what no one tells you about losing a parent...2 (3 YEARS OUT)
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- As requested, a part 2 to my video "what no one tells you about losing a parent..." that I uploaded in November 2019.
Video starts: 03:40
Second half of video starts: 14:58
I'm 10 and have recently lost my dad, I can't quite believe that it actually happened and am still in shock. My mom is now battling depression and cries every day. Whenever I get up and see the sun I think of my dad waving down at me from heaven.
My heart is with you and your mother ♥️
Sending you both tons of love xoxox
Let me put it this way for you and for the person that commented for the 10 year old I lost my mom and I was 20 so 10 years more than you and I just want to say with tears in my eyes you are the bravest 10-year-old I have ever read in my life and you are loved and your dad loves you a lot and is definitely your guardian angel and this is from a guy who is 42 and he’s still going through missing his mother every single day into Liz youDo you have inspired me to make my own review of healing thank you
You have a nice family... My mom didn't even care and it's is hard for me to hug her because She literally happy about my dad's death... keep strong
I relate bro I don’t know you but I’m here for you. My dad passed about seven years ago still mourning and grieving
To anyone who has lost a loved one in the comments please remember that you have your whole life to grieve there is no need to rush take care of yourself first because it’s what they would have wanted
Well said
I totally get what you say about being triggered after a certain period of time and people expect you to have moved on. I find it really irritating when people say "You're so strong. If I lost my parent I'd fall apart.". It's not an intentional insult but I'm so offended by that. I'm still in pieces, I'm just not crying all day, every day. I am also the same with anxiety of not hearing from my partner and loved ones within certain times.
Yes this all makes sense to me (: they tell you how strong you are but YOU know that you had absolutely no choice and wish so badly you didn’t have to be strong and to just have them back. Sending love ❤️
Thanks, I needed some hope for the future, because right now is hard to imagine things getting better. I’m just 2 weeks in and I miss him
I know it’s been a few months since this comment, but I’m sending you so much love!! It took me about 6 months to get through the worst of it, it’s different for everyone but time really is on your side I promise
I don't usually talk about this but this video gave me a little courage to do so ❤ Last year my dad passed away due to covid and a heart attack.. I was 12 during those days.. Its been a year but it doesn't feel like it. I never expected this and to be honest I will never get over this.. It was really disturbing but I am still learning how to live with this. the thing that scares me the most is slowly forgetting the memories I had with him.. I hold on to the hope that somewhere he is here and he knows what is going on.. this video helped me understand my emotions alot better thanks for this.. its been a really hard time and I miss him so much.. 12 years seem so short suddenly.
These are the two only videos of yours that I have ever seen, but just want to say what an incredible video it was you made after losing your dad. I'm adult with children your age, but lost both parents this year and have been browing UA-cam for videos on grief, and I was amazed at the maturity and understanding and honesty you showed, then and now. I wish you all the best for your continuing journey ahead!
It's been 5 years since my sister passed, and about 6 months since dad passed.. It's so weird to live in a half empty house with my mom... We miss them too much.
Sorry for your loss, my dad just passed away a month ago. I pray God gives us peace and honor them through our lives. It’s so hard
@@jeilaloredo6277 sorry for your loss too. I lost my dad one month ago too. If anyone wants to talk about it, don't hesitate to reach out.
Do you ever forget your Dad is gone, and something exciting happens and you pick up the phone to call him and tell him what's going on? It happens to me, and I get sad because I can't talk to my Dad anymore. My dad committed suicide 6 months ago.
I did that for sure especially in the beginning. Even now sometimes there’s something I really wanna tell him and it sucks but I try to just talk to him hoping he hears me somewhere!!
You have become wiser and your Dad will be very proud of you. You didn't need him anymore and that's why the physical connection ended. Because the eternal connection always stays. I have lost my mom. But as I connect the dots backward, I feel that this painful experience made me more human. I became who I am today only after losing her. Before she passed away, I was so different. I was just so much like you described your old self. You are an old soul....very strong and mature. It must be your Dad's blessings also that God brought this inspirational side of you out. This experience brought out your soul's essence of helping others go through their grief. Thank you and God bless you.
When my mom passed away, I let my friend know. This friend had her own experience with losing a parent. I told her the hospital asked me to make arrangements, and I didn't know what to do. She did research of funeral homes in the area and sent me a list of the funeral homes with their contact information, so I wouldn't have to think about it. I also had a co-worker come up to me (who I really didn't know that well) and shared she had lost a parent years ago and told me "It gets different in time", I appreciated the use of the word "different". Those two things really stick out to me as things that were helpful.
I am 19 months out since losing my dad, thank you for making an updated video, I can relate to all of this! Much love sent your way
I lost my dad 4 years ago. Today I went to my last restaurant I ate with my family. Looking back at the day of the funeral, I looked at my mom several times as she was crying, now thinking about it, I really wish he was back, it feels like my whole life had fallen apart. But one thing I know is that I need to move on. I wanted to say something not because I want to get commented by you or having a famous comment, but the reason is that I want to express my feelings to someone, but I don't want my mom to feel the pain again. Your videos really helped me, and now I feel much better and relaxed. I just got into my favourite secondary school, I hope my dad is proud of me now and my future. I wish he could stand by me through the hard times.
Thank you so much for these watching these makes me feel like I am not alone in what I have been going through. Thank you for your strength and grace sharing.
Thanks so much! I lost my dad less than 3 days ago due to a massive heart attack. I am very devastated beyond words. Thanks so much for making me feel better with you light heartedness.
It's been 102 days since my mom has passed away. And i can say it's not like first day. But it never goes away. It's just something you have to adapt. And learn to carry on with yourself. And if you have lot's of spare times it's getting harder. As long as you can try to occupy your mind with something.
I haven’t lost my parents but I get worried about it a lot and I cry all the time.
Tomorrow is the 3 year anniversary of my dad's death & this video was extremely comforting to watch. Losing a parent young can feel so isolating & content like this is so rare to find.
Thank you for this and the other related video. My friend is about to lose their mother. Im trying to prepare as best i can to help them
regardless of how well you’re doing because you could be doing super well, there will always be that inescapable void deep down and it’s not a good or bad feeling it’s just there i guess haha.
It's been almost a year since I've lost my dad. It's hard some days just to do anything. It's especially hard when on the good days something cool happens like a cool trailer comes out for a movie and i get excited to share it with him like i have many times before but then realize i can't or when i got a promotion at work and realize i can't share the news with him. It's been a real difficult time for me because i lost my cat and my dad within a year.
Thank you for making this video. It’s been about 3 years for me and I was having one of those days
Liz it’s been 20 years since my mom passed away my dad passed away before I was even really able to experience my dad so I have no parents and it’s been really really hard till today like your video for the first year has helped me to heal some way I don’t know how yet but I feel happier and I just want to say thank you for that I’m 42 and it’s been 20 years since my mom passed and they’re great days ahead of you as a word of encouragement you are amazing and the way you tell your story is absolutely amazing so that’s a compliment for you you’re gorgous don’t worry not hitting on you just saying thank you and get over it is not the case you don’t get over it. The amount of stuff I have heard from others wow I have lost all my high school friends and college I dropped out because of depression but I’m healing and finding more people that have been or in it seeking others is something I Mmmm doing now thank you for saying that. Wow!
I just watched the Part One. I am grateful that you shared your feeling with us. Your reflection helps me be prepared. Thank you again.
ive been slowly losing my mom every day for over a decade now im 27 and she started really showing signs up dementia and having a really hard time with the world when I was 16 its incredibly hard to low a parent especially someone as awesome as my momma she is amazing and we were the closest ever.
I wasn't expecting to lose so many close friends
How have the memories been since your dad passed? Do you still remember them clearly? Have they begun to fade away?
Found this seriously helpful...
Thank you for sharing. A video I would appreciate that you could make, if you wanted, would be possibly chatting with a male who lost a mother, in their early 20s, and how that affects them, *their behaviour dating*, growth, relationships etc.
This is an interesting idea! Do you mean comparing what it looks like for son/mother loss Vs daughter/father and the similarities they may hold too?
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I recently lost my mum to cancer and although I feel partially relieved that she is no longer suffering I am still very much traumatized by having witnessed her health deteriorate. How did you cope with your trauma?
I really recommend seeing a counselor which is really what’s helped me! Otherwise, I really focused on remembering him as who he was before the cancer and not after because I know he didn’t want me to remember him in that way. Sending lots of love 💗
Needed this. 🤙🏼💜
Just lost my dad in December of 2021 when I found him and I haven’t been able to be myself since I don’t know where I am I’m always lost running around doing absolutely nothing to the point where I seek I’m accomplishing something when I’m reality I’m doing nothing but making things worse I’ll end up going home and think nothing about how badly I’m messing up and how much I miss him
Your whole world flipped upside down after you lost him. It is so normal in my opinion to feel lost and behind for a period of time. Explore the newness and forgive yourself and have patience with yourself for moving more slowly or not getting things done, your mind needs to grieve. I sometimes think about how in the old days (long time ago), people used to be given a 6 month grieving period where they didn’t do ANYTHING and it was normal in society - like maternity leave. I believe we need that still. We’re expected to do too much too soon
I’m 11months from the date of my moms passing ..
it’s so hard losing a parent and I’m old ..
poor little children that lose their parents 😳🥺😭
What I have been afraid of for 20 years happened yesterday.
I know the feeling all too well. Just remember you will get through it. Sending love
Thank you xxx
I've lost my mom
Me too, grief is hard 😢
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