15 Words to make you sound elegant 1 polite words 2 Gracefully in place of easily 3 perhaps in place of maybe 4 contrite in place of sorry 5 Admire in place of like or envy 6 Exquisite in place of beautiful 7 Lack in place he/she doesn't have 8 whimsical in place of funny 9 endear in place of attract 10 Bespoke in place of taste 11 impeccable in place perfect 12 ladies and gentlemen 13 Magnificent in place of beauty 14 surreal in place of strange 15 ostensible in place of seemingly
Vivian, A gentleman commented that he was not gay and, in fact, had a girlfriend, and he appreciated your contribution. Well, I, too, am a hetero-sexual male that appreciates the power of words and always seek elegance in my communications. It was Maya Angelou who said that "the right word is the most dangerous and powerful thing there is, for it can change the heart, the mind, the world." I, too, thank you for your elegance addition.
Good for you! It makes me sad, though, that you had to qualify it by saying you aren't gay and hv a gf. Of course men can be interested in elegance, and shd be! And I find nothing sexier than a well-dressed man who smells great and knows how to treat a woman like a lady. There's nothing to apologize for in that. And your lady is, or will be, one blessed woman. All her friends will wish they were she.❤
Also, may I make a suggestion? I hv a great vocabulary, and I learned most of it by reading . Great literature, or even fiction/non-fiction/history or arts books written by authors of wit and intellect gave me context and usage of so many words that were unknown to me. Reading opened that world to me. If available, a library card and borrowed books are free privileges. Why not try them, if there's a lending library nearby? Blessings. 🕊
Here's the list for those who don't have the luxury of time to go through the whole video, but i would encourage you to go through the whole video whenever you have time. Basic respectful phrases, Gracefully, Perhaps, Contrite, Admire, Exquisite, Lack, Whimsical, Endear, Bespoke, Impeccable, Ladies and Gentlemen, Magnificent, Surreal and Ostensible.
My grandmother is from South Carolina, she raised and taught me how to represent myself as a lady being polite to others, speak elegantly, This world today as us being women represent herself classy well polished manners. the way she walks ,speaks elegantly, will energize positivity ,great results, on what she desire to accomplish within a conversation.This is very helpful to forge good relationships with people ,in dating today. Thank Vivian for this video is very informative.💛❤
When I was a young man I realized I had good manners, but my father was a Blue collar worker and I knew I was missing something. My mother was an elegant lady, but As a Black man we tend to have a more rough exterior the culture pushes this on us. So I actually took an etiquette class. I was the only Brother in the class but it elevated me from the boots to the crocket and Jones and bespoke shoes Armani suits And bespoke suits from the Bronx to living on Central Park west. I will also tell you that I do like the fact that I can move in both worlds. The words you are using only works in the world of elegance or In upper middle class. It will get one killed in the hood. I do appreciate your elegance you are a beautiful and graceful lady. Best wishes.
"When in Rome do as the Romans do". We were taught to speak the language of the group you are with - as long as you don't violate your own personal ethics AND never making others feel uncomfortable. The world is getting smaller. We have to move in lots of worlds to be successful. Be in any world but be of no particular world. It's okay to bring class to any situation you are in without being out of place in any. I love hanging in the hood but have never had to curse or use foul language. It's about accepting and loving people where and how you find them.
I have to admit that when I saw the title of your video I was both intrigued and put off mainly because there are so many people on UA-cam claiming to be professionals in a certain niche. Since I was so intrigued I viewed the video and I’m grateful for your worthwhile insight and work that you put forth into this video. About half of these terms are used in my daily life already but the remaining terms I definitely need refreshment on their usage. I’m very pleased that you care about the quality of language that we use as I was beginning to think it was becoming a lost art form.
Taking notes: I grew up in my great grandmothers home in the 40’s and 50’s and she spoke this way but through the years I’ve gotten away from speaking this way. Thank you so much for the reminder.
I was born and bred/raised in Africa. Some of us attended schools in British protectorates. My grandparents were British born, hence my parents had a very good command of the English language as do many African born people irrespective of race colour or creed, yet we still master other languages. We sure are different, our manners are impeccable. Why do Americans have a disdain for foreign dignity and proper languages presented. Speaking properly starts at home. If not taught from the cradle sure does impact you in life and it’s decision making. I love my British /African accent❤️😄🇿🇦🇮🇹🇳🇿🇮🇳🇨🇳🇦🇺🇹🇷🇸🇿🇪🇸🇱🇰🇰🇪🇫🇷🇧🇼🇲🇦🇹🇭🇺🇬🇩🇪🇱🇸.
Do celebrate your roots! It sounds like you had access to effective education. Now, please complete these sentences: Why do Chinese…? Why do British…? Why do Africans…? It’s not wise to paint so broadly when it comes to groups of people.
Hi Vivian! You are the perfect example of elegance. I have subscribed!! As a southern lady, elegance is quite important - the reputation of being a ¨southern belle¨ means elegance is not option, nor is etiquette and kindness. You incorporate all these feminine virtues in your videos - THANK YOU; I love your channel.
Great advice Vivian - I teach my children to use proper English even though it is not my native language. Being a foreigner I do have an accent, however, my choice of words is rooted in literature, non-fiction and other sources. We can be elegant, ladies, especially when we express ourselves.
I was taught on ordering food in a restaurant to say, "I would like the Cobb Salad, please". I feel sad for the waitperson when someome says, "bring me" or "I want" or "I'll have". Perhaps it is just me, but these examples sound demanding and demeaning. I was also taught to say "thank you" when my food is served, or my water refilled. Seems good manners are declining.
Hello Renata .... me too am a foreigner/ native german living in US loathing the bland "flat" english language ....RenatE with an e at the end is a german name ... Sind Sie aus Deutschland ???
I would like to say thank you for sharing this video. I grew up with a very elegant mother, who always emphasized the need to be polite to everyone, and in her words “always be on your best behavior” no matter where you are, or who you’re with. That’s what I think manners are, making others feel comfortable around you. It is time that this lesson is taught again. Certainly this generation and everyone can use a refresher course in good manners. And speaking eloquently is lovely. I always want to surround myself with people that will elevate me. Bravo.
Taking notes! Delighted to have found your channel! Leveling up is essential for self growth and self care. I so admire and apppreciate your expertise! These words are specific and clearly express the intended message. The power of language is largely under estimated. Starting afresh and looking forward to refining my presence while networking and interviewing. Thank you, Vivian.
Thank you for this lovely list of words to elevate our speech and elegance. I encourage you to make this a regular offering, but perhaps only 5-10 words at a time. This will give us the opportunity to properly incorporate each list before starting a new list. Thank you.
YESSSSSS PREACH! This generation doesn't seem to appreciate or understand the importance of mixing elegant conversing with the net income... all they care about is the net income part.. and then wonder why certain "classy" individuals still considering them to be "trashy" despite having a hight net income....! I for example, don't have a very high net income at the moment, but I still happen to classify myself as more elegant and dignified than many of my aggressors who continue to wonder why I don't consider them to be on MY level despite them having more income than me...
I started taking notes after I heard the third word and realized that I needed the entire list! You possess an elegant grace in the the way you speak and this list caused me to become an immediate subscriber. I definitely admire your poise and look forward to watching more of your videos. 💕Thank you!
Taking notes! These are marvelous suggestions. Thank you. I appreciate your effort to make our communications more nuanced, colorful, and...graceful! It’s lovely to come across a wordsmith in today’s world when so much language has become barely articulated grunts and too often vulgar.
Thank you for the inspiring ideas. Regarding words such as "contrite", I must say that while elegance in speech is desirable, successful communication (i.e. communicating the intended meaning accurately) comes at a precedence. Before employing a word in your speech you must make sure that it will most likely be understood by your interlocutor. The aim is not to distance oneself. You yourself mentioned that the aforementioned word is seldom used. I am an educated person; yet this was my first encounter with "contrite". How many people here are familiar with it? I just thought I would point this out.
That word got me thinking that some of this advice doesn't really fly in the US. Some people wouldn't know what that word means, and others would just be surprised someone was using it. It would sound like someone learned English but doesn't have much practice speaking it.
Question. Where is elegant speech a goal and to whom do you address it? Most citizens are alive. Their appearance is not very elegant. Their hair and pants are not real elegant. Why would I want the grocery store clerk bagging my food to sound elegant. Ours is not an elegant world, not since Mrs Astor died. There are so few people I would desire to sound elegant to; not even a Pope would make my list. Maybe meeting some Queen of England type would bring out the elegant speech in me, but how fake is such a situation? It's all for show. Show, of course, is what elegance is about. A beautiful home can be elegant, when seen. Jackie-K made opera-length gloves elegant. Mrs Obama was always so well dressed at State Events, she made an elegant impression, without opening her mouth. So elegant, that girl.
Google thinks it's elegant to change my words to different words. I said "most people are slobs" which emerged from Google, that arbiter of crap, as "most people are alive." It's entirely possible to be an alive slob, trust me, but that was not my choice of words, exactly.
Taking notes. Extremely grateful for this session. I’m always polite however often find myself lacking the appropriate words to express myself properly. Thank you for sharing your elegance.
I was captivated by your presentation of your thoughtful word list. I’ve always had a keen interest in enhanced vocabulary and the skillful art in which to use it. Thank you for being a true proponent for personal refinement!
“Contrite” is a biblical word I connect with on a deep spiritual level. It refers to a repentant heart. Your platform is of great value and influence Vivian. Thank you!
Great recommendations! I also try to use words that have a positive note rather than negative such as "I prefer vrs I don't like" and "decline vrs don't want" and "former spouse vrs ex-spouse" etc. The word "may vrs can" is a nice change also. 😊
Taking note. I admire your quest for us to utilise the English vocabulary. In modern times we are lacking the habit of pushing ourselves to seek better synonyms.
I was born in Germany and use of the spoken word is different when you know someone or your in a public situation. When I came to the US I did my utmost to be respectful when speaking in public. My mother who was German & my father first generation American made it a point to use good manners both at home & in public. My mother was very cultured & made it a point to learn the English language at University. Thank for sharing words we need to use more often with dignity and grace.
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I think you have the right idea but just a nice word here and there will not give someone a pass. Being polite is the epitome of class, glad you began with politeness. I recommend watching 1940s movies about the upper class will help with phraseology and vocal inflection. Also take a few lessons in how to speak, elocution lessons are well worth the price. This in addition to your informative videos. My husband, son of an Ambassador, royalty and a wealthy businessman, did not see me but heard me speak first. He tells the story to everyone of hearing an intelligent, cultured voice argue a case before a government official. He said he had to turn around to see who owned that voice. Fortunately for me, a practice of careful dressing and maintenance (nothing fake, trim and conservatively outfit) finished the presentation, he asked for my business card and described a legal issue he needed assistance with. He later confessed that it was love at first sight. One never knows who is listening. Keep up your good work of refinement for ladies, many do not have the benefit of family or education for preparation, yet long to reach higher social levels. ❤
Taking notes. As a writer, it is imperative to use various terms to avoid your work sounding monotonous. It adds interest and also can assist others with their vocabulary. They also add different flavors to your language. Thank you for your videos!
Thank you! I was TAKING NOTES on this amazing video. I actually use some of these words on a regular basis (the polite words, lack, ladies and gentlemen, and admire). Your advice is always so helpful. Thank you for always trying to elevate us to be our most elegant selves! 😀💗👍🏾
Just be circumspect in using these words if your family, colleagues or social circles are just everyday people. You will end up presenting yourself as being pretentious. However, if you work with intelligent colleagues and you are around elegant people all the time, then of course this is extremely useful 👌
I ALWAYS say.. " Thank you for your Kindness" its amazing the response you get. I believe you are either born with respect or not. Has nothing to do the ethnic culture, age, sexual preference, religious preference, gender! You either have it or not. This video, Spot on!
Adjusting your language to match your audience enhances engagement and ensures your message resonates is what I was taught and it has worked for me. Thank you though.
I considered this video to be impeccably and gracefully executed, and not lacking in any way except for extensive , multisyllabic terms that’s not endearing to those of us who want to sound more coherent and put together. Many of the words we know, but application is key. I thought it was was a good list of familiar words and how and when to use them properly. I know people that are not quite as well-read or astute, but appear to be bc they are intentional and strategic with their limited vocabulary, and they are often called on to give speeches etc. This video was very exquisite and timely. Perhaps, you will create more similar ones.
In response to the above statement, the word "exquisite" is defined as as an adjective pertaining to something "flawlessly beautiful & delicate ". Would that not pertain to an object in the fine arts rather than an erudite video? As for Woman of Elegance, in the words of the incomparable Marilyn Monroe. "Thank you ever so...". Sadly we must look to the generation of Jackie Kennedy, & Grace Kelly to find a standard of elegance. Carry on with this website! You are filling a need for the current generation!! Bravo!
This is a great idea. In my opinion, courtesy and kindness together are the things that make society -- any society -- work. Can't get along without them. I think we've had numerous lessons about this in recent years.
These are all words already in my vocabulary. It's the way my parents spoke. I also started reading at a very early age and, as everyone knows, you pick up many new words when reading. I did not like stumbling over a new word and not knowing what it meant, so every time that happened I grabbed the dictionary. You have given excellent advice and I hope the newest generation listens. It's rather appalling how little schools emphasize vocabulary, diction, spelling, and punctuation these days.
2:39 Polite words - I agree, and I would like to add that keeping these words in your vocabulary for your spouse is important!!! People seem to store being polite to their spouses and it always surprises me.
Thank you for your #1 on the list!!... I was brought up that way.. but sadly see that many have not been.. wonderful that you've given it #1 importance and I'm excited to see all those posting with such positivity! P.S. I think your words in the list sound better when being said by someone with such an elegant accent as yours!!❤❤
Thank you Sir. I just reconciled with my roommate since last year i refused talking to. When you said you give 2 mins to say those words to someone, i had to stand up to reconcile. Thank you for helping me forgive. I was finding it hard to do. May God's name be praised. Amen.
Thank you for this useful guide. May I however suggest to read books. No need for complicate literature ( although it wouldn't hurt) but even light, romance or thriller or other pleasant and fast books. This is incredibly good for your vocabulary. Underline the words you don't know the meaning of and look them up. Hope this helps. Have a great evening ( here in Italy at least). Buonanotte.
Taking Notes. Words are magnificent. I will gracefully apply your suggestions. Language has changed so much with the overuse of text messaging. It is good to know that there are still people who appreciate a diversity of words. Thank you!
You are the Queen of Magnificent, Indeed. You delivered this material exquisitely. Moving forward, I will add these vocabularies to my daily speaking. I have not used whimsical before; I will add it to my spoken words. Thank you.
I just came upon your channel I'm sure not by chance. Only this morning I was pining for the mannerisms, dress, speech, and refinement that was found in the past but not so much in recent decades. I love watching old B+W movies of the 30's and 40's as well as Jane Austen and it is so sad to see how how much we have lost in this area. I decided only this morning i would try to improve in certain ways including in my speech by incorporating more polite words into my own vocabulary.
This is by far my most engaged video! I adore any opportunity to elongate my vocabulary! ❤ I use the VOCABULARY app. It sends words throughout the day with pronunciation and definition, along with it being used in a sentence for further cultivation. ❤
What a great idea‼️ I'm so glad you thought of it. This is so needed. I like the words you mentioned. I've always been interested in word choices. My father had a great vocabulary. We all need a refresh in vocabulary💕 You remind me to use the words you mentioned and you make me want to be more conscientious of words I use on a regular basis. I love changing words from time to time. Thank you for this and looking forward to seeing you again.
This is the first time I've come across your channel. I so admire your style of communication. You are not only elegant but eloquent. Almost all of these words are a part of my vocabulary. The only word I lack knowledge of is #10. I had never heard the word bespoke before. Whimsical and whimsy are frequently used in the interior design realm so I tend to avoid those words and replace them with frolicsome. Along with polite words, using proper grammar also makes one ostensibly more elegant. In lieu of asking "can I go or can I have" perhaps ask "may I go" or "may I have". Also when ordering a drink or food at a coffee shop or an eating establishment instead of saying "I would like" ask "may I have."
I am writing. I highly appreciate your poise and the tenacity you have to challenge us. I do need it to improve my speech and add new words to my vocabulary. I truly appreciate you Can it be a little shorter as I learn through practicing.🎉
Perhaps I will start to incorporate these polished words, instead of their simple/common counterparts. Thank you! I admire your eloquence and will strive to be more elegant like you.
Hello Vivian , i have been watching your videos for almost a year now and i have improved a lot . You nourish and feed our minds with elegant words in this video which can be used in our day to day conversation and regarding the term ostensible it reminds me of my Law school days when we studied about ostensible owner in benamy topic of Property Law 😊 . Nevertheless, I'm from India and i love watching your youtube channel and also Urania's youtube channel " Level up journey" .
“Back in the day”, children were taught etiquette and polite speech/conversation by parents AND teachers in school. Not so today. Today, parents are in as much need of this as their children. So thank you for being a light in the darkness of unrefinement. And may I suggest another word for your lists? “Fragrance” sounds so elegant, in my humble opinion. “The fragrance of her perfume drifted across the room”, rather than “The smell of her perfume drifted across the room.” But I suppose that would depend on what it smelled like, right? LOL
It seems with each generation we lose another layer of class and civility. It's lovely to see you demonstrating what elegance means. I would love to see it return to society. Thank you.
15 Words to make you sound elegant
1 polite words
2 Gracefully in place of easily
3 perhaps in place of maybe
4 contrite in place of sorry
5 Admire in place of like or envy
6 Exquisite in place of beautiful
7 Lack in place he/she doesn't have
8 whimsical in place of funny
9 endear in place of attract
10 Bespoke in place of taste
11 impeccable in place perfect
12 ladies and gentlemen
13 Magnificent in place of beauty
14 surreal in place of strange
15 ostensible in place of seemingly
Thank you
Thank you for the summary ❤
Thank you for this ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you ❤
With her lovely accent, everything sounds elegant.
Vivian,
A gentleman commented that he was not gay and, in fact, had a girlfriend, and he appreciated your contribution. Well, I, too, am a hetero-sexual male that appreciates the power of words and always seek elegance in my communications. It was Maya Angelou who said that "the right word is the most dangerous and powerful thing there is, for it can change the heart, the mind, the world." I, too, thank you for your elegance addition.
Ooh, this is a fabulous quote! I've never heard it before. Thank you!
There is always a time and place in which these words are appropriate to avoid the risk of sounding pretentious.
Absolutely. Context and discourse are essential here.
Yep!! My family would not like this.
@@Portia620 Your family would not like what, exactly? Being polite? Using something other than basic words? That's a very strange comment to make.
I was “taking notes”. Exquisite words making an impeccable impression. Thank you. Kindness, Teresa
Exquisitely done Teresa! I applaud you ❤
Im a Man and Im not gay I have a girlfriend but I love your advice about elegance glamour and fashion😅
Good for you!
It makes me sad, though, that you had to qualify it by saying you aren't gay and hv a gf.
Of course men can be interested in elegance, and shd be!
And I find nothing sexier than a well-dressed man who smells great and knows how to treat a woman like a lady.
There's nothing to apologize for in that. And your lady is, or will be, one blessed woman.
All her friends will wish they were she.❤
I thought that exact thing. We ladies NEED more men like you 😀
Well done. A man of good taste 🎉
Also, may I make a suggestion?
I hv a great vocabulary, and I learned most of it by reading .
Great literature, or even fiction/non-fiction/history or arts books written by authors of wit and intellect gave me context and usage of so many words that were unknown to me. Reading opened that world to me. If available, a library card and borrowed books are free privileges.
Why not try them, if there's a lending library nearby?
Blessings. 🕊
thats kind of you@@StefaniClowdis 🙏
Here's the list for those who don't have the luxury of time to go through the whole video, but i would encourage you to go through the whole video whenever you have time.
Basic respectful phrases, Gracefully, Perhaps, Contrite, Admire, Exquisite, Lack, Whimsical, Endear, Bespoke, Impeccable, Ladies and Gentlemen, Magnificent, Surreal and Ostensible.
Thank you!!!!!! ❤❤❤❤
Thank you
Very gracious of you.
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Good student ❤🤓
Love this! Thank you!!!!
Being an at home mom for years , I've seem to lost my ability use words elegantly.I thank you.
My grandmother is from South Carolina, she raised and taught me how to represent myself as a lady being polite to others, speak elegantly, This world today as us being women represent herself classy well polished manners. the way she walks ,speaks elegantly, will energize positivity ,great results, on what she desire to accomplish within a conversation.This is very helpful to forge good relationships with people ,in dating today. Thank Vivian for this video is very informative.💛❤
I lack the exquisite words to describe my admiration to your impeccable elegance and beauty! A bow to you queen!
When I was a young man I realized I had good manners, but my father was a Blue collar worker and I knew I was missing something. My mother was an elegant lady, but As a Black man we tend to have a more rough exterior the culture pushes this on us. So I actually took an etiquette class. I was the only Brother in the class but it elevated me from the boots to the crocket and Jones and bespoke shoes Armani suits And bespoke suits from the Bronx to living on Central Park west. I will also tell you that I do like the fact that I can move in both worlds. The words you are using only works in the world of elegance or In upper middle class. It will get one killed in the hood. I do appreciate your elegance you are a beautiful and graceful lady. Best wishes.
"When in Rome do as the Romans do". We were taught to speak the language of the group you are with - as long as you don't violate your own personal ethics AND never making others feel uncomfortable. The world is getting smaller. We have to move in lots of worlds to be successful. Be in any world but be of no particular world. It's okay to bring class to any situation you are in without being out of place in any. I love hanging in the hood but have never had to curse or use foul language. It's about accepting and loving people where and how you find them.
Words create worlds
Interesting life story...
Why not use the word : pompous . This was soooo pompous !!
@Rudmyster - so you're confirming you're a shallow fake. DON'T BUY INTO THIS BS PEOPLE.
I have to admit that when I saw the title of your video I was both intrigued and put off mainly because there are so many people on UA-cam claiming to be professionals in a certain niche. Since I was so intrigued I viewed the video and I’m grateful for your worthwhile insight and work that you put forth into this video. About half of these terms are used in my daily life already but the remaining terms I definitely need refreshment on their usage. I’m very pleased that you care about the quality of language that we use as I was beginning to think it was becoming a lost art form.
Taking notes: I grew up in my great grandmothers home in the 40’s and 50’s and she spoke this way but through the years I’ve gotten away from speaking this way. Thank you so much for the reminder.
taking notes
Maybe - perhaps
Envy - admire
Beautiful - exquisite
Does not have - lack
Perfect - impeccable
guys and girls - Ladies and gentlemen
Thanks
Magnificent. Surreal. Ostensible. Last 3 😊
Plus first 2 : 1 polite words. 2 Gracefully.
I was born and bred/raised in Africa. Some of us attended schools in British protectorates. My grandparents were British born, hence my parents had a very good command of the English language as do many African born people irrespective of race colour or creed, yet we still master other languages. We sure are different, our manners are impeccable. Why do Americans have a disdain for foreign dignity and proper languages presented. Speaking properly starts at home. If not taught from the cradle sure does impact you in life and it’s decision making. I love my British /African accent❤️😄🇿🇦🇮🇹🇳🇿🇮🇳🇨🇳🇦🇺🇹🇷🇸🇿🇪🇸🇱🇰🇰🇪🇫🇷🇧🇼🇲🇦🇹🇭🇺🇬🇩🇪🇱🇸.
Do celebrate your roots! It sounds like you had access to effective education.
Now, please complete these sentences:
Why do Chinese…?
Why do British…?
Why do Africans…?
It’s not wise to paint so broadly when it comes to groups of people.
Hi Vivian! You are the perfect example of elegance. I have subscribed!! As a southern lady, elegance is quite important - the reputation of being a ¨southern belle¨ means elegance is not option, nor is etiquette and kindness. You incorporate all these feminine virtues in your videos - THANK YOU; I love your channel.
I admire your impeccable execution of this lecture and perhaps to see more in future!
Thank you for your impeccable execution of enhancing our gracefulness!💝
Beautifully said, Nina Rose Treasures❣️
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I admire how gracefully you embraced the meaning of today’s directive. Indubitably impeccable if I do say so myself.
Thank you! ❤
Great advice Vivian - I teach my children to use proper English even though it is not my native language. Being a foreigner I do have an accent, however, my choice of words is rooted in literature, non-fiction and other sources. We can be elegant, ladies, especially when we express ourselves.
May I ask any specific literature? Thanks!
I was taught on ordering food in a restaurant to say, "I would like the Cobb Salad, please". I feel sad for the waitperson when someome says, "bring me" or "I want" or "I'll have". Perhaps it is just me, but these examples sound demanding and demeaning. I was also taught to say "thank you" when my food is served, or my water refilled.
Seems good manners are declining.
Hello Renata .... me too am a foreigner/ native german living in US loathing the bland "flat" english language ....RenatE with an e at the end is a german name ... Sind Sie aus Deutschland ???
I say I’d like to have ,,,,,please thank you so much, 😅 is that too much ?
I would like to say thank you for sharing this video. I grew up with a very elegant mother, who always emphasized the need to be polite to everyone, and in her words “always be on your best behavior” no matter where you are, or who you’re with. That’s what I think manners are, making others feel comfortable around you. It is time that this lesson is taught again. Certainly this generation and everyone can use a refresher course in good manners.
And speaking eloquently is lovely. I always want to surround myself with people that will elevate me. Bravo.
Taking notes! Delighted to have found your channel! Leveling up is essential for self growth and self care. I so admire and apppreciate your expertise! These words are specific and clearly express the intended message. The power of language is largely under estimated. Starting afresh and looking forward to refining my presence while networking and interviewing. Thank you, Vivian.
Thank you for this lovely list of words to elevate our speech and elegance. I encourage you to make this a regular offering, but perhaps only 5-10 words at a time. This will give us the opportunity to properly incorporate each list before starting a new list. Thank you.
I was thinking the same thing. :) Bite-sized to make it easier to digest given how much renovation our speech requires from the ground up .
I gracefully took notes of your impeccable teaching.
I admire your choice of words there that's so impeccable
YESSSSSS PREACH! This generation doesn't seem to appreciate or understand the importance of mixing elegant conversing with the net income... all they care about is the net income part.. and then wonder why certain "classy" individuals still considering them to be "trashy" despite having a hight net income....!
I for example, don't have a very high net income at the moment, but I still happen to classify myself as more elegant and dignified than many of my aggressors who continue to wonder why I don't consider them to be on MY level despite them having more income than me...
Good for you for taking the time to teach our generation manners and elegance. ❤
I started taking notes after I heard the third word and realized that I needed the entire list! You possess an elegant grace in the the way you speak and this list caused me to become an immediate subscriber. I definitely admire your poise and look forward to watching more of your videos. 💕Thank you!
Me too. 😆
I wonder how she would say that.
Me also?
i also was drawn in by the poise she exhibits. (how's that?)
Absolutely delightful.
Myself as well, darling 🥰
Taking notes! These are marvelous suggestions. Thank you. I appreciate your effort to make our communications more nuanced, colorful, and...graceful! It’s lovely to come across a wordsmith in today’s world when so much language has become barely articulated grunts and too often vulgar.
The worse part at the office too.
For (sure)! Smh.
Isn't it sad?.
Oh so true!
Thank you for the inspiring ideas.
Regarding words such as "contrite", I must say that while elegance in speech is desirable, successful communication (i.e. communicating the intended meaning accurately) comes at a precedence. Before employing a word in your speech you must make sure that it will most likely be understood by your interlocutor. The aim is not to distance oneself. You yourself mentioned that the aforementioned word is seldom used. I am an educated person; yet this was my first encounter with "contrite". How many people here are familiar with it? I just thought I would point this out.
That word got me thinking that some of this advice doesn't really fly in the US. Some people wouldn't know what that word means, and others would just be surprised someone was using it. It would sound like someone learned English but doesn't have much practice speaking it.
Familiar with contrite but as an adjective speaking about the action of someone else.
“Contrite” is used in the Bible in regard to a repentant heart. Psalms 51:17.
I admire you for creating these videos! Thank you🎉 They lack nothing, except the incorporation of these refined words in our every day vernacular! 😊
Thank you so much Vivian, that was an impeccable presentation! I will endeavor to incorporate this underutilized vocabulary into my lexicon😊
❤love this!
Bravo 👏🏾
What a impeccable list of words 🎉
Question. Where is elegant speech a goal and to whom do you address it? Most citizens are alive. Their appearance is not very elegant. Their hair and pants are not real elegant. Why would I want the grocery store clerk bagging my food to sound elegant. Ours is not an elegant world, not since Mrs Astor died. There are so few people I would desire to sound elegant to; not even a Pope would make my list. Maybe meeting some Queen of England type would bring out the elegant speech in me, but how fake is such a situation? It's all for show. Show, of course, is what elegance is about. A beautiful home can be elegant, when seen. Jackie-K made opera-length gloves elegant. Mrs Obama was always so well dressed at State Events, she made an elegant impression, without opening her mouth. So elegant, that girl.
Google thinks it's elegant to change my words to different words. I said "most people are slobs" which emerged from Google, that arbiter of crap, as "most people are alive." It's entirely possible to be an alive slob, trust me, but that was not my choice of words, exactly.
Taking notes. Extremely grateful for this session. I’m always polite however often find myself lacking the appropriate words to express myself properly. Thank you for sharing your elegance.
Taking notes. Lol
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I was captivated by your presentation of your thoughtful word list. I’ve always had a keen interest in enhanced vocabulary and the skillful art in which to use it. Thank you for being a true proponent for personal refinement!
I admire your writing style! Magnificent choice of words! I learned a lot of new expressions!
“Contrite” is a biblical word I connect with on a deep spiritual level. It refers to a repentant heart. Your platform is of great value and influence Vivian. Thank you!
Taking notes and getting empowered. Journey to sounding elegant in my vocabulary has begun. Thank you so much💟
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Great recommendations!
I also try to use words that have a positive note rather than negative such as "I prefer vrs I don't like" and "decline vrs don't want" and "former spouse vrs ex-spouse" etc. The word "may vrs can" is a nice change also. 😊
I love your information in regards to elegance, etiquette and class. Its so refreshing to see younger ppl interested in doing things the correct way🎉
Notes! ✍️
And "penultimate" is an impeccable word too.
Taking note. I admire your quest for us to utilise the English vocabulary. In modern times we are lacking the habit of pushing ourselves to seek better synonyms.
AMEN 🙏 Praise the Lord 🙌
"Taking Notes" - Such a great video! It gives us ideas to be on the lookout for other elegant words to improve our vocabularies.
I just adore you. I'm learning so much from you and I'm 63 😁.
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I was born in Germany and use of the spoken word is different when you know someone or your in a public situation. When I came to the US I did my utmost to be respectful when speaking in public. My mother who was German & my father first generation American made it a point to use good manners both at home & in public. My mother was very cultured & made it a point to learn the English language at University. Thank for sharing words we need to use more often with dignity and grace.
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Been awhile since I heard some of these words, but they're very appropriate for the occasions and examples you gave ❤
I love everything about this, and as a writer, I really appreciate how you're discussing the nuances of words.
I would like you to recommend 2 Books l can read to enhance my Vocabulary skills. You have an impeccable teaching skills. You’re well appreciated!
I’ve taken notes Vivian!! Waiting for part two! May we have fifteen more words please! ❤️❤️❤️
I agree 💯
I think you have the right idea but just a nice word here and there will not give someone a pass. Being polite is the epitome of class, glad you began with politeness.
I recommend watching 1940s movies about the upper class will help with phraseology and vocal inflection. Also take a few lessons in how to speak, elocution lessons are well worth the price. This in addition to your informative videos.
My husband, son of an Ambassador, royalty and a wealthy businessman, did not see me but heard me speak first. He tells the story to everyone of hearing an intelligent, cultured voice argue a case before a government official. He said he had to turn around to see who owned that voice. Fortunately for me, a practice of careful dressing and maintenance (nothing fake, trim and conservatively outfit) finished the presentation, he asked for my business card and described a legal issue he needed assistance with.
He later confessed that it was love at first sight. One never knows who is listening.
Keep up your good work of refinement for ladies, many do not have the benefit of family or education for preparation, yet long to reach higher social levels. ❤
She snuck a bonus word in there
11:50 second to last = *Penultimate*
Basic courtesy
- please, thank you, ma’am, sir, may I, etc
-Beautifully- = *Gracefully*
-Maybe- = *Perhaps*
-Sad, sorry, remorseful- = *Contrite*
-Like, envy, respect- = *Admire*
-Elegant, beautiful- = *Exquisite*
-Don’t have- = *Lack*
-Unusual, playful, fun- = *Whimsical*
-Like, attract- = *Endear*
-Custom- = *Bespoke*
-Perfect, flawless, very good, great- = *Impeccable*
-Guys, y’all, Everyone- = *Ladies and gentlemen*
-Beautiful, striking, impressive- = *Magnificent*
-Unreal, buzzard, otherworldly, incredible, strange, dreamlike- = *Surreal*
-Seemingly- = *Ostensible*
I plan to incorporate a word weekly
Taking notes. As a writer, it is imperative to use various terms to avoid your work sounding monotonous. It adds interest and also can assist others with their vocabulary. They also add different flavors to your language. Thank you for your videos!
Thank you! I was TAKING NOTES on this amazing video. I actually use some of these words on a regular basis (the polite words, lack, ladies and gentlemen, and admire). Your advice is always so helpful. Thank you for always trying to elevate us to be our most elegant selves! 😀💗👍🏾
Taking notes
Vivian I love you!!! Your content is always new, exciting and never boring!! Thank you ❤
I feel the same ❤
I can watch this all day! Such great command of the English language.
Just be circumspect in using these words if your family, colleagues or social circles are just everyday people. You will end up presenting yourself as being pretentious. However, if you work with intelligent colleagues and you are around elegant people all the time, then of course this is extremely useful 👌
Taking impeccable notes 😊I really admire your videos thank you.
Taking no notes; simply taken aback by your exquisite diction. Most of the time, people I speak to struggle with my English. What a treat!
I ALWAYS say.. " Thank you for your Kindness" its amazing the response you get. I believe you are either born with respect or not. Has nothing to do the ethnic culture, age, sexual preference, religious preference, gender! You either have it or not. This video, Spot on!
Watching Vivieene makes me want to be a better young woman every single time. She has an irresistible aura.
Always listen to your videos to the end. So educational!😊
Adjusting your language to match your audience enhances engagement and ensures your message resonates is what I was taught and it has worked for me. Thank you though.
You remind us how easily and elegantly our words can portray our intellectual knowledge of words
I considered this video to be impeccably and gracefully executed, and not lacking in any way except for extensive , multisyllabic terms that’s not endearing to those of us who want to sound more coherent and put together. Many of the words we know, but application is key.
I thought it was was a good list of familiar words and how and when to use them properly. I know people that are not quite as well-read or astute, but appear to be bc they are intentional and strategic with their limited vocabulary, and they are often called on to give speeches etc.
This video was very exquisite and timely. Perhaps, you will create more similar ones.
This was great! I like how you think lol
A* 👍🏾
In response to the above statement, the word "exquisite" is defined as as an adjective pertaining to something "flawlessly beautiful & delicate ". Would that not pertain to an object in the fine arts rather than an erudite video? As for Woman of Elegance, in the words of the incomparable Marilyn Monroe. "Thank you ever so...". Sadly we must look to the generation of Jackie Kennedy, & Grace Kelly to find a standard of elegance. Carry on with this website! You are filling a need for the current generation!! Bravo!
I love the way you speak,from your tone to the choice of words.Your vocabulary is on top notch.I want to get to that level.
This is a great idea. In my opinion, courtesy and kindness together are the things that make society -- any society -- work. Can't get along without them. I think we've had numerous lessons about this in recent years.
These are all words already in my vocabulary. It's the way my parents spoke. I also started reading at a very early age and, as everyone knows, you pick up many new words when reading. I did not like stumbling over a new word and not knowing what it meant, so every time that happened I grabbed the dictionary. You have given excellent advice and I hope the newest generation listens. It's rather appalling how little schools emphasize vocabulary, diction, spelling, and punctuation these days.
2:39 Polite words - I agree, and I would like to add that keeping these words in your vocabulary for your spouse is important!!! People seem to store being polite to their spouses and it always surprises me.
Taking notes! Thank you so much for this timely and helpful video!
Taking notes! I admire your videos & appreciate your enthusiasm & knowledge to assist us in becoming elegant women!
How are you doing?
Thank you for your #1 on the list!!... I was brought up that way.. but sadly see that many have not been.. wonderful that you've given it #1 importance and I'm excited to see all those posting with such positivity! P.S. I think your words in the list sound better when being said by someone with such an elegant accent as yours!!❤❤
Thank you Sir. I just reconciled with my roommate since last year i refused talking to. When you said you give 2 mins to say those words to someone, i had to stand up to reconcile.
Thank you for helping me forgive. I was finding it hard to do. May God's name be praised. Amen.
Thank you for this useful guide. May I however suggest to read books. No need for complicate literature ( although it wouldn't hurt) but even light, romance or thriller or other pleasant and fast books. This is incredibly good for your vocabulary. Underline the words you don't know the meaning of and look them up. Hope this helps. Have a great evening ( here in Italy at least). Buonanotte.
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Thank you woman of elegance for teaching us some new words. You are very kind 🌷♥
Taking Notes. Words are magnificent. I will gracefully apply your suggestions. Language has changed so much with the overuse of text messaging. It is good to know that there are still people who appreciate a diversity of words. Thank you!
Ostensible and bespoken are the words that will be most difficult to incorporate. This list is well thought through. Thank you!
You are the Queen of Magnificent, Indeed. You delivered this material exquisitely. Moving forward, I will add these vocabularies to my daily speaking.
I have not used whimsical before; I will add it to my spoken words. Thank you.
In a nutshell, adding more uncommon but graceful adverbs to our lexicon ….enhances our overall speech elegance. Welldone 🙌
I just came upon your channel I'm sure not by chance. Only this morning I was pining for the mannerisms, dress, speech, and refinement that was found in the past but not so much in recent decades. I love watching old B+W movies of the 30's and 40's as well as Jane Austen and it is so sad to see how how much we have lost in this area. I decided only this morning i would try to improve in certain ways including in my speech by incorporating more polite words into my own vocabulary.
Taking notes ! So appreciate your UA-cam channel !
Your coaching is truly needed in this era. 💝
You are a woman of class, I thank God for you, may His best be yours.
Taking notes! I love this list. Thank you❤
This is by far my most engaged video! I adore any opportunity to elongate my vocabulary! ❤
I use the VOCABULARY app. It sends words throughout the day with pronunciation and definition, along with it being used in a sentence for further cultivation. ❤
I have taken notes and i agree with you that these words sound elegant when used appropriately.
What a great idea‼️ I'm so glad you thought of it.
This is so needed.
I like the words you mentioned. I've always been interested in word choices. My father had a great vocabulary. We all need a refresh in vocabulary💕 You remind me to use the words you mentioned and you make me want to be more conscientious of words I use on a regular basis. I love changing words from time to time. Thank you for this and looking forward to seeing you again.
This is the first time I've come across your channel. I so admire your style of communication. You are not only elegant but eloquent. Almost all of these words are a part of my vocabulary. The only word I lack knowledge of is #10. I had never heard the word bespoke before.
Whimsical and whimsy are frequently used in the interior design realm so I tend to avoid those words and replace them with frolicsome.
Along with polite words, using proper grammar also makes one ostensibly more elegant. In lieu of asking "can I go or can I have" perhaps ask "may I go" or "may I have". Also when ordering a drink or food at a coffee shop or an eating establishment instead of saying "I would like" ask "may I have."
Well executed. Your generation should find your video’s a “ Must Review “🌹
I enjoy your videos very much. You are so articulate and you always motivate me to try and improve myself. Thank you.
I am writing. I highly appreciate your poise and the tenacity you have to challenge us. I do need it to improve my speech and add new words to my vocabulary. I truly appreciate you Can it be a little shorter as I learn through practicing.🎉
Polite words/phrases, perhaps, gracefully, contrite, admire, exquisite, lack, whimsical, endear, bespoke, impeccable, ladies & gentlemen, magnificent, surreal, ostensible.
These words sound truly elegant.
Thank you for your informative And inspiring information, may God continues to bless you for educating our society.
I love listening to you speak. I look forward to incorporating these words into my own vocabulary. Thank you! Taking Notes!
You're so elegant and surreal in your presentation.
Taking Notes ❤. I am a writer and public speaker, professionally. I concur wholeheartedly❤
Perhaps I will start to incorporate these polished words, instead of their simple/common counterparts. Thank you! I admire your eloquence and will strive to be more elegant like you.
Hello Vivian , i have been watching your videos for almost a year now and i have improved a lot . You nourish and feed our minds with elegant words in this video which can be used in our day to day conversation and regarding the term ostensible it reminds me of my Law school days when we studied about ostensible owner in benamy topic of Property Law 😊 . Nevertheless, I'm from India and i love watching your youtube channel and also Urania's youtube channel " Level up journey" .
Just turned 61 yrs of age...And taking NOTES!!!!
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“Back in the day”, children were taught etiquette and polite speech/conversation by parents AND teachers in school. Not so today. Today, parents are in as much need of this as their children. So thank you for being a light in the darkness of unrefinement. And may I suggest another word for your lists? “Fragrance” sounds so elegant, in my humble opinion. “The fragrance of her perfume drifted across the room”, rather than “The smell of her perfume drifted across the room.” But I suppose that would depend on what it smelled like, right? LOL
Really appreciate your channelling words of wisdom that you share so gracefully🧡
Let me be the first here🇮🇹👁️👂on behalf of my wife🤣😄😛😍
It seems with each generation we lose another layer of class and civility. It's lovely to see you demonstrating what elegance means. I would love to see it return to society. Thank you.