Bowing, kissing hand of elders out of respect due to culture permissible?
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"who cares if the whole world is angry when Allah is pleased?"--
When you dont realize you are doing the work of the devil by claiming the authority of god which you do no have. Remember even the prophet have no authority to say what is haram and what is halal just like in the quran 5 87, his answer should be to avoid it instead of saying its not permissible with is haram in english. He use the prophet preference as authority when the prophet have no authority to prohibit anything.
@@feliciavchongno he has never prohibited/ forbidden anything on his own accord, anything that is not clearly forbidden or prohibited in the Quran (or if there's an discord/ dispute on that certain issue, that doesn't have clarified directives in the Quran). he only recommended or rejected them and only forbidded those that are also forbidden in the Quran. it doesn't mean we have to follow him (or those recommendations/ rejections as if it's Farz); it's "recommended" not commanded or compulsory. The bowing thing has been forbidden in the Quran because Allah ordered us to only believe and worship only one existence or entity, and that's Him and Him only. We should only bow to Him and no one else. Our prophet is an ideal for all Muslims and that's why we follow him. You can either follow him or not follow him but you'll definitely get credits for following. That's it. It'll be better to have a respectful discussion about this matter instead of making bold statements like "doing the work of the devil" and clearly provoking people. Muslims love both Allah and The beloved Prophet (pbuh) dearly and will not hesitate to retaliate on anything that's disrespectful or propagandist. Let's avoid that, please. Thank you.
@@feliciavchong What a twisted way of thinking. Allah explicitly tells us to follow the Messenger Sallahu alaihi wasallam.
"How dare you do something that angers Allah", just imagine if two billions would think like that.
Unfortunately those 2 billion would rather think "What will people and society think?".
@@SeaShellsSeaShells89
👏👏🏻👏🏼👏🏽👏🏾👏🏿
Yes, we would rather not anger Allah than the LGBTQRSTUVWXYZ masters.
Oh sorry, I thought this comment was sarcastic.
@@francescocosentini9264 AllahAll is a jealous G
Allah is a jealous God.
The thing that makes me really like your preaching and those who share your understanding, is because you have the courage to say No! to something that is not permitted in Islam. Unlike some cowards in my country who preach according to the people's desires, even though it is prohibited in Islam.
Exactly!! 💯
Assim is a mutashaddid, he has extreme wahabist and salafist views. I'd recommend following scholars like Zakir Naik, Yaser Qadhi, Alyautdinov and others
So true
@@MuzaffarKazakh Do not think ˹O Muhammad˺ that Allah is unaware of what the wrongdoers do. He only delays them until a Day when ˹their˺ eyes will stare in horror-
rushing forth, heads raised, never blinking, hearts void. 14: 42-43
@@MuzaffarKazakh so, you don't wanna accept if he says no when Allah says no? just because you think he's an extremist?
God bless you brother for telling the truth and standing for justice
As an Indonesian, I had always questioned this act. Thank you sheikh for this topic it has cleared the debate of bowing down should be only for Allah.
Hadeh... 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
1 hadist diterjemahkan langsung percaya...
Coba belajar ushul hadist dan ilmu lain2,
Kalau membungkuk dianggap menyembah, lalu bagaimana sejarah Allah SWT memerintahkan setan dan malaikat sujud ke Nabi Adam AS.
@@bayuww1417 Ibn al-‘Arabi said: The ummah is unanimously agreed that the angels’ prostration to Adam was not a prostration of worship.
End quote from Ahkaam al-Qur’an (1/27)
Ibn Hazm az-Zaahiri said: There is no difference of opinion among any of the Muslims that their prostration to Allah, may He be exalted, was a prostration of worship, and their prostration to Adam was a prostration of greeting and respect.
End quote from al-Fasl fi’l-Milal wa’l-Ahwa’ wa’n-Nihal (2/129).
It was an act of worship towards Allaah on their part, because they were obeying His command to prostrate to Adam.
The command that Allah gave to us is not the same as the command that Allah gave to the angel. I think that is very much obvious. So its not comparable.
@@thomassussek2117 this is my 3th comment, then my 2nd comment true.
The "intention" of bowing made different...
That is why there is no Ulama justify handshake the bow to the elder haram, except for wahabi.
@@bayuww1417 this guys always said "this is too extreme, it must be wahabi" Instead of looking for the evidence for your own claim which is very weak.
@@bayuww1417 Anas (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: A man asked: “O Messenger of Allah! When a man meets a brother or a friend, should he bow to him?” He said, “No.” The man asked whether he should embrace and kiss him? The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) replied, “No.” He asked whether he should hold his hand and shake it? The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) replied, “Yes.”
[At-Tirmidhi].
Jazakallahu kheiran Sheikh for answering my question. It was very important for me.
May Allah make it easy for you to make da'wah to your wife and open her heart to follow the Qur'an and Sunnah.
If you listen carefully he does not say it is sinful to kiss the hand, as the prophet SAW had a few people kiss his hand as mentioned in the video. he said it is sinful to bow. This sheikh does not give a straight answer regarding the kissing of the hand because it was done to the prophet SAW and he did not condemn it. Allah says "When you are greeted with a salutation then return it with a better one, or at least the same. Surely Allah takes good count of everything" 4:86
@@ghaaliedgamieldien4993 I agree with you akhi. There are references even to kissing the feet of one's mom in hadiths, though I cannot vouch its authencity. We ought to think and not lump every situation by a single rule. There are nuances to be taken into account and therefore we must assess using our intellect. Also perhaps its better to have a tendency towards respecting towards elders or loved ones rather than by being indifferent without being extreme of course. Its all about balance. Balancing like on a tightrope is the most difficult part. Wallahualam.
Thank u for this question. I as an Asian really need this answer for our reference. May Allah guide us all for any. Thanks again!😊
@@FaridJaafar you are correct, many matters are nuance and to simply say things are black and white is incorrect. This is why we have different schools of thought that managed to come to professional consensus on such issues and many more. Instead of laymen such as ourselves just extracting verses of the Quran and quoting Hadith not understanding the real meaning and context.
I love you sheikh assim for your efforts. May Allah SWT protect you and bless you and let us get more knowledgeable through you ameen
لَمَّا قَدِمْنَا الْمَدِينَةَ فَجَعَلْنَا نَتَبَادَرُ مِنْ رَوَاحِلِنَا فَ نُقَبِّلُ يَدَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَرِجْلَهُ
“Saat kami sampai di Madinah, kami berlomba untuk menjadi yang pertama turun dan mencium tangan dan kaki Rasulullah (ﷺ).”
Sunan Abu Daud (5225)
Dari Usamah bin Syuraik beliau berkata:
قمنا إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقبَّلنا يده
“Kami kemudian mendekati Nabi (ﷺ) dan mencium tangannya.”
قَالَ ثَابِتٌ لأَنَسٍ: أَمَسَسْتَ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم بِيَدِكَ؟ قَالَ: نَعَمْ، فَقَبَّلَهَا
Anas ditanya, “Apakah kamu menyentuh Nabi Muhammad SAW dengan tanganmu?” Dia menjawab, "Ya," lalu mereka menciumnya.
Sahih al-Bukhari dalam al-Adab al-Mufrad (974)
Imam al-Baihaqi berkata:
لَمَّا قَدِمَ عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ الشَّامَ اسْتَقْبَلَهُ أَبُو عُبَ يْدَةَ بْنُ الْجَرَّاحِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ فَقَبَّلَ يَدَهُ ثُمَّ خَلَوْا يَبْكِيَانِ قَالَ: فَكَانَ يَقُولُ تَمِيمٌ: " تَقْبِيلُ الْيَدِ سُنَّةٌ
Ketika Umar RA tiba di Syam, Abu Ubaidah al-Jarrah menyambutnya dan mencium tangannya, kemudian mereka berjalan pergi sambil keduanya menangis. Tamim berkata: “Mencium tangan itu sunnah. ”
Al-Sunan al-Kubra (13585)
I have never in my entire life bowed to anyone. One day my Grandma (My mother's mom) came to our house. Everyone is so happy to meet her after long time. She went to do Haj and finally came back. My mom told me "Riz, go and bow to your grandma and say hello". I Don't know why i said that but i felt angry and said " I bow before no one but God". Then left to play with my friends. That was hilarious 😅😅
What your mom meant with bow isnt worshipping your grandma. Its like an act of respecting her. Just listen to your mom. Dont be like satan refuse to obey Allah by not bowing to prophet adam. Your mînd is too narrow too even think about that. Dont got influence by wahabi.
Imam al-Baihaqi said:
لَمَّا قَدِمَ عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ الشَّامَ اسْتَقْبَلَهُ أَبُو عُبَيْدَةَ بْنُ الْجَرَّاحِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ فَقَبَّلَ يَدَهُ ثُمَّ خَلَوْا يَبْكِيَانِ قَالَ: فَكَانَ يَقُولُ تَمِيمٌ: " تَقْبِيلُ الْيَدِ سُنَّةٌ
“When ‘Umar RA arrive in Syria, Abu Ubaidah al-Jarrah welcome him and kisses his hands, then they walk away while both of them are crying. Tamim said: “Kissing hands is a sunnah.”
Al-Sunan al-Kubra (13585)
Now go to your grandma, kiss her hand. Listen to your mom. Dont listen to wahabi.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: "there's no obedience to any creature if there's disobedience to the creator" and this hadith is authentic. So if your mom would tell you to do something haram then you shouldn't obey her, same thing if anyone told you to do something haram
And it's not obligated to kiss anyone you don't want to kiss
@@maryamsalah8709Bowing to your grandmother is not disobedience to god. Why would anyone think such a thing?
@@maryamsalah8709 bruh kissin hands as an act of respect isnt disobeying Allah. Dont got influence by wahabi.
From Zari’, he said:
“When we came to Medina, we raced to be first to dismount and kiss the hand and foot of the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ).”
Sunan Abu Daud (5225)
So now you want to accuse sahaba as disobeying Allah? You try to say sahaba doing haram? If you mom tell you to kis your grandma’s hand, she is teaching you to respect someone, not that she teach you to worship someone as idol. 🤦🏻
Hi sheikh again you taught me a lot
In Indonesia the intention to bow is just to greet and show respect, nothing more than that. There's nothing wrong at all with such thing. Abu Al-Ma`ali
in Al Adab Al Kubra, "Bowing as a form of mutual respect is permitted."
I always kiss my mother's hand (now 82 y.o) every day since I was a child, of course with a bow, as do my children towards me and their mom. Why should Allah be angry with such good behavior? I have more confidence in our ulama who understand our good habits.
Our society is used to being polite like that, and our ulama never questioned it, except one or two students who were too rigid in understanding the text, maybe they had just returned from Arabia. But we are the ones who know better the meaning behind our habits, so we are also the ones who know better which Ulama to follow.
Indeed. Given the cultural context and how its good intention, not to mention its harmless nature, I don't think this is strictly forbidden. We will always bow down and kiss the hands of our elders. It's part of our culture.
@@septacular7sujud tidak tapi hormat respect cium tangan boleh dan dianjurkan
لَمَّا قَدِمْنَا الْمَدِينَةَ فَجَعَلْنَا نَتَبَادَرُ مِنْ رَوَاحِلِنَا فَ نُقَبِّلُ يَدَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَرِجْلَهُ
“Saat kami sampai di Madinah, kami berlomba untuk menjadi yang pertama turun dan mencium tangan dan kaki Rasulullah (ﷺ).”
Sunan Abu Daud (5225)
Dari Usamah bin Syuraik beliau berkata:
قمنا إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقبَّلنا يده
“Kami kemudian mendekati Nabi (ﷺ) dan mencium tangannya.”
قَالَ ثَابِتٌ لأَنَسٍ: أَمَسَسْتَ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم بِيَدِكَ؟ قَالَ: نَعَمْ، فَقَبَّلَهَا
Anas ditanya, “Apakah kamu menyentuh Nabi Muhammad SAW dengan tanganmu?” Dia menjawab, "Ya," lalu mereka menciumnya.
Sahih al-Bukhari dalam al-Adab al-Mufrad (974)
Imam al-Baihaqi berkata:
لَمَّا قَدِمَ عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ الشَّامَ اسْتَقْبَلَهُ أَبُو عُبَ يْدَةَ بْنُ الْجَرَّاحِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ فَقَبَّلَ يَدَهُ ثُمَّ خَلَوْا يَبْكِيَانِ قَالَ: فَكَانَ يَقُولُ تَمِيمٌ: " تَقْبِيلُ الْيَدِ سُنَّةٌ
Ketika Umar RA tiba di Syam, Abu Ubaidah al-Jarrah menyambutnya dan mencium tangannya, kemudian mereka berjalan pergi sambil keduanya menangis. Tamim berkata: “Mencium tangan itu sunnah. ”
Al-Sunan al-Kubra (13585)
bro, mungkin yg jadi masalah adalah ketika ada saat si istri ketemu org yg lebih tua yang ia hormati tapi bukan muhrim disana. saya rasa kalau itu yang terjadi, ada benarnya itu untuk tidak dianjurkan. dlu zaman saya SMA tinggal di asrama, kami diajarkan bahwa kami adalah keluarga, ada bbrp momen ketika para murid (180 org, 60 dari tiap angkatan), setiap murid akan saling bersalaman secara melingkar, bagi yg junior, maka akan melakukan salam cium tgn. hati kecil saya disini benar2 menolak, walaupun secara hati saya telah menganggap mereka sebagai saudara, kakak, abang maupun adik, tetap saja mereka bukan muhrim yang boleh saya sentuh kulitnya tanpa ikatan pernikahan.
Emang harus diperjelas sih kalo tanya sama org yg beda kebudayaan. Tp yg emang salaman itu ttp harus sesuai aturan; kan salim spt itu utk anak ke org tua, anak yg blm baligh ke org yg lbh tua.
Mungkin maksudnya cium tangan itu tdk diperbolehkan kalo bukan muhrimnya begitu, itu masih bisa diterima
there are fatwa of scholars from all around the world. bowing as a sign of respect or kissing the hand of the elders etc is not a crime in islam. some extremist scholars have this view and the more moderate scholars have absolutely zero issue with it
Moderate scholars are those cowards who have no courage to tell the truth but to allow people what pleases them, and that is easy to do.
Name one
Here Shaikh
There are narrations that state the companion R.Anhum kissed the hand of Rasullullah PBUH. Among them is from Usamah bin Syarik, who said:
قمنا إلى النبيِّ صلّى اللهُ عليْهِ وسلَّمَ فقبَّلنا يدَه
“We then came near the Prophet (ﷺ) and kissed his hand.” [10]
Likewise, in a narration from Zari’ bin ‘Amir, he said:
لَمَّا قَدِمْنَا الْمَدِينَةَ فَجَعَلْنَا نَتَبَادَرُ مِنْ رَوَاحِلِنَا فَنُقَبِّلُ يَدَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَرِجْلَهُ
“When we came to Medina, we raced to be first to dismount and kiss the hand and foot of the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ).” [11]
Furthermore, there is a narration from Ibn Umar, he said:
قَبَّلْنَا يَدَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ
“We kissed the hand of the Prophet(ﷺ).” [12]
Moreover, there is also a narration which states that the companions R.Anhum kissed each other’s hands. Among them is from Tamim bin Salamah, he said:
لـمَّا قَدِمَ عُمَرُ رضي الله عنه الشّامَ استَقبَلَه أبو عُبَيدَةَ بنُ الجَرّاحِ رضي الله عنه فقَبَّلَ يَدَه ثُمَّ خَلَوَا يَبكيانِ
“When Umar RA arrives in Syria, Abu ‘Ubaidah al-Jarrah RA greet him and kissed his hands. Then, both of them walked away together crying.” [13]
Furthermore, it is narrated that Thabit RA once kissed the hands of Anas bin Malik [14] and Ali RA also kissed the hands or feet of al-‘Abbas RA.[15]
Abu Dawood
Ibn Maaja
Thanks 😊 bro
Exact source with number
In Malaysia. Usually the kids are the one will kiss the hand of the elderly as they are small. No bowing whatsoever. As they grow older, usually when puberty hits, hugs or shaking with both hands become the norm. This is to teach the respect towards elderly. Thing is. Most of the practice nowadays are muddled because people doesn’t really understand it anymore and simply do it without knowing.
I’m a Malaysian too and I agree with you
True! We also bow because we have grown taller and have to now to place their hands on our foreheads. I believe that the bowing is not worship but respect and as long as the intention is to respect and not to worship there is no shirk in that. We can be good Muslims without necessarily being Arabs as it can be seen that a lot of the Islam that is being preached has so much of Arab culture. And ALLAH AWJ knows best 🙏❤️✨
@@mariaclaudettecaluban5286 we don’t bow. The right etiquette for a malay youngster is to sit lower than the elder. We sit on the floor while elder sitting on the chair. So kissing hand doesn’t make us bowing to others. Plus we don’t kiss any random people hand.
@@BoneKrakkaI'm a Malaysian too. We have never ever taught too sit lower than elders to show respect. We take their hands and kiss it as a sign of respecting elders (mahram). And sits with the same height with them.
If it's strangers and same sex, we just shake hands and smile. Never bow or kiss hands of strangers even towards Ustaz.
@@SirDaus u never thought to sit lower that the elderly? Probably the GenZ then. Sit lower. To not eat with loudly. Only eat after the elder family member start eat. Only take a food in front of you and offer what in-front of you to others on the table. Ask permission to touch head. To say akad during payment. To put a hand in front of you when walking cross others. Many more
Sometimes I kiss the hands of my mother and father, out of my love for them. I have never done that to anyone else. Absolutely nothing wrong with that whatsoever.
But what does Islam say about that?
@@yellowbeez93 I’ll tell you what Allah says 4:86 “When you are greeted with a salutation then return it with a better one, or at least the same. Surely Allah takes good count of everything.”
Islam doesn’t say anything against it. The sheikh literally mentioned that people kissed the Prophet SAW hands and the prophet said nothing about it or stopped them. The sheikh mentioned that the Prophet did not want people to stand up when he entered the room, but that has nothing to do with those who kissed his hand and it’s impermissibility, as it is clearly not impermissible.
the prohibited thing is to bow. it's ok to kiss their hands
@@yellowbeez93I kiss only for old parents.
"We have enjoined upon man kindness to his parents. His mother bore him in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning took place within two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents. To Me is the final destination."
Qur'an 31:14
"Thy Lord hath decreed that ye worship none but Him, and that ye be kind to parents. Whether one or both of them attain old age in thy life, say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honour."
"and submit yourself before them in humility out of compassion, and say, “My Lord, be merciful to them as they have brought me up in my childhood.”
Qur'an 17:23
You’re correct. There’s nothing wrong with it if you don’t worship that person. I suggest you unfollow this ‘Sheikh’ and the likes of him
Thank you Sheikh. This is clear. Now lets talk about manners as well. WHile we are talking about folks who doing think because they respected the elderly, we also need to discuss how the young people that show zero respect to the elderly as well.
In what way? Salam is sufficient for all.
@@forwatching_video You are right but in my experience, only about 30% will convey salaam because they know I know their parents.
@@STEPIQUE
Manners are taught at home by the parents or guardians. If parents teach their kids right this wouldn’t be a question/problem.
We should also examine whether the elderly performed something disrespectful. Did the elder set good example themselves? Children see, children do.
@@bemindfulmuslimah why do you care what did the elders do? As long as they are Muslim, you give your salam and try your level best to respect them (like hearing them/treat them as guest). You are doing/maintaining this kinship (elder relatives) for the sake of Allah Azzawajal.
"Allahumma salli wa salim ala nabiyyina Muhammad "
O Allah, send prayers nd peace upon our Prophet Muhammad
Asim is losing control on his opinions.
The question was kissing the hand of an elder out of respect. This is a very old tradition and yes RasulAllah allowed it.
Getting up for someone important is NOT the same as kissing the hand of an elder.
You are giving wrong and damaging advice, please weigh your words before uttering them.
Kissing hands of an elder is a Turkish practice for over a thousand years
Everything RasulAllah did is Sunnah. He did it for others to learn and follow.
It is not HARAM to kiss an elders hand out of respect. It does not mean you are bowing. How do you kiss someone's hand without lowering your head?!!
HE MEANS DON'T BOW TO PEOPLE OR KISS THEIR HANDS WHEN YOU GREET THEM. What is wrong with you people?? He never said don't kiss and hug your parents period. The sheikh doesn't need to learn from the likes of you how to give advice, he is knowledgeable. Stop spreading this fitnah everywhere, whenever a knowledgeable sheikh advices people, someone like you shows up and tries to misguide people. Astaghfirullah.
@@SeaShellsSeaShells89 apparently you lack so much knowledge that you don't even know there is no priesthood in Islam.
Secondly, Asim himself admits that he is NOT a Sheikh. Instead a student of Islam.
Where did the hugging parents come from?!!
Use common sense please. If RasulAllah allowed it for one to show respect then it is allowed, period!
RasulAllah never acted as a king that only he could have someone kiss his hand and no one else can because he was the prophet.
@@paradigm007 Yeah bro I agree it will not invalidate our aqeedah, placing forehead or kiss the hand is just a way of respect. If any bro can show some sahih hadeeth about not allowing this gesture please share here!
At the end of the day it comes down to your intention (niat), yes it is common here in my malay community to kiss hands and forehead of their parents and elders and hug a little as a sign of love and respect..and by doing so most of the time people would have to crouch a little which is not actually an act of bowing in a sense of worshipping but to be able to do just that kissing hands and foreheads
As long as they are doing this with mehrams then I guess it's OK.
There is a hadees which states clearly that a sahabi was stopped by the prophet SAWW when he bowed and prostrated to the Prophet SAWW out of respect, he did not have any intention to worship him, he only did it out of respect a practics that he had seen as an act of respect done for the king in some another region, but still he was stopped by the Prophet SAWW to ever do it again.
@@vs-qf6loThere is no prostration involved here
In Malaysia we were born to be polite, courteous and have manner. In our culture when walking past elder we even bow with one hand pointing out direction we walk and other hand keep on the side to shows them respect. We kiss hands when meeting and leaving someone elder of the same gender. Talks slow volume and politely, eat and sit politely. Food and human head is sacred. Welcome guest with food, places to sleep and open heart. That is what the cultures has been passed since forever. We are soft in the heart but strong in the head. This is why SoutEastAsia does not really like Arab. They are the opposite from what we value in terms of cultures. We are soft people the Arab are rough. 😉
So true, sir. Salam dari Singapura.
he is wahabi
Bener bro
This is the core of the problem.
Ikut islam atau nenek moyang
@@umarpaillaleo6828 wahabi - tanduk setan
I agree with u, Sheikh. Sunnah above all things.
I am from Indonesia and i can tell that this culture is what makes shout Asian Muslims differ than other regions (of course it's happening all over the Muslim word too). We do that culture as inherited by our parents and teachers. We don't bow like we bow in shalah. The main point is actually KISSING other's hand. We can't and it's not appropriate to kiss other hand while our body is firm not bowing and pull up other's hand to our nose. That's why we bow a bit like 10° position. In shalah we bow like 90°. The question is there any hadits that prevent us to kiss other's hand. If the prophet didn't do it, or shahabah didn't do it, it can't justify us to say it's haram. It's just a culture not ritual.
Religion has to be put ahead of any culture. In the afterlife, it's the religion that will safe you, not your culture
@@dfruitziga2543agree if it's something related with Ibadah/worship religion above culture any time, but this is not any form of worship nor its intended as such. It' more of greetings actually, and to older people to greet and say goodbye to them with respect.
@@PanduBiasramadhan if what this Shaikh has explained does not maks you rethink and immend your actions you are also a follower of your whims and desires, from those who used to say to the Prophets we will follow what our elders did not what you have brought.
@@dfruitziga2543 Yes we put Islam as measurement to our culture. Do you think KISSING an elder or respectful person is contrary to Islam? Or prohibited in Islam? I don't think so.
Gimana kalo kamu ke barat dan budaya barat ada cium pipi, apa kamu akan ikut cium pipi untuk menghargai budaya mereka?
SubhanaAllah Ya Shiekh. I like the example you used in this context. Jazak Allahu Khairran.
لَمَّا قَدِمْنَا الْمَدِينَةَ فَجَعَلْنَا نَتَبَادَرُ مِنْ رَوَاحِلِنَا فَ نُقَبِّلُ يَدَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَرِجْلَهُ
“Saat kami sampai di Madinah, kami berlomba untuk menjadi yang pertama turun dan mencium tangan dan kaki Rasulullah (ﷺ).”
Sunan Abu Daud (5225)
Dari Usamah bin Syuraik beliau berkata:
قمنا إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقبَّلنا يده
“Kami kemudian mendekati Nabi (ﷺ) dan mencium tangannya.”
قَالَ ثَابِتٌ لأَنَسٍ: أَمَسَسْتَ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم بِيَدِكَ؟ قَالَ: نَعَمْ، فَقَبَّلَهَا
Anas ditanya, “Apakah kamu menyentuh Nabi Muhammad SAW dengan tanganmu?” Dia menjawab, "Ya," lalu mereka menciumnya.
Sahih al-Bukhari dalam al-Adab al-Mufrad (974)
Imam al-Baihaqi berkata:
لَمَّا قَدِمَ عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ الشَّامَ اسْتَقْبَلَهُ أَبُو عُبَ يْدَةَ بْنُ الْجَرَّاحِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ فَقَبَّلَ يَدَهُ ثُمَّ خَلَوْا يَبْكِيَانِ قَالَ: فَكَانَ يَقُولُ تَمِيمٌ: " تَقْبِيلُ الْيَدِ سُنَّةٌ
Ketika Umar RA tiba di Syam, Abu Ubaidah al-Jarrah menyambutnya dan mencium tangannya, kemudian mereka berjalan pergi sambil keduanya menangis. Tamim berkata: “Mencium tangan itu sunnah. ”
Al-Sunan al-Kubra (13585)
The Japanese are very hospitable people. I've lived in Japan for a month and can tell you with certainty that no Japanese person will be offended if you do not bow.
U should care about what Allah thinks about u not what other thinks...
Bowing to someone is not worshiping them - it’s just a sign of respect
@@godisgreat1786so you decide what Islam Says are you smarter than Allah
@@godisgreat1786with all due respect who are you to say it is or it is not.
Right. True. i believe if we just greet them with smile they will still feel pleased & understand us😊
I am a Malaysian, as far as I know, we are prohibited from making sujood to anyone except Allah. Kissing hand is not sujood. We have many Islamic scholars here (as we, Malaysia+ Indonesia+Brunei make up the biggest muslims population in the world), if kissing hand is haram, our scholars will definitely tell us. But for hundreds of years, no one.
Klu org dah tegur, terima la. Bukannya bagi alasan itu ini.
Saya setuju dengan kamu bang. Salam dari indo
Saya setuju. Ulama kita bukan kaleng-kaleng. Salam dari Singapura.
@@nirzainza0284setiap hal perlu alasan.. Shek Assim bukanlah kebenaran mutlak. Beliau pun bisa salah
How are the Indonesian migrant workers who you tortured in Malaysia and even the migrant workers died?
Thanks sheikh
as Indonesian we just hoping our elderly especially our parents will understand these important matters
Slowly stop doing it, slowly they will have to accept the change.
It's already deep-rooted in our DNA, it'll take time..
@@SeaShellsSeaShells89 langsung dibilang anak durhaka 😅😅
Malah dibilang gak sopan kak
@@maulidyawulandari2552
When you bow down to stroke a cat, you are not worshipping it, but trying to stroke it. When ignorance rises, common sense falls
Its normal here in malay culture and i never think about it as some kind of worshipping.According to what i learned this categorized in "uruf waadat" which is acceptable as it becomes part of culture and it doesnt contradict what Allah say.
with all due respect, the shaykh is wrong on this issue. There is a difference of opinion and it would have been intellectually honest to acknowledge the khilaaf.
It is not permissible to bow when meeting anyone, whether he is a scholar or otherwise.
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said:
With regard to bowing when greeting someone, it is not allowed, as it was narrated in at-Tirmidhi that they asked the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) about a man who bowed when he meets his brother. He said: “No (do not do that).” That is also because it is not permissible to bow or prostrate except to Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, even though doing this by way of greeting was acceptable according to the teachings of earlier Prophets, as in the story of Yoosuf, “…and they fell down before him prostrate. And he said: "O my father! This is the interpretation of my dream aforetime…” [Yoosuf 12:100]. But according to our laws (sharee‘ah), it is not acceptable to prostrate except to Allah. In fact there is even a prohibition on standing up in greeting for one another as the non-Arabs do, so how about bowing and prostrating? That which is a partial bow is also included in the prohibition.
End quote from Majmoo‘ al-Fataawa (1/377)
And he said:
With regard to lowering the head before elders such as shaykhs and others, or kissing the ground in front of them, and the like, these are things concerning which there is no dispute among the leading scholars that they are prohibited. In fact merely inclining the back to anyone other than Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, is prohibited. In al-Musnad and elsewhere it is narrated that when Mu‘aadh ibn Jabal (may Allah be pleased with him) returned from Syria, he prostrated to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him and his family), and he said: “What is this, O Mu‘aadh?” He said: O Messenger of Allah, I saw them in Syria prostrating to their bishops and patriarchs, and they attributed that to the teachings of their Prophets. He said: “They are lying, O Mu‘aadh. If I were to instruct anyone to prostrate to anyone, I would have instructed women to prostrate to their husbands, because of the rights that Allah has given them over them. O Mu‘aadh, do you think that if you pass by my grave, you would prostrate?” He said: No. He said: “Then do not do this” - or words to that effect.
Yes, muslims in Malaysia kiss our parents hand whenever we meet them, as a show of love n respect, but, we don't bow to them. What nonsense are you all talking about?
I am Malaysian. I agree with you Sheikh. Barokallahu fiik
This is our way of respecting the older people. There are NO worshipping what so ever .
this sheikh only bow to one who gave him money
@@funzuno8639 pls don't say that. thanks
Same in Nigerian culture I had to explain to my Nigerian side of the family
Thank you sheikh for this knowledge, may Allah bless you.
لَمَّا قَدِمْنَا الْمَدِينَةَ فَجَعَلْنَا نَتَبَادَرُ مِنْ رَوَاحِلِنَا فَ نُقَبِّلُ يَدَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَرِجْلَهُ
“Saat kami sampai di Madinah, kami berlomba untuk menjadi yang pertama turun dan mencium tangan dan kaki Rasulullah (ﷺ).”
Sunan Abu Daud (5225)
Dari Usamah bin Syuraik beliau berkata:
قمنا إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقبَّلنا يده
“Kami kemudian mendekati Nabi (ﷺ) dan mencium tangannya.”
قَالَ ثَابِتٌ لأَنَسٍ: أَمَسَسْتَ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم بِيَدِكَ؟ قَالَ: نَعَمْ، فَقَبَّلَهَا
Anas ditanya, “Apakah kamu menyentuh Nabi Muhammad SAW dengan tanganmu?” Dia menjawab, "Ya," lalu mereka menciumnya.
Sahih al-Bukhari dalam al-Adab al-Mufrad (974)
Imam al-Baihaqi berkata:
لَمَّا قَدِمَ عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ الشَّامَ اسْتَقْبَلَهُ أَبُو عُبَ يْدَةَ بْنُ الْجَرَّاحِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ فَقَبَّلَ يَدَهُ ثُمَّ خَلَوْا يَبْكِيَانِ قَالَ: فَكَانَ يَقُولُ تَمِيمٌ: " تَقْبِيلُ الْيَدِ سُنَّةٌ
Ketika Umar RA tiba di Syam, Abu Ubaidah al-Jarrah menyambutnya dan mencium tangannya, kemudian mereka berjalan pergi sambil keduanya menangis. Tamim berkata: “Mencium tangan itu sunnah. ”
Al-Sunan al-Kubra (13585)
Excellent question, I did encounter these things and never thought to ask
JazakAllahuKhair, Sheikh.
this begs the next question:
how do we teach our children to be detached from this custom as early as possible?
because most of us now have this ingrained reflex of bowing and kissing the hand of our elders or anyone whom we are afraid to offend since we were very young.
and of course our own elders may not approve of our children not bowing and kissing their hand because they (out elders) were probably more ingrained of this custom than us, which would then cause awkwardness and probably displeasure between us and our elders.
BarakAllahuFik, Sheikh.
@@kb4432 nobody bows down to stroke a cat LOL, people squat down not bring their head down, know the difference
@@kb4432 Use your brain, it's a matter of intention. Whether you are doing to show respect out of fear.
Bowing being haram is debatable , since we dont bow in japanese culture the same way we bow to allah , second thing kissing the hand of your mom dad aunt uncle grand father grand mother etc is toally permissible as it is an act of love and respect
You have no choice. You either stop them or allow them to continue. Stopping comes either its consequences.
@@morsayxdwhich madhab allows it?
I like how he is objective always and not subjecitve
I encountered an elderly, an acquaintance of my father. I gave my salam to him and shook his hands. He got angry with me and scolded me because he kept of raising my hands holding his' and wants to put in my forehead. I kept firm in my belief that it is not permissible in Islam. I do not care if someone gets angry or not, I'd rather not have the anger of Allah, because I only bow down to Him alone.
So proud of you, Barakallahfeek. May i ask where you are from?
@@mrrebelbunny5316 Alhamdulillah. Jazākallahu khayr. I am from Philippines.
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لَمَّا قَدِمْنَا الْمَدِينَةَ فَجَعَلْنَا نَتَبَادَرُ مِنْ رَوَاحِلِنَا فَ نُقَبِّلُ يَدَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَرِجْلَهُ
“Saat kami sampai di Madinah, kami berlomba untuk menjadi yang pertama turun dan mencium tangan dan kaki Rasulullah (ﷺ).”
Sunan Abu Daud (5225)
Dari Usamah bin Syuraik beliau berkata:
قمنا إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقبَّلنا يده
“Kami kemudian mendekati Nabi (ﷺ) dan mencium tangannya.”
قَالَ ثَابِتٌ لأَنَسٍ: أَمَسَسْتَ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم بِيَدِكَ؟ قَالَ: نَعَمْ، فَقَبَّلَهَا
Anas ditanya, “Apakah kamu menyentuh Nabi Muhammad SAW dengan tanganmu?” Dia menjawab, "Ya," lalu mereka menciumnya.
Sahih al-Bukhari dalam al-Adab al-Mufrad (974)
Imam al-Baihaqi berkata:
لَمَّا قَدِمَ عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ الشَّامَ اسْتَقْبَلَهُ أَبُو عُبَ يْدَةَ بْنُ الْجَرَّاحِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ فَقَبَّلَ يَدَهُ ثُمَّ خَلَوْا يَبْكِيَانِ قَالَ: فَكَانَ يَقُولُ تَمِيمٌ: " تَقْبِيلُ الْيَدِ سُنَّةٌ
Ketika Umar RA tiba di Syam, Abu Ubaidah al-Jarrah menyambutnya dan mencium tangannya, kemudian mereka berjalan pergi sambil keduanya menangis. Tamim berkata: “Mencium tangan itu sunnah. ”
Al-Sunan al-Kubra (13585)
Honestly, as per my cultural perspective, kissing hand of old people (parents, grandparents, Teachers, Ulamas) for respect is better than touching/holding their head and kiss it. We see in Southeast Asia holding an older person's head is a form of impudence. It would be unwise to conclude that kissing hands is a sin.
Of course. but this sheikh is a wahabi, that's why. as if other ulama' dont study Islam.
Any good practise left by loving the Muslims of The Rasool of Allah is being targeted and propagated as shirk and biddah. Do not listen to them for they have never even been in the intoxication of the Love for Allah SWT and His SWT’s Most Beloved SAW. Their Islam is a shell, empty of Love.
Bowing is NOT an act of worship. Ruku’ is. Logically, if bowing is an act of worship, then simply bowing to less than 45 degree in salah is acceptable as Ruku’? To make it clear, in Malaysia, Indonesia and Brunei (Malay culture), they are not actually bowing, but it may appear so while performing the act of kissing the hands of their elders due to factors such as height, distance, position etc. Islam is a BEAUTIFUL WAY OF LIFE. It is not just about rituals.
I think we should educate other people about our religion when it comes to this. (I'm living in a Non Muslim City and there was a time when a non muslim woman wanted to shake my hand before giving my certificate of accomplishment, since this is not allowed to shake hand with her, I educated her so that she will not misunderstood my action. You know what she was glad. By educating this non Muslim people, they will understand gradually.)
Not all of them are respectful and open minded enough to understand this. A lot of them take it personally and call Muslim men rude for not shaking hands with ghair mahram women.
The intention in the action is important. Kissing the hand in malay culture is a custom to show respect and not for reasons like worship or any of that kind
As a Filipino, I did not know that putting an elders right hand on the forehead is also practiced by our Muslim brothers in Indonesia and Malaysia. We call it "bisa" in Bicol while in Tagalog it's "mano".
We came from the same ancestry bro. Hehe
Just within mahram, then it is okay. Or elders who are already old and have no lust or desire whatsoever
@Aldrin_StandsWithIsraelلَمَّا قَدِمْنَا الْمَدِينَةَ فَجَعَلْنَا نَتَبَادَرُ مِنْ رَوَاحِلِنَا فَ نُقَبِّلُ يَدَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَرِجْلَهُ
“Saat kami sampai di Madinah, kami berlomba untuk menjadi yang pertama turun dan mencium tangan dan kaki Rasulullah (ﷺ).”
Sunan Abu Daud (5225)
Dari Usamah bin Syuraik beliau berkata:
قمنا إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقبَّلنا يده
“Kami kemudian mendekati Nabi (ﷺ) dan mencium tangannya.”
قَالَ ثَابِتٌ لأَنَسٍ: أَمَسَسْتَ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم بِيَدِكَ؟ قَالَ: نَعَمْ، فَقَبَّلَهَا
Anas ditanya, “Apakah kamu menyentuh Nabi Muhammad SAW dengan tanganmu?” Dia menjawab, "Ya," lalu mereka menciumnya.
Sahih al-Bukhari dalam al-Adab al-Mufrad (974)
Imam al-Baihaqi berkata:
لَمَّا قَدِمَ عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ الشَّامَ اسْتَقْبَلَهُ أَبُو عُبَ يْدَةَ بْنُ الْجَرَّاحِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ فَقَبَّلَ يَدَهُ ثُمَّ خَلَوْا يَبْكِيَانِ قَالَ: فَكَانَ يَقُولُ تَمِيمٌ: " تَقْبِيلُ الْيَدِ سُنَّةٌ
Ketika Umar RA tiba di Syam, Abu Ubaidah al-Jarrah menyambutnya dan mencium tangannya, kemudian mereka berjalan pergi sambil keduanya menangis. Tamim berkata: “Mencium tangan itu sunnah. ”
Al-Sunan al-Kubra (13585)
I think this is austronesians culture only found in indonesia,malaysia and philippines to respect elder. Our culture was asian culture always respect elder
In Indonesia it's called salim
Teachers who allow this behavior are seeking glory
I am confused. Didn't the Sahabah kissed the hands of the prophet s.a.w. and of the khalifah? And Secondly in order to kiss the hand one has to lean forward, this is not the same thing as bowing as in the japanese culture
Dear sheikh. We don't bow as signs of worship but signs of respect. If the arabs hugging or kissing eachother face when meets as signs of respect. We bow and kiss our elderly hands especially our beloved mother and father.
Bowing is haram no mattwr what your intension is
Assalamualaikum Sheikh!
Thanks for the good explanation. But here nobody listens to us if we say something according to Quran or sunnah thay say you're a Wahabi and end the conversation.
Our teachers scold us if we don't stand up for them so sometimes i have to.
same here.
How do u manage sister I hate specially when non mahram on the name of being elder touch my head out of some sort of SHAFQAT.
Forget Wahhabism, which part of the Quran and Sunnah forbid standing up for someone out of love and respect, which has no abrogation?
@@oxy728 there's a Hadith prophet Muhammad ﷺ hated it.
@@geekygirl648 yeah I hate it sm. I actually stand far away from them so that they can't do it.
Those who call him titles and don't listen to the Islamic advise are only harming themselves. Let them. You follow what you learn from Sheikh as much as you can.
Allahumma salim wa barik ala nabiyina Muhammad (S.A.W
Im a turk we kiss our elders hand and put it on our head. Its not bowing in the sense of worship. Its out of love and respect. Nothing wrong with it. Its never caused anyone harm
If u love someone make dua not bow
I agree with you. It is not a form of worship but rather a way to show respect to our elders.
same here in Malaysia. whenever i kiss my elders hand and forehead, never crossed in my mind i'm doing this to worship and glorify them, but to show my respect and love towards them. nothing wrong with that
You have made your elders as your gods when you follow their customs to the extent where you justify an action that you have been accustomed to which is disliked amongst early muslims and start opposing basic elements of islam in particular tawheed . May Allah make it easy for us to accept truth . May Allah forgive us all
@@mustafaismailov7039
Do you think here in asia we dont do pray or doa?
Respect it totally not the same with worship
Do you think when Allah said prostrate or bow to ADAM AS means worship?
All except demon refuse to bow
Al-Baqarah 34
If bow/prostrate means worship.. Surely Allah wont ask that
As for us, indonesian..100% none of us do bow, kiss hand means we doing worship.. For us is respect to elder people or ulama
innamal a'malu binniyat
Kissing the hands of my mother, father, elder, teacher, ulama, not only about respect but love. We kiss each other because of love. And the hand is a symbol of blessing. By kissing their hands we ask for blessing from them. As we know, our mother, teacher can give their knowledge, blessing, and ect as consequences their hearts know that we are loving them and ready to accept their gift in a good manner. ❤❤❤
In Morocco, we especially kiss the hands of our parents and grandparents. I think there is no better form of love and respect to show to someone who gave birth to you. However I do agree with it being weird with strangers. In the end it all comes back to intentions, that is, not having the intention to worship.
We also had the tradition of kissing the king's hand but that has been largely abandonned.
EDIT : I forgot to mention, another instance in which I could kiss an elder's hand is if I meet a friend's grandparents ( not parents). I would show them the same love and respect that I show to my own.
He is wahabi
Everything is wrong for him
@@altamashhhhhhhhyou right grave worshipper
@@vergil98
Chomu I am not a Barelvi
I LOVE this sheikh. He tells It like the sunnah wants It.
Let me say touch on something.
If we go back.. Allah did asked the Angels to bow or do prostration to Adam for a sign of respect. does this mean Adam worship the angel ? No.
So when people do it it is the same concept "Respect".
People should use common sense. It all depends your intentions which Allah will judge too.
So what is said here i dont fully agreed. i think his point may be more towards not bowing to our creator but to other which is in this case praying. Then yes.. but bowing of respect is totally a different thing.
The prophet peace be upon him may not liked kiss hand..etc as preference.. and out of humbleness. I also do not feel comfortable if someone do that.
I think we should use common sense too and be bit open minded...maybe it is just sinful from his view.. everyone is entitled an opinion after all.
That is just fallacy..
Allah knows best!~
Were the Sahabah Allowed to bow before our prophet SAW?
in Malaysia they still bow to king and put together both palms and place them on forehead (like Hindus pray to their gods). the malays still arent rejecting this. they say culture but the culture was from Hindus
In Singapore, we only kiss the hands of our parents and older siblings. That’s it.
Not true lol. We do that for our uncles and aunties (mahram) too
In Palestine, we do that to or parents, uncles, grandparents, but as someone who hates kissing, I seriously hate thiese traditions
@@maryamsalah8709 Kissing the forehead of elders is Sunnah if i remember correctly
@@firdaus125 True! We can do it for our parents siblings as well! I guess I just meant for myself in my opinion haha JazakAllahu Khairan bro!
@@maryamsalah8709 We do it too but I think I meant to refer it for myself 😅 I don’t like kissing other people as well though only my parents and siblings. But yeah, A LOT of people follow this tradition of kissing everyone they meet, including non-mahram. Also, you are in our prayers and Du’as okay! We all love you from the bottom of our hearts ❤️
for this one, i'll stick to "back to the intentions"
Respecting eleders doesn't mean we devoid our aqeedah or we worship them.. What the hell? How respecting elderly become something angers Allah? 🤔
Brother Respecting elders doesn't anger allah(s.w.t) it is the way of expressing your respect. We don't need to bow or do something wierd to show our respect.
Respecting Elders do not anger Allah.
The way you respect is what matters.
Doing sujood to your elders can also be a sign of respect.
Is this worship? Yes.
Does this anger Allah? Yes.
What's prayer if a bunch of movements and talking. How can one dare dedicate those movements to other than Allah however
@@ToHimWeWillBeReturned
Firstly, sujood is extreme and I agree is wrong. But bowing is different. In America people do a head nod as a greeting of respect. They tilt the head down and lift it back up.
Secondly, I see a lot of commenters saying kissing is fine but bowing isn’t. How can you kiss someone’s hand without bowing/going down to it?
If you do it without the intention of worship, then it's not shirk.
I respect him a lot and follow him but he didn’t give any evidence from Quran or hadith to support that kissing an elder’s hand is a sim.
Bowing and prostrating are two different things. Dont make up things sheikh.
Why did the companionship stop to stand up?
@AyeshaSyed-yo5vs what does that have to do with the question?
Jazakallahu khayra sheikh❤
Turkish people do it all the time
Thank you sheikh
So if i get that right, the problem lies to bowing while kissing their hand right? Does that mean if i just put their hand on my face without have to bowing them making it permissible?
Correct
@@freelyroaming364 Oh man because in my country this is to simply show respect so I really hope that atleast without the bowing and kissing it is ok.
@@Curiouzity_Omega no bowing no problem
@@Curiouzity_Omega and Allah Knows Best
@@Curiouzity_Omegadon't take anything these guys are saying for truth, including this wahabi on video.
Jazzak Allah khair
as a Saudi, we don’t bow for elderly but we kiss their hands and forhead
Don't you bow to kiss their hands?
@@swordofallah5431 it’s not bowing exactly
@@rorofaisal01 it's bowing
..otherwise you would have to raise Thier hands so high...
I see people like saudis now and kiss the kings hand...
Also in Malaysia n Indonesia
@@swordofallah5431 usally kings refuse kissing hands but some ppl insist however they kiss their shoulders and cheeks
جزاك الله خيرا
Of course no true pious person enjoys(with pride) when someone stands up out of respect to greet them, but they do acknowledge it with utmost modesty. If Allah SWT granted us time with His SWT’s Most Beloved SAW, you would remain seated in comfort and arrogance when He SAW joins your company. I want to know what Love do Salafis express for The Prophet SAW. Do not include the 5 pillars of Islam because those are meant for only Allah SWT’s pleasure.
I kiss my husband hand and bow, not because of i worshiping him but because of i respect him as a husband and leader. And I love him!!
The action is haram when u intend respect and if you intended worship then it would be kufr
what about in school when a teacher comes , all the students stand up in India , also when elders or guests come to home we used stand up? is that also an issue
You can stand up to give respect but don't bow down to them.
@@nafeestmkhere in Nigeria the culture is to perform a curtsey by bending your knees alone . Does this also classify as bowing , the head and the body remains straight, only the knees are bent bringing your body a bit lower
@@nafeestmk no that it is still not permissible.
Whoever likes the people to stand up for him, let him take his place in Hell.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 2755; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.
Allah knows best
@@abdulrashidmansoori7539no that’s too much good words and hand shake hug is enough ❤
No, pls. It is not permissible to bow or genuflect for any one, or kneel or even prostate to any other except Allaah (S.W.T), whether as a form of respect, greeting, or as a form of showing gratitude. May Allaah ease our affairs
Very impressed with your honesty and truth you speak truth even if it is not what people want to hear and you answer questions directly and comunicate excellent understand everything thank you also you are enjoyable to listen to and you talk out of heart and mind not parrot scripted dialogue, not answer question with questions, do not confuse or fast talk like other muslem speakers their are even muslim bullies make videos get angry when challenged and make threats and get violent.and also lie. No you are the real deal thank you
It's act of respect not worship
Yes but you only bow prostrate to allah the creator not creation ❤
doesnt matter if it is. it is not permissable
Many Indian wives wash the feet of their husbands then drink the water out of respect. Is this ok?? For many hindus it's ok for you It can be not but we don't decide the morals but God do
This respect things becomes disrespect like In my country(india) if you don't touch the feet of your teacher or elders it's considered as disrespect
@@littleking5546drink the water? That is INSANE! Why would you treat your wife like that??!!!!
Do not worry, none will respect the like of shk assim. The bowing is not about worship.
I am Indonesian muslim, first of all we "bow" little bit not because we want to bow, we have to lower our head thus we can kiss the hand of elderly we're about to pay respect or love to, mother, father, uncle, aunt, grandmother, grandfather etc.
There's not even slight intention to bow to worship.
It's good that Rasulullah Muhammad PBUH told not to OVER respect him! That even make him GREATER human being! BUT to disband the beautiful culture that oblige youngsters to pay respect to elder (even younger cousin to older one) is completely (forgive me) RUBBISH!
And yes, our ulamas here (including our brothers & sisters in Malaysia & other South-East Asia) would never prohibit these custom, because they know it's purely for respect and or love, nothing to do with syirk! Just because ulamas from MiddleEast & South-Asia think it's sinful, doesn't mean it's true!
Maybe that's one think we're differ. We South Asian Muslim, tend to think Allah is full of Love & Merciful, maybe you guys think opposite.
Wallahu'alam
NOTE:
Indonesia has over 1340 ethnic groups, each has custom on how to pay respect to elderly.
Well bowing for any reason is not allowed. Worldly traditions and culture do not come before Islam. Intention doesn't matter in this case, it is a habit that our Prophet PBUH disliked and it's un-Islamic.
@@SeaShellsSeaShells89 That's your interpretation, fine you can live with it.
عن جابر أن عمر قام إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقبل يده
The best of greetings are the greetings of our prophet and the best of etiquettes are those of our Prophet (saw), if you find your greeting to be out ruling the rules of islam then there is something wrong with your culture not the sheikh :)
@@zayedkhalid8166 Did you even read the first sentence I wrote? What's wrong with you?
Perhaps one thing for sure is wrong with your culture is your foolish extreme interpretation!
South-East Asia (Indonesia, Malaysia,...) has the most Islam population compared to Arab, yet we live peacefully and treated people more kind.
@@JeffSyam ignorant continue to ignore don’t mix culture with religion, if it’s not a part of islam (it’s not) one shouldn’t be following it, if you still wanna continue ur practice please do so, but keep religion out of it.
If only I knew that, I would never stand up when the teacher or principal enters the classroom.
Avg wahabi 😂
Imam al-Baihaqi said:
لَمَّا قَدِمَ عُمَرُ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ الشَّامَ اسْتَقْبَلَهُ أَبُو عُبَيْدَةَ بْنُ الْجَرَّاحِ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ فَقَبَّلَ يَدَهُ ثُمَّ خَلَوْا يَبْكِيَانِ قَالَ: فَكَانَ يَقُولُ تَمِيمٌ: " تَقْبِيلُ الْيَدِ سُنَّةٌ
“When ‘Umar RA arrive in Syria, Abu Ubaidah al-Jarrah welcome him and kisses his hands, then they walk away while both of them are crying. Tamim said: “Kissing hands is a sunnah.”
Al-Sunan al-Kubra (13585)
This is the way of Modern Salafis, followers of the Wahabi leader. Did the Prophet forbid standing up for a leader? No. Did he encourage standing up for a leader. Yes. Imam Nawawi R.A talks about this. Standing up is impermissible when the person who is being stood for desires it and feels pride because of it. Of course these Modern Salafi ‘Sheikhs’ won’t mention this tho and just blow past it
Your knowledge is limited.
No person was dearer to them than the prophet (pbuh) but when they saw him they did not stand up for him because they knew that he disliked that
At-tirmidhi 2754
The prophet (pbuh) said: Whoever likes people to stand up for him, let him take his place in hell
At-Tirmidhi 2755
If you have a problem with this then it is clear that you hate the example set by our beloved messenger Mohammed (SAW)
You don't have proper knowledge. Stop spreading fitnah.
He isn't a "modern day salafi". He is a knowledgeable sheikh who knows what he teaching and advising ACCORDING TO QURAN, SUNNAH AND FAVORITE GENERATIONS. The moment you utter the words "salafi" determines you are not a reliable source for knowledge. Islam discourages this.
Brother stop mentioning this wahabi sanafii sufi shia sunni kanni banni etc..this seriously looks like a cult, this sickens me.We are Muslims(we submits our will to allah(s.w.t))
@@skewes69then how do you pray and do you know how different these school of thoughts are? Im sorry but being a muslim you should know about these differences. I hope you are enlightened about it
JazakAllah khair
Extremely well said
In the Philippines, it is a part of our culture callled "mano" where we used to put the back of the hand of the elderly in our forehead. This act can be traced back to the spanish colonization. when the priests use this act to show people that they have higher authority. I don't use this anymore. but I sometimes do with my parents.
This is very common in Indonesian Muslim, idk where we got such idea
3 options
1- Anger Allah jala wa ala (prohibited never do)
2- anger people (ok)
3- just don’t go to japan (best)
Nope. I will kiss my mother's hand, my father's hand and my mahram elders. My wife will kiss my hand too.
Following desires
I beg to differ on this matter.
In the beginning God ask the angle to Bow to Adam, they all bowed down except Iblis.
Why would God ask anyone to bow to a human being?
Bowing is a sign of respect from all over the world. I’m from Africa and in the village, some of us kiss our elderlys hand which I don’t do. And I’m not doing it because it’s not permissible but it’s because it’s not my way of life.
This is not something religious or not so I think we should stop listening to these checks or imam.
Terima kasih😊
Just as bowing is a cultural practice for you, abstaining from bowing is rooted in our religious teachings. I am confident that if you explain this to them, they will understand and won't be upset with you."
Masha Allah
Alfatihah.... 🤲🤲
I can feel that the guys is anxious asking the question
Jazakallah khair sheikh
I remember he said in Ask Zad about 1 year ago he said kissing hand of your parents is ok but not the bowing
maybe there is a little misunderstanding... we do this to respect older people... and that's only for children or those who are not yet mature... this is our way of silaturahmi, it doesn't mean worshiping... when we are adults we shake hands and shake hands without touching for those who are not mahram women.
in middle east for more than 100m+ people does that for years without thinking the way he said here, it is just for respect to elderly people nothing more, it is cultural thing. which no one even thought the way he expalined here.
سبحان الله وبحمده سبحان الله العظيم
Indonesian teach youngsters to respect with elderly. But not bow with other human. Its not bowing, anyway. Its respect. And do not say ppl do this things is sinful. Allah is the best judge. He knows more than us about human "intension".
Here in indonesia is common do like that, i mean kids used to kiss their parents's hand, but our moslem scholars didn't say haram matters caused it depends on our intention
Even tho the Sahabah had the best intentions the prophet still told them not to do such acts, With all due respect to the scholars of Indonesia and Malaysia, They usually say it because its their culture and i don't blame them cause we humans are biased creatures its hard for us to say no to things that we have been doing since our childhood
@@mrrebelbunny5316 can you give me some refrences, brother? A hadith maybe where nabiy pbuh had said not to do that, just for my knowledge
Great video
Whats the evidence in Qur'an or Hadith stating that shaking hand and kiss the elderly hand as a sign of respect is considered haram (Haram = Sinful Act) ? Ofcourse shaking and kissing hands with mahrams only.. non mahram at all cost are untouchables.
In Morocco, Saudi Barbaria they do it as well to MBS, Mohammed 6 etc.
then how u kiss ur parent's hand without bowing ur head??
do u pull ur parent's hand high and kiss it with ignorance?
how do u kiss ur kids without bowing ur head or ur body???
or kissing the kids also prohibited in islam??