Retirement and the Changes Required
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- Retirement and the Changes Required
Everything and every THING changes! Nothing stays the same. The cycles of change permeate and are part of all of our life experiences. Experiences come and go. If we don’t learn to let go of them we suffer. This is especially the case when we’ve been identifying with a certain aspect of our life that is no longer pertinent. It’s no longer there. It’s gone.
Hopefully this video will help you move on with your life.
A couple of years before I retired I bought myself an expensive new sewing machine and a special table for it to sit in, I have never regretted it. It will last me the rest of my life and I use it several times a week making quilts and more recently dolls. I see myself as a quilter and have completely let go of my past occupations. My head is full of what I can do next, new ideas and challenges. My husband now writes books and has three successful published novels and two in the pipeline. There’s always a new direction or challenge in life but you have to go find it.
That's wonderful, Kate. So glad you've found what you really love to do.
I'm just happy to see your face.
Thanks, Wacama67.
Me too I’m a bit worried that one day he will just stop….. and we won’t know what happened. Well we will guess but we won’t know.
we all had our toys ! they say he who has the most toys when he dies wins....I never believed it for a minute sir ! The job I had I very much hated...Had to stay as my wife needed the insurance as she had cancer, back then if I had went to another job then her condition would be declared pre existing, and insurance would be denied, or terribly expensive, so I stayed with that job, gritted my teeth, and endured by lots of prayer...
Thanks for telling me that, Grandpa Hicks. You know in retrospect that you acted nobly and from love...and man cannot do better than that. I sincerely hope things will improved for you in the time ahead.
I found myself being 65 and so much has changed. When I was 60 I could walk 10 to town. I couldn’t do that now. I’m having problems with balance, I have tinnitus which is hell. I’ve had to make adjustments. My memory not as good. I’m lonely and I think that’s the hardest thing. I don’t have a car. Broke down can’t afford to fix. There are perks. My taxes are about a third what they were. I am lucky I own my own home. It needs repairs. If it’s not a new water heater, or toilet, the stairs need to be repaired as well as the gutters. Being a single older person you need help and that’s hard to find or afford. I just keep on trucking
Hi, Kathy. There is a fair bit on UA-cam on balance that you might find beneficial. I've looked at a few of them. Also, if could be a good idea to find someone to help you re regaining your health. Sixty-five is far too young to start losing mobility.
Thanks Arthur (or should I call you Tom). Another great, thought provoking video. Always focus on looking forward rather than dwelling too much on the past. 👏
Thanks, Brendan. I've been watching your videos, too. I like your style. May success flow to you.
Retired in Miami Beach has one season......very easy living in that respect. life is change and acceptance is key.....Peace and love
Thanks, User-pe7. May you enjoy that season. Though from what I'm hearing on the news it's hurricane time in your part of the USA at present.
I retired 2 months ago. I’ve been in a rut lately. Thanks for the advice. I’ll get back moving tomorrow. 👍🏻Thanks!
Thanks for posting, Wahiawamang6622. It can take a while to "getting into retirement," and it's common to go through a 'down phase' for a while. I suggest you watch George Jergian video, 'The Four Phases of Retirement' on UA-cam. Some valuable stuff in that one.
I have a nice pile of stuff, but it consists of LP's, old books and art materials, a picnic basket and walking shoes. that's all i need to live out the rest of my life. i am finding people around me are not able to share in my peaceful future, ive become to learn to keep my circle of company very small and my creative lively senses as large as possible.
Read a good book, create beautiful art, and listen to beautiful instrumentals, happiness will be abundant.
Sounds good, Roy.
No retired yet, but come here often because since I was a kid, I loved to learn from other people and listen to their word of wisdom.
Bravo thanks Tom! How people see us is up to them. How we see ourselves is the important thing.
Right on, Marc.
I am 45. I sit at a desk all day: I hope to work on my feet somehow and have adventures going forward, but I am not sure what the heck to do workwise.
Anyhow, this is a fantastic video! To me it has overtones of Stoicism. I hit "Subscribe."
Thanks, Jason. Much appreciated. Keep looking re work. Something will come up.
Well SAID
yea, holding on to the past is easy; however, letting go is much harder to do. All parts of life are changing - health, financial, family, etc. but as I get older it seems to be changing faster than I ever thought. It is almost like time is going faster and faster which just reinforces to me that the end of life is nearer than I can imagine, even though I don't know when that might be, but it is coming. So like you I am thinking retire early and enjoy what you have left, find new things to do that you enjoy, and make new friends if that is what it takes.
That's the message, Jerome.
Your points always hit home! Will definitely buy the book. Thank you so much, Tom!
Thanks, Frank. Yes, there's a lot of good stuff in that book.
He does regularly doesn't he!
I'm experiencing nothing but relief & peace currently. I still wake up by 05:30 am naturally typically, but that sure beats the alarm going off at 04:30 am. Suppose I was 'Teched' and other means out of my job. I was a medication nurse at least the last 10 yrs. Meds went computerized in 2017, many retired I was too young, now there's these designer anti-opioid narcotics I used to give that're heavily abused. The job got so much harder since 2017, good RIDANCE! Thanks Tom!
New goals, new prospects, new life, Anthony. Make it a good one for yourself.
@@arthurthomasware5004 What a wonderful message to wake up to Thank You Arthur!
I’ll buy the buy the my son who’s now 37, just approaching those difficult years when he realises he’s not going to be famous, invent a new Google or be CEO of Shell! We all have hopes and dreams then discover one day how ordinary we are…. and that it’s pretty OK actually.
Yes, so many of us go through that. Thanks, BoningtonBrighton.
Thank you for this Arthur. I love your straight talking and direct videos. It's so refreshing to watch someone of your 'vintage' make UA-cam videos. You are an inspiration.
I'm 55 and will be retiring in a couple of months. It's exciting and scary at the same time. I listen to your words and they constantly give me the reminder that I've done the right thing. Phase 2 of my life is about to start and it's a whole new adventure! Thanks again and I look forward to your next video!
Thank you, Simon, for your kind words.
Good morning Tom from St. Cloud, Minnesota, USA
Good morning to you, John. It's 7.15 am here in Aussie as I read your comment.
Thank you sir.
And thank you for your thanks, Koenhirayama.
Hello Tom. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts and experience. I have to learn to accept change and create curiosities. Best wishes.
Well said, Oscar.
Great video Tom. Very insightful as always. The only thing that doesn't change is change itself. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I should add that I'm finding that I have to create or realise the new image of myself, so as not to stagnate. Cheers, Sean.
Glad to hear that, Sean. It's been a few months now, eh? Hope it's going okay.
@@arthurthomasware5004 I'm going well thanks Tom.
These lectures are helpful. Thanks.
Glad you think so, gybx4094. I appreciate your comment.
I love you, Tom, and I know I speak on behalf of everyone who watches your inspirational authentic videos...I am going to buy that book now and for my mentor who has just retired at 70...And this is a little gift from me to you from Ho'oponopono...
I am the eye, I come forth from the void into the light.
I am the breath that nurtures life.
I am the emptiness, that hollowness, beyond all consciousness, the I the id the all.
I draw my bow of rainbows across the waters, the continuum of minds with matters.
I am the incoming and outgoing of breath.
The invisible untouchable breeze,
the undefinable atom of creation.
POI = The Peace of I.
The piece of I.
Peace be with you, all my peace.
The peace that I, the peace that is I am.
The peace for always, now and forever and evermore.
My peace I give to you, my peace I leave with you.
Not the worlds peace, but, only my peace,
The peace of I.🙏🏻
Thanks you so much for those beautiful words, Sonminorimitsuu
Fabulous channel. You are inspiring me. Thank you
Buddha: The root of suffering is attachment.
It's certainly one of the three, Zhugeliang3905
I have often wondered....I think that even the "I Am" changes!
I'd like to know how, Bambi?
Thanks again Thomas.... Stay healthy ...
Thanks, Make_Photos...Will do.
Hi Tom...I've found since retirement that I spend very little time talking about what I did in my working years...only briefly if asked...prefer to look at the present and immediate future. This approach works well for me. I hadn't thought much about until hearing your insights on this interesting subject...thanks mate.
Happy to be of help, Roscoe.
Halfway through the book and so glad you recommended. Another great video!
Glad you're getting something out of it, Eddie. A very wise man, I'd say.
Another great video, Tom. I will have to buy the book you recommended.
Hope you enjoy it, Phillip.
You must keep your house fairly chilly, Tom! Great vid. As always.
Hi, Lyceum4177. Don't have much choice re heating. Thanks for posting.
Very interesting video.
Glad you think so, Lee.