I do want to see the other side, because I really don't understand what stopped her from coming to the visit. I mean, 6 months of waiting is a lot time. Why add 4 months on top? If you're not someone's priority in life, they're not worth it.
Verónica López I'm not saying that's not nice, I was meaning the fact that even without been in a relationship like that I can feel my heart breaking just knowing that is too hard to fight with distance and the same time is really beautiful what love can make real
I've been in a long distance relationship for over a year, America/Australia and it's the happiest most beautiful and strongest relationship I've ever been in. I've never felt more in love and stable in my life, I'll be moving there one day and trust me if you're in a long distance relationship, pull through and fight and love with everything you have because a couple months, couple years is nothing compared to a lifetime
Idk how I feel about this short film because it's only showing depressing shit, and how sad it is but it's truly not like that. It's only like that if you're with the wrong person.
Thank you for sharing this. You've gave me hope for my America/South Africa relationship. We seem perfect for each other and she makes me happier than anything but I sometimes do worry about the distance but I'll stay strong because she's worth it
Wow, the comments are surprisingly depressing on this video.. I had a long distance relationship with my girlfriend. We waited for each other a year and the distance between us was 8000km. It was really hard, but our relationship became stronger - however, I wouldn't do it again, because it just drains your energy. After that year, I moved to the country she moved to the year before and we've been living together ever since. My advice: If you're in a long distance relationship, always remember this; it's like taking a leap of faith and nothing can prepare you for the experience. You have to communicate a lot with each other, talk about your fears, explain the smallest details of things you're up to, have patience and just trust each other..
2gnv9r I am also in a distance relationship with my girlfriend. Just a few hours ago I said goodbye again, after two wonderful days with her. Your comment is the truest one I've read. Patience and love ;)
Yes to this... yes to this... sharing eveything and eveything from conversations with other people to the things that may come as no big deal to you. Sharing is important because it makes the other person feels included in eveything you do.. people you meet.. what a certain person makes you see things in another way for it helps your person to understand your thoughts and learn the you that you discover from.talking to others..
That's what I am doing... Don't counting because you will stress yourself... Just relax... Bebe Rexha said if it's meant to be, it'll be, it'll be, baby just let it be...
@@aalidzharry oh no... it'll be okay, I promise, it might seem bad right now, but it'll get better, and I know you're probably wondering how things can get better when you feel so broken, trust me, I know, but it will get better. Okay? It's okay to feel this way. Its normal. Maybe it just wasn't meant to be, and you'll find someone else someday. Someday you will find someone else. Things might seen horrible now, but it will get better. It might not look that way, but trust that it will. It always does. Just stay strong, and take things one day at a time. You have all my support. I believe in you.
Georgia Wicks you are not ugly no one is ugly no matter if your fat or thin tall or short black or white as long as you have a good hart you are pretty and no one can say you are not
Kennedy Clan FUN FACT: In 1988 a scientist named Nancy Knight actually discovered two identical snowflakes while studying snow crystals. It's in the Guiness book of World Records.
Leilani Cv but me and my 4 yrs.ex gf we breaking up because of the distance she lived to a place too far from me and everytime i want to see her because i missed her but she didn't go with me that's why we always fighting about it and times comes we feel too tired for about it so we decide to break up for the silence of our mind even it's so pain about to us because we loved the each other but we need to accept it 😖...
Leilani Cv yah i'm not worry because i know has someone comes in the right time to the right way,that's why i don't need to hurry because everything has right time and sometimes we didn't noticed it's not accidentaly but it's comes...
I wanna believe The same, but I feeling she's not interesting about me. Because she respond me Every 3 days... But when i don' t respond a message she angries. I don't know why I'll do because i have so much feelings for her
this video did a really good job in showing how they became more distant little by little. from the hearts and excitement leaving their texts, to how emotionally drained they had become by the end of the video. as someone who went through this whole thing except from the happy ending, I appreciate the details. love it. ❤️
What's sad is when some don't even have the money to visit each other, and then all of a sudden you get caught up in the never ending loop of life. Then suddenly, they no longer fit in the loop. What do you do then?
I had a long distance relationship that felt awful similar to the one shown in the video (nobody cheated, but the insidious disappearance of love was just the same). The best thing you can do is try to break up on good terms. It hurts initially but in the end it becomes so much better. Living your life missing someone and being on your phone as opposed to in the moment never appealed to me. Just know that if it's meant to be, it's meant to be.
I had a long distance relationship with a girl..We were in the same country but we never met. I loved her. I love her. My parents learnt about this and forced me to break up with her. 3 months have passed but I still think about her, she is still the only person I loved so deeply. I can't stand it...
If you really think that feeling is true. Go for it. Don't let anything or anyone stop you. May or may not be she is the love of your life so never give up on your true feelings. I know you wrote this comments ages ago, hope you doing great and happy now.
Hi, how did it go in the end? 3 years further, are you any closer to telling your parents you are who you are and if they love you, they will accept you in the end? I do hope so. If not yet, I wish you strength :) Many parents do come around after some time. Not all. But even many that seem really upset at first come around when they realise they cannot change you. And that the only way to stay in your life is to accept you.
My aunt met her partner online. Canada/Bangkok. They communicated for months. After 6 months her partner came to visit her. She stayed for a couple of weeks. A month later, my aunt moved to Canada. They got married, and have now been together for 10 years! They even have a scrapbook of their love journey. Literally goals. That gives me so much hope. I myself am in an LDR, but tbh, it's even harder when you're still young. There's the control of the parents, money, etc. but I think it depends on both of you and how willing you are. If there's a will, there's a way. I would literally move mountains and oceans just to see my gf, but then again, we've only been together for 4 months. No rush. It may take time: time to build your relationship, and time to prepare, but if you love each other, it's worth it. =)Best wishes to you all. ^.^
Not all LDR are like this. I have been with my gf for what is going to be three years in May 2017. She's in Florida, US and I'm in Sydney, Australia which is probably one the most furthest locations you can get. We are very much so in love with each other and we always talk about the day when the distance won't matter. We'll be in the same bed and wake up together. We'll be able to have our own children and make sure to raise them to not be hateful and that they're loved unconditionally. We just want to grow old together and create wonderful memories. It is going to take a little time to be able to be with her but I won't give up until we're together and she's in my arms. I just hope others won't give up on their LDR.
So I'm in Cali. My girlfriend is in Germany and we've been together for almost 2 years now. Every day is a struggle. I don't get to see her as often as I'd like to. But I know every day is a day closer to her so I pull my shit together and keep going. I can't see myself losing to the distance. There is just no way that I'll pass up being with my soulmate and one and only just because of the miles. I know it's hard but no one has ever made me this happy and I don't believe anyone could ever compare to her. She is my treasure and I would never let her go because this girl has given me something I never thought I was searching for until I found her. I don't care what comes our way babe you know I will always fight for you! I hope you see this and don't you worry because I'll be coming back to you soon. I love you! ❤
Lovely, I liked how there was no spoken dialog and that we never actually saw the other girl. Really gets the feeling across and those spaces between the texts were wonderful, hopeful and empty at once. Wonderful!
I'm viewing this years later - Beautiful film. Heartbreaking but beautiful. It's amazing what you can do with only one actor, a good heart tugging script and great direction.
I know this all too well. Me and me gf lived on opposite coasts of the United States. She was in California (where I'm from) and I was stationed in Washington DC at the time. We were long distance for a year. Constantly texting, FaceTime every night. I got to see her 3 different times throughout that year. Tearful goodbyes every single time we parted. I was lucky enough to get stationed back in San Diego so now we've been living together. My advice to anyone in a ldr; don't give up, communicate, always try to set a date to when you're gonna see each other next. Just don't wait for nothing. It really is worth it in the end and it makes you a much stronger couple if you get through it.
Jenny Henderson this is my last night in my bed before I have the biggest adventure in my life I’m running away to my LDR girlfriend who lives in USA I’m scared but also excited 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏃♀️🏃♀️😍
oh my god! way to make me cry! I'm in a long distance scotland to melbourne, aus/frankfurt, germany and have been for 5 months. my girlfriend just got home to germany after spending 4 months in melbourne. Today she had surgery and it hurt so much that i couldn't be there, i don't even know if she's okay. This has been a difficult day, and it's hard not to somehow wish it wasn't this way. Sometimes i feel like what's the point but then i realise, she is the point. she's so worth it. I am so completely in love her. I loved this. only 7 days and 9 hours until i see her face again!!
This short film really touched my heart. It' so easy to find yourself hopelessly in love with someone that you can't realistically be with. And even though you know the limitations of that relationship...of that person, it doesn't stop you from wanting them.
I started dating this girl I met online a couple days ago, we got a long very well and decided that we want to try the best we can. she treats me better than anyone ever has, I couldn't ask for more. I can't wait for the day I finally get to be with her. We made some plans and if everything works out I will be meeting her in less than two years. I know ldr are hard but she's so worth it. I will wait forever if I have to. I hope in two years I can come back to this video and say that we made it. 💓
me and my girl have been in an LDR for almost 2 years now, living on different continents (America/Europe) and we're happy and making plans for the future. this is just a little reminder that it CAN work people, so don't be all too negative about it.
my relationship began long distance.Now almost 7 years together we've lived together for 6 years. Long distance relationships are hard but with the right person....it's worth it all.
I have a girlfriend. We've been together for 6 months and 13 days. I know I'm kind of lucky because I can meet her more than just once a year. I know I am lucky because she's only 1h30 away from me. I also know that I shouldn't complain. But I fucking know how it feels. Everytime we meet, we feel so happy, and complete. And everytime I have to leave her, I feel like leaving a piece of me with her. Everytime she leaves if feel like my heart is breaking. And it gets worse with time. The first week is okay, the second is good, but when it becomes a month or more, we just can't take it. We just start fighting for nothing, I get insanely jealous, she can't even sleep, and we're both talking coldly, until me can meet again. But everytime I can see her, I know, deep in my heart, thatt's worth it. She's worth it.
Sarah and Adrianna, You guys make such a great team. It's so wonderful to see strong, gay women pursuing their dreams and making the world a better place at the same time. Keep up the great work!
I am in a long distance relationship America/Hungary and it's the greatest most hardest most loving, daring, heart pounding, excruciating thing I've ever been through! I love him with all my heart, we've been together for almost three years now! We've had so many hardships where we almost broke up for good but something just kept us going at it no matter what! HIS parents disapprove, MY parents disapprove, no one around us understands....but I couldn't care less! When we're apart it feels like days when in reality it's only hours....but when we get to video chat or have a phone call it's like nothing else in the world matters because you're reconnected with your one true love! I can sympathize with this short film cos there have been times when we were kept apart from each other and I felt like this was never going to work! But something always drew me back! It was LOVE! I love him more than anything else in this world! 3 years is such a long time but if it means I can be with him forever I'd gladly serve these three years again! I can never be truly happy however until we are united for good!
I've been in a long distance relationship for almost a month now. And even though its been such a short time, I feel so happy with who I'm with. it's difficult a lot though because her parents take her phone a lot and they don't know about us. My parents don't know either. but she always manages to get a hold of me somehow.
briannathedork that's so sweet..that's how mine and my ex girlfriends relationship except our parents knew everyone knew we were really happy I though we were really happy 8 days off of 6 months she broke up with me three weeks later I check on her and she is perfectly fine and sent me a picture of her with some other girl. It hurt I'm not gonna lie...but at least I know she doesn't love me anymore..
Gabriella Lawrence yeah, relationships just aren't meant to be sometimes. But you'll find your someone. you will, and when you do, you'll be even happier. I promise.
briannathedork that’s how me and my girlfriend are I’m out to my parents but she isn’t and I haven’t told my patents and she hasn’t either so I can’t really be her girlfriend when I’m with her because then her parents would know 😔
You may have heard this before, but if it's meant to be it'll come back. Sometimes what we really want gets clouded by necessity, but if we're really lucky or really patient, the want can be waded over to. Regardless, I'm sure you'll find the key to your happiness, whether it be your ex or someone you've yet to meet. It is a new year after all, exciting things could be on the horizon!
I lived in Colorado my whole life. In 7th grade I met my best friend. We were both relationships so I never noticed him. I moved to Texas in july of 2016. Both of our relationships ended with those people and we started talking more about our life and ourselves. Got to know eachother and ultimatly fell deeply in love. Im moving back this summer and this long distance thing has showed us so much more about eachother and I plan to share the rest of my life with that man. I wish all of you luck in your long distance relationships. It can be the hardest thing ever but sooo worth it.
I'm glad there are so many lesbian couples out there that are even happy and in a stable relationship at least. Me and my gf have only been together for 3 years but have been doing this LDR thing for 18 months and she already has a side girl. Damn. Because she "couldn't handle the loneliness". So appreciate what you have, girls! Even though it's long distance and the wait is frustrating, at least your girl is loyal and committed, makes you feel special and hasn't given up!
Damn. This reminded me of a heartbreaking LDR I had a year ago... My homophobic parents found out and forced me to stop talking to her. Couldn't even just say goodbye. By the time I found her again, she'd moved on... Y'all did an amazing job with this, though. It's perfect.
I really like this girl.. but idk... everyone hates me because I wear a hijab. it doesn't mean I'm a Muslim I can't love a female too. I wish people accepted me for being myself
I’m a Muslim as well and I came out a long time ago. Don’t worry if people dislike you, you’ll eventually find the right people who can see past a piece of clothing and the stereotypes and be friends with you for you! Once you can trust them enough, slowly come out, when you’re sure they can handle it. As for the girl, make sure she’s the right one for you! I wish you the best, you got thissss!! ❤️ Welp, realized this was three years ago but uh- I hope you found those people and if you didn’t, don’t worryyyyy you have time. :)
scarlett rawrr hijabs are beautiful, I'm not Muslim but I don't think religion should hold you back from who you love!! I'm sure you'll find someone perfect :) goodluck
This made me realize how I truly like this girl, a friend of mine for years, who is miles away from me. Dang, should have said it before but now it's too late.
I was in a LDR, and my EX girlfriend just said: "I'm sorry, we can't be in a LDR, it's too hard, too tough... it's impossible. It's better to forget me than keep waiting and counting. I'm too busy for working, I don't have time for you, it's not like we're in a relationship. Breaking up is good for us". Damn!
I'm crying about to your comment because i was in ldr right now and as ldr too hard when you miss her but doesn't able to see even in vm because she's busy and when you wanna touch and hold her hand and kiss her sweet lips but doesn't able to happen because she's in too far...
The fact that I got dumped by my LD girlfriend an hour before I saw this is fate being a little too cruel.On the plus side it was super awesome and well done!
Im so happy someone captured the true struggles of long distance. SOOO many people say omg your goals when really it hurts us so much. A lot of work gets put into it and it feels like ur waiting for something that may not even come u just want to feel their hands on you and their warmth and know the wait is over. JUST SO U CAN WAIT AGAIN!! I really do love this me and my gf have been dating for 6 months now and this is just wow (: And the truth is everyone in a relationship around me takes theirs for granted so i laugh when they brake up in 2 weeks or LESS!! This is the strongest relationship i have been in and im proud to be in it despite the pain.
I was 15 when I first watched this video, I couldn't even imagine I would watch this video again when I am 19 and just had a breakup after 2 years of long distance relationship. It hurts how real things become so meaningless and turn into memories... She was here a couple months ago, me made Christmas plans and just a week after that she told me she needed to not be in a relationship anymore, she ended it. Now Christmas is coming and even though everything she made me go through while we were dating, I still remember the good times we had and it hurts.
i've had a long distance relationship for over 3 years and we keep trying to see each other but we don't have a lot of money so I haven't seen her in 3 years. Id do anything to see her because she's the love of my life.
I downloaded an app called Skout and we started talking but now we've been talking on skype for about 3 years! but there are plenty of dating apps you can download such as tinder!
This made me cry. I was in a ldr relationship with a girl for 7 months ( im a girl too) but she lived in ireland... so far from where i live. And this is how our relationship ended.... i loved her so much and i still do... and this video reminded me of her.
Ooh this reminds me of my long distance relationship. We were together for three months then, separated by distance, only lasted two more months. Long distance relationships sucks! It's just so much missing.
i have a girlfriend its a long distance relationship for almost five years..we haven't meet but hopefully this year we can.. ☺️ ldr is difficult but if you love her and trust her nothing is impossible ☺️
I was so close to having an LDR work out.... we were together for a year and a half. A month into planning her moving here, she left me. I've not been with anyone since. It was the most devastating thing I'd ever gone through, relationship wise. I hope I can have an everlasting love someday. This video was pure art, feeling, and beatuy! Great job!!
i'm crying, youtube suggested this and my ldr of 3 years and I have been having a rough patch. So about halfway though I just started crying and cant stop. So good and so heartfelt
this hurts me. i've never been in an actual ldr and honestly don't think I'd ever be interested in one nor need one since my girlfriend lives 5 minutes from me. but I wouldn't be strong enough to handle that
This makes me feels so much.. in only 13 days I'm going to meet my long distance girlfriend for the first time, her family thinks we won't last cause we're young but what I feel for her is the strongest feelings I've ever felt for anyone, I love her and this video breaks my heart and then fixes it again
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UnsolicitedProject OMG YES!
Holy S*** I love this music.. it made me cry everytime I listened to this... OMG...love it...
I do want to see the other side, because I really don't understand what stopped her from coming to the visit. I mean, 6 months of waiting is a lot time. Why add 4 months on top?
If you're not someone's priority in life, they're not worth it.
@@gracelab2462 kkk
I'm not even in a relationship and I felt my heart breaking
Same!
Why? Isn't it nice to love and be loved? I think this compensates the distance problems.
Verónica López I'm not saying that's not nice, I was meaning the fact that even without been in a relationship like that I can feel my heart breaking just knowing that is too hard to fight with distance and the same time is really beautiful what love can make real
Saaaaame
Same
I've been in a long distance relationship for over a year, America/Australia and it's the happiest most beautiful and strongest relationship I've ever been in. I've never felt more in love and stable in my life, I'll be moving there one day and trust me if you're in a long distance relationship, pull through and fight and love with everything you have because a couple months, couple years is nothing compared to a lifetime
Idk how I feel about this short film because it's only showing depressing shit, and how sad it is but it's truly not like that. It's only like that if you're with the wrong person.
Christina that's so beautiful thank you for sharing :)
U r so right. Love what u r saying
Thank you for sharing this. You've gave me hope for my America/South Africa relationship. We seem perfect for each other and she makes me happier than anything but I sometimes do worry about the distance but I'll stay strong because she's worth it
I'm in the same situation! America/Australia and this just was fucking depressing. It's not always like this.
Wow, the comments are surprisingly depressing on this video..
I had a long distance relationship with my girlfriend. We waited for each other a year and the distance between us was 8000km. It was really hard, but our relationship became stronger - however, I wouldn't do it again, because it just drains your energy.
After that year, I moved to the country she moved to the year before and we've been living together ever since.
My advice:
If you're in a long distance relationship, always remember this; it's like taking a leap of faith and nothing can prepare you for the experience. You have to communicate a lot with each other, talk about your fears, explain the smallest details of things you're up to, have patience and just trust each other..
trust is important
2gnv9r I am also in a distance relationship with my girlfriend. Just a few hours ago I said goodbye again, after two wonderful days with her. Your comment is the truest one I've read.
Patience and love ;)
thank you for your words, I needed them right now :)
2gnv9r still waiting for the day I get to meet her. your comment is motivating me more. 😊
Yes to this... yes to this... sharing eveything and eveything from conversations with other people to the things that may come as no big deal to you. Sharing is important because it makes the other person feels included in eveything you do.. people you meet.. what a certain person makes you see things in another way for it helps your person to understand your thoughts and learn the you that you discover from.talking to others..
I almost started crying when she said she wasn't counting anymore 😩😭😔. Sorry to the couples that are going through this right now
I did cry
That's what I am doing... Don't counting because you will stress yourself... Just relax... Bebe Rexha said if it's meant to be, it'll be, it'll be, baby just let it be...
It’s ok my girlfriend lives in Texas and I live in Maine and I plan on moving to Texas when I’m 18 and graduated high school
*"I'm not counting anymore.."* did anyone else hear the sound of my heart shattering in a million pieces?, no? .. well ok
@@aalidzharry oh no... it'll be okay, I promise, it might seem bad right now, but it'll get better, and I know you're probably wondering how things can get better when you feel so broken, trust me, I know, but it will get better. Okay? It's okay to feel this way. Its normal. Maybe it just wasn't meant to be, and you'll find someone else someday. Someday you will find someone else. Things might seen horrible now, but it will get better. It might not look that way, but trust that it will. It always does. Just stay strong, and take things one day at a time. You have all my support. I believe in you.
ikr my heart literally broke.. thats so sad omg..
Cheating can ruin your relationship you should stay loyal to your partner even if your to far to each other.
LoveMe,com so true...
LoveMe,com can you please tell all the people that
LoveMe,com hey beautiful your so right about not cheating
Cheating ruins your relationship completely tbh
You're*
After watching this I'm thankful I'm too ugly to be in any sort of relationship never mind a long distance one
Oh come on, love is beautiful. Yes, sometimes it ripes your heart out but still beautiful. Don't give up hope. And you're not ugly.
Georgia Wicks you are not ugly no one is ugly no matter if your fat or thin tall or short black or white as long as you have a good hart you are pretty and no one can say you are not
saaaaaame :D
Like a snowflake, you are unique and that makes you beautiful x
Kennedy Clan FUN FACT: In 1988 a scientist named Nancy Knight actually discovered two identical snowflakes while studying snow crystals. It's in the Guiness book of World Records.
I miss my gf so much that I even forgot that I don't have a gf.
Sara Aibar 😭😭😭...
Sara Aibar same hahaha
Leilani Cv but me and my 4 yrs.ex gf we breaking up because of the distance she lived to a place too far from me and everytime i want to see her because i missed her but she didn't go with me that's why we always fighting about it and times comes we feel too tired for about it so we decide to break up for the silence of our mind even it's so pain about to us because we loved the each other but we need to accept it 😖...
nobody lovesme oh, Don't worry, everything happens for a reason. I hope you'll find someone closer to you, and with a stronger love
Leilani Cv yah i'm not worry because i know has someone comes in the right time to the right way,that's why i don't need to hurry because everything has right time and sometimes we didn't noticed it's not accidentaly but it's comes...
My long distance relationship is no longer long distance, we are permantely together now since they moved in ❤❤🌈
That’s great 😁
Happy for you!
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I wanna believe The same, but I feeling she's not interesting about me. Because she respond me Every 3 days... But when i don' t respond a message she angries. I don't know why I'll do because i have so much feelings for her
Yay I’m so happy for u
this video did a really good job in showing how they became more distant little by little. from the hearts and excitement leaving their texts, to how emotionally drained they had become by the end of the video. as someone who went through this whole thing except from the happy ending, I appreciate the details. love it.
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My favorite character was the phone.
Lavender lmao😂
Favorite comment :D
I'm not crying you're crying
RealEmPhan I think everyone in our fandom is gay XD
AlwaysAmbitiousAlivia shut up were all crying here
Emily Gavin I'm not
Pablo ZZZ You're a Harmonizer?
Emily Gavin what's that xd
What's sad is when some don't even have the money to visit each other, and then all of a sudden you get caught up in the never ending loop of life. Then suddenly, they no longer fit in the loop. What do you do then?
TheCatzFranzNeko it's never fair for some people , including me and u obviously
TheCatzFranzNeko this definitely sums up my relationship rn
TheCatzFranzNeko i relate to this comment so much
I had a long distance relationship that felt awful similar to the one shown in the video (nobody cheated, but the insidious disappearance of love was just the same). The best thing you can do is try to break up on good terms. It hurts initially but in the end it becomes so much better. Living your life missing someone and being on your phone as opposed to in the moment never appealed to me.
Just know that if it's meant to be, it's meant to be.
Jane Smith Same experience. I feel you
I had a long distance relationship with a girl..We were in the same country but we never met. I loved her. I love her. My parents learnt about this and forced me to break up with her. 3 months have passed but I still think about her, she is still the only person I loved so deeply. I can't stand it...
i feel lonely without you oh i'm sorry. Be strong😀
Meet her.
The same happened to me😭😭
If you really think that feeling is true. Go for it. Don't let anything or anyone stop you. May or may not be she is the love of your life so never give up on your true feelings. I know you wrote this comments ages ago, hope you doing great and happy now.
Hi, how did it go in the end? 3 years further, are you any closer to telling your parents you are who you are and if they love you, they will accept you in the end? I do hope so. If not yet, I wish you strength :)
Many parents do come around after some time.
Not all. But even many that seem really upset at first come around when they realise they cannot change you. And that the only way to stay in your life is to accept you.
My aunt met her partner online. Canada/Bangkok. They communicated for months. After 6 months her partner came to visit her. She stayed for a couple of weeks. A month later, my aunt moved to Canada. They got married, and have now been together for 10 years! They even have a scrapbook of their love journey. Literally goals.
That gives me so much hope. I myself am in an LDR, but tbh, it's even harder when you're still young. There's the control of the parents, money, etc. but I think it depends on both of you and how willing you are. If there's a will, there's a way. I would literally move mountains and oceans just to see my gf, but then again, we've only been together for 4 months. No rush. It may take time: time to build your relationship, and time to prepare, but if you love each other, it's worth it. =)Best wishes to you all. ^.^
I'm in America and my girl lives in the Netherlands. This hits pretty hard. I am going to see her in 7 days for the second time.
M Gray i love lesbeans.😘😘😘
M Gray how was it?
M Gray
Captain Dinush How do you know that M Gray is a woman?
M Gray i live also in the Netherlands
The cinematography on this is really beautiful.
Not all LDR are like this. I have been with my gf for what is going to be three years in May 2017. She's in Florida, US and I'm in Sydney, Australia which is probably one the most furthest locations you can get. We are very much so in love with each other and we always talk about the day when the distance won't matter. We'll be in the same bed and wake up together. We'll be able to have our own children and make sure to raise them to not be hateful and that they're loved unconditionally. We just want to grow old together and create wonderful memories. It is going to take a little time to be able to be with her but I won't give up until we're together and she's in my arms. I just hope others won't give up on their LDR.
You guys still together? Update pleaseeee
Mia Starnes yesss an update. Is needed lol
ckin2u93 Be strong!
I am here in 2019. Are you guys together now?
I hope y’all fine but I have feeling y’all broke up already
After seeing this I'm grateful for the 40 minutes between me and my girlfriend
Danny Anderson, you are lucky.
me,, 4 hours 😵😳
@@mizikoniss 2 countries and 36 hours for me.
So I'm in Cali. My girlfriend is in Germany and we've been together for almost 2 years now. Every day is a struggle. I don't get to see her as often as I'd like to. But I know every day is a day closer to her so I pull my shit together and keep going. I can't see myself losing to the distance. There is just no way that I'll pass up being with my soulmate and one and only just because of the miles. I know it's hard but no one has ever made me this happy and I don't believe anyone could ever compare to her. She is my treasure and I would never let her go because this girl has given me something I never thought I was searching for until I found her. I don't care what comes our way babe you know I will always fight for you! I hope you see this and don't you worry because I'll be coming back to you soon. I love you! ❤
Lyri Miranda OMG you're so adorable!! that's my girlfriend everyone! I am so proud to be able to call you mine. Ich liebe dich ❤❤❤😍
Anna-Lena Paul Ich liebe dich auch Schatz!! 😍😍
I think u are gay
Are you guys still together? I teared up because I'm in the same situation. My soulmate is in Germany and I'm in California.
wie süß*-* alles Gute euch beiden!
long distance relationship are way too tough, man. i don't wish that to anybody and i don't wanna go through it ever again.
you have to be with the right person to do it...
Fuck off.
man, I've got u a crazy story.
Lovely, I liked how there was no spoken dialog and that we never actually saw the other girl. Really gets the feeling across and those spaces between the texts were wonderful, hopeful and empty at once. Wonderful!
Apparently, Adrianna can make me laugh and cry... Stop being such a talented writer!
I'm viewing this years later - Beautiful film. Heartbreaking but beautiful. It's amazing what you can do with only one actor, a good heart tugging script and great direction.
I know this all too well. Me and me gf lived on opposite coasts of the United States. She was in California (where I'm from) and I was stationed in Washington DC at the time. We were long distance for a year. Constantly texting, FaceTime every night. I got to see her 3 different times throughout that year. Tearful goodbyes every single time we parted. I was lucky enough to get stationed back in San Diego so now we've been living together. My advice to anyone in a ldr; don't give up, communicate, always try to set a date to when you're gonna see each other next. Just don't wait for nothing. It really is worth it in the end and it makes you a much stronger couple if you get through it.
I wish this was a three hour long movie cause I CAN'T GET ENOUGH UGH SO GREAT
Jenny Henderson this is my last night in my bed before I have the biggest adventure in my life
I’m running away to my LDR girlfriend who lives in USA
I’m scared but also excited
🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏃♀️🏃♀️😍
OMG, and what happened? AAAA
oh my god! way to make me cry! I'm in a long distance scotland to melbourne, aus/frankfurt, germany and have been for 5 months. my girlfriend just got home to germany after spending 4 months in melbourne. Today she had surgery and it hurt so much that i couldn't be there, i don't even know if she's okay. This has been a difficult day, and it's hard not to somehow wish it wasn't this way. Sometimes i feel like what's the point but then i realise, she is the point. she's so worth it. I am so completely in love her. I loved this.
only 7 days and 9 hours until i see her face again!!
The editing, directing, acting, writing, music, just everything in this is perfect. It made me feel, which is what I look for in any form of art.
what’s the song name ?
This short film really touched my heart. It' so easy to find yourself hopelessly in love with someone that you can't realistically be with. And even though you know the limitations of that relationship...of that person, it doesn't stop you from wanting them.
Wowowowww this is amazing
yup, I agree
Arielle Scarcella Deadass
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Arielle Scarcella your more than amazing ❤ Secretly Liking you. haha
Arielle Scarcella hi can we be friend
this got me on a deep level thanks now I'm crying
Florencia Heredia same :/
Florencia Heredia I felt it too. ❤
Florencia Heredia can i have you snap
Florencia Heredia same here 😭
cried a little. just recently got dumped and had to cancel my next flight because her feelings changed.
hey don't be upset same thing happened to me
Frida Mejia 😔
😢😢💔
When she said "wait." at the end it made me feel like I was her when she went to go look for her lover
I started dating this girl I met online a couple days ago, we got a long very well and decided that we want to try the best we can. she treats me better than anyone ever has, I couldn't ask for more. I can't wait for the day I finally get to be with her. We made some plans and if everything works out I will be meeting her in less than two years. I know ldr are hard but she's so worth it. I will wait forever if I have to. I hope in two years I can come back to this video and say that we made it. 💓
I'm in Europe and my bf is in USA for 2 years. We survived one year already but it's really hard right now.
olsikowa how is it going?
Anna Sti She said really hard can you read
SteveHart she meant she wants an update bc its been a yr since the "its rlly hard" comment
Aisha Jones thanks
Olsik? A ty tutaj?
My second favorite character was the yellow hat.
This is so ridiculously relatable.
One of those short films you just keep watching over and over again... love it
me and my girl have been in an LDR for almost 2 years now, living on different continents (America/Europe) and we're happy and making plans for the future. this is just a little reminder that it CAN work people, so don't be all too negative about it.
In my experience, LDRs only last if you have a definite plan for an endgame that you can both honestly agree on.
my relationship began long distance.Now almost 7 years together we've lived together for 6 years. Long distance relationships are hard but with the right person....it's worth it all.
This makes me feel some type of way but I love it.
So happy to see you happy with yourself . But it’s heartbreaking that you find happiness in someone’s heart
I love that they shown both side. Its a beautiful movie. Please make a part three❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
That's cool, it's only Christmas, I didn't need my heart.
ChannelCassie same
ChannelCassie hello
this is why i hate long distance relationships.. They hurt
17 sones sone ?
Just causally drops a wonderful piece of art, like no big deal
My heart dropped when they said morning with out the hearts....
Amazing clip... loved how it's been played, no voices Just only texting.. music is unbelievable!
Really beautiful. I love the fact that there is no mention of the partner's gender. Love is universal and so are its stories xx
you guys are truly filmmaking geniuses! I love everything about this
musicaddict7 Trico!
musicaddict7 they really are!!!
I have a girlfriend. We've been together for 6 months and 13 days. I know I'm kind of lucky because I can meet her more than just once a year. I know I am lucky because she's only 1h30 away from me. I also know that I shouldn't complain. But I fucking know how it feels.
Everytime we meet, we feel so happy, and complete. And everytime I have to leave her, I feel like leaving a piece of me with her. Everytime she leaves if feel like my heart is breaking. And it gets worse with time. The first week is okay, the second is good, but when it becomes a month or more, we just can't take it. We just start fighting for nothing, I get insanely jealous, she can't even sleep, and we're both talking coldly, until me can meet again.
But everytime I can see her, I know, deep in my heart, thatt's worth it. She's worth it.
Sarah and Adrianna, You guys make such a great team. It's so wonderful to see strong, gay women pursuing their dreams and making the world a better place at the same time. Keep up the great work!
I am in a long distance relationship America/Hungary and it's the greatest most hardest most loving, daring, heart pounding, excruciating thing I've ever been through! I love him with all my heart, we've been together for almost three years now! We've had so many hardships where we almost broke up for good but something just kept us going at it no matter what! HIS parents disapprove, MY parents disapprove, no one around us understands....but I couldn't care less! When we're apart it feels like days when in reality it's only hours....but when we get to video chat or have a phone call it's like nothing else in the world matters because you're reconnected with your one true love! I can sympathize with this short film cos there have been times when we were kept apart from each other and I felt like this was never going to work! But something always drew me back! It was LOVE! I love him more than anything else in this world! 3 years is such a long time but if it means I can be with him forever I'd gladly serve these three years again! I can never be truly happy however until we are united for good!
I've been in a long distance relationship for almost a month now. And even though its been such a short time, I feel so happy with who I'm with. it's difficult a lot though because her parents take her phone a lot and they don't know about us. My parents don't know either. but she always manages to get a hold of me somehow.
briannathedork that's so sweet..that's how mine and my ex girlfriends relationship except our parents knew everyone knew we were really happy
I though we were really happy
8 days off of 6 months she broke up with me three weeks later I check on her and she is perfectly fine and sent me a picture of her with some other girl. It hurt I'm not gonna lie...but at least I know she doesn't love me anymore..
Gabriella Lawrence yeah, relationships just aren't meant to be sometimes. But you'll find your someone. you will, and when you do, you'll be even happier. I promise.
same situation
We can all manage all we need is a little hope
briannathedork that’s how me and my girlfriend are I’m out to my parents but she isn’t and I haven’t told my patents and she hasn’t either so I can’t really be her girlfriend when I’m with her because then her parents would know 😔
My ex girlfriend loved in Ohio
It was so hard
But I loved her
But distance got too much and she left me this video kills me
Maybe if it meant to be one day it will be
Gabriella Lawrence you deserve better girl you are beautiful you will find the perfect one
anfal alshareefi awe thank you that's so sweet oh goodness
Gabriella Lawrence u are welcome 💪🏻💪🏻❤
You may have heard this before, but if it's meant to be it'll come back. Sometimes what we really want gets clouded by necessity, but if we're really lucky or really patient, the want can be waded over to. Regardless, I'm sure you'll find the key to your happiness, whether it be your ex or someone you've yet to meet. It is a new year after all, exciting things could be on the horizon!
omg i'm not crying no there's just a brilliant video in my eye
I lived in Colorado my whole life. In 7th grade I met my best friend. We were both relationships so I never noticed him. I moved to Texas in july of 2016. Both of our relationships ended with those people and we started talking more about our life and ourselves. Got to know eachother and ultimatly fell deeply in love. Im moving back this summer and this long distance thing has showed us so much more about eachother and I plan to share the rest of my life with that man. I wish all of you luck in your long distance relationships. It can be the hardest thing ever but sooo worth it.
I'm glad there are so many lesbian couples out there that are even happy and in a stable relationship at least. Me and my gf have only been together for 3 years but have been doing this LDR thing for 18 months and she already has a side girl. Damn. Because she "couldn't handle the loneliness". So appreciate what you have, girls! Even though it's long distance and the wait is frustrating, at least your girl is loyal and committed, makes you feel special and hasn't given up!
my gay heart is exploding! 😭
Damn. This reminded me of a heartbreaking LDR I had a year ago... My homophobic parents found out and forced me to stop talking to her. Couldn't even just say goodbye. By the time I found her again, she'd moved on...
Y'all did an amazing job with this, though. It's perfect.
I really like this girl.. but idk... everyone hates me because I wear a hijab. it doesn't mean I'm a Muslim I can't love a female too. I wish people accepted me for being myself
scarlett rawrr were in the same boat. I am a Muslim, 15, and really lost within myself. I just came out bi to my friends. So I'm slowly taking steps
Im an ex Muslim
I’m a Muslim as well and I came out a long time ago. Don’t worry if people dislike you, you’ll eventually find the right people who can see past a piece of clothing and the stereotypes and be friends with you for you! Once you can trust them enough, slowly come out, when you’re sure they can handle it. As for the girl, make sure she’s the right one for you! I wish you the best, you got thissss!! ❤️
Welp, realized this was three years ago but uh- I hope you found those people and if you didn’t, don’t worryyyyy you have time. :)
scarlett rawrr hijabs are beautiful, I'm not Muslim but I don't think religion should hold you back from who you love!! I'm sure you'll find someone perfect :) goodluck
Me too.
It's like a 2017 lesbian version of Brokeback mountain.
This made me realize how I truly like this girl, a friend of mine for years, who is miles away from me. Dang, should have said it before but now it's too late.
Yeah this happened to me....just didn't have a happy ending
same
Same!
Natalia Arzuaga same
Same
ditto
I was in a LDR, and my EX girlfriend just said: "I'm sorry, we can't be in a LDR, it's too hard, too tough... it's impossible. It's better to forget me than keep waiting and counting. I'm too busy for working, I don't have time for you, it's not like we're in a relationship. Breaking up is good for us". Damn!
FÆŁcÝ its not impossible. are you a girl?
ly ly the problem with people is they think they know what's best for the other person. when they most definitely don't.
I had a similar experience recently. Still feels raw.
I'm crying about to your comment because i was in ldr right now and as ldr too hard when you miss her but doesn't able to see even in vm because she's busy and when you wanna touch and hold her hand and kiss her sweet lips but doesn't able to happen because she's in too far...
that's sucks man, i can relate the "im too busy for working i don't have time for you" bc my bf is always busy so i know how hard it must have been
The fact that I got dumped by my LD girlfriend an hour before I saw this is fate being a little too cruel.On the plus side it was super awesome and well done!
Natalia Rowley hi
Im so happy someone captured the true struggles of long distance. SOOO many people say omg your goals when really it hurts us so much. A lot of work gets put into it and it feels like ur waiting for something that may not even come u just want to feel their hands on you and their warmth and know the wait is over. JUST SO U CAN WAIT AGAIN!! I really do love this me and my gf have been dating for 6 months now and this is just wow (: And the truth is everyone in a relationship around me takes theirs for granted so i laugh when they brake up in 2 weeks or LESS!! This is the strongest relationship i have been in and im proud to be in it despite the pain.
This is so beautiful. I've been there before and I completely cried like a baby gay once more. Bless you folks.
I also have a one-sided relationship with my phone... and my bed... and possibly my hoodie.
The simple fact of having a girlfriend like Justine would forbid me to go anywhere far from her...
Marion D. Oi
the cinematography in this is just perfection. Really good job guys
I was 15 when I first watched this video, I couldn't even imagine I would watch this video again when I am 19 and just had a breakup after 2 years of long distance relationship. It hurts how real things become so meaningless and turn into memories... She was here a couple months ago, me made Christmas plans and just a week after that she told me she needed to not be in a relationship anymore, she ended it. Now Christmas is coming and even though everything she made me go through while we were dating, I still remember the good times we had and it hurts.
this makes me so sad, yet it's so relatable. my heart is breaking
i've had a long distance relationship for over 3 years and we keep trying to see each other but we don't have a lot of money so I haven't seen her in 3 years. Id do anything to see her because she's the love of my life.
kellyjackson can i know how the two of u met ? I want to know any girl but in my country it's hard to find one very hard but i don't know what to do
anfal alshareefi where are you from,?
Shèlly Màck i am from Kuwait:)
I downloaded an app called Skout and we started talking but now we've been talking on skype for about 3 years! but there are plenty of dating apps you can download such as tinder!
where is she from?
wish I have a girlfriend 😔❤
Tat Mas xD
Joe sugg VLOGGED ME!!!! same ugh or a bf😂😂😂
destiel and joshler for life yeh, but i prefer a girlfriend. I don't rlly trust boys ya know haha 😂
Joe sugg VLOGGED ME!!!! 😂😂😂 yeah hahaha
yo same
If anyone ever wonders how a long distance relationship is than this video says it all.
Your sweater doesn't smell like you anymore... Such a powerful line, wow this hurts. I've never been in a relationship but still
This made me cry. I was in a ldr relationship with a girl for 7 months ( im a girl too) but she lived in ireland... so far from where i live. And this is how our relationship ended.... i loved her so much and i still do... and this video reminded me of her.
this was beautiful, everything in this video was perfect and so true
IM CRYING THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL
Ooh this reminds me of my long distance relationship. We were together for three months then, separated by distance, only lasted two more months. Long distance relationships sucks! It's just so much missing.
I am not a person to cry during movies and short films but this broke my heart
You ladies are geniuses. You know how to tell a story and elicit emotions via video better than anyone I know. Very well done.
please do more short films! They're beautiful and oh so sweeet
Oh my god I started crying all over my cubicle at work, this is so beautiful
I'm surprised with how much I cried while watching this
i have a girlfriend its a long distance relationship for almost five years..we haven't meet but hopefully this year we can.. ☺️ ldr is difficult but if you love her and trust her nothing is impossible ☺️
5 years..…wow
I was so close to having an LDR work out.... we were together for a year and a half. A month into planning her moving here, she left me. I've not been with anyone since. It was the most devastating thing I'd ever gone through, relationship wise. I hope I can have an everlasting love someday.
This video was pure art, feeling, and beatuy! Great job!!
This hit way too close to home. Great job guys 💔❤
I really did not need this right now.. omg I am so crying
i was starting to cry at the end but then... oh this is so beautiful thank you so much ❤
The other half is coming this Wednesday. I'M SHAKING!!! 💓💗
i'm crying, youtube suggested this and my ldr of 3 years and I have been having a rough patch. So about halfway though I just started crying and cant stop. So good and so heartfelt
You reminded me a lot of things ... I did exactly the same all the way... Justine was incredible... Omg 😢😢😢 can't stop tearing. Amazing work everyone
thanks for breaking my heart writing this Adrianna
this hurts me. i've never been in an actual ldr and honestly don't think I'd ever be interested in one nor need one since my girlfriend lives 5 minutes from me. but I wouldn't be strong enough to handle that
except I'm not a lesbian
But what would you do?... Break up? Would you prefer to live without her?
@@honeynut666hello you accept mariage
Ugh, its these sorts of things that make my heart actually beat only for it to be wrenched out. Loneliness my old friend ~
This makes me feels so much.. in only 13 days I'm going to meet my long distance girlfriend for the first time, her family thinks we won't last cause we're young but what I feel for her is the strongest feelings I've ever felt for anyone, I love her and this video breaks my heart and then fixes it again