Steph you say focus on the grind wait for choosing signals etc, I did that for a while but that isn’t getting me laid. What has gotten me laid tho lately is approaching 50 girls a week. Why don’t u advocate cold approach ?
Damn...that dude was Savage as f*** to her. I feel you Steph on females that are "religious" because they are one of the worst ones in my opinion due to the fact a dude will never expect her to do wrong by him just because she's "religious" and I feel into that trap too Steph when I met a gorgeous chick who kept trying to talk to me at one of my old jobs. It turned out she already had boyfriend and she never told me about it and when I found out later when she tried to talk to me again I was super p*ssed off at her and I told her to leave me alone and I ignored her then at when I see her at work I wouldn't even look at her direction and walked passed her like I didn't know her at all and she would stare at me all the time until I made eye contact with her but I wouldn't because when I was even younger I kept remembering the times when ex girlfriends played me because I didn't know the Game. Women knew the Game waaaay before most men and that's the advantage they have over us but we're learning really fast and catching up with what most of us missed out on. Women are going to have to bow down to us and it's coming Steph
That was probably the only time she will ever do that. She’s now going to get emotional and reject every man that comes up to her. Because of one dude that rejected her. Men have to do this everyday. We have to face rejection everyday and get right back up.
This shit was hella staged bro. Like come on. You can tell because his reaction is hella exaggerated. Most dudes would just say im good but he made it apparently to say "fuck no!". 😒 Please.
holy imagine a guy was doing exactly what she was doing he would be called a stalker, creep, weirdo, etc but when it’s a woman, "it’s so cute". Nice world we live in
I will one day get to the point in life that I give zero fucks about peoples opinions . I'm not there yet . I will for real . Like becoming social path . Give zero fucks . That's the key to life
Brothers if you with a woman and she emotionally checks out the relationship with you and you see her with another guy literally days after she left you.... just keep it moving don't ruin your life over no pussy its plenty out here. It happened to me last year before the plandemic been on my purpose ever since God bless you brothers peace
Ya man this sincere quit nature girl at Walmart employee looks at me everytime i shop there i smile at here like this😏and walk away she just dont have the guts to approach me
I agree. In fact, I go around rejecting every woman I see. And thereby, giving them all a taste of their own medicine: something that they've needed for a long-ass time
Women do approach men and/or shoot their shot, it’s just rare and in most cases seemingly inconspicuous. Keep in mind that throwing a man choosing signals, is considered shooting their “shot” in most women’s minds. Needless to say most guys don’t even know choosing signals exist, so they completely miss a trick when a girls body language gives off the “I’m attracted to you” vibe. The next stage is the female that actually has the balls to start a conversation with you, but is still not brave enough to be upfront about why she did it. These broads will look for any reason/excuse to talk to you, so will start a convo with something completely random and left of field for apparently no real reason, or ask you for help with something they clearly could have managed themselves. They are hoping that by getting things started, you as the man will take over the lead to the road that inevitably leads down to pound town. The last stage is the type of woman that is the most rare and also the most confident. These are the types of women who straight up walk to you and tell you in no uncertain terms that they want to get into your pants. They won’t beat around the bush and say things like “you’re hot” or “your gorgeous” straight to your face. That way there can be no confusion as to why they came over to talk to you. But like I mentioned, these are the most rare, so you’ll tend to remember on the rare occasion that it happens to you!
dont complain that girls dont approach guys because they do. my boy used to hang out with chris brown 10 yrs ago & he told me breezy has hundreds of girls approach him everyday. So all you idiots saying girls are afraid to approach guys are wrong because i guarantee you that Drake & Justin Bieber have thousands of girls approaching them. just get rich & i guarantee you they will come & getting rich is easy these days
@@yohannesnegga why would you ever want a female that wants you only for your $? If she isn't sexually attracted to you the very second you meet her, best to not even bother. Don't let her u$e you.
Crazy that you posted this i just had a chick approach me today at a 7/11 and hit me with the ol are your from Tennessee pick up line, she admitted it was corny but I gave her the time of day because i respected the fact that she had enough confidence to approach me in the 1st place and i ended getting the number.
@@mikegee8345 It's true. They want the men that are pre- screened by other women. It saves the ladies time by not having to figure out if He's the commitment type etc. They figure if other women want him, he must be a good catch.
@@davidhall3747 It's sad but True I know from experience and I'm not married never been but women will talk with me behind there home girl back who they know likes me
She should’ve waited till he finished his set, you can’t just interrupt a guy at the gym, you’re less likely to get the number for doing that but I’ve never seen any worse acting from both parties.
First off, she approached the guy as if she was a guy instead of using her femininity. I'm sure most people don't know how a woman should approach a man, but that wasn't the way.
@@freshmanjeans No. Ladies have all the confidence in rejecting a man and getting approached, but don't know one way to approach a man with FEMININITY and pull him. Utilize your femininity and sexuality. Ladies don't know how to choose nowadays. All that indirect BS doesn't get a man or a woman anywhere.
@Bryan Hernandez be mindful of other girls when she’s around (let her visibly see this), mixed signals and not giving her as much attention. I would say do this in the first stage if u like them. If they like you should still be easy
Dont put having a girlfriend as some achievement. Not trying to be an asshole but thats the wrong mentality to have. If anything be proud of HER for managing to convince you to commit.
Women will literally passively flirt with you and expect you to outright know what she’s thinking, and will get mad at the man she’s sending signals to for not receiving or getting them immediately. I’ve been there plenty of times, these mofos are weird lmao😂🤣
I’m glad someone said it thank you my brother I had the same problem all the time just come out and say let’s get coffee or some wack ass pickup line facts bro much respect ✊
A recurring thing in life bruh. Some end up hating because they have interpreted you not approaching or asking for their number or whatever AS meaning: YOU think you're better than me... Smh. U just can't be NOT INTERESTED. Thats that inflated ego that cannot accept that a male or some males don't find u appealing. (Also, some will TRY HARDER to "Get you" tryna capture u like a shiny pkmn)
@@zayinseven7923 STRAIGHT FACTS BRO! i got called stuck-up by this girl at my job because i didn't show any interest in her lol. she was aiight LOL not a dime. plus she had kids and i don't play that Step-SIMP Daddy Shit LOL
They're fragile like glass. sometimes a girl may break up with you, and when you just walk away, alot of them won't come back bc they're scared of possibility of you rejecting them back. That's why they do all sorts of passive things ,like watching your stories, instead of just being upfront.
Bruhhh I had this chick one time asking people about me/keeping tabs on me/where I worked,etc and I'm just like you could've just asked me you know right?
exactly , they can't give you anything. dudes obsessing about this all day all over youtube there's entire 24/7 channels dedicated to this bs. you realize how stupid it is after you've been through enough in life to see it wasn't worth it. nobody should play these games or have to chase anyone , and there are no rules , and time is short. most ppl are too brainwashed and selfish to care and expect you to act like everyone else and play a typical role too , instead of just being real as possible and not wasting any unnecessary time in any social situation. nobody wants to be alone but our society is so fake , biased , and delusional that seems like your only smart choice.
Girls who approach first get points. Had a couple bhaddies on me, but yeah im tryna get on my grind now. think it’s about time, i put my focus towards that.
@Raya steph knew it was fake he just showed that video to show what if the role was reversed how us guys approach women and get rejected he wasn't saying the video was real smh
Ok lemme just set the record straight, women do approach men, period. If she ain’t approach you, it’s for a variety of reasons, I myself have been approached by women. Now do with that information what you will. Just know if she don’t reciprocate your energy, keep it moving boys 🚶♂️
yeah but if you aren't attracted to her do you really care if she approach you ? LOL you know what i mean right ? its kinda dumb to me personally if i don't find her attractive she can say anything and it simply will not matter LOL
I know dudes that girls always droole over but never approach. They just want u to approach and do the hard work for em. You prolly lucky to find females approaching. Prolly life in a certain place and stuff
@@zshadxv2823 exactly . lol that is why i always laugh when girls say a guy has to have swag/confidence lol . i'm like b**** you don't have any confidence if YOU Scared to approach somebody you find attractive lol . Female Logic is WEIRD AF
Guys need to understand importance of social proof and how inherently insecure women are. I talk to a genuine 9 or 10 and she has insecure days where she's as low self esteem on looks as a male 5. I talked with another girl in front of her and despite all the options this dime has when I chose another girl could literally see her short circuit. She didn't kno what to do and basically lost her shit in a public setting. These girls have huge egos but they are very fickle. The part about emotional rollercoaster is so on point as her attraction for me has gone up since
I'm 24 and serve in the Armed Forces of the U.S. I haven't approached or anyone shot my shot since I was 16. I'm done with that. The fact that I turned out just fine and alright without those "crushes" of mine anyway, shows I never needed them in the first place.
Yo steph I'm from brooklyn, NY & just wanted to give you credit for your videos!! I listen to your videos at work while on my desk & I agree 100% everything you say & glad to know I'm on the right mindset 💯🧠
@@leeroyglasscock LMFAOO nah bro they driving crazy down in PA and they only leaving New York because the rent is high as fuck and PA Houses is cheap as hell
Ever since I went from obese to athletic, I prefer the ones who DM/inbox me first, shows really high interest. They gotta be a 9-10 for me to hit up them up first.
According to Dr BOA they do at least with heavy choosing signals, because I'm not about to chase women, if you got 50 other dudes running right after her multiple times a day
Women don’t really get approached in person like that, some women have never actually been approached in their life in the real world, plus it’s not chasing if you approach a woman in real life.
I work in sales and I had an interesting convo with 2 customers (husband and wife most likely) earlier this week. The convo went fine up until the point where they had to decide whether or not they were gonna sign the contract. I knew the man was interested so I thought I had it in the bag, but suddenly the wife said "I don't think we're gonna do it". She turned to him and said "we're not gonna do this are we?" and I almost felt bad for a sec. He literally just looked down at his phone and said "mhm I don't really care" and at that point I knew what I was dealing with. I almost started laughing man it was crazy. It's so sad to see how many men nowadays think this is the way to live their life.
You hit me when you said they love drama. And the want that emotional roller coaster. You just answered my question. The more I learn about all the risk women want me to take for them to fine me attractive the more fecked up everything seems in the dating world
You right bro.. everything was going great with this one female I was talking too, then out of no where she started ignoring me. I knew it was because I wasn’t giving her enough drama. So I started an argument with her , and that same night I was in the guts. It’s really sad how unstable some of these females are though. And with social media, that is literally every females life lol we know this
@@bengalboypaco7327 lol so she was ignoring me and I knew she wanted attention because u know how these petty women are. So I said “u must be gettin clapped by another dude or somethin”. This conversation gotta be in person for it to work. But anyway we started arguing in person about that, and then she started feeling guilty I guess and started kissin me.. then the rest was history my guy lol
I had a girl approach me once she said " i hope this isnt inappropriate but can i have your number" i thought maybe it was for business as i was selling at an event then she made her intentions clear by saying "youre really cute i didnt wanna say that in front of my mom" i was shocked lol i even said outloud " oh of course this never happens sure" so i gave her my number and she never called me :( lol idk if i gave her the right number or what..to this day i think about that..maybe she was homeless and wanted to live rent free in my head..lifes a trip..
You stated: “ When you’re not in those sweet watery guts.... Another guy will be in those sweet watery guts” .. 🤔🤔🤔 when my x-wife & I use to live together, almost every time I made a move she’d say; “Stop, I don’t like that, I’m not like other girls” 😑😑😑 YET when she kicked me out of our apartment, all of a sudden after a few months she “wanted” another child (after agreeing we were only having 1) & would ask for me to “come back” 😑😑😑 I personally called upon the BS card, for I had sent the divorce papers for her to be served
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They seem to do it when they are with a group of friends. That’s what has happened to me the last few times. They got more confidence when the friends are with them.
They love the emotional turmoil, but understand it for what it is. Always hold frame, don't ever get into that emotional space with them or you'll be defeated.
The woman don't have any fear of rejection . They approach only if they know the male is very rich & with high social status . A good looking dude lies him self thinking "that woman don't approach me because she's afraid of rejection" . But if the same dude will look two times worse, but to be very rich and with a very high social status, the same woman will come in front of him, and she will approach him like a male does and this happens very often to the "rich high social status guys". In the beginning of this video she approached that dude probably because of his car and his big house surrounded by high social people...She knew his car ..etc before doing the approach . If a guy looks as good as Johnny Deep , unless he's very rich and well known in a big circle of friends (social status), he won't get approached so he will need to approach the woman the right way or he will be rejected like any male. If a male wait for her to approach him , the female understands that such male is strong in a way that he can't be controlled, because he don't fall for her image so she will never approach him. The woman don't approach males (excepting the rich...) because she don't need a certain male for his qualities , but she need a male that concedes or capitulates to her as a sign of obedience, so she wait until a male approaches her, feeding her ego with attention . She need the male to approach her "as conceding capitulation gesture" because this way she thinks the male is giving her his power and is a sign she can have control over him compared to a passive male that wait for her to approach him . In all relations the male need to make the first move physically and verbally or she will chose one of the next males that does that. She break this rule with "rich high status ones" because in her gut she feels like > " HELL that's a rare occasion !, maybe there is a chance to enter under his skin and end up controlling him". What I'm saying it is all a survival mechanism that female really is and every decision toward male is made according to that . So no romance . That is just an invention to trick the male into thinking she can love him . She can't . She loves only what male does for her and not the actual male as a persona for who he is .
The baddest chick i ever seen b4 in mylife (A 15, on a scale 1 - 10) gave me mad choosing signals, super aggressive, she basically made the approach. I didnt ask to exchange info with her cus she said she lives in fort hood, dats 13hrs away from where i live in Alabama. I was mad at myself all night, kicking my own butt, about not exchanging info but i really doubt ill ever go to Texas
Women hate rejection if a woman send you choosing signals and you don't approach she will take it as a sign of rejection. Plus if she approach you the man has all of the power in the relationship. They are taught to be the prize and never be to thirsty so even if she likes you she's condition to not approach. Men just learn choosing signals and learn Game then make the approach. ✌️
Women logic: oh he didn’t notice me and my leggings, he must be gay or else he would’ve approached me! But at the same time, she been approach by another dude that wasn’t her type and rejected him. You can’t make this shit up!
bro i have so much respect for steph He truly be putting everybody on game like let’s come to our senses fellas we don’t need these girls you keep focusing on yourself keep grinding becoming a better you the girls will come along focus on yourself king till the focus on you 💯
I learned this the hard way in my; I was the “boring dude” but surprised that I do adventurous stuff like skydiving or be in their feelings when they found out I came back from Miami. I couldn’t be that doormat anymore & finally came over to the Red Side. Now I’m just focusing on my truth, my purpose, my way. Everything you said is spot on and appreciate you sharing the wealth & keep doing what you do💯🔥🙅🏾♂️
I remember my girlfriend at the time was passed out drunk in the back of my whip. I’m driving with her friend (who had a bf) in passenger, taking her home after a night of partying and shit. Her friend deadass made a move on me, basically letting me know my girl had told her how I get down in bed etc etc. I was at a loss and lowkey speechless. I just nervous laughed it off cuz I thought it was a setup. But I don’t think it was lol. I kept doubling back thinking my girl was gone be peeking at me or sun shit lmao. Me and ole girl no longer together tho.
Ngl this girl took it on the chin, if this happened to one those entitled Cardi B lookalikes, all hell would of broke loose😂 . They would forever try and emasculate the man to get payback.
I’m a woman and approach whomever I want to approach. I’m a personal trainer and if I see someone doing some awesome, OR bad workout, I’ll go up to them. Admittedly some guys will assume that I’m flirting. Sometimes people are just nice. I can thus see why women think approaching men is not supposed to be done. Because men naturally think a woman approaching them is because they are interested. In my mind, I’m like “seriously?! I work at a gym, I’m surrounded by all types of men. Do you honestly think that I’m trying to get at you?”
@@MrComic97 but I would compliment, especially form…if it’s right. If you worked hard on something that I don’t see frequently. Like triceps, or legs. It’s not that common. No offense to men (not all, not all, not all, but most) but sometimes it’s like you guys only see the anterior top half , because that’s how the mirror at home is. I’m fairly complimenting. That is because I read that men don’t receive many compliments. So I make it a point to say something nice, even if it’s delivered in a corporate sandwich way. “Wow, Your triceps are popping. Have you considered doing calf raises like this? Man those triceps look good” Of course it’s usually when they are looking like they are working on their legs and doing a certain exercise. I’m hiding the fact that they aren’t necessarily doing the most effective workout for their legs (or insert body part). While simultaneously giving them a compliment for what they have worked hard on. It does suck though, because so many members and clients have either asked me if I’m flirting or said I’m i big flirt. I’m not, I don’t mess with co-workers, members or clients. I don’t sh!t where I eat. I guess that’s what bothers me. Do you really think I would try to get with someone who I see every day. Awkward
@@lm3729 right and that’s where I know you are the personal trainer at the gym and you are gonna be nicer or give compliments specifically on physique compared to the average women Most men can be desperate for attention cuz we usually don’t get it as often unless we are top tier in looks or money
Y’all seriously don’t believe that was a real right? Ain’t no way y’all believe that video was real. He said F no, you’re kind of busted looking and I go for girls that are more attractive. She revealed her face afterwards and it look like she was trying to hide a smile. Needless to say, isn’t that her tiktok page? Why would she post herself getting rejected and insulted like that. Think y’all!
Most women don't approach because they don't have too. It ain't about how society view it because if they did care girls wouldn't be selling themselves on only fans. Most men and women can't handle rejection, its natural. Men just had to adapt. But you do it enough you'll get over it.
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Steph you say focus on the grind wait for choosing signals etc, I did that for a while but that isn’t getting me laid. What has gotten me laid tho lately is approaching 50 girls a week. Why don’t u advocate cold approach ?
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Damn...that dude was Savage as f*** to her. I feel you Steph on females that are "religious" because they are one of the worst ones in my opinion due to the fact a dude will never expect her to do wrong by him just because she's "religious" and I feel into that trap too Steph when I met a gorgeous chick who kept trying to talk to me at one of my old jobs. It turned out she already had boyfriend and she never told me about it and when I found out later when she tried to talk to me again I was super p*ssed off at her and I told her to leave me alone and I ignored her then at when I see her at work I wouldn't even look at her direction and walked passed her like I didn't know her at all and she would stare at me all the time until I made eye contact with her but I wouldn't because when I was even younger I kept remembering the times when ex girlfriends played me because I didn't know the Game. Women knew the Game waaaay before most men and that's the advantage they have over us but we're learning really fast and catching up with what most of us missed out on. Women are going to have to bow down to us and it's coming Steph
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@@josealvarado8842 he wasnt savage. he was honest.
Confidence is not walking into a room thinking you’re better than everyone, its walking into a room not comparing yourself to anyone at all.
@@d.7203 fr 😅😅
@@d.7203 This guy is a wise quote machine for real!
Be a creator in your mind never compete
There he is! Waldo! 🧑🏼🎄
This dude is on legit every mgtow video comment section.
2 reasons why they don’t chase
1: fear of rejection
2: they have at least 50 dudes chasing them.
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@@chanceklein yep true
Thank you. Someone said it
About 100 plus in their dms blowing their head up
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If that's real, you gotta give the girl some credit tho, she is more confident than most dudes out there.
She probably more of a woman than most women since she's not following tradition of feeling entitled to always be approached.
No chance it’s real
It’s obviously fake😂
No its not. Woman will not approach you
@@naydah This will surprise you but like 5% of women may actually holla at you face to face or through dm's.
That was probably the only time she will ever do that. She’s now going to get emotional and reject every man that comes up to her. Because of one dude that rejected her. Men have to do this everyday. We have to face rejection everyday and get right back up.
Men act the same way not just woman shut up
@@samuelestevez6535 how so, buddy?
This shit was hella staged bro. Like come on. You can tell because his reaction is hella exaggerated. Most dudes would just say im good but he made it apparently to say "fuck no!". 😒 Please.
@@SuperMurray2009he said "fuck no" cause he actually mean't it.
@@SA-op4xu No. He said fuck no just to get a better reaction. This shit is fake ass fuck
"Women understand women, and they hate each other." -Al Bundy
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This the truest statement
Women hate women who are with a successful good looking guy.
@@nickgates9706 facts
My motto is rejection from a woman can be a way God saving you from a headache you don't need. The woman that's meant for you won't reject you.
Much needed words after a rejection.
Found u waldo! Always spitting them facts! 🧑🏼🎄
Yeah ,Very True , If you think about it it’s very true it’s not even a way of consoling oneself,it’s reality ..
The woman that wanted me still rejected me though😂😂
Nah bro. Sometimes even the ones that come after you aren't always for you lmao.
holy imagine a guy was doing exactly what she was doing he would be called a stalker, creep, weirdo, etc but when it’s a woman, "it’s so cute". Nice world we live in
Double standards right
I will one day get to the point in life that I give zero fucks about peoples opinions . I'm not there yet . I will for real . Like becoming social path . Give zero fucks . That's the key to life
Well the vid is fake so dont sweat it
@@SuperMurray2009 doesen't change the fact that nobody would look twice if a women makes the first step in a gym
So should woman not approach men period? Everything is a complaint these days.
Confidence is not “I don’t care if they don’t like me”
Confidence is “I’ll be okay if they don’t”
Facts
all the above lol
Still dont care
@@Friday2139 fax
Uh i pick option 1
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Exactly his content really transformed my way of thinking but I just really started embracing the red pill it’s definitely a long journey
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@@hermonghebresslasie3198 why did u have to mention that under this comment?
Brothers if you with a woman and she emotionally checks out the relationship with you and you see her with another guy literally days after she left you.... just keep it moving don't ruin your life over no pussy its plenty out here. It happened to me last year before the plandemic been on my purpose ever since God bless you brothers peace
Plandemic 🤣 im surprise youtube aint remove that comment
@@GameN3rdz UA-cam knows it was planned. That's why they were shutting truther channels down throughout the social media world but we know the deal
God bless brother
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She will continue to stare and look but she will never approach you. She wants equality, but at the same time she wants you to do all the work.
Ya man this sincere quit nature girl at Walmart employee looks at me everytime i shop there i smile at here like this😏and walk away she just dont have the guts to approach me
I have experience this but I fucked up 🤣...
it's good that a man should approach first , sets the tone
@@AshTheDuke Stop wasting time. Get inside those guts bro 👌🏼
@@solodolo_mma3971 ok i will check her out ask her out
Bruh said “you kinda busted” 😂😂😂
Dat shit was fucked up😂
@@O.S.O.M.Education I’m going to hell for laughing😂… Jesus Christ that was hard to watch😭
@@roninwolf5029 You know its fake right
Gotta give her points for having the backbone to approach first most women don't cause they can't handle rejection
@@bigal98761 it's not real guy
😂 Ain't nothing more satisfying in the world then seeing a female getting a taste of her own medicine I love this
Redpill for life
We need to see more of this man that was brutal 🤣🤣😂
I agree. In fact, I go around rejecting every woman I see. And thereby, giving them all a taste of their own medicine: something that they've needed for a long-ass time
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Fuck Yes
Too bad this video is fake as fuck
@@SuperMurray2009 how?
Women do approach men and/or shoot their shot, it’s just rare and in most cases seemingly inconspicuous. Keep in mind that throwing a man choosing signals, is considered shooting their “shot” in most women’s minds. Needless to say most guys don’t even know choosing signals exist, so they completely miss a trick when a girls body language gives off the “I’m attracted to you” vibe.
The next stage is the female that actually has the balls to start a conversation with you, but is still not brave enough to be upfront about why she did it. These broads will look for any reason/excuse to talk to you, so will start a convo with something completely random and left of field for apparently no real reason, or ask you for help with something they clearly could have managed themselves. They are hoping that by getting things started, you as the man will take over the lead to the road that inevitably leads down to pound town.
The last stage is the type of woman that is the most rare and also the most confident. These are the types of women who straight up walk to you and tell you in no uncertain terms that they want to get into your pants. They won’t beat around the bush and say things like “you’re hot” or “your gorgeous” straight to your face. That way there can be no confusion as to why they came over to talk to you. But like I mentioned, these are the most rare, so you’ll tend to remember on the rare occasion that it happens to you!
I agree with you the ones that actually and let it be known what they want is actually rare.
Seems like the women who are not attractive looking, are the ones that have the confidence to approach. From my experience lol
dont complain that girls dont approach guys because they do. my boy used to hang out with chris brown 10 yrs ago & he told me breezy has hundreds of girls approach him everyday. So all you idiots saying girls are afraid to approach guys are wrong because i guarantee you that Drake & Justin Bieber have thousands of girls approaching them. just get rich & i guarantee you they will come & getting rich is easy these days
@@yohannesnegga why would you ever want a female that wants you only for your $? If she isn't sexually attracted to you the very second you meet her, best to not even bother. Don't let her u$e you.
@@shawnwilliams2381 I have the same experience. Most of the girls who are bold like that are the ones who shouldn't. Hot girls don't approach.
Women never approach or shoot their shot because they are insecure, shy and it’s not in their nature to take risks.
And generally they don't have to because they get offers on a daily basis
@@mikegee8345 even the ugly ones lol
@@mikegee8345 that too
Your life is your story. A new day is a new chapter, Make it a good one.
I Live every day doing what makes me happy.. with or without money. I dont try and impress anyone by my parents.
@@2solid4u6 💯💯💯
Crazy that you posted this i just had a chick approach me today at a 7/11 and hit me with the ol are your from Tennessee pick up line, she admitted it was corny but I gave her the time of day because i respected the fact that she had enough confidence to approach me in the 1st place and i ended getting the number.
That’s cool bro. You should be in them guts by Monday 👍🏼
@@solodolo_mma3971 LOL!!
More like she got the number.
@@y.e.a.h5634 yeah I don't know why he phrased it like that he has a weak mindset
I get approached from time to time by some highly attractive women. It's only because I'm married. They want the guys who are already taken.
I heard someone say women want men that other women want
@@mikegee8345 It's true. They want the men that are pre- screened by other women.
It saves the ladies time by not having to figure out if He's the commitment type etc. They figure if other women want him, he must be a good catch.
@@davidhall3747 It's sad but True I know from experience and I'm not married never been but women will talk with me behind there home girl back who they know likes me
Wedding ring band
Facts
'NAH BRUH I'M GOOD"......Words that only a man focused on his purpose can say to any woman regardless of how cold the woman is.
She should’ve waited till he finished his set, you can’t just interrupt a guy at the gym, you’re less likely to get the number for doing that but I’ve never seen any worse acting from both parties.
it's literally all set up , look at his reaction , plus it's on tiktok
Lol🤣🤣🤣
First off, she approached the guy as if she was a guy instead of using her femininity. I'm sure most people don't know how a woman should approach a man, but that wasn't the way.
She should have asked for help on the machines should of played it off
@@freshmanjeans No. Ladies have all the confidence in rejecting a man and getting approached, but don't know one way to approach a man with FEMININITY and pull him. Utilize your femininity and sexuality. Ladies don't know how to choose nowadays. All that indirect BS doesn't get a man or a woman anywhere.
You can basically destroy their egos so easily and then get them chasing your validation. That is at the core of game and manipulation.
Art of seduction
@Bryan Hernandez be mindful of other girls when she’s around (let her visibly see this), mixed signals and not giving her as much attention.
I would say do this in the first stage if u like them. If they like you should still be easy
Ignoring them is the best weapon and it works I do it all the time and I look up it's 3 chicks in my space
Yo guys I did it. I got a gf. And not being a simp at all, she's just someone apart of MY life.
Props man! Hope you stay blessed!
Congrats
go get you another one.
That's cool Obi Wan always keep the high ground.
Dont put having a girlfriend as some achievement. Not trying to be an asshole but thats the wrong mentality to have. If anything be proud of HER for managing to convince you to commit.
Women will literally passively flirt with you and expect you to outright know what she’s thinking, and will get mad at the man she’s sending signals to for not receiving or getting them immediately. I’ve been there plenty of times, these mofos are weird lmao😂🤣
I’m glad someone said it thank you my brother I had the same problem all the time just come out and say let’s get coffee or some wack ass pickup line facts bro much respect ✊
@@christopherbenloss8459 IKR LOL
A recurring thing in life bruh.
Some end up hating because they have interpreted you not approaching or asking for their number or whatever AS meaning: YOU think you're better than me...
Smh. U just can't be NOT INTERESTED.
Thats that inflated ego that cannot accept that a male or some males don't find u appealing.
(Also, some will TRY HARDER to "Get you" tryna capture u like a shiny pkmn)
@@zayinseven7923 STRAIGHT FACTS BRO! i got called stuck-up by this girl at my job because i didn't show any interest in her lol. she was aiight LOL not a dime. plus she had kids and i don't play that Step-SIMP Daddy Shit LOL
@@christopherbenloss8459 i feel you Bro. i'm like man ITS 2021 how long ya'll gonna keep doing this shit? LOL
They're fragile like glass. sometimes a girl may break up with you, and when you just walk away, alot of them won't come back bc they're scared of possibility of you rejecting them back. That's why they do all sorts of passive things ,like watching your stories, instead of just being upfront.
Ya man i acted i didnt care and ghosted vs ghosted happened lol
Lmao facts they can watch ya story but not text u lol like shorty u can watch lol I’m living it up
Bruhhh I had this chick one time asking people about me/keeping tabs on me/where I worked,etc and I'm just like you could've just asked me you know right?
@@leonardodecrapprio382 they wierd dawg
Spot on! Women suffer in silence.
Now that I'm older, they don't even matter anymore. I try to think, what can she give me that's helpful and useful??
Poontang
exactly , they can't give you anything. dudes obsessing about this all day all over youtube
there's entire 24/7 channels dedicated to this bs. you realize how stupid it is after you've been through enough in life to see it wasn't worth it. nobody should play these games or have to chase anyone , and there are no rules , and time is short. most ppl are too brainwashed and selfish to
care and expect you to act like everyone else and play a typical role too , instead of just being real as possible and not wasting any unnecessary time in any social situation. nobody wants to be alone but our society is so fake , biased , and delusional that seems like your only smart choice.
Sex,drama,headache's,stress that's all
@@fawkkyutuu8851 true
Nothing
Seeing girls getting rejected makes you feel good when you constantly get rejected 😂😂💯
Facts
Never give these chick's free attention and validation 💯💯
facts
Don’t be no simp
Girls who approach first get points. Had a couple bhaddies on me, but yeah im tryna get on my grind now. think it’s about time, i put my focus towards that.
Yessir 💪🏼
Yes I like girls that have the backbone to approach first but most women don't cause they can't handle rejection
@@bigal98761 yup i feel so happy proud and high value when girls approach me for date i hope those days will come 😊
with a deadpool pfp, yeah aight 🤣
Same I try to be super careful an gentle when I take em down..
My guy, Steph. Premeditated means to think out or plan beforehand. Everything they do IS premeditated. But we know what you meant. Stay up.
Good teaching moment without the rudeness 💪🏾
Agree
Her: *breathes*
Also her: gets mad when you don’t get the signal
This video looks mad, STAGED.
It was
most of the shit on TV and Internet are staged bro, this world is a lie bro
Too many angles and close-ups. Basically a rom-com scene
This guy is a legend 💪🏽
The generation after us will be prepared cuz we know what time it is now.
Factz
The generation after us is catastrophically fucked
Men being aware of female nature isn't changing women. They continue to go after Chads.
The game not gone even be the same
They won’t lool
Bruh that shit broke my face 😂😂😂😂
Mine too i thought i got rejected 🤣🤣
its fake
@Raya steph knew it was fake he just showed that video to show what if the role was reversed how us guys approach women and get rejected he wasn't saying the video was real smh
Bro when dude hit that laugh w a cough too cover it up I busted out omm 😂😂
Here before the Life of Abundance dude.😂
Missed him by 2 mins G, can't beat the man.
@@MistaMasta420 facts
Maybe you can beat IcecoldJT
Lmaoooo
U can't beat him. He's quicker then a beta male saying I love u
She said “excuse me” like he was just automatically supposed to give her his Snapchat these women crazy
Isn’t that just how you get someone’s attention ?
And now she's going to go and judge every man based off of that rejection
Exactly 😭😂
It's a fake video bro.
“They don’t qualify period...” I needed that, that shit is so true.
Ok lemme just set the record straight, women do approach men, period. If she ain’t approach you, it’s for a variety of reasons, I myself have been approached by women. Now do with that information what you will. Just know if she don’t reciprocate your energy, keep it moving boys 🚶♂️
Never happend to me before an am.a 6 on the dating scale🤣
yeah but if you aren't attracted to her do you really care if she approach you ? LOL you know what i mean right ? its kinda dumb to me personally if i don't find her attractive she can say anything and it simply will not matter LOL
I know dudes that girls always droole over but never approach. They just want u to approach and do the hard work for em. You prolly lucky to find females approaching. Prolly life in a certain place and stuff
@@zshadxv2823 exactly . lol that is why i always laugh when girls say a guy has to have swag/confidence lol . i'm like b**** you don't have any confidence if YOU Scared to approach somebody you find attractive lol . Female Logic is WEIRD AF
Agreed. I'm ugly as fuck, socially disabled and mildly autistic and I've had five whole women ask me out in my life. It's not that hard.
Man I just dumped my chick because she was just too disrespectful. It's best to move on because most women arent like that.
Damn right
More money and time on yourself.
She tryna get you back?
Good decision
@@eman2616 heck yeah so many block calls coming my way it's scary
@@Bowmacho Lol same with me. This will be the only time she respects you because she sees you're serious.
Guys need to understand importance of social proof and how inherently insecure women are. I talk to a genuine 9 or 10 and she has insecure days where she's as low self esteem on looks as a male 5. I talked with another girl in front of her and despite all the options this dime has when I chose another girl could literally see her short circuit. She didn't kno what to do and basically lost her shit in a public setting. These girls have huge egos but they are very fickle. The part about emotional rollercoaster is so on point as her attraction for me has gone up since
damn you right. a girls awareness of her attractiveness is based on other people's compliments
@@gallo2432 YEAH. like i always say they constantly seeking VALIDATION LOL
I give the girl props for having the confidence to approach first but most women don't because they can't handle rejection
don't mistake entitlement for confidence.
"Women lie about a lot of things"? Naw, man... That's untrue. Know how I know? My ex-GF told me women don't lie.
Hahahahaha
Ay bruh got news for you
🤣🤣
I'm 24 and serve in the Armed Forces of the U.S. I haven't approached or anyone shot my shot since I was 16. I'm done with that. The fact that I turned out just fine and alright without those "crushes" of mine anyway, shows I never needed them in the first place.
Yo steph I'm from brooklyn, NY & just wanted to give you credit for your videos!! I listen to your videos at work while on my desk & I agree 100% everything you say & glad to know I'm on the right mindset 💯🧠
Cool to see a fellow New Yorker. I’m from the BX 👏🏼
Only real new yorkers get why im boutta say "The bronxxx???" 😂 new york love babyy 🗽
Ayyeee fellas I'm from New York City too. The Bronx ✊🏽 get all the pussy fellas
i’m in pennsylvania... can u please take your people back?
@@leeroyglasscock LMFAOO nah bro they driving crazy down in PA and they only leaving New York because the rent is high as fuck and PA Houses is cheap as hell
Ever since I went from obese to athletic, I prefer the ones who DM/inbox me first, shows really high interest.
They gotta be a 9-10 for me to hit up them up first.
That shit was staged but the concept still apply 😂
According to Dr BOA they do at least with heavy choosing signals, because I'm not about to chase women, if you got 50 other dudes running right after her multiple times a day
Women don’t really get approached in person like that, some women have never actually been approached in their life in the real world, plus it’s not chasing if you approach a woman in real life.
Dude spoke nothing BUT facts 📠 no printer
Needed this video to clear my mind out, thank you King 🤞🏽
From another fellow King
I feel so UNCOMFORTABLE watching this cus he saying FACTSSSSSS 🥴😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
no way thats real but still funny as hell tho 😂
this video is how girls think guys will respond
It’s how I would respond
Exactly FAKE AS HELL
@@southalphasigma-5665 damn so you got rejected a lot huh?
Great video steph!
Your work is appreciated here at corporate.
I was literally just teaching my bro the game and you drop the video
Loooooool man when you start singing I’m dead every time
I work in sales and I had an interesting convo with 2 customers (husband and wife most likely) earlier this week. The convo went fine up until the point where they had to decide whether or not they were gonna sign the contract. I knew the man was interested so I thought I had it in the bag, but suddenly the wife said "I don't think we're gonna do it". She turned to him and said "we're not gonna do this are we?" and I almost felt bad for a sec. He literally just looked down at his phone and said "mhm I don't really care" and at that point I knew what I was dealing with. I almost started laughing man it was crazy. It's so sad to see how many men nowadays think this is the way to live their life.
Lol. She said “excuse me” she was shocked she got rejected🤣
Bro out of alot of situations like that im giving that girl 100% seal of approval for her bravery 👌🏽
You hit me when you said they love drama. And the want that emotional roller coaster. You just answered my question. The more I learn about all the risk women want me to take for them to fine me attractive the more fecked up everything seems in the dating world
You right bro.. everything was going great with this one female I was talking too, then out of no where she started ignoring me. I knew it was because I wasn’t giving her enough drama. So I started an argument with her , and that same night I was in the guts. It’s really sad how unstable some of these females are though. And with social media, that is literally every females life lol we know this
Howd you start the argument g lollll
@@bengalboypaco7327 lol so she was ignoring me and I knew she wanted attention because u know how these petty women are. So I said “u must be gettin clapped by another dude or somethin”. This conversation gotta be in person for it to work. But anyway we started arguing in person about that, and then she started feeling guilty I guess and started kissin me.. then the rest was history my guy lol
My guy is a legend. Good shit! When you know the game, it’s like having a cheat code. 👏🏼💯
@Fle_eazy my nigga good looks lol
@@solodolo_mma3971 good looks G facts it’s all a game
Damn he turned her down with the quickness 😂😂😂😆
Her thighs were rubbing
man i love how you spitting truth and being funny as shit at the same time
I had a girl approach me once she said " i hope this isnt inappropriate but can i have your number" i thought maybe it was for business as i was selling at an event then she made her intentions clear by saying "youre really cute i didnt wanna say that in front of my mom" i was shocked lol i even said outloud " oh of course this never happens sure" so i gave her my number and she never called me :( lol idk if i gave her the right number or what..to this day i think about that..maybe she was homeless and wanted to live rent free in my head..lifes a trip..
Buhhhh
The word of the 2020's 😂
@buuuhh 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmfao
buuuhhh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You stated: “ When you’re not in those sweet watery guts.... Another guy will be in those sweet watery guts” .. 🤔🤔🤔 when my x-wife & I use to live together, almost every time I made a move she’d say; “Stop, I don’t like that, I’m not like other girls” 😑😑😑 YET when she kicked me out of our apartment, all of a sudden after a few months she “wanted” another child (after agreeing we were only having 1) & would ask for me to “come back” 😑😑😑 I personally called upon the BS card, for I had sent the divorce papers for her to be served
I’m so glad Steph uploads daily. It’s like a daily dose of alphaness that’s much needed these days.
Bruh as we speak my IG stories are blowin up...the ex lookin 👀 sick 😂!
Do her dirty as fuck wit your success bro! We all elevating
@@Evilpocketbike damn right!
If y’all really believed that was real idk what to tell you 😂 How can we hear what they’re saying when the camera is so far from them
😂😂 I call Kevin Samuel's "Unk" & You "Lil bro"... You guys are like my extended family! It's refreshing to see other Guys think like MEN & all the O.G's that guided me! Keep doing ya thang Fam!
"She Bout to Bbbbbbbbbuuussstt" 😖😂
They seem to do it when they are with a group of friends. That’s what has happened to me the last few times. They got more confidence when the friends are with them.
Bruh laughed and said FUCK no 😂
This makes me think women don’t have as much men coming up to them like they say they do feels like cap to me 😂
Social media have made it easy for them that in their heads, the amount of dms and compliments they get from simps is equal to being approached
Better believe it!!!
@@moshoodsanni5126 Factz they only get dms and compliments from the men that they don’t want they don’t find attractive 💯
Thats alot of truth in a short video. Nice job man
They love the emotional turmoil, but understand it for what it is. Always hold frame, don't ever get into that emotional space with them or you'll be defeated.
“that church girl reference 💯👁”
These chick's scared they might get rejected 💯 they can't handle rejection like we can 💯
FACTS. THEY WAS NEVER TAUGHT THAT LOL
The woman don't have any fear of rejection . They approach only if they know the male is very rich & with high social status .
A good looking dude lies him self thinking "that woman don't approach me because she's afraid of rejection" .
But if the same dude will look two times worse, but to be very rich and with a very high social status, the same woman will come in front of him, and she will approach him like a male does and this happens very often to the "rich high social status guys".
In the beginning of this video she approached that dude probably because of his car and his big house surrounded by high social people...She knew his car ..etc before doing the approach .
If a guy looks as good as Johnny Deep , unless he's very rich and well known in a big circle of friends (social status), he won't get approached so he will need to approach the woman the right way or he will be rejected like any male.
If a male wait for her to approach him , the female understands that such male is strong in a way that he can't be controlled, because he don't fall for her image so she will never approach him.
The woman don't approach males (excepting the rich...) because she don't need a certain male for his qualities , but she need a male that concedes or capitulates to her as a sign of obedience, so she wait until a male approaches her, feeding her ego with attention .
She need the male to approach her "as conceding capitulation gesture" because this way she thinks the male is giving her his power and is a sign she can have control over him compared to a passive male that wait for her to approach him .
In all relations the male need to make the first move physically and verbally or she will chose one of the next males that does that.
She break this rule with "rich high status ones" because in her gut she feels like > " HELL that's a rare occasion !, maybe there is a chance to enter under his skin and end up controlling him".
What I'm saying it is all a survival mechanism that female really is and every decision toward male is made according to that .
So no romance . That is just an invention to trick the male into thinking she can love him . She can't . She loves only what male does for her and not the actual male as a persona for who he is .
This the first video I've ever seen with no dislikes. Real talk.
The baddest chick i ever seen b4 in mylife (A 15, on a scale 1 - 10) gave me mad choosing signals, super aggressive, she basically made the approach. I didnt ask to exchange info with her cus she said she lives in fort hood, dats 13hrs away from where i live in Alabama. I was mad at myself all night, kicking my own butt, about not exchanging info but i really doubt ill ever go to Texas
it be like dat 😭💯
Women hate rejection if a woman send you choosing signals and you don't approach she will take it as a sign of rejection. Plus if she approach you the man has all of the power in the relationship. They are taught to be the prize and never be to thirsty so even if she likes you she's condition to not approach. Men just learn choosing signals and learn Game then make the approach. ✌️
Women logic: oh he didn’t notice me and my leggings, he must be gay or else he would’ve approached me!
But at the same time, she been approach by another dude that wasn’t her type and rejected him. You can’t make this shit up!
@@yaircelis1175 true
@@yaircelis1175 there ego can't handle rejection in no form of fashion it has to be something wrong with the man Everytime
@@theteamleader I agree with you completely but why can they dish it out so easily and reject guys like its nothing?
@@Michaelgracon social condition it's the princess complex
bro i have so much respect for steph He truly be putting everybody on game like let’s come to our senses fellas we don’t need these girls you keep focusing on yourself keep grinding becoming a better you the girls will come along focus on yourself king till the focus on you 💯
I learned this the hard way in my; I was the “boring dude” but surprised that I do adventurous stuff like skydiving or be in their feelings when they found out I came back from Miami. I couldn’t be that doormat anymore & finally came over to the Red Side. Now I’m just focusing on my truth, my purpose, my way. Everything you said is spot on and appreciate you sharing the wealth & keep doing what you do💯🔥🙅🏾♂️
I remember my girlfriend at the time was passed out drunk in the back of my whip. I’m driving with her friend (who had a bf) in passenger, taking her home after a night of partying and shit. Her friend deadass made a move on me, basically letting me know my girl had told her how I get down in bed etc etc. I was at a loss and lowkey speechless. I just nervous laughed it off cuz I thought it was a setup. But I don’t think it was lol. I kept doubling back thinking my girl was gone be peeking at me or sun shit lmao. Me and ole girl no longer together tho.
Ngl this girl took it on the chin, if this happened to one those entitled Cardi B lookalikes, all hell would of broke loose😂 . They would forever try and emasculate the man to get payback.
Its not even real
Every woman ain’t the same and every nigga ain’t cut from the same cloth💯
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Bruh Accurate af. Blessings from Jamaica bro
The video is FAKE but the message is REAL
Why nobody mention the fact she approaches him DURING the set lol wtf xD
Disrespectful af
@@arkhorus9540 yup
Lol.. her confidence was good but nil points for her timing
@@mikegee8345 its fake anyway so yeah doesnt matter actually
Great video. Alot of guys need to watch this video. Shout out to you, for having the spine, to make such a video.👏👏👏👏👍👍
TERRANCE OUT
I’m a woman and approach whomever I want to approach. I’m a personal trainer and if I see someone doing some awesome, OR bad workout, I’ll go up to them.
Admittedly some guys will assume that I’m flirting. Sometimes people are just nice. I can thus see why women think approaching men is not supposed to be done. Because men naturally think a woman approaching them is because they are interested.
In my mind, I’m like “seriously?! I work at a gym, I’m surrounded by all types of men. Do you honestly think that I’m trying to get at you?”
I mean if I know your a personal trainer I’m not gonna assume anything unless you compliment my appearance or something
@@MrComic97 but I would compliment, especially form…if it’s right. If you worked hard on something that I don’t see frequently. Like triceps, or legs. It’s not that common. No offense to men (not all, not all, not all, but most) but sometimes it’s like you guys only see the anterior top half , because that’s how the mirror at home is.
I’m fairly complimenting. That is because I read that men don’t receive many compliments. So I make it a point to say something nice, even if it’s delivered in a corporate sandwich way. “Wow, Your triceps are popping. Have you considered doing calf raises like this? Man those triceps look good”
Of course it’s usually when they are looking like they are working on their legs and doing a certain exercise. I’m hiding the fact that they aren’t necessarily doing the most effective workout for their legs (or insert body part). While simultaneously giving them a compliment for what they have worked hard on.
It does suck though, because so many members and clients have either asked me if I’m flirting or said I’m i big flirt. I’m not, I don’t mess with co-workers, members or clients. I don’t sh!t where I eat. I guess that’s what bothers me. Do you really think I would try to get with someone who I see every day. Awkward
@@lm3729 right and that’s where I know you are the personal trainer at the gym and you are gonna be nicer or give compliments specifically on physique compared to the average women
Most men can be desperate for attention cuz we usually don’t get it as often unless we are top tier in looks or money
“Sweet watery guts” SCREAMING
Yo I can’t even make it thru the video 😭😔😔😔😔😔😔 shut UP!
Women are scared of rejection because they know the mentality to keep him chasing. If you approach her she feels u will be chasing n simpn
Requesting more car videos. I love hearing the engine in the background.
StephIsCold what it is G
Y’all seriously don’t believe that was a real right? Ain’t no way y’all believe that video was real. He said F no, you’re kind of busted looking and I go for girls that are more attractive. She revealed her face afterwards and it look like she was trying to hide a smile. Needless to say, isn’t that her tiktok page? Why would she post herself getting rejected and insulted like that. Think y’all!
I liked it before I even saw it lol 😂
Girls always reject guys like that too tf women always think we’re at fault for shit
Most women don't approach because they don't have too. It ain't about how society view it because if they did care girls wouldn't be selling themselves on only fans. Most men and women can't handle rejection, its natural. Men just had to adapt. But you do it enough you'll get over it.
real christian women get crucified.
whoever thinks otherwise need to take that spot