Sir, this is the best video I have ever seen...I was looking for such type of valuable advice...sir, I can't express in words how much help you have done for me. I watched many clickbait videos, but your videos are clear, crystal and transparent in thumbnail and content. Thank you from the depth of my heart. You are truly fantastic, sir. I feel fortunate to receive such advice from someone like you having a great experience because everyone learns from books, videos and podcasts, but your wisdom comes from experience. 🙏♥️
Dear Amit sir I am 48 and my daughter is now 21 Many thanks for this enlightening talk which will help me to navigate this role of a parent with diligence and responsibility
Because if you fail none, not even your parents will stand behind you. You will be an outcast, abandoned and on your own. That's why crores of youth are wasting their entire youth on government exams just to please their parents. Because these 70-80s parents are happy to spend 10000-20000 rupees each month on their kids government job preparation (when the kid is staying out of his hometown for preparation) but even if he asks a small amount to start a small scale business they will not get it. And if they get it and the business fails it's pretty much over.
Im 28 and even i was unable to choose clothes or even carrer two years ago. I always felt my parents were controlling me directly or indirectly. Now i moved to UK for higher studies and learnt to become independent. I feel very happy.
Honestly, u are like a father many people didn’t have growing up. I mean its like a mirror to the society. I am very sure if parents see this video, they wont be able to last beyond 5mins because the bitter truth would be hard to swallow. “Humare paida krne and paalne k ye sil de rhe ho”….. kisne kaha tha paida kro, kya hum me se koi b apne maa baap ke paas application daalke aaya tha? They gave birth coz unko social acceptance chahie tha of that time ki bacche hogye! But paale kese, ye nai pta. All adults I believe who are 25+ now, have been victims of poor parenting. Thanks, Mr. Sangwan!
Dark video nhi hai bahut clarity dete hai apke videos... Jo society aur family ki reality srf feel hoti thi ap sabko openly bta rhe ho..thats gud fr society... Even my parents.. whenever I tried to take decision about my job... Parents has thrown same dialogue.. kro jo karna hai dekh lena fir..samjhna apna... and this kind of dialogue made me helpless n less confident about my decision..n now m suffering n thinking that Y I did not take decision at that tym.. why I got entangled in that emotional drama of parents...
Uncle I keep sending your videos to friends. In free time, while driving or eating I put your videos and correlate everything you speak and totally agree. Will surely increase👍
Sir, you are giving clarity to youth. Today's parents are not supportive in the name of generation gap, they don't want to change their conventional mindsets and family quarrels and old habbits. The way they withdraw their support and stay to see if we pass or succeed like a judge is shameful!
Totally my n my sibling's story . I hav realized much earlier n been in depression since i was 17. Now my sister is much above 30 n still unmarried n she dont accept that our not concerned about finding boy for her after looking for it once 5 years ago. For me they seems to hav zero concern n never asked me. Although i dont want to marry since17 but my sister has been brainwashed in being good girl n she is totally immature.
I'm a parent of grown up children myself but I agree fully with you. Parents have to be unselfish and secure so as to give support and confidence to the children
kheela...yes they did..I am known but irony is they are still not feeling guilt..and they even feel themselves contends by letting me down..I am now too late..in all sphere..but I will fight..to stand myself alone....
Feels like I rly needed this ryt now. We all can agree that instead of pulling motivation out of thin air like other motivational speakers. Amit sir talks realistic and practical. 🙏🙏
Thank you thank you thank you soo so soo soo much.. Sir sir.. Aj is video se meri finally ek confusion dur hogayi.... Yes self doubt bht hogaya he.. Decision lene me v daar lagta he.. Ab totally focus hun.. Or clarity agayi... ✌✌✌✌😊😊😊😊😊
My God, if I would have relied on my narcissistic parents for my marriage, they got so non sense alliance, I chose and when I said, they became furious and warned to take my all communication modes. My present husband came and we married in my parents absence.
I think this has to do with increased aspirations among youth and their parents post liberalisation in 1990s. In 1970s and 1980s, expectations were low of life in general.
And previous generations ko yeh syndrome hai ki unse bara tees maar khan dunia mein nahi h. Don't worry about the fact ki unhone kuch ukhara nahi tha and corruption was to the bone.
Those who are watching this content kasam khaa lo ki jab tum chacha,mama,tau,chachi,mami tum unke baccho ko support karoge if they have good thoughts.....unki pair nahi keechoge....motivate aur samjane ki koshish karnenge
one thing is, we are brought up within 4 walls (house, school, college, jobs) all are within 4 walls. people like Edison, Steve Jobs, henry ford, Issac Newton were never in 4 walls, they learned their life lessons in real practical world. also school curriculum esp Maths, IQ, Aptitude is given too much undue importance. I feel economics, social science should be given equal importance as Maths
Sir, the upload frequency is on fire nowadays! Although, I disagree with you sometimes you have always acted as the devil's advocate of my life. Before taking a decision on anything, I generally search if you have a video on the topic. Please keep the great content coming!
The topic u have pulled is very serious issue of youths.....i am in a relationship with a boy 1yr yonger than me....when my paents got to know about our relationship they got furious and my mom started crying and saying ki they will not be able to show their face to the society fr the rest of their life just because he is younger than me....they keep on giving lame excuses and warned me to leave that guy immediately..... Even they took decision that they will marry me and they already talked to some old relatives of us to find a guy fr me without my knowledge and my consent..... FYI m a independent girl doing job earing and not dependent on them fr money....but still they always tell me i won't be able to take any decision and i don't know how the society is.... I mean its so funny😂 that i am a doctor doing job earning money staying a different state alone and moreover deals with many people everyday.....but still i don't know how is the society....strange na???😂😂
Mere baap ne bhi meko apne upar depend kr ke rakhna chaha humesha . Pr hum to apni marzi chalane wale aadmi hai......mere baap ka plan kaam nhi kr paya
Sir I could have liked you video and it could have been "778"th liked one. But I didnt press like button bco then you could have missed your " 777" Lucky number. I didn't wanted to change that lucky number for you. But Liked this video a lot. Thanks for the useful content.
I made a very big mistake. After 12 pcm i enrolled myself into BA program. I am in final year now and i have no option other than working in lower strata of private enterprises.
Guru ji m a well settled 27 years girl, found a perfect compatible well settled boy but my father and my cousin brothers are not even ready to meet him.. what should i do??
And the worst part is इनका attitude " हम तुम्हे पालं के तुम्हारा खर्चा उठा कर तुमपे एहसान कर रहे है!!!"..... "भाई मेरी क्या गलती मे ऐसे समय पे पैदा हुआ? 😂"...... इतना ही था तो abortion करके मार डालते हमे 😂
Sir, this is the best video I have ever seen...I was looking for such type of valuable advice...sir, I can't express in words how much help you have done for me. I watched many clickbait videos, but your videos are clear, crystal and transparent in thumbnail and content. Thank you from the depth of my heart. You are truly fantastic, sir.
I feel fortunate to receive such advice from someone like you having a great experience because everyone learns from books, videos and podcasts, but your wisdom comes from experience. 🙏♥️
this should be shared on linkedin and best convocation video for desi's (indian peninsula, nri, iits iim etc)
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Dear Amit sir
I am 48 and my daughter is now 21
Many thanks for this enlightening talk which will help me to navigate this role of a parent with diligence and responsibility
Because if you fail none, not even your parents will stand behind you. You will be an outcast, abandoned and on your own. That's why crores of youth are wasting their entire youth on government exams just to please their parents. Because these 70-80s parents are happy to spend 10000-20000 rupees each month on their kids government job preparation (when the kid is staying out of his hometown for preparation) but even if he asks a small amount to start a small scale business they will not get it. And if they get it and the business fails it's pretty much over.
Im 28 and even i was unable to choose clothes or even carrer two years ago. I always felt my parents were controlling me directly or indirectly. Now i moved to UK for higher studies and learnt to become independent. I feel very happy.
Honestly, u are like a father many people didn’t have growing up. I mean its like a mirror to the society.
I am very sure if parents see this video, they wont be able to last beyond 5mins because the bitter truth would be hard to swallow.
“Humare paida krne and paalne k ye sil de rhe ho”….. kisne kaha tha paida kro, kya hum me se koi b apne maa baap ke paas application daalke aaya tha? They gave birth coz unko social acceptance chahie tha of that time ki bacche hogye! But paale kese, ye nai pta.
All adults I believe who are 25+ now, have been victims of poor parenting.
Thanks, Mr. Sangwan!
Right
Nailed it!
Dark video nhi hai bahut clarity dete hai apke videos... Jo society aur family ki reality srf feel hoti thi ap sabko openly bta rhe ho..thats gud fr society... Even my parents.. whenever I tried to take decision about my job... Parents has thrown same dialogue.. kro jo karna hai dekh lena fir..samjhna apna... and this kind of dialogue made me helpless n less confident about my decision..n now m suffering n thinking that Y I did not take decision at that tym.. why I got entangled in that emotional drama of parents...
I second your thought process. Be your children’s backbone and not the manipulator.
Your kids are lucky to have a father adviser like u
Yeh साक्षात विघ्नहर्ता गणेश का रूप है 🙇
Thanks Guruji for empowering us
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Very sad state to see that our generation has toxic parents! Almost everyone around complaining...!!
Uncle I keep sending your videos to friends. In free time, while driving or eating I put your videos and correlate everything you speak and totally agree. Will surely increase👍
@@tiscachip 😂😂
Sir, you are giving clarity to youth. Today's parents are not supportive in the name of generation gap, they don't want to change their conventional mindsets and family quarrels and old habbits. The way they withdraw their support and stay to see if we pass or succeed like a judge is shameful!
Totally my n my sibling's story . I hav realized much earlier n been in depression since i was 17. Now my sister is much above 30 n still unmarried n she dont accept that our not concerned about finding boy for her after looking for it once 5 years ago. For me they seems to hav zero concern n never asked me. Although i dont want to marry since17 but my sister has been brainwashed in being good girl n she is totally immature.
Haryanvi tao is new top g from 🇮🇳
I'm a parent of grown up children myself but I agree fully with you. Parents have to be unselfish and secure so as to give support and confidence to the children
Goldstandard of Clarity
खेला हुआ है 🙏👍👏 परफेक्ट बात बोली है सांगवानजी
kheela...yes they did..I am known but irony is they are still not feeling guilt..and they even feel themselves contends by letting me down..I am now too late..in all sphere..but I will fight..to stand myself alone....
Feels like I rly needed this ryt now. We all can agree that instead of pulling motivation out of thin air like other motivational speakers. Amit sir talks realistic and practical.
🙏🙏
Sir your content is very helpful and logically decision not emotionally with reality in society 🔥👍
Sir, aap itni simplicity se itne pyar se ...kaise sabki dukhti rakh par hath rakh dete hai... 🙏🙏
Already shared your channel in my family, friends groups
You would be a very good father
Great Service to youth of present generation. Sharing with my two doctor children ❤
Sir boht bdia,maza aa jata h aapki vdo dekh ke,god bless you
Amit Ji you are the man on ground…. Fully in touch with the realities of the world both past n present….. thank u genuinely so much sir…
Very true sir,lots of self doubts we youth have and u are giving so much clarity
Totally agree with you sir and thanks for taking this wonderful session.
Ek number Sir bang on target 🎯💯 identified current issues
"The Family Man of India"😀
Thank you thank you thank you soo so soo soo much.. Sir sir.. Aj is video se meri finally ek confusion dur hogayi.... Yes self doubt bht hogaya he.. Decision lene me v daar lagta he.. Ab totally focus hun.. Or clarity agayi... ✌✌✌✌😊😊😊😊😊
can you share which decision so that it may help everybody who is struggling to make some descision
You have a lots of courage sir. To touch upon this invisible issue in families
Clarity for Youth, Jaisa naam waisa content
Completely Identifying
My God, if I would have relied on my narcissistic parents for my marriage, they got so non sense alliance, I chose and when I said, they became furious and warned to take my all communication modes. My present husband came and we married in my parents absence.
Amazing topic . Thank you 🙏🏼 for bringing it up and guidance . Wonderful .
Dear Amit Sangwan Sir, Kindly make video on social anxiety disorder .
Thank you sir for this type of content 🙏
Very truly said, really an eye opener 🙏
Your thoughts are really exceptional and worth
Thanks sir for your advice 🙏
बहुत बढ़िया मार्गदर्शन क्या बात है गजब श्रीमान जी ❤❤
Sir maza aagya i will share it along my networks
True, jesa type ka ladka parents ko chahiye woh mill nhi rhi... aur jo mil rhi hai woh parents ko pasand nhi 😭😭 am 30 now..
What do you do
I think this has to do with increased aspirations among youth and their parents post liberalisation in 1990s. In 1970s and 1980s, expectations were low of life in general.
No one else is making videos like this.Society needs such videos.
Very important video sir. Thank you so much for bringing such issues.
And previous generations ko yeh syndrome hai ki unse bara tees maar khan dunia mein nahi h.
Don't worry about the fact ki unhone kuch ukhara nahi tha and corruption was to the bone.
Sir guru g.. Apki vedio muje shanti deti h.. Thanq
Good one , very precious advice 🙏❤️😇💐
Amazing and Brilliant Advice Sir.... Grateful to have this clarity
I had took strong decision long time back for my study so I got good job .
May I know what was that decision
you are always 100% true as it relates.
Facts Sirji 💯⚔️👌
Your videos are a blessing in disguise :) Thank You!
Those who are watching this content kasam khaa lo ki jab tum chacha,mama,tau,chachi,mami tum unke baccho ko support karoge if they have good thoughts.....unki pair nahi keechoge....motivate aur samjane ki koshish karnenge
This video must be Viral
one thing is, we are brought up within 4 walls (house, school, college, jobs) all are within 4 walls. people like Edison, Steve Jobs, henry ford, Issac Newton were never in 4 walls, they learned their life lessons in real practical world. also school curriculum esp Maths, IQ, Aptitude is given too much undue importance. I feel economics, social science should be given equal importance as Maths
Subscribed sir....I thank you for your video....parents too should learn from it.
You are god for this genz❤
Sir, the upload frequency is on fire nowadays!
Although, I disagree with you sometimes you have always acted as the devil's advocate of my life.
Before taking a decision on anything, I generally search if you have a video on the topic. Please keep the great content coming!
tau ji, aap mahan ho 👍🏻
Sir dil ki baat boldi aapne.
Sir I have tried to get 5 subscribers . I am greatly benefited by your videos .. thankyou.
It was a ray of life in some really dark times
I liked nd shared to 10 friends who i think will relate to this🌟
The topic u have pulled is very serious issue of youths.....i am in a relationship with a boy 1yr yonger than me....when my paents got to know about our relationship they got furious and my mom started crying and saying ki they will not be able to show their face to the society fr the rest of their life just because he is younger than me....they keep on giving lame excuses and warned me to leave that guy immediately.....
Even they took decision that they will marry me and they already talked to some old relatives of us to find a guy fr me without my knowledge and my consent.....
FYI m a independent girl doing job earing and not dependent on them fr money....but still they always tell me i won't be able to take any decision and i don't know how the society is....
I mean its so funny😂 that i am a doctor doing job earning money staying a different state alone and moreover deals with many people everyday.....but still i don't know how is the society....strange na???😂😂
Yes. You can take on own decisions
Great
Mere baap ne bhi meko apne upar depend kr ke rakhna chaha humesha
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Pr hum to apni marzi chalane wale aadmi hai......mere baap ka plan kaam nhi kr paya
Sahi kaha sir ji.
I have gone through such situation but managed to succeed becuase of my strong decision making skill.
100% correct .
Yes, I identify this matter
Thanks so much
Perfect for future parents too
Sir I could have liked you video and it could have been "778"th liked one. But I didnt press like button bco then you could have missed your " 777" Lucky number. I didn't wanted to change that lucky number for you. But Liked this video a lot. Thanks for the useful content.
Sir aap bhaut aacha kaam kar rahe ho , maine aapki video maine apne dosto ko share kiya tha magar woh log Prashant acharya ke chakkar m fasse huye h ,
Thank u 💓
Acha Laga sir, Makes me see what is happening around!
yes i identify.
Love this video....🎉
True 👍..
Plz do video on live in relationships
Plz do video on antinatalism
Eye opener
Best content Guruji
I made a very big mistake. After 12 pcm i enrolled myself into BA program. I am in final year now and i have no option other than working in lower strata of private enterprises.
Study ias
Do mba
Awesome 👌 👏 👍
Nice. Eye opening video
True
This is a very good video sir 👍
U r bagavan bangaye sir ... iam example of what u say....being distiction candidate ..i am loosing confidence ....u r one who talked my situation
Thank-you
I want to share this video with my father specifically the initial part
When there is no job or income than it is better to become alone instead of taking responsibility of a wife & children's & their maintenance.
I'm so lucky, my parents don't push me at all anymore to do anything
Guru ji m a well settled 27 years girl, found a perfect compatible well settled boy but my father and my cousin brothers are not even ready to meet him.. what should i do??
Loved the video sir ❤️
Please explore insights on unschooling and homeschooling
Sir, pls make a video on how to do job in Metro cities?? Because not stable in single company
Excellent video !
Aaj meri mummy or meri behas hogyi ki maa baap kyu nhi chhodte bachho ko mene bola lalach ab now she’s behaving strange 😂
😂😂😂
And the worst part is इनका attitude " हम तुम्हे पालं के तुम्हारा खर्चा उठा कर तुमपे एहसान कर रहे है!!!"..... "भाई मेरी क्या गलती मे ऐसे समय पे पैदा हुआ? 😂"...... इतना ही था तो abortion करके मार डालते हमे 😂
Seriously, my father used to always make me realise he is doing ehsan for doing things for me which is a parent's duty
True
Tru 🤣