I’m so sorry this happened to you. That must be such a horrible thing, I am so deeply sorry. You never should have had to deal with a person like that, and I hope karma comes back to them and gives them what they deserve
honestly they suck ass, i cant believe them and how they AVOIDED the situation. im still upset w them, and completely understand ur brain going from fine to.. yeah traumatic experiences. it still frustrates me that it happened AT ALL (m dms r open if you ever need to ramble, bur you already know that. open arms :3)
two words “fuck them” i’m really sorry they caused all this:( they are so terrible and i regret ever being friends with them. if you need to talk about it, my DMs are always open
I don't have enough info on this situation but judging on the content you've posted and the comments, you have either been groomed or in a toxic relationship, please talk to me or any of your subscribers if you need to, if you are comfortable with telling me who this person was and what they did, I would be very thankful, No, i will not go harass them, No i will not make fun of you or them, I just want to understand what happened.. Thank you
i usually wouldnt explain it, since it can get really dark and the person this is abt has made an appearance on my main acc- but i havent had much of an outlet to express this, nor have i entirely expressed it. The person in this video was my best friend. And over a tough time in my life (in which i ran away from the group during lunch because of an episode and almost did something to harm myself; and they never even cared about it tbh) they had sexually crossed my physical boundaries. And the first time i though my head was just making that up because I was SA'd in the past. But surprise surprise! They did it again. And then again. And the third time, I batted their hand away and avoided to make it very clear that I did not enjoy that!! So! I mentioned in the disc server w/ my friend group for them not to yknow touch me certain ways. And guess what!! That "best friend" began ignoring me and avoiding me the next day! I did tell two of my friends in that group about it and we arranged stuff so I would be away from that person. But I did get the courage to confront them. In which they ignored!! I confronted them over iMessages, in which they left me on read. And once I pointed it out to them that they're read receipts were on, they turned them off!! THEY were playing the victim about it all too. And this whole situation reallyyy messed up my trust in people, because this is the second time the person i labeled "best friend" did something awful to me. And every single day i hsve such terrible flashbacks to what they did and i even relapsed wjdhejndksmdmamd
@@chxrrywavess I really do get you, I know it seems hard to believe but I understand you completely, I was groomed by someone about a few years ago and they were much older than me, we met online and after a while he told me where he lived and asked me where I lived, turns out we lived only one state away, I was about 11-14 when it started (no specific age, sorry) and he was maybe 19 or 20 (i can't remember) So it started off meeting on roblox, then we told each other our discord acc's and then we exchanged phone numbers, when he had all my social accounts so he could contact me, is when the really suspicious stuff started happening, first it was on roblox, then discord, we did online RP's about.. "stuff" If you understand what I'm trying to say, and we did voice calls and video calls, eventually, since we lived one state away, he visited me, he asked me what school i went to and a few days later when we were outside for lunch time (cuz it was a nice day) i looked across the street and he was there, i was thinking "okaaayyyy.. kinda creepy but whatever-" then a few days later my mother told me she would be late to pick me up because she was doing errands so i waited outside the school, around 10 minutes after waiting when everyone was gone, I saw him get out of a car and walk towards me, he started a small talk and then it got worse, he asked me if I wanted to play with him, i was thinking that he had games on his phone or something, idk, so he walked me towards a bushy area out of sight and said that this was a good place to play, i was confused because the blacktop and basketball hoops were on the other side of the bushes, then he told me to sit down and open my legs (i was starting to feel uncomfortable) so I did and he put his hand in between my L3gs and on my cr0tch, keep in mind I'm female (im spelling it like that so yt doesnt take my comment down, lol) He then took my hand and put it on his cr0tch, and thus, every time my mom was late or every time i was left alone, he somehow appeared out of thin air just to "play" with me, every time this happened it got worse and worse, a few years later we were exchanging n.ude$ he would constantly talk me into doing things, eventually (about a year later) i talked my mom into switching my school and going to a different school, I told stuff about how everyone there was mean and stupid stuff like that, It worked after enough of begging, I told my friends goodbye and then as soon as i switched, i cut all contact with him, unfriended him on roblox, unfriended him and blocked him on discord, blocked his phone number, and all other social media's he had a connection to, so trust me, I understand, our stories are different but i still understand you, and i know what its like to have a backstabber as a friend, please, get a therapist, it helped me alot, and what ever you do, try not to become like your friend, it may seem obvious now, but trust me, a lot of people who have gone through stuff like that have become one of those people, like kittydog, foxiboxi, many other non-popular people.. if you have read this, thank you for your time, i hope everything gets better, love your art, and keep going!!!
I’m so sorry this happened to you. That must be such a horrible thing, I am so deeply sorry. You never should have had to deal with a person like that, and I hope karma comes back to them and gives them what they deserve
honestly they suck ass, i cant believe them and how they AVOIDED the situation. im still upset w them, and completely understand ur brain going from fine to.. yeah traumatic experiences. it still frustrates me that it happened AT ALL
(m dms r open if you ever need to ramble, bur you already know that. open arms :3)
two words “fuck them”
i’m really sorry they caused all this:( they are so terrible and i regret ever being friends with them. if you need to talk about it, my DMs are always open
I don't have enough info on this situation but judging on the content you've posted and the comments, you have either been groomed or in a toxic relationship, please talk to me or any of your subscribers if you need to, if you are comfortable with telling me who this person was and what they did, I would be very thankful, No, i will not go harass them, No i will not make fun of you or them, I just want to understand what happened..
Thank you
i usually wouldnt explain it, since it can get really dark and the person this is abt has made an appearance on my main acc- but i havent had much of an outlet to express this, nor have i entirely expressed it.
The person in this video was my best friend. And over a tough time in my life (in which i ran away from the group during lunch because of an episode and almost did something to harm myself; and they never even cared about it tbh) they had sexually crossed my physical boundaries. And the first time i though my head was just making that up because I was SA'd in the past. But surprise surprise! They did it again. And then again. And the third time, I batted their hand away and avoided to make it very clear that I did not enjoy that!!
So! I mentioned in the disc server w/ my friend group for them not to yknow touch me certain ways. And guess what!! That "best friend" began ignoring me and avoiding me the next day! I did tell two of my friends in that group about it and we arranged stuff so I would be away from that person. But I did get the courage to confront them. In which they ignored!! I confronted them over iMessages, in which they left me on read. And once I pointed it out to them that they're read receipts were on, they turned them off!! THEY were playing the victim about it all too.
And this whole situation reallyyy messed up my trust in people, because this is the second time the person i labeled "best friend" did something awful to me. And every single day i hsve such terrible flashbacks to what they did and i even relapsed wjdhejndksmdmamd
@@chxrrywavess I really do get you, I know it seems hard to believe but I understand you completely, I was groomed by someone about a few years ago and they were much older than me, we met online and after a while he told me where he lived and asked me where I lived, turns out we lived only one state away, I was about 11-14 when it started (no specific age, sorry) and he was maybe 19 or 20 (i can't remember)
So it started off meeting on roblox, then we told each other our discord acc's and then we exchanged phone numbers, when he had all my social accounts so he could contact me, is when the really suspicious stuff started happening, first it was on roblox, then discord, we did online RP's about.. "stuff" If you understand what I'm trying to say, and we did voice calls and video calls, eventually, since we lived one state away, he visited me, he asked me what school i went to and a few days later when we were outside for lunch time (cuz it was a nice day) i looked across the street and he was there, i was thinking "okaaayyyy.. kinda creepy but whatever-" then a few days later my mother told me she would be late to pick me up because she was doing errands so i waited outside the school, around 10 minutes after waiting when everyone was gone, I saw him get out of a car and walk towards me, he started a small talk and then it got worse, he asked me if I wanted to play with him, i was thinking that he had games on his phone or something, idk, so he walked me towards a bushy area out of sight and said that this was a good place to play, i was confused because the blacktop and basketball hoops were on the other side of the bushes, then he told me to sit down and open my legs (i was starting to feel uncomfortable) so I did and he put his hand in between my L3gs and on my cr0tch, keep in mind I'm female (im spelling it like that so yt doesnt take my comment down, lol) He then took my hand and put it on his cr0tch, and thus, every time my mom was late or every time i was left alone, he somehow appeared out of thin air just to "play" with me, every time this happened it got worse and worse, a few years later we were exchanging n.ude$ he would constantly talk me into doing things, eventually (about a year later) i talked my mom into switching my school and going to a different school, I told stuff about how everyone there was mean and stupid stuff like that, It worked after enough of begging, I told my friends goodbye and then as soon as i switched, i cut all contact with him, unfriended him on roblox, unfriended him and blocked him on discord, blocked his phone number, and all other social media's he had a connection to, so trust me, I understand, our stories are different but i still understand you, and i know what its like to have a backstabber as a friend, please, get a therapist, it helped me alot, and what ever you do, try not to become like your friend, it may seem obvious now, but trust me, a lot of people who have gone through stuff like that have become one of those people, like kittydog, foxiboxi, many other non-popular people.. if you have read this, thank you for your time, i hope everything gets better, love your art, and keep going!!!