I know this comment is probably going to get lost amongst others, but I just want to say a couple of words: " You've got this bestie 💗. You are truly beautiful, amazing, smart and most of all, you are doing your best to be better while a lot of people are just so lazy to even wake up".
I'm a "fluffy" grandma. I don't remember the topic of the first video I watched on your channel. I do remember thinking, what can I possibly learn from a beautiful, confident woman half my age? Your warm, authentic presentation and engaging topics immediately hooked me and I am enjoying rediscovering my feminine side, Thank you for all of the effort you put into creating quality content!
I think it's so great that you are allowing yourself to learn from people younger than you. Good for you! Not everyone is open-minded, but they are only limiting themselves. I write this comment, because of how I was impressed. That is the type of grandma I would heartily look up to and listen to her advices❤! With that said, have a nice day💐☀️!!!
As a fluffy 47 yo I agree! I wish this content would have been on my radar in my 20’s alas better late than never! I spent 2 decades in my masculine due to career choice and insecurity as a female… cheers to the new generation of women embracing these concepts! And a big thank you to Jillz for being bold enough to get it out there! 😘 much love to all my sisters 🫶
@@omnamah-shivaya6779 I hear you! I wish I had heard these things in my 20s! It took my 40s to realize this. I look back and realize how much I underestimated my abilities!
Great comment! I'm similar. I don't remember the first video but I do remember thinking that I sometimes feel I have to push my way through life... And Jillz seems to glide more. I want more gliding through life!
Being hidden has costed me a lot, I’ve never had the courage to be vulnerable and be in a relationship. I used to panic every time I had a presentation at Uni. Whenever I think of a job that has meetings and individual presentations, where you have to share your option I simply think it’s not for me. For sure It’s the fear of being judged mixed with low self esteem and maybe a kind of social fobia, but at the end the person who hurts me, judges and keeps me small I see on the mirror everyday.
Yes, feel the same. Well I am in this kind op job but totally panicking every time and trying to mask my fears. Too bad I'm in healthcare and not IT 😂 Hope this video will help us! Because life can be so much easier!
Can we take a moment to appreciate the fact that her hair is always on point. Also I love how calming your energy is, like you make me want to listen without feeling like someone is shoving information down my throat.
This video has litterly summarized what ive been feeling so intensely for years now. All of these tips included into one space is perfect to follow from
i used to wait to do the inner work and think that all my fears will magically go away. thanks for clarifying that thats not how it works. you have to be brave enough to take action.
3:57 what’s worse is that people seem to encourage quietness and loneliness, especially teachers, and I do know it’s because of their stressful lives and job, but what they don’t recognize is that silencing kids for their own peace of mind is going to create a great negative impact on the kid’s personalities as adults, and it is saddening to me. As a child I was told I was the best in class for being so quiet and lonely, but now as an adult this has NOT benefited in anyway other than to kill my character and my confidence, and I struggle a lot till this day because of it
Recognising the "separation of tasks". My task vs Not my task. What I am in control of is my task. What other people think of you is not your business, because it's not your task, it's theirs. It's safe to release control of things that are not your task. Thank you Jillz!
Fear will never disappear. If we keep waiting till we "fix it" before we start taking up space, we will never start. Let's all be brave even if we're scared as hell, do it for the little girl in you! Good luck girlies 😚🩷🎀
This was exactly what I needed to hear. Recently I've uncovered that my biggest fear is being seen and perceived negatively by other people, to a point that it is controlling my life. This video provided so many perspective shifts that I definitely needed to hear from someone else. Thank you for sharing! Love these videos.
Agree with the eye catching outfits-got one of those large 70s fluffy coats (like from Almost Famous) and it doesn’t matter what I have underneath I always get compliments everywhere I go, esp when I wear fancier boots with it
This video in particular means so much to me. I feel like the topic applies to me directly. Its been a personal struggle for me my whole life. Thank you so much for making this video. Your advice is definitely what I needed and I am going to follow it. I am grateful. Thank you
Thank you Jillz for posting this video. It’s been a few days I have been working with my therapist on this. I have been judged, criticised and shamed all throughout my childhood. I had been bullied at home & school. Thankfully got a few good friends. Deeply thank you ❤ You changed my perception.
I really appreciate myself having time to watch this video…i realized some things about myself but really didn't know how to go about them. This really did help thank you
This was huge. I got bullied ruthlessly all throughout grade school. I was so outspoken, confident, bold, passionate, and they hated it. My teachers as well as my classmates, I got bullied by teachers as much as my peers. People always called me dumb because I was very engaged in class and I’m a blonde, so at some point I decided to lean into it and amped up my “dumb blonde” behavior. I’ve carried that identity into adulthood, I’m only now at 26 starting to embrace the fact that I am intelligent and my thoughts/opinions matter. Most of my issues in life stem from my refusal to be seen.
I had to watch the entire thing on silent with subtitles because I'm at the gym on a treadmill and my headphones have died 😂 but it was great so thank you ❤
I never wanted to look past to my childhood.It was too overwhelmeing & alz ended up crying.As a18 yr old i realise my younger self deserved so much.Iam never gonna upset myself & will start being bold❤
I love being myself when I’m with friends and family members but for some reason I’m scared and overthink certain parts of myself with guys on dates. I’m fine with being seen until it comes to those more difficult things. It’s important to see that it’s not just me facing this ❤
Hii Jillz! Thank you for the video, big fan of the channel! 🌷 Id like to suggest a video; On moving out and living alone, some feminine habits that might minimize pain and loneliness, and improve discipline for competence. I’m planning on this and really scared.. xxxx
Thank you for this video ❤. I didn’t know how much i needed it until i watched….you are on point! Side note: You look so pretty, RED is definitely your color. ❤
A really needed message !!... So clearly elucidated I... This video certainly resonates with me !!.. Thanks a ton Jilllz.... Love 💖 and wishes 🎉from India .
Hey Jillz, today in particular watching your video really made my day and gave me the insight that I know I needed to hear ❤ thank-you! You’re noticed in my world and I appreciate you doing what you’ve done, so I can benefit haha and everyone else too. I come here for your info and the level-up and you! I’m here for it 💎💌💖
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
Congrats on 500k! It is so well deserved! So happy for you Jillz! Your videos have really changed my life and allowed me to step into my feminine energy
Thanks for another nice video😊 🌻 Just wanted to add that some women might be afraid of positive judgement as well. To connect it with what you mentioned about childhood ;mums that were not comfortable themselves receiving for example attention and compliments, can pass through this "modesty" to their daughters.. ( my case too 😋) .
Congratulations on 500k! 🎉Love your videos, so helpful. I resonate with taking small steps so much, and it's so awesome when it compounds and there are visible results.
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
I don’t know if I said this before but; thanks Jillz for finding me and guide me to be butter version of myself, seriously thank you gorgeous❤ Ok now we come to your amusing look I love the RED on you massive choice ❤️🔥😍
I have a fear of being seen because I always felt like I never fit in anyway. I have lazy eye and often didn’t want people to look at me because I didn’t want people to see it and make fun of me. I still have trouble letting myself be seen.
I had a lazy eye and had eye surgery for it. Maybe you want to look into this, if it makes sense. I couldn’t drive for a long time and I am so very grateful the issue was corrected and I can drive again!
@@cristinaslattery2579 I had the surgery to correct it when I was younger but I heard that as you age the muscles weaken and so surgery might be necessary again. I will definitely look into it.
Hi Jillz ❤ Always love your video and the way of your explanation ❤ Being seen definitely changes our life in many ways. Thank you for such a Informative video ❤ Have a Great Day ❤
i was an invisible person, all i thought just abt other people's perception. it's genuinely making me feel bad to remind it. but, now i'm more confident and feel kinda proud! thank youuu, this video is mesmerizing💌
It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!
Is it for females? I'm asking because in one site i red its kind of a guide book for men to understand female psyche for approaching women for dating and building relationships.. Please enlighten.. Could you please suggest me some other books? I'm 22 and lost, i doubt myself and dealing with identity crisis ..
I hope I can get out of this circle I live in ..I really waist a whole year in school not showing that I can do good ,,just because I was scared that I'll do less than the others and end up embarrassing myself
I know you've mentioned not loving your jar line in the past, but it has changed? Weight loss?you look amazing. I'd love to know if losing a small amount of weight can create this change. I feel like you did.
I know this comment is probably going to get lost amongst others, but I just want to say a couple of words: " You've got this bestie 💗. You are truly beautiful, amazing, smart and most of all, you are doing your best to be better while a lot of people are just so lazy to even wake up".
Thank u ❤
Yesss!!!! THAT is what sets her apart!!
I needed that Thankyou😭❤
you are so sweet!
i can say the same to you, have a great day,ladies❤
Thank you so much! 🫶🏼 have a great week and I wish you all the best!
I'm a "fluffy" grandma. I don't remember the topic of the first video I watched on your channel. I do remember thinking, what can I possibly learn from a beautiful, confident woman half my age? Your warm, authentic presentation and engaging topics immediately hooked me and I am enjoying rediscovering my feminine side, Thank you for all of the effort you put into creating quality content!
Aw thank you!! 🩷🩷
I think it's so great that you are allowing yourself to learn from people younger than you. Good for you! Not everyone is open-minded, but they are only limiting themselves. I write this comment, because of how I was impressed. That is the type of grandma I would heartily look up to and listen to her advices❤! With that said, have a nice day💐☀️!!!
As a fluffy 47 yo I agree! I wish this content would have been on my radar in my 20’s alas better late than never! I spent 2 decades in my masculine due to career choice and insecurity as a female… cheers to the new generation of women embracing these concepts! And a big thank you to Jillz for being bold enough to get it out there! 😘 much love to all my sisters 🫶
@@omnamah-shivaya6779 I hear you! I wish I had heard these things in my 20s! It took my 40s to realize this. I look back and realize how much I underestimated my abilities!
Great comment! I'm similar. I don't remember the first video but I do remember thinking that I sometimes feel I have to push my way through life... And Jillz seems to glide more. I want more gliding through life!
Being hidden has costed me a lot, I’ve never had the courage to be vulnerable and be in a relationship. I used to panic every time I had a presentation at Uni. Whenever I think of a job that has meetings and individual presentations, where you have to share your option I simply think it’s not for me. For sure It’s the fear of being judged mixed with low self esteem and maybe a kind of social fobia, but at the end the person who hurts me, judges and keeps me small I see on the mirror everyday.
Yes, feel the same. Well I am in this kind op job but totally panicking every time and trying to mask my fears. Too bad I'm in healthcare and not IT 😂
Hope this video will help us! Because life can be so much easier!
Can we take a moment to appreciate the fact that her hair is always on point. Also I love how calming your energy is, like you make me want to listen without feeling like someone is shoving information down my throat.
If you’re reading this I’m praying something amazing happens for you today.🙏🏼♥️
This is such an important distinction- it's not a fear of being seen, but being judged.
This video has litterly summarized what ive been feeling so intensely for years now. All of these tips included into one space is perfect to follow from
Sometimes, overevaluating your problem makes it bigger and bigger. However, smalling the problem makes it smaller and easier to deal with.
i used to wait to do the inner work and think that all my fears will magically go away. thanks for clarifying that thats not how it works. you have to be brave enough to take action.
Congrats on 500k!!
Ahh thank you!!! 💕
3:57 what’s worse is that people seem to encourage quietness and loneliness, especially teachers, and I do know it’s because of their stressful lives and job, but what they don’t recognize is that silencing kids for their own peace of mind is going to create a great negative impact on the kid’s personalities as adults, and it is saddening to me. As a child I was told I was the best in class for being so quiet and lonely, but now as an adult this has NOT benefited in anyway other than to kill my character and my confidence, and I struggle a lot till this day because of it
Recognising the "separation of tasks".
My task vs Not my task.
What I am in control of is my task.
What other people think of you is not your business, because it's not your task, it's theirs.
It's safe to release control of things that are not your task.
Thank you Jillz!
Wearing red is scientifically proven to be eye catching ❤
Thank you for mentioning/ recommending the book "The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi". I'm reading it now and I really enjoy it!
i've read this book twice this year. It's a goldmine 🤍
@@p-rng-444 agreed!!!!
Fear will never disappear. If we keep waiting till we "fix it" before we start taking up space, we will never start. Let's all be brave even if we're scared as hell, do it for the little girl in you! Good luck girlies 😚🩷🎀
If you had a podcast, I’d listen all day. Thank you for inspiring me and all of these other incredible women ❤
The timing of this vid is insane, thank you so much, Jillz 😭
Such an important topic to really unpack
I need to keep telling myself I'm deserving
This was exactly what I needed to hear. Recently I've uncovered that my biggest fear is being seen and perceived negatively by other people, to a point that it is controlling my life. This video provided so many perspective shifts that I definitely needed to hear from someone else. Thank you for sharing! Love these videos.
Agree with the eye catching outfits-got one of those large 70s fluffy coats (like from Almost Famous) and it doesn’t matter what I have underneath I always get compliments everywhere I go, esp when I wear fancier boots with it
This channel literally have all video library on topics every woman needs❤
This video in particular means so much to me. I feel like the topic applies to me directly. Its been a personal struggle for me my whole life. Thank you so much for making this video. Your advice is definitely what I needed and I am going to follow it. I am grateful. Thank you
I’m so glad! ❤️
Wtf the universe guided me to you and you used the perfect words to describe the feelings. Thank you.
Thank you Jillz for posting this video. It’s been a few days I have been working with my therapist on this. I have been judged, criticised and shamed all throughout my childhood. I had been bullied at home & school. Thankfully got a few good friends. Deeply thank you ❤ You changed my perception.
I really appreciate myself having time to watch this video…i realized some things about myself but really didn't know how to go about them. This really did help thank you
This was huge. I got bullied ruthlessly all throughout grade school. I was so outspoken, confident, bold, passionate, and they hated it. My teachers as well as my classmates, I got bullied by teachers as much as my peers. People always called me dumb because I was very engaged in class and I’m a blonde, so at some point I decided to lean into it and amped up my “dumb blonde” behavior. I’ve carried that identity into adulthood, I’m only now at 26 starting to embrace the fact that I am intelligent and my thoughts/opinions matter. Most of my issues in life stem from my refusal to be seen.
I had to watch the entire thing on silent with subtitles because I'm at the gym on a treadmill and my headphones have died 😂 but it was great so thank you ❤
I never wanted to look past to my childhood.It was too overwhelmeing & alz ended up crying.As a18 yr old i realise my younger self deserved so much.Iam never gonna upset myself & will start being bold❤
Wow 500k!!!! Congratulations!!! Way to go Queen!!! xoxoox
Ahh thank you!!!!! 🥰❤️❤️❤️
Brilliant! you are a gifted presenter, and I am grateful for your gracious gift. Bless you LOVE xoxOxox
I have been trying to refresh my Subscriptions page on YT the whole day for the best of vibes. Thank you for posting this at the right time. 🫶🏼✨️
I love being myself when I’m with friends and family members but for some reason I’m scared and overthink certain parts of myself with guys on dates. I’m fine with being seen until it comes to those more difficult things. It’s important to see that it’s not just me facing this ❤
wooooooooooooooooooo This is tough stuff! Great video, I am going to start taking baby steps!
You are so wise and beautiful, I’m inspired ❤
You have the gift to explain the most complex topics in a practical and easy way to understand. All the best! 🎉🔥🙏🏽
YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHAT I LOVE TO SEE❤🎉😊
This message is so beautiful. thank you!
Hii Jillz! Thank you for the video, big fan of the channel! 🌷 Id like to suggest a video; On moving out and living alone, some feminine habits that might minimize pain and loneliness, and improve discipline for competence. I’m planning on this and really scared.. xxxx
This is one of my problem. Everytime people notice me in my head is like Danger!!!!
Literally just finished an eft taping for “fear of being seen”. How did you just post this 5 hours ago!!
When I was a kid I had so much fear of being seen
Aw I remember being here at a few thousand and your channel has helped me a lot. Thank you so much super inspiring 🥹🩷💕✨
Ahh thank you for being here since the beginning!! I appreciate you! ❤️❤️
@@JillzGuerin Queen 👸 🩷 You deserve every like and follow I wish you the most success!
Your videos have helped me so much learn more about myself and grow further. Thank you for all that you do❤
Thank you for this video ❤. I didn’t know how much i needed it until i watched….you are on point! Side note: You look so pretty, RED is definitely your color. ❤
I AM THE DIVINE LIGHT SAYS THE ONE CREATOR❤😊
You’re an angel 💜🥳 thank you for your work!!🥰
A really needed message !!... So clearly elucidated I... This video certainly resonates with me !!.. Thanks a ton Jilllz.... Love 💖 and wishes 🎉from India .
Love this video! Thank you!❤
Hey Jillz, today in particular watching your video really made my day and gave me the insight that I know I needed to hear ❤ thank-you! You’re noticed in my world and I appreciate you doing what you’ve done, so I can benefit haha and everyone else too. I come here for your info and the level-up and you! I’m here for it 💎💌💖
Aw thank you so much 🥹❤️ sending you so much love!
i am normally not compelled to comment on things, but im 26 and an artist and this video called me out SOOOOO bad LOL!!!! keeping this one close
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
Congrats on 500k! It is so well deserved! So happy for you Jillz! Your videos have really changed my life and allowed me to step into my feminine energy
Thank you so much!!! 🥰🥰🥰
Thanks for another nice video😊 🌻
Just wanted to add that some women might be afraid of positive judgement as well. To connect it with what you mentioned about childhood ;mums that were not comfortable themselves receiving for example attention and compliments, can pass through this "modesty" to their daughters.. ( my case too 😋) .
You are just making videos for me at this point! 😅 And your videos just get better and better! ❤❤❤
very good ❤
You're healing my soul❤ Thanks, I've been working a lot on myself since I found you. Thank you so much❤
Great video ❤❤❤
Can you talk about being a people pleaser to be accepted and how to snap out of it 🙌🏻🙌🏻
This is so timely!
Congratulations on 500k! 🎉Love your videos, so helpful. I resonate with taking small steps so much, and it's so awesome when it compounds and there are visible results.
Thank you so much for sharing your insights in this video--as someone that struggles with this- I found it really helpful
😊💖
These are very deep observations of thoughts, you've made.
THANK YOU🙏🏼❤️
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
I don’t know if I said this before but; thanks Jillz for finding me and guide me to be butter version of myself, seriously thank you gorgeous❤
Ok now we come to your amusing look I love the RED on you massive choice ❤️🔥😍
Exactly what I needed! Perfect timing🎉❤
I have a fear of being seen because I always felt like I never fit in anyway. I have lazy eye and often didn’t want people to look at me because I didn’t want people to see it and make fun of me. I still have trouble letting myself be seen.
I had a lazy eye and had eye surgery for it. Maybe you want to look into this, if it makes sense. I couldn’t drive for a long time and I am so very grateful the issue was corrected and I can drive again!
@@cristinaslattery2579 I had the surgery to correct it when I was younger but I heard that as you age the muscles weaken and so surgery might be necessary again. I will definitely look into it.
Hi Jillz ❤ Always love your video and the way of your explanation ❤ Being seen definitely changes our life in many ways. Thank you for such a Informative video ❤ Have a Great Day ❤
Thank you Jillz, I needed that!💛
Your approach is interesting and intellectual
I need this blouse in my life ❤
CAN YOU ALL SEE ME NOW SAYS THE CREATOR❤😊
thank you so much for this! 💖
i was an invisible person, all i thought just abt other people's perception. it's genuinely making me feel bad to remind it. but, now i'm more confident and feel kinda proud! thank youuu, this video is mesmerizing💌
Thank you so much girl.. You explained it well❤❤
Have you ever thought about starting a podcast? I'd love that!
Thank you very much for this video. I needed it. I cried and i healed. Your tips help me too. Thank you ❤
love this and absolutely needed this 💓
Thank you! ❤
You inspire me so much 😊
0:59 hits home 😶
Good episode thank u i will read the book ❤❤
That made me teary eyed.. thank you for the nudge Jillz 🦋
Thank you for what you do❤ You are a gift☀️
Jillz thank youuuuuu❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful video. Resonated a lot. Very inspiring, thank you❤
It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!
Is it for females? I'm asking because in one site i red its kind of a guide book for men to understand female psyche for approaching women for dating and building relationships..
Please enlighten..
Could you please suggest me some other books? I'm 22 and lost, i doubt myself and dealing with identity crisis ..
@@hello_autumn if you like podcasts, listen to The Champagne Diet💕Hope this helps!
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I love it ! So helpful !!! Thank you,Jillz ! Thank you from Bulgria, Europe! 🤗🥰❤❤❤
much needed videos and love the tips for dressing well. tysm
Loved this!!
This is exactly the video I needed today, the perfect timing ✨ Well explained concepts and actionable steps 👏🏼
This video is right timing ❤
Thank you for the message, very timely.😊
I hope I can get out of this circle I live in ..I really waist a whole year in school not showing that I can do good ,,just because I was scared that I'll do less than the others and end up embarrassing myself
Tnx for sharing💖
Love, I need a video with a tutorial on how you do your hair. It looks fabulous!
I think she did a video on it a while ago 😊 I can’t remember the title though :/
Oh, thanks @@bellaella4485!
I keep seeing videos on this - it must be a big hint hint
I know you've mentioned not loving your jar line in the past, but it has changed? Weight loss?you look amazing. I'd love to know if losing a small amount of weight can create this change. I feel like you did.
Very helpful thank you Jill !! 😃💜
Hey.... Thank you