Actress Jennette McCurdy reads a cruel email her mom sent her
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And that’s why the book is titled “I’m Glad My Mom Died”
@@Jeremy-wp4yh I can’t believe people are this thick… truly. The answers to those questions should overwhelming obvious.
@@Jeremy-wp4yh you clearly didn’t read the fucking book yet think you have shit to say 😂
@@Jeremy-wp4yh LOL yeah okay. She’s worked since she was 4. She’s doing just fine financially 🤣 Stop it.
@@Jeremy-wp4yh I think you’re being pessimistic without much proof, instead, based on a hunch
@@Jeremy-wp4yh It is pretty weird behavior to voice doubt about someone detailing an abusive relationship and then also not look into things at all to verify that doubt, so here are a few things to think about
1) Her mom died when Jeanette was 21 - before, according to Jeanette, she had even processed her Mom's behavior as abusive, while she was still acting (a profession she hated), before she was a writer at all, and while she was in a complete mental health spiral. Her eating disorder was not only out control, but also visible to any attentive audiences during this time period.
The idea that in order for this to be real she would have had to process all this trauma and then write and publish a book at the age of 19 - 20 while she was still working on Sam & Cat and purging food multiple times a day is, frankly, completely insane.
An impossible standard for a young person to reach.
2) The timeline of her dropping the book perfectly lines up with this. After leaving acting and doing heavy therapy and self care, she came to terms with the fact that her mom was abusive and was able to produce a thoughtful work at the age of 30 + a mental health podcast.
She didn't drop a book right after leaving acting or right after her mom died. She did it later after reflecting on everything as a 30-year-old woman.
3) Her brothers are entirely supportive of this book and her speaking about the specifics of their mom. No one in the family has contradicted her descriptions
4) I know multiple people with varying levels of abusive parents, some of them pretty bad, and none of them would ever be interested in taking legal action against them. There are like a million blatantly obvious reasons why someone wouldn't want to. Not that someone couldn't ever - but most children of abusive parents, by a wide margin, don't pursue legal action like this.
So the idea that a lack of legal action taken by Jeanette McCurdy against her mom *before the age of 21* is evidence that she's lying about her mom being abusive is unhinged.
Neither of the things you have described are evidence against the veracity of her claims at all - and to be honest I find this worldview extremely weird if not downright gross. Look into it if you think people are lying about abusive parents - otherwise you look like a complete ass.
“I DISOWN YOU”
“PS please send money for a new fridge, ours broke”
You're giving her too much credit: "P.S. Give me money". No please in there
Did she pay for the fridge? @@blainemarquise
I doubt any of it happened. Hollywood is a scripted land of degenerates. So many caught in lies and covering for lies that its impossible to know if any of it is real. I'm not saying it's not but an industry of fictional bs expecting to be taken serious is....silly.
Ngl. She stood on business on her own daughter. She don't give no fucks @@blainemarquise
@@blainemarquiseLol exactly 💯. (I'm not laughing at the disgusting stuff her mom wrote, I'm laughing because I thought the exact same thing you did)
The fact that she can read it without any tears shows how strong she has had to become
This generation is so weak
@@tehdog123Says the one offended by a comment. And don't pretend you aren't offended you responded that way because you are, you can't lie about it. Snowflake. ❄️
@@tehdog123 being hurt by your mother disowning you and calling you demeaning names is weak? i think that’s normal actually. maybe you’re just an emotionless sociopath.
@@tehdog123 ur so strong bro, congrats
@@skylark2g thanks random guy who i don't know
That she is saying this to Will Smith’s family is honestly the oddest part.
the oddest part should be that a mom can say this to her kid tbh.
Right and Jada acting shocked 😂
Its part of the red table talk or something like that on facebook
Here's hoping Willow figures it out someday and gets away from this nonsense.
@@mariec3527I mean, she may be a bad wife, but it's not like Jada is a bad mom, not that we know of
Robin Williams: I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone.
I never knew Robin Williams said this. I used to say and still do say something similar to this without realizing someone felt the same way. Being actually physically alone is less hurtful and damaging than being alone in a crowd full of people who supposedly care about you.🥺💖 It's a horrific feeling to be surrounded on all sides by people who you think care about you but end up making you feel more isolated, misunderstood, uncared for, unloved, not thought of or noticable. you're just a shadow in the background, a part of the decor not an actual person with a mind and heart and soul of their own. It sucks, a lot.
That's true. It's not a good feeling 😞
this
Jesus!!
I absolutely agree with this. It's hard.
the AUDACITY of that woman to end such a cruel email by asking for money
demanding* money
Gangsta
The audacity of the Smith family to judge any other family lmao
the PS was sarcasm ppl , she could give a damn if she sent that money ir not 😂😂😂
That's literally the female playbook
"You're a disgusting liar and I'm no longer your mom. Oh, by the way, send me money." MA'AM??? THAT'S ABSOLUTELY NOT HOW THAT WORKS?????
Tough love? Or brutal love? Idk 😩
@@labeebfarooqi7548 how about “no love”.
Tell your son's to get u a new fridge Deb
And this is why I HATE when ppl say one of their requirements for dating is you have/need to have a good relationship with your parents.
Like good for you for having good parents but not everyone is that fortunate.
I don't think it's about you actually having a good relationship with your parents. I think some people take having a bad relationship with parents to be a precursor for personality disorders and other forms of mental illness later in life. If you were abused, you may grow up to be abusive, so on and so forth.
@@jazzygirl4140If you are right, it seems even worse for the abused. We can't unfuck our past BUT I suppose the silver lining is the we, once healed enough, will be able to find someone like us who also understands and accepts us and doesn't see us as 'damaged goods.'
@@jazzygirl4140 that's usually not their reasoning, for people with that "standard" I mean. They are sheltered, living in their own bubble where abusive families simply don't exist (or only accepted form is physical abuse) and if you decided to distance yourself from your family, YOU are the problem. "Family is family", "but it is your mother/father", "you should love them no matter what", etc
Anyway, I completely understand and respect not being able to connect with people with dysfunctional families since I am the complete opposite.
I don't even do it on purpose, I only find out later but all of my closest friends had terrible families, narcissistic parents mostly. Maybe we subconsciously recognise each other.
I cannot speak for all people, I am sure there are rude people who blame bad parents on the child BUT… I think wanting someone to have a good relationship with their parents more so means that they value family-life in a relationship. They want to spend time with your family, have a “second” family of sorts, and prefer family-first values. I am in this camp so I can see that perspective of wanting a partner who is close to their family (as I am fortunately very close to mine).
THIS!!!
I might not be the best human because of it but my relationship with my parents is not dictating how I'm gonna be in a relationships with you!!
“Since I’m not your mother anymore”
Jennette: “thank god”
But be sure to send money for a new fridge tho
@@Takashii85 that part was actually insane 🤦♂️
@@Takashii85 Unbelievable!
"PS, send money." The aUdAciTy
@@Takashii85
So they should let the food spoil?
You are worse then biden !!!!!
“I DISOWN YOU, YOU HORRIBLE SICK MONSTER”
“can you send money for a new fridge ?? 👉🏼👈🏼“
☠️☠️☠️
She didn’t even ask. She said “PS... send money for a new fridge. Ours broke” 😳
Literally
I would turn into 6ix9ine and just send them pictures of me holding hella money😂
Money talks and Bullshit walks.
That's not a mother, that's a monster
Her mother cannot unsend that message. My mother once told me to never put anything in writing that I wouldn’t want on the front page of the news and to remember that mean words in writing to a loved one are so much more painful and impossible to forget than words spoken in anger. Her mother should forget about that fridge and anything else in her future from her daughter. How awful.
Good is all I can say.
She's dead. Title of her book is something like I'm glad my mom is dead
Well, she's dead, sooo... :-|
Mean words spoken can be an spur of the moment, written words are premeditated
Mean words spoken remain in the past, written words remain on the letter/text
The book is called I’m glad my mother is dead
It's always "but she is your mother/father how can you treat them like that" but never it is "but they are your children how can you treat them like that"
dude best part for me was when i told her father (my bio grandparent) about the horrible things she’d done to me and said to me and all he had to say was ‘well she’s still my daughter’. ok and i’m your granddaughter and your daughter is a monster like ???
@@livviesux462
At least you know Why. For what it’s worth.🥺
@@joiisler8986 it’s worth nothing when that is not a valid ‘why’ ?
@@livviesux462
All information is Power. Even if it’s Negative.
It contributes to Personal Growth; and hopefully helps to Stop The Cycle. (And without Enlightenment, it Will be Passed on.)
Generational Curses Can be stopped.
Facts tho
My mother was the same. Her letters had me crumpled on the floor sobbing. Please don’t judge us who cut off our mothers. Please be happy for our peace without our abuser.
Damn i hope you're doing better
😢😭😭😫 so sorry. And other abusive mothers are more slick with their words. And can manipulate others into thinking they’re perfect. 😟😏. The gaslighting is insane
Some people have to make their own family
I'm so sorry you went through this! I had to cut off my "father," so I feel you.
I would never judge anyone who ' disowned ' a toxic person or people in their lives. I disowned my sisters. I would have shared my Mom with you. She probably would have been old enough to be your grandma or great grandma. She was ' adopted' by many. Hope your life is good now. My Mom had a nasty mother - grandmother) .
And then people will still say "but she's your mother you can't hate her". Yes the f i can
right
People who say things like come from a loving caring family and can’t comprehend that some of us didn’t get that
@@tsxtina2919 my mother lost custody of me at age 12. My brother was 15. The only reason my older sister didn't get to come is because she wasn't my father's biological daughter. But he was the one who raised her and he is her father. But my mother losing custody says all it needs to say right there. It is so hard for father's to win custody because courts want the children to stay with the mother. Some father's don't get to win. Child services stepped in when I was about 8. I told them the truth of what was going on and they failed me. They gave my mother's husband a temporary restraining order while he went to anger management.... After he came back nobody ever came back to check on us. I trusted them and they put me right back with the enemy, my mother. Her husband wasn't the only one doing wrong, it's just he was worse than her. Those people never came back. And when my dad went for custody, the lawyer asked me to tell him what was going on. He said "I will be your voice in that courtroom". I took the chance and I trusted him, but I almost didn't because of what happened with CPS. So many others are stuck with their mothers. And CPS can't help. I'm lucky to have had a good father in my life. But many others are not.
@@tsxtina2919 I was lucky enough to have a good father in my life who took me away from my mother. But many others are not as lucky. I credit my father for me turning out to be a good person cause if he wasn't there, I wouldn't be here either. But people still try to tell me I can't hate my mother and all I tell them is I can't remember almost anything before the age of 12, which is the age I moved into my father's house. The things I do remember are bad enough, I don't Even want to know what I blocked out.
@@tsxtina2919 wow UA-cam keeps deleting my comment and I didn't even say anything bad. Apparently I can't say my father took custody of me at age 12 and my mother is a bad person. Let's see if that gets deleted.
The way she said it so calmly and even laughed at the end speaks volumes about just how fine she eventually became, she’s just so done with all of this. I hope she found peace in her life, she is a survivor
One of the saddest things about this is that people don't realize how many parents are actually like this. There are a lot!
My mother is a lot like hers, I still live at home but I’m hoping to move out within a year. I never feel comfortable in my house, unless I’m alone. And whenever I’m out I’m constantly anxious, waiting for an angry text from her
@@izzydominguez7013I’m sorry you’re going through that. Try to be strong.
@@izzydominguez7013Wishing you well, good luck to you. I hope you move out soon and begin to find peace.
@@izzydominguez7013exact same situation except i’m trying to move out in the next few months😞
Too true, very little talk about the mothers who aren’t loving, selfless, and hardworking
and then some people have the audacity to say “she’s still your mother” like fuck that shit
Exactly, it’s just a biological accident. She doesn’t owe her nothing
Exactly
💯 💯
She didn’t have the best selling book in America. Alex Jones beat her book by 20,000 copies. Way more important than feeling bad for a celebrity. Alex Jones book was also #10 in the world.
@@Man11235 janette’s is ranked #1 according to Barnes and Noble. And Alex Jones is technically a celebrity too. Your argument makes no sense in the context of the original comment or in the context of the video, but it’s fun to dismantle people’s unrelated, bigoted perspectives.
How to get your child to write a book about how horrible you are.
I highly recommend that book to everybody by the way. If you don't know who Jennette McCurdy is or you don't care, it's an insanely insightful look into someone's life. That book made me cry so much while I was reading it. Her entire life was robbed from her because of her mother.
Entire life? Shes barely like 30 isnt she?
She's cold enough, she doesn't need a fridge
She’s dead now
Nice
@@brianprattswell then she's definitely cold rn lol
💀
@@brianpratts oh so she's cold cause she's dead? I thought she's hot cause she's in hell now.
That is not a mother, that's a birth canal.
And egg donor, not that that makes her any more important to Jeanette. She deserved way better than she got from her mom as well as from Nickelodeon.
A Birth Camel?? Edit: Nevermind. I am tired. It says canal.
Her name wasn’t Deb, it was Panama
Clearly a mother if she gave birth to her.
@@Strat10100 Maybe a mother in the most rudimentary, biological sense, but not a mom.
Jada is sitting there thinking “ok. This is supposed to be bad. Just nod your head and look shocked or you will blow your cover”
I was thinking the same thing she really doesn't care at all
ahh it's a whole thing, that's what I got from reading comments, but what happened that is publicly known?
Yeah she's like "this must be one of those human things known as trauma, i should look like i care"
I have a mother like this. I went no contact and thank the heavens frequently that she didn't even have primary custody of me from ages 2-16 because of her treatment of me. People still pull out "but she's your mooooooother" when I say I'm no contact and that I will not forgive.
I'm glad Jenette is speaking out because people with good families seem incapable of imagining how bad it really is without this kind of bluntness. Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves to have a child. When you forgive them, they just take it as a sign that what they did must not have been THAT bad or that they were right all along, and they double down on this treatment. The best revenge is to take them out of the narrative and your decisions entirely and stand firm in a message to your inner child still in there that they never deserved any of this. It's how you break the cycle.
the irony of saying
"love, mom" at the end of something as hateful as that
It just shows that she's definitely said far worse
Rite! She is NOT A MOM !!
@@perfectlyimperfect9129 right**
@@nottrevorjustkris6019 ??? Fr?
Her mom actually has a point
"I'll disown you but because I gave birth to you send me money" that's what I heard
She did that on purpose to sound petty, not realizing it just STUPID.
She made a fool out of herself 😂
Same. I hate you but need you to support me while I hate you because you're better than me. That's pretty much what I got.
Jesus 1k likes thanks everyone
@some people deserve to be humbled 4 good people who were terrible in life don't suddenly deserve respect just because they die
I think there was also a "you're fat and ugly now" in there too, somewhere around the middle
Yep that’s a narcissistic mother 💯 that’s a lot to unpack in just one email/letter
The fridge money request is insaneeee😂
The audacity to of asking for a new fridge after disowning her
And to add to the sting... ending the letter with "love" ___ ... that's not love. Disgusting.
right.... I hope she didn't send it.....
@@2sarahloves if you mean the email this is an email already sent to her
If you listen closely, she says, with a giggle, “The p.s. was me”.
You meant the cunt-asity!
“I’m not your mother anymore”
“Buy me a new fridge tho”
“i fucking hate you but i need a new fridge :)”
💀
I'm curious, there's more to this story. I don't believe these shorts. My Mom has multiple personalities from childhood trauma and sh hurt me until I realized her illness.
@@freshstart4423 Nah, it's in the book. Her mom was just an asshole.
@@freshstart4423 unfortunately there ARE mother's like hers, I don't get how it's hard for people to believe there are real people who are genuinely like that. Nothing surprises me these days. People are genuinely evil. And she had the misfortune of growing up with that monster, and having to call her "mom"
Geez.
That’s horrible.
All children deserve a parent, some parents don’t deserve children.
The girl in the hood taking a deep breathe and closing her eyes is so real 😔😖💔
I LOVE that she read this on national television. The friends and neighbors of her mother are now going to know who the REAL monster is. Mic drop Jeanette!!
I wish that were the case. But I believe her Mom passed away.
@@xJuhnFromAbovex777 yes! She did
Yes.
Her book is called “I’m Glad My Mom Died”
It is an excellent book. Very sad, but definitely worth reading or listening to.
Her mother pushed her into acting so she could pay all the bills and afford a nice place to live while her mother took all the money until she was 18. That is the law with child actors. They cannot get the money they make until they reach a certain age unless they go to court and grant the teenager emancipation.
Her mother was evil and I am so happy Jennette is FREE.
Who's mother talks to anyone like that.
Karma at its finest 😮
Her mom: “We want nothing to do with you”
Also her mom: “ Buy us a new fridge ours broke”
She should send back a reply; Have a good life Bitch!
PS Buy your own fridge You FREELOADER!
Crazy
Textbook poor person mentality tbh
@@oreoveri wtf no it's a textbook entitled person thing to say. You don't have to be poor to be entitled.
@@oreoveri I have a feeling you're an entitled kid that flexes their parents' money
Jaida over here acting like she’s not also a complete monster 😂
Why is she talking to the Smith’s??? They don’t know what a healthy family is.
The show maniac has the perfect quote for this. "For people that are supposed to love you unconditionally they sure have a lot of conditions"
Truer words have never been spoken!
I have a lot of love for that show the more I consider some of the things it says. This was definitely one of the more relatable things.
Love this!
Well, almost perfect: "who"*
one of em being a new fucking fridge after tearing you asunder, apparently
she litreally really said "send money for a new fridge ours broke" i'd be like "no i'm not your daughter anymore remeber you buy your own fridge" 😂😂
Right like the audacity
Yeah I wouldn’t send a dime!
I would have emailed back saying dead people can't send money sweetie 🤭
Exactly. ghosts don't buy things
I'd be the asshole that still sent money for a new fridge. Despised, hated, treated horribly, whatever, they're still family and I don't want them to be without.
Some people DO NOT deserve to be parents. Your children should come first always and that includes their emotional and mental well being as well.
I am also named Jennette and also had horrible parents who made me feel so unwanted and terrible. I’m almost an old lady now and that pain won’t ever leave me. This hit home really hard
What's truly sad is you can tell she's use to reading things like this from her mother. My god
Yeah.
And female activist say men are ?
@@sarahj4103 There are bad PEOPLE everywhere.
her mom sent her hundreds of emails
@@sarahj4103 bad people of either gender. most people in general seem to be garbage
Imagine bullying and tormenting your own child and disowning them via email but then asking them for money in the same email. No need for a new fridge, your heart is already frozen
Sad that it can't freeze meats though.
@@breewashere shouldn't be eating meat anyway. it's a known carcinogen
RIGHT! LIKE THE AUDACITY!!!!!! i'm glad jennete's glad her mother died
Totally agree..
Almost sounds fake or scripted....if I didn't know for a fact that people could be that cruel and narcissistic, I'd call sus.
Omg the audacity of her mom to end up so cruel
Jada was like "Hold my beer. Ill show your mom how to really embarrass the family."
Every new story about her mom just makes the title of her memoir make more sense.
Well why else would someone be glad their mom died?
You have to really badly torture and abuse your helpless child for your child to be happy that you died.
Frfr
@Hogwarts: A History something like I'm glad my mom died
@Hogwarts: A History the title is "I'm glad my mom died"
@Hogwarts: A History The title is Im Glad My Mom Died, and from what I’ve heard it seems to be an autobiographical story surrounding her past, specifically the abuse she has faced because of her mother and the trauma that has come from it.
This is the perfect example of the saying "blood only makes you related, it takes more than that to be a family".
reminds me of the saying “blood is thicker than water”. the full saying is actually “the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb”
@@madeofcastiron really?!?
@@madeofcastiron that does explain a lot, for years I've changed it to beer is thicker than blood
That’s a very long saying 🤣🤣 never heard that one before
The original meaning behind “blood is thicker than water” is that water refers to the water in the womb and the blood refers to soldiers on a battlefield your twin sibling you never bonded with is less than your best friend in your unit who is bleeding on top of you
I’m a grandmother of 2 girls that loved you. I am SOOOO sorry that you had to hide this horror. I hope you’re getting all the love and help that you need to cope.❤
This is so powerfully painful
“Thinking of you with his ding dong inside of you makes me sick” so why exactly as her MOTHER are you thinking of your daughter like that..this is so disturbing.
Ikr, that made me feel gross and it wasn't even towards me (obviously)
So icky, disgusting, disturbing, gross, horrible, weird, insane, brooooooo wtf
This was my immediate thought. This and other stories from her book paint a picture of a woman who is disturbingly obsessed with her daughter's sexuality.
IKR EWW
@@youknowimright1725me too.
How about the fact that someone put their ding dong inside mom to conceive her daughter? 😮
I love that she wrote this book and has started the conversation that not all women should be mothers. My BFF has a mom like this and she's completely cut that woman out of her life.
Not only that, it opens up the conversation that it's ok to be at odds with your parents, it's ok to stand up to their abusive behaviors and it's ok to not on be good terms with them to the point where you make a book laughing about their death 🤣
Also not all people should be mourned. Some people die and the world is better off without them. At least the people they left behind are.
my girlfriend is cutting the same type of toxic mother out of her life, I'm very glad that one's biological family -- or any family -- doesn't actually _have to_ be forever.
Same here.
I wanna cut mines out. I'm stressed out left and right. I'm in my 20s with a baby on the way and my husband but she still manages. I try to not stress for the baby and my husband can't help to get stressed sometimes too. I have stomach aches from the stress.
That's not a mother...thats a demon
G.I Jane is a worse mother to be fair 😂
What gets me the most is how the mother openly says she disowns her and doesn’t want her to call her mom anymore, but at the ends asks for money for a new fridge. That is just wild behavior to me, like actually mental.
God my heart breaks for her. Not only for the words that were written, but for the fact that she likely believed them at one time.
This!
Nahhh the “ PS send money for a new fridge” is TOXIC ASF😭😭😭
Facts
That part sucked but to me the worst was her mom talking about imagining her with you know what in her. That is down right evil what kind of a mother talks like that to her daughter?
Yeah probably had to be the most toxic thing she wrote on that letter 🙄
😂😂😂
Every sentence of that email was toxic, but yeah that was the toxic icing on the radioactive cake.
Not Jada sitting there taking notes 📝📝📝
Bro her mom was an actual monster.. how in the world could you ever say things like this to your kid you abused and took advantage of since she was freaking 4 years old??
And people will still tell her: 'you have to respect her, she's your mom'.
This is why we should never judge people that break the contact with their parents.
People will still guilt you for breaking contact with Parents
Respect should always be earned. Her mother did not deserve it and she certainly did not respect the child who was supporting them all
I cut ties with my family 25 years ago I will never speak to any of them ever again!
Just thank you for understanding that because I have gotten alot of crap for distancing myself from my mom.
🎯🎯🎯
I’ll say the worst part is how smoothly she read it. No getting choked up or anything, just reading. That means she’s heard worse
EDIT: what does Jesus have to do with this?
Well. She delt with all that trauma from her mom that she gotten to the point she feels nothing. I know some people like that that they experienced some stuff in their lives and they end up becoming a whole different person.
When you're used to a narcissistic parent and them speaking to you like you're their possession you kind of just don't feel anything about them saying stuff like that anymore. It's not about better or worse, it's just a constant thing you put up with. She almost certainly cries about it when she's feeling safe to be vulnerable.
Probably so
Yes, way worst 😢
Yes
She was my childhood crush and still is my crush…damn it’s crazy to see how abusive her mom was to her
My mother is alive and is exactly like that. She just told me she had colon cancer 4 days after finding out one of my last childhood friends passed away suddenly. She didn't have colon cancer. She just needed to be the center of attention. I'm traumatized trying to gentle parent a 5 year old. I asked my mother why she has been so mean to me all my life and her response was, "because you haven't made it." Made it where? The grave?!? When i turned 18 i took off running. Thankfully i met my late first husband and he showed me how smart i was. He showed me i had strength. And he told my mom off. I hope he's resting in peace. My mom.....i came home pregnant (moved across the country to be around my mom bc i thought it could be mended originally) and she tried to punch me in the stomach in my second trimester. Thankfully my mothering instincts took over and i handled it. I wish my mom was normal. I so wish she was a normal mom and normal grandma. She breaks my heart. Hopefully my daughter doesn't have distance with me in her adult life. I will be nothing like my mom but i pray i am better than her.
That P.S. part is truly the kicker. That says the mom knows exactly what she's doing and that the mom's manipulative behavior and guilt-tripping has worked before.
I would've just stopped talking and burn the notes
Man ya really don't read between the lines this girl got ya fooled she was getting money early and a proveldged white girl she was most likely out there eating like 10 dicks while her mom was worrying about her ya need to learn darkside of Hollywood the brothers and entire family disowned her most likely do to her not listening and disgusting her family also she was probably shoving her fame like n there face most of the time man ya crack me up
This is like when you give title of president to a child what ya think would happen people think kids can't be evil little bastards
Absolutely!!
@Michael Havas Exactly! She would definitely be cut off.
This one clip alone says so much. I completely understand why she is so raw and openly admits she's glad her mom is dead. Absolutely disgusting way to treat your child...Nobody deserves this!!
Me too. I heard this one email and I was like “Nope, I’m out. This woman is a terrible Mother.”
That’s all I needed to hear. I can’t imagine ever speaking to my little girl that way.
You should check out her book! You can listen to it as well. Jeanette's mom really messed her up. Her mom dying was her being granted freedom.
Karma got the mom good
I’m in the process of reading this book and by 3 chapters in you understand why…and then it gets worse. I’m so thankfully she’s able to heal because Damn
@@Deidre1588 you definitely have to give it a listen as well. Jeanette reads the book
There is no way someone listened to this whole audiobook and wrote a comment about the mom being right and this generation being sensitive. 💀
The audacity in that p.s.
Let me disown you but still ask for shit. That is toxicity at its most venerable.
I think it’s a tactic to make her feel even worse. Like, her mom knew that’s not how you act after insulting someone, and that was in and of itself another insult.
@@eileensnow6153 yes exactly. And it's also a way to test and see if she still has some control over her.
Well the church names your sins and then passes around the hat don't they?
venerable doesn't suit based on the definition Google gave me, but it's a cool word and I'd like to add it to my vocab, are you using it in the same way you would epitome or something? Thank you.
@@halloweellahere7602 maybe in the sense of “one of the most archaic and well-used forms of toxicity”
Any mother who thinks and focuses of a person’s “ding-dong” inside their daughter is seriously disturbed on that alone. The rest, she’s a monster, holy shit.
Her mother seems to be the type of character that, if turned into a movie, would have to be toned down, because people would otherwise suspect the filmmakers making it all up.
But on ding-dongs: I can see a healthy mother-daughter dynamic in a family that didn't make sex a shameful thing, where I wouldn't bat an eye if the mother was informed on her daughter's sex life and was excited for her daughter to experience a particularly pleasurable ding-dong.
But NOT what Jennette's mom wrote. That was gross, ugly and indeed disturbed.
My sister wanted to talk about my junk with my wife...that is not normal behavior
@@its-c0e-u-see it certainly is not. I think I vomited a little. I’d keep yourself and your wife away from her.
Like like the mom in Carrie behavior.
@@adamsmoberly definitely. Mrs. White. She’s a psycho.
Another example of how cruel women can really be..
That’s what I was thinking. Jada probably didn’t think that was cruel at all compared to the letter she’s giving to Will.
She had the audacity to ask for money from her after she called her all that and disowned her,smmfh. Crazy. I understand the title of her book now.
Her pointing out how she looked pudgier and knowing she had an eating disorder is such a low blow ☹️
She actually “taught” her how to have an eating disorder too. It’s so gross 😭
right. it's the lowest thing you could say to a person. the person saying it is usually projecting
Tbh if my parents acted like this I'd need to practice restraint before I'd do something I'd regret
Jeanette looks so healthy now I hope she’s better
It's obvious this poor excuse for a women deliberately does actions that will hurt her family, anyone that puts stranger's before loved one's are the very worse of people.
To ask for money from someone you’d just said all that to us a level of narcissism that is just flabbergasting.
demand* money, she didn’t ask at all.
This makes you want to just give her a hug. She didn’t deserve that.
With a mom like that you don't need enemies.
Just Dance reference?
With a mom like that, you become your worst enemy. Shy, worthless, low self-esteem, selfhating, always self sabotaging, hiding in recluse. Thinking you are bad person and nobody can ever like you. Tragic story.
Eminems
Exactly what I was gonna say.
@@jarkachalmovianska7812this was me for years because of my abusive mum. Glad to say I'm much better now and she's been out of my life a few years.
"every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child."
You described Jada perfectly.
@@XxHUNT3RN4T0RxX Her kids told you that?
Tired of hearing this same quote you guys can switch up the words or SOMETHING 😭
@@koji7313
fair enough, but it is true regardless lol.
@@koji7313 istggg😭
Comparing Jada and Willow’s reaction is very telling; marital issues aside is obvious she and Will raised the kids on a loving environment where this toxic shit is unheard of, cause she looks so shocked while her mom looks like someone who went through something similar.
I’m so sorry for your painful experiences with your Mom, that’s so hurtful
READ THAT BOOK.
I'm in my 40's and my mom was that way. It destroyed my life.
~ You are in your forties, there is still life to live.
You do not have to be the disaster she intended. Who promised you life would be easy?
@@ShermarMore like, you are in your 40's, why are you still worried about this? Move on, and build the life you want.
@@bobbyray7558 bobby i s2g people like you have the intelligence of a potato
@@bobbyray7558 ~ That’s not the kindest most empathetic way to speak to a person still dealing with whatever they are dealing with. So, I try to not put things so bluntly.
Even though, as an autistic, sometimes communication can be challenging. Particularly online.
However, in theory, I agree with your statement and that’s why I’ve been able to have the amazing career and opportunities that I do. I encourage everyone to push through their trials; bless your heart.
Be well. 🙏
@@jstu8 ~ You gleaned a lot from my comment and both of your assumptions were wrong. Bless your heart.
The fridge part was absolutely hilarious and sad at the same time.
I feel like she added that just to troll and be obnoxious.
It’s absurd, it’s like something out of a dark comedy. It’s horrifying that this is her real life experience and not a fictional sho/movie. Poor girl!
Weirdly sounds like something out of ICarly
Refrigerators brake, alright.. they cost money 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yeah abusive parents are often unintentionally hilarious. You learn to cope with humor
"we're no longer families but can you buy us a fridge"
wait i’m sorry THE AUDACITY TO ASK FOR MONEY AFTER SAYING ALL OF THAT TO YOUR OWN DAUGHTER? excuse me..?
That just makes me sick ! No wonder Jeanette wrote that book about how she's glad her mother's dead. Hell , I would be too !!
Name of the book pls♥️
My mom ain't even dead yet and I say it in my head all the time cause to me she is dead. Abusive piece of shit.
@@Shenay_braaf I’m glad my mom died is the name of the book
Well honestly, I still this was kind of harsh. Yes, it was way abusive, but maybe her Mom was mentally ill.
@@snowblo1 I respect your opinion but personally I do not agree just because someone is mentally Ill that it means they have the right to hurt nor does it mean that the people they hurt has to forgive them not only does that give the abuser more power by sympathizing with them it also gives the abused the sense that what they did is wrong and it’s their fault
not saying your excusing the mothers behavior just saying that it gives people who have been abused the sense that they have no right to feel that way cause the abuser is still a person… imagine saying that about a criminal like a r4pist it’s both some what similar situations where the abuser has the control of what the abused can and can’t do and it was not something that the person being abused agreed upon but was still forced to do the act. Of course it’s still her mother and her family but to me it doesn’t matter since like the quote says “not all parents deserves children but all children deserves parents” simply put it’s her experience that matters not our opinion on how she wrote it
The way she just glides over the words, no holding back or choking on tears, very composed. That's heartbreaking and the PS got some NERVEEEE
She’s gotta know that when she’s reading that, she knows everyone listening is on her side and got her back on this. That probably helped her to read it. Almost like saying….”you see!? My mom is psycho!”
@@thelastminmom5251 Yea I don't know how she does it, if I EVER read a line where my mom called me a derogatory term I'd bust out into tears, I just know she was hurt and she probably thought it was her fault for so long but everyone's on her side and I think she knows that yknow.
Because she's read it so many times that it doesn't faze her anymore
She didn’t have the best selling book in America. Alex Jones beat her book by 20,000 copies. Way more important than feeling bad for a celebrity. Alex Jones book was also #10 in the world.
I never cried when telling my story in therapy, they said it’s a coping mechanism, that you detach emotions from stuff that happens to protect yourself… helpful in the moment but damaging in the long run
Ohhh honey! This hurts my heart. I just want to mom the poor people who didn't have a real true loving mom. Just want to heal these beautiful people
Maybe ask for fridge money before disowning and insulting your daughter.
I think asking for a new fridge actually pissed me off the most
Like, the audacity!
She didn't even ask, she demanded!
Ikrrrt…..
Who cares
@@displayname2198you clearly cared enough to comment
"Dear child, I can no longer control you so I want nothing to do with you anymore, unless it DIRECTLY benefits ME!!!!"
SAY IT LOUDER!!!!
Don’t forget to send money for the fridge
That's exactly what my dad does to me and my sister. It's disgusting
Nicely put👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
PS: I know you're not my daughter anymore but I still want that money for the fridge. I dont love you, but I'd love a new fridge.......from you.
I had a homeboy that had a horrible mother. All I could do was listen to him and give him a strong hug at the end. Its not easy for two grown men to share and console each other in this way but I saw his pain and let him know he wasn't alone.
I bet Jada was like, "That's exactly what I would say." 😈
Her not crying goes to show just how deep the pain actually goes.
This is going to sound weird but thank you for this comment. It's hard for me to cry about really painful things in my life. I thought I was broken or numb. I'm glad I'm not the only one who functions that way
@@user-dl8rt4rt6u You're not alone. My healing came from Christ. ❤🙇♀️
Na it’s from her book I’m sure she’s read it thousands of times she not gunna cry every time she reads it
She got thearpy. When you heal, the things that hurt you don't hurt anymore. Because you realize it's not you who was horrible.
It's bittersweet. You can be sad that you won't have a relationship with that person, but you know deep down it's best to just not bother. Then, the tears slowly fade.
Sorry but people can be just as affecting when crying lol wtf
“You’re an ugly monster now.”
Camera pans to Jada.
The fuckin irony
Some are just ugly on the inside.
Messing that son up.Don't know about the daughter...
Say what ya like,but Had a ain't about art,she wants to mess up her family ,with crazy view points and rhetoric.
Jada isn’t a bad mom, she admits to being a bad wife but she has always been a good mom people. You can dislike someone without making them look worse come
On now.
@@kaylaklein5615 I wouldn't be very excited about my mother screwing my friends.
That’s why I never let anyone’s opinion affect my view of me. I know who I am and not need anyone to validate what I already know. There’s nothing anyone can say, good or bad, to change my view of myself.
Why would a mother say that to her own child
"We disown you"
"P.S, give us money for us to buy a new fridge"
no shame at all💀
Sounds like my "dad". He's a narcissist 😅..
Thats LEGITIMATELY what they do.
Its insane. Its so insane.
Having lived throught shit like this myself, the amount of manipulation, and how much easier it is for them since theyre your parents isnt okay. Thats TOO MUCH power over another humans entire existence.
Youre taught to believe them, trust them, respect them more than ANYONE, and these are the people saying these things, doing these things and MUCH, MUCH worse.
And then they project all the fucked shit they are onto you until youre convinced its you.
@@justinem7824 dude 1,000%
As an adult whose recently gone to a couple years of therapy, ive discovered my mother is ALSO a narcissist, just completely covert, where my father is a vert blatently overt narcissist. The "im king shit" type. 😅
Hope youre completely free from the bullshit, and know that 99.9% of the negative shit theyve ever said to you, is how they feel about themselves.
Narc or bpd
narcissism
I don’t blame her for the title of her book or actually being happy that her abusive mom is no longer her to abuse her, she’s ridiculously strong and has clearly been able to over come what her mother put her through
Honestly, I didn’t even hear all of it, and now I’m glad she’s dead, too.
What is the title of her book?
@@Karaunicorn "I'm Glad My Mom Died"
@@Karaunicorn the title is I'm Glad My Mom Died
@@Karaunicorn I’m Glad My Mom Died
the AUDACITY the woman has to write a whole ass letter insulting and abusing her child then at the end asking for money to buy a new fridge out of all things...no wonder she is 'glad her mom died'
Just a few days ago I deleted 20 voice-mails from my mom that are on the same lines. I am no contact with her but am in charge of her well-being. So I only speak with her drs. The worst is that somehow in deleting her stuff I deleted the last voice-mail from my dad. I won't get to hear him say "luuuv you girl" again. She would be very happy to know that but I will never give her that satisfaction.
This is why I cant stand people that say “BUT THEYRE YOUR PARENTS!”… no, you are sorely mistaken…
absolutely 👏👏👏
They WERE your parents not anymore. I have a mother who talks to me just like Jeanettes mom granted shes Bi polar but the stuff that comes out of her mouth is just vile.
@@miktmikleson4891 there is no excuse to be abusive. I don’t care how she uses her mental illness as a crutch for her abuse, she has control of herself and she chooses to abuse you and she is vile for doing that.
I suffered an extreme bout of depression, followed by mania, psychosis, and then depression again that lasted several years. It was a horrible experience.
You know what I never did? Abuse my beautiful children.
I struggled, hard, and I’ve worked hard to make that up to them, because they had to live with a lot of fear as they didn’t understand why I was suddenly so different.
But I did my best to reassure them, give them as much as I could, love them AND I put every ounce of strength I had into healing. Because they deserve a fully present, healthy mom.
It took me two years but I got through it and I can tell you with absolutely certainty that I know dozens of other mothers that have done the same thing for their kids. It’s not a unique or remarkable story.
I am so sorry your mom chooses selfishness instead of love. You deserve to be loved. And I pray you find God and He rains love down on you and through other people for the rest of your days. And I pray you learn how to love despite not having a good teacher.
@@miktmikleson4891 Just because she has Bipolar disorder doesn't give an excuse to abuse your children verbally or physically. My mom tried to use the bipolar excuse for screaming in our faces when we were 5-6 years of age. GREAT developmental growth if I do say so myself 🙄
If they're not your parents.... Were you born in a test tube?
And the fact that people have never read her book and instantly criticize her for the title that she’s glad her mother’s dead. This is a woman that never should’ve been a mother
Let's not say that because it is wonderful that Jeannette exists!
@@ChronoSoulgiving birth and being a mother are two different things.
As a mother this absolutely kills me to know that someone can be that horrible to their own children 😢 My heart is broken for that!
@@ChronoSoul it's wonderful that she exists, but it's also true that her mother should have never been a mother. The two aren't mutually exclusive
I’m just glad she escaped… I still haven’t. I’m still preyed upon because I’m weak, fearful, afraid, and threatened. I wish I could get away too. Used emotionally, financially, verbally, physically. All by the person who’s supposed to love me.
This woman wasn't supposed to be a mom. PERIOD!
No one deserves a parent like that!
And the worst mom ever award goes to.
"I hate you! Also, send me money!"
Abusive parents, y'all. Unpredictable and scary.
Feel like it was sarcasm
But when you're away from them and finally can cope with their abuse, it's super easy to treat them like a joke. At times I forget why my mom was so scary to me and it's only because she took advantage of people weaker than her. I'm no longer weak, so it's now funnier to me.
My family be like
@@MrFrinZynope that's how her mum was
@@randompromises1038I’m glad you’re okay now💞💞