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  • Опубліковано 7 жов 2024
  • The Hippiearab Podcast --- S1 E21
    When are you gonna tell that person you don't want around anymore that you don't want them around anymore? Do you wait? Tell them? Pray for a miracle they'll disappear? It's as simple as telling them 'I don't find value in this anymore, but thank you for everything'. So why do we complicate it? But more importantly, why is it important for us to take that uncomfortable step for better change?
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  • @thebloody_blue
    @thebloody_blue 11 місяців тому +837

    I was a kind of atheist, the war in gaza brings me back to Allah. For the last 3 days I'm praying five times.
    May Allah please with us my friend.

    • @mondrella627
      @mondrella627 11 місяців тому +27

      Alhamdulillah!! So proud of you

    • @mylordtakemeaway
      @mylordtakemeaway 10 місяців тому +14

      Do they not then reflect on the Quran? Had it been from anyone other than Allah, they would have certainly found in it many inconsistencies. 4: 82

    • @mikmogtos
      @mikmogtos 10 місяців тому

      why? there is no god.
      "keep that same energy on the judgement day"
      so no evidence? fear mongering? religion uses fear tactics to sway you in. what has god done for you? it's all naturally explainable. if you want to do something productive stop praying.
      the people of Israel also constantly pray for their god for victory but there are way more muslims in the world and it looks like they're winning hard.

    • @shimunited
      @shimunited 10 місяців тому +4

      Alhamdulillah Allah guides whoever He wants... these Palestinians are so steadfast

    • @misokagigachad67
      @misokagigachad67 10 місяців тому +5

      I wish from Allah you and me will pray till the end of our lives and not get out of this right road. Elhamdulillah

  • @AReflectiveSoul
    @AReflectiveSoul 11 місяців тому +669

    I love that you put the feeling into words. I have no connection to any Palestinians but I also am living with guilt - when I eat, when I spend time with my children, when I change my babies clothes. I treat it as a reminder to make dua for them. As the days go by, I also think about how long their going without food and water. But when I make dua, I make it with certainty that Allah knows what is best, and we do not. Perhaps on the Day of Judgement, it will be us wishing we had their reward. May Allah hasten their relief and make them victorious in this world and the Next.

    • @mahmoudabdelhaliem3082
      @mahmoudabdelhaliem3082 11 місяців тому +8

      ﴿وَما كانَ لِنَفسٍ أَن تَموتَ إِلّا بِإِذنِ اللَّهِ كِتابًا مُؤَجَّلًا وَمَن يُرِد ثَوابَ الدُّنيا نُؤتِهِ مِنها وَمَن يُرِد ثَوابَ الآخِرَةِ نُؤتِهِ مِنها وَسَنَجزِي الشّاكِرينَ﴾ [آل عمران: ١٤٥]

    • @mahmoudabdelhaliem3082
      @mahmoudabdelhaliem3082 11 місяців тому +4

      ﴿وَلا تَحسَبَنَّ اللَّهَ غافِلًا عَمّا يَعمَلُ الظّالِمونَ إِنَّما يُؤَخِّرُهُم لِيَومٍ تَشخَصُ فيهِ الأَبصارُ﴾ [إبراهيم: ٤٢]

    • @cloudedthought5
      @cloudedthought5 11 місяців тому

      Ameen

    • @rahmaanwarisse3197
      @rahmaanwarisse3197 11 місяців тому

      Aaaaameeen

    • @safirawaziri7695
      @safirawaziri7695 11 місяців тому

      Ameen!!❤❤

  • @philklabe2771
    @philklabe2771 11 місяців тому +359

    You have brought joy to a 32 yr old man from Philadelphia Pennsylvania, your podcast changed my Life. With your sincere genuine talks MASHALLAH!⭐️🌙

    • @TruthLoversKoSALAM-fg8dh
      @TruthLoversKoSALAM-fg8dh 11 місяців тому +23

      I am in the same boat, i feel like there is little to no support for the guys even among the guys, it's all a big money hustle in my part of the world and we're so occupied with gaining resources to attract women that we attract all the wrong kinds and then suffer at the hands of our own doing. Thankfully, by saying my daily prayers in the last 5 years have brought so much barakah to my life that I no longer care about those things or go above and beyond to get what I want and accept Allah's continuous blessings upon me so much so that I no longer care for what I don't have or the friends that I have lost simply by having values.

    • @minrajisoo6144
      @minrajisoo6144 10 місяців тому +3

      May Allah bless you, May Allah bless all of us.

    • @istanbulmuskisi5705
      @istanbulmuskisi5705 10 місяців тому +2

      Many Salams brother from 4300 Walnut St ☺

  • @imanefaith2032
    @imanefaith2032 11 місяців тому +31

    The fact that i just unfriended the only friend that i had which was a male yesterday and i also sent him a message saying I m cutting ties with you for the sake of allah and NOW today I see this video and Im like no way could this be a sign that maybe allah is proud of me ??? Alhamdulilaah I wanna let anyone who reads this comment and they are thinking about doing the same thing DO IT wallah just do it its going to be so hard before you take the decision but once you send that message you will be soooo relieved ❤ sending love to farah for sharing her feelings with us you’re inspiring so many and comforting so many ❤️❤️

    • @ikramseifu4321
      @ikramseifu4321 4 місяці тому

      Me too I don’t feel like this video is just a coincidence,Alhamdulilah

  • @highphaa
    @highphaa 11 місяців тому +341

    Farah you've been helping me along with a lot of other people better ourselves as muslims through the content that you've been sharing with us, be it this podcast or your instagram stories/posts, etc.. this is one of the main things that you'll be proudly presenting to the almighty on the day of judgement you'll be like "Allah I have helped people become better muslims and i even helped those who were curious about islam take steps closer to reverting by sharing educational/inspiring content about the purpose of islam on social media" I honestly envy you for this MashaAllah.
    You have my absolute respect.

    • @safasiddiqui2299
      @safasiddiqui2299 11 місяців тому +15

      So well said 🤍. I cannot agree more, and wish for the same for her and for all people who do their best to enjoin good and forbid evil. May Allah swt grant them and us Jannat ul Firdaus :)

    • @hippiearab
      @hippiearab  11 місяців тому +147

      I love each and every one of you, may Allah unite us in Jannah

    • @nour5893
      @nour5893 11 місяців тому +4

      So true😢😢❤❤❤I love her! She changed me😊 a lot!

    • @highphaa
      @highphaa 11 місяців тому +6

      @@hippiearab InshaAllah ameen, we love you too 🤍

    • @greenbananas12378
      @greenbananas12378 11 місяців тому

      Agree Ameen but envy is not a great word

  • @vonvivi
    @vonvivi 11 місяців тому +358

    your videos have felt like such a blessing. as someone who is thinking about reverting, i find your content to be of great guidance for me. thank you for sharing your wisdom!
    (edit) i have started learning how to pray and have been praying most of the five prayers all week. i finally told my dad i wanted to revert and he was supportive of my decision. hopefully i will take my shahada soon Insha'Allah.

    • @itslouka850
      @itslouka850 11 місяців тому +18

      Keep up the spirit up !! we're here backing u up whenever u need us

    • @highphaa
      @highphaa 11 місяців тому +20

      May Allah make it easy for you. praying for you x

    • @afiacharm
      @afiacharm 11 місяців тому +11

      May Allah guide u

    • @mute_sparrow
      @mute_sparrow 11 місяців тому +8

      May Allah guide you sister. SubhanAllah

    • @raisin4406
      @raisin4406 11 місяців тому +14

      Just a gentle reminder, we may never live to see tomorrow. Take the right step now while you still have the chance!

  • @keklolov7191
    @keklolov7191 11 місяців тому +149

    THIS IS LITERALLY MY STRUGGLE OF THE PAST MONTHS AND I TEARED UP JUST SEING THE TITLE I LOVE YOU SO MUCH 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @yeet--
      @yeet-- 11 місяців тому +1

      teared up from the title⁉️ that's a bit 2 much

    • @keklolov7191
      @keklolov7191 11 місяців тому +7

      @@yeet-- it’s a common response to a triggering topic…

    • @yeet--
      @yeet-- 11 місяців тому

      @@keklolov7191agreed but how did u know the topic from the title it just says (unfriend them)

    • @keklolov7191
      @keklolov7191 11 місяців тому +4

      @@yeet--something to be triggering doesn’t even actually have to have direct understanding or meaning - i interpret it immediately through my personal lenses so it leads to personal associations thats it

    • @curios69
      @curios69 11 місяців тому +3

      @@yeet--i also thought it’s about unfriending the other gender but when i started the video i thought she meant unfriend who supports Israel

  • @danaalamr3703
    @danaalamr3703 11 місяців тому +90

    “People forget that they’re also people.” -Farah
    Words I will never forget because almost a month ago I left my best friend for 8 years and I was in a group and I left that because I realized it was interfering with my peace and I said it’s time to go. I’m still a bit recovering from the inside but I’m so happy الحمدلله that الله Allah had written for me to leave the group.

    • @iamkindofconfused
      @iamkindofconfused 11 місяців тому +6

      Its so difficult but if they’re not helping you to improve your life and deen, they’re not worth it. May Allah make it easy for us.

    • @danaalamr3703
      @danaalamr3703 11 місяців тому +1

      @@iamkindofconfused Ameen

    • @saraamer8206
      @saraamer8206 10 місяців тому +1

      i did the same 2 yrs ago, iam way happier now i feel so free i reconnected with the girls this past holiday and man they are in the same loop of hopelessness that i was in with them and left them in i feel so sad for them but iam now alienated fro them from how much i changed, and no matter what i say they just either ignore or just agree so its up to Allah fr him to guide them

    • @purink9590
      @purink9590 9 місяців тому +1

      Hey sis I've been going through the same situation now.. we've been Best friends like for five years now and I just feel like if I stay in that group I might lose my Deen... yesterday I talked to them and told them I'm leaving it but- then they told how I've broken their heart and that Allah will ask me on the day of judgement and so- I don't what to do anymore if you see this please respond..I don't know they also told that they will change and won't do anything that is yk- harram or stuff So should I believe them and be with them but I'm afraid what if they don't and I lose myself again...

    • @saraamer8206
      @saraamer8206 9 місяців тому

      @@purink9590 hii ik you arenot asking me but people come and go all the time, you donot have to cut ties you can keep up once in a while but not engage in what they are doing if there are boys in your friends block those. ppl really do come and go and you will meet Allah alone, yk what really helped me was the ayah that friends will be enemies on the day of judgment except for those who helped eachother get gloser to Allah. leaving them for me was because i didnot want to fight them in the Akhira i tried to talk to them about deen but i was ignored. you can give them the benefit of the doubt and try with them if you donot see change just minmize your talk with them. and pray for them and yourself alot

  • @J.A.S.6
    @J.A.S.6 11 місяців тому +77

    You made me cry and rethink about a lot of stuff in my life all these temporary pleasures that I am seeking while people are battling for jannah , I am really ashamed of myself. God bless you sister , it’s rare that I connect with someone on social media that I don’t know but subhanallah your authenticity and doing this for god’s sake gives it a specialness.

    • @J.A.S.6
      @J.A.S.6 11 місяців тому +2

      @JESUSISLORD-zi7fd We love Jesus and his mother Mary we also follow his instructions but never was he a lord he had miracles yes but he was god’s messenger like Abraham, Moses, Noa…
      God is extremely perfect that he doesn’t need to come as a human to earth nor have children. Fellow christian may god guide you to the truth 🤍

  • @mohamedyamini1109
    @mohamedyamini1109 5 місяців тому +3

    this woman never fails to leave me absolutely speechless in the most simplest ways. She literally puts everything exactly as it is, no exaggeration of anything, good or bad...ufff ya Allah

  • @Love-hm2jp
    @Love-hm2jp 11 місяців тому +43

    As a non Muslim, I still watch your and I love your dedication towards your Deen and I do take lessons from you to apply in my daily life. Thank you for making me better 💗 I'm highly grateful I hope God helps you in achieving all the goals you want

  • @halimaamilah8747
    @halimaamilah8747 11 місяців тому +53

    When she asked, "did I just describe your life?" LOL. The smiling and guilt. Just yesterday a friend fell out with me after I gave her a second chance. It's a bad feeling ngl. This has definitely been a weird year for friendships and friendship breakups.

  • @knjparadise
    @knjparadise 11 місяців тому +58

    i recently discovered your channel last week. i’m christian but a lot of what you said resonates deeply with me. please know that im praying for your people💕

    • @carolinaalvarez1985
      @carolinaalvarez1985 10 місяців тому

      Please don’t get led astray, Jesus is the only way to heaven.

    • @soniamalik3397
      @soniamalik3397 8 місяців тому

      MashaAllah...may Allah guides you to the right path 😊♥

  • @hinaye7980
    @hinaye7980 11 місяців тому +34

    Its crazy how your videos always find me when I most need them

    • @hinaye7980
      @hinaye7980 11 місяців тому +1

      @JESUSISLORD-zi7fd what

  • @thebookhunter
    @thebookhunter 11 місяців тому +213

    hi farah! i just recently reverted to islam and have found your videos very helpful. thank you so much!

    • @assia234
      @assia234 11 місяців тому +7

      welcome 🥺

    • @VoxlovMaverick
      @VoxlovMaverick 11 місяців тому +2

      welcome 💐

    • @Sanaka2050
      @Sanaka2050 11 місяців тому +3

      Masha Allah

    • @arrietty_x1569
      @arrietty_x1569 11 місяців тому +1

      welcome my brother to aslam ,you wil find more obstacles in your joureny of islam that you have to endure .

    • @saraalm9567
      @saraalm9567 11 місяців тому

      Welcome home 🤍

  • @nuyynuyy
    @nuyynuyy 11 місяців тому +27

    farah you have provided me with so much wisdom that the churches I've been going to for more than a decade have failed at. your demonstration and the Palestinian people's demonstration of faith have really opened my eyes to what it means to live for (in my case) God. we are sometimes clouded by so much distractions and privilege that we get caught up in the least important things. I don't know what I will do with this ignited flame, but I just wanted to comment here that I see your faith and I am inspired by it, so much more than I have ever been in my 20 years of living and being born into the church practically. thank you Farah. bless you and your family.

  • @hassanhassan-ed2lq
    @hassanhassan-ed2lq 10 місяців тому +7

    Being the center of a joke in your childhood is a gift, a blessing.
    Much love

  • @swaglordwizardking210
    @swaglordwizardking210 11 місяців тому +14

    This situation has me thinking differently too. I’m wanting to be a better human, a better muslim, and a better member of society. I’m really coming to understand the importance of being mindful and intentional about my life. Your content has really been helping me in these tough times too, thank you so much!

  • @shireenelsherif179
    @shireenelsherif179 11 місяців тому +27

    You're the truest meaning of an influencer 💖 God bless you!

    • @Chainless_Slave7
      @Chainless_Slave7 11 місяців тому +1

      @JESUSISLORD-zi7fd God died for us? lol I ain't buying that in any universe.

  • @riri2822
    @riri2822 8 місяців тому +5

    Tbh i’ve cut many relationships since mid 2023, i literally no longer can take people that add nothing but suck everything out of me, Always will be putting me before anyone else Inshaa allah

  • @doe.little
    @doe.little 11 місяців тому +132

    I only read the title and already feel attacked cause I have no friends to unfriend 😀👍

    • @maher19lowkeymontage33
      @maher19lowkeymontage33 11 місяців тому +1

      Same here

    • @WHYISEVERYHANDLEALREADYTAKEN9
      @WHYISEVERYHANDLEALREADYTAKEN9 11 місяців тому +25

      Don't feel attacked, be grateful that you're not being given thie one specific test/trial. Allah isn't even giving you the OPPORTUNITY to sin in that way, protecting you from it basically

    • @doe.little
      @doe.little 11 місяців тому +7

      @@WHYISEVERYHANDLEALREADYTAKEN9 Yeah, I get that 100%. I'm just poking fun at the fact that I have NO friends whatsoever (which can maybe be a test as well, right?). I'm essentially saying that I don't have good friends, let alone ones that I maybe have to leave.

    • @WHYISEVERYHANDLEALREADYTAKEN9
      @WHYISEVERYHANDLEALREADYTAKEN9 11 місяців тому +4

      @@doe.little Ohhh okay. Also btw I wasn't being rude or anything lol. And I understand your exact struggle, that's absolutely a test too and I hope you remember that it DOES get better! Just stay patient and make lots of dua and you'll eventually find good supportive friends :)

    • @doe.little
      @doe.little 11 місяців тому +4

      @@WHYISEVERYHANDLEALREADYTAKEN9 Don't worry, I understood where you're coming from!! Inshallah Allah gifts us with good and healthy friendships 🤍

  • @jawadmohammed744
    @jawadmohammed744 11 місяців тому +8

    32:10 the people suffering the most are the people that teach us the most in life, so true

  • @firda2796
    @firda2796 11 місяців тому +53

    OMG your situation is actually what happened to me lately and I've been so confused abt it, feels like a warning from God. Thanks for making this video:)

    • @Haduhas
      @Haduhas 11 місяців тому +9

      REMEMBER IF U LEAVE SOMETING FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH, ALLAH WILL REPLACE IT WITH SOMETHING BETTER

    • @danaalamr3703
      @danaalamr3703 11 місяців тому +3

      Me too! سبحان الله

  • @assami253
    @assami253 11 місяців тому +58

    Pray for me and all muslim that Allah guide us to the right path ..these days im missing Salat alot and doing sins ..i feel guilty and i wanna change

    • @noornord1359
      @noornord1359 11 місяців тому +7

      Just start with one prayer and everything will come with Inchallah ❤

    • @assami253
      @assami253 11 місяців тому +3

      @@noornord1359 i will thank you for the advice my sister❤️

    • @highphaa
      @highphaa 11 місяців тому +5

      The fact that you're feeling guilty is a good sign and it shows that you're willing to repent. Seek Allah's forgiveness and guidance and he'll inshallah surely forgive you and hopefully guide you. Afterall Allah is, the Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.

    • @assami253
      @assami253 11 місяців тому +2

      @@highphaa indeed thank you sister❤️

    • @NA-qp9er
      @NA-qp9er 11 місяців тому +4

      Sister may Allah bless you, may Allah make it easy for you, I suggest you delete this comment because we’re not allowed to expose our sins. "All the sins of my followers will be forgiven except those of the Mujahirin (those who commit a sin openly or disclose their sins to the people). […]” (Bukhari 6069)

  • @Ai-ho6ze
    @Ai-ho6ze 11 місяців тому +17

    I put your videos on when I study for my exams and honestly its better than therapy keep on killing it 💖💖

  • @caisearbhan4738
    @caisearbhan4738 11 місяців тому +6

    I understand your point completely. In today's buzzing world, it's effortless to be swept away in the continuous flow of noise, information, and drama. You've wisely chosen to protect yourself in this fast-paced life, which is undeniably challenging and shockingly brief.

  • @neptunians
    @neptunians 11 місяців тому +7

    Farah, thank you. I feel very similar to you. I am trying to cut ties with many people as well because I am in a phase in my life right now, where I don't understand the meaning of having them in my life, maybe I never did but I just ignored..especially seeing how 'careless' they are currently! It was fun when I was 21, 22 but now that I am getting older in my mid 20's, it disgusts me how nihilistic they can be. Everything they think about is food, having vacations and pictures etc.. I don't get it. They even treat me like I am thinking too much and being too loud and sensitive about many topics (Palestine, Kurdistan, Congo etc..). I feel like they are troubling my brain, without doing anything. The title 'unfriend them' really hit me on my feed. I even don't ruse instagram anymore (use it only for the news) as well just to stay away from them (since I cannot be as direct as you were -yet- I have to see them everyday at the university). Lots of love from Germany, a Kurdish muslim sister of yours.

  • @monstazedd2442
    @monstazedd2442 11 місяців тому +3

    Farah i LOVE YOU SO MUCH. As a teen surrounded by all these people on the media saying whatever and encouraging people to do whatever they want because its their life you are such a relief bc ik im doing the right thing. May Allah bless u istg u better continue this series no matter what anyone says about you.

  • @tweetie6477
    @tweetie6477 11 місяців тому +3

    your concern for your akhirah is the biggest and most relevant reason Farah! don't feel guilty about it. Alhamdulillah

  • @kataraarts3027
    @kataraarts3027 6 місяців тому +3

    I need to let more things go in my life, thanks for the reminder. I cant care about the feelings of others if theyre negatively affecting me as i am to them. I need to remember my place in life and that the reason i exist is to worship Allah

  • @AJfromEA
    @AJfromEA 11 місяців тому +11

    Been resonating a lot with your videos. Your words are appreciated, جزاك الله خيراً

  • @HappinessA28
    @HappinessA28 10 місяців тому +2

    This was so honest, im crying. Alhamdulilah for coming across this videos.

  • @jadedpotato1574
    @jadedpotato1574 10 місяців тому +4

    totally unrelated but this green is such a beautiful color and i think it brings out farah's eyes

  • @tamarasyed
    @tamarasyed 11 місяців тому +7

    proud of you ❤ everything going on in Gaza made me realize how lost i was getting in this dunya.

  • @Blogqueenxx
    @Blogqueenxx 3 місяці тому +2

    i love u sm, keep talkin, keep shinin ur light, love, and wishdom to this ummah and the non believers, ur changin lives with ur words

  • @saltiiiik
    @saltiiiik 11 місяців тому +18

    You talked straight to my heart Farah😭❤️ Thank You! I cried but then laughed when you started to mention Bibi😭😂

    • @Pihkle
      @Pihkle 11 місяців тому

      bibi? that korean singer

    • @mashaaallll
      @mashaaallll 11 місяців тому

      ​@@Pihkle na.. Benjamin Netanyahu.. Israel's PM

  • @yemahis
    @yemahis 11 місяців тому +4

    This! I did it before this ramadan this year and writing a message felt so long and cringe but I think those messages can be a wake up call for them too so why not end it in good terms while giving naseeha.

  • @SaraAlMamarii
    @SaraAlMamarii 11 місяців тому +8

    You literally showed up and spoke the words that I NEEDED to hear. Thank you thank you thank you. I know what you mean by bad 'guy friendship'. I literally just did the same YESTERDAY. Just YESTERDAY I SWEAR!! I wrote the essay haha and ended it. And you are right. What is happening right now in the middle east and Gaza is horrendous but its a wake up call. We need to go back to God. May Allah protect us all from Satan and all those who work for him and may Allah protect us from the anti-christ. I will pray to all my sisters and brothers out there. Stay safe! ❤️

  • @nooralward1082
    @nooralward1082 11 місяців тому +1025

    Is it just me or is time actually going soo fast 😢
    Edit: Guess time is going fast 😭

    • @m1chaelxjacks0n
      @m1chaelxjacks0n 11 місяців тому +54

      girly it's not just you 😭😭-

    • @ryangahwa
      @ryangahwa 11 місяців тому +156

      its a sign of the day of judgement 😭

    • @behi3365
      @behi3365 11 місяців тому +39

      100% agree with you. It’s unbelievable

    • @nooralward1082
      @nooralward1082 11 місяців тому +1

      @@ryangahwaIkrrr, I’ve never been so close with Allah nowadays but I not readyyy YET

    • @Vl27203
      @Vl27203 11 місяців тому +18

      Same here, I almost forgot this is Friday, and Farah uploaded new video lol

  • @aminabouthiba5620
    @aminabouthiba5620 11 місяців тому +2

    Farah you literally said what keeps playing in my mind these days it's crazy hearing that from someone else.. thank you and I hope to see you in jannah

  • @k.bakht31
    @k.bakht31 11 місяців тому +10

    when she said ,weren't among the martyrs what we are going to show Allah, it really shook me

  • @Maham447
    @Maham447 10 місяців тому +3

    Farah is the most relatable person for me

  • @alesandraL1392
    @alesandraL1392 11 місяців тому +4

    I love you and thank you for this! You’re not alone I post everyday and I think of Gaza every second this has truly changed me.

  • @safayasin_
    @safayasin_ 11 місяців тому +43

    As-salamu alaykum sister, your reason was for Allah and honestly with everything going on in Gaza it really truly does feel like a wake up call and it makes me think of death ALL the TIME and genuinely makes me think about what i've prepared for the next life and the grave.
    May Allah forgive this ummah and guide us to the straight path, May Allah grant our brothers and sisters in Palestine the highest ranks of Jannah and grant them the victory Allah has promised them, Ameen 🤲🏻

  • @Swavo333
    @Swavo333 9 місяців тому +4

    You are a women that I found quite intellectual , all the Information that I hear from you makes my soul better, so far I’m on my learning journey and finding my way towards Allah, thank you for sharing your views. You truly a amazing person. I also respect the empathy you have for the people of Gaza, you have truly one of the most beautiful souls that I’ve seen since I’ve been born❤

  • @Ali.Aljaberii
    @Ali.Aljaberii 11 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for this video,
    I have cut off some friends recently exactly like you did and for the same reasons, but the shaytan made me question the actions I took, and you just helped me stay strong. Alhamdulilah.
    FREE PALESTINE🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸

  • @DMS4yt
    @DMS4yt 10 місяців тому +5

    Shared this with my friends, and we're making it a weekly ritual to watch and discuss. Your videos are sparking some amazing conversations in our group. Keep it up

  • @sarahal-e.5389
    @sarahal-e.5389 11 місяців тому +4

    The timing of this is perfect

  • @meowmeow-c4q
    @meowmeow-c4q 11 місяців тому +3

    i love your videos sm!! they´re so peaceful to listen to. for me you feel like a therapist and a friend at the same time. i also want to say that this color suits you a lot. personally i find that cold colors fit you more than warm colors. but in general your beautiful personality shines through like always.

  • @Wana_129
    @Wana_129 11 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for wakeing me up and makeing me realize that alot of things in this life are not that necessary thank you from the bottom of my heart may Allah bless you and grant you heaven

  • @rukaiyanizam4704
    @rukaiyanizam4704 11 місяців тому +4

    this is sooo timely.. i had to say no more than once to my non muslim friends bcz they wanted to do sports with the opposite gender.. it took me a bit of time to just say no without thinking a lottt.. it really is hard sometimes when you know you're the only one setting boundaries & other muslim girls don't... so then they look at me differently & i always stand out as the odd one out..
    i also had to say no to going to parties & hang outs in apartments of male colleagues.. its very hard to refuse knowing that they'll abandon you..
    but nothing is worth it.. as someone who overthinks a lottt, the only thing that comforted me was that i should be more worried about pleasing Allah than pleasing people..
    pls keep me in ur duas.. ❤i really needed this reminder may Allah protect you, bless you with His Choicest Barakah Rahmath & Hubb & keep you safe from all evill. Aameen Aameen ❤️ 🎉

  • @flawsome9058
    @flawsome9058 8 місяців тому +2

    This is a very unique view for a video for some reason I love it. We love u farah

  • @Bookworm7559
    @Bookworm7559 9 місяців тому +2

    I love her so much........she is so inspiring and so cute❤❤. I want to be a girl like her she is literally so amazing! Her podcasts are so inspirational and always leaves a helpful and valuable lesson to the audience.❤❤....subscribed! She is so beautiful ❤

  • @jannah5120
    @jannah5120 11 місяців тому +3

    I can relate to your feeling of wanting to be in control. I'd like to add that the most important reminder we all need is that we are actually not in control. Doesn't matter how much we try but honestly Allah is the only one in control and reminding ourselves of that honestly humbles us. I really loved this episode and I love this colour on you Allahuma Barik. May Allah makes us all amongst the successful ones both in this world and most importantly the Akhirah. Ameen

  • @khaledsaeed23
    @khaledsaeed23 10 місяців тому +1

    Great move!!!
    That’s amazing that you did that..
    we need to get back to focusing on our Deen and that should be our main concern…
    May Allah shower us with sabr and fill our hearts with Deen🤲🏼

  • @marwanajeeb72
    @marwanajeeb72 11 місяців тому +2

    a few months ago I experienced a( war in Sudan ) and I understood and felt every single word you said

    • @lilylily3554
      @lilylily3554 8 місяців тому

      i’m sudani and this war has impacted everyone 🥲 may allah help us!

  • @amu5238
    @amu5238 11 місяців тому +1

    thank u for these episodes you're releasing Farah, there's nothing like this online that helps me as much. Thanks for keeping us Muslims grounded

  • @fajjarbabar
    @fajjarbabar 11 місяців тому +2

    I already know everything you said in this podcast BUT it’s THE WAY YOU SAID IT 😭
    It made me feel sooo unprepared for Aakhirah. It made me feel like im the most careless person on this planet 😭😭
    May Allah bless you. Ameen ❤

  • @ShannonMarie_aguafiestasvlogs
    @ShannonMarie_aguafiestasvlogs 10 місяців тому +2

    'If you don't see it, you're blind.'
    And because of Palestine, atrocities across the world have also been brought to light.
    Many people are beginning to shake off their apathy.
    Others dig deeper into it.
    But Farah, your courage to speak up, will (and has already) inspire others to do the same.

  • @MirroredInMud
    @MirroredInMud 11 місяців тому +2

    5:19 I don't agree with your decision but I commend you for doing what you believe is walking your talk. ❤

  • @R2022R
    @R2022R 11 місяців тому +2

    I love growing with you farah every topic you discuss really light me up may Allah bless you

  • @laibakamran3745
    @laibakamran3745 11 місяців тому +2

    It is difficult to see and live with the acceptance that this a masacare is happening and we cant stop it. And to even utter that it is difficult for me, fills me with shame.

  • @bevishhh
    @bevishhh 11 місяців тому +1

    9:15 this is how I feel, I didn't know how to say it, I don't want to disrespect those who have bloodlines in Palestine. I feel also that we are all family in humanity and I feel their pain, their loss. It hurts me. It drives me to want to help. I dont understand how anybody can just ignore this.
    Like you, my brain is a mess of tangled arguments and protests and information and overwhelm and pain. I don’t know where to begin.
    Thank you for this, for sharing the hurt. Sending you so much love ❤️

  • @themarschievous
    @themarschievous 11 місяців тому +2

    this past year i decided to get closer to Allah and actually dive into my deen, but i never really had a friend who was that serious or helped me with it. farah actually feels like a friend to me because the advices and deep thoughts they actually feel like theyre coming from a friend...so grateful

  • @salmazehaf6478
    @salmazehaf6478 11 місяців тому +7

    Dont stop your podcasts ❤

  • @illelnihlls6538
    @illelnihlls6538 9 місяців тому +1

    I love that I consider farah as my friend
    شكرا لانك دايما تقربيني لربنا اكثر واكثر

  • @bekindyall5555
    @bekindyall5555 11 місяців тому +9

    Out of context but farah. Pls bring back the table cloth. I genuinely miss it and it gives me very comforting energy. 🩷
    May allah bring justice to Palestinians.

  • @kameliasali9639
    @kameliasali9639 11 місяців тому +4

    Your channel is free therapy for me

  • @BlackAndWhite004
    @BlackAndWhite004 10 місяців тому +1

    6:20 you are so right at this part
    great job sister
    well done !

  • @LeenaFazulRahman
    @LeenaFazulRahman 11 місяців тому +10

    This hit deep farah ..SubahanAllah I have been asking my self this very same question what do I have to show Allah? what is my purpose each Day .. this one episode was an emotional one
    jazakaAllah khairan

  • @peaceeoutt
    @peaceeoutt 11 місяців тому +1

    You have deen in your heart, it’s beautiful. Noor is shining through. May Allah protect you.

  • @fatiha0_057
    @fatiha0_057 11 місяців тому +7

    May Allah be pleased with you. I hope that you remain steadfast in your faith even in your last moments. All of your videos awaken something in me, subhanallah. I’m so glad you exist, subhanallah.

  • @meow-rh5to
    @meow-rh5to Місяць тому

    12:37 meeeee 😢 I’m trying to not let my emotions lead me all the time. Yes you described my life right now so I’m trying to focus on school and work!!! I want to be better for myself and others 😢

  • @YaYa.4o6
    @YaYa.4o6 4 місяці тому +2

    I think unnecessary connections come from a place loneliness. (Personal experience.)

  • @theefatima
    @theefatima 11 місяців тому +6

    This made me want Farah vlogs 😭!!!

  • @romanticpages
    @romanticpages 11 місяців тому +7

    i recently did this with a friend. the last thing i told her was if she could take down a video of me with makeup, the way she responded was passive aggressive and then once i saw it down the next day i removed her from everything and blocked her. I could have sent her a paragraph like i did with another person i was close with but i didn't feel like it was necessary this time. And the last person i did this with was offended that i choose Allah over them. They both disrupted my peace and encouraged haram. And just because we shared many laughs doesn't mean they were good for me. I do still wonder what they think of me, "the girl who became too religious". But i rather have them think of me as such than what i was once before

  • @Ruchayda113
    @Ruchayda113 11 місяців тому +14

    How I wish I could finde just a single friend like u, I live very isolated at the moment in a city in Germany, I hope one day I can find someone with whom I can have interesting conversations about Islam and reading and memorize the quran together. Inchallah 💖

    • @xxalicexx
      @xxalicexx 11 місяців тому +2

      Let's be friends! We can memorize Quran together!!

    • @thelastday3480
      @thelastday3480 11 місяців тому

      So relatable! Let’s be friends.don’t live in Germany .. in USA. It’s long distance . Btw I am female.we can talk and learn & memorize Quran!!

    • @xxalicexx
      @xxalicexx 11 місяців тому

      @@thelastday3480 where can we connect girls? We can make a group chat!

    • @DragQueen-q5p
      @DragQueen-q5p 9 місяців тому

      Add me in

    • @DragQueen-q5p
      @DragQueen-q5p 9 місяців тому

      ​@@xxalicexx let's do it!

  • @robeshazehra8933
    @robeshazehra8933 11 місяців тому +1

    bestie i did that too few weeks ago and i feel so good and im so proud of u for doing that as well love u

  • @radgirl5187
    @radgirl5187 3 місяці тому

    Love you Farah, you really feel like a sister, I have been through a similar situation and asked myself the exact same questions.

  • @mahmudah9741
    @mahmudah9741 22 години тому

    Hey, hi farah just want you to know, you made me feel i found myself back. I love listen to your yap. Thank you sister. May Allah bless you always.❤

  • @beeneyta
    @beeneyta 11 місяців тому +1

    May Allah bless you Farah. you are opening my eyes so wide right now. my sister, I love you in Allah and i thank you.
    You don’t even realize what you are doing for my heart and my deen right now. Thank you sister. May Allah give you the biggest reward for giving up so much for His sake, and for sharing so much with us. I cry with you every time. Tears of joy, tears of sadness, tears for Allah.. everytime. Thank you Farah. BarakAllahu fiki❤️

  • @FantasyFairyTale
    @FantasyFairyTale Місяць тому +1

    جزاك الله خيرا ✨🤍✨
    ﴿اللَّهُمَّ‌ ‌صَلِّ‌ ‌عَلَى‌ مُحَمَّدٍ‌ ‌وَعَلَى‌ آلِ‌ مُحَمَّدٍ‌﴾

  • @smashhterminat0r933
    @smashhterminat0r933 11 місяців тому

    nah girl, i totally understand, i did it too and theres no change in my life but the fact that there just not around anymore, not in chats not in socialmedia, its better.

  • @duckfhace
    @duckfhace 11 місяців тому +1

    Farah, I just want to thank you so so much for everything that you've said in this video. Because I too have been feeling the same way lately of my own surroundings and my relationship with Allah SWT. I want to become a better Muslim. And InshaAllah we all hope to see Allahs plan for the people of Palestine. JazakAllah Khair, May Allah reward you greatly for sending out this reminder Farah! ❤️🤍

  • @ninahany
    @ninahany 11 місяців тому +1

    thanks for the wake up call farah. i definitely needed to hear this.

  • @marieme_mk
    @marieme_mk 11 місяців тому +1

    Girl you’re brave for doing that

  • @pinkpickledcauliflower9
    @pinkpickledcauliflower9 7 місяців тому

    Appreciate the meaningful talks you have on this channel -especially helpful when the number of Muslim friends is at a low point. Jazaki Allah Khair ❤

  • @Zainab-hv8cw
    @Zainab-hv8cw 11 місяців тому +1

    This was thought provoking and I love that you inspire me to be a little better with every video! ❤

  • @ally-el4yo
    @ally-el4yo 10 місяців тому +1

    I love your videos so much please never stop posting

  • @nourelhodahamidine4967
    @nourelhodahamidine4967 11 місяців тому

    u are not alone , my friends and i from morocco we feel and hear you

  • @typicalaeisha
    @typicalaeisha 4 місяці тому

    i definitely didn’t think it was extreme. you simply are just taking precautions alhamdulillah you were brave enough to do it. may allah make it easier for us to not treat this life more seriously and wake up.

  • @haya4093
    @haya4093 10 місяців тому +2

    Is it just me or does listening to farah feel like talking to a friend MashAllah

    • @sasiugi1503
      @sasiugi1503 10 місяців тому

      LITERALLY THOUGHT THE SAME THING

  • @SafayyahTayee
    @SafayyahTayee 11 місяців тому +1

    Farah I just wanted to say you are such a strong inspiring person. May Allah bless you for using your voice and having such a pure heart. What's happening is horrible and it pains us all but always remember Allah will grant true believers success in the hereafter if not also in this world because its certainly all a test and the everyone who is contributing to what's happening in Gaza will be punished with a punishment worse and severe than what they re doing to us right now. Stay strong have saber and make Dua. We have Allah that's all we need. Keep doing what you're doing. You seem so sweet and deserve the world.

  • @salpls4867
    @salpls4867 11 місяців тому +2

    Farah. I love listening to your videos while working out. You just touch my heart and how your face just beams with noor 🤍
    الله يحميكي و يسعدك يا رب 🤍

    • @AstaghfiruAllah.OnlyOneGod
      @AstaghfiruAllah.OnlyOneGod 11 місяців тому

      السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
      يا اختي ال بلاي لست تبعك باين لما دخلت قناتك وفيه فيديوهات بنات متبرجات فحرام حدا يشوفهم لو كان رجل يعني تاخذي ذنوب سو انتبهي بليز اقفليهم اتوقع من الاعدادات

  • @niorblanc
    @niorblanc 11 місяців тому +1

    I love the little edits and change of scenery please keep it.

  • @asfazafar3807
    @asfazafar3807 11 місяців тому

    Exactly,i m so frustrated with all thats happening, not being able to do anything and people around me not even caring enough,like it's nothing

  • @pinkvio
    @pinkvio 11 місяців тому +1

    Love your extreme approach to everything, I’m literally the same way❤❤

  • @marianawal6166
    @marianawal6166 11 місяців тому +1

    the elder sister we all need

  • @atabey8192
    @atabey8192 11 місяців тому +1

    Hey! I love all your tik tok content but I am so happy to have find you here and get to maybe know you on a deepr level (purposely hahhahhah) because I get to learn too! You also helped open my eyes with purposeless friendships so thank you!

  • @yassoael4957
    @yassoael4957 11 місяців тому +2

    Subscribed and turned on the notifications 👏🏼👏🏼 I’m so happy that I accidentally found your channel here