Probably because of ti parent and being triple direct and pragmatic and exercising their freedom of choice which can have negative consequences for others but besides that they can be cool
Loved the discussion on how gender norms of Western culture effect how the types interact with one another. That is an integral part of human interaction that is never touched upon. Sometimes because cultural norms are confused with nature, or because MBTI hobbyists only think from a Western point of view.
I am ENTP woman in relationship with my ESTP boyfriend for 4 years soon and our relationship is harmonic. We have real argument like once a year. I love him so much💕.
@@bonezbaaaby its like in any other relationships :) .. respect and accept each other differences, comunication, trust, try to understand his view of life and he must try to understand your view of life as well etc. ... just things that are needed in every relationship :) ... I was always drawn to ESTP men more that to any other personality types of men (I realized that after learning more about mbti) so I am happy to be with him and he is the same, he loves ENTP people so everything is going well :) we have in each other what we love and want :) ... I hate that stereotipycal mbti couple sh*it like ur ENTP so u will be good couple only with INXJ or ISXJ. So dont be scared to be with personality “ur not supposed to be with”, its your life and be with the person that you are most drawn to regardless of personality type.💕
i love the ending when you said "that's on only on paper because at the end, you get what you put in it" i am happy that you said that ...you kinda become more open mind in general (thanks to railgun)
Omg I'm an ESTP and my guy friend is an ENTP, and what you described is so acurate within our friendship. The part where he would randomly clear his schedule and call me right away for a short getaway. It could be just grabbing lunch together or getting out of town for refreshment. And I think that kind of impulsiveness is what's keeping our friendship intact. But honestly? I can't really see myself being 'married' with him (a lot of our mutual friends are kinda rooting for us) because of all the things you just described. I could definitely see myself kinda lose respect on him overtime, and it's just not gonna be good
Yes they are compatibile. My longest relationship was with estp and happiest one with another estp, but at the end he chose relationship with alcohol and not with me / female entp
You go into this a little bit in the video, but I'm still curious about how you settled on an ESTP relationship when that's not as easy as other potential relationships on paper. Was the learning experience more captivating than pure compatibility you had prior?
We're definitely capable of being friends. I dated one...it did last. we're just better as friends I hated how he never finished any project he started.
I'll be honest, as much as I like and appreciate editing in videos, I usually just listen to them while doing other stuff and ignore what's actually being shown on it, but that's just me, not sure how many people do the same.
Could this ESTP-ENTP romantic relationship be similar to that of their subconcious INFJ-ISFJ? I want to know if infj-isfj romance could work and what could be the challenges-strenghts. You can reply to me here or as you said you may expect that question on Quora so I'll ask that there too hoping to get an answer from you ahahha. Thank you so much for your work, I really appreciate it
Also I have a question - is this relationship the same compatibility as ISFP-ISTP or ISFP-INFP? As ISXPs share the same parent and child functions same as the EXTPs relationship. However these are the percieving functions not judging. I belive in socionics it's the same type of relatiobship - both are known as 'lookalike relations' due to same parent functions
Cool video, and I like how you openly draw on your own experiences too. I also recommend John Gottman for relationship advice. Thanks to you and your team for all the knowledge, insights etc. They are helping me daily!
I know a highly religious INTJ and ISFJ that were recently married... They will die before splitting... (INTJ is highly developed while ISFJ is not - ENTP subconscious? ) Is there something you can tell me about their relationship's mechanics ?
I find ESTPs and ENTPs see each other as equals. Whereas as an INTP I find ESTPs heavily dominate and criticize (and disrespect) INTPs in a Socionics supervisory relationship. Likewise, ENTP Socrates looked down at ISTP craftsmen, who he saw as living in shadows in another lopsided supervisory relationship.
Well for me I like it because they have strengths i don't have so we are somewhat friends although he is a bit estj at times and that causes conflict. A bit like my opposite. I seem to be triggered a bit by people lately tho of different types. I won't apologize for my strong feelings/beliefs *infp. I'm stressed quite often and may be in a shadow 🙃 at times.
@Kiahran Adams I think the speech in which he says "I didn't become king out of ambition " is very Ne in nature and he liked to explore ideas with the Christian friend and he remained mostly in solitude because he had realized that nobody around him could be trusted and that is why he shared his thoughts rarely and when needed.
@Kiahran Adams I think he was an entp who was intj focused and not so well developed isfj and that is why he developed a deep relationship with the Christian friend because he was an isfj and ragnar wanted to explore that side of his through him.(anyways it's just a fictional show)😁👍
Ragnar is an ISTP. Ti Se Ni Fe. He is literally the male version of myself. He and Athelstan (INFJ- Ni Fe Ti Se) get along so well because they learn from each other and have the natural camaraderie and respect for each other. Same Quadra, both Templars.
Kiahran Adams it sounds like you think ISTPs can’t be warm. Fe aspirational is an incredible thing. Maybe one day you’ll be fortunate enough to experience it.
I realize that if two people are sexually compatible but not emotionally compatible, they can’t easily verbally handle their conflicts and might resort to reconciling it in the bedroom. haha.
Hahahah, And ENTP with an ESTP that’s hilarious. I don’t get it maybe the Si and Se. Sex shouldn’t be a reason why people should be with each other tho. Seems like A WHOLE LOT OF WORK.
C.S. Joseph. Dude that’s rude. I see right through you. Sex bonds people together by default however if that’s all that makes it magically than is it really worth it. Especially since the emotions for both these types are MAKE it so much work. It’s like swimming upstream. Now who the hell would want to do that??? Two Fe users??! Gross!
Mireille Uribe LoL, don’t give me excuses about morality and values without being a Fi user yourself. Sounds dumb AF. Perhaps her Fe child adores his Fi trickster (naughty child) therefore it works. I still think CSJ is in his unconscious INTJ in most of his videos especially when he gets performance anxiety about his health. Especially when he talks about it. I can see right through him. He is however an ENTP. Wish he didn’t have shitty relationships with other NJ’s. I blame it on Feminism.
A plethora of me where did I ‘make excuses for morality and values’? I just said some Fe users have a preference for other Fe users, there is nothing wrong with that, it is definitely not unheard of if you take the time to make some observations. Petagog relationships are just one example of this. I am railgun, I love chase for many different reasons. While he is Intj focused, that’s not what I’m after, I love him for who he is as a whole, he is a very caring person without expecting anything in return and his life purpose is very admirable and shows his big heart. His hard work shows his selflessness. He doesn’t have performance anxiety, he likes to let people know why things are going the way they are because of his guilt, but in reality he is the hardest worker I have ever seen and for that I am grateful. I’d say Fe child self deprication is why he feels the need to explain himself to people. Everyone has bad past experiences, but God closes doors in order to open the right ones, and for that I am also grateful, because that’s how I got to marry the best man ever.
I agree. I’m an ESTP woman, and I feel very masculine. I put effort to suppress it. I’m romantically drawn to the ENTP male, and they definitely enjoy my company, but they don’t want a romantic relationship with me.
Clearly you haven’t been on this channel long enough to understand chase if you think he’s estj. Assuming you’re an infp that got called out on their shit by him?
@@MainAccount432 I'm a ESTP, try again punk. This dude has no idea what hes talking about and has mistyped a lot of people. He isn't a Ne dom, stop sucking him
I don't understand why ESTP's get so hated on outside of this community. They're great people, funny as all get out, and super quick witted.
Ashley Deaton ESTP’s are a whole lot of fun. 😊 would I date one? probably. would I marry one? No.
Probably because of ti parent and being triple direct and pragmatic and exercising their freedom of choice which can have negative consequences for others but besides that they can be cool
Bruh there's healthy and unhealthy versions for every type. Realise that
@@D14MBK just pointing out why people can dislike them
@@AmateurEdits-u9m I was responding to the main commenter basically telling him not to project his good experiences of ESTPs onto others
Loved the discussion on how gender norms of Western culture effect how the types interact with one another. That is an integral part of human interaction that is never touched upon. Sometimes because cultural norms are confused with nature, or because MBTI hobbyists only think from a Western point of view.
Love how you're trying to be more creative with editing! Adds a lot to the video.
I am ENTP woman in relationship with my ESTP boyfriend for 4 years soon and our relationship is harmonic. We have real argument like once a year. I love him so much💕.
Any tips??? Haha
@@bonezbaaaby its like in any other relationships :) .. respect and accept each other differences, comunication, trust, try to understand his view of life and he must try to understand your view of life as well etc. ... just things that are needed in every relationship :) ... I was always drawn to ESTP men more that to any other personality types of men (I realized that after learning more about mbti) so I am happy to be with him and he is the same, he loves ENTP people so everything is going well :) we have in each other what we love and want :) ... I hate that stereotipycal mbti couple sh*it like ur ENTP so u will be good couple only with INXJ or ISXJ. So dont be scared to be with personality “ur not supposed to be with”, its your life and be with the person that you are most drawn to regardless of personality type.💕
i love the ending when you said "that's on only on paper because at the end, you get what you put in it"
i am happy that you said that ...you kinda become more open mind in general (thanks to railgun)
Omg I'm an ESTP and my guy friend is an ENTP, and what you described is so acurate within our friendship. The part where he would randomly clear his schedule and call me right away for a short getaway. It could be just grabbing lunch together or getting out of town for refreshment. And I think that kind of impulsiveness is what's keeping our friendship intact. But honestly? I can't really see myself being 'married' with him (a lot of our mutual friends are kinda rooting for us) because of all the things you just described. I could definitely see myself kinda lose respect on him overtime, and it's just not gonna be good
ESTPs are not boring and they are very sarcastic. They do seek a lot of pleasure in sensory things.
0:10 we have witnessed the first edit ever in CSJ history my friends
Yes they are compatibile. My longest relationship was with estp and happiest one with another estp, but at the end he chose relationship with alcohol and not with me / female entp
You go into this a little bit in the video, but I'm still curious about how you settled on an ESTP relationship when that's not as easy as other potential relationships on paper. Was the learning experience more captivating than pure compatibility you had prior?
Yep
We're definitely capable of being friends. I dated one...it did last. we're just better as friends I hated how he never finished any project he started.
I love little editing there. Keep up the good work Chase.
Makes ESTP video- pulls off the "Flowstate style" with the cap.
Well played good sir.
I knew there was something shady about Chase’s attire 😂
Awesome
I'll be honest, as much as I like and appreciate editing in videos, I usually just listen to them while doing other stuff and ignore what's actually being shown on it, but that's just me, not sure how many people do the same.
These outfits keep getting better
The graphics are finally improving
Yaasss! Editing🥳
I find my ENTP brother is a much bigger spender than myself as an INTP. I find INTPs and ISTJs are the most frugal types.
Im an entp woman, and I think estp men are attractive
Could this ESTP-ENTP romantic relationship be similar to that of their subconcious INFJ-ISFJ? I want to know if infj-isfj romance could work and what could be the challenges-strenghts. You can reply to me here or as you said you may expect that question on Quora so I'll ask that there too hoping to get an answer from you ahahha. Thank you so much for your work, I really appreciate it
Yes. Very good compatibility imo
Low compatibility
_"Thinks to self"_ A shaved cat would be kinda be funny...
I had to pause at 7:07. Spot on! It’s so annoying that we have to worry about love and respect, but women only have to worry about love, not respect.
women have to worry about being raped and killed by men.
@@kssgpv men have to worry about being raped and killed by men. Men are higher victims of violent crime than women.
Welp, Chase knew what he was going for
from the beginning
Chase. Cut the the question segment down to a fraction of the time and the video is way more fun. Boiling down the wall of text FOR us is so valuable.
I’ll see it done
Also I have a question - is this relationship the same compatibility as ISFP-ISTP or ISFP-INFP? As ISXPs share the same parent and child functions same as the EXTPs relationship. However these are the percieving functions not judging. I belive in socionics it's the same type of relatiobship - both are known as 'lookalike relations' due to same parent functions
Cool video, and I like how you openly draw on your own experiences too. I also recommend John Gottman for relationship advice. Thanks to you and your team for all the knowledge, insights etc. They are helping me daily!
Love these kinds of videos! Could you please do one on INFJxINFP compatibility?
I know a highly religious INTJ and ISFJ that were recently married... They will die before splitting... (INTJ is highly developed while ISFJ is not - ENTP subconscious? ) Is there something you can tell me about their relationship's mechanics ?
GREAT! WE WANT ESTP AND ENFP NOW
Thank you for replying
Interesting edition techniques, simple but effective.
I find ESTPs and ENTPs see each other as equals. Whereas as an INTP I find ESTPs heavily dominate and criticize (and disrespect) INTPs in a Socionics supervisory relationship. Likewise, ENTP Socrates looked down at ISTP craftsmen, who he saw as living in shadows in another lopsided supervisory relationship.
As an entp I loved my istp brother. I feel like Socrates was just jealous because he couldn’t put a hammer to a nail
Well for me I like it because they have strengths i don't have so we are somewhat friends although he is a bit estj at times and that causes conflict. A bit like my opposite. I seem to be triggered a bit by people lately tho of different types. I won't apologize for my strong feelings/beliefs *infp. I'm stressed quite often and may be in a shadow 🙃 at times.
Couple example from Vikings
Ragnar(entp)and Lagertha(estp)❤
Not saying best of relationships but the fe child loves unconditionally and also reciprocate the love.
@Kiahran Adams I think the speech in which he says "I didn't become king out of ambition " is very Ne in nature and he liked to explore ideas with the Christian friend and he remained mostly in solitude because he had realized that nobody around him could be trusted and that is why he shared his thoughts rarely and when needed.
@Kiahran Adams I think he was an entp who was intj focused and not so well developed isfj and that is why he developed a deep relationship with the Christian friend because he was an isfj and ragnar wanted to explore that side of his through him.(anyways it's just a fictional show)😁👍
Ragnar is an ISTP. Ti Se Ni Fe.
He is literally the male version of myself. He and Athelstan (INFJ- Ni Fe Ti Se) get along so well because they learn from each other and have the natural camaraderie and respect for each other. Same Quadra, both Templars.
Kiahran Adams it sounds like you think ISTPs can’t be warm. Fe aspirational is an incredible thing. Maybe one day you’ll be fortunate enough to experience it.
Pleeeease do istp & infp! Very curious about what to focus on to make it work
If both can be happy being single they will work out fine.
Oh my word...why is he wearing that hat? And the bandanna...on his neck?
Would this be similar functionly to intp-infp relationships?
No. More like an INTP/ISTP relationship.
One potato yes
isn't your wife INFJ mentioned in another video
ESTPs have minimal patience.
Lol I love it 🥰
lemme know if that animated intro gets more traffic 😂
While you provided good insights and facts , you sounded so Fe child towards your wife
what are the golden silver and bronze pair for the entp?
Chase: they are not good match
Chase married to estp
Any relationship can work with the right effort. Marriage is different than falling in love.
@@CSJoseph yeah, I won’t say any relation as you said it too thought
Do ESTPs vs ENTJs or make more ENTJ content, please. Thanks!
Half of their stack is the same thing. Opposites attract sames deflect.
Is this a kindred relationship?
Wear a burger king crown next
Do you know of any cultures where the Masculine & Feminine dance is balanced?
I realize that if two people are sexually compatible but not emotionally compatible, they can’t easily verbally handle their conflicts and might resort to reconciling it in the bedroom. haha.
looking 😍😍
Thxx
Hahahah, And ENTP with an ESTP that’s hilarious. I don’t get it maybe the Si and Se. Sex shouldn’t be a reason why people should be with each other tho. Seems like A WHOLE LOT OF WORK.
Lol whatever. Try telling that to any man of value, oh wait you wouldn’t.
C.S. Joseph. Dude that’s rude. I see right through you. Sex bonds people together by default however if that’s all that makes it magically than is it really worth it. Especially since the emotions for both these types are MAKE it so much work. It’s like swimming upstream. Now who the hell would want to do that??? Two Fe users??! Gross!
A plethora of me maybe people who prefer the selflessness of Fe like ourselves
Mireille Uribe LoL, don’t give me excuses about morality and values without being a Fi user yourself. Sounds dumb AF. Perhaps her Fe child adores his Fi trickster (naughty child) therefore it works. I still think CSJ is in his unconscious INTJ in most of his videos especially when he gets performance anxiety about his health. Especially when he talks about it. I can see right through him. He is however an ENTP. Wish he didn’t have shitty relationships with other NJ’s. I blame it on Feminism.
A plethora of me where did I ‘make excuses for morality and values’? I just said some Fe users have a preference for other Fe users, there is nothing wrong with that, it is definitely not unheard of if you take the time to make some observations. Petagog relationships are just one example of this. I am railgun, I love chase for many different reasons. While he is Intj focused, that’s not what I’m after, I love him for who he is as a whole, he is a very caring person without expecting anything in return and his life purpose is very admirable and shows his big heart. His hard work shows his selflessness. He doesn’t have performance anxiety, he likes to let people know why things are going the way they are because of his guilt, but in reality he is the hardest worker I have ever seen and for that I am grateful. I’d say Fe child self deprication is why he feels the need to explain himself to people. Everyone has bad past experiences, but God closes doors in order to open the right ones, and for that I am also grateful, because that’s how I got to marry the best man ever.
YES ESTP MAN + ENTP WOMAN IS BETTER THAN OTHERWISE BUT STILL ENTP WOMAN ARE NOT FEMINANT
I agree. I’m an ESTP woman, and I feel very masculine. I put effort to suppress it. I’m romantically drawn to the ENTP male, and they definitely enjoy my company, but they don’t want a romantic relationship with me.
Nope but we clean up nicely when we want to, then we are surprisingly stunning
How about female estp and entp 👀
Please do a entp and isfp relationship in deep ... Please
5:20
Isn't your marriage the proof that "compatibility" is not necessary 😏
Yes, technically but it goes a long way
First
You're not a ENTP, you're a unhealthy ESTJ enneagram 6w5 in a Te-Ne loop
Clearly you haven’t been on this channel long enough to understand chase if you think he’s estj. Assuming you’re an infp that got called out on their shit by him?
@@MainAccount432 I'm a ESTP, try again punk. This dude has no idea what hes talking about and has mistyped a lot of people. He isn't a Ne dom, stop sucking him