Even on Bad Days [M4F] [You Comfort Me] [Reverse comfort] [Depression] [Loving and Supportive]

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  • Опубліковано 9 лис 2024

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  • @Sara-py7yw
    @Sara-py7yw Рік тому +114

    YES. REVERSE COMFORT. YES.

  • @sydm5237
    @sydm5237 Рік тому +67

    I'm only 5 minutes into this audio and it already hits hard. I've been on my anti-depressants for a year and one month now and I'm slowly starting to ween myself off of them. It's been a long and hard journey and I went through a lot of it by myself because I didn't want to bother anyone with my problems. But I'm proud of the progress I've made.
    For anyone else who's had to struggle, you're not alone and there are people who are willing to help you. Reaching out is the hardest part. But it really does get easier with each little step.

    • @jasminewilli7685
      @jasminewilli7685 Рік тому +1

      You are right. Reaching out is the hardest part.

  • @YvetteGriggs
    @YvetteGriggs Рік тому +39

    Dude, I’ve never went through anything like this, but heck, it shows that not only women go through depression. It felt _so_ real to listen to - VERY beautiful job, Cardlin!

  • @robertamattos1688
    @robertamattos1688 Рік тому +28

    Man, that audio really hit me. The constant feeling of feeling alone (even though you're not) is so real that I hate remembering it. But thanks for the audio, Cardlin, and Moriah for this beautiful script.

  • @harmonygalpal9
    @harmonygalpal9 Рік тому +21

    I understand this. I was diagnosed with depression when I was 17. I am now 52 and had these same issues. I have finally found a good balance with amazing family, friends, doctors, meds, and my church. Always listen to those who struggle

    • @S-Possum
      @S-Possum Рік тому +1

      Someone really close to me is also diagnosed, could you please give some advice on what I should do when he has bad days? He and l live in dofferent countries so it feels like im doing nothing. I know that listening to what he needs to say helps, but sometimes l get...kind of toxic positive (im not even sjre if thats a thing) and l struggle with having a balance between beong optimistic and remind him not all bad things are permanent..

    • @harmonygalpal9
      @harmonygalpal9 Рік тому +2

      @rukila keep doing what you are doing. Talking about the problem is a big step. You being there is what counts and I can help you if needed

  • @Kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk717
    @Kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk717 Рік тому +13

    REVERSE COMFORT??? WE WON Y'ALL

  • @DiaDidit
    @DiaDidit Рік тому +11

    We need more reverse videos 😩😩

  • @sirename2358
    @sirename2358 Рік тому +4

    Cardlin i know you do scripts people write but a part of me thinks you chose to do this one because you might not be feeling all that great..
    you're always there for us, the good fans will support you when you arnt feeling well.
    Instead of thinking what scares you remember
    were you are and what you can do not what you can't.not what's gonna go wrong
    just focus on what's right.
    If you feel like your worrid about your weight I'm confident a lot of use would love to do fitness with you haha make it a challenge if you want I'll be fun
    Change is hard and what you new as normal will probably never be the same.
    That's not as bad as it seems
    I learned that
    once you get to the other side of Change
    you find a better normal and one day you'll look forward to the new normal.
    We love you and we love the person you become every day good or bad
    Even when you feel like you can't win and you try and try and it all still falls appart , your growing as a person rest a moment
    youll find a new method but It only fair that when you need someone there Nothing wrong with that.
    People / things ment to stay in your life will stay and it's OK if some people / people are no longer in your life
    your not crazy for out growing things/ people.
    If people can't respect that you are a person with lovely flaws then don't think about there approval or adoration .
    Doubt I have depression but
    I understand that, feeling of being so alone
    how it feel like greaveing in your chest so strongly
    when laying down
    After haveing
    what seamed like a nice day and just wanting to be held.
    Us fans are here for you Cardlin we love you
    Something the strongest thing you can do is cry and let yourself be supported . I hope the days you feel down are few.

  • @notmymain3372
    @notmymain3372 Рік тому +9

    Guys..WE MUST PROTECT HIM

  • @jackiedaytona666
    @jackiedaytona666 Рік тому +4

    This might come of weird, but I find comfort in this video in a sense that someone is also going through the same thing... It's hard for me to convey what I feel sometimes, thinking it doesn't make sense to other people. But cardlin took the words I wanted to say out of my mouth. It really feels like you're alone, and that nobody, however much you explain, will ever get you. But this audio made me feel less alone. Also motivated me to take my meds again... So thank you for this :>

  • @vividmilkk
    @vividmilkk Рік тому +7

    this is so accurate and im bawling

  • @cemetaryarchnemesis
    @cemetaryarchnemesis Рік тому +3

    NOOOOOOOO CARDLIN
    *is ok cardlin your gonna be ok☹️*

  • @fanofmoonsilk4516
    @fanofmoonsilk4516 Рік тому +10

    Oh no.. I hope you’re doing alright Cardlin :( I know if things are rough right now, it’ll start to get easier through time I know it’s hard to hear from a stranger in the comments but I believe in my own heart that you will get better

  • @MagicMerlin-je8wm
    @MagicMerlin-je8wm Рік тому +3

    As someone who has successfully been off my anti represents for a year I can say things do get better and the storm will pass. ❤❤❤❤ everyone has hard times and u are not alone

  • @Taro_Sasaki
    @Taro_Sasaki Рік тому +5

    I genuinely are concerned cardlin if you need a break take one, and "I'm always here for you baby awe ☺️🤭😭" - to cardlin in audio and irl

  • @rubyb7252
    @rubyb7252 Рік тому +4

    that last question at the end... like bruhhhh *incoherent noises* you can't just come at us with a question like that like bruhhhhh

  • @yaza7570
    @yaza7570 Рік тому +5

    i clicked the second I got the notification, this viedo made my day 10 times better. 10/10 would watch again

  • @bratzbabie
    @bratzbabie Рік тому +1

    "what's it like to feel normal" boi I don't know I'm on lithium

  • @hannahvankuiken4664
    @hannahvankuiken4664 Рік тому +2

    I was looking at the newer DC Comics and noticed that Cardlin looks like Victor from the Victor and Nora: A Gotham Love Story comic. I was severely nerding out! Great job on the video Cardlin. This video was the perfect mixture of sad and fuzzy. Very moving.

  • @Soulshine00
    @Soulshine00 Рік тому +3

    Okay in all seriousness y'all. I'm going through an Ego death and the way he describes himself feeling is exactly what I am feeling. If y'all are going through something. Or in my case are trying to process trauma of the past.
    It's gonna be a painful process but you'll be so much better on the other side.
    Random rage and anxiety fades. You don't have to push people away in attempt to protect yourself from more hurt. (Speaking from my own experience) you'll be different on the other side of it but you'll be a happier, wholer, healed person.
    Shadow work is a bitch

  • @carmelgirl6
    @carmelgirl6 Рік тому +5

    Baby boy please don’t cry 🥺

  • @apdofficer2104
    @apdofficer2104 Рік тому +3

    APD APPROVED
    Fun fact: Movie trailers were originally shown after the movie.
    Until we meet again

  • @Ni_kki17
    @Ni_kki17 Рік тому +4

    I've been on antidepressants since 2019 and I recently changed my meds. Even if this is reverse comforting it was, somehow, comforting for myself too... Thanks!

  • @emmaa1579
    @emmaa1579 Рік тому +4

    wow this hit me like a tonne of bricks 🥺

  • @OMGitsKristinaxD
    @OMGitsKristinaxD 9 місяців тому +1

    Do you think you could… maybe do a… reverse surprise homecoming? 🤔❤️

  • @myherochatnoir
    @myherochatnoir Рік тому +4

    ahhh so excited to listen to this 🫶🏻

  • @milliegoodwin2006
    @milliegoodwin2006 Рік тому +6

    first one here yay i love your vids cardlin

  • @anachucair6964
    @anachucair6964 Рік тому +3

    First one here!!! Lovely video cardlin ❤️❤️

  • @englishperson4671
    @englishperson4671 Рік тому +4

    Dam 28 seconds, my account knows me well.

  • @dolfinlovermylo17
    @dolfinlovermylo17 Рік тому +3

    The bad thoughts: muhahahaaaaaa least give him depresio-------
    The subscribers: OH HELL NAH ! *Gets bazooka* get back where u came from

  • @charlottealloh2474
    @charlottealloh2474 Рік тому +3

    Yay thanks cardin

  • @Night-Anon
    @Night-Anon Рік тому +2

    ❤❤

  • @smellypoou
    @smellypoou Рік тому +3

    🫶🫶

  • @DaniS-wz6mw
    @DaniS-wz6mw Рік тому +3

    Omg Cardi!!! You read my mind I was searching on videos how to comfort you! Yes!
    Now we can give the same love and care to you! The best boyfriend-husband-friend ever🥹🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍🤗🤗🤗🤗