I was a maintenance worker at The University of Oregon for 25 years. I worked on the locker room a lot in the 90’s and early 2000’s. You wouldn’t believe how many times I caught players in there getting it on!
Jacob seems to be comfortable answering your questions. Not every straight guy from a small midwestern town would be. I would watch another interview with him, focusing on how he decided to start an OF. Also, how does he respond to some of the more explicit comments he must get on OF and Insta. Very good interview, Art. 👍👍👍👍👍
He's also enjoying the attention and the money that comes with it. Some dudes are just like that. They thrive from the attention, with most being fine with it so long as there's no touching involved.
I've also seen his IG about how he brags about gays chasing him. He likes the attention and the money that comes from said attention. It feeds the ego for some.
I live in Seattle and know more straight people like Jacob than not. Open-minded, open-hearted and are not that interested in judging or assessing people based on who they are, especially if they are different from them. They are not defensive or violent. Instead, they are accepting and curious.
I worked in an office with a girl from Belfast who said she had never known a gay guy growing up and had never seen or heard of one in the city. Then someone opened a gay disco on the outskirts of town and the place was packed to the rafters every weekend.
The funniest thing is when my straight friends ask me the most awkward questions about me being gay and when I answered, their questions, the look on their faces, is priceless. 😅 #gaycowboy
😂 well, the question I always get asked, don't you hurt doing butt stuff? Another question is how can you kiss a guy, and I always tell them how can you kiss a chick. Don't knock it till you try it ❤😊
I'm a straight female and used to be the same with my lesbian friends. It was so intriguing to me. When I was younger and pretty ignorant about sexualities I found it so hard to wrap my head around them as females being only attracted to females and not interest in guys. Most of my female friends were and are straight, aswel as my sisters so it seemed like it was just a natural thing for every female to like males. because that was the extent of my understandin g of other females, it was more projection than anything. I thought they had to be lying..and don't even get me started on bisexuality, I was supper ignorant about that and didn't think it existed and it was just gay men or lesbian women too afraid to say they were fully homosexual. I've educated myself a bit since then. Sometimes when we have a certain orientation to the world it can be supper hard to relate or understand a different way to be. Another example is when I first found out about pathological narcissism(people who have no empathy) it was supper hard for me to understand their world view and how other people are viewed as objects to them. They have no more feelings, connection, kinship or understanding to another human being than you would have to a chair or table. They could kill a person as easy as you could step on a bug. Having empathy is not in their orientation to the world at all. Even though I can understand it intellectually, emotionally it's still a mistery how they can just not care or feel for other people at all. Empathy is something I've always had without even thinking about it and it's hard for me to imagine not having it. I think it's kind of similar for people who are monosexual because they just dont have that experience. For them being sexually attracted to one sex cancels out the other, so it's hard for them to understand being sexually attracted to both sexes.
When you have a straight friend, in a gay bar they are your best wingman ever... and a gay friend in a straight bar, is the straight friends best wingman. Think about it.
Wow...he hails from a place less than 2 hours from me. And in many ways, he reminds me of a close, straight friend of mine, very relaxed, very open, very comfortable with himself. I don't think either would cross over to the dark side, but both definitely are flirty and fun!
I have been to Santa Claus IN, yes, it is,a super small town, very nice, so I can understand a bit about Jacob's origins. Jacob, thank you for participating in Art's video world. Best to you. 👍
He seems really sweet and easy going, the kind of person you could just be yourself around. He’s cute, but his personality is really what draws you in. 🥰
@@whatever3041 regular guys can just tell. I'm a regular guy, a closeted "mostly gay" guy. It has nothing to do necessarily with detecting effeminacy, it's just a natural vibe, an instinct, and eye contact in a certain way. It's the same with male/female interactions.
Great interview with good questions! Loved the “fully straight for now” in the beginning 😂 I like Jacob , it would be great to see more videos with him ! I have a typical straight friend but he’s my best friend so we come along very well 😊
Art should do a vid where he's the camera man and his straight buddies are the main characters running around being chaotic. Like Jacob, Calisaws, Brigham, "str8 but super zesty spring breakers" , Mario Adrion's dad
@@warrenpainenewsflash...most gay and bi men are closeted. You must be a queen who is homophobic, want to pretend masc gay and bi men are "straight", so you can feel like a real "woman" with us, and think only effeminate ones are gay. Most of us are regular guys and run the spectrum from fem to masc.
Many years ago, when I was in my early 20’s, I worked at a very popular restaurant in my area. The wait staff was made up of everyone you could think of. A small group of us would go for happy hour after our lunch shift, or after working in the evening visit the gay clubs. 2 straight couples worked with me, we were all the same age. The straight guys had no problems about going to the gay clubs with their girlfriends. We all had great times together. One night, early in the evening, I was at a club popular on a Sunday night. As I mentioned, it was early, so I was by myself, enjoying watching the light show on the dance floor and looking at the few couples who were dancing. I looked over my shoulder to the bar and noticed my two straight coworkers, standing next to each other, dinking beers. I thought “where are the girls”. They saw me, smiled and waved at me. I didn’t wave back. I gave them a “one raised eyebrow stare”. They looked at me confused, looked at each other, their smiles disappeared, they immediately knew what I was thinking. They started yelling “THE GIRLS ARE IN THE BATHROOM! THE GIRLS ARE IN THE BATHROOM!”. I approached them and yelled “I’LL BE RIGHT BACK!!!”. I walked into the ladies room yelling the girls names. Both of them started yelling “JOHN, IS THAT YOU?”. I was happy I found them. The three of us came out of the ladies room together, we ended up laughing about my suspicions all night long, and some 30 years later too.
Now that you have become so much more successful, I hope you can buy a two mic set up for these interviews or maybe even do a podcast set up where you have mics on a table.
@@transp0rter1 I'm a closeted bi man myself. He's my people. I can recognize a masculine, in denial, or just closeted bi guy a mile away...we're everywhere. We're the "straight" identified, masculine guys you lust over.
It definitely seemed like he was trying to insinuate that being gay/not straight was something that a straight person could just become at some point in their future. Like…what? (3:26)
since my childhood, i've never had a bestfriend maybe because of my sexuality, until when i worked somewhere far from my town..i have a bff, a straight one, he is quite good looking to be honest..not that im romanticising that, but just to share gays and straights could be real bestfriends too...he's super kind and "makulit" in tagalog
Tbh it’s wrong to assume just because guys who had girlfriends were hitting on him that they’re automatically gay, they might be bisexual 🤷♂️ also, I’m not sure whether it has anything to do with sexuality or if it’s just social anxiety, but as a bi guy, I can’t pee in front of other people. It’s not a self-confidence issue, as I’m above average in size down there, it’s just that I can’t relax in that situation (unless I’m really drunk/high and I really have to go), and then I go into a vicious cycle of thinking that other people are gonna think I’m weird or a perv for just standing there with my d*ck out and not peeing, which makes me even more unable to relax to start peeing. So basically I only pee in public if I know that I’m alone or if there’s a bathroom stall, I should probably have cognitive-behavioral therapy at some point to try to work through this. The medical term for it is paruresis and I think somewhere around 10% of people have it.
I know two people who have girlfriends and are in relationships. At the same time they hug and kiss and possibly have sexual encounters with their male friends too.
What's funny is it's the complete opposite for me. I HATE straight bars cause the guys were always jealous of me and would try to start shit with me for no damned reason. ALL THE TIME!! Too much test. mixed with closeted haters.
Stelle diese Frage einem yungen Europäer, ich denke manch Antwort wäre anders.Man merkt diese Typische amerikanische shei Verhalten bei dem yungen Mann. Aber Hut ab das er mitgemacht hat.
I was a maintenance worker at The University of Oregon for 25 years. I worked on the locker room a lot in the 90’s and early 2000’s. You wouldn’t believe how many times I caught players in there getting it on!
Not surprised at all.
@@nickbarcheck1019It's certainly not a new thing at all!
How many times?
The issue is whether that was by two men or not.
@@neo5982 which issue? 2 football players getting it on?? Well it sure wasn’t a girl involved!! 😎🤠🐻🌈
Jacob seems to be comfortable answering your questions. Not every straight guy from a small midwestern town would be. I would watch another interview with him, focusing on how he decided to start an OF. Also, how does he respond to some of the more explicit comments he must get on OF and Insta. Very good interview, Art. 👍👍👍👍👍
Yeah, he's weirdly cool about the topic for someone who wears such a conspicuous crucifix.
He's also enjoying the attention and the money that comes with it. Some dudes are just like that. They thrive from the attention, with most being fine with it so long as there's no touching involved.
I've also seen his IG about how he brags about gays chasing him. He likes the attention and the money that comes from said attention. It feeds the ego for some.
Is his only fans just solo work or does he mess around with guys?
I live in Seattle and know more straight people like Jacob than not. Open-minded, open-hearted and are not that interested in judging or assessing people based on who they are, especially if they are different from them. They are not defensive or violent. Instead, they are accepting and curious.
Dude is bi, like myself, and he is in denial or just closeted. He's NOT straight. Stay in your lane, gay man.
Seattle also has a ton of heteroflexible guys. Lots of fun!
@@oscarlugo8126 bi and gay men all over the world who are closeted. I'm a closeted bi man.
@@Robert-vf6ny Bi, gay, pan, heteroflexible…so many options!
@@oscarlugo8126 only if I remain a closet case bisexual man like all the other ones, sure.
I worked in an office with a girl from Belfast who said she had never known a gay guy growing up and had never seen or heard of one in the city. Then someone opened a gay disco on the outskirts of town and the place was packed to the rafters every weekend.
Are you sure or did you make it up?? Because disco music is one of the biggest gay tropes around!!
😎🤠🐻🌈
@@bearnunnemaker5453 I'm sure.
Thank you Art for sharing these interesting perspectives and videos and bringing a wide variety of people to your channel.
The funniest thing is when my straight friends ask me the most awkward questions about me being gay and when I answered, their questions, the look on their faces, is priceless. 😅 #gaycowboy
What they ask ? 😂😂😂
😂 well, the question I always get asked, don't you hurt doing butt stuff? Another question is how can you kiss a guy, and I always tell them how can you kiss a chick. Don't knock it till you try it ❤😊
I'm a straight female and used to be the same with my lesbian friends. It was so intriguing to me. When I was younger and pretty ignorant about sexualities I found it so hard to wrap my head around them as females being only attracted to females and not interest in guys. Most of my female friends were and are straight, aswel as my sisters so it seemed like it was just a natural thing for every female to like males. because that was the extent of my understandin g of other females, it was more projection than anything. I thought they had to be lying..and don't even get me started on bisexuality, I was supper ignorant about that and didn't think it existed and it was just gay men or lesbian women too afraid to say they were fully homosexual. I've educated myself a bit since then.
Sometimes when we have a certain orientation to the world it can be supper hard to relate or understand a different way to be. Another example is when I first found out about pathological narcissism(people who have no empathy) it was supper hard for me to understand their world view and how other people are viewed as objects to them. They have no more feelings, connection, kinship or understanding to another human being than you would have to a chair or table. They could kill a person as easy as you could step on a bug. Having empathy is not in their orientation to the world at all. Even though I can understand it intellectually, emotionally it's still a mistery how they can just not care or feel for other people at all. Empathy is something I've always had without even thinking about it and it's hard for me to imagine not having it. I think it's kind of similar for people who are monosexual because they just dont have that experience. For them being sexually attracted to one sex cancels out the other, so it's hard for them to understand being sexually attracted to both sexes.
When you have a straight friend, in a gay bar they are your best wingman ever... and a gay friend in a straight bar, is the straight friends best wingman. Think about it.
Straights can be pumpkins too.
What does mean? I don't understand@@Jackaroo.
Seems Jacob's parents did a good job raising him.
Absolutely. He is sexy.
Awesome interview Art. Jacob seems like a really nice, down-to-earth type of guy. ❤❤❤
He seems very comfortable in his own skin.
Wow...he hails from a place less than 2 hours from me. And in many ways, he reminds me of a close, straight friend of mine, very relaxed, very open, very comfortable with himself. I don't think either would cross over to the dark side, but both definitely are flirty and fun!
Why does it have to be the "dark side"?
so gorgeous and even more coz he's so chill
Nice to hear that he is openminded 😊. Nice vid bro. ❤ as always ❤ .
I have been to Santa Claus IN, yes, it is,a super small town, very nice, so I can understand a bit about Jacob's origins. Jacob, thank you for participating in Art's video world. Best to you. 👍
I love this interview Art. Jacob is a hottie for sure. I love his personality!! Such a nice guy.
Art, you drug him out of the closet and walked him up and down the street and he never saw it coming. LoL
There are definitely a lot of “straight” guys who hit on you at the gym and locker rooms. It’s definitely not subtle sometimes 😅
Omg I’ve been following him for a while now didn’t think art would know who he was though 😂
He seems really sweet and easy going, the kind of person you could just be yourself around. He’s cute, but his personality is really what draws you in. 🥰
Great interview with your friend Art. Great live stream. Jacob looks great.❤
Great interview. Loved Jacob's relaxed honesty answering the questions.
New to your channel. Loving that more lgbt youtubers are coming out.
all my male friends are straight and they quite chill
Straight my tush!!!..He'll do great in Sean Cody or Chaosmen!..
100%. I knew instantly. Just closeted. People aren't stupid, even real straight people are noticing the signs of us discreet/dl guys these days.
How can you tell?
@@whatever3041 regular guys can just tell. I'm a regular guy, a closeted "mostly gay" guy. It has nothing to do necessarily with detecting effeminacy, it's just a natural vibe, an instinct, and eye contact in a certain way. It's the same with male/female interactions.
I know the same thing. Masculine and "normal" means nothing.
@@Robert-vf6ny you are right, I checked his Instagram, didn't appear very straight to me.
he's weirdly cool about the topic for someone who wears such a conspicuous crucifix.
Great interview with good questions! Loved the “fully straight for now” in the beginning 😂 I like Jacob , it would be great to see more videos with him !
I have a typical straight friend but he’s my best friend so we come along very well 😊
sexuality is fluid and on a continuum, not set in stone for a lifetime (for most).
is he boring too?
He seems straight but open to "exploring." Just my impression.
Santa Claus, Indiana represent! Holiday World!
Art should do a vid where he's the camera man and his straight buddies are the main characters running around being chaotic. Like Jacob, Calisaws, Brigham, "str8 but super zesty spring breakers" , Mario Adrion's dad
Interesting interview with Jacob..thanks artiom boy xxx😊😊😊😂😂😂❤
Art is a really funny guy. That’s not easy to do in two different languages.
I can see Jacob being attracted to Timothée Chalamet.
More Jacob would be fun to watch
I think Jacob said he is definitely straight one too many times. lol
I agree, he was definitely trying to convince himself!! 😂 I didn't believe him, I wonder if he believed himself. 😂
😜
If you want people to respect you when you say you're gay, you should respect people who say that they're hetero.
@@warrenpainenewsflash...most gay and bi men are closeted. You must be a queen who is homophobic, want to pretend masc gay and bi men are "straight", so you can feel like a real "woman" with us, and think only effeminate ones are gay. Most of us are regular guys and run the spectrum from fem to masc.
Are you sure it’s not just wishful thinking on your part?
He's sooo handsome 😍
3:32
I am not gay but the Future is the Future
I want this on a T-Shirt! lol
He kind of has that chill, flirty escort vibe about him.
Many years ago, when I was in my early 20’s, I worked at a very popular restaurant in my area. The wait staff was made up of everyone you could think of. A small group of us would go for happy hour after our lunch shift, or after working in the evening visit the gay clubs. 2 straight couples worked with me, we were all the same age. The straight guys had no problems about going to the gay clubs with their girlfriends. We all had great times together.
One night, early in the evening, I was at a club popular on a Sunday night. As I mentioned, it was early, so I was by myself, enjoying watching the light show on the dance floor and looking at the few couples who were dancing.
I looked over my shoulder to the bar and noticed my two straight coworkers, standing next to each other, dinking beers. I thought “where are the girls”. They saw me, smiled and waved at me. I didn’t wave back. I gave them a “one raised eyebrow stare”. They looked at me confused, looked at each other, their smiles disappeared, they immediately knew what I was thinking. They started yelling “THE GIRLS ARE IN THE BATHROOM! THE GIRLS ARE IN THE BATHROOM!”. I approached them and yelled “I’LL BE RIGHT BACK!!!”. I walked into the ladies room yelling the girls names. Both of them started yelling “JOHN, IS THAT YOU?”. I was happy I found them. The three of us came out of the ladies room together, we ended up laughing about my suspicions all night long, and some 30 years later too.
That is SO Funny.
Love your story. It felt like you were relieved nothing ‘funny’ was going on. Who needs cheated girlfriends and DL gay guys. 😂 💕
Santa Claus, IN home of Holiday World!
What’s the only fans link?
Jacob wetzel
The video description links to his IG which then has link tree to all his sites. Pretty standard.
Lovely One!!!! Always!!!! With Lovely People!!!!
and lovely over-use of exclamation marks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Now that you have become so much more successful, I hope you can buy a two mic set up for these interviews or maybe even do a podcast set up where you have mics on a table.
Passing the mike back and forth adds to the fun.
ur reactions art 😘
I must be missing something. What does he do on his only fans channel? Who is his audience?
His audience is anybody who wants to see him take his clothes off. Like most of that website, he makes sex videos.
What is Jacob's Only Fans?
The best friend of a Gay man is another Gay man ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 Gay men together forever 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Ask him HOW the DL guys hit on him, duh! What do they SAY/DO??!?! That's the real tea!
He's a dl guy he's not fooling me
@@Robert-vf6ny haha ur an optimist. Not me. I'm a pessimist. I hope ur right tho lol
@@transp0rter1 I'm a closeted bi man myself. He's my people. I can recognize a masculine, in denial, or just closeted bi guy a mile away...we're everywhere. We're the "straight" identified, masculine guys you lust over.
Jacob and Art good watch
Santa Claus Indiana?! Missed opportunity there....like how did that town get named Santa Claus? Im sure I cant be the only one.
Gorgeous Men
Nice video, very entertaining
Art those hairy forearms are handsome. Will you grow body hair elsewhere?
Omg like Art is good looking . What the hell , doesn't he do gay 4 pay ?
6:55 Me "say Art!"
his come still in u art? xox
Kept hoping he would take his shirt off
So he's "straight" which means that must also be his real hair Goo Tube is really becoming one gigantic joke
It definitely seemed like he was trying to insinuate that being gay/not straight was something that a straight person could just become at some point in their future. Like…what? (3:26)
Ask him if any of his coaches have eyed him??
Nice interview. Good straight guy.
Jacob looks so cute, didn´t u felt bit attracted to him, Art?
Jacob is a great guy ❤😊
Maybe the answer will be later in the video, but from 0:31-0:41, why did you teach him how to say, Thank you,” in Russian? 🤔
What's the insta for Jacob?
Link is in the description like it always is.
I'm a U.C BEARCAT as well as a CINCINNATI BENGAL FAN!
Relevance?
@@patrickhoffman3117 YES!
What is Jacob’s last name? I want to check out his ONLY FANS.
Lmk too pls
since my childhood, i've never had a bestfriend maybe because of my sexuality, until when i worked somewhere far from my town..i have a bff, a straight one, he is quite good looking to be honest..not that im romanticising that, but just to share gays and straights could be real bestfriends too...he's super kind and "makulit" in tagalog
Tbh it’s wrong to assume just because guys who had girlfriends were hitting on him that they’re automatically gay, they might be bisexual 🤷♂️ also, I’m not sure whether it has anything to do with sexuality or if it’s just social anxiety, but as a bi guy, I can’t pee in front of other people. It’s not a self-confidence issue, as I’m above average in size down there, it’s just that I can’t relax in that situation (unless I’m really drunk/high and I really have to go), and then I go into a vicious cycle of thinking that other people are gonna think I’m weird or a perv for just standing there with my d*ck out and not peeing, which makes me even more unable to relax to start peeing. So basically I only pee in public if I know that I’m alone or if there’s a bathroom stall, I should probably have cognitive-behavioral therapy at some point to try to work through this. The medical term for it is paruresis and I think somewhere around 10% of people have it.
I know two people who have girlfriends and are in relationships. At the same time they hug and kiss and possibly have sexual encounters with their male friends too.
What's funny is it's the complete opposite for me. I HATE straight bars cause the guys were always jealous of me and would try to start shit with me for no damned reason. ALL THE TIME!! Too much test. mixed with closeted haters.
What’s his OF anyone know?
Whats his OF link
Jacob is hot
what's his full name?
Jacob wetzel 😉 enjoy guys
What's Jacobs last name
1:16, oh, sounds demonic
Nice. ❤
The next interview trying subtitles in Spanish
He is as “straight” as the gay-for-pay guys…😉
He's closeted obviously.
Many men are closeted, they act stright but they sometimes show the truth
art is hot bye
This guy on the left reminds me of my mate
How unusual to know a straight guy
Whats his only fans
What’s with the hair?
Fergus Dublin Ireland European Union is E.U
Typo Jacobs Gr8 Art
What's his OF?
This guy’s too much in love with his looks, which are only average.
Stelle diese Frage einem yungen Europäer, ich denke manch Antwort wäre anders.Man merkt diese Typische amerikanische shei Verhalten bei dem yungen Mann. Aber Hut ab das er mitgemacht hat.
“I stopped pooping in 2015” 😂
yes sisters!
LOL...
yeah. he is straight for now as he said it. But the way he looked at Art, i mean, it looked like they are lovers
"straight" meaning closeted obviously.
Спасибо? Вы русский?
More w Jacob!
😊
I like him
Travis Kelce has small arms
Wonderful 😊
dunno why....I felt like he's trying so hard to convince ppl that he's straight by selling straight guys around him are gay...
He’s cute.
What’s his of?
Description has link to IG which then has his link tree.
Shes giving power bottom vibes