@@JillzGuerin I was watching the video thinking the exact same thing as this comment lol what did you do different? Could you do a short tutorial or something! It’s very feminine totally your vibe.
1 - say no more often, especially when it comes to your needs 2 - move more in your daily life instead of sitting for a long time 3 - music is your best friend 4 - dance more! Let your body flow 5 - 1 minute tune and connect to your feelings and needs
Quick little things that I do for feminine energy are lighting my favorite candle and taking a minute to just enjoy the scent, stepping outside (or just opening a window if it’s raining), and putting on a great-smelling & high quality hand cream!
I would say a small habit that puts me in my feminine energy is connecting with my husband. We both work from home; and every day once or twice, We will drop everything we are doing and just hug for at least 10-15 seconds. Just a long sweet hug. It really resets my body and brain! ❤️
Making all of my own skin and haircare products at home puts me in my feminine energy. Putting on a delicious homemade face mask and following it with my facial gua sha routine with my delicious face oils puts me in my feminine energy. Doing my rice water and protein hair treatment and then a nice, stimulating scalp brushing puts me in my feminine energy. Working out puts me in my feminine energy. Meditating. Tending my plants. Making photography, music, and art (because these creative pursuits are so intuitive for me). Journaling. Loving and nurturing my kitties.
One moment of feminine energy is when you paint your nails and give time for the filing and shaping your nails , and when you preserve flowers in a diary it feels so good ❤
I love to connect with my body by touching & doing things slow! (i.e.: touching my chest to feel my ribs expand as I pause to take deep breaths, or taking my time to feel my hands caress my body as I put on oils or lotion) There’s so much POWER IN THE PAUSE & TOUCH! Anyhoo… ADORE YOU!!! Keep honoring your soul & being AMAZING!!! 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽💯
I absolutely agree about not answering your phone if you don't want to. That's why we have caller ID. I always answer my child and my husband. That's it. Especially those people who only want something from me and are never there in return
Not sure about feminine energy, but sitting at one place for too long just casts down any energy at all 😅 definitely agree about music and dancing! And my little tip is to always find time to make yourself look a bit more beautiful even if you in a rush, saying applying just a lip tint if you don’t have time for more makeup or choose another necklace etc, it really uplifts my mood! I also noticed that being in a hurry destroys my feminine energy, when you have to run to not get late and everyone and everything just piss you off although that’s just your fault if you’re late, so I try to get ready to leave just like 5 min before I should in order to leave on time ☺️
When I wake up in the morning, I usually wake up at eight in the morning, I eat breakfast, I dance and sing, and I clean my wardrobe. One hour spent with your time feels comfortable and free ! 💗💗🌷🌷
love that you're husband is mature and confident enough to sort out the barbecue and just let you turn up . And yes to moving after being still for a while , im lucky to live by woodland so get to breathe the soil and trees and listen to birdsong , also get great calm at the end of the day with a mug of tea and a good book and a fluffy blanket ❤️📖
My mother passed away when I was 6 so growing up without her and just my father was definitely hard. I've struggled with my femininity throughout the years but at 27 I'm finally starting to come into my own ❤ your channel has been a huge help and guidance throughout it, so thank you and sorry for being sappy lol
It sounds like your dad has done a good job of raising you, you seem to know what you needed and that balance is rare. I'm glad you find these videos a help, I'm sorry your lost your mumma so young. Sending you gentle hugs and hoping you find your feminine ways, Jillz is a fabulous inspiration for me too ❤
Before each segment in life (moving from your home to your car, meeting up with a friend, taking a shower, or any new activity you’re about to do) just take a moment to empty all the breath from your lungs 🫁, then take another moment to breathe 3 rounds of deep belly breaths while affirming to yourself of your intention for the next phase. Example, you’re about to drive to the store. Once you’re in the car, before you start driving, taking a moment for a few rounds of deep breaths while affirming “I will get to the store safely and at the perfect time, and I will easily find everything I’m looking for. I have fun while shopping making “chores” exciting and not a burden. And so it is 🪄 Thank you! Thank you’ thank you” “
A moment of which helps me in my feminine energy is when I feel in low vibe, just to make a glass of my favorite drink (tee🤩) and enjoy it! This small thing makes me fill like a queen again in no time!
1. Just say clear NO..like i dont have capacity,i am not available... 2. Just move!!! Yake breaks otherwise you will losse connection yo your feminine energy..JUST STRETCH .. 3. Listen 🎧 music 🎶 (10sec.) 4. Dance 🩰 5. Ask your heart how you feel? What do you need right now?
Not picking up when someone calls is the biggest regret of my life. I lost my bestfriend that way and by not asnwering her call i never got to see or hear from her ever again. She had called me from the hospital and i didnt pick up the call and few days later she succumbed to coma and finally crossed the rainbow bridge. Guys, if its not someone who constantly annoys you or anyone unknown to you, ALWAYS pick up your calls. It could be their last call.
I wish I had answered my mom's phone calls more often. Today is her birthday 🌸 She passed away 7 months ago. It's one of my biggest regrets. I had so much to ask her and took it for granted. I do understand where Jillz is coming from though.
1) Avoid depletion of feminin energy, by speaking your no’s out clear and grounded. 2) Letting feminin energy in your body flow, by moving regularly. Especially while working in an office. 3) music helps to flow! 4) dancing helps to flow! 5) taking a moment to tune in, and go deeper.
I love this Girl. Her honesty, wisdom, help us to set clear limits to our couple is the best thing we can do to ourselves. To love ourselves in the right way. And if your couple understands this, and respects you. You're in the right path. Thanks a lot Gil. México loves you
I wanna say I always enjoy having your videos in my Sunday routine! I always put your new video on the TV after I come back from church and while doing chores around my apartment 😊
One habit I've discovered really connects me to my feminine energy is mindful applying ylang ylang essential oil to my womb space every morning and tapping into the energy there.
Something that I started doing recently was just.. slowing down how I walk. I walk very briskly and quickly, and I find that I get irritated a lot more easily when I do that. But if I slow down, I actually pay more attention to how my hips swing or how my feet feel on the ground.
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This! I've also done it thinking like I'm a super feminine model while I walk, shoulders back and hips moving. Now it almost comes naturally 🤗
I like to put my left hand over my womb area and my right hand over my heart and gently walk and sway myself. It makes me feel like a mother and child at the same time and feel so loved. Also smiling, a genuine smile. Thank you for the sweet and simple video! :)
i love how people comment on your hair and indeed, it does look fantastic! Its funny because i had beautiful moment just now, where i felt so much feminity trough my hair and how its touching my body. Tha feeling when its freshly styled and touches your bare back ,feels soo juicy and feminin. Made me think about, how i feel that feminine energy is everthing that makes life fun and so much deeper. Its not about survival, but about the joy of being alive. Musik, hair touching your back, cats purring, beautiful smells, baby giggles, summerdays, and good food. Everything can be ether rushed or not noticed. But noticing it and indulging in those moments feels soo feminin. Also feels like feminity is the orgasm of life. While masculinty is the seed of life. Just some thoughts that were inspired by mention about musik. Thank you'for another beautiful video ❤ Your channel is a treasure
I feel exactly the same way--you wrote an excellent description! I LOVE being a woman and enjoying feeling feminine, while also honoring and embodying our own feminine ideals/our highest vision for ourselves and our life. I call it Sensual Spirituality. 💜🙏💜
Moisturizing my hands. I keep a nice hand cream in my purse and desk drawer and periodically I pause in the middle of my day to apply. It smells so nice and I give my hands a quick massage, rub in the moisture to my cuticles. I also take a minute to massage my feet after my bath. Feels nice and keeps your feet and hands looking pretty! 🩵😊🌷
I have a favorite Etsy teashop that sells great tea but also has amazing customer service. So I created a morning ritual where I wake up a little earlier while the house is still quiet, and drink a cup of delicious green tea that i know also transmits real good positive energy. It seems like a minor ritual but it really helps me connect with that inner power source 😊💓
I totally noticed this effect of sitting at a desk for a long time. I actually made it a habit to take dance breaks! 😄 I put on my noise cancelling head phones and just get lost in the music for a song or two. I work from home, so nobody minds me dancing around my office or the kitchen (before I get a fresh cup of coffee or tea).
First thing First, thank you for these helpful tips ❤🎉 one femmine thing i do is, drink a cup of coffee before shower, while doing shower i enjoy smell of shampoo 😊and after that when i came out i do some little make up with dance music ❤😊
First of all, thank you 💜 a couple of weeks ago I had a lot of confusion about myself, and i didn't understand why. I knew I was missing a connection with my feminine energy, but most of all i was missing a real woman to inspire me. And, in all honesty, you were the first one that in all this time has done it. you are the first one i follow and I am passionate about watching your videos, I like you very much as a person, i would like to share my opinions with you, from the bottom of my heart i tell you. I was thinking for several days to comment your videos but i never found the courage but, after that video, I had to do it! Also to share my little habit of less than a minute that is do 3 large big breath, feeling and paying attention in the belly.
Great advice I wish I would’ve heard this when I was 18. It’s very true about moving your body. That’s why I have two German shepherd dogs. I walk them three times a day. I am 69 and it keeps me in shape and I get stiff and hurt if I sit in the same position for longer than 30 minutes. I never had a sitting job. I was a hairstylist so I moved all the time.😊
As always your video is fantastic and very useful!!! ❤❤❤ One tip I should let here is very specific and can't be done everyday ( except if you have the view of the moon everyday...) But what I do is open my window at the night and look straight to the moon, say a little respectful ''hi'' to her 🙏🏽 and humming as long as I desire. Most of the time it makes me feel so so good that I don't even want to stop. It makes me feel like I humming or singing for the moon which is listening to me with gratitude. And I feel the gratitude into my vibes and heart. I can't really explain it but it feels very good.
The second point is so true! I used to study for hours straight and felt Terrible. Now that I study with pomodoro timers I take 5 Minute dance/walk breaks
One small habit that helps me is touching myself. Not like that! hahahah I mean that sometimes, its difficult to tune in. Something that helps me connect to myself when that connection is weak, is having a little massage moment. I used to think that massage only works if somebody else does it, but its actually not true. It doesn't have to be anything fancy like gua sha (although that's also nice). Just washing my hands, cleaning my face or neck with a pad, putting a little oil or lotion on the tip of my fingers, and giving some love to those acupoints that tend to release tension. I take it to the next level with all sorts of toys like digital or analogue massage devices, brushes, sculp massagers etc. I don't wait for a special day or even for the bath to use my toys. I just spoil myself when this kind of "tune in" moment is needed :) The really cool part is that it all started because my husband wouldnt give me massages. I decided that I'm not waiting for anybody to spoil me/ 2-3 times a year I go to a professional masseuse, and rest of the time - I take care of myself :D
I recognize setting boundaries, but I'm going to be the one to say that if it's a good reason to push your boundaries(like helping your friend move apartments instead of sitting doing nothing/"Self Care"), it's best to communicate your head space and potential compromise like only 1hr and then you need to go home. If your friend is likely to push your boundaries and manipulate you, they're not a great friend. If they really need your help and you say no because you don't feel like it, remember that when you're at your next low and seek the help of others. My feminine energy tip #1 is definitely boundaries, too, but I like boundaries with myself more than with others. Self discipline prevents us from letting others walk on us, and part of that self-discipline is keeping your morals. Don't switch your beliefs because you simply, "don't feel like it"!
I also find the iffy "no" comes off as if the person doesn't want to or sometimes even as if they're avoiding the person vs. a direct "no" that more so sounds like they just can't. And people are less offended by "I can't make it" vs. "I don't really know if I want to"
today I did my hair as you said 8n one of your shorts....I was so energetic and I was like YESSSSS my hair is gonna rock the world 😂😂😂 but now I look like a puffy mushroom which had a fight with a wolf
humidity gives me "wolf hair" or "witchcraft" as my friend calls it, sometimes perfect hair takes a few tries, your hair will be rocking the world soon!😘😘
Thank you ❤ I loved the last one, it's the only one I don't do yet, of the habits you share. 🎉 I'd like to ask you to make a video about our relationship with our body, how to love it more, about the shame we feel. 😊😊
Thank you so much!! Your videos seriously made a change in the way I think, and helped me in many aspects such as socializing&anger management. They should have more exposure and these problems should be brought to awareness since many people in this society nowadays struggle with them a lot
For me, I love to take a moment of presence with my fur baby and just be with her. I also love to just take a long breath, or do a child’s pose or forward fold.
I literally almost-cried while watching this. 🤧It's crazy how huuuuge REL I had whole this video. Maybe apart from the first thing, about saying "no", which wasn't anything "wow" for me cause I had a looot of masculin energy whole my life (now I'm 27yo), I grew up with my older brother and other "buddies", and till now I have some longterm, great friendships with guys. So I had to learn how to communicate things straight away ^^'. But I will certainly show it to my mum who struggles so much with setting the boundries. But when it comes to all the other questions that you raised, all what is related to the body: it was like if you just verbalized precisely what I FEEL naturally and what I have actually done for years, totally not consciuos about the common thread of all of these practices. Mini-energizing-dancing almost everyday and especially to regulate my emotions, a small singing with exaggeration just FOR FUN, putting the music on to almost anything I did just to make it more pleasant and to pump up the energy (which before I didn't assosiate with the 'femininity'). Moving and feeling the body, not structured streeetching, doing automassages just to get to the deep muscles, to inhale and dive into yourself, but also going outside - as you said elsewhere - to connect with the nature. Instead of enumerating all the things that I find so valuable in your videos, maybe I will just say thank you for all you do. :,) 🌺 You probably know that (:D), but I wanted to say that you're really radiating with a truly GOOD, HEALTHY and WISE feminine energy. It's very inspiring, would be fun to meet somewhere in the world, I loooove pump up girly-feminine energy with my girl-friends, it can be so much fun when we just go with the flow with a healthy vibe. :D OK, anyways, greetings from Poland and take care of yourself! 🥥💖
Omg i have Libra moon too! I can relate to the people pleasing. It was so bad when I was younger but got better as I got older, though it is still there.
Love this! Also, I’m a physical therapist and it’s true that sitting for more than 2 hours is bad for us. Sitting past that time really messes with our blood flow/circulation. So for most people, getting up before the 2 hour mark and walking (even just across the room and back) does wonders 🩷
I think you did your hair a little differently, and it looks so good! Obviously, your hair always looks gorgeous, but these smaller waves I think might suit your face even better because they start a bit higher, right by your cheekbones
and Thank you for normalizing saying no.... In my culture (Iran) saying no is like I don't love you or I don't care about you 😮💨 and I don't like pushing myself and my energy to do something that I don't like
When this video appeared on my feed, I was literally laying in the same position for hours. That advice about moving, even if it's just a little bit, really hit me. I usually have this "all or nothing" mentality where if I can't do a 2 hour workout I shouldn't even bother do anything at all, and that of course makes it so most days I'm not even in the mood to do anything. On a similar note, I was wondering if you think some "stiffer" or "traditionally male" workouts like weight lifting would leave us with a more masculine energy than yoga or dancing?
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OMG! The Universe sent me your video! I didn't know this channel before, but I'm already a subscriber ❤ that thing with seating for too long, oh my gosh IT IS SO TRUE!!!! 😮 Thank for your insight, was very aligned with what I'm going through right now 🙏💖
I literally had a moment today where I worked an extended amount of time sitting, and I sent a text; and then looked back it was such a masculine text haha I was giving a very logistical statement in response to a date
One little beauty habit that takes 1 minunte is curling your eyelashes. Even if you don't have time to do all your beauty routine, just that one step and smiling at yourself in the mirror can make a big difference.
I haven`t even finished watching the video yet but i just need to say that your hair is goooorgeous, we need to know exactly what you did to it! And btw, this top brings out your best features so well!!
Another excellent video Jillz, thank you! You have such lovely ideas, i really appreciate your inspiration ❤ you always look beautiful, but your hair looks very pretty today 😍
I would add an asterisk here...*** set up expectations early when you can, and that will also head off some of this -- I'm almost 61, and in the old days, you always responded-- at least with an expected full reply.
When you keep saying yes to people? That means you’re saying No to yourself. That hits home
Your hair is hairing!
Omg haha thank you! I did it differently this time! 😊
Looks soo good!!
@@JillzGuerin I was watching the video thinking the exact same thing as this comment lol what did you do different? Could you do a short tutorial or something! It’s very feminine totally your vibe.
It's like mermaid hair!!
Dance ❤❤❤
1 - say no more often, especially when it comes to your needs
2 - move more in your daily life instead of sitting for a long time
3 - music is your best friend
4 - dance more! Let your body flow
5 - 1 minute tune and connect to your feelings and needs
Thank you
Quick little things that I do for feminine energy are lighting my favorite candle and taking a minute to just enjoy the scent, stepping outside (or just opening a window if it’s raining), and putting on a great-smelling & high quality hand cream!
Oh my God those are all amazing ideas that ima try❤
You guys be careful it’s gonna be summer soon!! That’s when Palm-meadow bugs sneak in whilst it rains ❤
The palmetto bugs aren’t too bad, but the mosquitoes and no-see-ums will be here any day and then we’re in trouble!
I would say a small habit that puts me in my feminine energy is connecting with my husband. We both work from home; and every day once or twice, We will drop everything we are doing and just hug for at least 10-15 seconds. Just a long sweet hug. It really resets my body and brain! ❤️
We do EXACTLY the same! ❤
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Making all of my own skin and haircare products at home puts me in my feminine energy. Putting on a delicious homemade face mask and following it with my facial gua sha routine with my delicious face oils puts me in my feminine energy. Doing my rice water and protein hair treatment and then a nice, stimulating scalp brushing puts me in my feminine energy. Working out puts me in my feminine energy. Meditating. Tending my plants. Making photography, music, and art (because these creative pursuits are so intuitive for me). Journaling. Loving and nurturing my kitties.
One moment of feminine energy is when you paint your nails and give time for the filing and shaping your nails , and when you preserve flowers in a diary it feels so good ❤
Yesssss I’m doing that right now ☺️ 🌸🌸🌺🌺🌺🌺
Absolutely! Well said! Just the little things too. I love my FEMININE ENERGY!
I love wearing long earrings 😍 ✨️. I just brought one today and i loved it.
I love to connect with my body by touching & doing things slow! (i.e.: touching my chest to feel my ribs expand as I pause to take deep breaths, or taking my time to feel my hands caress my body as I put on oils or lotion) There’s so much POWER IN THE PAUSE & TOUCH! Anyhoo… ADORE YOU!!! Keep honoring your soul & being AMAZING!!! 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽💯
Yes couldnt agree more!
I absolutely agree about not answering your phone if you don't want to.
That's why we have caller ID.
I always answer my child and my husband.
That's it.
Especially those people who only want something from me and are never there in return
Not sure about feminine energy, but sitting at one place for too long just casts down any energy at all 😅 definitely agree about music and dancing! And my little tip is to always find time to make yourself look a bit more beautiful even if you in a rush, saying applying just a lip tint if you don’t have time for more makeup or choose another necklace etc, it really uplifts my mood! I also noticed that being in a hurry destroys my feminine energy, when you have to run to not get late and everyone and everything just piss you off although that’s just your fault if you’re late, so I try to get ready to leave just like 5 min before I should in order to leave on time ☺️
Same cause western people have over hyped this feminine energy thing . I just love doing small thing that makes me feel relax and good ❤
I couldn’t agree more about rushing! It throws me entirely off balance and I tend to let it color the rest of my day.
When I wake up in the morning, I usually wake up at eight in the morning, I eat breakfast, I dance and sing, and I clean my wardrobe. One hour spent with your time feels comfortable and free ! 💗💗🌷🌷
Ur living 🩷that life🩷
Stay happy 😊 ❤
Gillies is a good girl who helped me. Do what she says and it will change your life 💗💗✨
@@Yasmine-n9b 😘😘😘😘
love that you're husband is mature and confident enough to sort out the barbecue and just let you turn up . And yes to moving after being still for a while , im lucky to live by woodland so get to breathe the soil and trees and listen to birdsong , also get great calm at the end of the day with a mug of tea and a good book and a fluffy blanket ❤️📖
My mother passed away when I was 6 so growing up without her and just my father was definitely hard. I've struggled with my femininity throughout the years but at 27 I'm finally starting to come into my own ❤ your channel has been a huge help and guidance throughout it, so thank you and sorry for being sappy lol
It sounds like your dad has done a good job of raising you, you seem to know what you needed and that balance is rare. I'm glad you find these videos a help, I'm sorry your lost your mumma so young. Sending you gentle hugs and hoping you find your feminine ways, Jillz is a fabulous inspiration for me too ❤
OMG the sitting at your desk/chair for hours is so me. I've noticed my energy totally shifts and doesn't feel soft. Thank you for the reminder !!
Before each segment in life (moving from your home to your car, meeting up with a friend, taking a shower, or any new activity you’re about to do) just take a moment to empty all the breath from your lungs 🫁, then take another moment to breathe 3 rounds of deep belly breaths while affirming to yourself of your intention for the next phase.
Example, you’re about to drive to the store. Once you’re in the car, before you start driving, taking a moment for a few rounds of deep breaths while affirming “I will get to the store safely and at the perfect time, and I will easily find everything I’m looking for. I have fun while shopping making “chores” exciting and not a burden. And so it is 🪄 Thank you! Thank you’ thank you” “
Love this. As an empath and recovering people pleaser, saying No clearly and firmly is something I am learning
Me too….. I still get wishy-washy bc I’m worried I’ll regret saying no to an activity
A moment of which helps me in my feminine energy is when I feel in low vibe, just to make a glass of my favorite drink (tee🤩) and enjoy it! This small thing makes me fill like a queen again in no time!
1. Just say clear NO..like i dont have capacity,i am not available...
2. Just move!!! Yake breaks otherwise you will losse connection yo your feminine energy..JUST STRETCH ..
3. Listen 🎧 music 🎶 (10sec.)
4. Dance 🩰
5. Ask your heart how you feel? What do you need right now?
I like to go outside for a walk everyday at least for half an hour. Taking in the fresh air and moving makes me feel better.💙💖💚
Not picking up when someone calls is the biggest regret of my life. I lost my bestfriend that way and by not asnwering her call i never got to see or hear from her ever again. She had called me from the hospital and i didnt pick up the call and few days later she succumbed to coma and finally crossed the rainbow bridge.
Guys, if its not someone who constantly annoys you or anyone unknown to you, ALWAYS pick up your calls. It could be their last call.
I'm sorry for your loss babe I hope you feel better now 💓
I wish I had answered my mom's phone calls more often. Today is her birthday 🌸 She passed away 7 months ago. It's one of my biggest regrets. I had so much to ask her and took it for granted.
I do understand where Jillz is coming from though.
I am so sorry for you and your loss. Thank you for sharing this very real reminder, I appreciate you❤
مؤثر جدا.. لا ارد عادة على المكالمات.. لكن تعليقك جعل جسمي يقشعر.. سأغير هذه العادة. شكرا لك
That happened to me too
1) Avoid depletion of feminin energy, by speaking your no’s out clear and grounded.
2) Letting feminin energy in your body flow, by moving regularly. Especially while working in an office.
3) music helps to flow!
4) dancing helps to flow!
5) taking a moment to tune in, and go deeper.
I love this Girl.
Her honesty, wisdom, help us to set clear limits to our couple is the best thing we can do to ourselves.
To love ourselves in the right way.
And if your couple understands this, and respects you. You're in the right path.
Thanks a lot Gil.
México loves you
I wanna say I always enjoy having your videos in my Sunday routine! I always put your new video on the TV after I come back from church and while doing chores around my apartment 😊
I'm a Libra moon too and that people pleasing tendency is so real!!!
One habit I've discovered really connects me to my feminine energy is mindful applying ylang ylang essential oil to my womb space every morning and tapping into the energy there.
Something that I started doing recently was just.. slowing down how I walk. I walk very briskly and quickly, and I find that I get irritated a lot more easily when I do that. But if I slow down, I actually pay more attention to how my hips swing or how my feet feel on the ground.
This! I've also done it thinking like I'm a super feminine model while I walk, shoulders back and hips moving. Now it almost comes naturally 🤗
I like to put my left hand over my womb area and my right hand over my heart and gently walk and sway myself. It makes me feel like a mother and child at the same time and feel so loved.
Also smiling, a genuine smile.
Thank you for the sweet and simple video! :)
Love this one ❤️🔥
I don't know why but this made me cry🥺
I do this . When i need to calm down ❤
i love how people comment on your hair and indeed, it does look fantastic! Its funny because i had beautiful moment just now, where i felt so much feminity trough my hair and how its touching my body. Tha feeling when its freshly styled and touches your bare back ,feels soo juicy and feminin. Made me think about, how i feel that feminine energy is everthing that makes life fun and so much deeper. Its not about survival, but about the joy of being alive. Musik, hair touching your back, cats purring, beautiful smells, baby giggles, summerdays, and good food. Everything can be ether rushed or not noticed. But noticing it and indulging in those moments feels soo feminin. Also feels like feminity is the orgasm of life. While masculinty is the seed of life. Just some thoughts that were inspired by mention about musik. Thank you'for another beautiful video ❤ Your channel is a treasure
I feel exactly the same way--you wrote an excellent description! I LOVE being a woman and enjoying feeling feminine, while also honoring and embodying our own feminine ideals/our highest vision for ourselves and our life. I call it Sensual Spirituality. 💜🙏💜
Moisturizing my hands. I keep a nice hand cream in my purse and desk drawer and periodically I pause in the middle of my day to apply. It smells so nice and I give my hands a quick massage, rub in the moisture to my cuticles. I also take a minute to massage my feet after my bath. Feels nice and keeps your feet and hands looking pretty! 🩵😊🌷
Adding my favorite perfume always adds that one special final touch!!
I have a favorite Etsy teashop that sells great tea but also has amazing customer service. So I created a morning ritual where I wake up a little earlier while the house is still quiet, and drink a cup of delicious green tea that i know also transmits real good positive energy. It seems like a minor ritual but it really helps me connect with that inner power source 😊💓
I totally noticed this effect of sitting at a desk for a long time. I actually made it a habit to take dance breaks! 😄 I put on my noise cancelling head phones and just get lost in the music for a song or two. I work from home, so nobody minds me dancing around my office or the kitchen (before I get a fresh cup of coffee or tea).
Gratitude journaling :). I find that it helps me be in the here and now, which in turn connects me with my feminine energy.
First thing First, thank you for these helpful tips ❤🎉 one femmine thing i do is, drink a cup of coffee before shower, while doing shower i enjoy smell of shampoo 😊and after that when i came out i do some little make up with dance music ❤😊
First of all, thank you 💜 a couple of weeks ago I had a lot of confusion about myself, and i didn't understand why. I knew I was missing a connection with my feminine energy, but most of all i was missing a real woman to inspire me. And, in all honesty, you were the first one that in all this time has done it. you are the first one i follow and I am passionate about watching your videos, I like you very much as a person, i would like to share my opinions with you, from the bottom of my heart i tell you. I was thinking for several days to comment your videos but i never found the courage but, after that video, I had to do it! Also to share my little habit of less than a minute that is do 3 large big breath, feeling and paying attention in the belly.
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I feel Noticing the best trait in yourself and embracing it once in a while and upgrading it would change everything
Great advice I wish I would’ve heard this when I was 18. It’s very true about moving your body. That’s why I have two German shepherd dogs. I walk them three times a day. I am 69 and it keeps me in shape and I get stiff and hurt if I sit in the same position for longer than 30 minutes. I never had a sitting job. I was a hairstylist so I moved all the time.😊
As always your video is fantastic and very useful!!! ❤❤❤
One tip I should let here is very specific and can't be done everyday ( except if you have the view of the moon everyday...) But what I do is open my window at the night and look straight to the moon, say a little respectful ''hi'' to her 🙏🏽 and humming as long as I desire. Most of the time it makes me feel so so good that I don't even want to stop.
It makes me feel like I humming or singing for the moon which is listening to me with gratitude. And I feel the gratitude into my vibes and heart. I can't really explain it but it feels very good.
You make me emotional, because I realize how small I still make myself in the course of weeks because of other people.
The second point is so true! I used to study for hours straight and felt Terrible. Now that I study with pomodoro timers I take 5 Minute dance/walk breaks
Dancing is such an amazing thing. I totally agree on dancing for a few minutes a day i've seen a change in my mood whenever i dance in the morning 💗
One small habit that helps me is touching myself. Not like that! hahahah I mean that sometimes, its difficult to tune in. Something that helps me connect to myself when that connection is weak, is having a little massage moment. I used to think that massage only works if somebody else does it, but its actually not true. It doesn't have to be anything fancy like gua sha (although that's also nice). Just washing my hands, cleaning my face or neck with a pad, putting a little oil or lotion on the tip of my fingers, and giving some love to those acupoints that tend to release tension. I take it to the next level with all sorts of toys like digital or analogue massage devices, brushes, sculp massagers etc. I don't wait for a special day or even for the bath to use my toys. I just spoil myself when this kind of "tune in" moment is needed :) The really cool part is that it all started because my husband wouldnt give me massages. I decided that I'm not waiting for anybody to spoil me/ 2-3 times a year I go to a professional masseuse, and rest of the time - I take care of myself :D
I also recently learned about being firm about my own decision and saying no, it’s really helpful especially for a people pleaser like me
I recognize setting boundaries, but I'm going to be the one to say that if it's a good reason to push your boundaries(like helping your friend move apartments instead of sitting doing nothing/"Self Care"), it's best to communicate your head space and potential compromise like only 1hr and then you need to go home.
If your friend is likely to push your boundaries and manipulate you, they're not a great friend.
If they really need your help and you say no because you don't feel like it, remember that when you're at your next low and seek the help of others.
My feminine energy tip #1 is definitely boundaries, too, but I like boundaries with myself more than with others. Self discipline prevents us from letting others walk on us, and part of that self-discipline is keeping your morals. Don't switch your beliefs because you simply, "don't feel like it"!
I "tune in" using my breath. Physiological Sigh's are great - two quick, sharp inhales through the nose, and a longer exhale through the mouth.
I also find the iffy "no" comes off as if the person doesn't want to or sometimes even as if they're avoiding the person vs. a direct "no" that more so sounds like they just can't. And people are less offended by "I can't make it" vs. "I don't really know if I want to"
today I did my hair as you said 8n one of your shorts....I was so energetic and I was like YESSSSS my hair is gonna rock the world 😂😂😂 but now I look like a puffy mushroom which had a fight with a wolf
humidity gives me "wolf hair" or "witchcraft" as my friend calls it, sometimes perfect hair takes a few tries, your hair will be rocking the world soon!😘😘
I've just realized... I don't know my own limits 😳 I'm constantly in 'fight-or-flight' mode (mostly 'fight'...). Thank you for this video ❤
Thank you ❤ I loved the last one, it's the only one I don't do yet, of the habits you share. 🎉
I'd like to ask you to make a video about our relationship with our body, how to love it more, about the shame we feel. 😊😊
Thank you so much!! Your videos seriously made a change in the way I think, and helped me in many aspects such as socializing&anger management. They should have more exposure and these problems should be brought to awareness since many people in this society nowadays struggle with them a lot
My energy also "sits down" when I sit a lot. For me, smart watch helped, it signals after not moving a while to move around! 😊
I would say listening to ASMR videos help me tune into my femininity because it helps calm me down & just relax me.
My fave daily fem energy booster is taking time to moisturize after the shower using my favorite moisturizer ❤
I do handstands in the kitchen every day while waiting for my coffee :)
For me, I love to take a moment of presence with my fur baby and just be with her. I also love to just take a long breath, or do a child’s pose or forward fold.
Wow the 2 hour not moving makes so much sense. Will do that from now on. 😊😊
I can listen to you all day 💓
I literally almost-cried while watching this. 🤧It's crazy how huuuuge REL I had whole this video. Maybe apart from the first thing, about saying "no", which wasn't anything "wow" for me cause I had a looot of masculin energy whole my life (now I'm 27yo), I grew up with my older brother and other "buddies", and till now I have some longterm, great friendships with guys. So I had to learn how to communicate things straight away ^^'. But I will certainly show it to my mum who struggles so much with setting the boundries.
But when it comes to all the other questions that you raised, all what is related to the body: it was like if you just verbalized precisely what I FEEL naturally and what I have actually done for years, totally not consciuos about the common thread of all of these practices. Mini-energizing-dancing almost everyday and especially to regulate my emotions, a small singing with exaggeration just FOR FUN, putting the music on to almost anything I did just to make it more pleasant and to pump up the energy (which before I didn't assosiate with the 'femininity'). Moving and feeling the body, not structured streeetching, doing automassages just to get to the deep muscles, to inhale and dive into yourself, but also going outside - as you said elsewhere - to connect with the nature. Instead of enumerating all the things that I find so valuable in your videos, maybe I will just say thank you for all you do. :,) 🌺 You probably know that (:D), but I wanted to say that you're really radiating with a truly GOOD, HEALTHY and WISE feminine energy. It's very inspiring, would be fun to meet somewhere in the world, I loooove pump up girly-feminine energy with my girl-friends, it can be so much fun when we just go with the flow with a healthy vibe. :D
OK, anyways, greetings from Poland and take care of yourself! 🥥💖
Putting on a candle before I go for a shower
Love everything you say, being so real in your advice, your videos are so good and genuine ❤️❤️👏👏
Another great video have a great day to all beautiful ladies watching❤
your hair and top and make up are so pretty in this video ⭐️
Omg i have Libra moon too! I can relate to the people pleasing. It was so bad when I was younger but got better as I got older, though it is still there.
Love this! Also, I’m a physical therapist and it’s true that sitting for more than 2 hours is bad for us. Sitting past that time really messes with our blood flow/circulation. So for most people, getting up before the 2 hour mark and walking (even just across the room and back) does wonders 🩷
I would add just gazing at nature. Especially at stars and trees for me 🌲🌳✨
Thanks for an other nice video!
This hair style is very nice! 😊
I love this video and your channel❤ it makes me feel seen,valued and with a purpose. Thank you also for simplify how to be more on our femenine energy
Thank you for sharing. I needed this. Have a wonderful day 🙏🪷
Jillz, you are amazing! You're my hero!
If I’m having a busy day, I like applying hand lotion that smells good and also a moisturizing lip gloss.
Another 30 second habit: when I’m ready to change to a different task, I stop and take 3 deep belly breaths. It’s like a feminine reset
I love it! Specially the last one. Thank you Jillz!
Your dress and its colour is beautiful and also curly hair suits you
I think you did your hair a little differently, and it looks so good! Obviously, your hair always looks gorgeous, but these smaller waves I think might suit your face even better because they start a bit higher, right by your cheekbones
I’m obsessed with your top omg!!
I wish my mom spoke English to understand this video, I would love to send her this, this is so powerful.
and Thank you for normalizing saying no.... In my culture (Iran) saying no is like I don't love you or I don't care about you 😮💨 and I don't like pushing myself and my energy to do something that I don't like
When this video appeared on my feed, I was literally laying in the same position for hours. That advice about moving, even if it's just a little bit, really hit me. I usually have this "all or nothing" mentality where if I can't do a 2 hour workout I shouldn't even bother do anything at all, and that of course makes it so most days I'm not even in the mood to do anything.
On a similar note, I was wondering if you think some "stiffer" or "traditionally male" workouts like weight lifting would leave us with a more masculine energy than yoga or dancing?
OMG! The Universe sent me your video! I didn't know this channel before, but I'm already a subscriber ❤ that thing with seating for too long, oh my gosh IT IS SO TRUE!!!! 😮 Thank for your insight, was very aligned with what I'm going through right now 🙏💖
I literally had a moment today where I worked an extended amount of time sitting, and I sent a text; and then looked back it was such a masculine text haha I was giving a very logistical statement in response to a date
Jillz, thank you so much for your content! ❤️ You're one of my favorite bloggers on UA-cam. I'm really enjoying to follow you
I needed this today I was about to say yes when I am exhausted
One little beauty habit that takes 1 minunte is curling your eyelashes. Even if you don't have time to do all your beauty routine, just that one step and smiling at yourself in the mirror can make a big difference.
Exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you!!
Look around and say thank you to at least one thing or person. ❤
That was great, especially tip number two. Thank you
I haven`t even finished watching the video yet but i just need to say that your hair is goooorgeous, we need to know exactly what you did to it! And btw, this top brings out your best features so well!!
Thanks sooo much for this vid! Just exactly what I needed.☺️💚
Another excellent video Jillz, thank you! You have such lovely ideas, i really appreciate your inspiration ❤ you always look beautiful, but your hair looks very pretty today 😍
Im loving the hair❤❤❤❤
Thank you doll ❤️ Dancing definitely does it for me too ❤️
Nice dog. I think it likes your voice and presence or likes being on camera in the background. Thanks for the video as every one connected with me.
My body is shaking
Thank you for another amazing video on feminine energy! LOVE you hair btw🤩
I would add an asterisk here...*** set up expectations early when you can, and that will also head off some of this -- I'm almost 61, and in the old days, you always responded-- at least with an expected full reply.
Fantastic video, thank you! 🤍
Thank You! What about a video about "people plaesing" and how to get rid of it?
I needed this so much!😭
Me too...❤
maybe rock & metal music don't connect me with feminine energy, but it definitely gives me energy to shine 😂
Wonderful video, thanks jillz☺️
Lots of love n thanks Dear🤗🤗