Letting go of friendships...

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  • Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
  • Hey Y'all!
    Letting go of friendships was a topic suggested by an Instagram follower and it was something I've wanted to speak on for a while, so it was the perfect topic to kick off more chit chat style videos.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 44

  • @ebo7310
    @ebo7310 Рік тому +12

    I cut off friends 4 years ago and haven't looked back. It was too one-sided friendships. I pray GOD bring me in alignment with new friends.

  • @Golden_oree
    @Golden_oree Рік тому +16

    I needed this
    Because I have been struggling with a lost of a friendship for years, it really did hurt

  • @IreneElla
    @IreneElla Рік тому +8

    Loved this. I’m grateful that I’m naturally comfortable being alone. But I have to be more conscious of being intentional during those alone times.

    • @laporchatanzale
      @laporchatanzale  Рік тому +1

      I’m comfortable being alone too! Which has kept me from having a solid group of sister friends, cause I’m TOO comfortable. 🤣

  • @racheljenkins1501
    @racheljenkins1501 Рік тому

    My My, Love It….. GLORY HALLELUJAH

  • @racheljenkins1501
    @racheljenkins1501 Рік тому

    WOW, I’m 48, I Bless GOD For Your Wisdom, GLORY HALLELUJAH

  • @MyeshaB
    @MyeshaB Рік тому +1

    Thank you for the word about filling voids with Jesus👏🏾

  • @shanellbell7145
    @shanellbell7145 Рік тому +3

    As much as it hurt when we are no longer connected to our past relationships/friendships God really do have certain people in your life for a season and I had to realize that. How you know when it’s God doing is when there is no Confrontation because God is not the author of confusion
    1 Corinthians 14:33. God allowed that relationship to be let go without Anger 😊

  • @only1specialk
    @only1specialk Рік тому

    Yes I was cut off and I still don’t know why. This is so real I definitely grieved that friendship

  • @JaneOnyebuchi
    @JaneOnyebuchi Рік тому +9

    Am struggling with growing with God pray for me 🥺🙏🏼

    • @Augusttaffy
      @Augusttaffy Рік тому +1

      Same. I’m trying!! But, same.

    • @JaneOnyebuchi
      @JaneOnyebuchi Рік тому

      @@Augusttaffy God help us 🤲🏽

    • @W1erd_Z3ldaK1d
      @W1erd_Z3ldaK1d Рік тому

      Same I’m struggling, but I’ll pray for you guys ❤

  • @girlmeetsworld4062
    @girlmeetsworld4062 Рік тому +1

    Thank you....I needed this!!

    • @laporchatanzale
      @laporchatanzale  Рік тому +1

      Thanks for watching! Glad you found it helpful. 🤗

  • @missbee9923
    @missbee9923 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for this!! ❤

  • @delisataylor9887
    @delisataylor9887 Рік тому

    This vlog was so rich with wisdom! I love that you encourage that we look at "ME"! I have been through a similar situation, and we mutually agreed that the friendship served its season. What are your thoughts about that? Do you think some friendships are seasonal...not that you fell out, but you moved forward on your own paths that may not include the other in the same capacity it once did?

  • @Livin4menow
    @Livin4menow Рік тому +3

    I literally just stopped talking to someone I considered my bff of 16yrs
    They did something we can't come back from

    • @laporchatanzale
      @laporchatanzale  Рік тому +4

      I really hate to hear that, but if it was a betrayal of that magnitude, I GET IT and applaud the boundaries!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @MsHouston5385
    @MsHouston5385 Рік тому +1

    💜💜 love this and your content. I'm currently struggling with losing a relationship, so I understand this all too well

  • @JaneOnyebuchi
    @JaneOnyebuchi Рік тому

    Thank you so much 😭😭😭🥺

  • @MyeshaB
    @MyeshaB Рік тому

    Can you share how you get your hair in a sleek bun at this length? What gel did you use?

    • @laporchatanzale
      @laporchatanzale  Рік тому +1

      I just did this style last night and something told me to film it lol. I’ll do it again and film it. But I use The Doux Mousse Def, a little Big Poppa and Push It on my edges. All from The Doux.

    • @MyeshaB
      @MyeshaB Рік тому

      @LaPorcha Tanzale I would have never guessed lol I will be on the lookout for the video. Thank you

  • @JaneOnyebuchi
    @JaneOnyebuchi Рік тому

    I miss my best friend 🥺💔

    • @laporchatanzale
      @laporchatanzale  Рік тому

      I definitely understand how you feel. It will get better, turn to God and seek His help in healing. ❤️

  • @ribbon_w_bow1404
    @ribbon_w_bow1404 Рік тому +3

    I love your content. It is high quality and well needed on this platform. 🤎

  • @tiarasiobhon
    @tiarasiobhon Рік тому +1

    I love this video! Helpful and I hope God gives me strength to keep a heart posture of Forgiveness 🤍

  • @ylstaggs
    @ylstaggs Рік тому +9

    I’m so proud of you walking with the most high God, keep doing what you are doing!❤️🙏🏽

  • @thebecominginitiative
    @thebecominginitiative Рік тому +4

    Wow this is so good! I’ve been struggling with a 3 year friendship that ended through a text. Turned out she was offended by something that happened early in our friendship that she never spoke on. She admitted to lying about getting the group chat text messages for my birthday trip last year. This friendship ended months ago but honestly the Shanquella Robinson case has triggered me because my previous friend went years having an issue with me and hid it.
    I’m glad you talked about looking at ourselves and growing closer to God in the process.
    This video blessed me and I def just subscribed 💕

  • @JeTuaAmos
    @JeTuaAmos Рік тому +2

    Great video...Bottom line is-Draw Closer to GOD...and everything else will branch from that! Thanks for this video!

    • @laporchatanzale
      @laporchatanzale  Рік тому

      Basically!! 😂 Thanks for watching sis! 🤗😘

  • @Nicolee7764
    @Nicolee7764 Рік тому

    Being so close to your friend, l would have asked her, why she was upset. That happened to me with a friend that l knew since highschool. It was really unfortunate, it was very sad. Plus, she wasn't a christian so that's usually, what happens when dealing with those who are in the world or spiritually immature.

  • @tashundrarobinson3792
    @tashundrarobinson3792 Рік тому

    But it's the slick back hair for me 😍 blessings to you and your videos are always so good

  • @missserwaa_
    @missserwaa_ Рік тому

    Will you consider being friends with that friend again if she came back?

    • @laporchatanzale
      @laporchatanzale  Рік тому +4

      I would pray on it and see what the Lord says. There’s no grudges or anything, but I’d rather be obedient to what He says. He knows peoples hearts and intent towards us.