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Girl MJ, you knew it deep in your heart that Tom wasn't deeply and madly in love with you but you still believed that he probably will eventually. The lack of loving in his body language with you throws the biggest clue. I myself had delusions with a wrong guy, he said to me 'I thought we were just killing time' and that was when I ran away! Fast! I felt ashamed of myself for not listening intently to my gut and my heart. I took on a solo backpacking to heal and focused in my career, put solid bricks to protect my wall (my heart) then a man came. He followed me abroad and did every possible way to make me feel loved and wanted. Married with him now for 10 years and loving him more and more each year. The heartaches were so worth it because it led me to my husband. I hope you find your full healing MJ.
100% agree. Tom never really looked too bothered about MJ. Best to let people like that go, not waste either persons time or their emotional energy, and move on.
True, because if the man interested to his girlfriend, of course He will propose marriage.
He's A Damn Idiot, Next Time, Meljean, Come On Over To The Dark Side of The Force, We Black Men Love Hard, No Matter,
I total agree, Tom was not the right man for you. You deserve much more than he could give you.
Don’t settle for that again and you will find a man that truly loves you in time. Best wishes
🌴🌴< < < TOM SEEMS SO MUCH HAPPIER NOW. HE HATED IT THERE. > > > 🌴🌴
Meljean I become your fan for sometime. I became distraught when I saw Tom distancing from you. But when you changed your face and had gone on plastic surgery, dear o dear, ang Filipina beauty na wala na. Being a tisay or to aspire to be a tisay with a perk up nose, that's not beauty. You were so beautiful as Filipina, gorgeous gorgeous gorgeous, you look like a Pinay doll, who' face is unique, para kang pinay manyika. Representing how beautiful ang pure Filipina. i was saddened na pina retoke mo and ilong mo. Please don't be angry, honest lang ako. You are more gorgeous goddess sa Pinay looks pa kayu, ang ganda mo, ang sexy mo . Sino ba kaya ang nag influence mo na mag ganyan ka. It looks na mature agad ang hitsura mo pag tisay ka na at common naman ang tisay look pag nag tatatrabaho o nag work ka abroad, common lang yan. Ssa pina pinagtata-as nila ang Tisay looks, pero mga histura ng artista ordinario lang dito sa labas. Not all tisay looking girls are appealing. But anyway, whatever beautiful ka pa rin, but I prefer ang tunay na pinay beauty mo noon. I'm thinking yoon ang na apekto kay Tom, na iba na ang hitsura mo. We need self confidence talaga, to all girls out there na gustu mag pa retoke, hwag sirain nyu ang real beauty nyu.
Who cares, you are one of billions of people. Not that important.
You deserved a good man…a much better one.Tom is not a family oriented like you, Tom dont want commitment.
you are a very responsible loving woman that deserved more better. Were always here to supporr you. Stay happy, blessed & safe.
Tom upgraded - BiG-Time...
@@Highclasshillbilly
So as MJ 😜
I think you and Tom just caught each other at the wrong time. He's still young and wants to travel and quite frankly he isn't done playing the field 🤨
Thanks! You are such a classy lady! Thank you and good luck!
@@bemsvlog she deserves more! Am excited for Vingle’s wedding and MJ’s solo travels!
I won't say anything bad about Tom but I knew from the beginning that he didn't value you as highly as you deserve. I know he had reasons for going home, but he couldn't have done that if he loved you as much as you deserve. I'm so happy that you are mature enough to realise that this is a huge step forward for you. Have faith, you will find the RIGHT person and so will our friend, Tom. I pray you both find happiness.
You will find a better or just the right man for you MJ in the end. As Filipinas we are very religious, you just need to pray for the right one and you will find the right one. Give time to heal and continue praying for the right man. The Rosary prayer is a very good prayer, just an FYI.
Misleading title. You're back home cozy in bed. You've moved on a bit or a lot since you're able to talk about the past with smiles. And with a friend's support who somewhat gave you the will to talk about this topic.
Feeling ko dahil na din yan sa mga comments na ang daming cnasabi about tom na wla nmn talaga tau alam sa totoong nangyayari. Hoping na maging okay din ang lahat. Hoping for the best for both of you
I didn't know, because I'm not a subscriber of his. Ever since I heard him saying private info that should only been between you two on your channel in a video & saw your reaction of disapproval. I will now start watching your vids again knowing I won't see anymore scenes of you being disrespected.
True! He was so DISRESPECTFUL!
You're not alone Meljean. I, myself are on the same process of healing and self-love. First, I've thought that this could be really hard as I'm not even know how to start to love myself. Not until I realize that self love is choosing myself more than anyone else. All the things that I thought I can't do such as eating alone, travel alone, sleep alone in a hotel room, do things alone, I finally did it and never been so happy. During this process, I learn things about myself like what do I want, what do I need, and what's the best for me. I was never been in love with myself until today. So this time, we should choose ourselves, fill our inner child desires, make time for ourselves, be kind to our selves so we could be complete and whole again. We got this! Laban ra jud ta diring dapita!
So I guess you just didn't like Tom that much otherwise you would have aligned your future with him, right?
Usually women expect the man to be a protector, provider and a leader in the realationship, so therefure it's logical for the man to expect the women to at least follow and cooperate.
Breakups are hard to deal with. Things will get better over time for both you and Tom. I'm sad to hear that you both went your separate ways. I will suggest to the both of you to take all of the time you need to heal. there is no need to rush things and both of you are still young. Enjoying life. I wish the best for you and Tom both.
Live gos on, great memories with Tom. Enjoy life is too short.❤
A little woman with the biggest heart!!
You have a much wonderful life ahead M J...
you really do.
May the creator continue to guide and protect you always and forever.
Much love MJ.
No worries MJ...the world is belong to us...more blessing ahead of you! Stay safe and stay blessed!
I already since that things did not work when you go home alone after your last trip together.Its really difficult to be in a relationship with other nationality when we are stiil younger.Ive been tbere too so i understand it.
Just now I know that you're separate with Tom until I watched this video ..I'm so upset because you too are amazing couple 😢😢😢
May be Lord God have good plan for you MJ .God bless you always Amen 💖🙏🙏🙏
Breakups are normal and no one cares except the people involved. The world doesn't end because there's a breakup, the world is full of possibilities and you'll probably find happiness again, maybe through your YT channel since it's become common, good luck.
Although it isn’t our business. But this is good news. You deserve so much better. You’re an amazing and beautiful person. Take time for yourself. God has a plan for you.
absolutely agree 100%!
I know that when an opportunity comes you have to jump on it, especially in the case of a young Filipina and a foreigner.
But maybe you should take a note from Hanna, Chrissy K’s sister, and find a man who is willing to marry you
Not someone who just keeps you dangling, because if that’s the case then you are disposable.
Don’t get involved with a person who will consider you disposable.
M.J. You are the most positive person you need someone who will take care of you. Someone who not so young. Anyhow, take care 🙂
Everything's happen for a reason. God bless
His loss in All honnesty, you Are a beautiful individual and an amazing woman ❤️....if I was in toms shoes I'd never let you go 💕
Jean exactly healing process is slowly but surely my wish both are like butterfly fly high Prayers most Powerful tool to recover remembered you set him free you too makes your life opened wide soon or to soon God will send you up a right man for you Good luck ❤
Napresure si Tom noon kasi sa tuwing may upload sila both sa bahay ni Mj, commentors are saying "WHY DON'T YOU PROPOSE TO MJ" and other phrases na mag asawa na sana sila ..blablablabla..which is , hindi pa ready yung isa sa ganun plan.. nasense ko na yon last year pa na baka nga kumalas ung boy dahil sa mga comments lagi na ganun.then ayun na nga😅. dedma nalang, kasi ung tipuhan ni Tom , ayaw pa talaga magsettle. Sana ate Mj, makahanap ka na ng truelove po pero don't rush.. just enjoy life lang.Silent viewer mopo ako.Ngayon lang ako nagcomment po..hehehe
You can tell with his body language if the man madly inlove with you
A very brave young women, the journey continues....new dreams begin♥️♥️
Good Luck and GOD BLESS YOU 😇🙏😇
I already knew, I didn’t like him anyway I was supporting because of you. I can tell from previous videos he seemed annoyed by you. There is other fish in the sea girl glad you healed now you can move on and find the right man for you.
Oh my god mj I'm sorry it didn't work out you 2 were good together enjoyed your travels together and food sarap hehe you're young NJ enjoy life and travel ok keep doing videos ok take care 💕💕💕😘
Someone out there is for you MJ & you deserve the best because you’re the BEST🌼💜🌸
Congrats MJ I'm happy that your happy now thank yo ou so much lord God Amen 💖🙏🙏🙏
Breaking up as a couple is not always about hate, some relationships just are not ment to be. His goals and yours do not align, it's very simple to understand. I do hope you do not build those walls to high, after all life is short and living it alone is not what people are ment to do.
I think everybody here has gone through a breakup. It's not a big deal. We all move on eventually. Then we use the lessons learned in the next relationship. Good luck with your new life and keep looking forward.
Hello Meljean, enjoy your family, enjoy your life. You are a beautiful young successful woman.❤❤
no one is surprised about Tom leaving...and no one cares..go look in the mirror and see who you really are?????
I understand. Something happened to me many moons ago like you were just going through. The good thing a few years later, I found the right person, and we have been married for 40 years. Things happen for a good reason. Trust in God he has a plan for u.
Sorry to hear that, I think social media has a lot to do with breakups, its gives people a false sense of security...I just hope things work out for the best.
It's Tom's loss, not yours. A better man with different life goals will come along and recognize the treasure you truly are and will give you the place in his life you're deserving of. ❤ U.
Tom's loss? Have you seen his new REAL woman? Get serious....
I mean...since you have such a strong audience and career here, you probably don't really need a foreigner husband anymore. Good luck
I'm sorry you and Tom didn't work out.. but it is what it is, will continue to watch both of you guys because you guys are both amazing people.. Wish you nothing but the best 😊💖
I absolutely hate that stupid expression it is what it is. What a poor excuse for selfish and bad choices and behavior.
@Daniel Drawe go tell someone who cares! All you comment is hate and negative things, why are you still here watching her vlogs if you don't like her
MJ Tom probably didn't like living in the Philippines anymore but I knew that breakup was a long time coming because too many family members were involved in your relationship. It seems like you and Tom never really had a lot of privacy because family members were always walking in and out of your house all the time. Tom as a foreigner I am sure was not used to that type of life and it seems to you are a family person. MJ that's a good thing and I can see you have a good heart and wants the best for your family but if ever you are in a relationship with a foreigner again please please don't have so many people always walking in and out all the time because the relationship won't last and you would be heartbroken again. MJ this is good advice I am giving you I am not coming from a bad place and I feel for you. With time you will heal and find love again. If it's God will that you and Tom be together again try and have more privacy in your relationship or even go live in Ireland or some foreign country if you want to. MJ May God heal your heart and bless you with true love again.
Wow! Finally someone talking about some of the reasons that may have led Tom to break up. Everyone seems to be taking sides with MJ. It takes two to tango so...
That is a VERY important factor that would annoy 90%+ of westerners.
Close family relationships is one thing. Which is something that most westerners sadly do not have much of anymore.
So even that takes some effort to get used to (but great when eventually adapt).
But having family and friends coming and going into your home constantly... THAT is a factor that almost no foreign men would be ok with in the long run.
Especially new couples... want privacy. Not constantly visits.
Prayers MJ
Thanks for sharing your personal life story ms.jean. everything well be better more in the future.
I was ready to cry 😢 with u ..but u didn't .. better things come for u.🙏 ..
Life is the same in every country with relationships, some make it some don’t, you’re a survivor. ❤ great content
Wishing you all of the best, dear. You will bounce back and find something even greater, a true love match. You are such a high quality filipina with so much intelligence and kindness. 🙏🙏
tks god MJ, got rid of that crook who never loved you from beginning, only used you....MJ you are our star, we all love you ....❤ stay strong.
Crook? 😮
It was obvious that it would not work out. Tom loves to travel and you are both very young.
Thank you Meljean for sharing this but as far as I'm concerned, you never really needed to. It's your personal life and you oh no one an explanation. I'm glad you're traveling and enjoying yourself. You are always the star of the channel and I will continue to watch and support yours.
🙏 For your continued success and well-being
Positive hugs 🤗
I think you deserve someone better. God bless
God bless u MJ.. U are a good person and surely u will find the right one for u.. 😍
I kinda figured you guys were gonna go your separate ways. Tom is too much of a free spirit. He want's to live full time in Thailand. MJ is very family oriented and I don't believe she can be away from her family for long periods of time. You have deep family roots. That's not a bad thing. You both are just on different paths and life goes on.
Just catching this 9 months later. I just finished a 2 year divorce process. Hardest time of my life. I wish you well.
Hate to say it, but I saw it coming. You will be fine/Keep your head up.
I'll be direct and blunt. If what you said the "wall" is really high up, it's a clear sign you had been hurt badly (not referring to physical abuse). That's how human protect themselves from getting hurt again.
Anyway, all the best in meeting your future true soulmate when you are able to remove that "wall".
Its for the best for u to broke wt him he is not ready yet for any responsibilities n of course your still very young one day u will find a better guy in ur life....
Wish you all the best. Charming lady.
When one door closes another one opens up Mel… I think once our head is out of the clouds, we realize that what doesn’t kill us makes us stronger.
I’m happy to see that there’s been no negativity about each other. That speaks volumes about you both!
Hello Jean, noon pa man napansin ko na hindi sya talaga inlab sa iyo.. naicomment ko pa nga yan.. sorry to hear, pero mas maganda na din siguro that's you're separated..
CONGRATS, MJ - another milestone! 135K!
Mj every thing has a reason your in pain now it's natural and you are hurting but as time goes by it's going to be the best thing that ever happened to you God's protecting you good luck in life
Jean its a good thing that you surpass on things that you have been processed. I notice when the last time you left Tom in the hotel and return to Cebu. Just be happy am here for you to support on things you need to do. Take care always on your travel and endeavor your hard work. Focus on your moto and goal in life. 😇
yes love you thank you for sharing MJ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hugs dear lady. You are loved and admired. Be well!
Its okey Miss Mj ,its not ur lost....😊Ur lucky still...the right man is not yet come...in Gods perfect time...
i am a person that believes what happens is ment to be, when one door closes anouther opens hang in there it all works out for the best
God bless you Mj.
MJ time to focus on yourself and do what you love.
I absolutely knew it was just a matter of time and I called around 4 to 6 months ago when he came back to visit and was helping you put the tablecloth on the table at your house he seemed very distant a lot of us said he seemed very disinterested something just didn't seem right about him so unfortunately I knew it was just a matter of time but it's nice to hear you're doing well and you still say good things about him shows your quite a good person.
Your a very sensible girl wish u all the very best in life
Sorry to hear this. Heal yourself first before you get back in a relationship again. I've been burnt by women and I know the feeling😊
He’s not for you.. that’s ok. Just DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY!! 💋💖🌷👠🥰
Sorry to hear this.
Heartbreaks are always tough! Everyone's had that one guy who doesn't know it's his loss, not yours. Just remember, your beautiful inside and out, and you're worth it! As the saying say, when one door closes, another opens! Expect that new door to reveal even greater wonders and glories and surprise.
Take care and God Bless Always!
you are still young..life must go on xx
Such is life, you too hope remind friend Mj, personal I don't believe you need to explain your relationship relationship fall out with Tom.
I wish you, like Tom the best in life.
Take care Mj.
We feel it 🥺
🥰i love your free spirit and it will be oke
Finally … she said it! No bitterness! Everybody can now stop harassing her! It was a process - on how she can emotionally go on while her heart is grieving. She vested more than 100% but it was not reciprocated. The lure of everything carnal (night life, women, drugs, you name it) is in a place, Bangkok and not to MJ. I guess, in retrospect, it was not LOVE, at all from his point of view. On one hand, he showed her “do things for yourself” and she did. Now, I am more excited in her solo travels and people she will meet along the way! The Irishman labels himself as a traveler, a roamer - he’s NOT! The only travel he knows is Thailand for obvious reasons! Well, well … Shakespearean drama - “all’s well that ends well!”
But first, most anticipated for me is … Vingle’s wedding! When will it be? And the Paris trip! MJ, make ur contents more exciting with upbeat music! But I am
hedging my bet on - Japan, South Korea! GOOD LUCK, MJ and Godspeed! You are still blessed!
@@slainteron4027 Yes! … and every time she meets a nice man along the way, their libidos start getting itchy and make up stories unimaginable to a DECENT and wonderful young lady! I always respond to those dirty minds once I read them. Just the process of opening her life to us without a dime from our pockets should be the reason why we should respect her, she entertained us, after all!
@@slainteron4027 I will always support MJ. I did support the combined channel BIG TIME, as in big … but, heck … that guy was an *ssh*l*!
@@slainteron4027 Hahahahaha!
Stay strong time the best healer of heart ache.
Sorry to hear wishing you both best in future
Humble person like yourself MJ God will bless you with a caring and loving person, You have a strong belief in God so he will bring a right Guy for you dear. Trust in the Lord dear.
Right Guy will come at the right time.
Bless you dear.
Sending love from Auckland Nz. Take care 💖💖💖💖
MJ, sorry to hear that. Stay strong, live goes on. Wish you all the best.
It's only over until he comes back into town for more than 2 weeks ❤😮😢
Bata kapa Mel marami kapang makilalang lalaki sa mundong ito:) ako 36 first time kong nag ka boyfriend sa tanang buhay ko at finally nag meet na kami last year :) pray ka lang gali na mahanap mo yung totoong tao para sayo:)
I was very sorry to see your despair, loneliness. Pay attention not to words, but to actions.
I have only just found you on UA-cam.
So I'm getting your blogs all out of order.
So far I have to say you've blown mind.
It's so wonderful to see such a young person sharing so authenticly from the heart.
I know a blog only shows facets of a person.
However, what comes across in your blogs is that you are a very thoughtful, caring, generous and strong young woman.
With a heart the size of Everest.
I can look around the world and find many things to cry about,, but to see that there is a young woman in the Philippines that opens her heart and shares a flood of goodness,,
Well that just warms my heart.
And the world is no longer a sad place
Thank you ❤️✨
Thanks MJ for being open and sharing. I hope your healing comes in time.
You have such a beautiful accent that does not sound Filipino. My wife is from Manila and we have been married for 5 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old son together. We pray for you always! Be blessed in Jesus’ name. Amen!😊
Bless your heart ~ I'm sure there are no less than 1 Million Guys who would love to be in your life. You're "One In A Million", and I'm sure the next "chapter" in your life will be even more awesome 🥰🥰
WOW I AM SO HAPPY SPECIAL
FOR U SMART LADY
GOD KEEP BLESSING AND UR
NEW CARRIER ,AMEN
i know the feeling, but god will give you the right one for you! enjoy life, and do what makes you happy my friend. much love from manhattan nyc!
This is no surprise... I was wondering why she is with this guy.... Because he has white skin? See what happens when you choose color instead of true love.
The joy of being a UA-camr....Nothing is private 😭
Sorry to hear. Hope you will find your happiness. Enjoy life! 👍🏻
Agree… private lives have to be shared with all the viewers.. like celebrities ..hope all is well though