Sunday's ALMIGHTY Tantrum 🤯😂 | Ferne McCann: First Time Mum

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  • After a successful night sleeping in her own bed, Sunday is excited to have a slime playdate with Ferne. However, everything goes south when Ferne tries to do her hair. 😰
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 132

  • @user-qc7tv8xy1e
    @user-qc7tv8xy1e 4 роки тому +358

    She will always cry to get her way. You have to persist.

  • @zidasa2357
    @zidasa2357 4 роки тому +301

    Mommy you just have to stand your ground. You can’t let her win.

  • @dolatinwo
    @dolatinwo 4 роки тому +493

    She doesn’t listen cause she knows when shes crying your gonna give in, you take it away and move on to something else

  • @vicdav15
    @vicdav15 4 роки тому +238

    I really think she is a wonderful mother and she’s only human ❤️

  • @kayleigh35
    @kayleigh35 4 роки тому +253

    Don’t give up she was doing so well. She either puts her hair up and plays with slime or no hair up = no slime and let her cry it out cause it’s a tantrum she is not crying for any other reason she just wants her own way and she probably knows how to play mum and this isn’t a dig at fern I think she was doing so well and it is hard on your own but kids are a lot smarter then we think and they know how to play their mums and dads

  • @judithsnowdon7611
    @judithsnowdon7611 4 роки тому +186

    You shouldn’t give in, she won’t cry forever.

  • @ginadean4206
    @ginadean4206 4 роки тому +98

    Mixed messages don't help, consistency is needed, firmness and speak with authority, your not her friend , your her mother

  • @katecrow4392
    @katecrow4392 3 роки тому +8

    Crying has never worked on me. Off to bed until you behave then fun mom comes back out to play 🤣

  • @mariajurado8835
    @mariajurado8835 4 роки тому +11

    As a mum myself it’s so easy to give in we all do it, but the more you give in the more she will act this way she knows she will always win.. Kids are not stupid you have to ride out the stress of it otherwise it will be this way forever and if you think now is bad wait till she hits her teenage years!! Wow my teenager has taken attitude to another level but she will never win over me!! Stay strong and stand your ground!! X

  • @tminatorrrr
    @tminatorrrr Рік тому +3

    Teach kids to love the feeling of hair being washed and played with by massages and starting at the ends of the hair when brushing
    Sounds simple but so many people forget

  • @sharonmac6123
    @sharonmac6123 4 роки тому +86

    I know it's really hard to stand your ground but now she knows no matter how badly she behaves she will still get her own way.

  • @JadeJenn12
    @JadeJenn12 4 роки тому +15

    It’s okay Ferne, just stand your ground and you’ll be okay! Your doing amazing ❤️

  • @Gymnast2Perfect
    @Gymnast2Perfect 4 роки тому +92

    She screams because she knows you’ll eventually give in

  • @sarahgrey5953
    @sarahgrey5953 4 роки тому +100

    Ferne needs to start timing her out and not giving in.

  • @georgeowen3350
    @georgeowen3350 4 роки тому +4

    Ferne please do not give up you're doing really great and you tried your best to do sundays hair. Be strong! 😊😊😊

  • @wendoura5803
    @wendoura5803 4 роки тому +11

    So hard... I've never wanted kids myself..Patience is a virtue....

  • @darceyhollowed2071
    @darceyhollowed2071 4 роки тому +25

    Sunday is spoilt and you give in to quick, stand your ground mama🙏🏻

  • @Toni-vo3bi
    @Toni-vo3bi 4 роки тому +15

    its really tough being a solo mum, I just hope ferne can get discipline in order before Sunday gets older and especially before she becomes a teen, keep going ferne

  • @jackieramsbottom7458
    @jackieramsbottom7458 4 роки тому +40

    Never give in to a child your the parent if you give in to them at this age you will be giving into them at every age let your no be no and your yes be yes!

  • @shellymae4370
    @shellymae4370 3 роки тому +1

    I just love your innocence Ferne. You think little girls teenagers year’s start at 16! Your in for a surprise! 😃 Your little girl maybe strong willed and testing you but that’s what’s going to get her through life and should be encouraged to have her opinion. You’re doing great!

  • @xxxx-gk3gf
    @xxxx-gk3gf 4 роки тому +28

    Now you've given in she knows she will win against mum

  • @jadekelleher3824
    @jadekelleher3824 4 роки тому +7

    I know this sounds bad but this is exactly how I feel and it’s does make me feel a little better seeing that I’m not the only one going through this xx

  • @samelia9978
    @samelia9978 4 роки тому +9

    When sunday is grown up she is going to watch these back and either laugh or feel sorry for ferne

  • @arlenecoulter2808
    @arlenecoulter2808 4 роки тому +5

    Bless u you are such a lovely mum I'm a single mum to a 1 and a 2 year old omg I'm used to them meltdown with both u are literally showing the real side of parenting fair play girl love it xx

  • @jenniferbishop1722
    @jenniferbishop1722 3 роки тому +6

    We all go through this part it’s bloody hard work x

  • @anniejones5204
    @anniejones5204 4 роки тому +3

    Oh dear wait til she's older🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tomhawkins4861
    @tomhawkins4861 4 роки тому +8

    Naughty step for all my kids and it wasnt pleasant but the hard perseverance paid off on the end

  • @gemfinnjake
    @gemfinnjake 4 роки тому +11

    You just have to stick to what you said. Let her cry it out and leave her, she'll come to you when she's done having her moment...

  • @oldorleans9583
    @oldorleans9583 4 роки тому +7

    I love 💖 Fearne and Sunday and their family, but I really wish she hadn’t given in here because I think that Sunday would of given in and done as she was asked to, but unfortunately all this did was reaffirmed to Sunday that having a tantrum and hitting mummy gets her, her own way, this was something that she could of waited and not given into her, she asks “ what do I do ? “ you can’t give in, I know it’s hard but you can’t because she will soon realise that if she keeps on doing it, she will get her own way and she will rule you, stay strong Fearne we have all been there and it’s really hard but please don’t give up because it will pay off if you’re consistent with her and she will learn that she must respect your decisions, love you girlies stay strong it will work out 💪 you got this 😘💖

  • @StephanieMorris-b5d
    @StephanieMorris-b5d 7 місяців тому +1

    Sunday is cute listen to mummy ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @amydee8449
    @amydee8449 4 роки тому +22

    She did so well up until she gave in!!! Don't give in!!

  • @chelseakevin3134
    @chelseakevin3134 4 роки тому +4

    My son was the same since first lock down his behaviour changed so much and even now he still good with his behaviour. And nursery changed him as well x

  • @tinabates3020
    @tinabates3020 4 роки тому +12

    She's adorable but she has got a temper but you just have to do it when she falls asleep 😍😍😍

  • @shellymae4370
    @shellymae4370 3 роки тому +1

    I agree with all the comments saying that you have to stand firm, if you don’t now, you’re setting yourself up for a very difficult time when Sunday becomes a teenager. I also wanted to mention, pick your battles! A toddlers hair is very fine and it can hurt to wear a bobble, which is why she is saying no. She just doesn’t have the language yet to explain x

  • @julietrainis9021
    @julietrainis9021 3 роки тому

    Super mummy this beautiful soul is, very hard job for single parents, try not to give in but still should be so proud

  • @daniellegodridge8834
    @daniellegodridge8834 4 роки тому +5

    Love this, it's real life, parenting is hard! So tough and not all rainbows

  • @oliviafitzgerald123
    @oliviafitzgerald123 3 роки тому +1

    Everyone saying not to give in but sometimes it’s not that easy being a mom of a toddler myself I know the struggle and it is so hard 😩 but we will all get there eventually ❤️

  • @BR-df2ey
    @BR-df2ey Рік тому +2

    🤣 look at her lips 😂

  • @Mimi-fr8gf
    @Mimi-fr8gf 4 роки тому +9

    What was the point of going back an forth if you were to give in at the end? All you’re teaching her is that if she’s being more stubborn than you, she will win

  • @rhiannicola8313
    @rhiannicola8313 4 роки тому +3

    The dreaded tantrums....🥺 You must not give in! She will cry scream whinge sob her heart out in order to get wat she wants, and play on your last nerve... have you tried watching super nanny? She can give you great techniques for dealing with tantrums... and coping strategies for yourself going thru it all.. she will grow out of this stage soon enough but in the meantime the worst thing you can do is give in to her.... your a fab mama. and good luck xxx

  • @abee73
    @abee73 4 роки тому +19

    She knows you’ll give in and you ended up giving her the slime... say what you mean ~ that gives her a clear message of what is asked of her. There’s rules and then the consequences if she doesn’t listen.
    Was there actual tears or just noise?? I saw more tears from you then her.
    She also probably a bit frustrated because she doesn’t know what’s expected of her.
    You’re the parent and she’s the child.
    If she throws a tantrum walk out of the room.

  • @Mcaxoxoxo
    @Mcaxoxoxo 4 роки тому +10

    Don’t give up 💪🏽 she would have listened eventually. Let her have the tantrum, go back and try again..over and over until she stops the tantrum. You will get there ☺️

  • @macailagroombridge1899
    @macailagroombridge1899 4 роки тому +5

    Shes an amazing mum and doing it on her own. Give her a break. We are not super human

  • @jennifercarlson9659
    @jennifercarlson9659 3 роки тому +6

    My daughter used to do this with combing her hair. I bought a bottle to fill with water and called it princess water and got her a princess brush and she loves it sits still when brushing and also lets me spray the princess water on her hair 🤷‍♀️ it was a breakthrough 🥴😆

  • @maxdez92
    @maxdez92 4 роки тому +22

    Just don't give her the slime...?

  • @mediapunkk
    @mediapunkk 4 роки тому +9

    she is such a good mum, the crying only comes because they know it’s how you get their own way

  • @rachaeljones5767
    @rachaeljones5767 4 роки тому +6

    you have told her what happens if she does as she's told . then just walk away and don't give her any attention until she comes to you (why she is crying to get a response) . just carry on doing something if its just doing the dishes or doing something in the home and ignore her ...... let her cry it out

  • @gonkerr
    @gonkerr 4 роки тому +15

    She’s like 2...😬 she’s upset cause she’s confused and frustrated

    • @thirdreich350
      @thirdreich350 10 місяців тому

      fr and all these comments saying “ignore her” are crazy

  • @mazingmumma1
    @mazingmumma1 4 роки тому +6

    No ferne dont give in Sunday has to learn

  • @ylvablom4509
    @ylvablom4509 4 роки тому +17

    send in supernanny! I do everything that she says and it had really worked for me

  • @rw6391
    @rw6391 4 роки тому +10

    Walk away,and don't cry in front of her.

  • @kaylacruz2478
    @kaylacruz2478 4 роки тому +15

    Don't give in!

  • @clareperkinsST17
    @clareperkinsST17 4 роки тому +4

    I feel sorry for them both.
    I would of said to Ferne to keep at it if it was important. I understand she's trying to get her to listen.
    But hair up or down is not something to get both upset. She must of freaked out.

  • @tigerlily6070
    @tigerlily6070 4 роки тому +7

    Naughty seat its time to start

  • @kiraerrington227
    @kiraerrington227 3 роки тому +2

    Everyone in the comments is shocking, no sympathy for this poor woman. She’s doing it all by herself & it’s tough! Pick your battles

  • @suethomas6371
    @suethomas6371 4 роки тому +4

    What I done with my kids is the naughty step
    Step1 a warning
    Step2 place the child on the naughty step
    Step3 explains why they are their
    Step 4 walk away
    Step5 set time per minute of their age
    Step5 child get up before their time is up place them back on the step without to talking them reset the time
    Step 6 once their time is up go back and explain why you put them their
    Step 7 asked for an apology
    Step8 hugs and kiss
    Step 9 move on

  • @tillyashford9784
    @tillyashford9784 4 роки тому +1

    Keep strong, it’ll get better xx

  • @kazc7019
    @kazc7019 4 роки тому +5

    Choose your battles

  • @MissKirstyHG
    @MissKirstyHG 3 роки тому +6

    Naughty step. Worked with my 3.

  • @sueeves5660
    @sueeves5660 4 роки тому +7

    Fearne just ignore her don't give in she is just playing you to get her own way every mum has been through this she will soon get fed up if you just stand yr ground it's hard but it's better than having her turn into a brat

  • @typeface5453
    @typeface5453 4 роки тому

    My daughter is a month younger than Sunday. She has a speech delay currently with no diagnosis as to why, waiting on hearing test then possibility of some kind of autism or other similar condition. Or it could even be nothing and she's just a shy child. She has less than 10 words. The tantrums with her are daily over her hair and I wish she could learn that it just takes a minute to have it brushed.

  • @marissajones2945
    @marissajones2945 4 роки тому +3

    Yeah she is stomping and everything, stay strong Ferne 😅

  • @elizabethmurray6164
    @elizabethmurray6164 4 роки тому +9

    I would of put the slime in the bin and left her to cry. And if my child needed to cry all day then so be it. I have learnt to be stubborn too. I have a certain standard of behaviour I expect and I don't reward bad behaviour. Each to thier own though I suppose.

  • @kyliewilson2911
    @kyliewilson2911 4 роки тому +11

    She's only like that cause she knows if she keeps on she will get her own way.

  • @rw6391
    @rw6391 4 роки тому +3

    Been there done it, 20 years on me and my son got through it. Just got to stick to your guns

  • @hellomess9925
    @hellomess9925 3 роки тому +2

    Have you considered the band might hurt her head just as it does with adults !!!

  • @rootzx4689
    @rootzx4689 4 роки тому +4

    Super nanny anyone???

  • @Bellz89
    @Bellz89 3 роки тому

    Somebody call Super Nanny asap!

  • @debsb4
    @debsb4 4 роки тому +10

    She won’t win if you don’t give I she has to learn

  • @mrsf6740
    @mrsf6740 4 роки тому +1

    I cry, im stubborn, I get my own way 🤔🙄😂 So much easier when they're little but gets so much harder to do it this way when they get older

  • @simonesimone1101
    @simonesimone1101 4 роки тому +2

    You can't let her win

  • @J_Mansell
    @J_Mansell 3 роки тому

    I'm a FTM and absolutely dreading this 😂 currently have a three month old and making the most of my baby only having tears because she wants to be fed/changed/burped/sleep or cuddled 🤣

  • @alanpengo3335
    @alanpengo3335 Рік тому

    Love is hard when bringing up children but never let the child get her own way through crying . You have to be strict as the saying goes love can be cruel. If the kid wont do what they are told put them in the bedroom with no toys close the door then sit behind it ,usually within 10 mins the child will obey you or cry themselves to sleep but once you fold your making it harder. Ivwish her well❤

  • @harmonie666
    @harmonie666 4 роки тому +1

    We have the same hair brush

  • @MamaDramaPod
    @MamaDramaPod 3 роки тому +1

    Kids and their tantrums! They take a lot out of you

  • @anjali5372
    @anjali5372 4 роки тому +2

    She won

  • @laurenwarner3531
    @laurenwarner3531 3 роки тому +2

    You shouldn’t give in because you are letting her win

  • @mylesdouglas4520
    @mylesdouglas4520 3 роки тому

    I think we need Supernanny (Jo Frost) for this…🤔

  • @samkelly7574
    @samkelly7574 4 роки тому +4

    God help you if you cry over a 2 year old tantrum! When she gets to 13 😱😱

  • @lindasamba4816
    @lindasamba4816 3 роки тому

    Every kid is gonna do this you have to be consistent and show them that they don't call the shots

  • @vickikavanagh9663
    @vickikavanagh9663 4 роки тому +1

    Don't give up she is only push you until you give in

  • @amybrothwell8584
    @amybrothwell8584 3 роки тому +1

    It’s only a tantrum! Giving in was the worst mistake there... now she knows she wins regardless

  • @ginniekinz5401
    @ginniekinz5401 3 роки тому

    Sunday needs a time out for trying to kick her mum and screaming in her face! Ferne needs Supernanny’s “naughty corner” technique.

  • @lisbrealey1343
    @lisbrealey1343 3 роки тому

    And now she has won. Just don’t give up yes she is crying but you know she is safe just let her cry. Maybe I’m just harsh

  • @sarahcook329
    @sarahcook329 4 роки тому +5

    Don’t give in

  • @thirdreich350
    @thirdreich350 10 місяців тому

    yk you can comfort her without giving her what she wants from the tantrum…

  • @monstersocksandflipf
    @monstersocksandflipf 4 роки тому

    Well doneeee

  • @TheEmmeey
    @TheEmmeey 4 роки тому +5

    Just let her tantrum....you sit at the table and play with the slime you tell her dam clear hair up then slime and don’t give in...

  • @ameliablair5716
    @ameliablair5716 4 роки тому +1

    Welcome to Parenthood. This is the easy part....There is more. 😂😎😷

  • @cynthiaadams2392
    @cynthiaadams2392 4 роки тому +3

    Call Supernanny!

  • @iam1408
    @iam1408 3 роки тому

    Don't negotiate with her. Consistency consistency consistency

  • @daniemilyx5895
    @daniemilyx5895 4 роки тому

    She’s an amazing mum xxx

  • @Inputdonutz
    @Inputdonutz 4 роки тому +1

    No slime!

  • @cinnamonsjourney6092
    @cinnamonsjourney6092 4 роки тому +1

    Time out time for Sunday

  • @shannonsmith3490
    @shannonsmith3490 4 роки тому +4

    Sorry but if you give in she knows that all she has to do is tantrum and she will get her own way. Maybe try a time out system?

  • @annehector8329
    @annehector8329 4 роки тому

    Do not give in she is playing you be strong you can do it you are a great mum. Xx

  • @markysparky9106
    @markysparky9106 4 роки тому +1

    Fernes Shoes 🔥🔥

  • @shanleyclarke4517
    @shanleyclarke4517 3 роки тому

    She shouldn't of given in..... she knows exactly what she is doing...

  • @keriseymour9779
    @keriseymour9779 10 місяців тому

    The brush she's using can cause real head soreness no wonder she's avoiding it the natural bristle tangle tamer would be much much better and hurt her less it's not hard that's why she's having a meltdown it's all great u saying disapline but sometimes u have to think of the child as well.

  • @emmarichardson238
    @emmarichardson238 4 роки тому +1

    Do not give in!