked. I made sure if any girl came over, she'd see those and know he was taken. :)
My favorite sign of when a woman likes you is when she looks at you and says "I like you"
That one is surprisingly powerful.
Pretty informative.
Like today, a girl told me to scoot over and shared one chair while she worked on the computer, yet I was still talking to another girl when it happened 😂
Joyanima has the looks of a great spouse, as well as being intelligent and articulate..
ty for telling me i was never liked by a girl not even the ones i tought they liked me and it wasn't caught by me early that hurted me in a whole new lvl
In my opinion, a woman that behaves in these ways, unless she is your wife, has a problem with boundaries. Either that she doesn't comprehend them, or she feels at ease to trample them,. I would shut these behaviors down and avoid her. Ask any woman if she would allow a man to act this way (before dating him) and she would label him a stalker and pulverize him for interfering in her love life.
So true!!! Controlling is not attractive lady's. You dislike it just as much as we do and makes you just as creepy!
The thought of any women would ever be interested in me is totally absurd
I’m 61 and have never had a female show interest in me , I have always had to pursue.
Credit is given off each '6' for each inch over '6'.
And they always played hard to get too. I saw one beuatiful girl still being single when she turned 50+. She got exactly what they all did to men.
prolly u just didn't see the females interested in you because of your too-dark sunglasses, and your spooky cyber name too 🤣
Men decide for themselves if they're off the market or not. You want a man to be off the market for your own benefit ? Tell him. If he's a good man, he will make it absolutely clear to the rest of the world.
You mean if he wants that woman. Just telling him doesn't give her a right to have him. A good man will first look out for himself, if he wants that relationship or not!
Glad I can tell, cause I want non of it anymore. I always think about how my divorce went.
She was so protective when we first met; then completely turns crazy making things up later
Happens quite a bit, figured as much. It's even better when they start fighting over you.
We don't read minds, we don't play, we're too tired for your games, say what you want to say directly and open. Hatred and contempt for a man are the essence of modern relationships. No thanks, my life, my rules, my wallet, my FREEDOM more important to me. Call the bear
So she stalks you and shoos other girls away touches you without consent and then monitors your online presence to keep tabs on you? Yeah if I did this I would be in jail for a variety of crime so included sexual harassment and stalking to name a few.
Well, another reason I'm glad I've never had social media.
On the protective stance thing, whenever I've seen this happen, it was less that the girl doing it was trying to stop other girls from talking to me, and more to imply that I had no business talking to ANY girl.
Of course.. She wants you for herself... That is the hole point of it :D It is her way to knock out the "other/any" girl.. Trust me, the other girls do understand these hints :D
@@andersnielsen6044 You misunderstand. They thought they were protecting the other girls from me, and were quite hostile about it.
I can kind of see it, its like someone is giving a hard to someone else then their friend pops up to stand up for them or something without necessarily verbalizing it but through gestures and actions. In this case they misunderstood as you werent getting bullied or anything
@@lordgiblets7585I suppose it could be taken BOTH ways, positive or negative. Depending on the situation. She's just trying to improve men's signal knowledge. It's all positive.
I was fortunate to learn at 16 that when a woman pursued me, then it would be easy to have a relationship with them.
When I had to pursue a woman it was nothing but endless trouble.
You do have to actually put yourself in a space where women are but then you let them do the Sorting. the ones who are not interested in you won't approach you and the ones who are interested in you will approach you.
The John Steinbeck approach: apparently, he was involved with two women and couldn't decide which one would get him - finally, he brought the two of them to his place and let them decide.
Having a woman pursue you doesn't mean it's going to be great either. Especially if she is possessive...
@@aronhighgrove4100 in my experience, it's been wonderful.
Had three women who I crushed on during my life and none ended well.
On the other hand had a dozen who pursued me and those ended in Long relationships or few fun weekends.
It took me far longer than you to realize this fact. Once I just started doing my own thing and stopped chasing women, suddenly, I started meeting the women that wanted to be around me. You're 100% correct; when a woman wants to be around you, they will come talk to you.
The other thing I learned over my many years is that a lot of women take their cue from other women. If women are interested in you, other women will go, "hmmm, what's he got?" The reverse is also true; if you're getting turned down by women, ie running around a bar hitting on as many women as you can, other women will likely turn you down as well. And heaven forbid a woman states you're good in the sack in front of other women.
Lots of pure ppl who wear their hearts on thier sleeves in the comments section. I, on the other hand, have had thoughts and desires that I wanted to fulfill but was too shy to just go for it. Thus, I understand the need to find other ways to pursue my goals. It is better to just go out and say it but much to the frustration of others, SOME of us just need time to work up the confidence. It's interesting to see how girls presue mates even if it might not be flattering to her character.
#1 "Protective stance": no, this is possessive!
I much prefer most modern women's attitude, where another woman's interest causes there own interest to go up.
2. "The touch" is not staking a claim, it's intended to get YOUR interest in a "casual" way.
3. Cyberstalking is NOT approved! Sorry
Flirty, dirty or playful remarks ARE encouraged and approved. And much appreciated!
4. Inside jokes is not always "marking territory," is usually to get a to response from you.
If the two of you are in your own little world of private remarks, everyone else needs to realize they're all "3rd wheels" and leave the two of you alone!
4. Offering a sip (swapping spit) is another way of getting a specific response from you.
1 & 3 totally agree. Especially about Cyberstalking. If you reverse the genders, it would NOT be ok, which is the first sign it is NOT ok for her to do it.
LOL I saw that type of interaction in my dating years, woman do draw their boundaries.
It’s happened to me a lot. It’s infuriating.
Most men don't do hidden signals and the men who do are not the men you want. It's faster and more efficient if you just said so and skipped the signs and portents.
It is April now. Back in November whilst driving home from work my mind said "hey, i think Jenny likes me" and i started going over our brief interactions and some words she has said. Couple days later she stops me in the hall and asks the most off topic question. 30 minutes later we resume our duties. So i was pretty sure she liked me. And over the course of the following months she has shared very personal things with me, those slight little touches, the eye contact is crazy, and we have had many 30 to 45 minute not work chats even after we have finished work, but maybe she is just friendly right? BUT, the other day i had reason to walk into her work space and her best friend was also there (they work together). Her BF just happened to be closer to the door doing her tasks than Jenny doing her tasks. Maybe within 30 seconds Jenny tasks were suddenly between me and her friend and her friend back away further. When I had to go to attend to a different work related matter i said to myself "did Jenny just put herself between me and her BF? Oh yeah she did that alright" and had a little chuckle to myself. So hearing it here validates my interpretation. Now i know women also play the long game, so find it interesting watching this all play out.
Look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself, “Am I worth a divorce?
If the answer is 'yes', then chase her.
I don't recommend dating a woman that makes the first move, those that do are bad in the relationship.
-The way to handle social media problems is to not be on any social media platforms.
-If I saw a woman do any of the things talked about in this video I would turn around and walk away from the woman and if that didn't get the message across, I would just tell her to stay the hell away from me.
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Busted out the reset button and scramble at the same time.
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My girl made a chastity belt made from broken glass, it was pretty but wearing it watching football games !!
We will pretend that we are into everything you are. We'll start listening to your music, hanging out at the same places. So glad I didn't have to play games with my man. He didn't pretend anything, and neither did I. We can joke around each other.
That's part of the problem "pretend to". If you don't like it, then don't. Nobody is expected to be a one-dimensional fanatic on any subject. If you like true crime podcasts (not at all my thing) you can also enjoy Doug Adams and JRR Tolkein. Maybe you hate all three, maybe you're fine with two of those categories, whatever. Don't fake fandom, a relationship can work even if you hate the things your partner likes.
It's not partnering with things and activities, it is a person. And if they prioritize that stuff above you, that is a problem as well.
Men do the same. The Cure was popular with the girls I liked to date, but I absolutely did not like the band. It was the height of the popularity of that kind of music, & the women were just fanatics about all things Cure. So I pretended to like the band so I could date the girls & share their enthusiasm. Now, I actually like The Cure & enjoy listening. I'm not sure how women feel, but men will pretend to like anything if it advanced their chances of getting laid.
I have actually seen them hang around like that particularly in coffee shops.
Good to know I’ve never been territory 😂
It's astounding that they think its OK to do this. If a man behaved this way he'd be in deep deep trouble
Thanks for the info dear. It has happened so many times but I did not understand it at the time. Now that I understand I will be more carefull next time.I would not want to hurt a lady who is trying so hard and ignore her body language saying she is interested but I'm not. I would never do that nowingly but I just took it so casually. That's why woman get pissedoff with me. I thought it was something else but now I understand. Thanks Dear
Man, wish I knew this stuff years ago! Doesn’t matter now.
Never experienced any of these except the shared drink. And while I have shared drinks with girls I'm dating, I've done it far more often with platonic friends.
Yeah.... no. Not dealing with all that.
I'm sick of these callous games. To hell with them.
Dude. If she is playing games, it shows she is not in charge. YOU ARE. You are the prize. Never forget that
@@prac2 -- As I've said: to hell with them.
I like your voice.
Yeah, this happens to non-Chads every bleeping day. So helpful to the other 99% of us.
Yes all those things have happened to me 🔥
You make it sound so sweet and romantic lol ❤
Absolutely 💯. You always provide great content and I appreciate your hard work. The effort has paid off in many ways. One question though.... What if a woman does all of the things you suggest but clarifies she is not into me romantically? I have a female friend that I spend a lot of time with, and she consistently does the things you listed in this and other videos. Yet insists she doesn't see me that way. Any tips or advice for others who may experience this? Thanks again and stay amazing. ❤
Sounds to me like she has got you pinned as backup #5 and doesnt want to lose you from that position. You would be amazed how many women have secret lists of backups
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She may be lying. If you confronted her, she might have been blindsided you figured it out and is shy to admit it. Idk people are weird. If you dont like it then tell her to stop when she does it 🤷♀️
Remember this lads, you are empty without her but you still have a heart, she is full of herself without you but heartless.
This video is geared for young men that are college age. In real life, most of the things she described would be something a best friend would do. You would be considered plan B. In real life all you have to do is approach. The woman within 15 seconds. She's gonna know if she's interested in you. If you're socially awkward or two passive, you will be friend zoned quickly. Just keep it simple and see what happens. Get her to say yes, set the date and be on your way.
I was driving to a car dealership after work one day, I hadn’t told my wife I was going to buy a new truck, I got this feeling on the back of my neck and just knew she was looking at “find my” on the iPhone. Seconds later I get the call 2 miles from the dealership, going to buy a new truck aren’t you? All I could do was laugh.
Dating in SE Asia yeah these things are clear. However in the US a man would be mistaken to think these signs she's only into you and not looking for that next better guy.
Yeah, quite flattering on the one hand, although slightly irritating when it's a totally innocent conversation with some women you don't even know at a social event, especially when she is supposedly interested in me, but has turned up with her ex-boyfriend whom she dumped at a party the week before to get off with you. Who's the one playing games?