To anyone reading this who's hurting from losing their best friend keep your head up, I know that pain, it hurts so damn much , it'll make you numb, but I promise no matter how hard it is you'll get through it with or without them, life keeps moving, all you need is yourself.
I lost my real life best friend now I just have best friends who live 13+ an 15+ hours away from me😕💔now look me an my real life best friend are now restarting are friendship
Your words are so beautiful, you’re so right! I wrote a “text” here at the comments about losing friends 2 hope it helps someone like your text helped me
Ye I know how it feels to lose your best friend, twice actually, I lost my first one when I was 7 and moved to another country and then two years ago I lost my second one when she moved away 😢
My ex best friend and I split apart after being best friends for 6+ years I was the one that cut her out due to the fact that she was really toxic/ controlling and manipulative She hurt me several times emotionally and mentally so I just cut her out permanently
Every fucking day. We were the closest out of the entire year everyone knew us as best friends and she goes and decides to fuck it all up. She may not be hurting but I’ll never forget
My bestfriend I miss everything me and you had . I miss all of our memories when we did nothing but laugh together . I miss when i didnt need anyone else in the world just you . And i know you are gone to get back bc i know it will not be the same anymore .you were my bestfriend and the only person i only needed in life . And now i means nothing to you .i Get so jealous bc of your best friend bc i want you to be with me not with her bc i love you . Now you are just someone cant even remember all the promises we made to each other . Its hurt knowing you arent the same with me . Am sorry for every thing bad i did to you . My tears falling and i cant write anymore ...but hope you will be happy with your new friends like me and you did This is the messege i sent to my ex bf ..she blocked me ..thank you
i know you commented this 6 months ago but this is exactly what my bestfriend did to me, she was toxic and treated me horribly but i was always there for her even though shes never been there for me. i went through some shit this year and the one time i tried to lean on her for support she cut me off because "i was exhausting her" and she had "other more important" stuff to deal with. we were friends for 13 years :/
@@peepeejenkins21 I'm so sorry that happened and ik it hurts but all u need is yourself. U recognize the fact that she is toxic so it's gonna hurt letting her go but it's for the best. You'll get through this you're strong enough.
The problem is that losing you‘re best friend is more painfull than losing a crush... You‘ll find someone else to love but finding someone to call a truly friend is way harder.
One day she told me to shut up. I felt bad. So I didn’t talk anything that day. (My health was declining already , I was taking therapy:I never told her tho ). Next week she pulled up with anti stress pills ( idk if those were them ,but she told everyone that) and guess what pulled up the victim card. Happened this week .
@@juliastadick2371 they will end up hurting us again cause they don't care doing it twice that's why lts not the same anymore 💔💔💔😭😭😭😭 trust is broken. its lost. And even if we give them a second opportunity nothing will be the same as it was before :(
I just came here to have one of my mental breakdowns...🙃 "we were friends...how could you betray me like that.." "friends what are friends?" "we can't be friends anymore..." damn that hit me so hard...
Loosing a friend hurts worse then a break up. Because when your with someone, no matter how much you love them, you know that most likely you'll breakup. But when you have a best friend (expecially when you grew up together) you think you'll always be best friends. You think it will last a lifetime. So when that's all you ever knew, it hurts when you loose them.
its so damn hard to see ur best friend losing interest in you, that she stops to need you and she do already have someone with how she could replace me she already repleaced me, she keeps lying to me and i cant take it i am crying everynight my fcking eyes out i miss her i love her i dont want to lose her.
I lost a friend, and it consumed me for the whole summer. I couldn't imagine losing a Bestfriend. I would probably destroy me for a whole year to move on.
I used to have bestfriend too, but I often saw her walk with popular girls and everytime she saw me, she would hide her face like... What the hell- she think I didn't see her or what?
losing a friend is pain, pure pain. its as real as it gets. pouring your heart and soul into a person that you thought would be there for you. and now theyre gone. it makes you question yourself, makes you question whether you were a burden to the only person who made you feel like you werent.
Losing a best friend is worse than a breakup. I knew her for four years and we don’t even talk anymore she was the only person that made me feel like I belonged and shes gone. Shes completely out of my life and now I’m all alone having friends but no one to talk to
I had soo many toxic friends that talked behind my back. But i was happy with them. Now i have good friends that care about me and never talk behind my back. But i don't feel any thing, i'm numb
People say it's going to be better but she was my world. She was my everything. AND IT HURTS. It's been over a year and a half since I lost my best friend but it still hurts like hell. She was toxic, but I loved her, I helped her, I laughed with her,I was with her everyday. But then she got up and left; blamed everything on me. It makes me cry every night even though I'm "the happy friend" but I'm broken inside. I'm empty, numb. hiding the pain I'm in,behind my jokes and smiles. It hurts that badly when I cry I have to cover my mouth to make sure no one hears. I just want to scream but I cant. I understand everyone's pain as I'm going through it too 😔
As time went by, she found new people. It's not like we argued or anything, it's just we grew apart. Honestly, good or worst situation, I miss her, but we don't really talk anymore. It's hard when once you shared every tiny detail and now she pretends like she didn't see you!
I’ve said those words. “I guess we aren’t friends anymore. “ I wanted to take them back not long after I said them. 10 years later I still want to take them back. She deserves all the happiness in the world. I hope she’s found that in a friendship; I just wasn’t able to give her.
I've lost my best friend one week ago...She was my sister...She found another person and now she doesn't even know I exist...I sacrificed everything to know that she is safe..but now..I wasted so much time on her... I missed the funniest, saddest moments together
I completely understand what you are going through, I recently had to leave a toxic friendship and it took me so long just to feel okaay and give myself a new beginning so I completely understand what you are going through. But something that really helped me is a blog article I read a while back. I am linking it for you, hope you feel better is.gd/fGoQEU lots of love
After five years or so, i can honestly say: it gets better. You will meet more honest, true and loyal people than you ever imagined. The ones that inspire you and the best feeling? When you inspire them. You'll never take friendship for granted. Sure it hurts. And boy, those abandonment issues. But its also a lesson. You'll also understand toxic people a lot more and how to avoid them. You are loved, you are valued and you deserve everything in the World.🌱
- dreamsaboutlondon - it honestly sucks when you get back stabbed by your best friend but then time goes on and then you find people that values you and your friendship and it’s honestly the best feeling
It's been over a year and a half but it still hurts like hell. She was toxic, but I loved her, I helped her, I laughed with her. But then she got up and left; blamed everything thing on me. It makes me cry every night even though I'm "the happy friend" but I'm broken inside. I'm empty, numb. hiding the pain I'm ,behind my jokes and smiles
@@jxx5564 you will get through this, believe me! The first year i mourned as well. It was hard, not telling them things and knowing, that they didnt miss me at all. But time takes the emotion out of it, i promise. Now when i see them its like a ghost. I cant recognize one thing about them. They are unfamiliar to me and i know i healed. You will too! Start in the New year knowing that you are enough! If she didnt love you how you are, she didnt deserve you. Do all the things you know she'll hate (except illegal things haha), make new friends even though it will be difficult in the beginning. Trust. Trust that this too shall pass. Sending you hugs😊🤗
The only thing that hurts more than losing a best friend is having a best friend that has other best friends you being the best friend as a last choice
In my experience losing a friend is the worst feeling ever and the pain of that loss never stops until you make it stop one way or another in my case I just turned it all off better to feel nothing than feeling the pain because everybody gets betrayed in the end.
She will always be one of my closet friends who I felt loved me for me and genuinely cared. She was my pb to my jam. We clicked on another level even if we don't talk everyday there's so much love I send over to her💕
One of my bestest friends shut me out just over 4 years ago and the other day she got back in touch ... so I know how the pain feels of being shut out but tomorrow I get a decent explanation!
I think the reason losing a friendship hurts more than a partner is that there is always something in you that worries whether a relationship will last through everything while a friendship you hope always will last and will be there to help you pick up the pieces instead of being the reason you're in pieces.
It hurts very much...I lose my best friend about 1 year ago and when I'm looking photos on my phone or thinking about our memories I'm still crying I'm not found a new one because no-one can replace her every person we met is different is just not the same you will never replace this
3 years ago I had a best friend. Everything was fine, we went trough so many things, but still were always there for each other. One year ago something real bad happend with her father. I was always there for her. After a time she started to act really strange and become very toxic. She started to drink alcohol and smoking. She was so jealous when I hung out with others. She told me to stop being friends with others. I actually stopped talking to them. I cried almost every day and cut myself. But then I met a girl, who is now my best friend. She changed my life. She made me tell my 'best friend' to end our friendship. I am really thankfull this girl came in my life. I am happy again, even though my ex best friend always coming to me and tries to talk with me.
My friends betrayed me, but I still miss them more than anything. I can’t be in the same room with them without having a panic attack...I never had panic attacks in my life.
Its been years since I talked with my childhood best friend. I should've known she would've hurted me since she chose my bullies when she became friends with them and never stood up for me. I forgave her despite how much it pained me. I stop calling and writing to her to see if she cared. And its been years and nothing...😔
This explains my feelings better then I could ever could. Losing friends hurt but it hurts even more when they move on to your sister. The person who once told me to shut up about my friend.
I moved to a new school in 6th grade and I had this friend who was my first friend at that school and she hung out with the popular girls for one day and ignored me for the rest of the year and it's been a year she hasn't talked to me since. Im invisible to her. It's really hard, but don't let those fake people get you down. You deserve loyal friends who are good to you.
I had a best friend once. She left town. Got new friends and only talks to me when she is bored. Now when we see each other it’s AWKWARD. And our parents still think we are besties, and we don’t have the nerve to tell them because they think we are friends. Now we’re nothing anda I’m here, watching sad edits about losing friends. Love this life I’m living (:)
I just lost my best friend after fighting to keep our friendship alive over long distance. It hurts so god damn much she was my first real friend cause we moved so often I knew losing a friend would hurt but I couldn't stop becoming her best friend I had my first sleepover with her and my first birthday party with anybody other than family at 11. I am utterly terrified of making friends because I know we will move again and it's is going to hurt all over again but now I'm just lonely beyond compared.
I am watching this rn ..while crying cause these are so freaking familiar to me and I fought with my best friend today and i am a freak that think about the friendship more than anything..I even put friends before family ..I always fight with my family too..as the oldest I sucks...and the argument with my best friend...I don't know what to do...
I had a bestfriend for 5 years and we just started growing apart and drifting, 1 year after we haven’t kept in touch I was moving states and told her and all she said was “oh” like you were part of my childhood and I’m leaving how could u not care anymore :(
losing a friend hearts more than loosing a bf/gf cause losing a bf/gf u get over that it's normal u know that won't last forever !osin a friend u rlly rlly hope last forever and u start believe it will and then it doesn't that is pain💔
There’s someone who I want to send this to because i have no idea what I’ve done to deserve being ghosted.... but I know she won’t watch it, she won’t even look at the message
ً Even if you have stuff going on you should at least let someone know that you don’t want to be friends or that you aren’t going to be around very much. It’s better than them wondering what they did wrong and it’ll bring both of y’all some peace in the end. But I do hope that whatever you’re going through gets better.
I think I feel safe knowing that no one knows who is behind the screen. When I was eleven years old I started being friends with a group of girls because we had the same musical tastes. Something happened and I was wrong (they were offended by my attitudes) and although I apologized more than once they walked away, mocked me and bullied me (they never beat me, but they insulted me and spoke ill of me). It took me a long time to find people to be friends with because of what happened I find it very difficult to trust people, and now (almost four years after what happened) I'm afraid they'll get angry at me or i'll become boring for them. Sometimes (like now) I cry and I don't tell anyone because I don't want them to think I'm a queen drama and I want to get attention.
A true friend isn't afraid to tell you the truth even it it may hurt BC friends try to say it in a easy way possible and will support you all the way. But sometimes you have to accept that not everyone is your friend and will lie to your face, maybe yourself is the reason why. But maybe someday you will make up and become best friends or maybe you will never meet again. Friends are really important when you find the right ones make sure to treasure them♥️
i had three best friends. i trusted them so much and i thought that i could tell them everything but then they started doing stuff together without me. then i asked why they did that. they said nothing and ended our friendship. and i still don’t know what i did.
This hurts so much cause in primary I had a bestie and I was so protective over her because I had no other friends and I thought I was her bestie and she really liked me until a few days ago she told me she never liked me and used me to get more friends. And now everyone is her friend and everyone hates me but I won’t give up on telling people the truth 😭
Losing best friends or really close friends hurts so bad, that pain is horrible, i think that is worst than breaking up with someone. The best friend/close friend was always that person who was there for you and that you were there for her/him/it, it was the person you told a lot of things, the person you told all the stuff that was happening with you and that you were keeping the pain inside. And when u lose this person you feel like your world is falling apart, that you’ve no one left, that no one loves you anymore, that you’re completely alone and have no one to share things, to gossip, to cry, to laugh. The worst part is when you don’t have any idea why that person pushed you away, like when at a night you guys were gossiping and having a PJ party and at the morning he/she/it don’t remember that you exist. I’ve lost a lot of people already, it hurts, and a lot! But there’s no medicine that can do this pain go away, the only 2 thing that can make it better are the time and the memories. Those are the most powerful medicines in the whole world, they’re free and really makes you feel better. When you lose someone breathe, be patient and try to remember all the good moments you’ve together and laugh about it, try to remember the much you loved, and still love, that person. Think that if he/she/it let you go, is for the best, and you need to do that too, for hers/hims/its best and happiness. I’m sure that that person will never forget about you and that he/she/it will always remember the best moments that he/she/it had with you, and you will do that too! Don’t think that losing a important person as a bad thing, think that if he/she/it is gone from the real world, or, just out of your life be sure that it was for the best! You will always find someone new, that someone will never be that person but, that someone will be another special and important person for you, that will brung more special moments and memories! And that person will find someone too, the new person will never replace you but, just as you did, he/she/it needs to keep living, and living happy, with all the memories of the best friend he/she/it ever had! Hope this helped someone 💕 (Sorry for some spelling/grammar mistakes, English is not my first language lol)
I had a best friend since I was 4 until I have 13 . We were best friend . And one day we had a fight and we never apologies. we didn't talk for 2 years. So , a few days ago , I decide to apologise by sending her a letter , she reads it , and then she litteraly tore it up and make fun of me in front of everyone. Then she push me in the ground and let me there. Everyone was laughing. And then my actual best friend slap her in the face in front of everyone. They both take a punishment. I never thought she would react like this . (Sorry for my bad English )
Me and my best friend since Kindergarten recently broke things off because she started hanging our with the wrong crowd and ended up ditching me so I decided to end things and now I see her happy with a bunch of friends while I got no one.
I had kids and got married. We drifted apart after that. My best friend since 2nd grade and we haven’t talked for probably 2 years now... it really breaks my heart. I miss her every day.💔💔💔💔💔
Guys I know it hurts alot right,that how once we used to be best friends but now it's sad that how those best friends have become strangers.Its ok these are one of life's biggest obstacles and now we have to deal with it because there is a specific reason behind every obstacle.For all those who are getting depressed and sad.Uk it's ok, sending lots of love to all of you 💕💕
It's too hard when your bff broke heart.I really had depression.Now she and me are like strangers but when she smile my heart like stabbed because I remeber how I used to smile like that with her.It's another kind of feeling that can't be expressed with words She is like a nightmare who dressed like a day dream in my life....But LIFE GOES ON without any apology ..Let it flow.......................lets hope things will get better one day!!!
She filled a whole in my heart in which was caused by so many ppl, she filled the hole in which made me get my spark back but she left and now I'm hurting because we made so many plans and now she hates me, I want my best friend back, because I messed up and I tried so hard to fix it but I csnt and it hurts coz shes the one person I want to talk to rn, and the only person I ever had. She was the first person who I would run to, eith a room full of ppl, i stuck up for her against everyone, and I feel like that present I made her, was all for nothing, and it hurts so god damn much because I want her back :(
the worst thing is when it’s mutual. You just drift apart. you can’t be mad because they haven’t done anything. Occasionally you see them in the corridor but you just look at them and see a billion memories
I had a group of friends when I was younger, one of them I saw as a sister, and all them I knew I would still die for in a heartbeat. But when my dad died when we were 10, I retracted into a shell of depression, but still tried to have fun. Not even half a year after my dad died, my friends all ditched me, it wasn't sudden and there was no discussion, they just stopped including me, no matter how hard I tried to get them to like me again, they just ignored me. And my soul sister turned her back on me, in exchange for someone else, for someone who wasn't broken. I've never been the same person since, and yet I still know that I would go to the ends of the earth for any of those girls.
To anyone reading this who's hurting from losing their best friend keep your head up, I know that pain, it hurts so damn much , it'll make you numb, but I promise no matter how hard it is you'll get through it with or without them, life keeps moving, all you need is yourself.
I lost my real life best friend now I just have best friends who live 13+ an 15+ hours away from me😕💔now look me an my real life best friend are now restarting are friendship
@Zoey Miller I hope it does get better because mine an there friendship was off an on
Your words are so beautiful, you’re so right! I wrote a “text” here at the comments about losing friends 2 hope it helps someone like your text helped me
I've been numb since I was 15.
Ye I know how it feels to lose your best friend, twice actually, I lost my first one when I was 7 and moved to another country and then two years ago I lost my second one when she moved away 😢
Loosing a friend hurts more than breaking up with someone.
Yes trust me it hurts more than a break up and I should know you see I am no longer friends with some people that I knew for 3 YEARS!!!😭😭😭😭😭😭
Melody G oh my god same here!!
Wow I am so sorry for you and thanks so much for the likes guys
Melody G I was best friend wth someone that was at the HOSPITAL when I was born... she’s a year older and I havnt seen her in 3 years 💔💔💔💔
Oh my gosh I am so sorry for you and sorry I am replying so late
When someone says “Didnt you guys used to be best friends” It hurts.
This just happened to me on Thursday. Someone asked me weren’t you guys friends and I was going to cry then and there.
My ex best friend and I split apart after being best friends for 6+ years
I was the one that cut her out due to the fact that she was really toxic/ controlling and manipulative
She hurt me several times emotionally and mentally so I just cut her out permanently
@Rease Mcgill It was really hard for me to do but I'm doing just fine without her
I know. It actually hurts so much sometimes.
Every fucking day. We were the closest out of the entire year everyone knew us as best friends and she goes and decides to fuck it all up. She may not be hurting but I’ll never forget
And overnight we became strangers
...and that’s what destroyed me
same
@@AB-bi1cz same :'( hopefully everyone who has gone through this will find real best friends soon
...and that's what broke me :')
i made it 999
this hurts. this genuinely hurts so bad. friends hurt.
yeah and having none even more
My bestfriend
I miss everything me and you had . I miss all of our memories when we did nothing but laugh together . I miss when i didnt need anyone else in the world just you . And i know you are gone to get back bc i know it will not be the same anymore .you were my bestfriend and the only person i only needed in life . And now i means nothing to you .i Get so jealous bc of your best friend bc i want you to be with me not with her bc i love you . Now you are just someone cant even remember all the promises we made to each other . Its hurt knowing you arent the same with me . Am sorry for every thing bad i did to you . My tears falling and i cant write anymore ...but hope you will be happy with your new friends like me and you did
This is the messege i sent to my ex bf ..she blocked me ..thank you
“just get over it, Blair” wtf. i hate serena lmao
Ik Blair is a Queen, Serena’s a total bitch
omg, blair is an icon. serena is just stupid
in my opinon i think their both great, they both have their good and bad moments! dont compare two different people.
@@gossipgirlfanedits4058 true (:
What happened in that scene again?
I'm a simple person.....
I see pretty little liars
I click
You're also a balding person. Damn that receding hairline makes you look like an egg 🥚🤡
@@ughicanteven5896 lmao why u so pressed?
Manic Queen why u so mean
Manic Queen stfu they’re beautiful
@@arrebazaman2294 I'm not pressed. Wtf about my comment made it seem like that?
I don't understand how can some people let you down when you've always been there for them.
It's always the people you're there for that aren't there for you are the ones that don't tend to care if they hurt you
i know you commented this 6 months ago but this is exactly what my bestfriend did to me, she was toxic and treated me horribly but i was always there for her even though shes never been there for me. i went through some shit this year and the one time i tried to lean on her for support she cut me off because "i was exhausting her" and she had "other more important" stuff to deal with. we were friends for 13 years :/
@@peepeejenkins21 I'm so sorry that happened and ik it hurts but all u need is yourself. U recognize the fact that she is toxic so it's gonna hurt letting her go but it's for the best. You'll get through this you're strong enough.
The worst feeling is when your best friend becomes a stranger.
True
The problem is that losing you‘re best friend is more painfull than losing a crush... You‘ll find someone else to love but finding someone to call a truly friend is way harder.
The saddest part about this is the fact that everyone was thinking of that one person...
Damn...
Ah...
That hurts omg XD
I had a bestfriend. then she became popular.
:/
Same here hon xx
same :/
Same :(((
Same
Same, she meet another people and forget about me :( i was her only friend a time ago and now she dont even talk to me u.u
we’ve been friends since kindergarten, we even made future plans together. a bestfriend breakup is painful.
Loosing a good friend is not easy, especially when you don't know why you lost it in the first place😭😭😭
I know. I lost my childhood friend. She just stop talking to me. 😭
@@mariana457 I used to, have fake friends
Now me just feeling like no one loves me
One day she told me to shut up. I felt bad. So I didn’t talk anything that day. (My health was declining already , I was taking therapy:I never told her tho ). Next week she pulled up with anti stress pills ( idk if those were them ,but she told everyone that) and guess what pulled up the victim card.
Happened this week .
@@grapelily4138 God some people are really horrible 😢
the worst part about losing a best friend is know that you won’t get them back 💔
And if you do it's not the same
Ya... i lost my bestie, then i got her back.. then i lost her again... will i get her back😭😭
@@sanjanat24658 need a friend
@@juliastadick2371 they will end up hurting us again cause they don't care doing it twice that's why lts not the same anymore 💔💔💔😭😭😭😭 trust is broken. its lost. And even if we give them a second opportunity nothing will be the same as it was before :(
I just came here to have one of my mental breakdowns...🙃
"we were friends...how could you betray me like that.."
"friends what are friends?"
"we can't be friends anymore..."
damn that hit me so hard...
I hope things get better for you ❤️
Lydia Martin thank you...
@@lydiamartin269 I used to, have fake friends
Me feeling like no one loves me
@@lydiamartin269 Can you tell me what's the movie or drama at 2:09 ??
@@iftekharahmad4777 Before I fall
Anyone else hate how mean aria was to Hanna
I hate hanna lmao
omg yes i don’t understand why people like aria she’s always the victim
Hannah told aria that her mom‘s boyfriend tried to hit on her and she yelled at her for that that is not being a good friend that’s being an asshole
@@shelbyrobinson8077 because she is so cute and tiny 😊
@@lina718 wtf aria was a drama queen and brat. hannah was in the right
love it, but alison and emily weren't just friends. they actually end up getting married, lmao.
Yeah I know.😂
And later divorcing...
Really? They're endgame?
Loïc Cooper no really in my mind they are endgame
Loïc Cooper I mean, in the spin off they divorce, but if you want to believe that they're endgame, they're endgame
Tessa and Steph is betrayal on a different level
Especially if you’ve read the books and know what comes next for them..... it’s 100000% horrible! I could barely breathe while reading it.
What show is that?
Kiersten Folsom i‘ve read them too and it was too much. I just didn’t expect it
Jasmine Alfaro it’s the „After“ series. The books are written by Anna Todd and the first two books are made into movies
Wait what happened in the books I watched the first movie
"we're not kids anymore" mike and will hit different..now im crying
Loosing a friend hurts worse then a break up. Because when your with someone, no matter how much you love them, you know that most likely you'll breakup. But when you have a best friend (expecially when you grew up together) you think you'll always be best friends. You think it will last a lifetime. So when that's all you ever knew, it hurts when you loose them.
its so damn hard to see ur best friend losing interest in you, that she stops to need you and she do already have someone with how she could replace me
she already repleaced me, she keeps lying to me and i cant take it
i am crying everynight my fcking eyes out
i miss her
i love her
i dont want to lose her.
WOW! this hit me soo hard!
When someone asks,"Weren't you two best friends?".
That shit hurts
I used to have a best friend
Now when we met.... like we don't know each other
I lost a friend, and it consumed me for the whole summer. I couldn't imagine losing a Bestfriend. I would probably destroy me for a whole year to move on.
I used to have bestfriend too, but I often saw her walk with popular girls and everytime she saw me, she would hide her face like... What the hell- she think I didn't see her or what?
i feel u
Realising you’re best friends is changing so much and that ure going diffrent paths hurts so much
losing a friend is pain, pure pain. its as real as it gets. pouring your heart and soul into a person that you thought would be there for you. and now theyre gone. it makes you question yourself, makes you question whether you were a burden to the only person who made you feel like you werent.
Losing a best friend is worse than a breakup. I knew her for four years and we don’t even talk anymore she was the only person that made me feel like I belonged and shes gone. Shes completely out of my life and now I’m all alone having friends but no one to talk to
She’s now a stranger but if she ever needed me, I’d be there in a heartbeat
Friends are your best feeling and worst pain at the same time
Losing your best friend hurts more than anything. It shatters you.🥺
I had soo many toxic friends that talked behind my back. But i was happy with them.
Now i have good friends that care about me and never talk behind my back. But i don't feel any thing, i'm numb
People say it's going to be better but she was my world. She was my everything. AND IT HURTS.
It's been over a year and a half since I lost my best friend but it still hurts like hell. She was toxic, but I loved her, I helped her, I laughed with her,I was with her everyday. But then she got up and left; blamed everything on me. It makes me cry every night even though I'm "the happy friend" but I'm broken inside. I'm empty, numb. hiding the pain I'm in,behind my jokes and smiles.
It hurts that badly when I cry I have to cover my mouth to make sure no one hears. I just want to scream but I cant.
I understand everyone's pain as I'm going through it too 😔
As time went by, she found new people. It's not like we argued or anything, it's just we grew apart.
Honestly, good or worst situation, I miss her, but we don't really talk anymore. It's hard when once you shared every tiny detail and now she pretends like she didn't see you!
I’ve said those words. “I guess we aren’t friends anymore. “ I wanted to take them back not long after I said them. 10 years later I still want to take them back. She deserves all the happiness in the world. I hope she’s found that in a friendship; I just wasn’t able to give her.
I've lost my best friend one week ago...She was my sister...She found another person and now she doesn't even know I exist...I sacrificed everything to know that she is safe..but now..I wasted so much time on her... I missed the funniest, saddest moments together
I completely understand what you are going through, I recently had to leave a toxic friendship and it took me so long just to feel okaay and give myself a new beginning so I completely understand what you are going through. But something that really helped me is a blog article I read a while back. I am linking it for you, hope you feel better
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lots of love
This is why I only hangout with myself bc I like my company
Me too
"we were bestfriends" I swear I felt that sting to my heart
best friends give us the best memories and the worst pain
The worst Felling is when your best friend replaces you...😖💔
I can understand that feeling because i had to go through that.
It hurts even more when you lose someone that is not only your best friend but also your dazzling crush that will never extinguish
After five years or so, i can honestly say: it gets better. You will meet more honest, true and loyal people than you ever imagined. The ones that inspire you and the best feeling? When you inspire them. You'll never take friendship for granted. Sure it hurts. And boy, those abandonment issues. But its also a lesson.
You'll also understand toxic people a lot more and how to avoid them. You are loved, you are valued and you deserve everything in the World.🌱
It honestly does
Oooh thank you for the heart and the reply 😍 the comments were so sad, i had to say something
- dreamsaboutlondon - it honestly sucks when you get back stabbed by your best friend but then time goes on and then you find people that values you and your friendship and it’s honestly the best feeling
It's been over a year and a half but it still hurts like hell. She was toxic, but I loved her, I helped her, I laughed with her. But then she got up and left; blamed everything thing on me. It makes me cry every night even though I'm "the happy friend" but I'm broken inside. I'm empty, numb. hiding the pain I'm ,behind my jokes and smiles
@@jxx5564 you will get through this, believe me! The first year i mourned as well. It was hard, not telling them things and knowing, that they didnt miss me at all. But time takes the emotion out of it, i promise. Now when i see them its like a ghost. I cant recognize one thing about them. They are unfamiliar to me and i know i healed. You will too! Start in the New year knowing that you are enough! If she didnt love you how you are, she didnt deserve you. Do all the things you know she'll hate (except illegal things haha), make new friends even though it will be difficult in the beginning. Trust. Trust that this too shall pass. Sending you hugs😊🤗
The only thing that hurts more than losing a best friend is having a best friend that has other best friends you being the best friend as a last choice
I'm everyone's best friend. But I never felt like I had one.
In my experience losing a friend is the worst feeling ever and the pain of that loss never stops until you make it stop one way or another in my case I just turned it all off better to feel nothing than feeling the pain because everybody gets betrayed in the end.
She will always be one of my closet friends who I felt loved me for me and genuinely cared. She was my pb to my jam. We clicked on another level even if we don't talk everyday there's so much love I send over to her💕
My friend and i were also pbj i was jelly though
One of my bestest friends shut me out just over 4 years ago and the other day she got back in touch ... so I know how the pain feels of being shut out but tomorrow I get a decent explanation!
I think the reason losing a friendship hurts more than a partner is that there is always something in you that worries whether a relationship will last through everything while a friendship you hope always will last and will be there to help you pick up the pieces instead of being the reason you're in pieces.
It hurts very much...I lose my best friend about 1 year ago and when I'm looking photos on my phone or thinking about our memories I'm still crying I'm not found a new one because no-one can replace her every person we met is different is just not the same you will never replace this
Not having ur best friend for longer than a few hours hurts ten times more than a break up
3 years ago I had a best friend. Everything was fine, we went trough so many things, but still were always there for each other. One year ago something real bad happend with her father. I was always there for her. After a time she started to act really strange and become very toxic. She started to drink alcohol and smoking. She was so jealous when I hung out with others. She told me to stop being friends with others. I actually stopped talking to them. I cried almost every day and cut myself. But then I met a girl, who is now my best friend. She changed my life. She made me tell my 'best friend' to end our friendship. I am really thankfull this girl came in my life. I am happy again, even though my ex best friend always coming to me and tries to talk with me.
My friends betrayed me, but I still miss them more than anything. I can’t be in the same room with them without having a panic attack...I never had panic attacks in my life.
Sometimes, I would try to be silent when you are around me cause you made me laugh .
Now the reason has changed
Losing a friend is like losing the one person on earth who truly understands you 😔
I don’t want friends, I really don’t. Yet in my heart I feel I need them
Lost my bestfriend of 2 years and i didn’t feel anything because I’m already broken...
Sameee
I always told my friends that friendships are like mirrors and shadows mirrors never lie and shadows never leave
Its been years since I talked with my childhood best friend. I should've known she would've hurted me since she chose my bullies when she became friends with them and never stood up for me. I forgave her despite how much it pained me. I stop calling and writing to her to see if she cared. And its been years and nothing...😔
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This explains my feelings better then I could ever could. Losing friends hurt but it hurts even more when they move on to your sister. The person who once told me to shut up about my friend.
I moved to a new school in 6th grade and I had this friend who was my first friend at that school and she hung out with the popular girls for one day and ignored me for the rest of the year and it's been a year she hasn't talked to me since. Im invisible to her. It's really hard, but don't let those fake people get you down. You deserve loyal friends who are good to you.
I had a best friend once. She left town. Got new friends and only talks to me when she is bored. Now when we see each other it’s AWKWARD. And our parents still think we are besties, and we don’t have the nerve to tell them because they think we are friends. Now we’re nothing anda I’m here, watching sad edits about losing friends. Love this life I’m living (:)
I just lost my best friend after fighting to keep our friendship alive over long distance. It hurts so god damn much she was my first real friend cause we moved so often I knew losing a friend would hurt but I couldn't stop becoming her best friend I had my first sleepover with her and my first birthday party with anybody other than family at 11. I am utterly terrified of making friends because I know we will move again and it's is going to hurt all over again but now I'm just lonely beyond compared.
I am watching this rn ..while crying cause these are so freaking familiar to me and I fought with my best friend today and i am a freak that think about the friendship more than anything..I even put friends before family ..I always fight with my family too..as the oldest I sucks...and the argument with my best friend...I don't know what to do...
thanks for putting anne with an e in there
I had a bestfriend for 5 years and we just started growing apart and drifting, 1 year after we haven’t kept in touch I was moving states and told her and all she said was “oh” like you were part of my childhood and I’m leaving how could u not care anymore :(
I think I lost my best friend long time ago, and I never noticed how much she meant to me
losing a friend hearts more than loosing a bf/gf cause losing a bf/gf u get over that it's normal u know that won't last forever !osin a friend u rlly rlly hope last forever and u start believe it will and then it doesn't that is pain💔
There’s someone who I want to send this to because i have no idea what I’ve done to deserve being ghosted.... but I know she won’t watch it, she won’t even look at the message
I’m sorry
ً Even if you have stuff going on you should at least let someone know that you don’t want to be friends or that you aren’t going to be around very much. It’s better than them wondering what they did wrong and it’ll bring both of y’all some peace in the end. But I do hope that whatever you’re going through gets better.
Same
Same
Even if you don’t think they’ll watch it, I’d say still send it. You never know
I think I feel safe knowing that no one knows who is behind the screen. When I was eleven years old I started being friends with a group of girls because we had the same musical tastes. Something happened and I was wrong (they were offended by my attitudes) and although I apologized more than once they walked away, mocked me and bullied me (they never beat me, but they insulted me and spoke ill of me). It took me a long time to find people to be friends with because of what happened I find it very difficult to trust people, and now (almost four years after what happened) I'm afraid they'll get angry at me or i'll become boring for them. Sometimes (like now) I cry and I don't tell anyone because I don't want them to think I'm a queen drama and I want to get attention.
Lol 6:10 hit in a way I'm not comfortable with😂
It hurts 😭😭
@@niawrites Frrr
Nearly 3 years later and it still low key hurts
Yeah my „best friend“ is popular now and has new friends. :)
"You know when somebody tells you I know how you feel but there just saying that because they have no idea how you feel"......
Has a best friend.. but then she became close friends with others and we stopped talking.
when you lose your best friends who were everything and lost the star of your life at the same time💔🥺😭
The song is “Nuvole bianche” by Ludovico Einaudi, so proud of being italian
A true friend isn't afraid to tell you the truth even it it may hurt BC friends try to say it in a easy way possible and will support you all the way. But sometimes you have to accept that not everyone is your friend and will lie to your face, maybe yourself is the reason why. But maybe someday you will make up and become best friends or maybe you will never meet again. Friends are really important when you find the right ones make sure to treasure them♥️
I had good friends, then they made their own circle together and I was wasn’t apart of it.
I suddenly just lost my best friend, maybe i was just a normal friend to her but I trusted her. But then she changed and i hate that.
i had three best friends. i trusted them so much and i thought that i could tell them everything but then they started doing stuff together without me. then i asked why they did that. they said nothing and ended our friendship. and i still don’t know what i did.
I love how you added Tessa and Steph
This hurts so much cause in primary I had a bestie and I was so protective over her because I had no other friends and I thought I was her bestie and she really liked me until a few days ago she told me she never liked me and used me to get more friends. And now everyone is her friend and everyone hates me but I won’t give up on telling people the truth 😭
Losing best friends or really close friends hurts so bad, that pain is horrible, i think that is worst than breaking up with someone. The best friend/close friend was always that person who was there for you and that you were there for her/him/it, it was the person you told a lot of things, the person you told all the stuff that was happening with you and that you were keeping the pain inside. And when u lose this person you feel like your world is falling apart, that you’ve no one left, that no one loves you anymore, that you’re completely alone and have no one to share things, to gossip, to cry, to laugh. The worst part is when you don’t have any idea why that person pushed you away, like when at a night you guys were gossiping and having a PJ party and at the morning he/she/it don’t remember that you exist. I’ve lost a lot of people already, it hurts, and a lot! But there’s no medicine that can do this pain go away, the only 2 thing that can make it better are the time and the memories. Those are the most powerful medicines in the whole world, they’re free and really makes you feel better. When you lose someone breathe, be patient and try to remember all the good moments you’ve together and laugh about it, try to remember the much you loved, and still love, that person. Think that if he/she/it let you go, is for the best, and you need to do that too, for hers/hims/its best and happiness. I’m sure that that person will never forget about you and that he/she/it will always remember the best moments that he/she/it had with you, and you will do that too! Don’t think that losing a important person as a bad thing, think that if he/she/it is gone from the real world, or, just out of your life be sure that it was for the best! You will always find someone new, that someone will never be that person but, that someone will be another special and important person for you, that will brung more special moments and memories! And that person will find someone too, the new person will never replace you but, just as you did, he/she/it needs to keep living, and living happy, with all the memories of the best friend he/she/it ever had!
Hope this helped someone 💕
(Sorry for some spelling/grammar mistakes, English is not my first language lol)
I had a best friend since I was 4 until I have 13 . We were best friend . And one day we had a fight and we never apologies. we didn't talk for 2 years. So , a few days ago , I decide to apologise by sending her a letter , she reads it , and then she litteraly tore it up and make fun of me in front of everyone. Then she push me in the ground and let me there. Everyone was laughing. And then my actual best friend slap her in the face in front of everyone. They both take a punishment. I never thought she would react like this .
(Sorry for my bad English )
This needs more likes!
Me and my best friend since Kindergarten recently broke things off because she started hanging our with the wrong crowd and ended up ditching me so I decided to end things and now I see her happy with a bunch of friends while I got no one.
I NEED ALL OF THESE SHOWS!!!!!
Dear Best Friends ,
I tell u my goodbye ,
cause u never did
I know what is like to be alone but now I’m not alone anymore
Omg the scene from light as a Feather hit hard 😭🥺
What episode is it?
I had kids and got married. We drifted apart after that. My best friend since 2nd grade and we haven’t talked for probably 2 years now... it really breaks my heart. I miss her every day.💔💔💔💔💔
I'm so scared of making friends cuz they always stab me in the back...I'm a problem to others
Guys I know it hurts alot right,that how once we used to be best friends but now it's sad that how those best friends have become strangers.Its ok these are one of life's biggest obstacles and now we have to deal with it because there is a specific reason behind every obstacle.For all those who are getting depressed and sad.Uk it's ok, sending lots of love to all of you
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It's too hard when your bff broke heart.I really had depression.Now she and me are like strangers but when she smile my heart like stabbed because I remeber how I used to smile like that with her.It's another kind of feeling that can't be expressed with words
She is like a nightmare who dressed like a day dream in my life....But LIFE GOES ON without any apology ..Let it flow.......................lets hope things will get better one day!!!
She filled a whole in my heart in which was caused by so many ppl, she filled the hole in which made me get my spark back but she left and now I'm hurting because we made so many plans and now she hates me, I want my best friend back, because I messed up and I tried so hard to fix it but I csnt and it hurts coz shes the one person I want to talk to rn, and the only person I ever had. She was the first person who I would run to, eith a room full of ppl, i stuck up for her against everyone, and I feel like that present I made her, was all for nothing, and it hurts so god damn much because I want her back :(
“You’re the problem Hanna. You’re always the problem!” Harsh Aria, just harsh
the worst thing is when it’s mutual. You just drift apart. you can’t be mad because they haven’t done anything. Occasionally you see them in the corridor but you just look at them and see a billion memories
best friend breakups are the worst especially when ur in love with ur bsf
I had a group of friends when I was younger, one of them I saw as a sister, and all them I knew I would still die for in a heartbeat. But when my dad died when we were 10, I retracted into a shell of depression, but still tried to have fun.
Not even half a year after my dad died, my friends all ditched me, it wasn't sudden and there was no discussion, they just stopped including me, no matter how hard I tried to get them to like me again, they just ignored me.
And my soul sister turned her back on me, in exchange for someone else, for someone who wasn't broken.
I've never been the same person since, and yet I still know that I would go to the ends of the earth for any of those girls.
Everyone is broken in some way it's just that some show it more than others
This is so good
Thank you!
I really hope this one doesn't leave I really love her I don't know what Im gonna do please please don't leave