Update on Weston & Myself

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  • @barrjensen
    @barrjensen Рік тому +1033

    There’s no guide book for grief. Allow yourself to feel how you feel. ❤️

    • @WallFlower852
      @WallFlower852 Рік тому +10

      Yes…❤

    • @richbrucejr5681
      @richbrucejr5681 Рік тому +16

      Exactly you do things on your pace and lean on your little boy little kids help so much...

    • @kathymitchellpollock8075
      @kathymitchellpollock8075 Рік тому +14

      God bless you. I haven't been able to do anything. It's been a little over a year a ND I think the fog is lifting.
      You have a wonderful,strong family. You brought hope and ideas to alot of people. Keep taking one day at a time.

    • @kathymitchellpollock8075
      @kathymitchellpollock8075 Рік тому +14

      Haley heart foundation. ❤️ something she kept saying. It's planted in my mind and heart

    • @dim_the_bosswwe6887
      @dim_the_bosswwe6887 Рік тому +7

      Hayley, Weston's beautiful mum is with him everyday, I guess that's why he picks you up x. Look out for signs...there is NO time on grief. I'm still grieving after 17yrs...it's not as bad, but it's there. Stay strong 💪. Watching & praying for you both from Tasmania Australia 🇦🇺

  • @fizer718
    @fizer718 Рік тому +87

    I lost my previous husband to cancer when he was 29. We had 4 sons and 1 daughter. Grief is indeed an absolute monster, but 15 years later I can say we have a good good God, he gave us a tremendous gift, we were so blessed to share the years we did get with him. What a gift

  • @lanelleroper7710
    @lanelleroper7710 Рік тому +381

    Oh please don’t stop your channel. I am 61 years old and lost my son two years ago and my husband of 43 years this past March. I definitely am all too familiar with grief. You will never know how much you help me by talking about your grief journey. May God bless you and Weston and I will definitely continue praying for the two of you!!

    • @shari250
      @shari250 Рік тому +23

      So sorry for your loss

    • @lanelleroper7710
      @lanelleroper7710 Рік тому +16

      Thank you

    • @dawnsullivan6794
      @dawnsullivan6794 Рік тому +11

      I’m very sorry for your horrendous losses. May the Lord bless you and bring you comfort. 🤗❤️🙏🏻

    • @lanelleroper7710
      @lanelleroper7710 Рік тому +8

      Thank you so very much. Your kind words helps so much. It is the worst thing to ever go through. If not for my faith and knowing I will be with them again I could not make it everyday!

    • @Vivianharper4249
      @Vivianharper4249 Рік тому +4

      @@lanelleroper7710my dad lost my brother 2 years ago on the 18th he was 40 and lost my brother last mother in 1984 she was 22. He said it was hard losing her and knowing my brothers would have to grow up without a mom but he said my brothers passing was so much worse. He has good says and said all sudden it just hits him. My brother’s house is next to my dads and he said it helps to just go and sit that he can still feel him there. Prayers for you

  • @juanitagarcia2749
    @juanitagarcia2749 Рік тому +292

    Haley was an amazing woman for sharing her story with the world.

    • @cynthiahouareau3931
      @cynthiahouareau3931 Рік тому +4

      GOD BLESS YOU and sustains you HE. Will come thru for you HE is everpresent help in times of trouble

    • @GD-xc4wg
      @GD-xc4wg Рік тому +1

      True

  • @amccave30
    @amccave30 Рік тому +25

    Thank you for sharing your story. I will continue to pray for you and Weston

  • @angielyons6914
    @angielyons6914 Рік тому +45

    Grief is an all consuming battle! I lost my husband unexpectedly 19 years ago, I was 36! While some people say time is the healer, I would say GOD gives us Grace each day and walks us into the new path of our lives! He never leaves us! Always allow yourself to feel your feelings and cling to GOD and your loved ones! GOD Bless you, Weston and your families!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @donnaarbaugh7596
    @donnaarbaugh7596 Рік тому +38

    Haleys Heart. That's a perfect name for a perfect angel and her foundation. Simple, but says it all. God bless

  • @wendyoldendorf7254
    @wendyoldendorf7254 Рік тому +25

    Thank you for the update! I am glad you are not discontinuing your channel! Sometimes the Best therapy is “Opening up to strangers” about the Toughest things in life! Where there is Deep Grief, there was Great Love…… 🙏🏻

  • @valerie-y1h
    @valerie-y1h Рік тому +144

    As a former grief therapist, I always say grief is a representative of how deeply we loved our person. When it arises, it a reminder that our love for each other surpasses a lifetime. The relationship is redefined because they are longer here in the physical realm which is so painful but our grief reminds us that our love for each other continues and consequently so does our longing.
    Hayley’s story and embodiment of God’s love has truly shifted my perspective of how I want to show up this world. Thank you for sharing God bless you and Weston!

    • @lildebboston455
      @lildebboston455 Рік тому +8

      That was really nice...

    • @rhondaillar3906
      @rhondaillar3906 Рік тому +5

    • @OneLove101.
      @OneLove101. Рік тому +10

      This is lovely and so true. It helped me when I lost my Mum. I just kept thinking it was worth the pain, for having the best Mum possible. Great advice, especially for Taylor & little Weston. ❤️

  • @kathikamholz2100
    @kathikamholz2100 Рік тому +11

    It’s great you’re staying busy and going out.
    Grief will never go away; it will ease

  • @traceymckeenyyc
    @traceymckeenyyc Рік тому +237

    After losing both of my parents before i turned 35, I have learned grief is not linear. Even after 15 years of my Mom passing, some days it feels like it happened yesterday.
    One piece of advice I can give is that it is ok to enjoy life. I had the biggest guilt the first time I laughed after their passing. But soon I realized, they would want to hear my laugh again and to enjoy the life God gave me.

    • @Woods277
      @Woods277 Рік тому +5

      Tracey I am so sry hun. ❤ I hope God Gives you so much Love and strength..and I hope you can find joy in the little things everyday. There are waiting for you in Heaven ❤

    • @Boricua..4
      @Boricua..4 Рік тому +3

      My momma been gone 15 years as well 💕🙏🏻💕🙏🏻

    • @Woods277
      @Woods277 Рік тому +5

      @@Boricua..4 God bless you! I’m
      Sure it never gets easier you just get stronger. You are so loved 🥰

    • @deborahg.9319
      @deborahg.9319 Рік тому +5

      I understand about the loss of your parents and mine. My mom died in my arms and I was her hospice nurse. She wanted me not another nurse and I was so happy to take care of her. But I suffered anticipatory grief before she died alone in my bedroom at night while she was with me at my home, because I didn't want her to know how depressed I was. I put on a fake act in front of her but inside I was dying. It is 18 years since she died. It was 11 p.m. on July 21, 2005, in Pa. When she died in my arms. My mom was 79 when she died of lung cancer and she never smoked. Then to watch my 87 year old father grieve every day....and go to her grave daily with a lawn chair sitting there crying and talking to her....and praying the rosary hurt my heart so much. I grieved for my mom and dad. My dad died 8 years later, but he went down hill fast and he got dementia. I lost them both and I cried so much five years for my mom died, and a continuum of grief watching my dad go down hill every day after she died. I still cry for my mom. It creeps up on me out of the blue like you do for your parents even though my parents died so long ago. Life is not thevsame for me since I lost my parents. I am sorry for your deep loss also. God bless you.

    • @Woods277
      @Woods277 Рік тому +3

      @@deborahg.9319 God was and is always still watching over you. Your pain never went unnoticed! Someday will be in A perfect Place called Heaven and all our tears will be wiped away. Every sorrow, guilt, pain, depression, anxiety will be Gone. ❤️❤️❤️ you are so strong
      And Jesus knows it.

  • @kateespencer764
    @kateespencer764 Рік тому +280

    I just want to say that shortly after we found your channel Haley and her story made me make an appointment at my obgyn. Something that I have put off for years due to my own personal reasons. It may sound small and not like a big deal to some but for me it was a huge deal. Honestly I have no one else to thank than a complete stranger I came across on UA-cam sharing her story. Thank you for sharing Haley with the world. It made a difference in my life and I’m confident she’s done that with more than you will probably ever know. Sending love and light to you and your family ❤

    • @LindaKayHolevas
      @LindaKayHolevas Рік тому +20

      I did the same! I’ve avoided going to my obgyn for years & after seeing Haley’s story I made an appt & went. It was a huge accomplishment for me, so I understand exactly how you feel!

    • @Lizzie-h3j
      @Lizzie-h3j Рік тому +18

      I dud the same. I was the victim of a horrific SA and did not want anyone medical near me in that way. I'm waiting on my results but the Dr said everything looked OK. I hope its the same for you x

    • @HypsyGyspy1467
      @HypsyGyspy1467 Рік тому +7

      @@Lizzie-h3jThankyou for sharing this .
      I haven’t found the courage , yet .

    • @Lizzie-h3j
      @Lizzie-h3j Рік тому +8

      @HypsyGyspy1467 my advice is only do so when you are ready. It took me 10 years. Everyone processes trauma differently and I'm am so sorry this has happened to you. Sending much love from Scotland ❤️

    • @jadedoe9966
      @jadedoe9966 Рік тому +14

      I haven’t been in about 8 years :/ and recently started feeling some changes, let’s all go for Hayley

  • @LifeLessonsWithSheila
    @LifeLessonsWithSheila Рік тому +119

    You will always have a piece of Hailey when you look into Westons eyes. My kids are what got me through the loss of my husband, also to cancer. Hugs to you both!

  • @lindsaysmith9912
    @lindsaysmith9912 Рік тому +60

    As a cancer survivor and a single parent. I watched Haleys journey and she was so brave throughout. As were you and your son. You are an amazing guy, stay strong ❤

  • @cherylstreeter1962
    @cherylstreeter1962 Рік тому +236

    Grief is a "wild ride" as you say. I lost my 18 year old son (only child) in an auto accident (he was an innocent passenger) in 1992. Even though the "big black waves" subsided years ago, when I least expect it I get a lump in my heart and just go ahead and cry. May God bless you and ALL your friends and family! 😇

    • @pattaylor5524
      @pattaylor5524 Рік тому +19

      So sorry for your LOSS YOUR son is always with you ❤❤❤ blessings from Ireland 🇮🇪❤❤🙏🙏

    • @Recordificatify
      @Recordificatify Рік тому +18

      I'm so sorry. Losing a child is the worst loss anyone can experience, I fear it daily.

    • @Thelilmissbz
      @Thelilmissbz Рік тому +9

      I’m so sorry for your loss

    • @Thelilmissbz
      @Thelilmissbz Рік тому +6

      I lost a baby when I was almost halfway through my pregnancy and I can’t imagine getting to 18 years and losing them. You are such a strong person to still be here through that.

    • @charmaineelizabeth8723
      @charmaineelizabeth8723 Рік тому +4

      🌹🌹

  • @elenahunsaker8972
    @elenahunsaker8972 Рік тому +86

    We never truly get over the loss of a loved one. We just learn to navigate life in a new way. God bless you and Weston and all those that love Haley. ❤️🙏

  • @one4truth236
    @one4truth236 Рік тому +14

    I'm so happy to see you and hear about you and Weston. Follow your heart and allow God to direct your steps. Blessing to you both in abundance. ❤🙏🏼

  • @ComfortablyNumb24
    @ComfortablyNumb24 Рік тому +96

    Grief is love with nowhere to go. I’m keeping y’all in my prayers. Im sending love and light to everyone reading and or watching this. Shalom shalom, brother.

  • @cynthiawilliamson5905
    @cynthiawilliamson5905 Рік тому +131

    Haley was a beautiful soul!❤

  • @Jess-p4c
    @Jess-p4c Рік тому +32

    My mom died from stomach cancer when I was 11. The hardest part was watching my dad grieve for the love of his life and not being able to make him feel better, It gets easier with time but you will always miss them I cherish every moment I had with her prayer for you and your family

  • @pamelapolizzi9490
    @pamelapolizzi9490 Рік тому +196

    You are so strong and so is Weston. I'm so glad you're finding yourself still saying yes to new things. I lost my sweet baby girl unexpectedly in 2020 and a year later I lost my mom, aunt, and grandmother in 3 months. Grief is the hardest thing to move through, please know you are helping so many people by sharing your story. I've never been brave or strong enough to tell my own.

    • @bichonbeach3859
      @bichonbeach3859 Рік тому +16

      So sorry for your loss. 😢

    • @beth6288
      @beth6288 Рік тому +13

      Love and peace to you ❤✌

    • @pamelaraney4654
      @pamelaraney4654 Рік тому +10

      Prayers for your comfort

    • @carolebillue357
      @carolebillue357 Рік тому +14

      @pamelapolizzi9490, you just did.😊
      I’m sure there are those in your circle who are moved and touched by your inner strength. You never know.
      And, I’m sorry for your losses as well.
      Thank you for such a heartfelt encouragement. 🥰

    • @nsmccoy2345
      @nsmccoy2345 Рік тому +8

      I’m so sorry for all the loss you have experienced 🙏🏻❤️

  • @kimpayton727
    @kimpayton727 Рік тому +12

    I lost my Daddy almost 25 years ago, I was 41 but i remember every single minute of his last week on life support. Thankfully i was with him holding his hand when he smiled at me took a deep breath(to this day i don't understand any of that) and was gone. I still cry and miss my Daddy so much, YeS i am a big Daddies Girl❤. Grief is different for everyone, no one knows how it will and when it will hit you. Prayers🙏🙏

  • @erinchappell
    @erinchappell Рік тому +56

    Haley will never be forgotten. She was an inspiration to many. Stay strong for yourself and your son.

  • @theonlymyst1
    @theonlymyst1 Рік тому +59

    Still fighting my battle and Haley had alot to do with how i keep the courage to do so. Your contributions to the world are tremendous. And Weston is now and forever will be, a very special and unique young boy. We are all lucky to have seen his capacity for comforting, even at his young age. Bless you and Weston and your family. May you find peace❤

  • @CountCrackulaMyWay
    @CountCrackulaMyWay Рік тому +58

    I pray for your family daily. Please keep us updated.

  • @Henleysmom
    @Henleysmom Рік тому +70

    ❤ I was able to share part of Haley's service with my friend who is in hospice care with cancer. It really helped him. We enjoyed Haley's TED talk. God bless you and keep you, all the days of your life!

  • @saraschneider6781
    @saraschneider6781 Рік тому +22

    Glad you are back to let us know you are "ok".❤❤❤

  • @4MINGTHOUGHTS
    @4MINGTHOUGHTS Рік тому +14

    I found this amazing family when Iwas going through breast cancer. Hailey gave me strength to fight. Your angelic family has touched the lives of so many. Bless you for knowing there's still so much more to teach and share. Looking forward to it, but at your own pace. Be kind to yourself first and all else will follow. God Bless!

  • @jax999barny9
    @jax999barny9 Рік тому +81

    Sending love and prayers Haley 🪽will never be forgotten ❤🙏🏻🇬🇧

  • @Mizzlizgallegos
    @Mizzlizgallegos Рік тому +2

    I’m from Houston and I just found Haley this past month. I’ve been dealing with a lot this past year 2023, but just watching how much joy she had even though it was rough it really keeps me going. Haley will forever continue to touch hearts, please keep sharing her I can definitely say she is saving me ❤

  • @rhoadestraveled
    @rhoadestraveled Рік тому +93

    Taylor you and Weston are always close to my heart and Im continuing to pray for strength. I'm glad you're continuing your channel when you are ready. We will be here in your time.

  • @darlenea653
    @darlenea653 Рік тому +33

    Grief knows no boundaries. Please reach out when you are struggling, so we can share with you how Hailey is living on in our lives. The journey you shared with us inspired us in so many areas. Her courage and determination is legendary & all who witnessed this can’t help but be encouraged.
    May God continue to bless you, your son & your family & wrap His loving arms around you while you heal ❤

  • @lariettep7093
    @lariettep7093 Рік тому +46

    So good to see your face! I've never clicked on a video so fast! Continuing to send lots of prayers your way ❤

  • @debbiebeech8864
    @debbiebeech8864 Рік тому +31

    You and Weston have been in my thoughts and prayers. His mom's spirit lives on through him. His nurturing nature, and the ability to make you smile when you just don't feel like it, Hayley will be with you always. She was and will be an inspiration, as she accomplished so much during her shortened time here on earth. May you find peace, and find your way with Weston by your side. One day at a time. 😌🙏

  • @jonnefemyer5460
    @jonnefemyer5460 Рік тому +55

    So sorry for your and Weston’s loss! She is still with you both and will always be watching over you both!!! 🙏🙏❤️❤️

  • @lil-vipe13
    @lil-vipe13 Рік тому +14

    What a good sweet boy ❤️❤️ his mommas love for him has been firmly documented, he'll never question that bc of you ❤️ we are here for you guys❤

  • @nikkipage9132
    @nikkipage9132 Рік тому +9

    I understand the horrors of end-of-life caregiving. Bless you for standing strong. Thank you for updating everyone.

  • @leahroskam2266
    @leahroskam2266 Рік тому +42

    PLEASE DONT DELETE YOUR ACCOUNT...
    YOU ARE HELPING EVERYONE AND YOU ARE HELPING YOURSELF.
    💕💕💕💕💕💕
    HAYLEY wouldn't want you to quit this channel 💕💕💕💕💕
    Bless you,am praying for you here in New Zealand.

  • @addressunknown7903
    @addressunknown7903 Рік тому +16

    You are a wonderful father for Weston. A great protector for him. Prayers for your family

  • @ToniMichellee
    @ToniMichellee Рік тому +2

    WOOH THE CHILLS!!!!! Yes Taylor absolutely!!!!! Please please please be an example about dealing with grief. My husbands father passed away on June 29th from a horrible tragic death. Two strokes. A cranial flap was performed. An induced coma. And left with zero quality of life left. His organs shut down slowly. He went to hospice care for a total of four days which none of us even anticipated. We thought after pulling the vent he would pass. Which he did not. So the last four days were the hardest days we all have ever had to live watching him drowning in his fluids and suffering. My husband is really having a hard time processing everything and I still am too to be honest. So I commend you for being able to make these videos. People
    Like
    Us really do need to hear it Taylor. We are praying for you guys. Especially you!

  • @AndrewsSimplecooking
    @AndrewsSimplecooking Рік тому +12

    So good to hear from you and hearing how well Weston seems to be doing will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers A Foundation for Hayley sounds an amazing idea to help others going through grief and mental health issues.

  • @Live-n-luv
    @Live-n-luv Рік тому +1

    Your a very great man! My heart is broken with your loss too! You & Weston stay strong and keep your head up ❤your beautiful people. Haley too. Luvs n hugs ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @deborahlea22
    @deborahlea22 Рік тому +51

    Thank you for sharing how you guys are doing! It is tough, Grief is like an ocean, Sometimes you’re on the top of the waves other times you are on the bottom in the sand. God is turning your misery into a ministry and your faithfulness during this awful time would make Haley so very proud!❤❤ May the Peace of Jesus continue to abide with you!❤

  • @katherynkennedy5881
    @katherynkennedy5881 Рік тому +3

    I also watched Jenny Apple. Her husband is going thru this same thing. Prayers for both families.

  • @victoria.galvin
    @victoria.galvin Рік тому +21

    Yours and Haley’s story has touched so many people’s hearts, mine included. Thank you for the update and for speaking so candidly about your loss and grief. Holding space and light for you and Weston as you find your way forward. ❤

  • @LucyGonzalez-t7q
    @LucyGonzalez-t7q 6 місяців тому +1

    You are doing great you and Weston are amazing you both went through a lot and you handled it with grace and a very strong love for Haley I pray you and Weston continue on this healthy path you both deserve some happiness and I am sure Haley would approve stay strong and keep moving forward. Let us know when you start Haley's foundation I want to support you and Weston on this journey.

  • @Midwestphotographer
    @Midwestphotographer Рік тому +30

    You guys have been heavy in my thoughts. I look forward to what you’ll do to honor Haley. The world needs more good men like you.

  • @BDBELL101
    @BDBELL101 7 місяців тому +2

    I just found your channel recently, and I must first start by saying I'm so terribly sorry for the loss of your wife, she definitely seems like she was an Angel on earth. I'm sure I'm not telling you anything you don't already know. I'm so glad to see you and your son doing so well, and I am so happy to know that you are planning to continue your channel, because you have already done a great deal of help for me, and my mental state, as I have two elderly parents, who are both dealing with health issues, and everyday now is a gift. I cry every time I think about losing them, and if I cry this much now, I know how hard it's going to be if and when it happens. Believe it or not, I keep hoping that perhaps I will go before they do, because I think they could handle my passing, better than I could handle theirs. They are my Best Friends. Listening to you speak, and sharing your journey, and your adventures with your son, definitely touches my heart, and the hearts of many others, and just your Soulful eyes, are so soothing, and so honest and caring, that anybody watching your videos could not help but love you both, and of course, love your wife, as well. May God bless You and keep you both, and may you have more and more wonderful experiences in life, and realize that your Wife's Spirit is always there with you, and will always be part of your heart, your home, and your lives. Blessings and Best Wishes to You and Yours, Always, Brice, from PDX. ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️

  • @DarleneMontgomery-u1b
    @DarleneMontgomery-u1b Рік тому +14

    Taylor, you and Weston have been on my heart since Haley passed. You are so loved by more people than you can imagine. Please continue to post. You will help many.

  • @christi2163
    @christi2163 Рік тому +1

    I love the foundation idea! It is a fabulous way to honor Haley and to keep her vision alive!

  • @rose4982
    @rose4982 Рік тому +25

    My heart is with you, Weston, and your family ❤

  • @DeeLee-c9y
    @DeeLee-c9y Рік тому +8

    Sending Weston and Taylor, their family extended Family and friends, much love and hugs, strength and courage. Haley was an amazing woman. Thank you for sharing your story. May Haley, Rest in Peace. ❤❤

  • @jennsappalachianden
    @jennsappalachianden Рік тому +7

    Grief is so different for each person. Do take all the time you need. Continued prayers for you and Weston. He’s a beautiful reflection of Haley!

  • @deannadutlow-wj6xv
    @deannadutlow-wj6xv 8 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for sharing your journey with us . I am very familiar with grief I lost many our my family members and my husband to cancer I know full well how you are feeling. May God bless you and help you at this sad time . My brother in Jesus God is our Devine help in times of trouble. I can tell I don’t know we’re I would be without his presence in my life . Praying for you and your adorable son , in God we trust 🙏

  • @MissyAnn-ef8hi
    @MissyAnn-ef8hi Рік тому +23

    You take all the time you need. Both you and your wife are an inspiration to me and I’m sure many. Thank you for sharing your story, the good, the bad, and the real.

  • @kellythompsonclark898
    @kellythompsonclark898 Рік тому +6

    Grief is real and necessary, you are doing what is best for you and your son. You are correct when you talk about what Weston helps you through. Children are resilient and his youth will be a huge light in lifting the spirit, mood, beauty, pain and sadness you are all experiencing. He is the embodiment of his mommy and she will continue through him and the lovely life you shared and created.

  • @kimberlymarshall5260
    @kimberlymarshall5260 Рік тому +12

    You will cry , laugh and always remember her and miss her forever just know she is now safe and in No more pain just keep your faith in God I will pray for you guys

  • @pattituron8510
    @pattituron8510 Рік тому +10

    Praying that you and Weston will continue to feel the comfort that only Jesus can give us. I lost my son 11 years ago and I have a very good understanding of how we need to grieve and let those feelings out ~ my tears have been my gift from God. Weston is indeed your precious blessing and together you will always have the joy that Haley had because she truly had a peace that can only come from a very strong dependence on our Heavenly Father.

  • @valeriesonnenburg5695
    @valeriesonnenburg5695 Рік тому +12

    Thank you for sharing your story including taking the time to update us..... I personally know how difficult this is for you and your family. The most I can offer you is prayer for you to have strength and comfort. You are doing amazing. Embrace those tough days. You were absolutely in love with your whole heart with your beloved and the loss is unsurmountable!! Thank you for moving forward. Thank you for helping others. Hailey is watching over you and Weston and I'm sure is so proud of you and the life you will continue to make in her honor. Be well, be patient with yourself, and prayers for comfort your way.

  • @TheONLYgoinnutz
    @TheONLYgoinnutz 4 місяці тому +1

    You and Haley seem to have put the best parts of yourselves into Weston. Your story is raw, beautiful and brave! Thank you for sharing yourselves with us.

  • @rodeoandrye
    @rodeoandrye Рік тому +23

    Thanks for the update, Taylor. Grief never goes away, but it does soften and become a part of who you are. I think that your willingness to continue to be a voice of support on UA-cam will be a gift to other people who have lost their spouses and are parenting alone. God Bless and watch over you and Weston.

  • @alwaysbekind2u
    @alwaysbekind2u Рік тому +1

    I pray your family heal. Your story made me cry and I love how you celebrate her. True love never dies.

  • @lesliepricebright9767
    @lesliepricebright9767 Рік тому +9

    Sending you love, prayers and strength to you and Weston 🙏❤️ it takes a very long time to get over grief for someone that you love.

  • @CarolynAmerican100percent
    @CarolynAmerican100percent Рік тому +1

    We loved being invited into your lives I lost my husband last year and your videos helped me so much. Grief will always be apart of my story, but I can keep going...so can you sweets

  • @donnadalessio3853
    @donnadalessio3853 Рік тому +9

    We all do grief differently, but the one thing in common is it hurts we miss our loved ones deeply. God Bless you and Weston

    • @FranciousSchoonraad
      @FranciousSchoonraad 8 місяців тому +1

      Stay strong u are not alone.
      U are doing an amazing job sharing your story with many other people that have lost loved ones and don't know how to deal with the pain. The more you talk and share about your feeling you realize there are so many people in the same boat as you and sharing is caring.
      Stay strong. ❤❤❤❤

  • @SWIdaho2
    @SWIdaho2 Рік тому +6

    Taylor, it's good to see you & hear your thoughts. I think you're making wise decisions for both your life & Weston's. How generous of you to continue wanting to use your own sorrow to somehow help others. A foundation to honor Haley is a marvelous idea! May God' strength be yours today & every day. 🙏✝️

  • @cathygiuliana9089
    @cathygiuliana9089 Рік тому +54

    So many of us are grieving the loss of loved ones! It’s so good to feel that you’re not alone! Thanks for posting this and letting us know that you are coping and are contemplating starting a foundation in Haley’s memory. What a beautiful idea! God bless and keep you Taylor and your beloved son Weston! ✨🙏🏻✨🕊️✨❤️✨

  • @marionkunze7043
    @marionkunze7043 8 місяців тому +4

    Liebe Grüße aus Germany!! Ich fühle mit Ihnen und sende viel Kraft und Zuversicht mit Gottes Hilfe!!

  • @sheliadean9548
    @sheliadean9548 Рік тому +7

    I just found your story today. I lost my husband 6 years ago to cancer and I do understand the pain you are going there. I am sending ❤❤❤ love and hugs 🤗🤗🤗 to you and your son

  • @bribri0629sj
    @bribri0629sj Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much. You have been a blessing too so many. I am a 8 year Cancer Survivor and I know God will comfort and strengthen you and Weston. I love the love of my life on April 30,2023 due too Cancer ,and his name was Weston. Watching Haley's journey was truly a blessing. Be encouraged and Peace and Blessings tô you arlnd your family and friends. Love you all.
    Agape,
    Sebrena

  • @lindsayc2399
    @lindsayc2399 Рік тому +5

    Also, THANK YOU, for your courage and update!!! You are an amazing husband and father! You will always be cherished! Your love for your family over powers everything!! Thank you and we are here for you all!!❤❤

  • @Squish0353
    @Squish0353 7 місяців тому

    BLESS your loving heart. You were SO faithful, SO helpful, SO loving to your precious wife Haley. You and little Weston will be forever blessed. ❤

  • @anne-marie2407
    @anne-marie2407 Рік тому +13

    Sending you and your beautiful son love ♥️

  • @jxllxt
    @jxllxt Рік тому +1

    Keep living out Haley's memory, we love & appreciate your family's examples of unconditional love. Allow yourself to take all the time you need to grieve, to feel and to live. 🙏🏼

  • @aliciabellante6643
    @aliciabellante6643 Рік тому +76

    I lost my mom 9 years ago july 7, 2014 and my Dad August 22, 2022. Grief comes and goes without warning and it’s definitely a struggle.

    • @danahummer765
      @danahummer765 Рік тому +7

      Mine went on Nov 13th 22 and Dec 24th 22 its been rly werid no to call them both

    • @sylikacampbell1628
      @sylikacampbell1628 Рік тому +4

      We’re all here for you and Weston 😊

    • @aliciabellante6643
      @aliciabellante6643 Рік тому +3

      @@danahummer765 I’m so sorry hugs. I couldn’t imagine losing my parents close together. I worried that I would though.

    • @Ltnmama8
      @Ltnmama8 Рік тому +1

      @@danahummer765my goodness, I’m so sorry for your losses. And within almost a month apart. My love and prayers to you and yours.

  • @beccaroo1990
    @beccaroo1990 Рік тому +1

    So glad to see an update from you! I know the grief process is terrible🥺 my fiance passed in 2018 & it was some of the worse moments of my life. The emotional pain that comes with grief turns into physical pain...i never thought my heart could actually hurt & feel like it is broken but it does 💔 i hope you continue to share moments on you & Weston & your grief & healing journey. You have all made an impact & helped so many people & i know you will be able to continue to do so from a different angle now. I know a few others who lost their wives to cancer on tiktok & then they quit posting, which is completely understandable, but i think knowing how they are doing & any advice they have to how to deal with grief would help so many! Im looking forward to seeing you & Westen doing things together & smiling again😊. Thank you for sharing your lives with us & giving us an update! Sending love,prayers & good vibes❤️🙏😊

  • @chrislynnparmer6045
    @chrislynnparmer6045 Рік тому +13

    I'm continuing to pray for you Weston and your family!!!

  • @nancylaventure1403
    @nancylaventure1403 8 місяців тому

    God bless you on your trail of life! Such a difficult road… But the Lord Blessed you with a part of both you and Haley…. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @cynthiawilliamson5905
    @cynthiawilliamson5905 Рік тому +7

    Bless your heart!❤❤❤
    You’ve been a great father and husband! May God bless you and your son. May the Lord fill you with joyful memories.❤ Yes, sounds like a great idea to continue on your channel.

  • @louisesoliz347
    @louisesoliz347 8 місяців тому

    Thank you Hayley and Westin. My sister lost her fight to cancer. I just went through your story, just to let you know you have my prayers for strength to carry on for your son. You said it it's not easy, but with the grace of God you can do it it. God bless you 🙏

  • @nonne7018
    @nonne7018 Рік тому +17

    I think you have so much to offer regarding helping others. Not only grief and mental health issues but also transitioning into your new role as a single dad and all that entails. You were a wonderful, supportive husband now you can share what an awesome dad you are. ❤️🙏🏻❤️

  • @barbarawright6844
    @barbarawright6844 Рік тому +1

    Grief takes time. My husband passed last year so we understand your emotions. For me my faith has helped tremendously.

  • @virginiag5580
    @virginiag5580 Рік тому +7

    My heart truly goes out to you. I’m going through grief myself, lost my long time partner 7 months ago and i still cannot fully process he’s gone. This is a very long road and emotions are like waves. I hope you’re getting some grief support help, it has helped me. Prayers for you, your son and your family. ❤🙏

  • @tracymay1749
    @tracymay1749 Рік тому +2

    I know exactly how you feel and I'm beyond so sorry. I lost my first love to colon cancer in October ,2021.. He had just turned 40 and we had been on and off together since I was 14 years old. I have some good days but most days I find myself crying in my way to work every morning and then crying again in my way home in the evening. She was a beautiful woman and me watching your story all the time helped me in more ways than you will ever know. So I thank you for that. Can't wait to see what all adventures you and Weston will have in the future. Love from NC! Hugs❤

  • @cdsurvivor
    @cdsurvivor Рік тому +9

    Still praying for you, Beautiful Weston and the rest of yours and Haley’s family! Thank you for coming on and giving an update. And most of all thank you for sharing Haley with all of us! She definitely was a blessing!! One day at a time. 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

  • @patriciabilinkas3911
    @patriciabilinkas3911 Рік тому +23

    I was losing my mom as you and Weston were losing Haley. It really helped me to follow your grief with my own. I think keeping us updated would help many, and a foundation in her name is something she would have loved. ❤️🙏

  • @dragonryderslair
    @dragonryderslair Рік тому +1

    As a retired ICU RN of over 30 years. I first want to say thank you for all the love support and memories you have created for Weston and your self. I am sorry for your loss of Haley what a beautiful soul.
    I just want to mention something that I have seen happen in certain situations Similar to yours and your wish to have a foundation to keep Haley's life vibrant. Be VERY VERY careful as there are a great many bad actors and the more money the more dangerous they become. I am referring to people that know what to say when to say it and have connections to very wealthy people that are devoid of a soul or concern for anyone except themselves and thier own enrichment. It truly would be a second tragedy to end up in a position financially and legally especially when it's linked to such a tragic but honestly wonderful family.
    I don't want to discourage your mission I just want young be VERU CAREFUL with the people involves.

  • @srjahns
    @srjahns Рік тому +15

    Grief doesn’t have a deadline. Take time for you and Weston & know you’re surrounded by your amazing family and friends who would do anything for you two on the good days and bad days.

  • @suze6083
    @suze6083 Рік тому +2

    Grief is love with no place to go. Even though we’ve never met, I thought a lot about Haley and what you were going through. I’ve prayed, I’ve hoped for you…I’ve cried…I’m so sorry. I wish you nothing but strength, comfort, love & light, healing and some day, when you come out on the other side…new found happiness. Bless you and your little boy! Weston is an angel. The sweetest kid I’ve ever seen. A big hug from a stranger. Bless you!

  • @pamela-gw7xo
    @pamela-gw7xo Рік тому +33

    Taylor, I to am grieving the loss of my husband and it is definitely a feeling none like any other!! You and Weston are in my prayers. The feeling of losing half of yourself is indescribable. And everyone grieves differently...and that is OK. Thank you for sharing yourselves with us. You are surely helping many people in so many ways. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Weston.

  • @lindaevans5762
    @lindaevans5762 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for keeping your channel. You are helping so many of us who can relate with loss. It’s so awesome you are going to address mental illness as it’s such a huge problem we face today.

  • @tinafoster3820
    @tinafoster3820 Рік тому +5

    Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing. It's important that grief is shown and that it isn't hidden. May you feel the support and prayers for you and your family.

  • @JenniferKing-g2d
    @JenniferKing-g2d Рік тому +4

    I can definitely relate to you! I’m 36, and watched my mom wither away, and eventually pass from cancer last year.. like you said, I’ve had to see and do things that no one my age (or any age for that matter) should ever see regarding their mother. Just allow yourself grace, and know that all your feelings are valid. Grief is a hard thing to endure and understand.. being ok One minute, and not ok the next.. but it’s all apart of your journey. God bless!

  • @adime6632
    @adime6632 Рік тому +16

    So good to see you Taylor!!

  • @twobrownbabies8689
    @twobrownbabies8689 Рік тому +4

    Just wanted to say thank you. For sharing your family with us, for being open and real, for taking time with your son to process and adjust together, and for updating us on how you are doing. I personally also struggle with anxiety and depression, so I am so thankful that you will continue your channel, focusing on mental health issues. Your healing will be greatly benefitted by sharing and helping others. Just remember, you are to take care of yourself first, Weston second, and everyone else last. If you can maintain that order, you will move through the grief and the stresses of life in the healthiest way possible. You are a good man, and we understand the tough road you are on. Take your time. Enjoy the the remaining preschool years with you baby, they pass so fast. We will be here whenever you feel ready to share. No pressure. Just love, patience and support for you and your family. I am fairly sure Haley would agree.❤

  • @kat16822
    @kat16822 Рік тому +9

    I can’t tell you enough how amazing and strong I see you in my eyes! The amount of pain you have gone through and having to raise your son without the women you love. I can’t tell you enough how highly I think of you and I can only imagine how wonderful your son will be because he has you as a father!

  • @lauragarcia6472
    @lauragarcia6472 Рік тому +1

    My heart n prayers are with you n your Son Im so sorry Shes Your Beautiful Angel n Is Always with you 🙏🙏🙏💕💙

  • @kayrobinson8524
    @kayrobinson8524 Рік тому +4

    It does get easier but it's always there. You were truly blessed with Haley and Weston. Prayers and love for you all❤

  • @pauldeangelis7481
    @pauldeangelis7481 Рік тому +1

    Taylor, I am from the bottom of my heart so sorry for your loss of your beautiful wife
    She was always stunning throughout every day of her life
    I just watched that incredible video you posted about 2 weeks ago and let me say, Just Wow! You are a rare breed of a special man because it’s so clear the immense love you have for Haley and not a whole lot of men have your capacity to make such an amazing touching tribute for their spouse let alone share it with all of us and I feel confident by saying for everyone how special it is that you share your story with us. Haley was a lucky lady to have a guy like you honor those vows, I say that because many men will recite those vows but so few of them will honor them….
    ✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼

  • @kellybarnes3146
    @kellybarnes3146 Рік тому +15

    Grief is the hardest place to be. The year of firsts was hardest for my kids and I when we lost their dad. We are 8 years into our journey without him now and at times it still breaks us. I’m sending you both love. From a momma who knows… ❤