@@justhereyeah1112 I wanted to disagree, but I had to think a bit further. I know there is a such thing as a savior complex. Some ppl will get with someone that they've witnessed be mistreated by someone with the thought they can treat them better that the person that they were with before. They try to be all that they need and all of what the other person wasn't, but somehow they end up with someone that doesn't appreciate them. In this case, I felt she was just used to picking horrible men and it made her controlling and paranoid.
Right. When she said she’s been hurt a lot my first thought was what does that PAST have to do with your present/future. See a therapist and/or take some time off from dating/relationships. SMH.
She knew what she was getting, so why be with him in the 1st place?!😂 She needs to stop being weak & insecure and let him go. Her insecurities will continue to chase guys away. That tattoo is awful 😅
@@SecondHustlePodcast They weren’t from 4 baby mamas, though. Anyone can have an ex-wife and kids. It doesn’t make him a traveler like this guy. The comparison is apples to oranges.
I feel bad for her. She’s hurt and punishing him. I hope he’s stopped all the travelling bc 5 kids , 3 baby mamas, a pending ex wife, and wanting another kid at 40 is no joke.
I feel bad for her because she picked a.dud. And wants to sign up to be baby mama #4. She's beautiful. But has low standards. She needs tp work on herself. She has a 19 y/o son. She didn't need anymore.
16:35 She can get a job if she wants to have some $ !! Man has 5 kids they need to come before anyone!!Why would anyone want to have to force someone to marry them?!
Jealousy is everything BUT love! If somebody tells you he/she is jealous because he/she loves you so much they are afraid you might leave for somebody else, it’s not love. It’s insecurity. It’s a need of power over the person they consider as their possession. It’s a blatant lack of respect. When you truly love someone, you want the whole world to love that person. If you fear that person will live you, you have to tell yourself that you don’t lose what you never had. That idiot should listen very carefully about the piece of wisdom judge Toler is TRYING to give her.
This chick is so embarrassing and desperate. I hope she changes her ways since the show was recorded. That's just insanity to the 10th power for real. Why would you want to live your life checking up on a dude you're in a relationship with? Girl, just be single 🙄
Why would does she want to be baby mama #4 and baby #6? Girl needs therapy or hobbies or something! She seems like the type to grab onto a man and make him the center of her world. She's beautiful. If she could elevate internally she could find better quality men and have a better relationships.
She been sharing men, including this guy bcuz HE IS MARRIED. The common denominator is her. Keeps changing faces but picks the same type of guy. She's got all the suspicions and all the makings of a "goodbye girl." Expects to get sloppy seconds and to be left. it's self-sabotage, a self-fulfilling prophesy. Her acquired clinginess pushes guys away and lacks awareness of her centralness to the situation and that maintaining a relationship has a lot more to do than just being attractive. They could both take a lesson in that. They both need a shrink
Just allow this relationship to play out self out. Baby don't bring no other baby in this world with this man. Yes boo just be by yourself. You deserve it❤
I’m so sorry for this young lady that the people that were allowed to hurt her in this manner is finding it so hard in her young life. I hope she gets it sooner than later. Yes, God will allow something’s, but the rest we do to self, thinking we know what’s best. (Dnt ask how I know) I hope she finds love,peace and happiness🌸
Toxic people hurt good people. These are the types of women these men choose and hope to change only to be disappointed that they never changed for them.
All the comments are about his 3 kids. I think the girlfriend needs counseling for her emotional state. she has no confidence and neither him nor any other man can heal that.
It’s funny how the judge gives this whole speech to this lady about having a new baby with a man who already has 4 kids with other women…YET SHE got with a man who already had 4 kids..and had a baby with him👀..You can’t make this shii up..Live your Life..Don’t worry about other people’s opinions!
…not sure where you are getting your information from. Big E had 2 sons from a prior marriage when he and Judge Toler got together. He was divorced and parenting his boys. He and Lynn then married and they had 2 sons. He supported his family, and helped her to get her career started. Big E was no traveler. How about you?
@ I think you’ve missed the point. Without blended families our culture would be circling the drain. Judge Toler is cautioning this woman to not have a baby with this guy in order to feel any self worth. She was not condescending or lecturing her to stay clear of him because he had children but because he was a traveler. Big E was certainly not a traveler…they were together for 34 years. Not once was the term “ready made family” discussed. This woman was not even trying to spend time with this man’s 5 children…maybe that’s her mistake.
@ circling the drain? you’re making stuff up now and 6 kids 2 women don’t know what exactly you’re definition of a traveler is but ok you got it and a quick google search will show you he had four children from his prior relationship..
@@SecondHustlePodcast no need to make stuff up. He had 2 boys that he chose not to leave fatherless (or circling the drain)! He and Lynn chose to blend his sons into their family…and then added their two sons to form a solid family unit. Both sets of boys call big E “dad”, and all sat at the table and ate dinner each night. He did not abandon his sons. That’s how you do family.
Angel loox like an 😇 Banking on that will get her alot of attention and guys hitting on her...that's about it. Too bad she is soooo insecure and unaware of her part in this relationship. She is no victim...she chose him🙄
Listen to gentleman I'm not the best person to give relationship advice because I haven't had a solid one yet but I do know one thing in order to keep relationships healthy you have to have Separate Lives meaning jobs a separate set of friends and privacy in the phone that doesn't mean you have a free pass to cheat it just means if you're together all the time that's the fastest way to kill a relationship it's not healthy to spend all your time together I would never go through a significant others phone that's their private business much as my phone is my private business
This is terrible. The woman needs help. It's her job to show up in this relationship whole. Stop blaming men for previous hurt. Im saying this because i had to do it. I healed from the inside two year no communication with men absolutly no sex just working on myself. Now i can show up as an assett and bot a liability !!!!!!
She wants that "bond" with him??? By being the 4th baby momma? Society is doomed
Completely doomed
I will never understand how some women are not automatically turned off by the possibility of being considered "baby mama #4"
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I think it’s about power some women feel like they are the ones that can make a man change
@@justhereyeah1112 I wanted to disagree, but I had to think a bit further. I know there is a such thing as a savior complex. Some ppl will get with someone that they've witnessed be mistreated by someone with the thought they can treat them better that the person that they were with before. They try to be all that they need and all of what the other person wasn't, but somehow they end up with someone that doesn't appreciate them. In this case, I felt she was just used to picking horrible men and it made her controlling and paranoid.
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At this point ma’am just be single and stress free 😂
As you can see he has 3baby mothers and isn’t with any of them don’t be baby mother number 4 a baby does not and will not keep a man ever
Dont let your past lovers dictate your present. Strong Statement
Right. When she said she’s been hurt a lot my first thought was what does that PAST have to do with your present/future. See a therapist and/or take some time off from dating/relationships. SMH.
She knew what she was getting, so why be with him in the 1st place?!😂 She needs to stop being weak & insecure and let him go. Her insecurities will continue to chase guys away. That tattoo is awful 😅
Judge Toler is a natural beauty inside and out! She’s the total package. No wonder big E picked her!
Yea he picked her…he had 4 kids already why wouldn’t he..yet she gives this long speech to this couple😅smh wild
@@SecondHustlePodcast They weren’t from 4 baby mamas, though. Anyone can have an ex-wife and kids. It doesn’t make him a traveler like this guy. The comparison is apples to oranges.
@@SecondHustlePodcast Also, he was an accountant. He supported those boys well and they lived with HIM.
Absolutely. Children don’t hold men
You’d think the three baby mamas would be a clue…
I feel bad for her. She’s hurt and punishing him. I hope he’s stopped all the travelling bc 5 kids , 3 baby mamas, a pending ex wife, and wanting another kid at 40 is no joke.
I feel bad for her because she picked a.dud. And wants to sign up to be baby mama #4. She's beautiful. But has low standards. She needs tp work on herself. She has a 19 y/o son. She didn't need anymore.
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If a person has to be Inspect gadget ,that's not a healthy relationship
I always love the audience's reaction
16:35 She can get a job if she wants to have some $ !! Man has 5 kids they need to come before anyone!!Why would anyone want to have to force someone to marry them?!
What a miserable way to live..must be so exhausting
If she only has a grown son she needs to get with a man with grown kids or no kids. Someone gotta give her some game
Come on now she knew he had 3 baby mamas and he knew she didnt have a big butt and couldnt dance 😂🤣
They should not be together
He is using her for no good
And that idiot of a woman doesn’t want to lose him to the point of poisoning her life by keeping a close eye on him.
Jealousy is everything BUT love! If somebody tells you he/she is jealous because he/she loves you so much they are afraid you might leave for somebody else, it’s not love. It’s insecurity. It’s a need of power over the person they consider as their possession. It’s a blatant lack of respect. When you truly love someone, you want the whole world to love that person. If you fear that person will live you, you have to tell yourself that you don’t lose what you never had. That idiot should listen very carefully about the piece of wisdom judge Toler is TRYING to give her.
She insecure it's crazy and she the one that got him stuck
That woman is GORGEOUS!!!
This chick is so embarrassing and desperate. I hope she changes her ways since the show was recorded. That's just insanity to the 10th power for real. Why would you want to live your life checking up on a dude you're in a relationship with? Girl, just be single 🙄
Why would does she want to be baby mama #4 and baby #6? Girl needs therapy or hobbies or something! She seems like the type to grab onto a man and make him the center of her world. She's beautiful. If she could elevate internally she could find better quality men and have a better relationships.
Jiggling it on the tube😅
Not her talking about women don’t care if you married and he a whole married man as she say that 😮🤔 😮
😂😂😂…that’s why she’s losing her mind…she knows what he is capable of but still wants him to marry her…delulu
She been sharing men, including this guy bcuz HE IS MARRIED. The common denominator is her. Keeps changing faces but picks the same type of guy. She's got all the suspicions and all the makings of a "goodbye girl." Expects to get sloppy seconds and to be left. it's self-sabotage, a self-fulfilling prophesy. Her acquired clinginess pushes guys away and lacks awareness of her centralness to the situation and that maintaining a relationship has a lot more to do than just being attractive. They could both take a lesson in that.
They both need a shrink
Amen to all of your comment!👏👏👍
She would be much better off without him. It comes down to either you got him or you don't! Guess what, you don't have him!
3 baby mothers and still married. True judge
Love me some judge Lynn!
3 baby mommas big red flag, no way!
11:22 Oof… That tattoo is _not_ good. Bad proportions, crooked guitar neck, unfortunate face drawing… I’d be pretty upset if I were him.
She is gorgeous
She wanna have his kid and be the 4th baby momma god you have to be kidding me this world can't be real ....im really in simulation
Just allow this relationship to play out self out. Baby don't bring no other baby in this world with this man. Yes boo just be by yourself. You deserve it❤
Trust is gone boo. Why are you looking for negative thought s. Your looking for something boo u will find it
This is a married man. The woman is insecure mistress. She knows that her evil deeds will one day revisit her. Why are they on this show?
U r gone be doing that for ever. Baby Mama aint going no where
Lol that tattoo 😂😂
So much insecurity on her part 😮😮this is no way to live someone hurt her really bad
I lost my patience with this lady. The more I listened, the more irritated I got.
They're perfect for each other. She's crazy and hyper focused on this man's every "step". And he's just a bad investment off rip
Great case.
Goodness married for 43 years and never go through his phone, could care less.
I’m so sorry for this young lady that the people that were allowed to hurt her in this manner is finding it so hard in her young life. I hope she gets it sooner than later. Yes, God will allow something’s, but the rest we do to self, thinking we know what’s best. (Dnt ask how I know) I hope she finds love,peace and happiness🌸
Good point
This woman by the name Angel is very INSECURE... I wonder if they CHEATED on his wife??? 🤔🤔🤔
How can some women be willing to except so much of the wrong attention from a man. 😮
AMAZING WOMAN... 💯💯💯💯💯💯
Is it just me or is the lady in pink energy off🤔
The way she keep looking at the black woman.
She is controlling, and insecure, and she has trust issues. She needs therapy.
Yah overall, men clothes are more expensive.
Did he have 3 baby mama's when they met? If she had a problem with that now, she had a problem with it before. She has trust issues.
Yay!! No sound issues👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Avoid the season 15 videos. That's the season with sound issues.
I'm not going through all that...you putting him through sh!t he not even doing🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
Judges summing up was ridiculous
But she will stay woth hom
With him
Now that fatal attraction 😮
Toxic people hurt good people. These are the types of women these men choose and hope to change only to be disappointed that they never changed for them.
the man is still married of course she's jealous, he proved he could do anything
All the comments are about his 3 kids. I think the girlfriend needs counseling for her emotional state. she has no confidence and neither him nor any other man can heal that.
A baby sure won't make her crazy go away it'll only get worse
So insecure... absolutely stupid..to chase a man... he'll be gone soon
It’s funny how the judge gives this whole speech to this lady about having a new baby with a man who already has 4 kids with other women…YET SHE got with a man who already had 4 kids..and had a baby with him👀..You can’t make this shii up..Live your Life..Don’t worry about other people’s opinions!
…not sure where you are getting your information from. Big E had 2 sons from a prior marriage when he and Judge Toler got together. He was divorced and parenting his boys. He and Lynn then married and they had 2 sons. He supported his family, and helped her to get her career started. Big E was no traveler. How about you?
@ no matter how you flip it “All ready made family”
@ I think you’ve missed the point. Without blended families our culture would be circling the drain. Judge Toler is cautioning this woman to not have a baby with this guy in order to feel any self worth. She was not condescending or lecturing her to stay clear of him because he had children but because he was a traveler. Big E was certainly not a traveler…they were together for 34 years. Not once was the term “ready made family” discussed. This woman was not even trying to spend time with this man’s 5 children…maybe that’s her mistake.
@ circling the drain? you’re making stuff up now and 6 kids 2 women don’t know what exactly you’re definition of a traveler is but ok you got it and a quick google search will show you he had four children from his prior relationship..
@@SecondHustlePodcast no need to make stuff up. He had 2 boys that he chose not to leave fatherless (or circling the drain)! He and Lynn chose to blend his sons into their family…and then added their two sons to form a solid family unit. Both sets of boys call big E “dad”, and all sat at the table and ate dinner each night. He did not abandon his sons. That’s how you do family.
IM OUT !!!! Ridiculous
Oh she is totally mental,he has to dpeak with his kids mothers.period
I didn't know women wanted to be baby mama 4+
Angel loox like an 😇
Banking on that will get her alot of attention and guys hitting on her...that's about it. Too bad she is soooo insecure and unaware of her part in this relationship. She is no victim...she chose him🙄
He needs to run , back to his babies mother
We all need to be together
MARRY HER PROVE YOURSELF..WOMEN STOP SLEEPING WITH MEN UNTIL MARRIAGE..TRY READING YOUR BIBLE
Listen to gentleman I'm not the best person to give relationship advice because I haven't had a solid one yet but I do know one thing in order to keep relationships healthy you have to have Separate Lives meaning jobs a separate set of friends and privacy in the phone that doesn't mean you have a free pass to cheat it just means if you're together all the time that's the fastest way to kill a relationship it's not healthy to spend all your time together I would never go through a significant others phone that's their private business much as my phone is my private business
This is terrible. The woman needs help. It's her job to show up in this relationship whole. Stop blaming men for previous hurt. Im saying this because i had to do it. I healed from the inside two year no communication with men absolutly no sex just working on myself. Now i can show up as an assett and bot a liability !!!!!!
U crazy
Women are stu… just never mind. The more I watch these shows, Smgdh.
Some women...not all !! Lolll
@@hayleiprescod3122 alright, I’ll downgrade to most.