Tony and Icylyn are soul mates. The way she looked at that man while he was telling her her blood pressure was going down was just pure love. I hope they live happily ever after.
That family that is willing to sign a DNR for their mom are amazing! After over 2 decades in long term care, seeing families who are "save them no matter what" with 90+ yr old parents always made me cry. Can you imagine doing violent chest compressions on a 90+yr old? You break every one of their ribs and may not even be able to save them. Had one woman who had bad gangrene in her heel doctors couldn't heal, yet daughter was essentially "don't care, save her even if you have to amputate(98 yr old) 😢
But they believe a DNR means life support, and that’s not what a DNR means. People of her age can have their heart stop for a million reasons and receive CPR to come back and go on to live healthy normal lives. DNR literally just means no CPR. It does NOT mean not being able to end life support when you’re a “vegetable” without a DNR. That being said, I do agree CPR can be far more detrimental than death on someone who is very fragile and has no quality of life left. So that I agree with your point, I just don’t agree with people misunderstanding what a DNR is.
She is a beautiful person! I believe inside and out and I also will pray that God touches her with His healing power! Her friend is such a wonderful man! They should marry each other!
My favorite line is where the doctor says about the black woman with the swollen stomach that it’s “about going back to basics and not cutting corners”. That can be a true statement in many situations.
My mother died of Ovarian & Peritoneal cancer in 2017. We didn't even know she was sick.When she got the diagnosis it was already end stage 4. She lived exactly 1 month after that. Her belly was swollen like this young lady. When they did the Sonagram, you could see the fluid. They said that was the cancer. She was 86 & happy she would shortly see the Lord & friends & family who went before her.
When Tony said that Icylyn just needed Mister Right, I thought: "She already has him, you both just don't see it yet." They are a pair made in heaven. He is more than a good friend. He is the other half of her soul and heart, and she is his other half. If I think about a pair being happily married, this is what I imagine: Tony and Icylyn. Their relationship is golden. I hope she is OK now and lives strong and happy. She is a good person, a real person. Pure and innocent. Maybe naive, but that is OK. Tony is there for her. He is an angel, just like Icylyn is. The lady with the horse is such a lucky lady. I'm glad she made a full recovery and is still riding. You go, woman! The rest is doing fine too, which is just awesome.
my gosh - I am so in love with Icylyn ..... what a gorgeous uplifting soul xx and her friendship with Tony (?) just so special xx I wish her all the best on her health journey xx
After I had a heart bypass I was constipated for 5 days. I had to pass it before I was allowed home. The full feeling was overwhelming but I had no pain thank goodness. I pity him if this is regular
I went a month last year and normally go 5-6 days or more between bowel movements. Very painful cramping and diarrhea is usually the only way it resolves. I have a genetic disorder with other accompanying illnesses and constipation is one of those things that tags along. It’s not funny though we all can joke about poo stuff but being constipated for days or weeks at a time is sooo uncomfortable!!
@@lindaarnold5683 opioids, while effective and safer than anything else for your body, they cause the gut to slow down. Taking magnesium every day will help, it’s in green leafy veg, which we all never get enough of anyway, magnesium relaxes muscles and blood vessels as well. It’s a good one along with N-acetylcysteine, fish oil, good multivitamin to take every day. You can take doses of magnesium until your poop is too soft, that’s how you know to back off, lol..
Every 'traffic jam ' needs thier own Firas, Des, Jen, and Leanne, Will and naturally the aussies Graham and Jacqui, Firas's reaction to a patient walking around with a gun was real and adorable and how I would too, and a special shout out to the strong supportive team working alongside them. With love from Australia 🇦🇺
As a nurse whose had a variety of job descriptions in my career, I'm well acquainted with many of the stories in this episode. (Chloe, I sincerely hope your relationship with your Mom continues to improve...)
I was constipated for YEARS! Caused by a medication I was taking. I only went 2-3 times a month. It was terrible. I would scream and cry when I would finally go. It's not a good way to live 😔
@@lindawitherspoon446Enemas don’t work for everyone, especially when medication or a chronic illness are involved. I am chronically constipated and the usual remedies like fibre, more fruit, etc make things much worse for me. Enemas are only helpful if the problem is near the rectum. If you have a dysmotility problem, it affects higher up in the bowel.
@@DaniHMcV exactly. Adding fiber to the diet just makes you so gassy, with no relief from the constipation. You're the first person I've ever told that understood.
I need a Tony!❤❤❤Icylyne is blessed with such a great friend!! My heart goes out to her and her diagnosis is extremely scary I completely understand it😢❤❤
I’m so sorry for your loss. Things will slowly heal, but until then - take your time. Experience the grief in whatever way you need, in your own time. Please know that you’ll be okay. It’ll be hard, and unfamiliar. But I know (and deep down, you know) you can do it. We’ll all be rooting for you 🖤
Hard for me to imagine being a physician having a lump you "know" is cancer, but ignoring it and then declining treatment. I've been receiving immunotherapy, low dose chemo, for MS the past 17 years. I'd do anything to slow progression and be around for my kids and special needs granddaughter. I'm helping to raise her and need to be around as long as possible.
Icylyn has the purest soul, so beautiful inside and out! Tony wow that is a real man and friend! I hope my daughters find a man like Tony he is what every woman deserves! I hope Tony and Icylyn decide one day to be together cause they sure seem like they are meant for each other!
Hope and power to the dear woman with cancer. Once ascites gets to that stage, things are usually very advanced. Not impossible to overcome, but very difficult to overcome. It's truly hard to understand why she ignored such an obvious problem, in a country with free healthcare 😢.
I was afraid Icylyn had cancer as my dad had cancer and had fluid in the abdomen that they had to keep drawing it out. I hope and pray her outcome was better than my dad's.
19:41 I wish they wouldn’t have aired this part of the interview. Giving life savings measures does NOT automatically mean “vegetable.” People have cardiac arrests from all kinds of illness and injury, get life saving measures, then go on to live normal lives again. Not wanting her to be a “vegetable” means you wait for MANY tests and recommendations from doctors to determine brain death, THEN you “pull the plug.” A DNR means ZERO attempt to revive (meaning CPR will not be given and if the patient’s heart stops for ANY reason, they will do NOTHING to help them).
The same kind that thinks your parenting job is done at 14, meanwhile your child is getting into fights. Teens are still kids. You parent them every bit as much. She’s only 14 for heavens sake.
……only fools’ ride without a helmet………mine’s saved my head many times’ when propped at jump, dragged through a jump, or being gobsmacked by a low hidden tree branch, but landed on six foot high grass, acting like a cushion………thank goodness never anything serious, no broken bones’, & that’s over several decades’………
Yes, spoiled by neglect. That's what spoiled means. Parents who are not present and focused. The fact she was doing what she was doing (amongst other things), shows the parent is not nearly involved enough in her daughter's life. Very sad.
She's fourteen and tremendously influenced by the superficial, trashy culture of the internet. Smartphones are a catastrophe for these kids, and I'm glad schools have finally wised up and banned them during school hours. She might grow out of her entitlement complex and her rudeness, but her mum shouldn't put up with it. That kid needs a good talking-to.
Banijay needs to do something about these bot comments. It's obvious that UA-cam don't care. Is there not a setting that blocks comments from brand new accounts?
@@theresarasche3173 A bot comment on YT is something that is a generic, ambiguous comment that could apply to any video. Things like "great video! I hope you upload more" or "I enjoy your content, this is a good channel".
If she lived all over the world, maybe she had a split family, she and her son in Canada and her daughter in England? Or the daughter is a stepdaughter? Or (unlikely) the son has been living in Canada and has lost all trace of an English accent? Hmm.
This constant angel babbling by this one woman is really nerve killing. Especially when your relative is close to death in the same unit. I wished people could keep their religion stuff for themselves
Tony and Icylyn are soul mates. The way she looked at that man while he was telling her her blood pressure was going down was just pure love. I hope they live happily ever after.
Icylyn is possibly the purest human I’ve seen and Tony is clearly her guardian angel.
Anyone know how she is
I just love Tony and Icylyn. I'm so sad that she has cancer, but she will conquer it.
That family that is willing to sign a DNR for their mom are amazing! After over 2 decades in long term care, seeing families who are "save them no matter what" with 90+ yr old parents always made me cry. Can you imagine doing violent chest compressions on a 90+yr old? You break every one of their ribs and may not even be able to save them. Had one woman who had bad gangrene in her heel doctors couldn't heal, yet daughter was essentially "don't care, save her even if you have to amputate(98 yr old) 😢
But they believe a DNR means life support, and that’s not what a DNR means. People of her age can have their heart stop for a million reasons and receive CPR to come back and go on to live healthy normal lives. DNR literally just means no CPR. It does NOT mean not being able to end life support when you’re a “vegetable” without a DNR.
That being said, I do agree CPR can be far more detrimental than death on someone who is very fragile and has no quality of life left. So that I agree with your point, I just don’t agree with people misunderstanding what a DNR is.
Wow! That's just being selfish.
Tony is more than a friend he is a soulmate.
They would be a wonderful couple -Icylyn and Tony.
Icylyn, i do hope and pray that you've had a full recovery, and you're cancer free. Keep smiling beautiful ❤️
And, Tony is a true friend and gentleman. Wishing them both the best in life.
I believe Tony Loves her, more than a Friend. He's definitely committed.
She is a beautiful person! I believe inside and out and I also will pray that God touches her with His healing power! Her friend is such a wonderful man! They should marry each other!
I wonder why she waited for the swelling to get so large before seeing a Dr. 😮😮
@@Jim_CSI he sure is! A blessing in her life!
Tony’s a keeper!
Icylyn praying for a speedy recovery and free of cancer may God bless you always.❤
My favorite line is where the doctor says about the black woman with the swollen stomach that it’s “about going back to basics and not cutting corners”. That can be a true statement in many situations.
Well wishes for Icylyn's recovery to good health. Tony is just a wonderful example of what a good man and good friend truly is.
My mother died of Ovarian & Peritoneal cancer in 2017. We didn't even know she was sick.When she got the diagnosis it was already end stage 4. She lived exactly 1 month after that. Her belly was swollen like this young lady. When they did the Sonagram, you could see the fluid. They said that was the cancer. She was 86 & happy she would shortly see the Lord & friends & family who went before her.
I'm sorry
Icylyn, you have already found Mr Right in Tony. I wish you all the best to beat this cancer
It's possible she just doesn't fancy him. That's not the only component in a romantic relationship, but it's important.
When Tony said that Icylyn just needed Mister Right, I thought: "She already has him, you both just don't see it yet."
They are a pair made in heaven. He is more than a good friend. He is the other half of her soul and heart, and she is his other half. If I think about a pair being happily married, this is what I imagine: Tony and Icylyn. Their relationship is golden.
I hope she is OK now and lives strong and happy. She is a good person, a real person. Pure and innocent. Maybe naive, but that is OK. Tony is there for her. He is an angel, just like Icylyn is.
The lady with the horse is such a lucky lady. I'm glad she made a full recovery and is still riding. You go, woman!
The rest is doing fine too, which is just awesome.
Please get better Icylyn! You’re a wonderful woman and so positive. I’m hoping and praying for you my girl.❤
my gosh - I am so in love with Icylyn ..... what a gorgeous uplifting soul xx and her friendship with Tony (?) just so special xx I wish her all the best on her health journey xx
The relationship between Tony and Icylyn is absolutely breathtakingly beautiful.
I can't imagine being constipated for 2 days, nevermind 10!
After I had a heart bypass I was constipated for 5 days. I had to pass it before I was allowed home. The full feeling was overwhelming but I had no pain thank goodness. I pity him if this is regular
I went a month last year and normally go 5-6 days or more between bowel movements. Very painful cramping and diarrhea is usually the only way it resolves. I have a genetic disorder with other accompanying illnesses and constipation is one of those things that tags along. It’s not funny though we all can joke about poo stuff but being constipated for days or weeks at a time is sooo uncomfortable!!
Why did wait 10 days?? Perhaps after 2/3 days maybe a Dr consult??🥴🥴
@@lindaarnold5683 opioids, while effective and safer than anything else for your body, they cause the gut to slow down. Taking magnesium every day will help, it’s in green leafy veg, which we all never get enough of anyway, magnesium relaxes muscles and blood vessels as well. It’s a good one along with N-acetylcysteine, fish oil, good multivitamin to take every day. You can take doses of magnesium until your poop is too soft, that’s how you know to back off, lol..
I've done 10 days easily, I never carried on like that. He is a drama queen
What a diamond Tony is! Icylyn, I hope you make a speedy recovery!
Icylyn I truly pray that you are doing great. You have such a beautiful outlook on life. Stay positive beautiful!!!!
♥️🤗🙏🙏🙏🤗🤗♥️
Praying for a full recovery for Icylyn. What an incredible friend Tony is. Love and prayers to you both!
Thanks, BANIJAY!
Every 'traffic jam ' needs thier own Firas, Des, Jen, and Leanne, Will and naturally the aussies Graham and Jacqui, Firas's reaction to a patient walking around with a gun was real and adorable and how I would too, and a special shout out to the strong supportive team working alongside them. With love from Australia 🇦🇺
As a nurse whose had a variety of job descriptions in my career, I'm well acquainted with many of the stories in this episode. (Chloe, I sincerely hope your relationship with your Mom continues to improve...)
Good morning Banijay, and everyone ❤️🙂⚘️🏥.
Good morning!😊
Good morning All! 😊
❤❤❤Icylyn, take care Sweetheart. Be strong. Hugs to your dear Tony; such a wonderful friend.
I truly hate cancer. God be with you, my beautiful friend.
Icylyn, you have a beautiful smile, keep your spirit up!!!❤❤❤❤❤Healing love!
I was constipated for YEARS! Caused by a medication I was taking. I only went 2-3 times a month. It was terrible. I would scream and cry when I would finally go. It's not a good way to live 😔
That’s what enema bags are for. When food goes in, the next day something needs to come out. If it doesn’t happen, you make it happen.
@@lindawitherspoon446Enemas don’t work for everyone, especially when medication or a chronic illness are involved. I am chronically constipated and the usual remedies like fibre, more fruit, etc make things much worse for me. Enemas are only helpful if the problem is near the rectum. If you have a dysmotility problem, it affects higher up in the bowel.
I have the same problem. I have been that way all my life.
@@pjcranberry4912 I have two friends who were born like that. They've had trouble their entire lives. I feel for you, it really does change your life.
@@DaniHMcV exactly. Adding fiber to the diet just makes you so gassy, with no relief from the constipation. You're the first person I've ever told that understood.
Icylyn, im so sorry dear...God protect you and bless you
Everyone should have a friend like Tony such a very special one. Hoping Icelyn is doing well.
For goodness sake Icylin and Tony.....TIE THE KNOT. he IS mr RIGHT!!!
Tony does care for Icylin and she definitely cares for him. Not a bad way to start a marriage.
The very childish child in with neck pain is intolerable. No way my
Mother would have let me behave like that in a hospital. What a brat!
Agree, annoying brat is an understatement
I need a Tony!❤❤❤Icylyne is blessed with such a great friend!! My heart goes out to her and her diagnosis is extremely scary I completely understand it😢❤❤
Love it when they show the Aussie staff
they're my favourites!!
The Aussies and the Kiwis always give me a buzz
Graham's mum is the typical Aussie baby boomer mother. ❤️❤️❤️
I just lost my mom 1day ago and I don’t think it has really sunk in yet.She had a DNR.
God bless your family. Stay strong.
I’m so sorry, I felt that way when I lost my dad. You will always miss her but time does help a little bit. it will always make you sad.
I'm so sorry.
I’m so sorry. I hope you find peace.
I’m so sorry for your loss. Things will slowly heal, but until then - take your time. Experience the grief in whatever way you need, in your own time. Please know that you’ll be okay. It’ll be hard, and unfamiliar. But I know (and deep down, you know) you can do it. We’ll all be rooting for you 🖤
Icylyn unfortunately passed away in 2014
😢😢 where did you hear this ..
Tony hyping up Icylyn for her cooking is so wholesome
Hard for me to imagine being a physician having a lump you
"know" is cancer, but ignoring it and then declining treatment. I've been receiving immunotherapy, low dose chemo, for MS the past 17 years. I'd do anything to slow progression and be around for my kids and special needs granddaughter. I'm helping to raise her and need to be around as long as possible.
Icylyn has the purest soul, so beautiful inside and out! Tony wow that is a real man and friend! I hope my daughters find a man like Tony he is what every woman deserves! I hope Tony and Icylyn decide one day to be together cause they sure seem like they are meant for each other!
Hope and power to the dear woman with cancer. Once ascites gets to that stage, things are usually very advanced. Not impossible to overcome, but very difficult to overcome.
It's truly hard to understand why she ignored such an obvious problem, in a country with free healthcare 😢.
Yes. She ignored it so long, probably cos it didn't hurt. Poor woman
@@meatavoreNana I doubt that's the reason. Pain should not be the only reason you seek medical care.
I was afraid Icylyn had cancer as my dad had cancer and had fluid in the abdomen that they had to keep drawing it out. I hope and pray her outcome was better than my dad's.
Why did they edit out the second GCS score???
19:41 I wish they wouldn’t have aired this part of the interview. Giving life savings measures does NOT automatically mean “vegetable.” People have cardiac arrests from all kinds of illness and injury, get life saving measures, then go on to live normal lives again. Not wanting her to be a “vegetable” means you wait for MANY tests and recommendations from doctors to determine brain death, THEN you “pull the plug.” A DNR means ZERO attempt to revive (meaning CPR will not be given and if the patient’s heart stops for ANY reason, they will do NOTHING to help them).
What kind of parent or grandparent lets a child lay all over a hospital floor??
The same kind who lets preteen talk smartie pa
Like a smartie pants!! I”m bored!!!
The same kind that thinks your parenting job is done at 14, meanwhile your child is getting into fights. Teens are still kids. You parent them every bit as much. She’s only 14 for heavens sake.
Treat me like a brother …it did make me laugh so hard ..
God's presence is all over this episode on so many levels. ✝️
I’m super curious if the rider wore a helmet since it was super serious I always wear my helmet I never go without one
She was photographed at the end with a helmet. Most English riders do wear a helmet but we don’t know about that day…
……only fools’ ride without a helmet………mine’s saved my head many times’ when propped at jump, dragged through a jump, or being gobsmacked by a low hidden tree branch, but landed on six foot high grass, acting like a cushion………thank goodness never anything serious, no broken bones’, & that’s over several decades’………
, marry that man! There are not many men around like him. He is a precious treasure and an angel.
The teen
Is spoiled
Yes, spoiled by neglect. That's what spoiled means. Parents who are not present and focused. The fact she was doing what she was doing (amongst other things), shows the parent is not nearly involved enough in her daughter's life. Very sad.
She's fourteen and tremendously influenced by the superficial, trashy culture of the internet. Smartphones are a catastrophe for these kids, and I'm glad schools have finally wised up and banned them during school hours. She might grow out of her entitlement complex and her rudeness, but her mum shouldn't put up with it. That kid needs a good talking-to.
🙏🙏🙏🙏prayers for Icylin
Did the ever mention how long Icylyn’s stomach took to get so large?
She escaped ❣️❤😂
14 year old girl fighting....classy. 😅😅
She is a brat
The best natural way to get you going,is prunes they really do work
Clockwise massage on the abdomen works , start light and then deeper.
My mom was 46 when she had me and 47 when my brother was born,
My mum was 45.
So this is a brand new episode that came out 3 hrs ago from now according to the broadcast?
It’s from years ago as most of these episodes are. I remember this particular one with the wonderful Icelyn & Tony. Such a beautiful relationship!
Oh I wonder if the rider was wearing a helmet. I never did. Most English riders do.
Curiosity got to me, because I see Tony loves Icylyn. I looked her up on FB, she has passed away
Awww!😭
Banijay needs to do something about these bot comments. It's obvious that UA-cam don't care. Is there not a setting that blocks comments from brand new accounts?
What exactly is a bot comment? I see that, but I don’t know what it means 😮
I don’t know what bot comment is either.
A fake comment that is not related to this video perhaps??
Which comments do you think are bots? Maybe they've been deleted but all the comments right now are relevant to the video, so definitely not bots.
@@theresarasche3173 A bot comment on YT is something that is a generic, ambiguous comment that could apply to any video. Things like "great video! I hope you upload more" or "I enjoy your content, this is a good channel".
The lady injured falling off her horse-----why does her daughter have an English accent, while her son has a Canadian accent? Did I miss something?
If she lived all over the world, maybe she had a split family, she and her son in Canada and her daughter in England? Or the daughter is a stepdaughter? Or (unlikely) the son has been living in Canada and has lost all trace of an English accent? Hmm.
No poop guy pain🎉. Have a baby pain. Lol...😂😂 ha Ha Ha
I hope Isilyn marries Tony!! And I’m praying that she gets healed completely.
Omg. My day is not completed if i didn't poop that day. What more 10 days. I'd be miserable.
I'm carnivore and poop every day 7am ...lol
You will get an overload of ammonia in your system and thats not good. Lactilose works great. 3 times a day and it all comes out.
Dollars to donuts Kohdo is good friends with Diddy
😂😂
I do not get this. Whenever we try and discover the reason for stomach pain we lay the patient down, instead of allowing gravity to reveal more.
Yeh happens a lot
Not Immaculately tho ! 😂
As Seinfeld said it's time for the dreaded apparatus...
I wonder if the musician was using valium or hydrocodone?
I THOUGHT SHE WAS PREGNANT WHAT
This constant angel babbling by this one woman is really nerve killing. Especially when your relative is close to death in the same unit.
I wished people could keep their religion stuff for themselves
girl in hooped top, stop taking drugs...
Teenager sounds like a really selfish kid.
Ahhh... black nurses. Welcome to South Africa 🇿🇦
Can’t believe there r still people who believe that religious bs🤣
I'm glad I do ...I'd hate to live without faith❤