But before we accept we have to realise which is such a hard step too, and we still feel emotions to lose something that matter hardly for us.. It is hard to say goodbye to something you thought would last for long.. With time, patience and self love and surrounding it will be fine and being positive will get easier insha'Allah. And then...... The nightmare becomes a woke up.
@@mohammedulhaq4073 i guess in same way how men in some Muslim countries with pariarchal societies, (mis)interpret and (mis) use islamic laws and rules against Muslim women.
Hasan Tariq I’m trying to cope with it,I got married on 29th July 2020 then got divorced a month later and I was given three divorce at once,my marriage lacked communication,it was soo painful my dear I wanted to take my life, I wanted the marriage to work so bad to an option I even upto for a consoling just to keep the marriage but it didn’t,that pain I couldn’t take it,but each day Allah made it easier for me I’m in the processes of healing.in shaa one day Allah will bless me with another wonderful person
its been 5 years of my divorce.. I 've two kids. i've been gone through the same pain..same feelings. Allah helped me ..I tried to get closure to Allah during that period
Assalamualaikum to all... im going through divorce and its a very crucial path. I feel bad coz im too young as the society took it from a bad view as children are involved . I want new chapter but cant turn over. Too painful. I tried to make it work . Divorce was last option. Please make duaa for my daughters . I want to move on...
+auto car ebs walikoom asalam Divorce is hard on all involved (spouses, kids and extended family members) I pray that Allah gives you the strength to overcome this.
im really moved with what you have shared and its really inspiring to everyone who's going thru a tough times during the process of their divorce. your tips helped a lot in moving thru another chapter of life. your so amazing. God speed you with love and care with your life.
Salam sister I have never commented on a video before. I want to tell u that your video touched me you can tell that you spoke from the heart and divorce was truly your last option. I am going through a very terrible time with my husband and feel like I cannot take anymore I am seriously contemplating on asking him for a divorce. My head tells me to leave but my heart doesn't want to believe that I've failed? I have turned to Allah swt for guidance I only hope I make the right decision for me.
Walikoom asalam sister, sorry to hear that you are contemplating divorce. Just as i said in my video if there is any hope that you can save your marriage. Try everything you can to save your marriage keep divorce as your last hope. Keep praying and may Allah help you overcome this
10 days in to a divorce and internally i am an emotional wreck. Just waiting for my iddah to get over so i could get busy with life. Work, go to the gym and divert my mind. I turn to Allah to make this easy on my soul as the pain is too much. Its just so DIFFICULT. And i pray to Allah that everyone who is going through this just has it made easy to move on. May Allah protect us. Ameen. Sister may Allah bless you. Thank you for your advice.❤️
Asalamalykum warahamtullahi wabarakatu my dear sisters wallahi reading these comments and watching this video I'm in pain and I feel so sorry for all of you going through this may Allah grant you all ease and there are good men out there who will treasure you and love you no matter what.
Be the change that you would like to see in the world. Other men will stop their misbehavior is you point out their wrongdoings to them. Muhammed SAW never behaved like this, neither should these so-called Muslims.
Ameen! I’m considering leaving my husband. I’m tired of being emotionally abused. I’m tired of him always criticizing my complexion and calling me ugly whenever an argument rises. Apparently only light skin women are attractive to him funny how this is now coming up now that we’re married... he’s Snapchat and FB is full of chicks that look like video girls. It’s so hard to trust men. I just pray Allah gives me the strength to make the right decision because this life is too short to continue to keep living in this misery
Never get family involve it only makes things worse handle ur problems urself that's how I deal with stuff if divorce comes it's not our fault we weren't meant to be together
Divorc dos NOT defined US it's just an obstacle a gap in our life journey it's not our fault because I'm sure most of us woman in Arab society do there best to make there marriage work but it was not meant to be its in our destiny Allah's will and we have to accept it and move on no divorced woman should be ashamed of herself I like you video I know I'm late but it's very inspiring encouraging I'm glad to be a faithful subscriber
+Kanami Sama You know what they say better late than never (just like my reply to you) I totally agree we shouldnt be ashamed of our status but sadly some are and I hope that by voicing my views on this matter will give other women the strength to own up to it too.
G+ Link: plus.google.com/u/2/106795871795554242731 Kudos for the video content! Apologies for the intrusion, I would appreciate your thoughts. Have you heard the talk about - Taparton Returning Love Takeover (should be on google have a look)? It is a great exclusive guide for learning how to stop divorce minus the normal expense. Ive heard some great things about it and my best friend Jordan got cool results with it.
Divorce is allowed for a reason.... to have a peace of mind, if you think on pleasing society, remind yourself they don't put food on your plate. Focus on yourself.
Assalamu alaikum. Thank you for your videos. It quite strengthens me. I currently live with my parent again, and get separated from my husband. I'm also considering divorce from my husband, although we haven't filed anything for the court yet. May Allah bless us, aamiin.
Annisa A. Pretty much same. My husband has backed out of every single agreement/condition for the marriage. I am sure he had secondary agendas for the marriage and I truly wanted to make things work. I pray everyday to Allah to ease my heart but I can feel it, my family and I can sense that a divorce is becoming inevitable. Emotional abuse can’t be seen but it’s worse than physical pain. May Allah protect our hearts, ameen.
Annisa A. Pretty much same. My husband has backed out of every single agreement/condition for the marriage. I am sure he had secondary agendas for the marriage and I truly wanted to make things work. I pray everyday to Allah to ease my heart but I can feel it, my family and I can sense that a divorce is becoming inevitable. Emotional abuse can’t be seen but it’s worse than physical pain. May Allah protect our hearts, ameen.
As-Salaam Alakum, I'm glad you liked the quote, please feel free to post it. It is a quote that I came up with through my own life experiences. When you emerge from a divorce you are shredding a part of your past and accepting a new reality while preparing for an uncertain future that you never anticipated. In the muslim community divorced women sometimes struggle to remarry because men tend to label them as divorced, non-virgin, having kids as well as emotional baggage form a previous relationship. There is Hikmah ( wisdom ) in everything whether we see it or not. Our lives are NOT IN THE HANDS AND PERCEPTIONS OF OTHERS who have failed to comprehend the reasons for our divorce. I hope that God will bless you to find a spouse who will provide you with the emotional support, love and care for your two daughters, help you to advance in your sewing career and provide you with the LOVE and SECURITY that you deserve. Ma' Salaam
Yes, well put. I also divorced at a young age (no children from previous marriage), I did re-marry later on and Alhamdolillah I was happy to be able to have a new start. My ex was cruel in many ways and there was no option except to leave as he was unwilling to change. I left 12 years ago but it did affect me for many years, specially when going through the process of trying to find a new spouse. Allahu Alim--He chooses different tests for different people. I think Sr Maya's message of seeking help from the Almighty makes it clear she passed that test.
+TheSewist Assalaamualikum Warahmatullah ukthi. I just came across your videos and am loving them. You are beautiful ukthi inside and out! You remind me of my African American friends, revert sisters I knew back in New York. I currently live in Dhaka and have posted some of your beautiful reminders. Your post on how you started wearing your Hijab was heartwarming. BarakAllahu Feeki
+Amatullah T Walikoom asalam my dear, thank you so much for your kind words. Jazaki Allah khir for sharing my videos. I look forward to meeting you one day in sha Allah too, stay blessed x
You are a beautiful sister and the knowledge imparted in your videos is a blessing! Divorce is a difficult decision but sometimes it is the best option available. I wish you well...
Good to watch your videos,we are going through the same episode, I felt strong after watching your videos.your daughter is very cute,I would like to see her more often.God bless you happiness in your new wedding life.amen
Mashallah wonderful video. Very few people talk about divorce. You gave very good advice so helpful. I went through this 5years ago and your story sound similar to mine. Seeking the guidance of Allah was very crucial in not giving up and helping my children cope. Jazakallah for sharing
You go girl :) , so proud of you! Im a new subscriber and already I'm in love with your youtube video!! , Society are mostly the main root of problems stretching ❤️ iloveyou keep it up.
+TheSewist Dear sister do you have aby tips on how to try to choose the right guy for marriage? I have seen some family memebers who have difficulties in their relationship and this realy puts me off of getting married. Any advice please? Thank you, youre very inspiring. Keep going on. Much love. 💗💗
I m going through this pathetic phase right now. There is total blackout u feel no idea what to do now just a feeling of pain which I cannot remove ..pray for me sister
Astuti Wiji make the most of being free. Re discover yourself through enjoying activities that interest you. It is hard. But that's how I'm getting through it. I am divorced after 20 years of narcissistic abuse. Couldn't be happier.
I could not agree more. If compass of Allah , has not helped, and efforts and communication also has not helped a marriage. There is no point beating the bush. The more time pass and it hurts more people, , including children. Divorce is a sad reality but there are times in life when you need to accept it and move forward .May God bless you for sharing your thoughts, you are a strong woman MashAllah
I want to divorce my husband.We are together 15 years. From longtime I am depressed. Our society does not allow divorce family.My mental health always suffer from depression
Mademoiselle I know this is a late reply but if anyone opens this I will tell you the best thing is to simply put everything aside and put your 100% trust in allah and remember everything happens for a reason. You need to put yourself first and use your lessons you learned to better yourself and take your time when picking a spouse allah has written everything for you! May allah give us all strength inshallah 🙌🏻
Asalamu alaykom. Thank you fpr making this video. I couldn't find the right advice or words for my dear friend so I sent her this video. I hope this is beneficial to her and that you get the Reward. Ameen.
Walikoom asalan, your most welcome its the least I can do with hopes that it benefits those who need it the most. I pray that all goes with your friend.
Rabia Ky you have to think of the little heart beating in your stomach.. that you have to fight for that little sweetheart that's in your stomach that depends on you after Allah ❤
Marii Xuseen I'm very sorry to hear that.. right now it will feel hard but iA when baby is here all your attention will go to him/her Ameen.. iA Allah makes it easy for u and any1 in the same situation Ameen ♡
Maryiam Muslim Ameen. I believe in that. I'm having a baby girl, so maybe it won't be so hard on her without having a father. Maybe she will have another father who will love her even more than the biological one, some day. Allah knows best and he never takes something from a believer without replacing it with something better. Thank you for your sweet words dear sister.
Marii Xuseen masha'Allah a baby girl.. I have a baby girl too ♡ insha'Allah she will be your support to get through this.. and yes insha'Allah Allah gives you something even better which is good for you both Ameen ♡ it just shows how the person is who leaves his pregnant wife and you are worth much more and deserve much better.. insha'Allah you have supportive family and friends ♡ if you ever need I'm here to talk
Young lady, I was in love with your message up to the point where a lady might be responsible for her husbands departure, yet no mention is made that a husband might have flaws which may cause the break up. It appears you left the man totally innocent when statistics show it is the man in a marriage most likely to be responsible for the divorce. I look forward to your feedback.
Assata Sherrill I think you misunderstood the message, the aim of the video was to share tips on how i overcame this divorce. Unfortunately the arab society judges a divorced a woman and tends to assume its her fault that the marriage ended. I don't believe that we can blame gender over the other when it comes to divorce each relationship is different therefore so are the reasons why it ends.
Hi dear,i want to go for divorce i hv spent almost 4 years without staying with my Ex,so wat does the islamic law say about that.I heard that wen u spend 3 months without staying with him,that ur considered as divorced.is it true
Assalamualaikum sister!Thank you for sharing your experience with us! You indeed have strength and a beautiful soul! May Allah (swt) bless you with happiness in the donya and grant you Jannatul Firdaus inshallah!
I kept going over everything in my head, and still struggle with feeling guilty and/or responsible replaying it over and over. Im over it and at the same time struggle with the concept religiously - how much of it will I answer for ? How much of it am I punished for? Its so hard
Please pray for me.. im going thru hard times, my husband just divorced me.. it is completely hurtful as he accused me of cheating behind his back. Allah knows the truth, not even a single time I even thought about it. Ya Allah, save me from this deeply sadness.. amiin
Is there are channel like this by a man for men discussing dealing with life after divorce? Im divorced and going through loneliness for years. Would be nice to have a Muslim divorced guy channel for lowering gaze etc
Jazakillah sister...I have hone through a divorce too jst recently and I can relate to your video ...jazakillah for making this video. ...needed advice ....so ur video is of a great help ....may Allah bless you vit jannah. ..
Ayasha Shaikh it breaks my heart to know of your divorce. I pray that Allah gives you the strength to go through this, I am glad you found some comfort in my video, stay blessed ❤
This is new cultural phenomena to stigmatize divorce. it is not easy, but it is a solution for some. the Messenger of Allah, pbuh, married divorced women except Aisha, blessings be upon her.
you are a great example....thanks we should keep in touch are you living in UK? i have two daughters myself and your daughter i saw in another vid very cute mashAllah x
+Rabia Ky Jazaki Alla khir sister, I live in Oman, how old are you daughters? Yes I am blessed alhamdulilah to have two daughters, they are simply a joy to have
a wife want divorce from her husband because they things not match together and that's the reason to want divorce and I have a baby boy and not to give my husband please give Suggestions abd Please Reply ?
+Amina Terrinly sorry to hear this, i do not wish this on any marriage as it is not easy especially if they are children involved. I ask Allah to give you the strength
In Life we must accept WHAT IS, let go of WHAT WAS, and prepare for WHAT IS GOING TO BE !
Exactly i couldnt agree more, thank you for sharing that.
Love this! Can I share this quote?
kebayachic I love that quote too by Marlon Hosten i am not sure who the author is but i guess we will have to ask Marlon if it was okay to re-post.
But before we accept we have to realise which is such a hard step too, and we still feel emotions to lose something that matter hardly for us..
It is hard to say goodbye to something you thought would last for long..
With time, patience and self love and surrounding it will be fine and being positive will get easier insha'Allah.
And then...... The nightmare becomes a woke up.
family members can make things worse.
I know some people who have families that are terrible people and love to laugh at others misfortune
Most women use western law against men to bully them
@@mohammedulhaq4073 can you explain this further?
@@mohammedulhaq4073 i guess in same way how men in some Muslim countries with pariarchal societies, (mis)interpret and (mis) use islamic laws and rules against Muslim women.
I’m going thru a divorce right now. Alhumdulillah I found your channel ♥️
Me too... it hurts so much.. i pray that Allah makes it easy for os
Mee too
@@saffiahmisiko6358 are you ok now? is everything alright? May allah guide you
Hasan Tariq I’m trying to cope with it,I got married on 29th July 2020 then got divorced a month later and I was given three divorce at once,my marriage lacked communication,it was soo painful my dear I wanted to take my life, I wanted the marriage to work so bad to an option I even upto for a consoling just to keep the marriage but it didn’t,that pain I couldn’t take it,but each day Allah made it easier for me I’m in the processes of healing.in shaa one day Allah will bless me with another wonderful person
its been 5 years of my divorce.. I 've two kids. i've been gone through the same pain..same feelings. Allah helped me ..I tried to get closure to Allah during that period
Alhamdulilah glad to hear that you were able to get closure, may Allah continue to give you strength
Hi how are you
Going through a divorce right now and your videos helps me a lot.
Same here the most difficult thing I’ve gone through
I can't stop admiring you lady ... You are a strong soul ... I salute you❤
Habibti Mais Al Aufi thank you xx
Hank Mark shut up
Assalamualaikum to all... im going through divorce and its a very crucial path. I feel bad coz im too young as the society took it from a bad view as children are involved . I want new chapter but cant turn over. Too painful. I tried to make it work . Divorce was last option. Please make duaa for my daughters . I want to move on...
+auto car ebs walikoom asalam
Divorce is hard on all involved (spouses, kids and extended family members) I pray that Allah gives you the strength to overcome this.
I wish the best from Allah SWT. Do not feel worried.
+8801713017971
M.Syedur Rahman Asalamalykum Akhi do you think it's appropriate casually dropping your number to a sister who's clearly going through a bad time
May Allah help you and your family get through this difficult time, Ameen.
@@mohamedyusuf7571 i also wonder the same
im really moved with what you have shared and its really inspiring to everyone who's going thru a tough times during the process of their divorce. your tips helped a lot in moving thru another chapter of life. your so amazing. God speed you with love and care with your life.
Salam sister I have never commented on a video before. I want to tell u that your video touched me you can tell that you spoke from the heart and divorce was truly your last option. I am going through a very terrible time with my husband and feel like I cannot take anymore I am seriously contemplating on asking him for a divorce. My head tells me to leave but my heart doesn't want to believe that I've failed? I have turned to Allah swt for guidance I only hope I make the right decision for me.
Walikoom asalam sister, sorry to hear that you are contemplating divorce. Just as i said in my video if there is any hope that you can save your marriage. Try everything you can to save your marriage keep divorce as your last hope. Keep praying and may Allah help you overcome this
You always come across as so elegant and sincere its a good example for us muslim ladies
+sophie rianna alhamdulilah i am glad that I come across that way :)
10 days in to a divorce and internally i am an emotional wreck. Just waiting for my iddah to get over so i could get busy with life. Work, go to the gym and divert my mind. I turn to Allah to make this easy on my soul as the pain is too much. Its just so DIFFICULT. And i pray to Allah that everyone who is going through this just has it made easy to move on. May Allah protect us. Ameen. Sister may Allah bless you. Thank you for your advice.❤️
Asalamalykum warahamtullahi wabarakatu my dear sisters wallahi reading these comments and watching this video I'm in pain and I feel so sorry for all of you going through this may Allah grant you all ease and there are good men out there who will treasure you and love you no matter what.
Be the change that you would like to see in the world. Other men will stop their misbehavior is you point out their wrongdoings to them. Muhammed SAW never behaved like this, neither should these so-called Muslims.
Ameen! I’m considering leaving my husband. I’m tired of being emotionally abused. I’m tired of him always criticizing my complexion and calling me ugly whenever an argument rises. Apparently only light skin women are attractive to him funny how this is now coming up now that we’re married... he’s Snapchat and FB is full of chicks that look like video girls. It’s so hard to trust men. I just pray Allah gives me the strength to make the right decision because this life is too short to continue to keep living in this misery
Never get family involve it only makes things worse handle ur problems urself that's how I deal with stuff if divorce comes it's not our fault we weren't meant to be together
Divorc dos NOT defined US it's just an obstacle a gap in our life journey it's not our fault because I'm sure most of us woman in Arab society do there best to make there marriage work but it was not meant to be its in our destiny Allah's will and we have to accept it and move on no divorced woman should be ashamed of herself I like you video I know I'm late but it's very inspiring encouraging I'm glad to be a faithful subscriber
+Kanami Sama You know what they say better late than never (just like my reply to you)
I totally agree we shouldnt be ashamed of our status but sadly some are and I hope that by voicing my views on this matter will give other women the strength to own up to it too.
We are all worthy of love!
The world needs more love!!
Indeed we are and yes we do
I do not know how I landed on this video but I am glad I did.
You beautiful soul!
Shamsiya Noorul Quloob Allahuma Ameen, no idea how or why but so glad you did ❤
you are so brave!
G+ Link: plus.google.com/u/2/106795871795554242731 Kudos for the video content! Apologies for the intrusion, I would appreciate your thoughts. Have you heard the talk about - Taparton Returning Love Takeover (should be on google have a look)? It is a great exclusive guide for learning how to stop divorce minus the normal expense. Ive heard some great things about it and my best friend Jordan got cool results with it.
Divorce is allowed for a reason.... to have a peace of mind, if you think on pleasing society, remind yourself they don't put food on your plate. Focus on yourself.
This is so hard!! I have no support system... This is so hard...
Bianca Muhammad Sister, find strength in outside groups. Join some groups such as gardening or bushwalking groups. Whatever interest you.
May Allah give you the best support system. Ameen
Hi Bianca I hope you are in a better place today insha Allah and have moved on, hopefully looking back and stronger 🌈
@@shembeliever6095 amen
Assalamu alaikum.
Thank you for your videos.
It quite strengthens me.
I currently live with my parent again, and get separated from my husband.
I'm also considering divorce from my husband, although we haven't filed anything for the court yet.
May Allah bless us, aamiin.
Annisa A. Pretty much same. My husband has backed out of every single agreement/condition for the marriage. I am sure he had secondary agendas for the marriage and I truly wanted to make things work. I pray everyday to Allah to ease my heart but I can feel it, my family and I can sense that a divorce is becoming inevitable. Emotional abuse can’t be seen but it’s worse than physical pain. May Allah protect our hearts, ameen.
Annisa A. Pretty much same. My husband has backed out of every single agreement/condition for the marriage. I am sure he had secondary agendas for the marriage and I truly wanted to make things work. I pray everyday to Allah to ease my heart but I can feel it, my family and I can sense that a divorce is becoming inevitable. Emotional abuse can’t be seen but it’s worse than physical pain. May Allah protect our hearts, ameen.
T Mahaj mine as well. This is painful
As-Salaam Alakum, I'm glad you liked the quote, please feel free to post it. It is a quote that I came up with through my own life experiences. When you emerge from a divorce you are shredding a part of your past and accepting a new reality while preparing for an uncertain future that you never anticipated. In the muslim community divorced women sometimes struggle to remarry because men tend to label them as divorced, non-virgin,
having kids as well as emotional baggage form a previous relationship. There is Hikmah ( wisdom ) in everything whether we see it or not. Our lives are NOT IN THE HANDS AND PERCEPTIONS OF OTHERS who have failed to comprehend the reasons for our divorce. I hope that God will bless you to find a spouse who will provide you with the emotional support, love and care for your two daughters, help you to advance in your sewing career and provide you with the LOVE and SECURITY that you deserve. Ma' Salaam
Yes, well put. I also divorced at a young age (no children from previous marriage), I did re-marry later on and Alhamdolillah I was happy to be able to have a new start. My ex was cruel in many ways and there was no option except to leave as he was unwilling to change. I left 12 years ago but it did affect me for many years, specially when going through the process of trying to find a new spouse. Allahu Alim--He chooses different tests for different people. I think Sr Maya's message of seeking help from the Almighty makes it clear she passed that test.
I am grateful for this.. one of the hardest thing anyone can go through. your strong woman.
+Amina :) sometimes being strong is the only option we have xx
+TheSewist Assalaamualikum Warahmatullah ukthi. I just came across your videos and am loving them. You are beautiful ukthi inside and out! You remind me of my African American friends, revert sisters I knew back in New York. I currently live in Dhaka and have posted some of your beautiful reminders. Your post on how you started wearing your Hijab was heartwarming. BarakAllahu Feeki
+Amatullah T Walikoom asalam my dear, thank you so much for your kind words. Jazaki Allah khir for sharing my videos. I look forward to meeting you one day in sha Allah too, stay blessed x
You are a beautiful sister and the knowledge imparted in your videos is a blessing! Divorce is a difficult decision but sometimes it is the best option available. I wish you well...
+RC S thank you for your support :)
Good to watch your videos,we are going through the same episode, I felt strong after watching your videos.your daughter is very cute,I would like to see her more often.God bless you happiness in your new wedding life.amen
You don't look old enough to be married never mind divorced. Exercise is a great way of coping with difficult times in our lives.
Mashallah wonderful video. Very few people talk about divorce. You gave very good advice so helpful. I went through this 5years ago and your story sound similar to mine. Seeking the guidance of Allah was very crucial in not giving up and helping my children cope. Jazakallah for sharing
I've just recently got divorced and it's the worst pain in my life. I've never experienced pain on this level before. It's unbearable.
You go girl :) , so proud of you! Im a new subscriber and already I'm in love with your youtube video!! , Society are mostly the main root of problems stretching ❤️ iloveyou keep it up.
+Banno Smile Aww thank you for subscribing and i totally agree society are part of the problems, appreciate your support much love from Oman x
+TheSewist Dear sister do you have aby tips on how to try to choose the right guy for marriage? I have seen some family memebers who have difficulties in their relationship and this realy puts me off of getting married. Any advice please? Thank you, youre very inspiring. Keep going on. Much love. 💗💗
Zahra Moradi Istikharah sister.
Only Istikharrah as guidance will come from Allah.
you are a very woman.keep being strong.i hope you have found your happiness.
+unlucky girl jazaki Allah khir, thank you for your words of encouragement
I m going through this pathetic phase right now. There is total blackout u feel no idea what to do now just a feeling of pain which I cannot remove ..pray for me sister
You have widened my horizons, thank you. I fully support you and may Allah bless you
Alhamdulilah thank you Shamsa may Allah bless us all ya rab xx
Its,very inspiring coz im also just a divorce and im also now be a single mom
Astuti Wiji sorry to hear that your marriage has ended, I pray that Allah gives you strength you need to get through this.
+TheSewist thank you so much sist,.
Astuti Wiji make the most of being free. Re discover yourself through enjoying activities that interest you.
It is hard. But that's how I'm getting through it. I am divorced after 20 years of narcissistic abuse.
Couldn't be happier.
I am going through same thing and I am dreading the title of "single mother".
I could not agree more. If compass of Allah , has not helped, and efforts and communication also has not helped a marriage. There is no point beating the bush. The more time pass and it hurts more people, , including children. Divorce is a sad reality but there are times in life when you need to accept it and move forward .May God bless you for sharing your thoughts, you are a strong woman MashAllah
You are amazing mayAllah keep you happy always.I have been divorce today nd I will follow your advice
Terribly sorry to hear this Lubna, I hope my advice will help and may Allah make this easier for you x
Jzakallah Khair sister I can feel where u coming from May Allah make it easy on all divorcees
What to do if your husband does not want to go for counselling or try to solve issue? He immediately wants the divorce as a solution?
Thank you... i am just going trough it and i really appreciate ur words... may allah bless you. Salam alaikum
I feel you sis
RESPECT
may Allah bless us and help is facing the bad eye of people
Allahuma Ameen thank you much love
I want to divorce my husband.We are together 15 years. From longtime I am depressed. Our society does not allow divorce family.My mental health always suffer from depression
Moreover, I have no home to live.I have job but no home
Sister I know this is a late comment but how can we deal with loneliness after divorce?
Mademoiselle I know this is a late reply but if anyone opens this I will tell you the best thing is to simply put everything aside and put your 100% trust in allah and remember everything happens for a reason. You need to put yourself first and use your lessons you learned to better yourself and take your time when picking a spouse allah has written everything for you! May allah give us all strength inshallah 🙌🏻
I hope u will find the man that u will find happiness with
Alla Kareem
Amen ya rabb
وعسى أن تكرهوا شيئا وهو خير لكم
Unfortunately I just a few days discover your Chanel , i really appreciate what did you post .....keep going 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Asalamu alaykom. Thank you fpr making this video. I couldn't find the right advice or words for my dear friend so I sent her this video. I hope this is beneficial to her and that you get the Reward. Ameen.
Walikoom asalan, your most welcome its the least I can do with hopes that it benefits those who need it the most. I pray that all goes with your friend.
what if your pregnant? how do you get over divorce
Rabia Ky you have to think of the little heart beating in your stomach.. that you have to fight for that little sweetheart that's in your stomach that depends on you after Allah ❤
Rabia Ky I am also pregnant and going through a divorce. I am so very extremely upset
Marii Xuseen I'm very sorry to hear that.. right now it will feel hard but iA when baby is here all your attention will go to him/her Ameen.. iA Allah makes it easy for u and any1 in the same situation Ameen ♡
Maryiam Muslim Ameen. I believe in that. I'm having a baby girl, so maybe it won't be so hard on her without having a father. Maybe she will have another father who will love her even more than the biological one, some day. Allah knows best and he never takes something from a believer without replacing it with something better. Thank you for your sweet words dear sister.
Marii Xuseen masha'Allah a baby girl.. I have a baby girl too ♡ insha'Allah she will be your support to get through this.. and yes insha'Allah Allah gives you something even better which is good for you both Ameen ♡ it just shows how the person is who leaves his pregnant wife and you are worth much more and deserve much better.. insha'Allah you have supportive family and friends ♡ if you ever need I'm here to talk
May Allaah SwT help all such suffered daughters of Muslim Ummah !
I am divorced and was emotionally Disturbed. Your videos helped. Salute from india. Thanks.
Mohammed shaji
Salam brother, sorry to hear about your situation I pray that Allah gives you the strength to overcome this
TheSewist Wasalam. I am now into book publishing. I am interested to know about your culture and people. Thx.
TheSewist What is the situation in your place regarding divorce? Is it according to quran ?
My family and parents are constantly fighting and yelling I’m scared they might break up please pray for me ameen
who is this man that divorced a special lady like you
Am so much inspired and looking forward to get more tips from what you share. In shallah Allah will bless you with a more loving husband.
Thanks for sharing. In the spirit of helping, past tense for seek is sought. Jazakallah l’kheir.
Thank you sister.
You are not alone!
Allah works in amazing ways!! New chapter! New life!!
.......New Mind!!!!!!
Thank you sweetie, yes he does subhan Allah excited for what Allah has in store for me :)
Young lady, I was in love with your message up to the point where a lady might be responsible for her husbands departure, yet no mention is made that a husband might have flaws which may cause the break up. It appears you left the man totally innocent when statistics show it is the man in a marriage most likely to be responsible for the divorce. I look forward to your feedback.
Assata Sherrill I think you misunderstood the message, the aim of the video was to share tips on how i overcame this divorce. Unfortunately the arab society judges a divorced a woman and tends to assume its her fault that the marriage ended. I don't believe that we can blame gender over the other when it comes to divorce each relationship is different therefore so are the reasons why it ends.
Okay
Majority of scholars say that marriages end up in divorces because of women..
Hi dear,i want to go for divorce i hv spent almost 4 years without staying with my Ex,so wat does the islamic law say about that.I heard that wen u spend 3 months without staying with him,that ur considered as divorced.is it true
You are so beautiful. Alhumdullilah sister you are helping others, like me.
Aww thank you Rose, you have a beautiful soul thank you for your words
Mashallah you are so strong, that's what I want to be.
I believe we are all strong but we just don't know it.
Assalam alaikum sister. I'm pregnant and my husband doesn't love me anymore and we going to get divorced. Any advice towards pregnant women?
JazakaAllah.. very useful.. May Allah bless you with the very best
Ameen ya rab, may Allah bless us all
I admire your courage and it's inspiring
Thank you Silmi
Assalamualaikum sister!Thank you for sharing your experience with us! You indeed have strength and a beautiful soul! May Allah (swt) bless you with happiness in the donya and grant you Jannatul Firdaus inshallah!
I kept going over everything in my head, and still struggle with feeling guilty and/or responsible replaying it over and over. Im over it and at the same time struggle with the concept religiously - how much of it will I answer for ? How much of it am I punished for? Its so hard
You seem to be going through rough patch, sadly i can only pray that everything works out for you.
Please try to forget the past and move on. it's tough and I can relate. keep moving forward girl. lots of love! love yourself
This video has helped me a lot
It’s true people think your going to influence or encourage others to divorce too
Sorry my dear sister you will get aGood husband inshallahu
👌 Well said. I totally agree the society has label for everything. Love this video. x
Yes indeed they do, we just have to focus on pleasing Allah and not people. May Allah guide us all to the right path, ameen
Ameen. ♡♡♡
Thank you so much for your video!
Your most welcome, stay blessed
Please pray for me.. im going thru hard times, my husband just divorced me.. it is completely hurtful as he accused me of cheating behind his back. Allah knows the truth, not even a single time I even thought about it. Ya Allah, save me from this deeply sadness.. amiin
Is there are channel like this by a man for men discussing dealing with life after divorce? Im divorced and going through loneliness for years. Would be nice to have a Muslim divorced guy channel for lowering gaze etc
Did you have any children if you did how did you manage with that any advice ?
Experiencing this difficult times of my life.. Alhamdulillah
Thank you for sharing sister
هل لديك.نماذج ترجمة نصية. يا اختنا ممكن ترسلي E_A. و A_ E
This is Hafsaa from Makkah
U r so lovely so great
And i love u in sake of allah
Salam Hafasaa habibiti
Thank you so much and I love you for the sake of Allah too
Whats happened with you in ur last marriage im curious?? Im sorry uv been through this it sounds terrible tho
i really needed this!!! thank u soo much!
shums77 Alhamdulilah, glad it helped you x
Jazakillah sister...I have hone through a divorce too jst recently and I can relate to your video ...jazakillah for making this video. ...needed advice ....so ur video is of a great help ....may Allah bless you vit jannah. ..
Ayasha Shaikh it breaks my heart to know of your divorce. I pray that Allah gives you the strength to go through this, I am glad you found some comfort in my video, stay blessed ❤
As Salaam. +8801713017971
masha Allah my dear this is my first video of yours;;;; u r very brave
What brother in his right mind would divorce a beautiful sister like her subhanallah SMH🤦🏽♂️
This video has helped me... Alot
How old are you ? looking so young ?
u dont have to label ur self as a divorcee u label urself what ever u want
May Allah guide us all. amen
Allahuma Ameen
Thank you sister for this video. Its great advice i appreciate you. May Allah bless you. :)
Barak'Allahu feek sister 💖
im sorry to hear that :) but its not the end of this world .. Allah ewafgech inshallah
Thank you Alia S S Al-Essa indeed it isnt which was the message in the video. Thank
is that the reason your so happy
u got divorced ?
Thank u my dear for this video.. ❤️❤️❤️
This is new cultural phenomena to stigmatize divorce. it is not easy, but it is a solution for some. the Messenger of Allah, pbuh, married divorced women except Aisha, blessings be upon her.
He SAW has about four wives who used to be single: Aisha RDA, Jawarriyah RDA, Hafsa RDA and Saffiya RDA.
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Juwayriya RA, Hafsa Ra and Saffiya RA were all widows.
Darling you certainly have made a difference
you are a great example....thanks we should keep in touch are you living in UK? i have two daughters myself and your daughter i saw in another vid very cute mashAllah x
+Rabia Ky Jazaki Alla khir sister, I live in Oman, how old are you daughters?
Yes I am blessed alhamdulilah to have two daughters, they are simply a joy to have
a wife want divorce from her husband because they things not match together and that's the reason to want divorce and I have a baby boy and not to give my husband please give Suggestions abd Please Reply ?
MashAllah thank You Sister for Advices. May Allah reward you.
Ameen ya rab, may Allah reward us all thank you!
I can relate your issues on my platform.
I am sooooo sory for you bing divorce ALLAH is with you
What is the idat after divorce
Adeline Roseland 3 months.
You can only leave the house for groceries work or medical issues.
Where do you live?
She's from oman
Is divorce a punishment in Islam????
you want divorce sisyer or your husband ?
sorry sister..am going throughout it
+Amina Terrinly sorry to hear this, i do not wish this on any marriage as it is not easy especially if they are children involved. I ask Allah to give you the strength
Ask Jesus Christ to help you. Jesus will help you.