As a father and grandfather, by the time today's youth reach the age of 12 they are very capable of telling you what does and doesn't work for them. As long as your son has the option of vetoing any content posted on any of your channels, I say go for it. Yeah, I suppose there are ppl who will criticize you but it is about YOU and HIM and NOT your viewers. Go for it. The young man is very lucky. As long as his decisions are respected there should be no regrets.
I know you will never read this until I can afford to pay for Patreon but I am addicted to your videos and would like you to enjoy your 1st cruise with your son and don't even think about your videos during that time. Live in the moment and enjoy the love you have with your son. I am an RN that is now disabled with MS and can't afford to give my lovely Asperger's daughter a vacation of a lifetime like that. Life has it's ups and downs and I hope you live every moment with your loved ones like it could be the last. Keep dancing and stay happy. I am so proud of you and how far you have come since watching you since the beginning of your channel.
@@emmib1388 I am just a spec of dust in compare to who Justin talks to. Maybe it's low self esteem or maybe I just think that it I can't afford to join Patreon my comments will go unseen.
It's wonderful your son going on a cruise with "Dear old Dad". He will cherish the experience. As far as your critics..........SKROOM! I invented that word because it fits better on a cap then screw them.
Being an older person, I believe because he is only 12 years old, I would be really cautious about having him be on video. People are extremely cruel, and judging from what I've seen in comments to you, he may not be ready to deal with all of the negativity that he may see/hear. I feel that having him be a part of your UA-cam content, experiencing the negativity, will change what would normally be a very exciting time with his father unto something ugly. As you said, once you ring that bell, you can't unring it. Let this 1st cruise be a special time for you and him; something he can look back on with joy.
You can let your son take a few shots with you and then let it go. People are going to be all up in your business no matter what you do. Your son will thank you later. As a former teacher, I appreciate your thinking about him and not exposing him to the people who want to put you down.
If he’s interested, maybe you can record him giving a review of an excursion or the kids club, from his perspective. You probably have followers who wonder if their kids would enjoy a cruise, or worry they will “fall” off or something. Make it a “cameo” appearance . I hope you both have the best vacation ever!
agreed -- it amazes me how people think that just because someone has a YT channel they have to reveal all and also all their relatives need to 'bare all'
I think you are right on with your thoughts. Go with your gut. If your child doesn’t want to share at all then don’t due it otherwise make memories. I LOVE your channel!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi Jay! Your son is a minor, and there are people out there who sadly, like to exploit minors (no way do I mean you, I mean your viewers). I'd keep his exposure to a minimum, to avoid any issues with the "crazies and haters" on UA-cam. Remember, your son will have wonderful memories of the cruise whether he's on camera or not. Can't wait to see where your Channel goes in 2023! 😍
You know how to best protect your son. We know you're a good dad and you'll make the best choices for him. As long as he's OK with it...maybe very very limited videos of him on Patreon if you're nervous about it
Hi Jay. Love your channel. My 2 cents about your son on camera. I work in the public school system, school psychologist. First both your child and his mother or whoever is his other guardian must be agreeable. All of you need to think how this exposure will affect him on all the areas of his life. School, community, activities, ect. It could be great and it could cause problems, or some of both. You know how you said some people cross lines of public vs. private comments and interaction? That would go with him too. I'd love to see him...just please consider all aspects
Congratulations Jay! Make video memories, not everything needs to be put "on the web". Make special memories with him. I hope to meet you on the Celebration!
that's a good idea! Like you said not everything has to be put on the web. It'll just be precious memories captured on video for their enjoyment only 😊.
That’s fantastic! So happy you can take your son with you. I think as long as he’s comfortable with the filming, do it but on a limited basis. Happy adventures!
just my opinion ...make sure u PLAN less formal filming and more fun time. just set the camera up and PLAY ...laugh...w your son. edit what u got and then ask his opinion if he wants anything cut....tell him he has FULL rights to edit n keep your word so he will TRUST your word if he says cut it...cut it. 😀
@@designdoctor247 oh yes good tip right there to also involve him in the editing process 😃! Also like you said more fun time. Maybe let him kind of take the reins in what they should do day to day on the cruise 😊.
I was recently wondering if you'd taken your son on a cruise before. Make wonderful memories and keep it as private as you can. People are truly crazy and many know no boundaries while they hide behind keyboards.
As a mom of a son, about your age😅, when he was smaller I did take him on a cruise. Of course there were no video Influensters back then but just keep in mine, even though there are kid clubs, still check on him from time to time and give him a curfew. Also get a decent pair of walkie-talkies so you can keep in touch just in case he wanders off. Just keep him safe, son first, video second!!!
So glad your son is excited to join you. I think letting him have a little camera time, but not have all the camera time be about him, is the right way to go.
I think it's wonderful to take your son. Think of iy as "take your son to work day". He'll get to see how hard you work and you both could have fun and make memories. Anyone that comments badky towards your son, (which there are nutcases out there), you're going to have to block them from commenting. Look forward to seeing your new trips.
Great news! 💯 I think, the father/son experience will be awesome! Yes, great memories! I would ask him for his thoughts on anything and everything. Let him express himself. I love the thoughts of the younger kids. They are amazing and will surprise you on what they are capable of!
Taking your son on a cruise with you is wonderful. I agree you need to start with a smaller ship. May I suggest letting your fans know you won't be adding new content during that cruise but will afterward so you can spend as much time with your son as possible? Yes, you'll likely get comments about doing that, but folks have to realize that your son is your priority while you are with him and not providing entertainment at his expense.
I would love to see the family side of the cruises! I think it would be okay to film him if he wants but I don’t think he should be the focus of the videos.
Advice : Make sure to have a signed consentment from his mother before showing him on your videos. A bad intention person could ask for $$ since you are making some with your channels. Enjoy this time with your boy!
YOU KEEP DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING. THE HATERS ARE GOING TO HATE NO MATTER WHAT. JUST MAYBE THEY ARE JEALOUS OF YOUR SUCCESS OR MAYBE THEY ARE HATERS BECAUSE THEY DONT BELIEVE IN A B&W RELATIONSHIP. LOVE HAS NO COLOR . YOUR HEART SEES ONLY LOVE. YOU BOTH SEEM LIKE A PERFECT COUPLE WITH WEDDING BELLS IN THE FUTURE. KEEP BEING YOU
I believe you are right on your thoughts. I'm glad that you'll be taking your son on a cruise. I can't wait to see you two together! I believe you guys will have a great time!!
I’m happy that you’re taking your son on a cruise. I think it would be fun to hear what your son thinks about all of the experience. Take notes from him. Maybe ask people to submit questions for him to answer but YOU do the Q and A video. Keep him off of UA-cam. He’s only 12. My opinion as a mom of 3 ages 21, 22, and 26. You can always go slow and open options gradually but once you allow something it’s hard to go back.
We will all be tuning in to join you on your cruise with your son! You are creative and will figure out a way for us to join you without filming your son straight on as cautioned by others. Sounds like fun! You’re doing a great job!👍
Aww I hope you & your son enjoy your time together! He’s so cute. I took my daughter on the Disney cruise back in 2014 (a few months after my grandma had passed away). We are BIG Disney fans, from the classics animated movies to the newer animated movies. We love Marvel universe too and watch Star Wars, etc. she was 13 when we went on that cruise. She loved it. No matter what cruise line you do, I’m sure your son will love it. And yes, keep your son’s privacy/safety first. I agree with you on people stepping bounds with you & your girlfriend. Some people don’t know or don’t care for stepping over the line. Always keep you & your family safe. Safe travels 🚢 and I look forward to watching 😁
OMG! YOU SHOULD TAKE HIM ON ICON!!! That would be so awesome!! Jay, ill tell you this! We are also starting to vlog on our own channel with our 4year old daughter (feel free to come over and check us out) and we went into it knowing that this world could be so cruel but we know in our hearts we don't do this for the cruel people! We do this for the memories and share it for anyone that might relate. Something we do or say at some point might resonate with a total stranger and that alone makes vlogging such a rewarding fun experience! Always remember you can never make everyone happy so you keep on pushing and enjoying your art as much as you can with the people who actually enjoy you and your loved ones !
Some of my favorite cruises I've taken, my kids were with me.... they loved it. They are grown adults now, and it's even more fun now... go with what you think it's best, I'm sure he enjoys watching your videos. Keep up the good work
You are such a great role model from what I see! And a great boyfriend! You are so good to Lauren... when she was seasick you took such good care of her...your son is lucky to have you as his dad...I can't handle negative comments... great job both BF & Dad!!
I’m excited for you and your son to go on his 1st cruise!!!! As for as him being on the channel it could be good. I really enjoy joy Rich and Jazzy little ladies on their channel; and now the girls have their own channel! So it’s possible but baby steps to get a feel on how his likes or dislikes of being the focus point. Again congratulations on you’ll upcoming cruise!!!!! He’s so cute !! Thanks for sharing
Great father / son time …. Maybe have non direct photos that do not really show his identity if he or you are not comfy at the time . Only you and he will be able to figure out comfort level. Do what is right for you both . Overall enjoy the cruise together
So pleased that you and your son are going on his first cruise together. Thanks for allowing us to express our thoughts also. Obviously you’ll be spending more time enjoying this experience and may not be filming much, which will be good for both of you. I’d just be happy for you to let us know how your son enjoyed the vacation rather than him being exposed to your working world (if you know what I mean.) Ultimately it’s a decision that parents have to make, but again I appreciate you wanting to hear our thoughts 🥰🥰
I think you definitely should treat it like a vacation and build memories, but as his father it is your choice. Either way it is the right choice because you did what you thought was right for your son. I am excited for you . He is going to have a lot of fun. He has an expert guiding him.
It will be great for your son to see what you do for a living and why you're away. Yes, let him feel it out. As this will be your father son initial cruise, let it be that. Spend max time with him, allow him to have youthful fun if there's a youth club, but it should really about you two together and we can wait for you to tell us how much fun you had bonding. If you can get some "views" while you're sharing time together, that would be interesting, especially for those who want to see what a youth can enjoy with his parent on board. Enjoy your son. Your concerns are legit. Make good memories of your first cruise together.
"Travel is the greatest teacher" is great! And talk to your son, ask him if he wants to be on camera or not. He's old enough to make some decisions and as long as it's tasteful (as we know you'll make sure it is), it should be fine. Very excited for you that you're able to take him on his first cruise J...!
How exciting for you to go on a cruise with your son! Enjoy your time with him and maybe have him pop up for a short time and give his opinion on a few things he enjoyed. Like you said you are having conversations with him about how he feels about being on camera etc…. Have you reached out to any other You tubers that have kids on their cruises/travels to get some feedback? I was thinking of Sharon at Sea - their son is older but they have been doing this a few years and may have some insights.
A lot of people have given you great advice. Play it by ear. One thing that I haven't seen any vlogger do, however, is check out the kid's programs. Two of my grandchildren sailed on the Carnival Magic over spring break this year. (not their first cruise) They had a blast. Both kids absolutely love their kids programs. and Carnival does an excellent job with those. My 12-year old grandson really enjoyed it because for the first time, he could check himself in and out. He had the bubble package, and he and some of his new friends would go get a juice or soda and sometimes get ice cream or pizza. He told me that for the first time in his life, he experienced true independence because he could check himself in and out as he desired. Meanwhile, his younger sister was in her own Camp Ocean program and really enjoyed the scavenger hunt and made a ton of new friends too.
I was able to take my 8 year old granddaughters on first cruise in August on Oasis out of NJ. Lifetime memories. Film all you can. Good luck deciding what you choose to share.
The time you spend with your son will be unforgettable, for both of you. So glad yoy can do that. ❤ I would ask his Mom's thoughts on filming your son too. Don't stir the anger pot.
First off, BRAVO to you!! Second, treat this cruise with your son (channel-wise) like the one you took with your mom - stick to the tips and show a few clips of family bonding, but don't put him too much in the spotlight. Enjoy your time with him and make it as much of a vacation/bonding time as possible!
J, you've got your head screwed on straight, so if your gut is telling you to keep your business and personal experiences mostly separate, then I'm sure you can figure it out. You are the best judge of what's right for your son, especially as he's only 12, so follow your fatherly instincts, and keep his safety and comfort front and center in whatever you decide to do. You seem like such a caring person with your heart in all you do, and it's been a pleasure to have "met" you, even virtually.
I cruise with me son and daughter . It is a very special moment. ONE THING MAKE IT SPECIAL DONT DO THE liberty or the Paradise lol. Put him on a royal ship. Harmony. Enjoy buddy .
Hey J. You successfully did the cruise with your Mother. Should be no different with your son, as long as he is okay with what is going on. Maybe just keep it too a minimum. You have alerted your fan base with this video. The true followers/fans will get it. Don't worry about the trolls. They are always out there. Do that, and I am sure you both will enjoy it. Take it easy!
I'm glad that you are including Lauren and your son but only if they want to. I'm glad you have asked them how they feel because do have rights. You are a excellent parent & Don't let anyone tell you different. I love it that you keep it 100
What you can do is give him a life long experience and see the work you do ..No way would deny kid my son mate and will as a kid learn than any parent expects. Oh saw the Harlem Globetrotters on a school trip and love them forever. about 12 years old.
I know how hard it is to bring your family on video when you are working. But it is nice seeing your mom, girlfriend and son enjoying themselves while cruising. Don't worry about the unwelcome comments, people get them all the time. Just be you and keep on doing the best you can. I got your back 😂😂😂 Be safe take care ❤❤❤
My thoughts are a few seconds of your son having a good time on a ride or some activity, just to introduce us to him, with the understanding it was a snapshot and not going to be a "thing" until he is ready. So what you said, take it slow, family pictures, etc.
J, make sure to get a signed document from your son's mom stating that she agrees to let you travel with your son (especially if you're going out of the US to one port.) It likely won't cone up, but this is an invaluable piece of travel document you might not want to be without. My husband always signs one he finds (online for free!) before I take my younger daughter on trips.
Hi Jay! I think you should play it by ear with your son. As a parent, I’m sure you will be watchful and notice any issues or concerns. You can always edit things out before you post! The main thing is to spend as much fun and quality time with him! 😊😊😊
I’m so sorry that your fans feel they have the right to tell you how to live. As far as your son on video. It is 100% his choice if he wants to be interviewed. It would be nice to hear 👂 his opinion of the kids section. He can voice over a video. There are so many options. Follow your heart and head. Personally I try to remember “l am invited to watch and learn. Ask questions about the content.” I am not here to tell you how to live…. Except enjoy what you can your real fans won’t make judgements. Love your content and energy.
Take putting your son on camera day by day. Ask him every day and take his lead. If he wants to be involved - great. He'll be learning from one of the best. If not, that's OK too. Whatever you decide as his dad though takes precedence. Have a beautiful day!
I am seriously considering doing the Patreon thing here, with you. You would be the very first creator that I would support like this. Why? Because your videos are awesome,,,and I love your relationship with your girlfriend and the way you speak about your son. Good work!
Enjoy your cruise with your son. You & Lauren seem to be handling things well & your plans for filming will be fine. Ignore the haters & nay sayers. Enjoy.
You are truly blessed, nothing better than wonderful life experiences, that you take with you when you leave this earth, not money or material possessions.,,keep on keepin on”
I have 4 kids. I'm so excited for you. I am taking two of mine of mine on their first cruise in January. Kids... So amazing and frustrating and....life!
If you choose the 1/2 Norwegian Dawn from Tampa for your son, I’ll see you two. Aruba baby! BtW - I keep my hubby out of the videos for the most part. He’s private.
Real slow and easy... you have a huge responsibility to family and friends. Heck, you're in the process of "learning the ropes" yourself. Respect and common sense prevails above all :)
Just returned from a family cruise on Symphony of the Seas. My 4 yr old granddaughter seemed to enjoy herself, on the carousel and kids climbing wall near Johnny Rocket's. Hope you guys have a great trip.
I'm a Mama myself, with your son I'd say just do a quick cameo, a quick hello. (This is my respectful opinion ultimately it's obviously your choice and your ex's) . Otherwise let your kid be a kid off camera. He doesn't deserve having any negative comments about him or your relationship. A quick hello should appease your viewers and if it doesn't it's not your problem.
That's exciting news for you & your son, very cool! Ordinarily I wouldn't feel it my place to chime in with an opinion on the level of including your family in your videos. But you asked, so I will simply say two things>> 1) Go with your gut instinct 2) Focus on it being a "father/son 1st cruise experience" creating memories rather than videos. If you share something, nice. If you don't, no worries. Have a wonderful time planning for the fun!
People are crazy. You are doing a great job. people need to leave Lauren alone- she is awesome. keep doing you Jay. We are going on a family cruise to Dominican Republic- Carnival Freedom July 17- excited - first cruise since the lockdown. excited to see you with your son.
So happy for you guys. My kids really enjoy cruising. Maybe if you’re not entirely comfortable with him being on camera, he could possibly be the camera man. That way he could be involved with the channel, without being the focus. That could be fun also.
Jay let this work itself out. If your son wants to be on UA-cam let him. If he doesn’t respect that. This is one of those things you should just go with the flow. IMO
I love it you and your Son doing a cruise. I understand the dilemma of opening yourself up to criticism. Do what you believe is best when thinking of exposing love ones to social media. That being said I would love the meet the fella. Loved your Mom by the way.
Great news that you can take your son. I would just go on the cruise as a normal family vacation. Take pictures and videos for family memories. Ask for his input on occasion as to how he views certain thinks on the cruise. If he likes the photos and videos afterwards and feels alright with airing them then thats OK as well as asking his other caretakers for their permission. People need to leave you alone. You have a job! Your working! Your girlfriend seems like she is a very bright girl and is quite capable of taking care of herself and her decisions.
So glad you're talking your son! Traveling is the best education! I would not post pictures of him. There are pervs out there trolling. I don't post pictures of my grandkids anymore. Not worth the risk. We love seeing Laren but she's an adult. Keep your son off the camera. He'll have a great time! Do your videos while he's at the kids club.
Hey J. Yessss. That will be awesome taking your son on his first cruise. Enjoy the planning. Well J. You already know if you post your son there will be numerous comments positive and unfortunately negative. You discuss that with him and his mother and you guys just go with the flow. Film when you feel to 🎥. And pick and choose what you choose to include when editing. It’s your bonding time and he will see it’s not so easy what daddy does. Just enjoy!! Thanks for sharing and see you next video.
So much fun! You're son is going have the best time! Limit his time on camera, there are some videos where you guys do to have fun as long as his privacy is respected. 💞💞
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As a father and grandfather, by the time today's youth reach the age of 12 they are very capable of telling you what does and doesn't work for them. As long as your son has the option of vetoing any content posted on any of your channels, I say go for it. Yeah, I suppose there are ppl who will criticize you but it is about YOU and HIM and NOT your viewers. Go for it. The young man is very lucky. As long as his decisions are respected there should be no regrets.
Privacy first for your son. Limit his on camera time, stay away from shots that identify him. Make memories and give him YOUR attention.
Yes. Agreed
Just enjoy your time with your Son. I sure he a Fantastic me. Time with his Dad on his first cruise 🥰
thats up to the dad,the boy may like it
I know you will never read this until I can afford to pay for Patreon but I am addicted to your videos and would like you to enjoy your 1st cruise with your son and don't even think about your videos during that time. Live in the moment and enjoy the love you have with your son. I am an RN that is now disabled with MS and can't afford to give my lovely Asperger's daughter a vacation of a lifetime like that. Life has it's ups and downs and I hope you live every moment with your loved ones like it could be the last. Keep dancing and stay happy. I am so proud of you and how far you have come since watching you since the beginning of your channel.
why do you think he will not read your comment ? Unless he is traveling, he reads all the comments pretty quickly
@@emmib1388 I am just a spec of dust in compare to who Justin talks to. Maybe it's low self esteem or maybe I just think that it I can't afford to join Patreon my comments will go unseen.
@emmib1388, do not devalue yourself 😢
Jay - you seem like a good person, boyfriend, and parent - make YOUR choices, not anyone else's - trust yourself.
It's wonderful your son going on a cruise with "Dear old Dad". He will cherish the experience. As far as your critics..........SKROOM! I invented that word because it fits better on a cap then screw them.
Being an older person, I believe because he is only 12 years old, I would be really cautious about having him be on video. People are extremely cruel, and judging from what I've seen in comments to you, he may not be ready to deal with all of the negativity that he may see/hear. I feel that having him be a part of your UA-cam content, experiencing the negativity, will change what would normally be a very exciting time with his father unto something ugly. As you said, once you ring that bell, you can't unring it. Let this 1st cruise be a special time for you and him; something he can look back on with joy.
The good news is that his mom isn't petty and won't deny him a cruise.
Interesting I never seen her
You can let your son take a few shots with you and then let it go. People are going to be all up in your business no matter what you do. Your son will thank you later. As a former teacher, I appreciate your thinking about him and not exposing him to the people who want to put you down.
If he’s interested, maybe you can record him giving a review of an excursion or the kids club, from his perspective. You probably have followers who wonder if their kids would enjoy a cruise, or worry they will “fall” off or something. Make it a “cameo” appearance . I hope you both have the best vacation ever!
Keep the trip between father and son. Make cherished memories. Social media doesn't need to take place in every aspect of life. Enjoy your trip
agreed -- it amazes me how people think that just because someone has a YT channel they have to reveal all and also all their relatives need to 'bare all'
I think you are right on with your thoughts. Go with your gut. If your child doesn’t want to share at all then don’t due it otherwise make memories. I LOVE your channel!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi Jay! Your son is a minor, and there are people out there who sadly, like to exploit minors (no way do I mean you, I mean your viewers). I'd keep his exposure to a minimum, to avoid any issues with the "crazies and haters" on UA-cam. Remember, your son will have wonderful memories of the cruise whether he's on camera or not. Can't wait to see where your Channel goes in 2023! 😍
You know how to best protect your son. We know you're a good dad and you'll make the best choices for him. As long as he's OK with it...maybe very very limited videos of him on Patreon if you're nervous about it
Hi Jay. Love your channel. My 2 cents about your son on camera. I work in the public school system, school psychologist. First both your child and his mother or whoever is his other guardian must be agreeable. All of you need to think how this exposure will affect him on all the areas of his life. School, community, activities, ect. It could be great and it could cause problems, or some of both. You know how you said some people cross lines of public vs. private comments and interaction? That would go with him too. I'd love to see him...just please consider all aspects
Congratulations Jay! Make video memories, not everything needs to be put "on the web". Make special memories with him. I hope to meet you on the Celebration!
that's a good idea! Like you said not everything has to be put on the web. It'll just be precious memories captured on video for their enjoyment only 😊.
Maybe bring your son,and making it a teaching and learning. Let him maybe operating your camera.Show him what his father does for work
That’s fantastic! So happy you can take your son with you. I think as long as he’s comfortable with the filming, do it but on a limited basis. Happy adventures!
just my opinion ...make sure u PLAN less formal filming and more fun time. just set the camera up and PLAY ...laugh...w your son. edit what u got and then ask his opinion if he wants anything cut....tell him he has FULL rights to edit n keep your word so he will TRUST your word if he says cut it...cut it. 😀
@@designdoctor247 oh yes good tip right there to also involve him in the editing process 😃! Also like you said more fun time. Maybe let him kind of take the reins in what they should do day to day on the cruise 😊.
I was recently wondering if you'd taken your son on a cruise before. Make wonderful memories and keep it as private as you can. People are truly crazy and many know no boundaries while they hide behind keyboards.
As a mom of a son, about your age😅, when he was smaller I did take him on a cruise. Of course there were no video Influensters back then but just keep in mine, even though there are kid clubs, still check on him from time to time and give him a curfew. Also get a decent pair of walkie-talkies so you can keep in touch just in case he wanders off. Just keep him safe, son first, video second!!!
So glad your son is excited to join you. I think letting him have a little camera time, but not have all the camera time be about him, is the right way to go.
Have a talk with him and more importantly his mom to see the comfort level. I think it's great to spend time with him and showing him your world.
I think it's wonderful to take your son. Think of iy as "take your son to work day". He'll get to see how hard you work and you both could have fun and make memories. Anyone that comments badky towards your son, (which there are nutcases out there), you're going to have to block them from commenting. Look forward to seeing your new trips.
Great news! 💯 I think, the father/son experience will be awesome! Yes, great memories! I would ask him for his thoughts on anything and everything. Let him express himself. I love the thoughts of the younger kids. They are amazing and will surprise you on what they are capable of!
Taking your son on a cruise with you is wonderful. I agree you need to start with a smaller ship. May I suggest letting your fans know you won't be adding new content during that cruise but will afterward so you can spend as much time with your son as possible? Yes, you'll likely get comments about doing that, but folks have to realize that your son is your priority while you are with him and not providing entertainment at his expense.
I would love to see the family side of the cruises! I think it would be okay to film him if he wants but I don’t think he should be the focus of the videos.
Im so excited that you are taking your Son is on his first cruise🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 the both of you enjoy!!
Me too! He’s going to LOVE it!
Advice : Make sure to have a signed consentment from his mother before showing him on your videos. A bad intention person could ask for $$ since you are making some with your channels. Enjoy this time with your boy!
YOU KEEP DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING. THE HATERS ARE GOING TO HATE NO MATTER WHAT. JUST MAYBE THEY ARE JEALOUS OF YOUR SUCCESS OR MAYBE THEY ARE HATERS BECAUSE THEY DONT BELIEVE IN A B&W RELATIONSHIP. LOVE HAS NO COLOR . YOUR HEART SEES ONLY LOVE. YOU BOTH SEEM LIKE A PERFECT COUPLE WITH WEDDING BELLS IN THE FUTURE. KEEP BEING YOU
I can’t imagine someone threatening you. You’re such a nice friendly and likable young man.
I believe you are right on your thoughts. I'm glad that you'll be taking your son on a cruise. I can't wait to see you two together! I believe you guys will have a great time!!
That’s what’s life about spending time and making memories with the ones we look.
I’m happy that you’re taking your son on a cruise. I think it would be fun to hear what your son thinks about all of the experience. Take notes from him. Maybe ask people to submit questions for him to answer but YOU do the Q and A video. Keep him off of UA-cam. He’s only 12. My opinion as a mom of 3 ages 21, 22, and 26. You can always go slow and open options gradually but once you allow something it’s hard to go back.
We will all be tuning in to join you on your cruise with your son! You are creative and will figure out a way for us to join you without filming your son straight on as cautioned by others. Sounds like fun! You’re doing a great job!👍
So happy for your first cruise with your son. The first cruise should be father and son time… no cameras, no vlogs, just priceless memories
Aww I hope you & your son enjoy your time together! He’s so cute. I took my daughter on the Disney cruise back in 2014 (a few months after my grandma had passed away). We are BIG Disney fans, from the classics animated movies to the newer animated movies. We love Marvel universe too and watch Star Wars, etc. she was 13 when we went on that cruise. She loved it.
No matter what cruise line you do, I’m sure your son will love it. And yes, keep your son’s privacy/safety first. I agree with you on people stepping bounds with you & your girlfriend. Some people don’t know or don’t care for stepping over the line. Always keep you & your family safe.
Safe travels 🚢 and I look forward to watching 😁
OMG! YOU SHOULD TAKE HIM ON ICON!!! That would be so awesome!! Jay, ill tell you this! We are also starting to vlog on our own channel with our 4year old daughter (feel free to come over and check us out) and we went into it knowing that this world could be so cruel but we know in our hearts we don't do this for the cruel people! We do this for the memories and share it for anyone that might relate. Something we do or say at some point might resonate with a total stranger and that alone makes vlogging such a rewarding fun experience! Always remember you can never make everyone happy so you keep on pushing and enjoying your art as much as you can with the people who actually enjoy you and your loved ones !
Yes, if he likes cruising, that would be awesome! So many family activities
Some of my favorite cruises I've taken, my kids were with me.... they loved it. They are grown adults now, and it's even more fun now... go with what you think it's best, I'm sure he enjoys watching your videos. Keep up the good work
You are such a great role model from what I see! And a great boyfriend! You are so good to Lauren... when she was seasick you took such good care of her...your son is lucky to have you as his dad...I can't handle negative comments... great job both BF & Dad!!
I’m excited for you and your son to go on his 1st cruise!!!! As for as him being on the channel it could be good. I really enjoy joy Rich and Jazzy little ladies on their channel; and now the girls have their own channel! So it’s possible but baby steps to get a feel on how his likes or dislikes of being the focus point. Again congratulations on you’ll upcoming cruise!!!!! He’s so cute !! Thanks for sharing
Great father / son time …. Maybe have non direct photos that do not really show his identity if he or you are not comfy at the time . Only you and he will be able to figure out comfort level. Do what is right for you both . Overall enjoy the cruise together
So pleased that you and your son are going on his first cruise together. Thanks for allowing us to express our thoughts also.
Obviously you’ll be spending more time enjoying this experience and may not be filming much, which will be good for both of you. I’d just be happy for you to let us know how your son enjoyed the vacation rather than him being exposed to your working world (if you know what I mean.) Ultimately it’s a decision that parents have to make, but again I appreciate you wanting to hear our thoughts 🥰🥰
Love Family!!! You don’t own any one an explanation on your son!!
I think you definitely should treat it like a vacation and build memories, but as his father it is your choice. Either way it is the right choice because you did what you thought was right for your son. I am excited for you . He is going to have a lot of fun. He has an expert guiding him.
It will be great for your son to see what you do for a living and why you're away. Yes, let him feel it out. As this will be your father son initial cruise, let it be that. Spend max time with him, allow him to have youthful fun if there's a youth club, but it should really about you two together and we can wait for you to tell us how much fun you had bonding. If you can get some "views" while you're sharing time together, that would be interesting, especially for those who want to see what a youth can enjoy with his parent on board. Enjoy your son. Your concerns are legit. Make good memories of your first cruise together.
Make sure your son is 100% comfortable and keep camera time with him to a minimum. Mostly just enjoy introducing him to cruising.
"Travel is the greatest teacher" is great! And talk to your son, ask him if he wants to be on camera or not. He's old enough to make some decisions and as long as it's tasteful (as we know you'll make sure it is), it should be fine. Very excited for you that you're able to take him on his first cruise J...!
How exciting for you to go on a cruise with your son! Enjoy your time with him and maybe have him pop up for a short time and give his opinion on a few things he enjoyed. Like you said you are having conversations with him about how he feels about being on camera etc….
Have you reached out to any other You tubers that have kids on their cruises/travels to get some feedback? I was thinking of Sharon at Sea - their son is older but they have been doing this a few years and may have some insights.
A lot of people have given you great advice. Play it by ear. One thing that I haven't seen any vlogger do, however, is check out the kid's programs. Two of my grandchildren sailed on the Carnival Magic over spring break this year. (not their first cruise) They had a blast. Both kids absolutely love their kids programs. and Carnival does an excellent job with those. My 12-year old grandson really enjoyed it because for the first time, he could check himself in and out. He had the bubble package, and he and some of his new friends would go get a juice or soda and sometimes get ice cream or pizza. He told me that for the first time in his life, he experienced true independence because he could check himself in and out as he desired. Meanwhile, his younger sister was in her own Camp Ocean program and really enjoyed the scavenger hunt and made a ton of new friends too.
J, did you guys go on a cruise? If you did, I missed it. I hope so. He deserves the experience and time with Dad. He looks like you.
Let him see what you do and let him no the pros and cons of what you do but I think it will be good how people act
I was able to take my 8 year old granddaughters on first cruise in August on Oasis out of NJ. Lifetime memories. Film all you can. Good luck deciding what you choose to share.
The time you spend with your son will be unforgettable, for both of you. So glad yoy can do that. ❤ I would ask his Mom's thoughts on filming your son too. Don't stir the anger pot.
First off, BRAVO to you!! Second, treat this cruise with your son (channel-wise) like the one you took with your mom - stick to the tips and show a few clips of family bonding, but don't put him too much in the spotlight. Enjoy your time with him and make it as much of a vacation/bonding time as possible!
We love you and know you will do the right thing regarding your son. #1 rule......have fun with your son.
J, you've got your head screwed on straight, so if your gut is telling you to keep your business and personal experiences mostly separate, then I'm sure you can figure it out. You are the best judge of what's right for your son, especially as he's only 12, so follow your fatherly instincts, and keep his safety and comfort front and center in whatever you decide to do. You seem like such a caring person with your heart in all you do, and it's been a pleasure to have "met" you, even virtually.
Awwwww......I didn't know you had a son.......what a sweet dad you are.
I cruise with me son and daughter . It is a very special moment. ONE THING MAKE IT SPECIAL DONT DO THE liberty or the Paradise lol. Put him on a royal ship. Harmony. Enjoy buddy .
Hey J. You successfully did the cruise with your Mother. Should be no different with your son, as long as he is okay with what is going on. Maybe just keep it too a minimum. You have alerted your fan base with this video. The true followers/fans will get it. Don't worry about the trolls. They are always out there. Do that, and I am sure you both will enjoy it. Take it easy!
I'm sure your son is happy to go on his 1st cruise. You do not need to explain. Keep your son safe & happy, what footage to take, I'll watch.
Advice I can suggest being in the travel industry. Make sure on the trip with your son you get a notary letter for various customs and immigration.
Glad you're getting to do this with your son. What a dream. 100,000% understand if you don't want to expose him to anything ❤️
That’s true it’s good your talking about it. It’s good your keeping your son separate from here. That’s a good dad keep it up
Have a fantastic time with your son for you and him not us. The exposure he will never forget.
I'm glad that you are including Lauren and your son but only if they want to. I'm glad you have asked them how they feel because do have rights. You are a excellent parent & Don't let anyone tell you different. I love it that you keep it 100
What you can do is give him a life long experience and see the work you do ..No way would deny kid my son mate and will as a kid learn than any parent expects. Oh saw the Harlem Globetrotters on a school trip and love them forever. about 12 years old.
I know how hard it is to bring your family on video when you are working. But it is nice seeing your mom, girlfriend and son enjoying themselves while cruising.
Don't worry about the unwelcome comments, people get them all the time.
Just be you and keep on doing the best you can.
I got your back 😂😂😂
Be safe take care ❤❤❤
My thoughts are a few seconds of your son having a good time on a ride or some activity, just to introduce us to him, with the understanding it was a snapshot and not going to be a "thing" until he is ready. So what you said, take it slow, family pictures, etc.
That's so exciting! I know your son must be over the moon!
J, make sure to get a signed document from your son's mom stating that she agrees to let you travel with your son (especially if you're going out of the US to one port.) It likely won't cone up, but this is an invaluable piece of travel document you might not want to be without. My husband always signs one he finds (online for free!) before I take my younger daughter on trips.
Hi Jay! I think you should play it by ear with your son. As a parent, I’m sure you will be watchful and notice any issues or concerns. You can always edit things out before you post! The main thing is to spend as much fun and quality time with him! 😊😊😊
Whatever you do and decide, will be great and he will love it!
I’m so sorry that your fans feel they have the right to tell you how to live. As far as your son on video. It is 100% his choice if he wants to be interviewed. It would be nice to hear 👂 his opinion of the kids section. He can voice over a video. There are so many options. Follow your heart and head. Personally I try to remember “l am invited to watch and learn. Ask questions about the content.” I am not here to tell you how to live…. Except enjoy what you can your real fans won’t make judgements. Love your content and energy.
Take putting your son on camera day by day. Ask him every day and take his lead. If he wants to be involved - great. He'll be learning from one of the best. If not, that's OK too. Whatever you decide as his dad though takes precedence. Have a beautiful day!
I’m happy you guys get to travel together, it’s up to him and you if he’s on the channel. Just protect him from the trolls as much as possible.
I am seriously considering doing the Patreon thing here, with you. You would be the very first creator that I would support like this. Why? Because your videos are awesome,,,and I love your relationship with your girlfriend and the way you speak about your son. Good work!
Enjoy your cruise with your son. You & Lauren seem to be handling things well & your plans for filming will be fine. Ignore the haters & nay sayers. Enjoy.
You are truly blessed, nothing better than wonderful life experiences, that you take with you when you leave this earth, not money or material possessions.,,keep on keepin on”
I have 4 kids. I'm so excited for you. I am taking two of mine of mine on their first cruise in January. Kids... So amazing and frustrating and....life!
If you choose the 1/2 Norwegian Dawn from Tampa for your son, I’ll see you two. Aruba baby! BtW - I keep my hubby out of the videos for the most part. He’s private.
So happy you’re able to share something you love doing with your son 😊
Real slow and easy... you have a huge responsibility to family and friends. Heck, you're in the process of "learning the ropes" yourself. Respect and common sense prevails above all :)
Just returned from a family cruise on Symphony of the Seas. My 4 yr old granddaughter seemed to enjoy herself, on the carousel and kids climbing wall near Johnny Rocket's. Hope you guys have a great trip.
I'm a Mama myself, with your son I'd say just do a quick cameo, a quick hello. (This is my respectful opinion ultimately it's obviously your choice and your ex's) . Otherwise let your kid be a kid off camera. He doesn't deserve having any negative comments about him or your relationship. A quick hello should appease your viewers and if it doesn't it's not your problem.
That's exciting news for you & your son, very cool! Ordinarily I wouldn't feel it my place to chime in with an opinion on the level of including your family in your videos. But you asked, so I will simply say two things>> 1) Go with your gut instinct 2) Focus on it being a "father/son 1st cruise experience" creating memories rather than videos. If you share something, nice. If you don't, no worries. Have a wonderful time planning for the fun!
People are crazy. You are doing a great job. people need to leave Lauren alone- she is awesome. keep doing you Jay. We are going on a family cruise to Dominican Republic- Carnival Freedom July 17- excited - first cruise since the lockdown. excited to see you with your son.
So happy for you guys. My kids really enjoy cruising. Maybe if you’re not entirely comfortable with him being on camera, he could possibly be the camera man. That way he could be involved with the channel, without being the focus. That could be fun also.
Love the channel!!!! As long as the decision to appear is fully his, do it if you are both comfortable.
Jay let this work itself out. If your son wants to be on UA-cam let him. If he doesn’t respect that. This is one of those things you should just go with the flow. IMO
I love it you and your Son doing a cruise. I understand the dilemma of opening yourself up to criticism. Do what you believe is best when thinking of exposing love ones to social media. That being said I would love the meet the fella. Loved your Mom by the way.
Great to see you’re traveling with your son on vacation…let him drive the cruise
I think you should trust his feelings about him being on you vlogs. Just enjoy your time together and make wonderful memories.
Great news that you can take your son. I would just go on the cruise as a normal family vacation. Take pictures and videos for family memories. Ask for his input on occasion as to how he views certain thinks on the cruise. If he likes the photos and videos afterwards and feels alright with airing them then thats OK as well as asking his other caretakers for their permission. People need to leave you alone. You have a job! Your working! Your girlfriend seems like she is a very bright girl and is quite capable of taking care of herself and her decisions.
Very well said! Most of your time should be with HIM. There's always time for Vlogs when he's not there!
Keep your son behind the camera. Allow him to enjoy the cruise experience without the distraction. Enjoy the time and trip with him.
So glad you're talking your son! Traveling is the best education! I would not post pictures of him. There are pervs out there trolling. I don't post pictures of my grandkids anymore. Not worth the risk. We love seeing Laren but she's an adult. Keep your son off the camera. He'll have a great time! Do your videos while he's at the kids club.
Taking your son on a cruise should be a great time for him...hopefully he will enjoy it.
enjoy time with your son and treat just like a vacation - if we don't get any videos I won't be disappointed - love the channel
Hey J. Yessss. That will be awesome taking your son on his first cruise. Enjoy the planning. Well J. You already know if you post your son there will be numerous comments positive and unfortunately negative. You discuss that with him and his mother and you guys just go with the flow. Film when you feel to 🎥. And pick and choose what you choose to include when editing. It’s your bonding time and he will see it’s not so easy what daddy does. Just enjoy!! Thanks for sharing and see you next video.
I would limit it since there are as one would say, some crazy people out there. Make memories privately. GO JAY!🎉😂
So much fun! You're son is going have the best time! Limit his time on camera, there are some videos where you guys do to have fun as long as his privacy is respected. 💞💞
You have a good head on your shoulder and you will know how to handle it when the time comes...it is a year away you got this💞