If People Understood What Introverts Really Meant...
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- Опубліковано 29 бер 2021
- If there was a Duolingo course to learn introvert.
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Lol I didn’t mean to end up here but of course I clicked on this instead of my UA-cam tutorial. “Yeah cool um up for watttevah” Goodbye classes 🤣
Nice maah stash 👌🏼😜lol the accent 😄 ok. I need to pee now..
Frank, do you think that the 16 personalities test result can be influenced by social anxiety? Is possible that an extrovert to come to the conclusion (because of the test result) that he is an introvert, but in fact, he suffers from social anxiety? I mean..you can avoid people cuz you really like to spend your time alone or cuz you are scared of interaction, of failure, mistakes... The test does not take into account the reasons why you generally avoid social situations..
Come on fellow introvert comrades, we must go to the mother lands, Introvertia
@@DiscoveryWonders a baby? 😃🥰... That is too much to handle...the cuteness 😍
Atleast dad tried, learned and understood.
Most parents don't
@@riswanaartbook6400 don't*
grammar nazi
Good god is this going to be me in a few years? Puts on vans and buys skateboard listening to pop punk songs in my 40's.
I’m getting a bit jealous here lmao
“You awkwardly stand around until they ask you “what’s up?”” I FEEL ATTACKED lol
He did that part well. Definitely thought he was the introvert at first 😆 That's exactly how I interact with people
"What's happening?"
"•I'm in this picture and I don't like it"
I can relate to this on a spiritual level 🤣🤣
I hate when my mom does that. It makes me so uncomfortable
@@Laura-ql4mg same haha
“Duolingo course that helps you talk to introverts”
Dude if only that was a thing
Lesson 1: Don't
@@panlis6243 🤣🤣🤣
They have Klingon, maybe they're working on it 😂
@travis Rm No cuz the course ends at lesson 1
How about a course that helps introverts talk to extroverts?
The introverts course was a hit. We're in desperate need for the extroverts version right now.
Yes
Absolutely
@@ruileite4579 sasageyo sasageyo ⚔💕
Step one: For the propper pronounciation be sure to ingest at least 3 shots of Tequila.
Yesh
"Duolingo is not real, it can't expose you"
Duolingo:
..
“I’ll finally be able to understand you in your native tongue”
“Which is English”
I like how the son had to remind his father that introversion is not a language. XD
I read that as he said it
wdym
:3
Yeah but right at the end it perfectly translated him. So is it actually a language?
Still want to have that Duolingo course. Hope they make an extrovert version!
People: Do you want to go to the party?
Introverts: That sounds cool.
Meaning: IT ACTUALLY, LITERALLY SOUNDS COOL. I won't go, but the idea is still cool 😌😌😌😌😌
Lol the truth!
Omg YES
Ha! 👏👏👏
Yea lit party, had a total blast in my head thinking about it. Thnx bro, but I'm gonna get back to WoW now we got a guild raid in 20 minutes and I really can't miss it. Have fun though :)
*_Yes_*
Awww... Dad cares about his son so much that he seeks out new ways to communicate, even if it makes Dad sound like he sustained a serious head injury on the way to the bibliotheque. 🤕🥴 Now that’s 💜 right there... 👏😁🙌
Are u from the future? cuz it says u posted this 11 hours ago
@@ifyoucanttellIlikemilk 😮😮 true!!
Donde esta la biblioteca?
😂🤣✌️💜
Yes, I love that part, he just wants to understand his son better, get closer to him and spend more time together, that's cute.
It's real love XD
Damn Duolingo, They started revealing our secrets. I need to be careful now on 😂😂
This course doesn't exist dude FJ just made it up for fun😂💜
@@user-friendly9969 I know lol 🤣 I'd feel unsafe if they do 🤣
Quick! We need to invent a new ‘language’ only us introverts can understand!
@@TsukabuNosoratori2 As an ambivert do I need to learn it? 😅😂😜
@Kreith well crap my language learning is 😩👎
INTP here. My problem is that people don't understand me even though I literally say what I think.
"I don't want to come to the party. I don't like parties"
"Oh! You just have to get out of your shell and have fun"
"I don't have any shell, I don't like parties"
"This is what you say to avoid to exit your comfort zone. You'll enjoy it"
"NO!!! I LITERALLY SIMPLY DON'T LIKE PARTIES"
"Oh come on! Everybody does. You are just shy"
Me crying in a corner.
everyone loves parties. you've just never been to the right one. that's a fact.
-entp (wanna debate it? lmao)
I really hate the phase "come out of your shell." Like there's some better version of myself people think I need to bring out for their benefit. Guess what? This it it. I don't think I have a shell, but if I do, it's more of a filter that stops me from saying whatever thought is in my head and I think there are a lot of people out there that could use a little more of that.
Hate when people do that it's like they can't even understand that some people are just different.
this is what I go through every time my friends want to go somewhere with people. It gets old REAL FAST.
Yep. As an INFP, I say the same things and get the same responses. Other people seem to think they know me and what's best for me better than I do. They also seem to think there's something wrong with me, like depression or shyness or whatever. Nope, I'm just an introvert!
“Yeah, I’m good with whatever.”
Translation: “There’s actually something else I’d very much like to do more, but I don’t want to feel like I’m forcing you into something so I’ll just go along with this.”
Me
Yes
Relatable
Duolingo should hire you
omg y e s
My all extrovert friends to me- "I always thought you were doing drugs utill I found out that you're an introvert"
That sounds like what one of my friends told me one time. He said something along the lines of I thoght you were a conceited douche bag when I first met you but you were actually pretty cool once I got to know you.
@@jacobharris5894 ig we all seem pretty douchey till people actually talk to us
@@luvbug_m Yeah I guess. I don't usually like to presume though.
@@jacobharris5894 if i get a dollar everytime someone said that to me...
@@jacobharris5894 yeah honestly, can't say I'd want to hang out with someone that assumed I was an @sshole for no reason. Like, you just lowkey hate me and think negative sh*t about me simply b/c I'm not talkative but change your mind all of a sudden, f*ck off
Edit: I mean, I'm sure lots of people feel that way, but don't f*cking say it out loud to me
"Are you okay? You look mad. Did I say something wrong?"
"I don't know, That's my Face?"
Duolingo: *aggressively taking notes
Everyone always thinks I'm bored with their conversations or sad and I'm just like, it's my face thanks
@Mohammad Al Omari I'm tired of hearing "why are you sad/sick/mad?" when it's just my face with neutral expression. people are clueless and disrespectful.
Apparently that's my face when I'm in deep thought about what to eat for dinner. I look "mad." 😂
Or maybe when your told to do something and your just slightly annoyed because you have to move only for that person to perceive you as having an attitude. You didn't have to take it so personally I'll get over it in a phew minutes. Its a whole mood to change from one activity to the next.
Duolingo: You've missed your Introvert language lesson today, you know what that means...
Dad: Uhm son, why is there and angry bird with a knife on my phone?
Ahahaha DEAD!! 🤣
"Don't break your streak or I'll chop off your feet"
@Luke Ford the only family I has..😖..
@@rebeccahermosillo6 literally
I live for the awkwardness in these sketches😂
The eye contact to the camera 🤣🤣🤣🤣
LOL Same
If I get angry, or at least annoyed, I’m usually told to “calm down.” 🤦♀️
What is this thing called "Angry", as a INFP im stressed or anxious, but i can not be angry on persons because even if someone irritating me, i mostly already understands their reasons and dont blame them (Only exception are Politics, screw them).
@@JakubNaceradsky I'm also an INFP, wait untill you have children XD. Child molesters make me angry, pedophiles make me angry. My ENTP boyfriend makes me angry sometimes. There are a lot things that make me angry, most of them are caused by humans, sometimes even myself XD.
My mom ended up learning that if I take a deeper breath than normal and don't say anything, I want to say something 😆
But she's also an introvert
As an intuative I can read those close to me pretty well. I can usually tell when my son wants to tell me something by the expression on his face.
People are still struggling with that one for me kek
Did she learn that its usually something she doesnt want nor need to hear?
@@randombystander991 No, it was any topic, not just negative things.
Dad gets past “are ya winnin son?” with the help of Duolingo
Noooo 😂😂💔
Me: I wish I could, but I’m busy tonight 😗
My friends: That means “I’m not interested in your boring party” listen ...😏
Duolingo: “I’m busy tonight”
Me: Duolingooooo😤😤😤
Literally all the people approaches me like this even my family
How do you do it?
My family did too. But I managed to make them give up
The complexity of an introverts language is so complex that dualingo doesn’t catch on that
“Yeah, I’m down for whatever.”
Means
“I have no care for what we are doing so long as we go to do it quickly so that I can get back home quickly.”
I’m a next level introvert. I don’t stand around until people approach me. I stalk them from afar so that I can analyze a good way to stand there until I get their attention.
That is overthinking to the MAX 🤣
And then you never end up walking there cause either a: you realize you're too nervous or b: it's not important anymore or c:you took too long
@@naowright9308 Amateur :)
Hey introvert doesn't mean you lack social skills.
Try Sigma male
It's actually quite endearing that the dad took the time to take a duolingo course in order to better communicate with his son.
The idea of people understanding exactly what I"m saying is both exciting and absolutely terrifying
Lol the only flaw in his learning was that he was trying to “spend more time” with an introvert XD We would rather be alone and antisocial thanks
We had people over they stayed for like three hours and I didn't show up to say hi .my sister told them that it takes me toooo long to shower (which it does but I-) then I finally showed up at the end and everyone was like FINALLY WHAT A LONG SHOWER .had to make human interaction 😳 then i ran back to my room . And when i decided to actually sit with them they were on the door ready to go back home
-story of an introvert
At least i got to eat dessert that they brought
My dad made us be there for introductions and my mom made us sit at the table to eat(children eating is very important to her). But after the intros we were not required to interact with the company unless we wanted to. My little brother would stay in his room, come down for intros, go up till supper was called, eat, then go back to his room till they left. We were shy, but he was more shy than me. I would feel comfortable to talk to them after about an hour or so.
I just pull the "I was studying" excuse and then pretend to be tired, grab something to eat and say I'll be back as soon as I "finish this lesson". I graduated college but would 100% go back to it to keep using this excuse
The neckline on that shirt though...nice.
🤮
Introverts can be spontaneous and up for anything, with a select few people they are close with :)
That bit at the end lmao.
"Funny of you to say that because..."
*shows exactly the sentence introvert just said
Introvert: :0...>:(
XD
Ladies and Gentlemen we got them 😂
@@nyaarts20 That's the most fitting quote tbh. XD
Bruv it's the face for me 😂
"I always thought you were doing drugs until I found out that you're an introvert" That was literally what my mom was like, just less yelling and less searching my stuff and never leaving me alone until she heard about people being introverts and realizing I never ever did drugs
Yeah, during my teen years, my parents would check in on me at random times to make sure I wasn't sneaking out, and I was always just in my room reading like "why would I want to sneak out? there are people out there"
This is so weird to me 😮 my parents always just thought I was a good kid. If they've thought anything else, they've never said it.
@@taylorjade6918 I wonder how many introverts are seen as "well behaved" just by default and how many extroverts who are genuinely fantastic people get labeled just because they get excited!
@@alexachipman Oh my mom is like that but also the opposite, she just thought that I was taking drugs or was a narcissist or both because I'm an introvert and didn't want to be around people much. Also that must have really sucked
We all have this one friend that understands but still drags us to social events-
Yes yes yes and the leave you alone around people you don’t know. I hate that.
Duolingo... always bringing people closer. Even if they don't want to.
🤣🤣👏👏
Best line " Introversion doesn't define me". Actually we are not 100 % introvert. Only a lunatic can be 100% introvert
I personally set aside my introversion for a while when seeing my father sitting alone since i know he's an extrovert, a lot of people either extroverts and introverts regret after their parents rest in peace because they didn't deliberately make time for their parents to talk things even though it is senseless.
Why did I think the dad was actually his dad for a moment
I can see why you thought that. They have a striking resemblance.
mustache
The amount of times I used that 'need to go to sleep rn because I have an early morning' excuse in just one week alone, is ridiculous
I use that one a lot plus "I have work tonight" and the old standby "I need to run an errand, I'll meet you there (I don't)"
"No, I'm not angry" is closer to "I am angry that you asked if I was angry when I was perfectly calm, and I take exception to the fact that you think I have a bad temper, but I don't want to start an argument about it"
Now we need a course on extroverts so we can learn how to not personally offend them by being ourselves and minding our own business
Awwww, the dad is just trying to understand his son:) How touching
I feel you, Rita. 🙄
I need to install that app
Oh- it's not for someone else is for *understand myself better*
Lmao same-
If people understood what us introverts really meant... they would be absolutely terrified. Particularly when they realise we've seen straight through them and know what they're really about instead of what they want us to think they're about.
Imagine the horror if they realised how many times we were there when they said or did things that they don't want others to know, but didn't notice us because of our introversion superpower. 😏
@@laviniasnow4494 I don't have to imagine it. I've pulled that stunt. Usually inadvertently, but I've pulled it. And oh my. The look of horror. They look like they'd rather have John Wick after them.😨
@@harryboyes2812 OMG, yes! Chills going down their spines! Sometimes I like doing that to them 😏 other times I just feel sorry for their racing hearts and minds.
@@laviniasnow4494 I often think - and sometimes say outright - "Maybe in future you'll pay attention." But they usually don't, so guess what happens? Yep, they get another fright. 😱
@@harryboyes2812 For me it starts with „Last week (or whenever for that matter) this happened and my answer is “I know, I was there.” or I continue their story and they get freaked out because they realise all the possible times I was there without them knowing it. 😂
😂🤣 "I thought you were doing drugs." 👀... I got that all the time...from everyone...because I liked to read most of the day. Apparently "read" is code for "drugs" I n Duolingo 🤷♀️
@Pragmaticist 🤣😂 unbelievable
That Duolingo course would actually be pretty useful.
I love the Duolingo introvert accent. This one was sooo hilarious!
"my native language is english"
"That's what I used to think, too!"
me: 👁️👄👁️
"You sound like you were hit in the head with a two-by-four"
I'm dead🤣🤣🤣
WE NEED MORE ENNEAGRAM TYPES SKETCHES.😭😭😭😭😭😭
“Why is it in that accent?” LMAO
How I say I'd like to watch Frank James: "Yeah, cool. I'm down for whatever."
I'm happy my parent give some space to me and never annoyed with their " INTROVERT" daughter...
PS: because they "INTROVERT" too
"Yeah, Cool. I'm up for whatever", took me a minute to understand but I got it. Lmfao....atleast I'm pretty sure I did.
Introverts typically don't want to go out ...but then they also say that they do. Either because they want to believe that they can enjoy going out of the house. OR because its easier to say yes and agree, than to say no and explain why.
That's a very good father , making efforts to communicate.
My dad does his best to understand my introverted ways. Then proceeds to invitie me to a family get together.. "Self Head Slap"
My dad: knows that im an introvert with social anxiety
Also him: forces me to go to a Thanksgiving dinner with a bunch of people i dont know and are uncomfortable to be around with.
That actually sounds like a good idea, if only there was a duolingo course for each personality type. Everyone would understand each other so much better ❤
As long as it has a 'confidential' setting for INFJs :)
Fe-dom vibes
"The phrase for, 'I don't want to go to the discoteque'..." 😂 Introvert busted by Duolingo! 😜🤦👍💜
Can't tell if this is sponsored by Duo Lingo or not 😂
😂😂😂😂❤️
*stares at phone * means leave
Answering "yeah" while smiling means we love you
Answering "yeah" while not smiling means we are not happy 🙃
This could definitely be a small pamphlet
When you invite an introvert to an event and their response is a slightly panicked expression and "uh..." they are frantically trying to think of a plausible excuse to escape.
Worse if you simply never smile...people don't know what you mean about anything.
"you sound like you were hit on the head with a 2×4" 😅😅😅😅
As ENFJ/ENFP who is surrounded by several introverts for long years, I would say this. Introverts can talk, a lot. They just need to have created a proper conditions and their boundaries to be respected:
1) They need to know you to open up
2) They need to know you have genuine interest in what they are saying, also by attentive listening
3) They need a certainty that short answer is sometimes sufficient for you and you won't dig but...
4) Sometimes they need a little nudge, a short question by which you assertain them that their problems are important for you and they don't need to feel ashamed to talk about it... if this nudge is given in not pressing, but really ascertaining way, it can really help them to open up and then you should just shut up and listen :)
5) if we say we dont like something what we realy mean is, i HATE this
Me and my sister literally start binge watching your videos! Why can't we just stop at one video? Like why are you so relatable man😂🤣????
😂😂😂😂😂 I'm dying. I wish my parents, who are both extroverts, could've downloads this version of duolingo to find out what's going on with me, their very introverted daughter 😂😂😂😂
Amazing vid, FJ! You keep oudoing yourself 😂😂✨✨✨✨✨✨💜
I thoght it's genetic. Our family spends 98% of the day each in ther own room lol. Usually we just run into each other in the kitchen.
@@Gaze73 omg that sounds amazing 💖💖💖💖💖💖👌🏻😭😭 I'd give it all to have a family dinamic like that!
It’s so weird because I don’t talk at all near people I don’t know really well and I’m so scared of social interaction but when I’m with my parents or best friend, I’m like the biggest extrovert on earth. Like what even am I? Lol
Awkwardly stand around until people ask you what's up , you look like you are about to throw up LMAo
If it really worked, whenever you tell Duolingo a phrase you want to say to an introvert the conversion would read: "SEND A TEXT."
“Why are you shuffling around acting like you want to talk but not saying anything.”
That first part was my very introverted ISTJ son. Like. I think FJ has cameras in my house. 😳
In the next video: "Today's sponsor is Duolingo for Introvertese. When simply listening is not enough."
Yeah, some people think us introverts just need more social interaction.
We love parents like this! Trying everything to understand their kid!
I hate when people say Im good with whatever, LIKE HELLO, PLEASE HELP ME WITH THE DECISION. THAT GIVES ME NOTHING TO GO ON loooool
i haven't dealt with lately😂😂finally broke my husband of saying that, i used to say, help with the decision 👍🏻
@@Kate98755 hahahah how long did it take??
I usually say, "I don't care." But I think it means the same thing.
Ikr
edit: buuut I feel a tad hypocritical saying that becuz the reason I want THEM to suggest something is precisely because *I* am cool with whatever they want to do 😅
Do you happen to be a J? Lol. I find Ps tend to be more indecisive than Js. What is really weird is, as an INFP, who is very indecisive, when I find others who are even MORE indecisive than I am, and so then I have to make the decision. Oof
Anybody else feel like extroverts just talk for the sake of it?
No they talk because they love to
@@iitjee-insider7431 ah...
"Siri, define love."
Wow, I feel so special... the video came out 2 minutes ago but there are already tons of comments from 11 hours ago 😂
Yes but your comment is from ten minutes ago and the video says it's from 6 minutes ago... You are a time traveler too!!
I remember people thinking they are punishing me by refusing to visit. They didn't know I'm actually relieved and glad.
What baffles them is why I don't beg to see them... Or be angry when we meet unexpectedly...
U know I'm really glad that there are introverts out there....
Cuz they actually listen to us extroverts💕
(Also in group projects they do all the work and I just do the talking)😂😂😂
Gotta warn you though, although we thank you for doing the talking, it really annoys introverts when you just let them do all the work. We'll DO it, and we won't complain to your face, but it's actually super annoying to us. On the flip side, we'll probably never say anything about this either, but we really love it when you do do an equal amount of the work. Just a helpful tip :)
@@willowphoenix5926 ooohh ok thanks for telling me its just that as an extrovert when I don't like something I would say it but I see how its different for introverts as they're not as sociable
I'll try to be more understanding🙂
Many of us are simply smiling painfully, nodding occasionally, so it’ll seem like we’re listening, and hoping you’ll stop talking soon so we can go back to our thoughts.
@@altitudeiseverything3163 introverts are very different from us extroverts as I love conversations and I love to socialise and talk and before I used to think that introverts were people who were just sad or depressed but I realised that people are different and some people might not like to talk or socialise,
Us extroverts do have a downside tho, we just say whats on our minds or when others talk we might just talk over them cuz thats what we like doing I guess
@@laibasohail4604 I am an introvert but I would talk in a group and work at the same time but only if I have to.Then again I have the ISTJ personality type.I do some small talk everyday but for a limited amount of time.
That was so accurate I'm glad that course doesn't exist for real because as much as would like my family to understand what I'm really saying...I would hate for my family to understand what I'm really saying.
This is funny way to talk introvert feelings
"the phrase for I am very angry is no I am not angry"
god damn you Doulingo, god daaaamn youuu.
Duolingo: Newman! 😤
Exactly!💀😂👍
What the fuck????? You commented 12 hours ago?? How is that even possible?
“If it was obvious I wouldn’t be asking you what you were doing”
That’s so me
"My Language Is English" LMAO!! You are crazy talented. My laughs for the day!
At least he is trying to understand you. I would be so happy for finally someone to understand and not call me a weirdo
"My language is English." "Yeah, that's what I thought too!" 🤣
So funny and accurate! I’m an INFJ. I’ve sometimes come out in tests as ENFJ and I can be sociable when I need to be, but introversion is probably my basic nature.
That's funny cause I took the test and always get INTP but i answered more social answers this time cause I've gotten much more social after overcoming trauma and it still said INTP lol
I can't stop laughing every time I hear ''got to hit the sack …early'' 😂 …the characters are great as always lol
Awesome exactly what I needed
How to talk to introverts no1 rule: don't talk to them for just the talking.
„Isn’t it obvious?“
Infj: Yes, you‘re totally obvious. But I never am. So keep studying...
dads understand a lot more than they seem to. they just pretend not to because they dont give a crap about their image in that regard and find the reactions hilarious
"I'm not angry" part is the best😂😂It's damn related to me and all of introverts
Ah yes now I can talk to you your native language.
My native language is English.
Had my dying 😂😂😂
I’ve never thought about how introverts speak their own convoluted language?? And we all understand each other to some extent in that language but can’t communicate properly in English when it comes to basic socialization??
I think we have a lot of body language communication. For example I sometimes volunteer at museums to give tours, and I can instantly tell if an introvert is uncomfortable and trying to escape, without them saying a word. I have gone and rescued introverts from fellow tour guides many times by walking up, offering to show them something, then doing a quick "let me know if you have questions!" and then leaving them be, safely in a different room. I've gotten a lot of "THANK YOU!" responses.
Yes! I hate it when people ask, “Isn’t it obvious?” Um, obviously not.
that reminds me i wanted to learn languages, but i did not open duolingo for two years 😑
"Introversion doesn't define who I am" - speak for yourself
Me: why isn't this app real?
Also me: thank God it isn't.. phew...
it is real
@@StrongestLibrafluidAlive I'm talking about a duo lingo app that translated introverts 😂
Ngl, I like the dad’s attempt at connecting, “he a lil’ confused, but he got the spirit”.
This was such a satisfactory realizarion for the father.
We need this on Doulingo
Lol the accent though I guess that's just our introvert monologue voice because we have plenty of those right
Hahaha! I'm going to contribute to this course on Duolingo when it's a thing!
FJ, please keep up the good content! You make so many people's days brighter