Mum And Dad Show Their Feelings | House of Tiny Tearaways S2 E7
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- Опубліковано 31 жов 2024
- Yet another week is over for the families at the House of Tiny Tearaways, but are their problems solved?
Presenter Claudia Winkleman guides the audience through a week-long journey at TV’s first ever child and parent behaviour refuge.
During their stay at the House of Tiny Tearaways, three families live together, while child psychologist Dr Tanya Byron works with both parents and children to solve issues around fussy eating, sleeping habits, and public tantrums - and she'll challenge the parents to get to the root of the problems they're experiencing raising their children.
With Dr Tanya Byron's help and advice, the hope is that the families will learn useful pedagogy techniques and gain new insights, giving them long-lasting support though the parenting challenges they're facing.
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The single mother needs to be encouraged to join mother groups. My brother and I were raised in a single mother family too with basically no family support at all. My Mum also had a very traumatic time with the pregnancies and the situation she was in. And joining mother groups helped her immensely. She's still in contact with some of the people she met decades later...
Yes, I had moved to a new state 1,000 mi away right before I had my babies. I didn’t know anyone, so I joined a mother baby group and Gymboree, and I met a whole group of mothers who I was friends with for yrs. Our kids were friends. Everyone needs friendship and support.
"We don't need that bread, do we?" Well, I would just eat Bradley up. He's precious.
The first toddler need a nap too around midday. 40 min sleep helps alot. He is used to screaming to get his way. Keeps on till mom gives in. Distraction and calm firm parent helps him calm down or just let him stay on the floor in his room till he calms down. Walk away, to another room. Dont talk. Try ignore the bad behaviour, they get bored and tired of screaming and not getting any attention with the bad behaviour. Takes may e a day or two. Be strong, endure and tough it out. You are the boss, but stay calm and firm. It s tough, but kids dont get harmed from getting NO.
I’m early on but GOD if my kids cried as much as Callum is right now I would lose my mind this poor mom.
i would not allow that “ I DONT LIKE YOU “ absolutely Not . i’d restrict her dad from even blinking at her until she treated me better period
Poor little Bradley would go hungry if he didn't eat "Proper" food in my house. He would either eat what's on his plate or not eat.
That's how I was raised. I knew on certain days when my mom or grandmother cooked certain things that I would either have to choke it down or go to b3d hungry. It depended on the day's lunch which one it was lol. But I wasn't going to eat something different from everyone else because I didn't like it. And I didn't starve to death or stunt my growth because I missed a dinner once every month or two, either!
Kids are allowed to run the house.
My mom was a WW2 shipyard worker, a welder.
She did not play games.
Eat it or go hungry.
No sandwich either.
It doesn‘t matter if he is 3 or 4 years old - no child needs a dummy while walking, playing or even talking….. 🙄
the child is 2 years not 3 yet. plus it’s not ur child so maybe shut up?
@@weirdohooman8056 Lmaoooo! I dont agree with you but the way u said it makes me 🤣😅🤣
I think British children use dummies much more then children in United States where I live.
@@barbvillarreal7440 Not that it matters but actually statistically more kids would still use a dummy in America then in Britain b/c there is more people in America.
A paci past the age of 1 or 2 only delays development, it becomes a crutch, they are ment to console INFANTS!! Might sound harsh, but same with bottles, it's parents not wanting to here them cry when they take then away!
25:00 Mom is REWARDING him for BAD behavior. The therapist TRIED to come in to intervene, but the parents SABOTAGED it.
I wish Bradley’s parents would stop calling it proper food and just call it what it is…FOOD! Ignore the tantrums, no negotiating! If he’s going to tantrum, put him in his room and he can go to bed hungry. My God, these parents are so soft! Why are they so afraid of taking charge? I have never once, even after consulting with Tanya, heard them use their tone effectively. Get tough!
Yes!! These parents are so afraid of their kids being upset with them!!! If you aren't willing to accept them crying or being angry then you are not teaching them anything! You are not their friend!!!!!!! Are you afraid of your child??? I promise they wont wither away if you don't let them have snacks so they refuse to eat, they will eat when they get hungry! It's ridiculous and I feel so bad for their teachers when they go to school!!
Exactly. That 1st boy Callum is BIG for 2 years old!! He looks like the size of an average 5 year old.
I thought he was until the episode was halfway over! I couldn't hear the narration over his crying in their introduction. And every other time he was on screen while the narrator spoke about him, too. He's almost the size of his 6 yr old cousin!😳😳😳 Kid's huge! And imagine trying to control a kid that size while carrying other things down the street. Almost no way possible!
@@Nille0212 a good whop would suffice
I have 2 kids who also are so big.... now even at age 10 and 14 they are extreme langer then peers... (10 yrs 163 cm) 14 yrs 187 cm) my youngst when he was 1.5 yrs the teachers of the oldest tought he would almost go to school they tought he was almost 4...😂
This child shouldn't be in nappies nor with a dummy in his mouth at almost three years old during the day; As for tantrums at the dinner table, he won't starve, just take the plate away at let them go without. They'll eat when they're hungry. I was fortunate that my three children didn't throw tantrums.
Do you think it’s feasible to potty train a child when their other behavior is bad? How are they going to listen for potty training if they don’t listen any other time? It’s better to sort out the other behavior and then tackle potty training and getting rid of the dummy.
The 1st kid isn't getting any type of direction from his mom. She's letting him dictate everything about their day and when he's unhappy about it, he falls out...in the middle of the street no less! And he's blessed to be overseas and hitting/slapping old people, who are COMPLETE STRANGERS, in public! Try that mess in Texas! You'll get hit back into reality by someone's grandmother who's from the age of "Spare the rod, spoil the child"!!! Or even me and I'm 42. Stop playing with these kids; grow some balls, and make them behave! 😤
Thank you!! I feel like I'm gonna explode watching some if these, like there are kids who literally hit their parents? I would loose it!!!!!!!!!!
Not one parent has told there child to stop screaming and meant it! My goodness get on their level and tell them to stop or there will be a consequence mean it and follow through these children are way smarter than you think!
Really enjoying the episodes and appreciate the uploads. Is there any chance to unhide episodes 5 and 6?
Children are conditioned this way. Its patterns of getting negative attention rather than for positive behavior.
You only have to cry long enough - then you get what you want!
Exactly! I just posted my story and we just ignored the bad behavior of our oldest and praised the good eating habits of Mom, Dad and the younger child. The bad behavior stopped almost immediately when she saw it got her no attention and no other food options.
My daughter tried that “no eating” thing for a minute when she was about 3. I was raised that Mom made certain foods for dinner and if you didn’t eat it then you went hungry. When she threw a fit and pushed her plate away it was removed from the table and we continued to eat and ignored the child who was having the tantrum and praised ourselves and our other child that was eating. That behavior lasted a meal time or two and she quickly realized that it got her nowhere. She never did it again and was a fabulous eater from then on. My kids are adults now and to this day they LOVE to try new foods from different cultures and nationalities.
Same at my house, Lynn. This nonsense of negotiating with kids, and all this psychology stuff is absurd. It's totally the fault of the parents. They have allowed the kids to bully them, and they bow down to them! That would not have lasted a hot minute in our house. My parents would have set us straight so fast our heads would spin. My sisters and I are, as your kids are, very adventurous eaters.
Doesn’t work for us all 🤷🏽♀️ I am autistic and I’d go to bed for days on end without food in me. It wasn’t because I was a bad child, or throwing a tantrum. I try everything now. I love everything accept ranch, or my food touching. But I’m also 30 now. Some kids just can’t handle certain textures and stuff. Doesn’t make it bad.
Although may I add… these kids were obviously not autistic. Especially the first boy… he was being way to babied.
@@JourneyInTheCity Exactly. And let's be frank: going without food even for days absolutely ok. Medical experts concur that we can actually go at least three months without it, but must have water daily. I myself have, by choice, gone up to 10 days without food to cleanse my body; just water. Felt wonderful! No, these kids are manipulators, and the parents comply. Going without food would absolutely do no harm... except to their bullying!
@@JourneyInTheCity I must respectfully disagree. If what you're claiming was the case, then the aversions would still be there. Autism is allegedly a lifelong condition. Autism or not, as a parent I'd handle the situation the same. Kids hungry enough will eventually eat, and it doesn't harm them a bit to go without until they do. It's a battle of the wills. Children should never be permitted to win those battles, take authority, or parents will be beaten down at the whim of the child ever after that.
I DISCOVERED SOME EPISODES I HAVENT SEEN YET LETS GOO
These kids that don't eat get SOOOOO much attention!! No wonder they act up, they get endless attention over food.
Yes, the endless fussing and pandering to these little tyrants! Just ignore them and don’t give them anything else. Sooner than later, they’ll get hungry.
Why is it every time a new set of episodes come out they don’t ever release the last two episodes of the week? 🤦🏼♀️
It’s possible they’re not available in the US…
these were clearly filmed in the early 2000's (or Britain is 20 years behind in style) can we get updates on what happened to all these kids?
Not one of them ' lays the law down' so to speak, so no wonder the kids act up. Do they not have a backbone?
Dad stop the food fuss. Dont talk about it. Just wait some days, if not eaten in day or two he ll get hungry. Dont give alternatives. Let them get hungry , foid at meals, not between. Stop the fuzz and spoiling. Kids needs firm, warm loving, fair and grown parents that sets clear boundaries and routines.
That little girl that hates her mom rules the family as a dictator. She thinks she s the boss. Parents must be the grown up. Toddlers goes through fases, periods. Thing changes . Choose your battles, dont argue with small kids, stay firm, dont fuss so much about small stuff. Focus on the big issues and win the war. Calm firm communication and consequences for bad behavior
That blonde boy with the no eating is adorable.
“We don’t need that bread do
we” He is both irritating and adorable😊
I thank God my kids are grown!!!
I would really appreciate it to watch the full program and to know what happened and the end results for these beautiful Children and their Families?
Me too !!!!!!
The eating disorders always confuse me. The parents buy the food so it seems like just not buying the junk would solve the issue. So grateful my entire family was adventurous when it came to food so we never struggled with that. My kids had very few foods they didn't like and ate very well. Unfortunately my son had several food allergies (food coloring, preservatives and sulfates were the bane of my existance.)
My kids have always been very adventurous eaters - my daughter fell in love with sushi at the age of five, for example and still loves it. I do not think my husband and I did anything special, aside from introducing all kinds of foods from an early age, plus got them involved with shopping and cooking. I think we just got lucky, tbh. Some kids are super tasters or they may have sensory issues, I don’t know, maybe they had a scary experience with food, or maybe the parents allowed behavior that the rest of us didn’t. But their daughter eats normally, so it’s a weird thing.
@@pinkmonkeybird2644 I was a somewhat picky eater, but my mom had her limits as to what she allowed and what she didn't. I was allowed to skip out on 1 thing, but I had to eat a double helping of something else, typically veggies. But I wasn't ever allowed to totally dictate what I would eat at any point.
My sister went insane if she had E102, Tartrezine?? Colourings can be dodgy things
Exactly! Stop giving it to them, eventually they will get hungry and they will eat normal food, they only do it because it works!!!!
I'm sorry to say that all I see are oppositional defiant lil a**holes. Parents do better!!!!!!
Too old for a pacifier and a diaper
Cannot understand a word of the young single mother. What dialect is this??
Scottish
Egads! This appears to be the most troubled group of families so far to be on the show. To me the main issue the families are there for present as behavioral with the child except for the continually in a tantrum child. There must be something very wrong with his very soul to continue to cry and scream like that. A child cannot wish to go about being miserable all day. Its not natural. How does his mother keep herself together while struggling with a large for his age boy during every daily task and he's crying & screaming while flailing about. Egads!
I think that he is crying and throwing tantrums because his mother, without realizing it, has taught him that this is the way for him to get what he wants. Also, when he hits, bites, etc. she doesn’t discipline him, which would teach him that there are consequences for his bad behavior. I really hope that she is able to turn this situation around for the sake of her child.
I couldn't, not for 1 day listen to that FAKE crying!
Wow He is a big boy! I was wondering why he had a binky in his mouth and still in diapers he is two years old(The Terrible Two’s).
Two yr olds are usually in diapers! They are usually potty trained between 2.5 and 3 yrs old, and potty trained at night around a yr later. My daughter had a pacifier until she was 3, but my son never had any interest in them. Every child is different.
Why don't any of these parents tell their children to STOP and then ignore them until they do? Ridiculous.
Where can you find more Tiny Tearaways season two episodes?
O i so relate on callum... he id big just like my kids... when my youngest was just 1.5 yrs they tought he was amost 4 years and almost go to school... he wasnt in kindergarden yet.
I can’t believe he is using a pacifier at his age and wearing diapers at night and hits his mom who allows it! His mother is an enabler and probably a few other parents are as well. Best wishes for everyone
He’s 2! Have you ever heard of the terrible twos? A 2 year old wearing a diaper, especially to bed, is extremely normal
All 2 yr olds wear diapers at night. They don’t have the bladder control or ability to wake themselves up to go to the bathroom.
Pfff the boy witch the toothbrush. Let him do it himself. And only help him after it a little bit...
And she if she doesnt want pyamas fine then nothing on.
Weak parenting ! Grow a pair .
It would help if I could understand what the blonde single mom was talking about. I can understand about 1/4 of what she is saying
Me too!
Can we get tanya here in Canada . Claire needs a proper cuddle and sleep.
Why cal it proper food!!! It is just food...
Ad the other things are sweets and just for ocasional... (crisps sweets)
Dont give him other food...
And dond go and say o your so sad o bla bla bla...
This is just that he wants control
If it is a fobie than.... you have an other route...
But. I dont know...
My boys have asd and they have a food "problem" because of this. But... i dont give them snacks and just g with the flow...
Episode 5 and 6 were privated for some reason.
9 KIDS TOG IN PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIPS?
DAMN BRITS REALLY DONT KNOW THE MEANING OF BIRTH CONTROL
OMG i can't even help it each 1 of those children i would've back handed!!! Lmao. Dont attack me either cuz I said what u are thinking.
Not what everyone is thinking. I don’t hit children.
Not what I’m thinking at all!
It's exactly what I was thinking. Maybe not a backhand, but definitely a pop on the behind!
Parents today want to be friends with their kids.
They want to be liked by their kids.
I am happy I had a parents I had.
The last one talulla... the dad must be firm and stand next to his wife and say to the girl that dad is not doing everyting for her and that he doesnt put up eith her tantrums
Are these old?
We're filmed Around 15 -16 years ago
she dresses callin cute
bet they didn’t try the BELT 😩😭😂
what the actual uck those are not human beings
Literally abandon those devil's immediately
CKDIEM QmNleogaoq😊
Some psych meds will seriously help out as well.
So you're brilliant advice is to medicate them and smack them around? I hope you don't have kids
yeah, why not pump growing brains full of dangerous chemicals for something that’s 100% the parents’ fault? Stinkin’ thinkin’!